Facts the only reason teo gay men can be together is because one is more feminine that the other. Two masculine people can never have a healthy love relationship.
Rap industry creating the problem rap industry doesn t fix problem but wellcomes wht racist bindo girl that were groomed by racist rap industry shouvinistinc music and culture. racist white women going out of their creepy way to go after other race men.this would be ok if the music industry did take the last 3y sesually groomn little white girls.
They are all the same every race if you think you are gonna go find another race and get a different result you are gravely mistaken hahah I have dated and had all all women are the same.
yes they most definitely do. I have personally known black lesbians with White Women. Many of these Black Women are also sexually attracted to White Women but they don't want to admit it. You can see it in Cornography.
@@doctordl7757 yeah but there is a big difference between an extention and a weave that many black women leave on their head until it starts to smell god awful 😖
Because we're a damn minority group and we can be ethnically cleansed that's why. I don't get how every other race it ethnic group understands this shit but black people. They might be right about our collective I.Q. smh.
Exactly! You date who you want, why try to dictate others relationships and force your opinions on others? It’s crazy people actually think “race” is something we should separate ourselves by
As a black woman that grew up in a majority white community, I literally don't deal with this stuff. Because of how I was brought up, I speak "white" as a lot of people say. The only thing I deal with is people saying "You're not a typical black woman" which is so offensive. Honestly, I just mind my business, I met a great man and Im doing fine. I feel bad for people that are struggling to find their mate. Its not easy out there.
You probably don’t “speak white.” If anything, to an ignorant person, you articulate yourself well, and speak with proper grammar. I’m black myself, and I’ve been told by someone over Xbox that he thought that I was white the entire time that he knew me lol. That’s the only time I’ve ever heard that. Regardless though, I’m happy you found someone who appreciates you for you, and I hope all is well.
@@TwoLuckiithat's a insult. Saying to every other race that you speak so well and ive never heard in my 51 years anyone tell White's they speak so well is racist too. we all were born in America and went through the same school curriculum. Stereotype bulls... Different states ha e different accents too. But Amerikkka isn't racist but that's all everyone talks about
I 100% got the same treatment as a kid in elementary school. I had just lost my dad to a major stroke so it really effed with me in 5th grade. I'm like I'm black how am I talking white. I realized what they were referring too. It wasn't that I was being articulate, I was legit speaking like Steve urkel high pitched tone just no bravdo I guess you could say. As I got older I caught on and was like oh shit WHY am I talking like this lol. So I continued to use correct annunciation, but with more bass/confidence and I came into my own in high school. Long story short talking "white" is bullshit, but sounding nerdy/geeky is legit.
@@mista4700 Yeah, I’m not sure how to go about that topic in general at times. It’s such a grey area for me, so it’s weird for me to speak on at times to be honest
We have our own version of that lol. I once had someone tell me they thought that it was crazy how good my vocabulary was since I have a country accent that slips out a lot. Apparently the two don’t go together. I grew up mostly around Hispanics (Mexicans in particular) and was always called a nerd for speaking with more proper grammar. Some people just tease and mean well though. If anything, I’d just take it as a compliment instead of being offended. When you let yourself be offended, they’re getting a reaction out of you, which is their goal. Ignorant is gonna ignorant, you can’t let it get to you. I’m glad you found a good man, it’s hard these days! Those of us who find them have to appreciate the crud out of them. I hope y’all are happy and blessed going into the future ❤️
As a black woman that dates all races, I’ve been treated better by white men. It makes sense. They have less trauma. All the black men I have dealt with have mommy issues sadly and they play games way too often. It’s always something and mostly just situations with black men. Dating white is just simpler but all men must be vetted
Thank youuu....I've said this my whole life I don't not like bm but my ideal for a strong husband doesn't align with what they really bring. I want a traditional conservative husband because I was raised in a way to be traditional. I also hate when people try to combat love with race....also they are very violent at times and im not built to deal with trauma
@@fa1509 nope. bm choose to be a stereotype. unfortunately anyone pro creating with y’all is at severe risk of single motherhood. i would never date a bm. i know for a fact he will leave. it’s in their nature.
