Why Being “Non-Binary” Makes No Sense - It's Not "Just About Respect" 

How do you have the audacity to put his identity in quotes….?

You forgot about hermaphrodites mister

@@kotekgraey85 Hermaphrodites are extremely minorities and are an anomaly (meaning "non-normal"). Don't try to bring up extreme minority to normalize it, it's not normal and never will be. Also, hermaphrodites are one gender or the other, one genital develops more than the other when they get older (the genital that develops will define his/her gender). That's it.

Id rather not "ma'am"

Rude...

as a transman, whoever said that to you is gross. good job on all your success btw!!! mechanics is so awesome

I'm all for freedom of expression. These people who identify as non-binary are free to do so. I have no issue with them, I don't hate or even dislike them. I just don't agree with the entire concept of it.

@@pigged_ for what? genuine question.

@@dragontantra i agree. i don't hate them at all, i just dont understand it? there's a difference between masculinity and being male and femininity and being female so idk how there's gonna be a middle gender. or is related to masculinity and femininity instead of male and female? i dunno.

EXACTLY. Just because a woman likes cars doesnt mean she is not a woman. Is stupid thinking one got a non existing gender just because one dont follow the gender roles.

That's really good to hear. Don't listen to these dummies. They don't care about how you feel, but about how you make them feel when you conform to their ideas.

Thats not what non binary is-

Redneck pipeline hits hard...one day you're playing in the backyard, the next you're a victim to the agenda.

@xyeonjvnzx nobody said it was, they’re just saying how their breaking social norms and still identify as a female.

@@xyeonjvnzx then what the fuck is it?

Do not be afraid. We are here for you. I have 3 elementary aged kids and we are proactively handling this stuff.

Me too

Don't have kids. There's literally no reason to reproduce.

I'm just happy I'm too old for that.

same here, I'd rather not have a child at all in the future if they have to grow up in this dumpster fire of modern society

I love how you guys say trans people have to have dysphoria in order to be respected and then absolutely disrespect trans people for having dysphoria. Of course you don't feel that way, because you don't have dysphoria. You haven't been told your entire life that because of who you are you're "disgusting" "unnatural" "predatory" "dangerous". You haven't been forced to pretend to be someone else your entire life, and when you finally are yourself people tell you that's not you and you aren't allowed to be *that*.

Lol please I'm sure you'd care if you were constantly misgender. And even if you wouldn't, most people would be. Also be less of a pos

@@matiasroque4716 That what?

Exactly! I’m a woman who is 6’ and have been called “Sir” to my face, and on the phone, many times. I literally couldn’t care less. Being a sir isn’t offensive, so their mistake isn’t hurtful at all. As a kid I was definitely a tomboy, and there were even times when I was told to leave the girls’ bathroom. At ten years old, YES that was embarrassing, but I fully understood the mistake, and it did NOT traumatize me. So when these idiots cry that being misgendered wounds them so deeply, I can stand on experience when I express my disgust. And I am extremely liberal.

@@matiasroque4716 nah I'll tell you what dysphoria is, it's having a hissy fit because people don't conform to ur delusions or let u be different and quirky. U kno you'll always be just a normie and never special, and it makes u sad

Good point.

I personally don't really care if a person prefers they/them pronouns, as long as they have actual interests and life purpose. Not having interests or purpose isn't healthy for anyone, non-binary or not.

@@peacemaker2057 I don't care either but it's stupid af, at least for me (mostly cause in my language this isn't even a thing, there's just he and she and when there's both it's referred as he in plural aka "eles") 🤷‍♀ If you wanna use your stupid pronouns, whatever, go ahead, but don't force me to play along w you (not directed specifically at you btw, just my feelings towards "non-binary" people)

It's the same as saying men/women don't exist. Your own identity is not consumed by you being (I assume either a man or a woman) ,however if somebody made such a claim would you react any differently?

@@clarkbowler157 Men and women are not an 'identity'. That's the point. We're male and female humans. We're not saying you don't exist. We're saying 'gender' doesn't exist as an objective fact. It's an idea you can either believe in or not. You can't force other people to believe in it or support it just because you do.

Which country are you from? I am from Malaysia and gender ideology is able to penetrate certain members of English speaking circles. My friends who are from the English debate scene are believers of this ideology and I am very saddened. Even if parents think normally and this culture is not found in Asia, however remember there is this weird little thing we call "the internet", and the internet will export American leftist ideology to other countries

@@yokelengleng same here in indonesia. This makes me want to keep being conservative and stay in my circle rather than brainwashed by western media

@@soralaaa yessss you should be conservative in to reasonable degree instead of being brainwashed by leftists! Btw do you mind gay people? I don't really mind gay people

thats why i am learning chinese no joke, woukd love to live in a more communal society, tired of the bullshit here

@@Patryyyyck you still can't escape gender ideology by learning Chinese because of this little thing we call translation. My friends and I are ethnically Chinese, but that doesn't stop my friends from being brainwashed

Same

You don't need surgery or medicine- you are great the way you are!

I honestly have a hard time understanding gender dysphoric people. Because as a guy, I’ve never not felt like a guy. I just don’t like all the things that males stereotypically like. And I’ve liked things that females typically like (For example, I played with barbies as a kid) - but I’ve still always just been a guy. I mean, what if I loved Japanese culture? Loved the stereotypical food, lifestyle, culture in general, would that make me Japanese? The sad part is now there are people who are using racial stereotypes to say they are a different race - but most people aren’t okay with that - but it’s like, when is they line drawn?

@@tiamod I also had a hard time understanding what this was all about because you never really got to hear an explanation. For me I just heard that those people identified as that and that they feel more comfortable being called like that. As for your question I think it’s due to the gender roles that are put onto us, so e.g. women have to cook, take care of the children & the household, play with dolls and etc while boys are taught that they need to manly, strong. And so when you’re e.g a boy, who likes playing with dolls it wouldn’t be uncommon for your environment to be against because that’s now what boys should play with, which results into you feeling suppressed and not being able to express who you are because of those gender norms. That’s why it’s not uncommon for those that felt this way to develop a gender dysphoria, the belief that you don’t align with your biological gender, because everyone tells you that what you’re doing is wrong, confusing you what type of gender you really have or if you actually have one. These people feel more comfortable identifying as non-binary because they don‘t really feel like their biological sex.

@@x.star3779 secures where we get into a slight problem people who identify as non-binary expect everyone who has never met that too automatically know that they’re non-binary and know they’re pronouns No I’m not saying that this is all non-binary people but what I have noticed that there is a very large collective of that group & people who are meeting them have that expectation

It's almost like being non binary is not about the things you like.

Tomboys rule. I still have SUCH a crush on Pippy Longstockings. Thank goddess that Pippy didn't have blue hair and take testosterone, or that would have killed it for me.

You need better friends.

@@Mia-ko9eu It's not. Your preferences don't define your gender.

Tiktok is the new tumblr when it comes to misinformation and grooming in the LGBT+ community.

Except he doesn't and admits he's wrong later in the vid 🤔

@@spoopytrashpanda2158 Self reporting eh

​@@spoopytrashpanda2158 What do you mean you people? YOU people are notorious for causing various forms of harm to anyone you don't think is normal. Then they grow up and be who they were meant to be anyway. Their simple existence as a mostly adjusted, content adult turns you into the victim. I just wish I understood your thought process. You guys always say we are this way through abuse, but who do you think is doing the abusing? Some random person online supporting them, or their intolerant parents?

