Girl that was dancing on the table is the epitome of the current dating scene. Ghosted him but believes she’s good enough to bring home for the holidays. Also the one that clocked that the guy wants a low commitment girlfriend needs to run not walk away from him
Nah, I honestly don't think he wants that at all. I think he realistically he saw they didn't click, but still was still interested in getting to hit. After he hit he switched to friendzone o'clock.
She thinks shes all that so of course any guy would want to take her home. When she didnt hear the desired answer she is has failed to win and will consider pursuing him. It was the only way for him to still have a shot with her whether he knows it or not.
💯 Definitely full of herself and a huge double standard. "But it's me, why not be proud of how amazing and perfect the person you're not in a relationship with is!" Just a bit conceited.
I'm fresh out an almost 8 year relationship. I've heard the horror stories of the dating scene, and I'm not doing it. I'll buy a house with a large back yard, foster dogs and go on about my business.
Out of 13 years here. I'd look up attachment styles if not for yourself, to see the others (and their games/tests/red flags) coming 😅 but yes the bar is in hell 😂
So she was dancing on a table and reeled him in and eventually ghosted him because he didnt seem serious since they met at a club ? Something's not clicking
@@Zedd...but she makes it seem like he’s the problem saying that he’s not serious when he literally called/messaged her multiple times with barely a response and then is upset that he wouldn’t bring her home for the holidays…
I really did not know it was normal to bring someone home for the holidays that isn't your serious partner, that's weird imo lol. Unless it's a regular friend
Her: "I ghosted him." Also Her: "I don't want anything with him." Also Also Her: "I wouldn't take you to meet my family." Also Also Also Her: "Why wouldn't you take me to meet your family?" Because you've continually shown you have no interest in or respect for him? Just maybe?
Either she has a boyfriend or she lied. Either way, blocking is all the closure you need. There will be more love. Stay strong and protect your heart. Sending you lots of love. - stranger on the internet
Crazy how several of these people can agree to go on a date with someone they met a certain way and then try to take the moral high ground by saying "I don't want to be with you because that's how you find dates" or that they don't consider that person worth their future because of the circumstances around how they were mutually at the same fucking place. Just outting themselves to the whole world that for the person they are across from for this show, they hoe'd out, but can't own it.
You see I thought the same exact thing and I still do it's just that these days there are some dangerous people out there and you need to be careful when dating so ghosting is only reasonable if someone is dangerous or you think they're dangerous
bruh it's annoying asf I'm the calmest mf you'll meet & will ask in the nicest way possible for a person to tell me why they randomly started ghosting saying I won't even respond or argue just tryna improve & stop overthinking for weeks what I did wrong, all it did was get me blocked immature ahhh generation can't even talk it out
@@shonuff-dl1wz with all due respect, that's BS and still immature behavior. If you wanna be careful, you can do so like an adult and tell the other person you're not into them and move on. Simple as that.
@jalacii i mean if someones not into their not into u and they dont owe you anything. That doesnt make them immature and yh datings hard but the fact that u asked someone why they dont like u and interrogated them is a symptom of the reason why they did. Idk what ur dating problem is but i just told u what u did wrong sooo do what u want with that info
THATS WHAT IT IS!!!! I love her. At first I was like who is the childish person, and by the end I was completely won over and taking her side on things.
I think a video that rehashes why someone ghosted the other person is kinda cool if you can learn from the experience. I feel like all the people who ghosted had good reasons for ghosting and went on vibes and weren’t entirely incorrect. Maybe guy who didn’t watch car drive away could get a second chance but like … idk vibes! I liked this video.
Yea, I've started ghosting people too. But that's just because everybody is doing it, and I kind of gave up on trying to have some semblance of propriety. Either way. ghosting is always ok when you're the one who's ghosting, but it's not always the case the other way around.
From what little we see, it sounds like she gives hella mixed signals and expects the other person to know her feelings for her. They both sound fairly immature in this.
I had a gym crush for a year. I finally approached him and we went on a first dinner. We ignore each other everyday now lol. I should bring him here lol
ok ok ok, she ghosted the guy, "its different for girls" so she wouldnt bring him home for the holidays, gets mad when he says he wouldnt bring her home for holidays because they are not a thing, wow. Side note, she says the guys inst serious because they met at a club when she was dancing on a table...
Am I the only one confused by this "table" he pulled out?! He's a player cause he pulled out this table. Why don't you have a table that's out all the time?
I presume he lives in like a bachelor style/small place so if a guy has a fold out table and a tablecloth it's likely to impress the women (note the plural) he brings home.
It was sad when she said she lost her virginity on a first date. Modesty needs to make a comeback. That guy had zero respect for her and it's not a surprise because she didn't even have respect for herself. Your body is precious, don't give it up so easily.
6:14 Girl, you need a reality check. You ghost someone, but then don't understand why he wouldn't take you home for the holidays? Then you follow that up with because you're a woman so it's different? Wut? Like, when guys complain about how women, this is exactly what they are talking about. Expecting someone to fawn over you when you ghost them is a level of ego that I can't fathom.
Her: "He took my virginity." Him: Smiling while remembering mental images, feeling guilty, feeling awkward and hoping her family doesn't see this video. Not that it's my business, but I can't help but wonder if he found out before or after the fact?
@@beachblue97 yeah, but "as it was happening" could be before or during and "as it was happening" usually means as the activity's happening. Which, in this context, would be while they were actively having sex, which I didn't want to assume.
Wasn’t expecting the beginning. I want to get on before u become too big! I’ve been watching for so long I’m happy to see your progress and watch you evolve