WHY ARE YOU SINGLE?! | EP 343 | ShxtsNGigs Podcast 

Justice for Ellis🫡fr

Forreal like why couldn’t he just apologize lol. Deff looking at him sideways after that. Pride is the devil

Yep it’s that Macho African personality that starts wars = ignorance. No thanks.

Is this gonna be a classic scenario where rich and fame will get in his head and f?ck up the whole thing?

fuhad rlly went from 10-2 so fast. embarrassing af

FACTS!

Yes!!! I can wait for the day Ellis will say something back

me too@@ocloudsexol586

James actually has a heart of gold.

Ellis not editing out Fuhads asshole moments is him taking up for himself

I agree, and James also. You could tell they were both shocked and like wtf and Ellis just looked hurt. Slap in the face.

@@CharlotteCarroll-in1rowhat did fuhad actually say to him?

He clearly feels tense

@@MidnightBitesCarlylast ep there was a point where talked to Ellis like he was stupid, james called him out for it, fuhad didn’t rlly apologize

Just now getting to watch this episode and I actually really like Rem, because after the incident he doesn’t take shit from Fuhad for the rest of the episode. Very clipped with him, tried to get him on the UAE technicality, he’s the only one who stands on business and I do respect that

Fuhad is clearly jealous Ellis had gentle parents growing up and never got abused

@@Le_mire_clearly.

I’ve actually really started to key in on how much of a bully Fuhad actually is. To all of them

Shame on fuhad honestly. Disrespecting ute, needs to get slapped around and humbled i reckon

Ellis is sweet

I bet James does know, and for sure uses them properly, he just doesn't remember the 'English class' categorizing of them. I'd bet he is smarter then he let's on. The discuss just bores him

I think more like embarrassed, and he wasn’t expecting it to be such a thing with these guys. In his mind, he’s supposed to be the Big Don among them.

All the above are correct 😩😅😂🤣🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

Bruh what’s the time stamp for this?

@@Nyc.danny123Naaah man!! Did you even watch the video??? It’s kinda hard to miss. It’s a real moment!!!

Then he caught an attitude 😭😂

@@emsdwain50 a WHOLE attitude 🤣

I love James' zestiness it's so funny

Knowing he would've DRAGGED Fuhad for that 😂

This was exactly me! I had to skip to find it my anxiety couldnt handle the suspense 😂 poor Ellis man

Please drop the exact moment 😭

When did it happen in the vid? Time stamp?

It's right at the start of top 5

Me 2

Yo wys?

You frrrrrrrr😂😭 he got hurtttt

Fuhad has that disappointed parent reaction to helping James with homework. “You don’t know what a noun is??”

@@Shortypants403 Factssss!

😂😂😂

The whole vibe changed after that, I almost stopped watching the rest of the episode, and I’m a Patreon, I love them!

I really didn't appreciate that either he wasn't being nice at all. And you can tell Ellis was just trying to brush it off. Poor Ellis.

​@@CartoonMaster28please stop throwing around therapist terms like that. You're not his therapist and that's a serious charge to be accusing someone of. We can stress how poor his behavior is without pathologizing it.

@@CharlotteCarroll-in1rosame for me actually.. i noticed a lot of editing out in ellis’ parts immediately after that clip.

I also almost had to turn it off.. James really tried to set up a save for Fuhad but it was gross

it kiiiiiiiiiiiiiinda makes sense to me cause they barely met Ellis through the podcast as an editor so they don't have that much time in with being friends and ACTUAL friends. BUT they all kinda poke fun at Ellis for being different than them. Fuhad takes it a bit too far and is too aggressive with it sometimes imo :/

pretty sure james and ellis were friends back in secondary school i think- pretty sure that's why james backed him and wanted an apology from fuhad.