Actually, most people do adhere to reason, they are just afraid of the few loud ones to say so

@Solur i belive so, is just a small minority that basically have too much attention because the news love to put it out there, and the eh.. conservative bite hard and promote it too by always talking about it. Tho it is indeed becoming bigger and bigger because of it

@@martinacosta3821 the longer we let it live, the longer it corrupts and spreads and causes mayhem and chaos

@@goreborn6045 one word: *EXTERMINATUS!*

@@miniaturejayhawk8702 I will say nothing else than BRING THE INQUISITION AND A LOT OF HEAVY FLAMERS

It's not hard, it's impossible. That's how nature is. We're not gonna go back against nature just because someone is mentally ill.

Then you made it simplw for yourself; don't make assumptions!

@@jan-3356 If I see a man, I will call him a man (he/him), if I see a woman, I will call her a woman (she/her).

@@teamojesusss i wonder what animals call each other when they don't see makeup or skirts on each other 🤔

@@jan-3356 I wonder how people compare animals to humans 🤔

My question is how do they not see this? Is it that they lack critical thinking skills, or are they aware of how counter-productive and hypocritical they're being, but just can't let go of their need to feel super special and unique, and the edge-lord label 'enby'? 🙄

@@Mel-wn9gb It’s just brainwashing, and not stepping outside of what you’re surrounding yourself with. They also get called names or might lose friends if they question it and get treated horribly. And also what you said, yes, lol.

@@nostalgiagatuna Oh yes, that too. For some reason saying one word against this ideology will have you ostracized, cancelled, fired, rejected. It's like a cult. Nobody is allowed to think for themselves or have a different point of view.

The ironic thing is the same people who say gender is a different word for sex (male,female) don't realize that the word gender derives from the Latin word genus (to beget,to produce (also known as sex))

Sigh... If you want to be a millionaire, don't waste time posting stuff like this. Get out there and make the money. You have an identity crisis and you attack others' identities instead.

So I shouldn't speak frankly to you, understood

Apparently I'm delusional, huh?

@peeness339 yeah but you will never believe it because your far too gone now in your delusion

@@nesswhopees you are yes

@@nesswhopees yes

your cringe

@@femo3336Learn the difference between your and you're before calling people cringe

Most of society thinks there’s only two genders- which make up the binary gender system- hence term non-binary. That is, since popular opinion states that there can only be “man” and “woman,” the term non-binary defines gender identities that differ from the binary gender model society assumes. So it’s a way to express that we don’t fit in the typical gender mould, rather than a means to enforce the gender binary, if that makes sense.

@@annarhianne1543 No, it doesn't make sense. You're either a man or a woman. You don't have to be femenine or masculine but you're still a man or a woman, like Misha explained.

How how genderless folk "clueless". I'm 25 years old and know myself better than anybody else. I never liked seeing myself as a girl/woman and hated feminine terms used on me my whole life.

Yes

Right

​@@derekb4977 I edited my above comment

Hi, my language is one of those gendered languages. What do you wanna see exactly? I don't mind people using her/she for me and I use it for myself too. In my language a chair is a she/her too... so what point are you making? We use he/him for a car but a car is not male by sex or gender. If anything, those languages are even more validating as they show how arbitrary gender pronouns are.

@@Mia-ko9eu for example, if I needed to ask you a question about yourself in spoken Arabic or Hebrew and I don't know your gender, there's not really a way to do it because the words for you/your/yourself are different for a male and a female, and verbs conjugate based on your gender as well. Does your language have those properties as well?

​@@richards31415 My language has a "you" without any genders so if you needed to ask someone a question about themselves technically you could do it without gendering, but most other things are gendered. For example, I couldn't say "I went to the store" without gendering the word "went" as we say it differently for male and female.

@@Mia-ko9eu ah thanks. the language I'm learning (Hebrew) has gendered "you" and almost all verb tenses conjugate with gender. "I went to the store" is "הלכתי לחנות" (halakhti la-chanut) regardless of gender. But the sentence "Are you going to the store?" would be "?אתה הולך לחנות" (ata holekh la-chanut?) if talking to a male and "?את הולכת לחנות" (at holekhet la-chanut?) if talking to a female. there's not much of a middle ground if someone identifies as non-binary.

I’m curious how do people in Malaysia feel about this?

Good on you for getting out of that relationship. I had to dump a friend who started dating a nonbinary. She's a white girl from Michigan who because she is 1% native tried to condescendingly explain plains cree culture to my best friend the plains cree girl off the reserve. It was so unbelievably cringey! They get offended by everything and their facebook is basically a hate page for every celebrity or random who says something they dont like. Just the most unagreeable, frothing at the mouth for a fight, person I've ever encountered. I realised my friend was beyond nuts for dating this wacko and told them both to take a hike. It was nonstop drama when they were around whining about every tiny thing imaginable. You'll be better off without such nutjobs around, believe me.

Thank God you got out of there

or, you were respecting them.

They and them have always been prounouns in English to state something is not he or her Nonbinary is a term used to call someone who wants to be themselves and not follow gender rules. I'm non binary I wear skirts and still use the male toilets.

@@Pompomeranian7 Imagine dumping your freind because she decides to date someone you dont like what an awful person you are

gender is also a social construct, at least the stereotypes most people see as gender.

@Bernard Knoll gender isn't based around sex, at least not for everyone. At least- that's what people are starting to realize. For the majority, gender definitely has strong ties to sex but for others, gender and sex are detatched or feeling disconnected and thats where being trans comes in. you will still bethe same sex no matter if you are trans or not but gender can change

@@Ray4938 it’s obvious you’ve been to college. That wasn’t a compliment

@@realisticthought1781 it's obvious you haven't been to college. That wasn't a compliment.

@@Ray4938 The thing is though, it doesn't matter if it is a social construct or not. I try really hard to understand the lgbtq perspective but where I disagree is where gender comes from. I think it comes from human nature. If you diminish all problems from first world to a third world, genders will naturally revert into the traditional social construct or whatever you want to call it. And more on that, if we are currently expanding on old genders we still don't have any research or understanding how that relates to mental health. I feel like what's currently happening is an experiment gone off the handle with no control. There will be a collapse from people pushing it too far trying to stretch the way their bodies are mechanically inclined. Mind and body

I think transgender people are understandable since they actually work to be seen, treated, and respected as the opposite gender. Plus, they'd actually look like what they're representing. It's crazy how we have to change how we look just so we earn respect.

She was explicitly transphobic lol

@@nobodyuknow. Nonbinary people have to "work" to be seen and treated with respect. Also gender identity does not equal gender expression. Nobody has to "look" any certain way.

@@gaybatgosqueak Nahh. Where?

@@gaybatgosqueak You dont HAVE to look a certain way but your gender identity is kinda related to gender expression? If for example someone is ftm, if they have the possibility, they will make themselves look a guy as much as possible lmao

That isn't how it works. How about you do some of your own research rather than blindly following the opinions of others?

That was corny 😩

The "problem" is that these people are narcissistic

@@lowdistortion that makes no sense, they just identify that way. That’s not they’re fault they just feel that way.

