Why are Indians Taking Dating Courses 

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Honestly, this isn't even a dating problem. It is a more general problem where kids in our country are not taught how to treat other people, including the opposite gender.

Parents: Dont be friends with girls. Also parents: Why you not married yet?

In India, parents & society prohibits their kids talking to opposite gender until they get married to a stranger of their choice and expects them to get intimate. This is super awkward. Talking to opposite gender with friendliness & respect should be normal but not with nervousness & desparation. Girls also made it hard for boys because they are fed up with creepy and desparate guys.

Arre normally baat karo ladkio se...koi bhoot thodi hain😂

As a girl, this explains a lot. I rejected guys that approached me because I was like we have nothing in common, why are you approaching me!? Then I figured out that they have no interest in me, they just want a gf, doesn't matter who. They approach a new girl every month, it was just my turn. There was no attraction or interest there in the first place. I am also someone who's never had any relationships, so I understand wanting to have a partner.. But I would rather die lonely than date someone who's only with me because I happen to be female. Tbh I think these guys would have much better chances if they just focus on their own health, personality, and hobbies instead.

Man, how do you not have more subscribers? No other mainstream youtuber I know makes videos on such topics. This is the type of content that our youth really needs. Kudos to you for making this video, Mohak. Do keep bringing us more such videos.

I'm from a boys college, and can't tell you how popular these courses are, people literally swear by these so called gurus and save money from their below minimum wage intership to buy these courses 😂😂😂

Imagine joining a dating course and the very first thing it suggests you to buy a mature bag. 😂😂

As a girl, I have had experiences where guys claim to love me and do things above and beyond for me just for s*x, and then when I tell them that's it's too soon and I don't feel comfortable they start to guilt trip me. First thing I would recommend to you men is please get over your fear of committed relationship or opportunity to get in relationship with someone you start developing feelings for, Second thing please make your intentions clear, if you just want physical intimacy tell that directly to the girl, telling lies just in order to get laid is pathetic and if the girl gets to know about this no matter what you do your image will never raise in her head also she will tell bad mouth about you to others.

Finally there is some who raise awareness on such kind of problems with a right perspective Hats off to u bro!

Guys always remember , if a woman rejects you , do not settle for friendship, it's not worth it. Just be confident, express your feelings and if she rejects you, move on.

After reading the title, I was like, "Mohak, Ye kis line mein aagaye aap" lol, but it turned out to be on an issue I had no idea even existed, probably because in most tier 3/4 cities like mine, it's like bringing a revolution in your family to even think about dating, let alone taking coaching for getting a date.

8:40 Breaking News Source : CCTV cameras 😂😂😂😂

As a girl ...i m terrified of these courses...wtf is this😂 Why boys are taught how to handle a girl? They should just behave normally...we are humans too just like you😂not different species

Irony is that most of men are searching for girlfriends now a days but when marriage comes they desire for a woman who has no past relationships...

As a girl i feel finding god would be easier than finding a simple decent guy

1:14 SIMP TO STUD, Thanks me later...😇

Kaun kaun single hai jo video dekh rha hai😂😂😂😂

Mohak is picking some incredible topics 😂 Great work bhai 😀

This was a great video. Thanks for starting a conversation around Dating and picking the topic up. There is no shame in trying to learn about dating, sex, and other things as there is no shame in learning about fitness, finance, health, etc. For the Soch by Mohak Mangal team, this was a great initiative by you guys. Keep it up.

Sex education in schools and making them understand what consent is should be the priority.

The problem can be only solved in schools, since childhood there it must be normal to interact with opposite genders..my school use to have pathetic rules of not talking to girls, if we do then we would be in principal's office.

As a boy I can certainly say one thing people around me view girls as another type of prani like they jst dont consider girls as same as us, in fact my gf also told me that people just look them as a object instand of a real person how has their own wishes and desires.

"Kai ladke to yah man hi Nahin Sakte ki ladkiyon ka bhi opinion Hota Hai" Is bizarre and quite upsetting

From a female perspective, the Indian education system has done similar harm for girls too. Now in my early twenties, I find myself struggling with aspects of physical intimacy and sexuality - I've become so indifferent to both these things. Also, love the video by the way!

The new generation has to unlearn the weird expectations of the society. We must not forget that while we are doing great as an economic power, our society also has the most embarrassing and bizarre problems. Honour killing, dowry related harassment, female infanticide, caste based discrimination in marriage, and the list goes on. It will take a while but I think things are definitely changing.

