Why do Couples Fall Out of Love After Some Time?

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Sadhguru answers a question about why even the most intense love affair seems to go sour after some time.
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@nilakshisood1368 5 лет назад

"you are using the other person as a key to unlock an experience within you.. why do you need a key when there is no lock" 👏 wow

@happylindsay4475 5 лет назад

Sadhguru dropped the mic on this one! Lol I am adopting him as my Grandpa!! :)

@twodogzdogue8710 5 лет назад

@@happylindsay4475 haha, I'm sure he will love to hear that he's your Gramps! He sure looks the part! 🌺🌸💐

@quietdissent5482 5 лет назад

Yeah.. why do you need a key when there is no lock? So lets not love someone instead lets keep on masterbating. mysticism.. mysticism and mysticism! No clear answers.. these answers only makes a person feel better about themselves and feel better about the state they are in.

@kaylaholmes1018 4 года назад

That is SO good

@WhiteMetal_ 4 года назад

@@quietdissent5482 she didn't mean that. Everyone doesn't shake his/her hands whole night like u.

@rareone5041 4 года назад

When your intentions are pure you don’t lose anyone, they lose you!

@anndecosta4022 4 года назад

Yes truly agree

@thomasrinya2736 4 года назад

😭😭😭😭😭😭...

@adanjaimes8582 4 года назад

So true, and deep.

@ayushighosh20 3 года назад

This is beautiful.. it's all about intentions..

@aashi_5742 3 года назад

Yeah

@kritidharakathak 3 года назад

"A woman is a fool for love" hit hard!!!

@MsAnnvy 3 года назад

So true

@Oyzatt 3 года назад

Somehow our mind convince us to look at them as source of happiness 🙁

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Owww really

@dorothymalomane1831 3 года назад

You probably are one

@SanctifiedLady 3 года назад

Yep, it’s us not them 😅

@oldschoolman1444 5 лет назад

True happiness comes from within, extracting happiness from others is dependency.

@sundarihema25 5 лет назад

Co-dependancy..

@vinobinto4310 5 лет назад

Nice 👍🏻

@itsmeani21 5 лет назад

In a relationship commitment is necessary from both sides

@wingnutmcspazatron3957 4 года назад

@@sundarihema25 If both partners rely on eachother, then yes. But in a personal situation just looking at yourself and your actions, then it's your own dependency.

@triptisingh6649 3 года назад

I don't want to get married

@DesipetsoIndia 4 года назад

what he said is absolutely correct "i love you " is like a mantra nowadays to get temporary love from a person in order to forget their past relationship, to get emotional or financial support or rather to get physical relationship.

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

True...sad but true!!

@goldyk80 2 года назад

So true all temporary

@kevinpeasetennisprofession4905 5 лет назад

This guy is my guide in life! Everything he says makes sense on a logical level. Thank creation for him.

@warrior7478 5 лет назад

Yes...I m agree with u...

@codewizard5327 4 года назад

Then, please have some respective words for him. Don't call him "this man." C'mon, an Enlightened master deserves little more respect.

@kevin080592 4 года назад

me too.. I have only started months ago and boy I don't have the reason to feel depress anymore... he changed the way on how I think

@horus-rz2sj 4 года назад

I agree with you sir. Why this idea of life is not worldwide. I truly believe yoga and meditation is the key to saving our mother earth.

@horus-rz2sj 4 года назад

@@kevin080592me too sir

@rajapuramsunny3630 5 лет назад

He means to say love yourself before you love someone .

@johnlangston5244 5 лет назад

No. He said your perception and sensation of Love is internal. It is derived only from you and not from the person you attach the sweetness of emotion to. He made the great point by calling "someone else" the key and asking "Why use a key, when there is no lock?" You can be in Love every day of your life and no be attached to anyone.