@@matildaguala6140 They are narcissistic, they force people to call them they/them also no one is stopping people from being people. We're just saying this identity stuff is ridiculous, how brainwashed are you

@@Badookum If people are narcissistic for forcing people to do something, doesn't that make you narcissistic for forcing people to do something?

@@Badookum by your logic you are forcing people to call people by your pronouns too ! and i dont believe you. i think youre actually a woman and youre just pretending. your pronouns are she/her and your name is shirley

​@@NiTuJHGTkO do you not understand the concept of gender roles at all??? go look at how men will be ridiculed for wearing a fucking dress . not even identifying as anything different, literally just wearing clothes. go look at how people will make fun of BOTH genders for having hair thats "too short" or "too long" for their gender. go look at how girls who have more masculine builds or wear more masculine clothes will be called names just for doing that, see how people will find girls weird just for not wearing makeup (and if they wear makeup thats "weird" its suddenly all about how theyre "too pretty to be doing such a thing"), notice at the inequalities between men and women and the separation between the two in practically everything. take a look around you and then get back to me with that.

@@NiTuJHGTkO ohh my god its like my words r going in one ear and out the other. NEVER ONCE did i mention trans people in that paragraph! in fact i EXPLICITLY STATED men who identify as men so i dont know what youre even trying to reach for right now

@@NiTuJHGTkO okay and now point to where i talked about trans women

Brainwashed

@@Badookum oh no I've been brainwashed by science and compassion for other people😱😱😱

@@Badookum "brainwashed snort snort 🤓🤓"

What’s the difference then?

If they're not the same then why do you treat them as such when it comes to sports, bathrooms, locker rooms, and prisons?

No one is saying this is hate speech, just ignorant at best.

Ya they are

@@Mia-ko9eu kids are coming crying cuz they’ve been told all sorts …..

Forreal, 20 percent is an absolutely huge number. When we talk about incidence rates of a condition in a given population, we don't even use percents, we use incidents per 100,000 population, and usually anything entering the triple digits territory can start to be considered as a relatively high rate of incidence. As you can see, 20% = 20,000 in 100,000 that's FIVE FUCKING DIGITS it's an absolute behemoth of a number.

@@Mia-ko9eu haha Lotta delusional ppl out there see this as hate speech

Right on!

more people need to read this

Yes! Perfect explanation, thank you 👏👏👏

Thank you, you are one of they few people who actually are respectful and not just hating and blaming people for random things or going “Gen Z is dumb and soft”

You know I bet a lot of your conflicting would go away if you oh..idk talked to an actual nonbinary person instead of thus bigot that, one doesn't understand what she's saying, and two, is actively twisting the truth.

I figured they were victim/complex

XXY Chomosomos

Pick a gender XX or XY

There is no “truth” to gender.

They and them have always been prounouns in English to state something is not he or her Nonbinary is a term used to call someone who wants to be themselves and not follow gender rules. I'm non binary I wear skirts and still use the male toilets.

@mitakesrevenge it just raises more questions.

@mitakesrevenge I don't care honestly

Exactly makes no sense man 💀

Thats not even 100% true. There are cis women with (C)AIS (they have xy chromosomes. There are also cis men eith XX chromosomes. "B- but intersex is a exception!" Yeah so are trans people.

unfortunately people still see each other as pieces of meat that should be divided by what's between your legs, as yungblud says in a song "What you got between your legs, honey Science is ignorant about you"

What makes a biological boy*

Sex and gender are not the same, Karen

What about men? Men are not boys

They're like trap in a bad ending in a visual novels/otoges.

Pretty alright, thank you for asking. Also, aren't we all living in delusion? I mean, everything you see is just light bouncing off of things to make a picture in your mind. Everything is mostly empty space. Our brains literally can't perceive reality.

@@Mia-ko9eu dude literally if you ain't one of them you don't have to defend anything

@@The1AboveNone I am one of them. I'm non binary.

I’m a non-binary person, what do you mean you would debate someone who thinks otherwise? Like an argument? or would you be open to learning about my/our perspective (probably through debate lol) ?

@@yourmom1368 I would love to hear why you identify as non-binary.

@@slacktoryrecords4193 I’m not quite sure, you could easily ask why you identify with your gender. But i can give a rough idea of why? I don’t understand gender in relation to my own self. If I look at myself with either a female or male lense… it doesn’t seem like who I actually am. Just like how you may think of yourself as one specific gender, i have no idea what gender you are so i’m not assuming, I think of myself without gender. Not a male not a female, similar to how people would view a crowd of people. The crowd of people doesn’t have a specific gender, even if majority of that crowd are females, you probably wouldn’t say that crowd has a gender. While Yes, this essentially just means I am a “self declared” non-binary person, I want to propose the question. What makes my self-identification any different from a binary person? Is it biology? Because I do accept that AGAB will never change and I can only change my secondary sex characteristics, However I don’t accept that my self identification is any less than a binary trans person, or even a binary cis person. What makes binary cis people more justified in their identification with their assigned gender? Is it because they were assigned that at birth? Doesn’t that invalidate binary trans people? I see you understand the difference between gender, self expression, and sex, and can separate them, but invalidating non-binary people relies on gender essentialism. Which if you didn’t know, is the belief that gender is the same as sex. Which is fine if you believe, however it’s a shaky argument and has been debunked. I could explain the criticisms of gender essentialism if you’d like?

@@yourmom1368 Well, the fundamental difference between you and me is that I reject the very idea of ‘gender’ as you’re using it. I understand some people - starting with trans-identified people, about a hundred years ago - have this idea that the ‘gender’ of a person is separate from their sex, but that concept really only came into being in the middle of the last century, when sexologists conjured it to explain why trans-identified people felt the way they did. What followed from that was the idea that everyone has a “gender identity” that either aligns with their sex (99+% of people) or doesn’t. But this was just a theory that was proposed; there’s no reason to think it can be broadly applied to every human. Most people do not have a carefully considered notion of their own “gender” (i.e. a “gender identity”), they just ARE the sex that they are. Anything layered on top of that sex is just personality, and there is of course a wide range of phenotypes and expressions, dispositions, etc., with considerable overlap between the sexes. But that’s just being human. In recent decades, the push from certain segments of academia and activist groups has been to reify this idea of a “gender identity” which is supposed to be a separate concept from sex. This is done in part as a sort of charity toward trans-identified people, to normalize the idea of a gender identity that *could* be separate from sex. But just because there are some people who experience severe dysphoria about their sexed body, or wish they weren’t their sex, or-like you, I presume - have spent a lot of time carefully thinking about whether or not they ‘feel’ male or female, doesn’t mean that *everyone* has put that level of thought into it. I don’t have a “gender identity,” I just AM the sex that I am, and everything else on top of that is just my personality. I can’t possibly say I’m “not a man” or “not a woman” or that I don’t feel like either one, because how could I? ‘Man’ is just the word for the adult version of a human male. Whether I “feel like” one or not, doesn’t matter. It’s just reality. I don’t know what it “feels like” to be a man, because I don’t know what it “feels like” to be a woman, so how would I know if my perception of myself *as a man* is accurate or not? To me, the idea of ‘interrogating my gender’ is just an academic thought exercise that has no real-world utility, and wouldn’t change *anything* about my life or how others perceive me. So what’s the point? When you identify yourself as non-binary, how does that affect your life or the way you suppose others perceive you? In what sense are you opting out of womanhood or girlhood, and what is materially different, in a practical sense? What is it about you that makes you think you’re “not a woman” or “not a man”? I hope I’ve explained this well enough. What I’m understanding is that, to somewhat mature people who can talk about ‘non-binary’ as an identity at all, it doesn’t have anything to do with stereotypes. So what *does* it have to do with? I hope my questions come off as respectful. You seem like a thoughtful, genuine person and I hope you don’t mind my prodding. Thanks for reading, if you’ve made it this far! Also, I’m curious how old you are (again, no disrespect).