*The problem is that nobody wants to address the elephant in the room which is that dating is easier for women than men cuz men have to take the first initiative,jump through the hoops the woman throws at them and qualify themselves to her only for the average woman to requite that effort with just her attention,this dynamic automatically puts the woman on the pedestal,because of which a lot of women have inflated egos which makes them think less of the opposite gender due to endless attention showered upon them by men.There is no equality in dating,men have to be charming and ambitious to get attention women just have to breathe*

ज्यादातर कॉलेज के स्टूडेंट्स की कोई पॉकेट मनी नही होती ,जिससे बॉयज खुद ही गर्ल्स के बारे में सोचते नहीं है, क्योंकि मोस्टली बॉयज को पता है बिना मनी के गर्लफ्रेंड ज्यादा दिन नहीं टिकेगी ,और गर्ल फ्रेंड बनाने से ज्यादा करियर पर फोकस करना पड़ता है।

The modern new dating methods of tinder, bumble and these courses are ruining maximum young people (obvi exceptions are there) and driving them into depression and low confidence . ... Be classy, confident, work on your personality, develop soft skills, don't be cheap and respect girls - for sure you will be never be single.

This is an issue that needs to be talked about, so kudos for that. But it wish it was more balanced in terms of gender. Finding a partner is not specific to boys. I wish the video had been "How to find a partner in India" and covered female experience as well. When Mohak talked about how ghosting means boys don't het feedback on their dating behaviors, I wish he made it clear that it is not the girls' responsibility to educate them. While I don't condone ghosting itself, there are a myriad of reasons why girls prefer to just not respond. The list is not exhaustive, but here are few reasons. 1. Safety - Not just in the dating environment, but knowledge of their presence in a dating environment can be extremely unsafe for girls. 2. Girls are also brought up in the same environment as boys were just as (if not more) discouraged from talking to the opposite gender. Also, lot of girls get blamed for themselves being subjected to unwanted attention. Girls don't either know how to talk to boys, let alone enough to educate them. 3. Rejection leading to escalation - More often than not, rejection is not taken well. The situation might escalate to them being worried for their safety. Like I said, even knowledge of them dating can be dangerous to girls as they face mistreatment from their own families or their complaints not being taken seriously (or even taken advantage of) by authorities. I hope these coaching institutes are teaching boys how to handle rejection and that it is OK for their feelings to not be reciprocated.

5:14 such type of work is an criminal offence not something which we sympathies about 😕😕

8:52 ladka be like : mai to bach gaya😪

Thank you for this. As a single Indian woman this helps me even more to protect myself from the psychos and predators

True love is not found, It is built. - Gautam Buddha❤ ❤️

Japan and Korea like countries even have a Girlfriend/boyfriend on rent concept or professor cuddlers...its not to have sex but to have relationship experience, feedback and emotional support! This problem is more in the boys who don't have sisters or good relationship with their siblings. Coed education is also very important for overall personality development and treat every gender with respect

Here are few things that are not mentioned in this video :- 1. Every woman is different and has different likes and dislikes, like any other person... Don't go on changing yourself for that, just so you have something common. 2. Just because you don't have gf you don't automatically become a loser, likewise if you do have one you don't become successful. 3. Having a gf just for sake of having one is a bad idea on par with doing engineering cause everyone else is, try to build relationships like humans were meant to do.

2:04 Iss paise mein ladki patana nahi pata lekin full stack development padlunga.😂

So glad you talked about this!! The self proclaimed “pick up artists” like Andrew Tate are really ruining a whole generation of men Great vid as always Mohak ❤️ Edit : I don’t know why so many incels in the comment section got defensive because I mentioned Andrew Tate, he might or might not be a pick up artist, but he’s def influential among young boys and having a negative effect on their psyche. To top it off, he’s also a sex trafficker 👍🤡

4:04 gondu generation😂😂

There is another problem - In Indian Society, it is expected that the man starts a conversation first, which is a problem for shy ppl like me

I studied in Russia🇷🇺 for 2 years, and a major issue many people there face is receiving unsolicited messages from Indian creeps asking about their gender 😅and requesting explicit photos. As an Indian, It hurts me.🥲 It tarnishes the reputation of our country, as we have a strong cultural value of respecting women. 🥲