@gopichintala4326 5 лет назад

Become Love itself.. so you will be loving towards everything ❤️

@lionzDen23 5 лет назад

He is saying love comes from you

@davidscott5266 5 лет назад

No he didn't say that

@studypurpose7804 5 лет назад

It's a chemical process happens within u.. why u expect others to stimulate ? This is what he is trying to convey..!

@SuryaPrakash-tx5su 5 лет назад

What sadghuru said was an absolutely correct. Bcz most of us are letting other people to control your emotions. I like The one quote he said "The source of all problems are within you, and their solutions are also within you"

@medhadayal8439 5 лет назад

Wonderful . .

@twodogzdogue8710 5 лет назад

'their solutions are also within you' - I don't understand what Sadhguru is explaining here. Can anyone please explain? Thank you 💐

@nehastoilet9797 5 лет назад

@@twodogzdogue8710 Can U read " Bhagavan Ramana Maharshi's book - "Who Am I"

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

That s true...

@Yeah536 3 года назад

@@twodogzdogue8710 I think it means that if you are looking for other people to be the solution to Your hapiness, you dont have to because the solution to your hapiness is already inside of you. You just have to focus on love and having happy thoughts within yourself. You have to be a good person as much as you can, and love and help people, and it will feed your soul with positivity, and then you will be able to share that with someone that you have a love connection with, and if it doesnt work out, it will be ok, because you loves that person with no expectations, and you will be hurt, but satisfied that you tried to share your love with that person without expectations for them to help you feel happy in your life, because the hapiness is already inside your soul.

@mzbernardful 3 года назад

Easily said than done. When you are in a love relationship, your happiness depends on each other. One person has the ability to hurt the other regardless of how much inner happiness you have. It can be stressful. Don't fool yourself. You may have all the inner happiness but when you fall in love, you commit to the other person. If it doesn't workout you get hurt and will remain hurt until you heal. Of course everyone heals with time. And by the way, couples fall out of love not because they lacked inner happiness. Its simply because they were not meant to be. The signs were there but they simply ignored them and eventually ended up losing their inner happiness they had from the beginning. Thank me later

@nele8554 2 года назад

Thank u.I can totally relate with it.

@dharminacharya 2 года назад

true 100%

@malemelanaphtali6631 2 года назад

Best comment

@oh9622 2 года назад

True ♥️

@SheriCheri94 2 года назад

All of this is true plus what he said which makes the human condition and even further conundrum.

@LL-en4xb 5 лет назад

“...Wake up in the morning; you are overflowing with joy, love and exuberance by yourself” - Sadhguru. Amazing how he simplifies the true things we all know but sometimes forget.

@jmkhughes 4 года назад

When the world tells us to look for answers outside of ourselves, Sadghuru tells us to look within. Thank you, these words of wisdom are life changing.

@dhavalskyhawk Год назад

That is very true. The person who has knowledge about life; even instant question, he doesn't even take time to think; he just make every answer so simple to understand.

@forgivness 4 года назад

He is so confident, but soooooo humble. TRUE YOGI💚

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Inspiring!!

@simiroy9304 4 года назад

When you do something for someone and don't expect anything frm tht particular person called happiness

@DesipetsoIndia 4 года назад

and its called true love

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Yes... maybe agree wth this!!

@touheed4492 3 года назад

Agree 👍🏻

@SanctifiedLady 3 года назад

and freedom ♥️

@SanctifiedLady 3 года назад

Things that are given freely usually adds no conditions, no stress, no pressure, requires no action

@shivakumarv7626 5 лет назад

My experience of love is understanding each other makes love possible. Chemistry of couple matures with time.