Men and women are just people as well

@@alexasweet8430 but men and women also get labeld as men and women when non binary’s are just labeld as a person and not a man or woman

@@oscarreed9520 EVERYONE will also be a boy or a girl while being a person, that's life.

@@nor4drenalin not unless we make it better by letting people be what they want if they don’t feel comfortable with being called boy or a girl don’t call them that. I do think that their sex will be the same but just being themselves while not having to be called what they don’t want to be is fine I think

@@oscarreed9520 Well, I don't think calling someone "they" istead of she or he is helping anyone. If someone has a problem called what their actual pronoun is they should seek help from a therapist, don't you think? It is not my responsibility to make them comfortable. Unless people are actually trans I don't call someone any other pronoun than their actual ones just because they "feel better" then.

Yes, all of this gender bs nowadays is making me question my sanity.

@@slimgrim3607 Same. I'm so glad I'm not the only one who sees how inevitably tied to gender stereotypes gender identity is. Hearing too much about it and struggling with internalized misogyny made me question both my own identity and my very sanity.

Makes sense. Girls and young women are always the first ones to succumb to social contagions, and they’re always the ones who suffer from them in the largest numbers. They affect other people, too, but primarily girls and young women

It's not

1. It's not an issue :) 2. Why do you care 3. If those people don't identify as girls or boys don't call them that

@Alex Wells No one asked for this random high schooler to be transphobic either but here we are. Also nine circles of hell lol I don't like you but that was funny

@Alex Wells i was talking about ep1k;-;

Theirs, Their, they, Themself ect.. is prurial so basicly it's using for male and female it's both gender not none of the both gender.

ignore my grammar

wait until this person finds out that not every language has gendered pronouns. or that world isn't flat.

also who is that ''person" your talking about because i Believe earth is a sphere if you talking about me

@@Tahin4 lol don’t worry it was meant for the op - I am team trans and not a phobe❤️

Is being an earthling a spectrum? Bcus i truly feel like I was supposed to be born on Saturn.

If sex and gender are different things then why trans people do surgeries to cut off their genitalia?

Nonbinary is not trans

biological id vs gender EXPRESSION is the one thing ppl have a hard time discerning as not always congruous

@@ObamaWuzHere I don’t really identify as a non-binary anymore, it’s been so confusing, so I’m just a girl who is just not comfortable being pampered like one, idk why

what here is complicated about gender being different from out biological sex tho. they arent 100% the same 👻 spooky/mysterious innit

@@ObamaWuzHere people are saying it’s a social construct which is dumb af, then what would that make men and women?? Social constructors?? 💀

If you never mention nonbinary, then it would not come up that you are nonbinary in the first place. So I don't see how it's a social thing. It doesn't constitute actual bodily changes as with being trans does. It just seems like a philosophical self-identifier, one that can't even be properly explained.

Fr

To teach the insane

@@Destormon you know I saw you on a lot of comments and I’ll say this Are you like 11? Because you replying to everyone of these tells me that you haven’t been educated well especially with the fact you actually put time to reply to all these comments which you probably haven’t even read. If you’re not 12 or under Man , you are such a petty human being. Having nonbinary people in the world doesn’t effect you if you yourself aren’t nonbinary. You can simply not identify with no gender and that’s fine. If it doesn’t exist then I guess anyone who is nonbinary is a figment of everyone’s mind set. Quite honestly people like you and this delusional woman making this video don’t get opinions like these especially if you are uneducated on this matter at hand or have no idea what it’s like. My bets are You are a white Probably American Male Who has a shit ton of privilege and has never had any major hardships in your life from being discriminated from ok. So stop replying to every comment you deem as incorrect ,because people speaking up for nonbinary people actually know what they’re saying , and go back to school where you’ll either be educated or reeducated.

@@CorXvuS that’s racist that you assumed that I was white. I’m not. And clearly I hope you know that I’m a fucking troll and that u didn’t have to write a whole god damn essay on me. 😂

@@CorXvuS Ima continue to waste more time being put into these paragraphs by other crazy lunatics 😈

tbh the narcissists are the people who cry when they misgendered

also point out the 'bad arguements'

That's because for many people gender is something they need to explore and should be allowed to explore it without judgment. You would have been a better friend though, if you had supported her without saying her feelings were wrong. Keep that in mind going forward.

@@gaybatgosqueak not encouraging your friend to enter the medical industrial complex is being a bad friend? Wow, thank goodness you're here to spread the word that we should be encouraging every stupid whim people have 🙄

My God, I thought the same way as this child and today I found out I'm bigender, what should we do?😱

Oh my god a child

Non-binary identities have been recorded in many cultures like the Two-Spirit of native americans, the Bissu of indonesia, The Muxe of the Zapotec community and many others :)

​@@yourmom1368 And? At one point it was accepted in medieval years to inflict brutal torture to extract a confession. Then, you probably got sentenced to being pulverized by a breaking wheel as your execution. Just because it was accepted at one point doesn't mean it's immune to scrutiny or granted automatic acceptance.

@@frug5629 In those situations there were people being hurt, what hurt does it cause to anyone to be nonbinary?

​@@yourmom1368it doesn't mean they're real and factual

@@xienela gender is made up. that is the consensus by relevant experts. its a complicated topic and you actually have to read instead of just watching videos. do that.

I’m autistic, don’t speak for me about questioning non-binary identities as being ableist. It’s not a diagnostic criterion nor a symptom of being autistic (even if these identities may be more common among the autistic community) and it’s not ableism to question it. Takes away from real ableism to say so,

@@annikacarilyn At no point did I say I was speaking for ALL autistics so calm down. It is now well established that 25% of autistics are gender or/and sexuality divergent. You are clearly not up to date as many diagnosticians indeed now take gender and sexuality variance into account as 'soft' signs when assessing for autism. There's more to an assessment than reading DSM5. Just as gender clinics now screen for autism. As I said (and you failed to read) that's a sizable chunk of autistics. If you aren't one of them then this doesn't concern you but such an unambiguous link points to a biological connection. It's unfortunate if that makes you uncomfortable. Denying the existence of autistic non cis/het people is ableist and that doesn't in the slightest subtract from ableism, any more than denying the existence of intersex trans people does. I am a medical professional with experience of autism assessing, and a gender divergent autistic.

okay but yall do know that binary has to do w computers right? 💀

@@Cameron_Is_Inactive The idea that there are only two genders is sometimes called a “gender binary,” because binary means “having two parts” (male and female). Therefore, “nonbinary” is one term people use to describe genders that don't fall into one of these two categories, male or female. hope this helps king :)

@•:Sasha_theShadowbuck:• Kid has more balls than most humans

They weren't expecting him to give a scientific answer. That's hilarious. Because I can imagine most kids they ask that question stutter and have no idea what to say. So sad that they prey on kids because they're easy to mold yet they think that they have the ability to make life altering decisions that young.

