Just the couple of minutes! Just explaining yourself. And who you are and who's you are. Just listening. It would be refreshing just to talk. To someone like you. I would never get tired of talking with you. God, Business, Life, Outings, etc. I would feel comfortable around you. I would be drawn to how you carry yourself! You sound very smart and intelligent. Take care!
Jasmine, I totally understand where you are coming from and I must say I didn't look at it the way you explained it, and what you said is justified., but my experience is a little less simplified than what you explained. When I'm out I only speak to black women by saying hello, nothing more, I at least expect a hello back but what I usually get is silence or mean mugging. I get it, a woman should be concerned about her safety and truth be known there are a lot of guys out there with bad intentions but I'm only trying to speak to my black sisters and if she doesn't return my salutation I just keep walking and I don't get violent because she doesn't speak, because I have accepted the fact that most black women think we are trying to come on to them, so I just move on and only speak to the ones that appear to be friendly to my greetings. Thank you for the insight, this has allowed my perspective to be widen and has made me wiser. Great video❤
@reginaldgreen9753 Hi Reginald 🙂. I completely understand. Unfortunately, men will encounter this. Many times, people are going through things in their personal life, and it's showing on their face and body language. I think we have to pray for them and ignore them when we can. I have had Black men roll their eyes at me in public places as well. And I do not know them! Try to think about the positive experiences that you have had, even if it has only been a few🙂. Thank you for sharing with me! God bless you ❤🙏🏽
Also, Reginald, I'm praying for you guys on this channel. I know this world is tough out here. So many people are hurting... Some people just want to say hello or have someone greet them with a smile. I completely understand.
@jparker19822009 Hi! Yes, I definitely think people just want to say hello and want others to be polite to them. I totally understand, and this is different.
Jasmine the positive examples you gave from DMV were a) - You approaching the men and asking for help directions etc b) - Were totally platonic (non sexual) examples/interactions Compared to the negative examples you gave from Florida where the men approached you presumably to get your number get a date etc please compare like with like the two types of interactions are not the same Could it be that your true desire (even subconsciously) is to remove the sexual component out of male female interactions?
@Martin-bj8eq Hello, I like this statement. To me, the energy and look of some of the Black men in Florida could possibly make a woman hesitate to approach with a question or directions. I first observe the man before I approach and ask a question or ask for help. I compared the two because most of the time, I am too nervous to approach a Black man for help in Florida. I hope you understand 🙂
Most people can't Comprehend Discernment always protect yourself & energy. If your Spirit picks things up stick with your gifts. You're making great videos 👍
O.k, but how do you explain the harsh rejection, where there are plenty of people around, like nightclubs, festivals, or even singles events? Some women respond to the aggressive approach, or if he's attractive.
@philipbell5448 The women that I have known to like men being aggressive in their approach are usually: fatherless/grew up with a single mom or having a bad relationship with their father. Grew up in foster care or an unfortunate living situation in her youth. And ect. There is always more to the story. But a woman who knows her value does not want that type of approach, even if he's attractive.
@@jasminedeshawna9272 Ms.Jasmine, A big red flag for me. Is a woman who appears to need Multiple Men/ Women To validate her. And like you said in previous videos. I have learned to let God be my Validator and Vindicator. I have been in a crowd . I have learned to be whole and content being by myself! I have Friends and Family. I just don't sweat myself or anybody. That's my balance. Leaning into God when things are challenging! Having serious talks with God. Lord do you really care? You know my situation. Talk to me anytime and anywhere! I'm not that busy. I can't stop and listen to you! That's the way I live. My hand is open. GOD puts into it want he wants me to have. The opposite is also true!