@kantavekaria7085 3 года назад

There is no such thing as human unconditional love..we all want something from each other. Even parents expect things from their children..🙏🏽

@RichardWilliamDamien 2 года назад

Parents expect from children that they can carry themselves without their help. They unconsciously want them to love themselves. Maybe that in reality we all expect that people love themselves. Love is God. "God only loves himself"

@theshepherdsflame6017 2 года назад

With children, the relationship is a bit more complex because we are largely responsible for how they turn out. They are a product of our work. With children (young or grown) many of us parents will continue to love them and take care of them when they fall short because we've invested so much care and interest in watching them grow and learn things. Sometimes this is healthy and showing true love for them, but other times the child takes advantage of us, especially when they become adults. Also, a lot of parents create an environment of dependancy where children never learn independent skills and thus don't really know how to survive as adults. Some parents like keeping their children infantile, while others get super annoyed when it was actually the parents own doing. Raising children is much longer and the care is more involved on all levels than a romantic relationship so it's usually a relationship we are in for the long haul.

@srijalama544 2 года назад

well not in a position to answer but I think parents do really want kids to be happy expecting love and care it’s human nature. Like some parents stick together just because of not to give the kid a sad childhood divorce would give the kid trauma. Women in this world beauty matters a lot but they give up that and bear the child they r happy but they do look at the mirror n sigh at their figure what has gone. Pregnancy and pain sickness they bear it but I saw it’s terrifying. N men grown up in such love and care would have to work for the family the pressure so much to do and handle And after all this we r like it’s my life I will live it my way. But no it’s not all ours we exist cause they threw away theirs.

@maureentheresa4984 Год назад

Agree only unconditional is from animals

@yasminevine Год назад

I think unconditional love is with animals. I love my cat even if he scratches me

@billmyers991 5 лет назад

The Adventures of Shankaran Pillai......Coming soon to a theatre near you

@akshaytelang3102 5 лет назад

hahahaha

@vidur7920 5 лет назад

Wise man

@sandeshps5599 5 лет назад

ha ha\

@twodogzdogue8710 5 лет назад

Who is he?

@DRIVECLUBistimelessPS4 4 года назад

they surely need to make a movie out of these stories!! :-D

@priyanksharma1124 5 лет назад

Sadhguru's laugh is contagious.

@scientistisro2457 5 лет назад

Yeah 😊

@hobo6676 5 лет назад

Yes, ugly.

@hobo6676 5 лет назад

I to find it ugly and contagious.

@TheNishad 5 лет назад

Because he is a virgo man

@sassy_s349 5 лет назад

@@hobo6676 The ONLY UGLY thing is YOUR COMMENT ND YOUR SAD LIFE.

@josephb.1770 5 лет назад

'What you have within you, reflect on your way' this is powerful

@vanixvanpaul315 5 лет назад

Nice

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Nice one!!

@kunalkishore6840 5 лет назад

I attended this event. IIT Bombay was one of the best audiences, they asked some really cool questions. I hope Isha Team uploads the full video of this session as well.

@kartikg.kartikg 5 лет назад

When & Where is His next program nearby Mumbai...???

@karanpatil6542 5 лет назад

Kartik G. Not soon bro, I attended the event too (I live in Mumbai), he was magical! I’m planning to go to Isha centre Coimbatore next year, will stay there! Maybe you can try the same and attend his personal events in Coimbatore itself.

@preetichhabra1990 5 лет назад

@@kartikg.kartikg P

@twodogzdogue8710 5 лет назад

@@karanpatil6542 does it cost very much to go to the ashram to live for a season or can you work there?

@karanpatil6542 5 лет назад

Col Jackson you can volunteer over there, and they provide you basic amenities for living like food twice a day and a small cottage or bunk beds. If you just want to explore and have some deep pockets you can book yourself a cottage to a deluxe room. Everything is on their website.

@amitk.9388 4 года назад

"I love you" is just a mantra to fulfill needs 👌😢

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Mostly physical needs they want😢

@lordwarrenhastings2201 3 года назад

Yes

@prasannau3733 4 года назад

INDIA needs u man... Especially our so called young generation! Thank you for being in INDIA unlike any other so called Gurus who just bother about foreign nations rather mother nation INDIA

@dipeshchawan2581 4 года назад

He is such a calm person.really m trying to be like him atleast 5 percent so I can be happy always.

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Yeahh he is inspiring...