He is an old soul.😊

That kid has good parents. I'm sure he will be very grateful come 15 years or so when all of these other kids that are raised "genderless" are going through severe mental illness.

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I used to get dressed up in my frilliest dress, go in my mom’s room and play with her make up and get ‘beautiful’. Put on mom’s high heels….. head out to the garage and help my dad work on his 18-wheeler truck. Covered in oil, head to toe…then after a few hours head back in the house to help my mom, cook or sew. My dad commented on how beautiful I was, as he taught me the names of every tool I handed him and what they were for. My mom, always threw a fit, hoping the oil, dirt, and grease would wash out… but she always got it out and was never angry with me. 😂🤣 I am 100% female, and have never let anyone tell me who I was or could be. What a great childhood I had, and honestly never fully realized it when I was younger. Thanks mom and dad.

💯 I hear you. Buck Angel doesn't like it when people call kids trans kids. A kid is a kid. Some might experience gender dysphoria but it's best to let the kid grow up finding themselves they could just be learning about their feminine and masculine characteristics. The label trans kids probably shouldn't be a thing and when the word is used should be reserved for those strongly experiencing gender dysphoria.

Me too, I didn't like pink and was a bit of a pick me, but I was not a boy or NB hahaha

Here is the REAL truth about Gay and Transgenderism: It is NOT about chromosomes (the XX or the XY) or the BODY, it is about the STRUCTURE of the human brain. A Doctor with a Ph.D. in Genetics and his team did research on the STRUCTURE of the human brain. They studied the brain of straight women and straight men, gay women, and gay men, as well as transgendered women and transgendered men. What they found is this, the STRUCTURE of the brain between a male and a female is as different from each other as night is from the day. They also found that there are two distinct and separate areas of the brain that deal with sexuality and gender. They found that the area for sexual orientation in gay men is STRUCTURED the same as in straight women, NOT straight men, and in gay women, that area is STRUCTURED the same as in straight men, NOT straight women. Likewise, the center in the brain that deals with gender identity is the same, in transgender women (male to a female) it is STRUCTURED the same as in cis-women, (born and identify as female) NOT cis-men, (born and identify as male), and in transgender men, (female to male) it is STRUCTURED the same as in cis-men, NOT cis-women. It has been STRUCTURED this way since BEFORE birth. Two other teams in different parts of the world doing the same study all independent of each other found the exact same results. When a baby is first formed in the womb it is formed 100% female. Then after a few weeks, a signal from the father's genes tells the baby's body, the body only, to change and become male. The baby goes on for a few more weeks this way until it can produce a massive amount of the male hormone testosterone, which then tells the brain to change into the male pattern, such a massive amount will never be seen in that Child's life again except at the onset of puberty. If for some reason that baby does not get that massive dose of testosterone in the womb then the brain, or parts of it, continues to develop in the female pattern. Or in the case of gay women or Trans men, at some time in the mother's pregnancy that baby received a small dose of testosterone at the wrong time, either the mother ingested it somehow or her body produced it or the baby’s own body produced it all of which can and have happened. When a baby is being formed in the womb, any variation, even in the slightest, of the chemicals can cause birth defects. You have seen these birth defects in babies being born all the time, some born blind, or deaf, born with missing limbs, or heart problems, or even with a spine outside of the body, and many, many others. So why is it so hard for the right to believe that a person’s BRAIN can be STRUCTURED in the opposite way from what their bodies say they should be? You can believe in all other birth defects so why not this? I will use transgender women for this example, even though the body is male she likes all the same things a cis-gender woman likes, her emotional likes, wants and needs are the same as any woman's, and the way she sees the world is the same. Her interactions are the same, everything about her is the same as any cis-gender woman except the body. Sexual characteristics (the body) are set by the genes (the XX or the XY) but Gender is set by the STRUCTURE of the BRAIN, this has been proven through sound scientific study. Gender is how one see themselves and their place in the world and how they interact with it. If your body is set one way and your brain the other it causes a disharmony of mind and body (gender dysphoria) it is not now or ever has been a DELUSION or a PERVERSION or a MENTAL ILLNESS. When someone is going through life with this Dysphoria their life is a living hell, when people tell them that they can't be WHO they are inside because that person is uncomfortable with it then you are forcing the trans person to live in severe PAIN, Anxiety, and Depression, a PAIN that having your arms and legs cut off with a dull rusty hacksaw without any anesthetics seem like nothing in comparison, a pain that kills, LITERALLY KILLS. Think of everything you like and want as a man or a woman, everything that makes you, you, and then think how you would feel if you were constantly told that you can't have it, or be it, or do the things you love, because you are the opposite of who and what you are now, that you must bury everything that makes you, you because other people don't like it because it makes them uncomfortable, If constantly you were told that you were evil and dammed because you are who you are, denied a job, or a home, insulted, belittled, assaulted and even targeted to be KILLED just because you exist, how would you feel? Women, think how would you feel if you were forced to live, think, told to feel like and be a man, And told that you MUST do what men do, how men do it, see things the way men see them in order to be a man and you MUST be a man and that something is wrong with you if you don’t? How would you handle that? Men, think how you would feel if you were forced to live, think, feel, and be a woman? Told that you MUST do what women do, how women do it, see things the way women see them in order to be a woman and you MUST be a woman and that something is wrong with you if you don’t? How would you handle that? A trans woman does NOT fit, in a man’s social circle the same way a man does and yet they are expected to if they do not go through transition, they are expected to think, feel, and act just like any cis-gender man in that circle, but they can’t because their brain is STRUCTURED differently, so they are insulted, belittled beat on ridiculed, and humiliated by these men, constantly, all because their brain is STRUCTURED the same way a cis-gender woman’s brain is STRUCTURED. With their brain being STRUCTURED that way they would fit into a woman’s social circle but with their bodies being male, again they don’t fit in and they are excluded. They want to wear the same outfits the women wear because their brains tell them they should be just like them. Everything inside them SCREAMS that they are just like the people who are of the opposite gender and yet they are NOT allowed to be because other people are uncomfortable with them doing so, so they are FORCED to live in severe PAIN, anxiety, and depression. Trans people just want to be accepted for who they are, they want and are deserving of the very same rights as everyone else, no more and NO LESS. Here is the truth about the road to transition: First, the person MUST go to therapy, no therapy no transition, they will meet with a therapist who has knowledge and experience with transgender people. During this time they will begin social transitioning, social transitioning is nothing more than changing one's name and pronouns, and appearance such as hairstyle and clothing. Then after a number of sessions with the therapist (usually about a year) if the Dysphoria continues, and depending on the age of the person they may be given puberty blockers, (which are reversible). Then after many more sessions with the therapist and again if the Dysphoria continues they may be given hormones, it is these that have irreversible effects. Last: when they reach the age of CONSENT (CONSENT, NOT A KID, NO ONE IS DOING SURGERY ON KIDS) and if the Dysphoria continues, and if they have lived in the gender of their choice for a MINIMUM of 1 full year, and have letters from two therapists with one having a P.HD in psychology with both therapists having seen the person over a period of time they may get a consult from the surgeon, and there is usually a long waiting list for that, after the consult if the surgeon agrees then you get on the long waiting list for the surgery. IF ANYONE TELLS YOU DIFFERENTLY FROM THIS THEY ARE LYING TO YOU. Definition of a woman: How you define a woman is by how she sees herself, a woman is one who sees herself as one in mind and soul. If a person sees themselves as a woman, thinks as a woman, acts as a woman, and lives as a woman, then what is the harm to treat and respect her as one? If you cannot have compassion for another human being then how can you ask others to have compassion for you? Show compassion, empathy, and respect by calling them the name they prefer and with the pronouns they prefer. It does NOT harm you to do so but it does great harm to them when you don’t. Definition of a Man: How you define a man is by how he sees himself, a man is one who sees himself as one in mind and soul. If a person sees themselves as a man, thinks as a man, acts as a man, and lives as a man, then what is the harm to treat and respect him as one? If you cannot have compassion for another human being then how can you ask others to have compassion for you? Show compassion, empathy, and respect by calling them the name they prefer and with the pronouns they prefer. It does NOT harm you to do so but it does great harm to them when you don’t. Some of you reject the LGBTQ community because you have a need to feel morally superior to others, “pull the beam out of your own eyes before you try to pull the mote out of another’s”. Some of you reject the LGBTQ community because you don’t understand it and it fills you with fear, fear of something that is different from what you are used to, different from YOU, either one goes forward or one stagnates and dies, you limit your thinking and can’t or won’t learn, grow, and adapt. Some of you reject the LGBTQ community because you just want to hate and hurt others, it gives you a sick thrill, and you use the LGBTQ as an excuse to do so. But ALL of you who do these are small, weak, insecure, monumentally stupid, and utterly pathetic excuses of human beings.