@@dreamkittyLol, that couldn’t be any less true. Historically, BW have driven fathers out of the home because of the way a lot of them act. Not to mention that most BW, not all, typically choose men who are no good just because they’re easier to control instead of a masculine, intelligent BM who doesn’t fit the stereotype…
@@geralda.dixonjr.9410 which people? The black man who created the video? The black man in the video he’s reacting to? Or all the black men in the comments. Haven’t seen anyone else talking about this, so I’m sure, SOME people do 👀🤣
All I know is as a black woman, I really don't care about the black "community". I care about myself only. I will move the way that benefits me, and black men should continue to do the same. See you at the fish line boys! 🏃♀️
Nah, the solution is that people need to grow up and understand that a few people don’t represent the whole race….whether male or female. As well as realize that by everyone speaking or focusing on the negative, we’re overlooking the good people. But mostly people need to go heal from childhood/early life trauma. Because the same talking point is being dragged into the ground, about how black women wanted a bad boy/drug dealer..and not a nerd growing up. Is getting worn out at this point. Like please seek therapy, because it comes off like someone that can’t handle rejection. On top of the fact that many of men have allowed yourselves to generalize an entire race over one or two women who’s rejected you. Not realizing all the black women/girls that’s been rejected or turned down, for the popular cheerleader, neighborhood thot, fine psycho girl, or gurls that most of y’all male friends were attracted to also. But we’re not sitting up running through life with that as an excuse or handicap. It’s time that the good ones speak up and advocate for each other, no matter the gender. But then I feel like we shouldn’t have too, because if all it takes is one or two black woman to turn you off from the entire race, but turn around and give nonblacks 50-11 excuses/passes for the same (if not worst) behavior…..then stay where you at.
It’s not 1-2 rejections. It’s a LOT of rejection . More rejection then most women can comprehend. Mind I’m 6’4 235 built and nice looking I’ve dealt with a LOT of rejection. I’m 24 and just never had a good experience with dating. So I don’t appreciate u generalizing the rejection experience that men go through.
@meatpuppet311 facts I've been dating white women since college and they are more kind it's simple they are nice and they appreciate men and don't stress me out or give me a headache I tried to date sistas they called me lame in high school and college 😊😊
@@KNIGHTTALK and if you wanna get into that topic, I'm pretty sure the gays, trans, and cross dressing communities rocks em more 😂 just adding this comment for fun
Because when you make that much money and have that much notoriety, you expect a certain level of compliance in your relationship. You dont want to come home to a challenege like lots of black women claim guys can't handle. Black women that tend to be in spaces athletes frequent tend to be the "put money in my hand" types, especially up front to prove your worth. Somehow they still view themselves as the backbone of the situation and nobody likes arrogance
I am no D1 athlete, but I'm making good money (above 100k a year) because I have a successful business. My current girlfriend (and future wife maybe) is half Hispanic, half Arabic. A very beautiful woman, inside and out. I could've never dated a black woman at her level of beauty. Because black women almost never gave me love in the first place. I've mostly been the lame nerd until my early twenties when I glowed up. But even then, I just wasn't good enough. Because I wasn't a bad boy, I wasn't hard enough. Don't make me wrong, I am a tough guy, I'm just not a loud mouth, money burning, swag flexing fool. I've always been the discrete, peaceful intellectual type. I had a few black girlfriends, but they were rare specimens (and they were Africans). Other black women (not all, of course) do not like that. They always need some kind of drama in their life, I reckon. My girlfriend is nothing like that. We go to the gym and on hikes together. We go to museums, seminars and church together. She cooks food for me, takes interest in my occupations and hobbies, listens to my problems and support me. She has her little character, but that would be suspicious if she was completely zen when you know her origins. But enough praise for her. To get back to the topic at hand, I've mostly been with non-black women because this is where I was treated best. That's not rocket science. And I bet it's the same for all these athletes.
All black women don’t want bad boys. That’s just some. There are peaceful and quiet nerdy black girls but we are often made fun of because we don’t fit into the “culture” presented as black. I’m the constant Oreo. I don’t have many black friend girls because they always pick on me and I’m too old at this point to not know how it’ll always play out with them
It’s not a complicated answer. It is a common observation that black individuals (not just in USA) with money or status sometimes prefer to date individuals from different races, particularly white women. This preference usually stem from the perception that whites are regarded as the standard of beauty and class globally. Consequently, when black individuals attain wealth and have the opportunity to date outside their race, many choose to do so. While some black men may provide other reasons for dating outside of their race, it is usually simply because they find non-blacks more attractive and sophisticated. This trend can be seen across the black community worldwide. For instance, there are numerous examples of African leaders, political figures who have non-African wives whereas we don’t see European presidents with non-white wives.