@linettesuecrall3152 5 лет назад

Emotional Vampires : draining the JoY and Happiness out of other people; destroying relationships

@ironically_iconic9848 3 года назад

My issue is that I can happy by myself, but whenever relationships (from partners, parents, friends, etc.) I start to have doubt. My current boyfriend is absolutely amazing I love him with all my heart. Although with many relationships I feel though that I can overly sensitive and self deprecating, by myself I feel completely okay. And I feel like I can be toxic because I’m somewhat pessimistic. And me being over sensitive I fear will/has caused my boyfriend to think that’s he is the issue, when really it’s just me (and tbh my family)

@katemustermann2765 3 года назад

Same with me 😢😭

@Nicolegin 2 года назад

Did u heal? Going through the same

@stormmaker7590 3 года назад

Happiness or misery...Source should be within you...One should not make someone else source of his own happiness...This is the key thing which doesn't make a genuine relationship burdening in long run...n also helps to easily move on from a toxic relationship...Such a great lession learnt 🙏🙏🙏

@aestheticanzi 3 года назад

I found his video at such a point in my life when i m totally heartbroken with my life lonely depress and anxious...i really needed someone to guide me and advise me. It gives me teally relief by hearing him...i m getting the meaning of life

@theresadeo649 3 года назад

Remember that anxiety and depression are manifestations of our own thoughts. We focus on preempting situations that don't really exist and work so hard mentally to control these non existing experiences. Breathe, meditation,listen to binural beats and just be. Allow yourself to accept the situation and know that challenges are lessons that come with wisdom and experience. Hold on. I am so proud of you for working on your personal growth.

@naomiloriana1367 3 года назад

Text and inbox the great personality that helped me get my ex back

@naomiloriana1367 3 года назад

+ 2 3 4 8 1 5 9 1 5 8 9 1 5 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

@nitamurphy966 5 лет назад

He Always Bring So Much Light To My Understanding. What A Awesome Human.

@ScarlettBrescia 5 лет назад

I love you man , I watch your videos every night , you’ve taught me a lot about myself. Thank you for being the message I needed to hear I’m thankful for your wisdom.

@chipmunk3845 4 года назад

The joy is inside of me!!!Joy is free,it doesn't need a lock or key

@rosezful5241 5 лет назад

Watching from Canada. Moose! LOL You are wise and funny too! Yes, true freedom comes from inside, not from living in Canada. Love your videos. Thank you.

@AL_FARID_23 4 года назад

Mélanie Fréchette clair comme dleau de roche

@rassulzamel6876 3 года назад

Watching from Canada,the prairie ❤️I am feeling peace ✌️ with this guru

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Haha yeah! Many people dreaming to live in canada. Many people also dreaming to visit here in maldives!

@SanctifiedLady 3 года назад

It’s an ongoing joke that when everything goes wrong or not as you want it to....🙃🙂 move to Canada The reality is where ever you go there you are 🤭 so stay away from the Moose! 🤷🏽‍♀️😜

@jennk1454 3 года назад

Moose?

@Foxie635 5 лет назад

Marriage is first lust and selfishness. Maybe to stop loneliness or to have kids. Later it’s friendship and compromise.

@LL-en4xb 5 лет назад

Luv1234, I haven’t heard it put that way before. Good observation, because it can still work :)

@JuniperTreeee 5 лет назад

agree

@happyworld9164 5 лет назад

Luv1234 ... true ... compromise daily

@nicholdsouza6482 5 лет назад

So right..

@MoreLifePoetry 5 лет назад

Wow!!! I love this observation

@jameskuttyjoseph656 5 лет назад

The source of joy is within you. Yes, the other may not be the same as we want, not even a single day...without the other, we can remain ecstatic.

@harinath1995 4 года назад

Don't extract happiness from other person. 🙏🏻♥️

@jaylanjones1735 5 лет назад

I'm so bless to run across your video u are tha truth u are tha best love may tha most high bless u in so many ways

@manupinu210 5 лет назад

Tnx sadguru ji..it was very touching and cleared the concept of mind that some thing is out there..