I am a biological, real woman, and when I was younger, I liked lightning McQueen and Barbies. I am 21 now and still like girly shirts, dresses, heels, curling my hair, etc. Doesn't make me gender fluid or non binary.

lmao

I identify as computer-gender! My pronouns are zero/one

we really need to address the enbyphobia of computers. SMH

it's the elusive "2" glitch

@@Crowbar01 You mean "10" glitch.

you must be a transwoman then

I think that’s what validates trans people’s existence though. There’s a distinction there, between “acting” feminine or masculine vs and that understanding that you are that gender.

@@AlexCenFinerIf you have to repeatedly proclaim something is “valid” or “exists”, it’s more likely that you’re just gaslighting something that really isn’t and doesn’t.

@@AlexCenFiner What's the distinction?

@@AlexCenFinerYou literally make no sense. Where is the line you draw from becoming one gender to the other? No sources I’ve seen online can tell me that because it’s all subjective, there very inconsistent. Everyone is in a spectrum of masculinity and femininity regardless of their gender. There is no rigid, concrete way to be a man or woman

Agreed What happened to politely correcting people, instead it’s all about throwing a tantrum acting like a child basically and throwing people in prison over something that is minor and stupid, if you ruin someones life over something minor, stupid and childish then have just given that person a reason to hate and distrust you. So I agree with you

The truth will always set on free but unfortunate today's society rather live in a lie than to acknowledged they are suffering from mental issues

@@ismaelrojas1614 You help people by getting them help not by enabling them.

In highschool, I went to a very ghetto liberal school. My English class was ALL about social issues. That’s what we were forced to make our presentation, projects, and essays all about in that class. Having a transgender ultra liberal teacher for that class, I literally had to bullshit my entire way through. If you brought up conservative talking points, you WILL have your grade on that project dropped. I learned very quickly to simply appease to whatever I thought the teacher wanted to hear. Literally leaving out important research I find, and getting a better grade. Because it’s what they wanted to hear.

@@boobear9944 That sounds downright unbearable, honestly

Fucking hell sometimes people are weird.

This reminds me of the time my mother asked me if I was gay, (i’m not gay btw) because i’ve never had a boyfriend before, I’ve never dated anyone before. I’m also only 18 😅

Good for you! Wait until marriage! It’s the right thing to do!

@@sashhhaa4874 I was 19 when I had my first and only bf. And it was a bad choice to make, I wish I had listened to the warning bells going off in my brain.

It’s nothing wrong with being a virgin or not being a virgin but as a adult I can see why people would question it

Same here.

@gaymer lol, fool.

​@gaymer theres no such thing as a men becoming a woman and vice versa. There are masculine girls and feminine boys.

You know how insane the world has become when I feel special joy at plain common sense being spoken.

@@busterofcoviddeniers reality? WHAT DO YOU? think is reality, reality is just what YOU want it to be and just because the world has more genders than female or male doesn’t mean we are delusional non-binary and other genders have been around longer than you have so grow up and deal with it

Or remaining something they are not simply because that's what hateful people like the one above says they should do!

i think this is why proper education about what is gender and the nature it being a very personal thing based upon experience rather than sex, and also that being trans and not undergoing transitioning is 100% valid, are really important

@@icicleditor then suppose a trans person whose sex is female but did not transition will not be allowed in male spaces bcs that will be uncomfortable vice versa if a trans women who didn't not undergo medical transition if that trans women enter female spaces it will be uncomfortable for a women we will be getting defensive I can't help it what's are your thoughts on that

These non-binaary people and Leftist seem so quick to turn.

ain't nobody transitioning simply because they're confusing "personality" with gender. do you know what it actually takes to begin medically transitioning?

Totaly sick! I'm afraid of saying to my son that; "i am/his father is a trans men." And they wanting to make their BABY'S QUEER?

it's none of ur business how other people decide to raise their kid(s), just like conservative parents who don't want their kids being state educated

@@c0ree it can easily become child abuse

@@c0ree Sure, instead we must kill them before the future of humanity is no more. Right?

@@c0ree why is it none of our business?

Lol be quiet

@@gaybatgosqueak she-ra pfp, opinion rejected

@@Wawawawowowo No u

@美丽Mary listen to my money talk

@gaymer It's sexist because she's being labeled as something that she doesn't want to be labeled as because she doesn't follow norms. She is a tomboy and is okay with it, but not 'nonbinary.'

It doesn't even make logical sense. Even if intersex conditions were another sex - which they aren't - if sex and 'gender' are not the same, what have they got to do with anything?

i've always been confused. aren't intersex people just hermaphrodites?

​@@empirebeachNo, they are not. Hermaphrodite is a term reserved for beings that are naturally like that, meaning part of their normal biology. Intersex is a genetic disorder.

Intersex is a biological condition, not a mental one.

Yea, that argument makes no sense lol those people forget that intersex people are still one of the two genders and saying they are something else because of their body parts/DNA is very offensive. They already have insecurities about their body and that's just making it worse. They are using their own definition of "intersex".

I have a cousin that is one.😭

I had a worker that did this. Pretended to be nonbinary, but never corrected anyone when accidentally saying she. But she acts like a girl, and prefers to be a girl more. Which isn't even what nobinary is. And she also is the type of person that would pretend to "have an episode and zone out" and it was mostly at work. And mostly when she was supposed to be doing something, and the amount of times we had to tell her to get back to work she goes "oh sorry I zoned out" which isn't what zoning out is. I mean it's different for everyone, but zoning is more on auto pilot, still doing things and not just standing there to not work. Idk it's annoying, it sounds more like they wanted a label to feel special.