C'mon what black girl is going to act a fool at an A-list red carpet event? You're picking a caricature or next stereotype because most black women don't act like that. And white women will Fvck harder than any other later down the line...just wait.
As a single man in the dating game, I can state for a fact from personal experience that black girls, in general, are way more obvious about being materialistic and motivated by what a man can do for her financially. On dating apps, black girls openly talk a lot more about expecting a man to buy her gifts, be financially successful and give her a luxury lifestyle. Talk of ‘high value men’ is almost exclusively a black girl thing, I see it all the time. Yes, there are VERY materialistic white girls too, but generally, across the board, black women are more often openly financially motivated and tell you right from the start.
there are clear differences. black girl what you describe are more assertive and aggressive in their wants. white girls no different other than acting more sumissive, better at manipulation and being a overall professional victime. but their needs are the same as black women to a te.
@@noirefit5954 thats pretty much the case. consider what he describes are the same as how white girls are. only that no white girls are direct and rarely aggressive about it.
There is a wealth and stability disparity that has to be accounted for . A middle , upper middle class, or wealthy white from the suburbs will come from parents that put money away for tuition , got a car for sweet 16 or HS graduation, first house down payment , or trust fund . A black girl coming from the inner city has never had that type of provision or protection so expectation of being pampered or taken care off financially by a man becomes a non - negotiable. Why? They saw their mothers in community go through a struggle they intend to never revisit. Even my ex wife who is white and came from an avg income middle class family got money from her parents when we married . Her Father owned a small body shop in western part of Michigan and at his peak made $80k/yr. But her parents were very simple never drove any fancy cars or lived beyond their means and just put money away which was were the cash wedding gift was drawn from .
What do the stats say?lets conduct a quick study. out of all pro black athletes who marry white women,how many get divorced,or go broke in those marriages VS black women who find them selves up in similar situations??
Exactly. You are lying if you think having money doesn’t attract women Obviously you can be 100% committed to a man but the money is what got your attention
@KNIGHTTALK I gotta agree with you here, yo! My old man has worked at a local big name university here in NC for over 20 years and he sees the Hellman's girls throwing themselves at the Black athletes and making themselves available for them, being all extra saccharine to them, offering things to/for them. And the Black Athletes won't even give the Black girls a second view. I'm not against people dating, falling in love with or marrying whomever they do but it is something that I have noticed. I won't lie - wanting to push them off like that dude who was being drafted into the NFL and the girl got on him and Ma Dukes pushed her ass off. All women playing the same game - but I gotta say a lot of the Hellman's girls be willing to play the LONG game. (I also do wonder what convos go on in their households tho). 🤔🤔🤔
I could be off-base here, being that I never went out of my way to throw myself at moneyed athletes, but you do know it might not be "the long game," right? Some people are just nice and experience genuine attraction and personal interest in their romantic prospects, and maybe pick them up a nice Cava bowl on occasion :)
@@jaysonraphaelmurdock8812This actually DOES happen! Heard a story about a Miracle Whip mom who allowed her daughter to get married to her high school sweetheart and they had been married for over 20 years when she walked in on Mom And husband smashing. Not only that but she discovered that Mom and (now ex) husband been linking up since they were dating in HS and that her youngest brothers and her kids have the SAME dad. Miracle Whip Mom and ex husband were absolutely scandalous AF. 😥😢😥😢
Well same with black athletes that date black wemen and white athletes that date white wemen. Look at Shaq ex, she said she never liked him after she almost drained his bank account. She’s black by the way. Wemen are wemen it doesn’t matter what race they are. White wemen still stab white men in the back as well.
@@neilsun2521 bruh, white women are the most divorced FEMALE GROUP if u see how they divorce Interacially adding to non interracial. Thats what I meant. Then u have black men who divorce the most both IR AND NON IR... Point was black me claim white women so feminine and the best yet they still have no success with these women. Maybe jus Maybe it's not black women "attitude" the main problem if these Men still have failure with other racesof women while black women have success when married outside their race...... Bm: different race of women, same race of men-still failure Bw: different race of men, same raceof women- success in majority... But bw have "attitude" right?