@janicealduesa783 4 года назад

Thanks for encouraging message its truly help me...thank you and more blessing☺

@karthiknarayan8 5 лет назад

This answer is So empowering. Beautiful

@Tomara710 Год назад

True love is very rare .. that's why their stories are remembered and celebrated through time .

@ramakrishnaprasad9928 5 лет назад

Really admired after watching your videos, gives so much positive and energy to mind

@k80jean09 5 лет назад

I want to see him live! He delivers such powerful and wise words

@DrDineshKumar 5 лет назад

Beautiful explanation of love!

@johnmccallister1818 3 года назад

Love is a choice you make, regardless of the feelings that may or may not be present. How you treat another person, how you respond to them, what you say or don't say...these should not be dictated by your emotions or feelings. Feelings and emotions change and fluctuate, and sometimes are influenced by flawed perceptions, and therefore, are a not an accurate gauge to base decisions on.

@ZorbaPress 5 лет назад

Mr. Sadhguru, this video is 7'15'' of deep wisdom and pure delight. Thank you very much.

@naveedaazhar8524 2 года назад

This is hundred percent true. Depending on other person makes us miserable. Love is never in the air it's always a feeling and an emotion within us.

@jmk2530 3 года назад

Extracting or sharing- wow! This is awesome information. Joy or misery- the source is within you. Wow. I’m 49- I’m learning this now. Thank you for sharing this wisdom.

@sujapandey752 4 года назад

From now his speech will get rewinded in my mind when i will be talking with my crush

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Its a reminder for you!!

@YouTheReal 5 лет назад

Truly on the spot. Namaskaram Sadhaguru 💐

@MrPranzoi 3 года назад

Thank you for this important lesson. Much needed for me in my current phase of life

@jankijan8004 4 года назад

Every sentence Sadhguru says, is a quote in itself and that too a powerful one!

@bluemoonrising8625 5 лет назад

As a Canadian i have to comment how accurate the end is 😊💓

@vanixvanpaul315 5 лет назад

How can I contact you

@vishwathakkar5822 3 года назад

Hey whT did he say?

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Hehehe

@Victoriakozi 2 года назад

Inspiring as always. Thank you for existing! Thank you for sharing

@bajrangi4694 5 лет назад

The students of IIT BOMBAY , has shown what it means to be intelligent and educated. Keep it up guys.

@saurabhjain7904 5 лет назад

Sadhguru is the best person who comes in my life , thanks shiva because on mahashivratri i saw sadhguru 1st time in my life... 😇

@kavya869009 5 лет назад

It means something.shiva wants u to know him more through sadhguru.blessings to u 🙂

@pupuni123 5 лет назад

It's awesome @sadhguru, how you solve everything in so simple way

@lunarbutterfly1718 5 лет назад

You have opened my eyes thank you sadhguru

@nikithakhatri414 5 лет назад

So beautiful exactly what I want to hear

@pratibhaahirwar7726 5 лет назад

How can he be correct all the time....u r awesome. Sadguruji..

@Truth-Bomb-7 5 лет назад

This is the stuff I have been searching for. Thank you sadhguru

@abhi411k 4 года назад

Thank for this advice guruji... I needed this.

@7rajcan 5 лет назад

Being an Indian living in Canada. All sounds good except "Canada" I met moose but also I met the most beautiful human beings in Canada. I cherish my being here in Canada

@sonxicor4005 5 лет назад

Ommggggg!!!!! Sadguru.....why didn't u enter my life ages back..... love u so much

@sabinapraween5052 5 лет назад

What a realistic thoughts sadguru... ...thank u 😊😊

@juhikhanam3821 4 года назад

Every word said by sadguru in this session is very deep and real.. 👏👏

@Madhuwellness 5 лет назад

Sadhguru you changed my life. I’m yet to believe god and guru, however your sayings are changing my perception of life 😇😇🙏🙏