Bullet dodged, yo. Pray for her, but you made the right choice to make her “uncomfortable “

The entire LGBT community is full of narcissists who only do this for attention. It’s ridiculous

@@Evan.280 Just wait for when s hits the fan, these people are going to crumble and just be dead weight when the rest of us are trying to survive.

Exactly. I can understand medical transitioners but to social transitioners and non binaries, what makes them not a man or a woman? What does feeling like a man/woman or not feeling like a man/woman even mean? This is especially true when they say a woman is “whatever you want it to be” in that case why are you non binary when woman is already such inclusive language. What makes you any different from a woman that you have to be trans-men or non-binary? The same goes for men when it comes to trans-woman.

I guess intersex people makes a lot more sense to be non-binary as they are in a way both but to people who aren’t intersex, it doesn’t really make any sense.

@@MasterlyRex8789 I am a believer of freedom of speech, self-expression, thought, etc. If someone feels most like themselves by not believing they have a gender, that's fine with me, and I don't mind using their preferred pronouns, names, etc. I find it a problem when ppl try to force their ideologies onto others, and those whose ideologies are their entire personality.

based boy

Based white boy, they come for him soon.

The trannys always respond “well it’s not that simple some people have xxy or other combos” Ok bud, then we can call that very small percentage of people actual trans people.

He's pretty ignorant really, considering that intersex people exist. Neither genetics nor psychology agree that there's two genders. Nothing about the human condition is simple.

nope. becuase gender isnt based on sex? and there is more than XY and XX chromosomes. Gender is a social construct.

Dillon c.... its called grooming, it's incredibly sad when you realise that these sick perverts are targeting schools to influence/ groom young vunerable minds.

Yeah theres reasons why children cannot make life changing and major decisions

But the same would critizise parents for raising children in a religious way.

@@tosh.m.k that's a weak argument. Biology is not a belief. Being a woman is BIOLOGY, not a descriptive word for how someone dresses & acts!

@@technoloverish I see you have no reading comprehension skills. Biology isn't a belief (like religions are that are debatable as true or false). Biology is science. Woman is biology/science related, not a descriptive term for how someone chooses to dress or act! You are very confused.

The greatest chefs are typically men, so I don't see why a man being interested in cooking is feminine.

@@Jupiter__001_ nor do I … yet I know a lot of men who openly refer to it as a “woman’s job” in the house.

It's almost like ... being non binary is not about liking stereotypically male and female things. It's almost like it has nothing at all to do with it. Huh...

Your activities, what you dress, etc do not define your gender.

@@Mia-ko9eu so … what does it have to do with? I mean, you see this in the video where others proclaim that they were more interested in their mom’s things than playing sports. Frankly, I don’t even know if I am against this whole non-binary thing, but it is becoming more and more apparent to me that it is a cultural fad.

Exactly

As a lesbian masculine girl Boomer Gender roles are silly and obsolete, and they're the ones making kids go non-binary/trans at age 10 😞 If you're a girl youre not supposed to "play with dolls, have kids and cook for the rest of your life" you can have your own interests and nobody should dictate your life. You're a girl and like cars, short hair and want to be an industrial engineer? Amazing! You're not automatically boy for liking what boomer society expects the opposite gender to like, you're just yourself, a girl with her own interests, not a non-binary and not "wrong" If boomer gender roles were just left in the past, the percentage of transgender people (non-binary, agender, demigender, bigender) would decrese.

Nonbinary people telling they are "neither a man nor a woman but a human being" make no sense for me. It's just offensive. Like, if I identify as a man or a woman, why do you think I am not a person? Do you think I have no interests? Do you think I have to follow stereotypes and question my identity all the time? Do you think I should highlight the fact that I am a particular gender? No one should. It's just what being a person is. And you can still be binary.

@@海苔-k3d i cannot emphasize enough how much a nonbinary person saying "i'm neither a man nor a woman but a human being" is not about you and has nothing to do with you, and in no way implies that people who do identify with binary genders are "not a person". it is downright silly to take offense at someone else expressing their own identity; you are making up a person to be mad at so you can validate your own discomfort with nonbinary identities by manufacturing persecution.

@@kaleviv For me, saying "I am not a woman but a person" is the same as saying "I am not a child, just a person", "I am not an American, just a person" and so on. One does not exclude the other. Men and women are people. They are allowed to express themselves however they want without changing their gender identity. "Nonbinary" and all the other new labels just make everything more confusing. And, since no one ever made a clear explanation why they chose to identify this way, I assume it stems from gender stereotypes. Otherwise, I cannot explain why so many enbies are either teenage girls with short hair and internal misogyny or men wearing makeup and dresses.

Not how it works

@@AbsolutelyAri1 Yes it is. When you observe what gender you "feel like", what you are really observing is what gender's stereotypes you find most relatable, appealing, and can apply best to you.

@@AbsolutelyAri1 ok professor 👨‍🏫

@Bernard Knoll ok if you force your kid to be trans that's messed up, but simply having them know they exist isn't really bad

awesome, you realize it's conservatives who pushed the idea that dolls were for girls to begin with right? allowing people the opportunity to break gender roles and stereotypes is just that, gender non-conformity. shock surprise, men being feminine and people being able to self-determine their own identity are not mutually exclusive paradigms

And that's what you call a tomboy and there's nothing wrong with that , I don't see why people have to erase woman who connect to masculine traits more then thier feminine side same goes with males who are more connected to the feminine side instead of having to throw non-binary and trans at them

Im realy happy for you. Once youre into that its hard to step back and accept none of those escapism fantasies are real and rather harmful to you by re inforcing misogyny and self hate, it takes a lot, best of luck

Thank goodness. 😊

Just say you're a woman. Using the "identify as" bs is how people get sucked in. You don't identify as your age, race, nationality, etc. You just are. We need to be clear with wording because this nonsense sprouted from semantics. Setting woman or man up as a way of thinking or acting is how people get caught up.

i kinda get that, i thought i wanted to go by it/its at 13 💀💀

How about... Nope. I'm going to remain non-binary despite your opinion. I will still exist weather you like it or not. Byeeeee, Karen!

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@@manolgeorgiev9664 same reason ice and water have different names, so we can more easily tell them apart in conversations which require the distinction of functionality and characteristics Truth be told, people are different, and pretending otherwise is inherently hurtful to society. The only points in equality should be of respect for each other's differences and freedom to how you live your life

@@manolgeorgiev9664 oh, the gender X sex thing. I don't think the social expectations for gender are necessarily a bad thing tho. Men are averagely stronger so they do the physiological labor, whereas women are more emotionally intelligent, so they are more suit to take care of the babies. That doesn't mean that the woman has to leave her job or that the man can't take care of the children at full time. For each to do their own. The problem comes when people are forced to apply to a lifestyle they don't like, so I think we should male an effort to sustain *freedom of gender* (be a man/woman the way you like it)

thanks 🙏

I was a real Tom-boy as a little girl. I was forever climbing trees, etc. and most of my friends have been boys. However, I still liked playing dress-up like a Princess, ballet and figure-skating. This is merely called MY PERSONALITY. BTW, I am a married woman and mother.