@@Certid I’ve been binging the show from the beginning and around episode 80, they start talking about some guy named Ellis who designed stuff for them then they did a day in their life where they said Ellis came to film it. So I THINK they’re new to being friends with him but of course can’t say for sure

@@LizBit3they indeed did meet him through doing the show, they knew rem before, met Ellis from him reaching out about editing and doing merch

I don't think so, tbh. I think Fuhad just tolerates Ellis. I can't imagine that they're friends outside of the Podcast. Even Rem doesn't seem particularly that close to Ellis, the only one who does is James. Which makes me think James met him first and was the one who hired him for the Podcast.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

he sounded genuinely shaken. his whole paradigm shifted

Poor Rem.. 😂😂😂

i sensed lt too. they did a great job moving forward but it felt pretty forced

And to think it could’ve all been avoided if Fuhad just said sorry. I watched till the end thinking he’d address the elephant in the room.

factssssss

and then did elis dirty with not having uae even though other man tried to back it @@Jasmin94_

Legit the first time I have ever sensed/felt that kind of tension between any of them throughout the entirety of SnG podcast. I was in the same "why so serious" camp as Fuhad until I saw the other's reactions to Fuhad's doubling down. I sensed the other 3 legitimately felt more serious about how Fuhad spoke to Ellis, than Fuhad was taking it. Makes me wonder about group dynamics 🤔

When did this happen? Time stamp?

that man did a v plank for the duration of a nollywood movie 😭 you think he gives a flying FUCK about an apology? 💀💀💀💀

@@ZayAle1:06:46

Yh it made me see him in a different light

I noticed that as well. Last week was honestly no big deal, the way he handled it today made it loads deeper than it needed to be, and I felt very sad for Ellis

And Ellis can open his adult mouth and say something

@alanaterrel9914 - true but it’s still not nice, Ellis is part of the team.

@@alanaterrel9914you give me the same kind of vibe just based on this response 😮

Fuhad doesn’t respect Ellis nor take him seriously and this episode 100% solidified that

❤❤🫣🫣

It didn’t even sound like he believed it, he was tryna be supportive tho

I was looking for this comment 😂😂😂

he said that twice! the concerned look on his face... We all need a rem still

​@@nella111892 same here 😂😂

He’s the youngest out of the group 🥺. He’s just too innocent

There’s so many of these comments. I must have missed it.

Facts !

An overinflated sense of ego can reel one in very quickly when left unchecked.

@@Nwadiuto23I agree

😂😂😂😂 rubbish

😂 frl cause he looked genuinely worried his friend was slow lmaoo

Bruh I'm on the couch screaming at the phone! I'm about to go to England and had James a news paper!!!😂

Mans was in disbelief! You heard how quietly he whispered "You do know man" 😂

​@@MannDaSSaintthat part gagged me 😂😂😂

REM WAS DEVASTATED 😂😂😂

He's just jealous Ellis was never abused by his parents

this comment sent me 🤣🤣👏🏻

😭😭 u ain tell a lie..buh on another note..how thick we talkin (imma visual learner)

Facccts 😂

@embermist3910 im always down for a chocolate queen

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Dr McAlister lol

But how scary would it be if he actually does?

​@@kivigray0423He kidnaps people and makes them taste his food😂😂😂

What did he do to Ellis?

⁠@@fabersoulthe last episode Ellis asked a simple question and fuhad responded to him in a nasty tone basically talking to Ellis like he was stupid. James called him out the last ep and he never properly apologized, and this ep it was brought up again and he made it worse 1:06:46

Disappointing.

Gave me the ick.

Bottom boy Fuhad

ICKTTTTTESSSSTTTT!!!

Time stamp?

we love to see it. they aren't above criticism

That part

Almost turned it off..coz why can't he say sorry.😮

Timestamp?

