Warren... Thanks for opening up about your relationship with Chanya. I know you've done a video (or two) about it before. But as I stated in another comment on one of your previous vids, Chanya's opening up more recently made it all the more interesting and beautiful. Chanya's Beautiful and Classy as HELL!!! Her style is impeccable!
We went to a birthday dinner last week for our friend Kan. It was a greek restaurant and they had a fire twirling and dance show after. Chanya got up for the dance part and you could really see who's a professional dancer there! 55555
Thank you. My girlfriend is transgender, we have lived together for 4 years, built a home in Kanchanaburi , I met her in a bar ( yep bargirl) in Pattaya so it can work!!! Peoples preconceptions really annoy me, people are people and there are good and bad in all sexes. The bad press directed at ladyboys in Pattaya is just clickbait and people wanting to make false insurance claims about having jewelry stolen when they are engaging with Ladyboys bla bla bla. I feel many people dont think about the problems ladyboys have when transitioning and the emotional struggle they go through.Thanks for making the video
Yes Jim, if you make that "heart and mind" connection, there is a very good chance that it will work. Alas, too many relationships are formed on that 'wallet' connection and that's all we hear about on the interwebs! I do plan to do a video shortly on how they are precluded from some vocational roles and drop into some of the salons our friends have set up. Beauty salons are very popular within the transgender community and the sisgender girls love to visit them.
@@ChanyaAndWazzaThailand great idea......my g/f had a hair salon some years ago. Many people do t think about the exclusion from many job opportunities
"you can`t really understand yourself until you can SEE every walk of life" So much in that statement. Seeing is differnt than looking isn`t it? Anyone can look. Only the wise really see. Cheers Wazz. Thats why im so reluctant to participate-too many people look, very few see.
I have dated like women before and I heard something that I think is very nice :) There is a popular vlogger on RU-vid that brought up somthing that I thought was very nice, kind, and respectful ! Its new on the subject of language, and how you approach these women, and that is more and more they like to be referred to as a "special women" or "special lady" :) I think this is a very warm and sweet way to address these women compared to the latter, and I think this will be appreciated everywhere :)
@@ChanyaAndWazzaThailand Thank You for responding to my comment in a positive manner 🙏 I think this is a beautiful way to refer to these precious women ❤️❤️❤️
I think that you are both very lucky. The attraction is obviouse not only physically, but mentaly as Wazza says you get the body of a woman plus many aspecs of a mans thought process. Sounds like a win win to me.
I feel like trans woman offer more to the table I often feel like they are very open minded and caring usually they have a harder time finding love because they deal with most men looking for fun/games and when they find the serious ones it’s a endless love best example you too!
I'd have to agree with you there, but there is a down side which is a decreased libido once they undergo gender reassignment which the male partner needs to understand. This is again another sensitive topic I want to discuss openly but it like walking on eggshells with RU-vids community standards.
HI Wazza, I think it'd be fair to also talk about how widespread narcissism is among transgender women, I also prefer trans but the narcissism is so frequent it takes a toll on your mental health as a man, just be aware the incidence of NPD is probably much higher in trans.
Narcissism is a sensitive topic when it comes to the trans community. I personally wouldn't call it narcissism but more 'strong willed' to endure the conservative views of the general population. The best way to navigate this issue is to realize that she is your best friend and how to you navigate strong points of view with your best friend. For us, it is finding the middle ground when there are two opposing views and this can be difficult for the male partner.
Thank you for your information and honest stream regarding your relationship with Chanya. If I may ask. Transgender affirming care services are generally not covered by commercial medical insurance here in the States as in most countries. Since Chanya appears to of had multiple procedures during her transition, could you please shed light on how the Thailand medical community helped her since here in the States, a "complete" gender transition may cost the typical self-pay patient on average $70K US. Thanks
Gender affirming surgery is not covered under their health care system and in my opinion, it shouldn't be. Why should these procedures be covered by someone else taxes or insurance premiums? She had the gender reassignment surgery done 16 years ago and it cost her around $3,400 USD. The current price has risen considerably in recent times and comes in at around $12,000 USD. Breast augmentation costs around $1,700 USD currently but a foreigner might find it difficult to find that price without "community" help. These prices don't include extended outpatient care though as most who have procedures done, will recuperate at home. Complication related to gender affirming surgery do fall under their health care system but it is limited to general health care and infection related illness which does happen with the lower cost clinics.