@@lexiburrows8127 same, my toddler doesn't understand these things, when people try to push it on her, she just says "no, I'm " she's 3, she won't understand that she's even a girl yet and they push it on them... its sickening.

EXACTLY!!! Masculine things drift to feminine constantly. Archery, berets, kilts, even high-heels were originally military-men stuff. Prince and Bowie challenged gender norms, possibly to bring fashion into a gender-neutral equilibrium, but now everyone learning about them just go "WERE THEY TRANS?!?!!?!" because brute-forcing the end-goal of your ideal world is preferred over gradual change. Expect a hard swerve in society in the next decade, because Iranian women wore jeans in the 80s before change got a little too ambitious.

I am a man biologically, but because I don’t feel like working in the coal mines I’m not a man? That’s so dumb

Its so weird how activities and clothes are gendered in my opinion... like really. But im still non binary not because of the activities i do or the clothes i wear, its just thats how i mentally percieve myself.

Have you perhaps actually engaged in an argument, or are you making things up?

We did grandpa. That's not what nonbinary is about

@@gaybatgosqueak Only if you assume that some, no longer having hard gender sartorial codes, got confused as to their gender, even their sex. The fundamentalists told us that if girls were permitted to wear pants that they would forget they were female , we didn’t believe them, but now….

@MrNiceGuy nah unless it's your mom ;)

@MrNiceGuy respect is earned. disrespecting my identity will not earn someone my respect in return. ever.

@MrNiceGuy im nonbinary:)

You are in a cult

Yeah, I agree with you. I am a straight female, religious, and as I do respect the true non-binary people (as a Catholic I respect everyone), I feel like when a person says they are non-binary I feel like they just want attention.

A lot of them are also confusing stereotypes and bodily dysmorphia as something in dissonance with their brain and body. I don't believe they are looking for attention as much as they are looking for a community to be a part of. Time and time again I've seen people eventually slip under the umbrella after going through rough patches in their life where they simply have no hope. The identity gives them something to latch onto and that's exactly why they become hyperfixated on the idea. It's a band aid put over an already infected cut so the relief and belonging it brings is only temporarily (most of the time).

I had a non-binary friend, and they were so obsessed with it that they didn’t even care looking for a job. Because the NB stuff was on their mind all the damn time.

As somebody who has a sister that's now identifying and it's not non-binary, this makes me concerned. Because she is not the narcissistic type at all. Like at all. In fact I can say that me and her both equally can't stand narcissist. And now she's just confused. I mean if she thinks she wants to be a boy in the future to go through a transition then I'll support her. But she better get professional help instead of taking advice from people who thinks they're a different gender because they wear a different pair of pants from a different section of the store. Hopefully her mind doesn't start going south. Cuz I like the fact that I can still have a conversation with my little sister no matter what it is and no matter how deep it gets. The last time I was questioning about her non-binaryness, and I was trying to be respectful, she didn't really have a problem or make a fuss. But she did have a struggle trying to help me understand it. It's like no matter how hard they try they always make it sound just like Jenna dysphoria or like they can't decide whether or not they want to be trans. But if that's what they meant by non-binary then I think I wouldn't have a problem with respecting it. You're in between the in between. You're still figuring it out from the very beginning. But it's not. They're making all this illogical nonsense explain why they're both are neither genders. Oddly enough, at least I can say I'm lucky that she's holding the both route. So there's no complaining that I still call her my sister. She's still allowing me to call her my sister. Just now I can also call her my 2nd brother if I wanted to. I'm not. She's always going to be my little sister. She also thankfully doesn't make a big fuss with anybody in the house for not understanding it. She understands is going to be a hard concept for us to grasp because it's still a relatively new concept. Anything she just tried to come to me first because I am the oldest within our family that she can come to when it comes to I guess LGBT problems given I'm bi and would be more understanding in that department. But even I struggle to understand this concept and she kind of expected that. She did not act surprised when I had questions. If anything she should know better than I'm the one to constantly ask questions. I'm usually going to want to get to the bottom of something if I don't understand it. Cuz I want to understand it. I want to dress my mind around what the heck is going on. I hate it when I can't. So maybe I'm just lucky for now. But man the s*** coming out of this community it's just getting ridiculous. This is why I don't even associate with the LGBT community. I swear to God that community is literally eating itself alive and depressing and becoming a very same they were fighting again. And I really wish they would just stop saying that live and let live b******* when that's not even what it's about anymore. Especially now that they want to resort to racism and sexism because oh well it's happening to whites and males thus it doesn't count. No, by definition it is still sexism and racism. By that brain dead as logic should we commence a genocide against white skin colored people do just because they've done it to others in the past? It almost feels like it's digressing to that point. And it's ridiculous. It went from live and let live to we will do upon others that those have done to us. And if they look like the others who have done to us, we would do to them anyways even if they're innocent. 🤦 don't matter if you're conservative, liberal, progressive, traditional, there are hypocrites on both sides and I can't f****** stand it.

hey just so you know I’m on the girl in this video’s side but I’m pretty sure in many of these people’s definitions: males and females make up the gender binary, and being non-binary means you’re totally against it and want to create a fictional gender that’s not male or female.

Basically, calling yourself "non binary" is an attention seeking delusion people have in their minds and believe that if they think something, it must be true.

LOL

You don't even see the irony in this

@@JustSomeKittenwithaGun guess that flew over your head so fast that you missed it entirely. Hint, all a teller would need to do is bring up my bank acct. info to say "no you are not a billionaire" and be 100% correct Similar to what a Geneticist could do, even after someone "transitions" But that don't stop them from identifying as something they are not, or ever will be. Because their 'account' says otherwise. aka irony, you may want to look up the definition of it.. Deffently made me laugh though.. 👍

Almost. But female is a sex, not an 'identity'. Being lesbian is a sexual orientation.

@@Mel-wn9gb but you have to identify as woman/girl/anything feminine _and_ have feelings for another woman/girl/anything feminine, eg a gay man can not be a lesbian … though given the never-ending list of new gender identities it wouldn’t shock me if that had changed

@@LadyLeomon No. Women are not 'femininity'. They're female humans. You have to be a woman to be a lesbian, to state the obvious.

@@LadyLeomonunfortunately the lesbian community is awashed with ‘non binary lesbians’ and anyone else who wants to identify as a woman. Doesn’t even matter if they have a p***s. Also, they are trying to change the term lesbian to non-men loving non-men.

Hi, I'm non binary... tell me why it doesn't exist, I'd genuinely love to hear it.

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@@Mia-ko9eu I'm a three-headed dragon. Tell me why that doesn't exist. I'd love to hear it.

​@@stevenalexander6713 Being non binary has nothing to do with your psychical biological being. Sex is biological, gender isn't. No one is saying that they're biologically something that they're not. Your overused argument really doesn't make that much sense when you actually understand the topic you're trying to argue about.

Gender is a mental instinct u know what u are same sex or not , but for some people there brain don’t except that and can cause confusion so it’s pretty real but sadly ppl these days are doing for attention

Because nonbinary people can be male or female. Sex≠gender