Why Couples Really Fight | MarriageToday | Jimmy Evans, Karen Evans 

I hurt... I want... I fear... I react...

I just want to say thank you to you Mr. Evan's and to Mrs. Evan's for sharing your own struggles within your marriage out in the public for us all to learn from. And I think what you do is amazing and I hope that you achieve your goal of saving one marriage at a time till the world is rid of Divorce.

“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” ‭‭1 John‬ ‭4:18‬ ‭NIV‬‬

FEAR ... is in everything ... it's not just marriage. Ask teenagers .. even children ... This message is for everyone ...

He's right. Fear is the reason why couples fight.

I love this teaching.

Great video!

This is very true. Thank you.

This teaching is life changing, marriage changing!!!

I needed to hear this talk. It surely hit home for me!

If married 59 years and wish I had divorced my husband 35 years ago. If watching him be involved with another woman for a long time I should have left. I tried Gary Smally. Marriage encounter I couldn’t get it straight. To late for me I just want what life have left to live in peace and it will not be with him.

Thank you. It was so direct! The arrow hit right on my heart. Thank you pastor Evans and sis.Karen. Keep us in prayers.

Powerful message, Pastor! The truth shall make you free.

Amen I think fare is what we are going through my husband always mad at me for no reason. He don’t handle money very well.

I enjoy your video.

Amen.

Needed this. ❤️⚓🙏

Amen!

she reacts to secret courts sentencing, which is HIS fear with predetermined secret punishment

Can you come to western Michigan?

Luke 10:19! We have power!

Thank you so much for the clear explanations! God bless you! I have a question yet. What should I do, to understand and believe, that whatever was done by my wife is unintentional. Being disrespected is my fear, but I already FEEL, that my wife is disrespecting me. I have experienced her disrespect, in front of our children she occused me number of times of earning not enough, being unable to save money for future, she compared me to other people in our neighbourhood, and I have a dillemma... is it just unintentional behaviour and she doesnt know what she does, because she doesnt know she hurts, or she does that on purpose?

SALUTE 💯🎓👍🏿

What happens though when you tell your spouse that you are afraid or have certain fears, maybe based on her actions, and or also things that happened in the past done to you by another person, but she doesn’t seem to care either way? She brushes you off, criticizes you, or says your fears are irrational? She offers no apology, for the most part, or attempts to comfort, make adjustments, or empathize…Sometimes the anxiety and disappointment is so debilitating when that happens, Fears just become magnified and even further validated. What do I do and how do I respond to her in that in the most understanding clear way? And how do I respond to myself, who is often then dealing with it alone afterwards when she dismisses it? What is the most Godly and wise way to navigate these situations?

life and marriage aren't rocket science, shouldn't BE this hard. You do what you are SUPPOSED to do, BAM !!! Perfection

Door dash ads make me want to jump off my balcony

This is good. This is the first time I've heard him "preach" a little bit referencing the word.

I am really looking for someone to help my marriage.. even now I am falling my eyes out and he thinks you don't need any help and I'm all the problem and I'm he has a bad thing with God right now but I don't force that on him he's bipolar I've been there for him and I know that I've done wrong in our relationship and I'm not talking about cheating.. but over a year ago I almost died from hardest shoes that I still have and this man who I've tried so hard to make happy it's never going to be that way. I don't understand he says he wants better communication and he fought with me just now over me trying to say something about a new puppy we have and her going to the restroom see he spanked her the day before because she peed on the floor and she's a little tiny thing and I thought she did it again and I just said something about you know when we take her out sometimes she comes back in but if you walk around the backyard with her she'll stop and go and he just goes off on me about talking and that's the only thing I said to him this morning. he messages me and starts to big fight again and then won't even let me say anything except for yes or no are you friends to leave me if I say anything other than that. How can you make it work with somebody who chooses to see only what he perceives is bad.. how do you make it work with somebody where you have sex often four or five times a week and it's great but there's nothing anywhere else any other time he seems to hate you. He gives everything good everyone else and then comes home and give the rest of me. And this is the first time since we've been together I haven't worked and there was a 7-year period that he didn't work and I said care of everything and I had no problem with it he had a back surgery and had a bunch of problems and now he seems to put me below him since he's paying for stuff and I don't know what to do I'm already uncomfortable asking him for money or anything and then this on top of it all I want to do is make this man happy along with my marriage I don't know what to do anymore

Can your wife or you inbox me I have problem with hubby putting me down and hurts me I try not to show.otherwise I'll cry.

I HEAR YOU, HOWEVER IN MY CASE , IN MY RELATIONSHIP , ITS THE OPISIT WITH MY WIFE. WHOM IS A PESIMIS !! SHE THINKS IAM THE CRAZY ONE , BECAUSE I CHOOSE TO LIVE MY LIFE , IN WHICH I AM AND ALWAYS BEEN AN OPTIMISTIC PERSON , STEPPING OUTSIDE THE BOX. NOT NEGLECTING MY RESPONSIBILITES RAISING OUR DAUGHTER . MY WIFE'S MINDSET IS STUMPPED, COMPARE TO MINE, MY MIND IS FLEXABILE , HECNE MY SPOUSE DOSE NOT GET IT .CORRECTION MY SPOUSE CHOOES NOT TO GET IT !!!

Thank you for your ministry. Karen do you realize that you are constantly making acknowledgment noises while Jimmy is speaking. Personally it’s a bit annoying and distracting to the listener. Just my observation.

Fear is not the reason married couples fight...it's money and who in the relationship controls it.. whomever makes the most in the marriage usually seeks control.

Why do all stories talk about husband coming home from the office at 5? Most people that I know don't work in an office.

nonsense, fear is not the reason couples fight, a lack of understanding on the WIFE'S part as to what the role of a WIFE is.

FEAR???? tHIS SOUNDS LIKE SUNDAY SCHOOL FOR KIDS...LOL..Tell that fear talk to our Forefathers and theyd laugh at you.😉Yes Americans have gotten very weak!

Why "Marriage today" ? Why " today " ? Has marriage changed in God's eyes or is it so called preachers who have turned it into what is not in order to please the feminist spirit of the end time ? Adding" today" to marriage speaks volumes.

Amen!