UNEMPLOYMENT HAS REACHED IN SUCH A LEVEL THAT THESE ARE COMING OUTSIDE🤣🤣😂😂

I am 20 year old guy, now studying in college. I am facing the exact problem that Mohak said in the video. I am very anxious and afraid towards with interaction with girls. Being lived with abusive strict overprotective parents, makes me extremely shy and introverted, socially reserved and awkward and makes me difficult for socialization and interaction, especially with girls. Also previous bad experience of bullying also makes my confidence low and makes me more socially reserved and awkward for interaction with girls. When I see my fellow friend and guys, having gf and female friends and have strong confidence with interaction with girls, it makes me jealous, frustrated and my mind and heart get broken and having inferiority complex. I haven't experience the essence and warmth of love and relationship of girls. And also, I missed the teenage love, that makes me broken

Maybe I can give girls POV why the girls choose not to mess with guys. 1. Threat of blackmailing after breakup-Many boys threats women to release their romantic photographs or videos after breakup and some boys actually released these things on internet. The girl is considered to be the absolute fool in these cases and no-one blame boys for these type of behaviour. 2. Start taking granted- Many boys starts taking her gf granted after sometime of their relationships.They start finding the girl irritating. 3.Chasing popular girls- Boys generally chase most desirable and popular girls in society and ignore the average girls.It's hard to see a guy is in relationship with lesser good looking girl. 4.Girls take on the career - Since this is the first generation of girls in India are getting opportunities to build career so they don't want to loose this opportunity.They have seen their mother's life being a housewife is disrespectful .Hence Girls don't want to take risks and end up having a horrible life . Because in many cases Indian parents immediately marry their daughter after they find out the girl has a boyfriend. 5.Societal pressure-Many Girls doesn't want to try more than 1-2 men since the society start label those girls as slut and chances of getting good respectable guy decreases for those girls. 6. Commitment Issues - Boys avoid marriage commitment . So the girls ended up feeling used and cheated. Especially if she had a physical relationships with the boy. Because the virgin girl are still a absolute demand in Indian society. 7. High Expectations of girls from relationship-The expectation of immature girls treated as a princess in a relationship is also one of the reason why they ghost boys. 8. Blame Game- Boys are good at blaming the girls at the end of their relationship and completely ignore their mistakes. 9.India's problem- Intercaste, Interstate, Interreligion and many more boundaries in Indian society where girls observe no hope of marriage .So they don't even start romantic angles even though the boy is perfect for her. Disclaimer-I don't have any data like mohak to prove my points .I am writing these points on the basis of my observation. Maybe these points can help to understands girls mentality.I have no intention to hurt or offend anyone.

8:42 This is hilarious 😂😂

Let me be very frank. I am a 22 year old guy but sometimes i do struggle to keep up conversations with a new girl that i met recently. What I think is, people should change their thinking, both are equal and both the genders are humans, that is it. As a man for me, I love to build long-term relations whoever it is (A friend, colleague, family, a girl).

In India , especially parents should not see relationships as against culture or tradition etc... Thats the reason men become desperate and girls feel boys are cheap,, equal respect and love should be there in relationships..

This is a very overlooked problem in our society. Thanks for bringing this awareness!

How to to girls easy ways:- 1. Don't see them as a object and treat them equally. 2. Have confidence in yourself. 3. Talk normally like when you are talking with your male friends and share your genuine thoughts. 4. Stop watching these fake dating coaches. Thankyou for reading and Thankyou Mohak bro you are literally picking some genuine yet unique topics. Have a good day 😊

Needs to be mentioned: the amount of Disrespect and Abuse Women go through cause of such immature and Desperate Men. And yet the women Problems are yet widely made fun of, overlooked and QUESTIONED, so as to secure male dyanmics in the society.

ऐसे फालतू काम के कोर्स में पैसा बरबाद करने के बजाय भागवद गीता को खरीद के पढ़नी चाहिए ताकि पता चले की ये सब क्या है 🙏🙏

@10:01 what series is that?😄

Ye sab chodo 5000 ka russian lelo baat khatam😊🌚

Truth is we still do not have a dating culture in India. That leads to a lot frustration inside and that results in a lot of em send DMs to random women on social media coz they do not even know how to approach a woman in real.

main toh koi gf bhi chahata just ek girl chata hoon jo mere emotion ko samjhe aisi friend jo mujhe emotional time main aaj girl confident ho rahi hai aur ladke kamjor thats fact

Bhai padho likho aur kuch bno ....ladki to mil hi jayegi......jaldi kis baat ki hai