@roseagaatsz8403 5 лет назад

Sadhguru you’re amazing, love listening to your videos, you are a great teacher and master. ❤️🙏🏻

@abhishek0o7 5 лет назад

*People complain about many things they would wish for later.* --- Barrick , GOW3

@KeepLearningInLife 5 лет назад

Thank you Sadhguruji

@avikatrigun1764 3 года назад

Thanks sadhguru Ji , you have clear my doubts

@erakkovaatainen148 4 года назад

Namaskaram Sadhguru. This is so true. People fall in love to feel happy... no more. I am single forever. Can't enjoy it enough. It just fits my life vision. Freedom.

@gokulyogeshgy 5 лет назад

Your words truely defined how love that exists of sharing emotions is connected! A Love that happens for extraction of something from the partner, can never be called as love.. You are true Guruji!

@rameshperumal6441 5 лет назад

Nice... Pranams

@shashankdhananjaya772 4 года назад

The rational in a relationship is so nicely put... Good one

@omtoolika 3 года назад

He is so much fun & joy to listen to!...just a laughing therapy by himself & that too just free!!🥰 i'm already smiling!🥰 love u Sadhguru-u r such a bundle of joy!💖🙏😍

@masterpt2 4 года назад

Sadhguru you are a gift From India for Indian Nations and for Humanity Worldwide 💐🤗👍We loved you

@kellystev9226 2 года назад

Great msg sir

@Skywalker29 4 года назад

Good listen very interesting makes sense

@ellacilingir2803 5 лет назад

A very wise man, inspirational soul and a really great mentor 🙏🏼

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Yes agree!!

@kavita4689 5 лет назад

Couldn't agree more👍👍bravo Sadhguru xx

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

Bravo!!

@nicholdsouza6482 5 лет назад

So true. Same as my case. Sardarji is asking excellent question...

@swaga2011 5 лет назад

Thanks Professor Sadh. Very insightful

@sarithaprasad1 5 лет назад

Lovely..how beautiful said...why is that so difficult to follow sadhguru..

@Last.Dark.Emperor 5 лет назад

Cas all our lifes we live what sistem and others had teached us,others who dont know nothing else but sistem and survival,when u awoke u start from 0,u dontt know nothing as a child

@vanixvanpaul315 5 лет назад

Nice and warm

@theotherfoot 5 лет назад

I am Canadian, and I approve of this message ;)

@nnrao1836 5 лет назад

Excellent Examples of Explanations by Sadghuru

@Laprintanddesign 2 года назад

So simply said and understood yet so profound.

@ankeshkumawat2052 5 лет назад

PRANAAM SADHGURU

@ruchikatikyani897 5 лет назад

finally i got my answer.Hats off to you sadguru 😊

@chucky1time337 4 года назад

Amazing such wisdom love it

@haroldw.longfellow2908 4 года назад

Sadhguru is a living blessing in this world. I love this guy. His ideas are therapeutic

@paritoshpandey5103 4 года назад

We began to hate ourself when those who love began to criticise us

@ruchigoyal2469 4 года назад

Paritosh Pandey true

@shivakumarv7626 5 лет назад

The source of joy is in within you. Believe me stimulation is needed for the hormone to secert and life to blossom the way it should.

@ranjanaroyme2 4 года назад

Thanks for asking this question 🙂...i find it at the right time in my life...now it's time to execute ✌

@bengaliblush 3 года назад

All young people need to watch this !! So so so true .....

@shrilr3 4 года назад

Joy are misery, the source is within u🔥🔥✨Whoaa😍

@babajamiaco 3 года назад

Shite man, it was like a sledgehammer hitting my head and making things in there to rearrange in a logical and sensible order... And with just one sentence - you're trying to extract joy and happiness from another person whereas it is within yourself... Man, this is brilliant and priceless...

@JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад

So agree!!!