@nellsun2521 bruh, white women are the most divorced FEMALE GROUP if u see how they divorce Interacially adding to non interracial. Thats what I meant. Then u have black men who divorce the most both IR AND NON IR... Point was black me claim white women so feminine and the best yet they still have no success with these women. Maybe jus Maybe it's not black women "attitude" the main problem if these Men still have failure with other racesof women while black women have success when married outside their race...... Bm: different race of women, same race of men-still failure Bw: different race of men, same raceof women- success in majority... But bw have "attitude" right?
@nellsun2521 bruh, white women are the most divorced FEMALE GROUP if u see how they divorce Interacially adding to non interracial. Thats what I meant. Then u have black men who divorce the most both IR AND NON IR... Point was black me claim white women so feminine and the best yet they still have no success with these women. Maybe jus Maybe it's not black women "attitude" the main problem if these Men still have failure with other racesof women while black women have success when married outside their race...... Bm: different race of women, same race of men-still failure Bw: different race of men, same raceof women- success in majority... But bw have "attitude" right?
My boyfriend is wealthy. He didn’t spend that much money on me for the first two years. We never even talked about money. I didn’t talk about how I struggled financially. I didn’t want our financial differences to separate us. It was more important to me that we bonded as equals
Man wtf yo. I’m starting to think these are fake profiles or ppl just lying to make women seem different bc where tf do I find women like this? Where you say? In the comments lol not in Reality
No it isnt😂 winners will unite and form new communities. Those broken down ghettos we erroneously call "the black community" died a long time ago. Time to move on.
care about this cooked community? When Black men and black women are constantly at war with each other, it’s better to mind your own business and focus ln yourself and the people in your life who are important. why help the community when they don’t even wanna help themselves
That's what being terminally online does to people. They take posts like this claiming that it's gospel instead of just going outside to touch grass and see what's actually going on around them.
Knight Talk is right, there are different ways of gold digging. If you only attract gold diggers when it comes to black women, that's all you're attracting when it comes to anyone else. And that should let you know that the problem lies with you. Most black women do not act like what's presented on social media. They're getting their degrees and license in various fields. They go to church and start their own businesses and some are buying homes. Meanwhile all black women have to battle a stigma that don't belong to them.
How is worse for BW than BM when you admit both groups have to constantly fight stereotypes that really don't represent who the majority of us are? 83% of successful athletes and celebrity BM date and marry BW yet vidoes like this trend every draft year.
Because the marriage statistics are pointless quoting, because the marriage rates are abysmally low. 70% of black women are unmarried, whereas 48% is the national average.
Because people are just chattin this is all just content. Nobody wants too see the positive aspect a majority of bW BM date each other. Just because you grew up in the suburbs with 1% BW BM doesn’t mean BM AND BW don’t date each other don’t date each other
How much black women are at these universities which these top athletes tend to go to, usually you'll date from the environment your in most of the time
I'm a black woman. My entire family dates/marries interracial because we are totally mixed racially from the Caribbean. To me it's normal and not strange. I assumed it because the WW (compared to most American BW) mind their business. I barely notice they exist except when they are supporting their man. They really go hard supporting men. I do the same. But I was raised by a WM so... 😂
You not black if your family is mixed and on top of that when these topics get brought up we talking about black Americans we know you Caribbeans are the complete opposite
If u are worrying about who someone is with or dating it might be time to look in the mirror because as a grown ass man I don't care who these athletes are dating or anyone else for that matter .
First of all, people can date whoever they please. But I think black men see dating a WW as an accomplishment, being with a WW makes them feel more socially acceptable.. or they just want to have kids with "nice hair"😒 Honestly, WW are just better at pretending. I saw a thread where WW women were literally laughing at how BM see them as exotic... making jokes about how easy it is to manipulate BM cuz they think WW are trophies😅 It's crazy.
I saw that &was like good for the simp black dudes that thinks he one upping black women cuz really the white chick's showing the world how simple it is to con/ride on the common black dude in his already defeated/delated ego.all the white chick gotta say is "my that's the biggest ego"i can tear down right down to the pockets.Thank you white/other chick's for taking that sour apple off the tree so I can pick the ripe ones for myself.Final sales only -no return/exchange policies enforced effective immediately and forever.