4:53 😂😂 single panki bhe koi had hote he bhai

Mohak... Muje laga tu Indian Society ko achhe se samajhta hai.. lekin Sorry bhai.. tujhe asli problems kya hai iska to koi idea hi nahi hai... Har baat par bs ladkon ki galti nikal do ki unhe nahin aata... Is video mein sabse jaruri chiz ke baare mein to baat hi nahi kari... Agar koi ladka kisi ladki ko approach kare to woh kab kare aur kya soch ke kare.. pehli baat to woh simply reject ho jayega ki us ladki ka pehle se hi koi hai.. ab iske aage kya bacha kuchh nahi... Baat khatam Lekin dusri ladki se baat karne ki koshish bhi kari to matter Legally Crime ho skta hai... Koi idea nahi hai.. ki ladke ne kuch acha bhi bola aur wo harassment ke chakkar mein Police Station pahuch gya.. to ye jo darr hai.. iske aage kya... Kuchh nahi.. Agli baat relationship ka purpose kya leke chalein.. naa shaadi karne ki ummid hoti hai... Na relationship se value add hoti hai koi.. to fir ladkon ko relationship se Mila kya... Kuch nahi.. baat khatam.. Agli baat... Stress dono taraf se.. Career ki taraf se aur Relationship ki taraf se.. to kya jaan bujh kar itna stress sahi hai.. jab durr rehkar thoda sukoon se reh sakte hein.. haan akelapan bahut mehsus hota hai.. Muje bhi hota hai.. Lekin sabse jyda Darr, kahi koi ladki ki wajah se bewajah Criminal na jaun iska rehta hai... Lekin Mohak tu is problem ke baare mein nahi bolega... Kyuki fir tera Feminism khatre mein aa jayega... Ye problem ladkon ki nahin hai.. ye systemic problem hai... Societal culture hai ki aise hi rehna hai shaadi hone Tak.. To ye relationship wali problem India mein khatam nahin hone wali.. har waqt ladkon ki galti nahin hai.. Lekin ladki ka ek Criminal Case aur jeevan tabah... Agli baar jara dhang se video banaiyo

bro your topics 🤌🤌

13:14 but Mohak, arent you married?

Mohak be giving answers to questions I never knew I wanted but really needed😭✨

Don't seek relationship based on body and physique , seek such relationships which gives you freedom.

Lekin ye video kisis kaam ka nai hai..

I am a girl and I can more less confirm that the guys that usually approach you such weird ways usually think of you as a prize , or thing they need to win. I have been approached by many such men, and I try to the best of ability to tell them what they're doing wrong and how it's not their fault and how they need to see the girl as a "person" rather something to achieve or win. You know what, just talk to them like how you would approach other guys. If you're from a village try to think of them as if you were approaching a "city guy", and ofcourse know your boundaries. I know lots of guys who are great at just doing that and are always surrounded by girls. Girls also love guys who are chill to talk to, don't be afraid and the most important thing is respect.

Some boys are really mad behind girls😂😂😂. Why can't the just wait till their marriage 😒.Girls are not objects to play with 😡

Sarthak geol 😂😂

And I am taking courses in Coursra 😂. Thanks Mohak for letting me know about these amazing courses 😂

Boys be like;mujha jana padega😂

As a girl my message for boys Girls koi prize nahi hai jise pane ki ya jeetne ki kosis ki jaye ,kyu ye sochna ki ladki mil gayi to sab mil gaya, Hookup pickup bekar hai ye sab , sirf tumhara time waste hoga Love karna galat nahi hai ,but girl ko ek object samjhna galat hai , aur haa girls ke liye apne behaviour ko change mat karo ,app apna natural behaviour dikhao kyuki baad me to pata chalna hi hai tab relation jyada kharab honge , Girls bas aapke sath time spend karna chahti hai unhe mahnge gifts bhi nahi chahiye because being with life partner is best gift Mujhe nahi pata ye sab ladkiyo ka opinion hai ya nahi par mera to yahi maana hai , mere hisab se love milna ek destiny hai .

Very mature content sir ❤ I really am thankful for you to point out stuff no one is talking about, but it is important

The age When you realised Paisa hain To Badi Badi Badi Baate, Paisa hain to lambi lambi saari raaten, Paisa hain to 5 star sari mulakaten...😂😂

"Unable to accept that the woman can have an opinion of her own" got me cracked up XD

Put that money in stock market damn it 😂😂😂

Bhaiyon GYM jao khud ke uper kaam kro attractive bano paise kamaao apne sapne poore karo... Jab ye sab kar lo tab ladki ka sochna mere hisaab se jab tumhre pass ye sab hoga fir tumko ladki k pass jaane ki zarurat nhi they will approach you from their end first.