@@Nyc.danny123it’s at the top 5 time stamp

I agree I almost turned all of it off

Totally!!! And he calls out James when James is getting tempermental so it's interesting that Fuhad cannot return the same energy when he is the one in the wrong..... Awkward

A couple broken wooden spoons might have something to do with it 😞

@@Stu161right😅 judging by his punishments he’s probably never heard someone genuinely appologize😂

@@Stu161lmaooo

Yup 😂

Ick is a gross word lol

Facts

Facts 😊

i just came from the basement yard episode n was happy to watch my first episode of shxts n gigs but the comments & that moment with fuhad are scaring me away lmao. is it usually like this? or are the last two episodes outliers

@@gulabjamun6633very big outlier, but this has happened back to back tho, quite concerning

​@@gulabjamun6633it's usually all laughs good time if I'm not mistaken this is the first

You know whats mad? I had been acting out on some nonsense and my dad called the cops. he had them show up and I had to tell the officer what i was doing/why it was dumb and that I wouldnt do it again. My dad was and is still a bit unhinged to this day. Immigrants parents dont fuck around

Literally...the level of abuse...

@@bknight199my parents used to make me go out and pick out the stick they were going to whip me with.

@@bknight199they also used to lock me in the wardrobe without lights for hours. I was scared of the dark until I was 25 😂

@@ena6783 been there ha!

I knew someone was going to say this 🤣🤣🤣

Faccctsss

I was thinking the same thing…

Note to Self.... Fuhad doesn't know how to apologize when he is wrong..... 🫣🫣🫣

Calling that an apology is generous😂😂😂

Likeeeeeee!!!!!! It surprised me!

Acting his height 💀💀💀

EXACTLY !

@@antoinettejones5556 I swear to god the cult babies are going to RIOT 😂

Holding the line till Fuhad apologizes

He’s a bottom boy till we see justice for elisp 🥺❤️

Justice for Ellis

FACTS! He’s being an a$$ to Ellis! 😅

thisssssss

What happened, time stamp?

Calling him a bottom boy untill he apologises 😤

@@user-jk2he7nl2oI agree 😂

@@user-jk2he7nl2o "BBF needs a BBL". Bottom-Boy-Fuhad needs a BBL. On every video going forward

FR I WAS GASPED!!

Yup Big Bottom Boy energy from Fuhad.

As if he cared lol ya'll need to get over all you self

Yeah they seem to be getting on each others nerves a bit, which is normal in any friendship, but unfortunately for them (bc this is their profession now) they have a massive audience listening to it

word. bro needs to heal rq, it’s not cute at his very big age

​​@@mxss-stwhat isnt 'cute'?

You can only blame your childhood for so long. When you're an adult, you're responsible for addressing & getting help. Do the work to get better so you don't hurt others b/c of your trauma. It's not easy, but it's necessary

You can’t blame your childhood all your life. This is a grown ass man in his 30s. He’ll struggle massively as husband and father if he keeps up this behaviour. Many people have shitty childhoods, so grow up and go to therapy to sort out your issues which Fuhad so clearly has.

@@wavewithus4081 not being able to say sorry when you are wrong

Exactly

shows you punishment rarely work. All POC are traumatized to a degree

@@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 so true

​@@ijustwannabehappier-v4973I had no idea that physical discipline was so unanimously used in other cultures. Like I knew it was more prevalent, but not to that degree o.0

Discipline is based on actual respect and understanding. Physical punishment doesn't really adhere to that. So not that surprising I suppose

Did you grow up around women? it can still be addressed later ppl do worse that this, play it cool and then talk about it privately, fuhad was an asshole but leaving over something like that is straight up ass

😂😂😂enit😂😂😂

😂

Preach sister 😅

O please🥺

Y’all to ghetto and rachety for cult daddies. Lower your standards

Fuhad is gonna beat the f outta his kids and it’s not even funny

Yes. A true gaslight parent as well.

​@SolAndNat Fr there's a difference between disciplining your kids and abusing them. I guarantee fuhad will be the dad that straight up abuses his kids and won't even apologise if he's in the wrong.

what happend in dubai????????

Yup….