Only women care about what women think. Women gossip and create drama because they cannot affect the actual power hierarchy. As a black male all I'm focused on is true power: finance defense technology, energy. Based on my time in college in New England, it seems like enough of us BM are entering these fields in the 2020s for true change to happen by 2040. That's all that matters. Women will change their tune once that does because they are reactionary. Marie Curie is very rare tbf. Most are just followers. ADOS BM have fallen behind. The immigrants and children of immigrants will represent black manhood moving forward. Not the jailbirds with daddy issues.
I don’t know what black men or white women you’re talking about, and while I’m sure they exist, I’d be willing to bet they’re few and far between. Pushing the idea that most interracial relationships aren’t genuine and pure is poison for society. People just love to spout that crap. Hearing that my husband is in “the sunken place” and will come to his senses, or that I’m using him for mixed kids or I have a fetish is so disrespectful. Or even that they go for white women because we let them get away with more. People need to stop overanalyzing any relationship but their own and mind their business. This narrative is causing so many problems that don’t even exist outside of a very very small minority without the push for divisiveness influencing people. Cant people just see each other as people and love them for reasons that aren’t malicious? At the very least, people should be giving the benefit of the doubt rather than making assumptions based on the worst case scenario.
@@faithwdeng You're obviously living in a fairytale. It is not this or any other narrative that is causing problems or divisiveness... have you forgotten our history?🤔 Here, in the real world, MOST relationships overall aren't base off genuine love... Be it homosexual, heterosexual, interracial or whatever💯 That's why finding true/genuine love is glorified and fantasized... because it is RARE! People date, settle & choose partners for different reasons. I'm happy you've found a pure connection... but your reality isn't everyone's. You say "At the very least, people should be giving the benefit of the doubt rather than making assumptions".... well, at the very least, the history shared between our races should warrant caution for US. Would you give a lion the benefit of the doubt and assume it won't kill you??😅 The last time we gave your people the benefit of the doubt, we were shackled for centuries. We can marry, share jokes and offspring, pretend as if nothing happened... but deep within ourselves, we remember and we know; we are all human but WE ARE NOT the same and neither are our human experiences. But still, we all have a right to love whoever we choose✍💯
Successful black men dating white women has been going on like forever! I grew up in the 1970's and back then all the clean cut black guys had white gf's, and the thugs had the black girls. I was clean cut BUT always dated black girls but man it was rough, they were just too argumentative and difficult - but I really wanted a black girl - and ended up dating, marrying, and having children with a beautiful African girl, an absolute joy to be around. So yeah this has been going on like forever!
People don’t talk about this enough…. Just like a lot of Asian women worship white men…a lot of black men even in Africa worship white women. Simple as that.
Dating outside of your race isn't a sin or mockery towards your own race. Let people say what they want because there will always be jealousy and stigmas no matter where you go. Just ignore them and keep on moving.
3:55 I’m not no D1 athlete but I dated a good amount of black and white women. He is not lying, white women at least the ones I was with never asked me for no cash , asked for me to get their hair or nails done or complained about places I would take them. White women are definitely way more chill than black women based off my personal experiences. They will legit find comfort in the most simple activities and it feels genuine to men so I think that’s why
black women tend to be less submissive, and I don't know if I've ever seen a black women capable of being dainty or vulnerable in my experience. Men don't want domineering women.
@@TheJinchuuriki63 why are there submissive and dominant roles and not just 2 people in love and respecting each other? super weird lol. especially since most men cannot pay 100% bills. stop it.
Everyone saying let everyone marry who they want and then when they do marry you make fun of the kids for being mixed. I have a black father and a white mother and my entire childhood anytime I was around black kids they were relentless. Now they all want to swirl, it’s just hilarious to me. Black people are so bipolar on everything
You were around black kids they were relentless, i'm truly sorry I wouldn't mind if you dated white girls or have a White mother. I was raised by a Black mother and she's aggressive and very angry all the time and bitchy but i hope every parent isn't bad.