The US ACA covers transgender health care (HRT and SRS). (Section 1557). The UK and most if not all Western European nations do as well. Prior to the ACA many US states had already made this a legal requirement, like California. My insurance pays for my wife’s HRT and paid for her SRS. As it should, our monthly health insurance bill is as much as leasing a mid level Mercedes. She had augmentation surgery in Thailand out of pocket as the Thai surgeons really know the Thai body.
You two make a great couple...it's evident that there's a deep connection... Appreciate your candor, and just do you...Long ago I began running against the grain so to speak... Not so much in regards to relationships, rather life in general... If you two have found happiness, who is anyone to question it... I could see myself in such a relationship if it happened, but it hasn't to now... I'm not looking for this, but I'm just noting that I never want to set any boundaries for no reason... If it was to happen, it has to be soon, haha, as a 67 year old dude the clock is ticking! 😂 Have a great day...When I get back there will try to look you two up... Until then, take care and enjoy!!! 🙏🙏🙏 👍😎👍
sometimes warren i pause the video just to see how beautiful she is and she's really amazingly beautiful. there is a misconception people don't get the attraction to transgenders. if i am attracted to transgender what people don't get is that it doesnt mean im gay or attracted to men. and i think that is the misconception. i dont know what your view is on this.
I think I mentioned the aspect of 'hyperbeauty' and if a guy ever came close to that aspect, I guess I would 'look' but it hasn't happened yet! People create labels to feel safe and as mentioned, I have many gay friends and only a couple of times was I ever hit on over the years. People are people and we only need that label to make friends.
don't know you never seen your videos before but I am so pleased that 2 people are happy :) I wish you both the best in the future. and to hell with any negative fools :) and yes chocolate will cure all ill's lol
Let's face it, there is a subsection of human society that will never move out of their mothers basement, but they want to extol the virtues of a narrow mindset and will never feel safe until everyone else thinks like them. I love the term "never try, never know" as they will never know!
I know lol but I want to try and change people's way if thinking. We shouldn't ask why the Trans lady we should ask why this individual. When they ask why a Trans woman what them mean is why this sexual preference and that really is no one's business. Show more intrested in the people not the bedrooms actives.
@@josephpinkston7101 I totally agree with you Joe, but this is RU-vid so things need to be phrased in a way that optimizes the search engine algorithms if we want to grow the channel. It's also a fine line to navigate so that it doesn't disenfranchise those regular viewers who watch the channel for other aspects of Thailand they are looking at.
Oh please do not take it this way. I totally understand why the video is worded this way an completely support you. I just like to push the conversation in the comments to maybe help change people's minds and I find your channel an excellent place to do so. Your videos have always intrigued people to come take a look while your non apologetic straight up way of talking helps put facts out there. Please keep up the great conversation and entertaining videos and I will keep supporting.
Well She/He/It gives him a very stiff upper lip when out and about eating in tin sheds but hands up She is a cut above many the buy via post "Boys" that some ex pats end up with ... Good luck and blessing to both of you just don't let it get out of hand like the Chunky Clunky Watch Phases of life on the edge
@@ChanyaAndWazzaThailand to be honest, the person is pretty. True love has nothing to fear. There is a saying. Dis above all, thy know myself. You 2 have gust. If I look deep into every one, we all have flaws.
@cimonkien9833 A good book to read is "Owning Your Own Shadow" by Robert A Johnson. This powerful work from the acclaimed Jungian analyst and best-selling author of He, She, and We explores our need to "own" our own shadow-the term Carl Jung used to describe the dark, unlit part of the ego.
I used to dress individuals who had transitioned within the "community" I would suggest a unique dress code rather than provocative. Sitting in such a beautiful setting should have been maybe more Conservative. (No disrespect intended)
That's an interesting viewpoint. Yes, if it was a cooler climate, something less revealing would sit better but as this is Thailand with average daily temperatures in the 30+ degree celsius humid heat, comfort comes first.
@@dirtyguava8209 Hahaha! Stephen is jealous that I'm here and he's in Perth. He did live in Thailand for 5 years back in the late 90's and I'm sure he wants to come back and live here