👀 awkward

I literally have been scrolling the comments since that moment and i might not finish this one.

Same. Pretty disappointed. Fuhad always appeared so humble.

It’s crazy how many people pointed it out. I think there might be an actual chat off camera. Because the tension in the air really wasn’t it.

Yesss. James got me to watch Married at First sight UK just from his summary on here. I was glued!!! 😂😂

When he's passionate about something he can really make you go watch swearrr

​​@@Nats93SAME!!! He had my American ass hunting all over hell and creation for the damn episodes so I'd know what he was on about. Thank God someone came through and posted all of them on RU-vid... But then his ass ain't never spoken about it since! 🤬😂😂 I keep hoping he'll binge the whole ting now that the season is done and run us the WHOOOOLE ting in one recap 🤞🏾🤞🏾😂😂

Trust me! Everything he talks about I end up going out of my way to watch because of James

I have zero intention to watch any master chef but I like listening to James take & break down anyways.

You know, I disagreed with James on that one. As an avid cooking competition watcher, home cook/baker, recipe tester, I’ve noticed that Black chefs (and other PoC chefs) lean on the flavors they grew up on (usually Caribbean or African). The problem is, “fine dining” and the training that a lot of chefs receive at the CIA or Le Cordon Blue (for example), is HEAVY on “classic” European cooking techniques. So much so that the food we grew up eating, a cooking style that we’ve mastered, isn’t considered good enough because it’s not French cooking techniques. Why is that the standard? Why is formal training that centers (white) European techniques the norm??

@@RachelJenkins728via point

​@@RachelJenkins728...it's a white show

Whats her instagram i cant find it anywhere?? 😩

@@RachelJenkins728the point of the show is testing their various skills and adaptability in the kitchen. It’s not about testing how well you can cook your go-to cuisine. & it’s not just Black chefs who struggle in that show with that adaptability and skills issue. To be a MASTER chef, they want to know that you can cook many different cuisines, using a wide array of ingredients, using many cooking methods, etc.

I dropped the phone and paused to contemplate life.

@@showkingsent 😹😹

Nah it wasn’t that deep. But James needs to apologise for beeing a dick and thinking he is the boss for 3-6 Episodes and not letting Fuhad speak. This is like a few weeks ago

​@oliveatequila2434 guess that one isn't that deep either

@@Zaqwsx1whewwww u ate him up with this one ngl

@@oliveatequila2434it is that deep. all he needed to do was simply apologize, but instead he made it worse by saying get over it. nothing worse than a “man” that invalidates someone’s feelings and refuses to apologize…

His soul left him. Mine, too.

nah because i promise you a lot of people don’t know where monaco is let alone if it’s its own sovereign nation. meanwhile first graders know what vowels and nouns are

It really isn't tho.

Yeah. Fuhad we still love you and what you bring to the eps. But ma bro. That is not right. He didn't speak to Ellis appropriately. Own that apologized and let's move daddies! Currently, the way we moving ...is butters 😅❤🙏🏿if next Monday comes and goes...ayt

Then stop watch them 🙄

@@alanaterrel9914nah it’s not that serious babe. I love them & their content. Just didn’t agree with that interaction. X

Yeah. I'm Nigerian and believe me when I say Fuhad is actually way better than the rest of them. A lot of times, things happen and we're told to get over it as kids especially men. The pressure is much more on men. So I'm actually not surprised when he said Ellis should get over it.

Totally, how we were raised as children play a b6ih role in who we are going to be . That punishment segment,?!!man was abused fr...but he is s a grown ass man in his 30's, how longer should he be expected to hide behind his childhood. He needs to learn how to take accountability!!

Icky is the perfect word!

Get over it 🙄

Yep! Felt exactly the same. Was having the best episode, and then the whole vibe was down. Gave me the ick. Be kinder to your friends dude

I’m glad that I was the only one to knowledge that.

Didnt he also go to school with him? I felt his concern.😂😂😂