1. Visible hand prints on the GYATT 2. You can pull their hair without the weave falling out 3. You can guarantee they're not related to you 4. It's a numbers game. When you're successful like that, you can have your pick of women from around the country, and there are more white women than black women in the country.
The thing to look at is longevity, I'm from London and inter racial relationships have been going on for at least 60+ . So i should be seeing old wrinkly inter racial couples still together, but i don't. if you look at old married couples that have been together for many many years I've noticed that the vast majority of these couples are same race- black and black or white and white.
Man all of the women are the same ya'll all are the same 100% I have had all of them they are no different black and white and Hispanic and it doesn't matter.
I'm not on either side but your comment makes no sense. Being a problem would be the reason why you keep being brought up. Problems are supposed to be brought up. That's how we get to solutions.
Exactly. Now they’re pretending black women care about something in a video that there are no black women in. The creator of this video is a black man and so is the person in the video he’s reacting to….literally no black women present, just creating delusions in their minds about us at this point 😂
that's exactly what it is! Most of those BM just find WW to be more attractive and/or desirable..and I wish more BM would just be honest about that and just say that's what it is, instead of using BW as an excuse to justify why they're with WW! There is no justification, men like what they like and it's okay to find another race attractive! What's not okay is trying to throw BW under the bus and make BW the scapegoat ((with negative characteristics)) as an excuse to date WW when the truth of the matter is, WW are the women they already wanted anyway which again is cool, but just like leave BW out it!
@@BluEx22329 u must ain’t see the last man who got killed by his white girlfriend 🥴 but sure no white women that deal with black men are argumentative 😂
Are you all ever gonna admit yall faults? On how you all treat us? Like yall don't want us when we building while ww will? Asian and Hispanic women play the long game, bw want you when you got shit, but never wanted us when we was lame or not on street shit? Be real lady.
@@WaynesWorld12You wasting your time bro. They will never listen even if it’s for their own good. She’s knows what’s being said about how they act is the truth and everyone else does also. Ain’t no man in his right mind wants to deal with a unpleasant difficult woman.
Why does it matter? My mom is black and only dates and marries white men. What the heck does it really matter. Why do gay guys only date men??? Hello it’s a preference. That’s why any one dates who they date for the most part.
I've only ever had my nails done once and it wasn't my idea. I've just always done them myself. A lot of younger white women getting nails done today but it's definitely at another level with some BW - on social media though, an image being pushed.
No they don’t and they don’t expect for you to pay for it if they do. I literally gave a white girl 30 dollars for lunch because she was struggling she said thank you babe this will last me for 3 days. While a black woman would call me broke. It’s just reality they constantly begging and are flat out rude and everyone knows it
I do my own, and so do most of the white women I know. One of my best friends learned to do her own acrylics at home and just orders the stuff for it online. I’m even learning to do all the different kinds of braids so when my (mixed) daughter is old enough to want them I’m good at them already. My husband isn’t gonna be paying hundreds for her to get her hair done 😂 I don’t pay for any cosmetic expenses except for a few makeup things and skincare/hair stuff. Learning to do everything yourself is so much cheaper that it makes up for how time consuming the learning process is. My husband even wants me to learn to cut his hair so he doesn’t have to bother trying to find a good barber once we move again. He actually said that me being low maintenance with that stuff was a small factor in him considering marriage. People don’t want a liability in the form of service obsession 🤷🏻♀️
I really don't understand why guys constantly complaining about the toxic behaviors of the women they date. Look around. Where are you picking these girls up at? Clubs? That's city girl culture and city girl behavior. The women who are wife material, of every race, tend to be found in more rural areas. But alot of them tend to only leave once for college and maybe some travel. Then they go back to contribute to their communities and take care of their parents
u make no one angry.. get down from that horse. ww wear their own texture of hair, that's why it looks natural and men can't tell that they have extensions. but you wear other women's texture of hair, and it looks fake as fuk. u're wearing my indian texture of hair, and ww texture and color of hair
Black Women are the strongest smartest and easily the most beautiful thing walking this earth. The real one love you queens and dont worry about the goofys
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We appreciate this comment because it's getting out a hand, and the sad part all of this mostly comes from BM just feeding into the stereotypes. Ratchet and trashy or entitled comes in all races
Thank you. Finally a black man who is standing up for black women. We are tired of being society’s punching bag. I’m just tired of being told that I have to give 110% in everything from relationships to careers to prove that I’m worthy. It’s exhausting.