Dear Boys, Just focus on your career, earning money as much as you can and invest yourself. Let's your wife earn and take financial responsible 50-50 basis. If she is not doing her responsibilities quit relationships, quit marriage. If you take full responsibility at the end of the life you will left with money but your wife will be left with assets that you cannot imagine.

Steps to get a girlfriend:- Step 1: Be attractive. Step 2: Have money. Step 3: Don't forget the first two steps.

8:20 real 😔

Men do need to learn how to communicate with women. I swear my fiance doesn't know. He keeps asking for the same thing even though I've told I'm not comfortable or that it messes up my time table. No consideration whatsoever. On top of that he doesn't talk about himself much, I feel like I don't know him so what am I suppose to fall in love with. I avoid talking to him as much as possible. But because of parents I have to marry him. I like talking about deep stuff, political stuff, but I feel he keeps repeating what I say or loses interest. I can't connect to him at times. Can't remember my birthday, or the things I like. Can't surprise me with flowers or a small gift or something. I've lost interest.

Bhai ne hamari problems to batadi Lekin solution nahi bataya 😂😂😂

I had no idea that such a thing or concept even exists. Thanks to you and your team, for bringing up and discussing this topic with utmost empathy and dignity. Great job!

Excellent video can totally relate with video when I was in school parents, teacher never allowed to talk to girls or befriend them. Teachers tried their best to make kids understand why someone talking to girls or sitting with them is spoilt and extremely wrong. I grew up in extremely small city so had no female friends or interaction in complete school life. Now I face the same problem in college that I have zero female interaction or female friends because I have no idea how to talk to girls confidently plus the girls too are pretty less as IIIT Delhi has 1:10 gender ratio. These days even in arrange marriage the demands and competition has risen up exponentially. So anyway I have accepted my fate that I will die single as I am just an average engineer with nothing special in terms of looks or skills plus I am too uncool for genz kids due to my simple middle class lifestyle so I don't care about it anymore tbh 😶😅

12:02 can someone please share the link of this video.

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️. rip those who bought the course and 1 minute silence for those who really thought Mohak is really gonna reveal the cheat code😂😂

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I’ve tried many of these courses, but they don’t work in India. Here, women are way too conservative to risk anything to do with a stranger. To get few of outgoing girls here, you either need to be celebrity or be loaded with money. That is why you will see normal women mostly hanging with below average guys from their childhood. They are even willing to stick with abusive partners than taking any chance. Basically, they lack guts to take bold decisions in their life and stand responsible for them.

13:25 Ladkiyo se pucho pehle. What they prefer before respect.

7:14 7 me se 10 to ladke hi milte hai tabhi to got no bi*ches😢

No iron man lifestyle is harmed in this video 😂😂😂😂

Sound great Khali jaise lag rhi hai 12:39

Kshitij ko roast kar diya 😂

10:20 Bhai I'm 17.5 year old mujhe yai sab dating course kaa pata nahi tha par aab mai buy karne jaa raha hu waise maira baal vivah hoo rakha hai par baat toh sahi sai karni padagi mai toh ladkiyo sai eye contact tak nahin kar pata... 😂

Le indian parents( love gurus) : get govt job And u will be get

Every problem has one solution "MONEY"😂😂😂 Earn enough money and dating is not a problem anymore.😂

Coach was bald and his face was blur My mind get so wrong 😂

I'm almost 40 now and pua was an underground thing in my 20s and reached its popularity when i was 30. Now that this trend is flailing in the west (as compared to 10-20 years ago), we Indians are picking it up and running with it. These Indian gurus are just copy cats of authentic puas from back in the day and they are simply regurgitating the same advice you can find online for free. Insecure 20 yr old girls are conditioned to have body image issues so that they become the market that can be exploited by the profiteers and insecure boys are conditioned to have self image issues to be a market that can be exploited. Its capitalism baby.

नारी की देह को जीतने से ज्यादा मुश्किल है उनकी रूह को जीतना और आज का पुरुष रूह जीतना ही नहीं चाहता उसे सिर्फ शरीर चाहिए

This desparate guys are the main reason for girl insecurities in India.... Control brother Control .. be a man of principle 🙏

Simp to stud course

Respect button for Government Jobs 😂😂😂😂