@@phyliciasadler9596 alot of you ndont deserve fr anyone bto try to tolerate/justify your rep, you do this to yoiurselves, that's not giving 100 ppercent expectations, you're supposed to be doing tht fr yourselves/family, many bw have been in the News fr being corruot/foolish such as the former mayor of Shitcago/fani willis, that's a whole lot of bw in jobs they shouldnt hve
Speaking from a put together black woman perspective. It's very hard. Every time I talk to a dude, I have to explain that I like taking care of myself, but I'm tripping if he do. I have to explain that I actually have a career and not solely going to be focused on him and all the antics (keying cars, fighting) Etc. it's annoying but that's what we gotta do to now to show we different
From my own experience, college had a much higher percentage of white women in college than black women. So it would be more probable for those D1 athlete to access a higher percentage of white women. I am not sure if the percentage is more even nowadays. But the other side is also true. When the percentage of black college men is much less than white men , I believe they stick out and if you add the fact they are D1 athlete , the competition would be fierce. Now as far as stigma, we all deal with it, but I will say those reality shows that people watch like " the family Chantel" don't help.
The black women who refuse to address the 187 lb disparity cannot come on here and say they are “competing” and even in these circles as they should be.
The 🦝's, tethers, divesters, passport bros, and swirlers are deep in this comment section😂 I was gonna say something pro black and empowring. But I can clearly see that this aint the place for that. But I will say that ive always thought something is seriously odd about this. Kat Williams basically said what a lot of us were already thinkig. Like the last 6 years, it's been super obvious. That something is definitely going on. These past few sports drafts were looking like a scene from "get out"......part 2😅 The optics are crazy, you gotta admit it. Whole black family in the deep south, straight from the hood. Then you have a lilly whyte girl holding the athletes hand lol! These aint even the off whyte type of whyte women. They be whyte whyte, like viking whyte. It's always some random unknown snow bunny too. I don't care how whyte washed or divested you are. You got to find something odd about this. Maybe it has something to do with their low birth rates?(runs away before I get attacked). ✊️
I’m sure some of those D1 athletes haven’t dated black women, they heard something and just parroted it. It’s a status game and also trying to upgrade your children’s lives. If they are mixed they have a higher ceiling.
@@hashbrown4278 Yeah, I'm sure most of it does comes from experience but there are some that didn't experience it. some black man like dating white women for reasons they don't feel comfortable sharing, so they default to this.
Kevin Samuels had statistics that black men actually become MORE race loyal the more established and financial they become. People just focus on a few high profile relationships.
Lots of college educated couples met in college, and if the women at the school you attend are mostly one race, you’re very likely to marry one of them.
I like who likes me, white women always approached me respectfully and romantically and so i ended up with a lovely white lady who treats me like a king so i treat her like a queen.
I’m willing to bet that most black athletes who are married are married to Black woman, so I’m believe it’s safe to say that most are also dating Black woman-except if you listen to social media and the media in general.
I’m Asian married to a wealthy white man he’s good to me. He pays all the bills and is happy too. I work as a nurse and I pay my own bills. I don’t have him pay my hair, nails, or gas. Although he does offer to pay and I won’t say no. It’s been 17 years and marriage has been amazing. ❤
It's not all of us. And I know the reasons these men gave are valid. But sometimes society forgets the struggles of Black women. They have had the unfortunate challenge of keeping up in a European standard of beauty. Maybe Black men have to go back in time and see where they might have forgotten to reassure the Black woman that she is beautiful just the way she is. They weren't born needing wigs and nails and bleaching cream. And let's try to remember that Black women didn't choose to become single mothers and be left alone. Black women have their issues yes but Black men carry their share of blame as well. Sometimes the aggression is left over anger generations back.
I think Dr Umar Johnson said it best...... "A white woman will stand beside her man through thick and thin through his struggles until he can get on his feet, a black woman wouldn't necessarily do that." Because the black woman wants her man to already be prepared and ready to go..
I’ma say this off rip without watching, he might touch on this he might not. A lotta these athletes date who’s around them. The top schools at the high school and collegiate level are flooded with white people- not just women. Then at the next level, economic status has a lot to do with the girls who have access to these athletes. Just like celebrities dating celebs, some times it’s a matter of sample size and proximity. For every 100 white women around these athletes that share mutual attraction, there might be 5 black women.
I work with a man who has a child with a white woman and usually only has dated white women and he said its because of the personality and attitudes that black women have. That said, he is seeing a black girl now but she is more laid back and respect him as a leader vs wanting to be the one in control and questioning everything along the way. Just what he told me. I've seen white women in my life be like what he explained he didn't like in black women so I think it may be more of a where we are from thing vs a race thing.
At the end of the day, it’s no one else’s business, who people decide to be with, it’s no one’s business to justify why or why they shouldn’t be together - Each to their own For those who take it upon themselves to encroach on other’s personal lives, are usually opportunists finding pitiful excuses to justify their objections If you fit in this category, take a long hard look at yourself and be truthful about everything, you’ll find many flaws and a lot of greed behind your motives The rest of us are in our own lanes we call life, enjoying what we are creating and who we are creating it with - We ain’t got time to set our sights where they shouldn’t be!
I think it shows a lot. It's not that they're being racist and they're specifically choosing white over black. I think they're looking for a serious committed partner as an equal. Someone who won't see dollar signs. I'm not saying all of course there are exceptions to all of this on both sides. In general I feel like if this upset you as a black woman you should just focus on your value and elevating yourself. Doing those things will bring you a quality man because that is what you deserve. I don't understand why there will be so much hate for white women because they're married to a black man. The only explanation is jealousy. Is there another explanation why black women get so upset saying a successful black man with a white woman? And the funny thing is white women don't get upset seeing a white man with a black woman. It is only one-sided racism, jealousy and bigotry. Why not focus on skin color and focus on the person themselves. By you saying you'll only date your race you might be limiting yourself or missing out on the love of your life. The end of the day we all bleed we have the same insides all that should matter is the person, their heart and their devotion or dedication to you.
But what black woman is talking about this? The creator of this video is a man, and so is the person in the video he’s reacting to. Not sure how or why people think black women care or are even thinking about this, but anything to make you feel better about yourself I guess…. lol pretending black women are mad at something in a video that they aren’t even in. You guys are starting to look crazy at this point 😂
Oh, and as a black woman who has dated successful white men in the past, white women DEFINITELY have a problem with it. Just like when black female celebrities date white men and get called slurs by white women. I guess jealousy isn’t so one sided, but your perspective is and I’m sure I can figure why….
lol at pretending black women care about something in a video that there are no black women in. The creator of this video is a black man and so is the person in the video he’s reacting to….you guys okay? I’m getting worried 😂
@@MsDesiree39 the point wasn’t how many date successful WM, the point was that they face racism, and they do. But that’s not what you’re focused on. You’re preoccupied with and dedicated to speaking negatively on BW. So you’re here siding with this WW, right alongside her in the comments talking down on BW. I’m pretty sure you’re black yourself. I’ll leave you to it. Enjoy your night
Why yall keep asking this question? We DONT CARE! WE NOT ASKING THE QUESTIONS, U R for click bate. If we really cared, we would speak on it. Please stop asking the same damn question. We know why, and we are fine with their choice!
I've said something related to topics like this (I'm no athlete), but never had much luck with black women. I'm not nerdy, but also don't come off as "thug type." Maybe my interest in certain things that's not popular in black culture. Just learned to accept it as I got older, and been with my fiancé that's not a BW. It is what it is. At the end of the day, people should date whoever the f**k they want.
The specific African country I’m from is still pretty homogeneous, and I think that’s something beautiful personally, especially in a world that glorifies mixing races.
I understand you say it’s a stigma it is but from the perspective of black men who date black women a lot we will start to group them together like when they say we black men ain’t shit
It goes way deeper than appearance there’s a lot of white women who have some baggage to unpack and that are toxic just like black women do too hell all races have toxicity within them it’s just about finding your woman you choose to have that is fit for you and keep your mind at ease.
Bruh that's racist as hell, not every black woman is ratchet. Would rather have Alicia keys or Beyonce on my arm than Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Anniston
He never mentions all white women either, probably because he never mentions them at all. Videos like this ONLY focus on black women, but I don’t expect anyone to see a problem with it…
