Why do all narcissists behave in such a similar way? It is as if they all operate from the same book or manual. HG Tudor explains why this is and the answer may surprise you.
My Mother was a serious Narcissist. We were not encouraged friends, ‘you have your brother and sisters. You don’t need anyone else’. We were isolated apart from school. No friends so education was a synch. Our careers were mother’s domain. We did as we were told until one by one we escaped - ran away, got into bad marriages where we swapped one narc for another. Even Dad would cause grief for us kids to make himself less of a target for mother’s venom! Mother would turn each of us 7 children against one another making herself our champion. ‘See what I did to stop the others hurting you. Just do as I say and they will be nice. If you are naughty all of you will be punished! Dysfunctional family who all had public or expensive private education. We were indebted for ever! It was all control. But at almost 70 now. I severed all connection with my whole family at mid 30s until the last 18 months when us siblings have all pretty much reunited and can be real brothers and sisters to each other. The parents died and the nightmares stopped. I avoid all altercations and conflict. My Broth’s and Sis’s all do too. Tho my private and emotional relationships were all disastrous. My kids all live very close by and we are very very close and happy. 5 kids and 13 grands. It’s something I never thought could be possible after Mother!!
Thank you, HG. Im grateful for your work beyond measure. Now, it will be collated on the same channel. Brilliant on your part and appreciated by your subscribers.
Your voice reminds me of listening to the Sunday radio show back in the 70’s. I love your show but I do picture you with a black cape slicked back hair and fangs lol. So I prefer spaghetti or steak when it comes to fuel. Another person in my life is a burden if they gave me money I could go get fuel.
If someone is new to narcissism, these are the videos to start with. In my opinion, The Ultras Framework and The 3 Strands of Empathy are also good as a start-up.
Yes they are, I will be adding some videos which are to be used in a introductory sense which people can share to those they think would benefit from them.
Bloodyfantastic! Now we can get down to the nitty gritty of Narcissism and Psychopathy. Bring it on HG, so we can now share our knowledge with the world.
That is actually a very simple question to answer… oh HG, simple for a man with such knowledge and intellect as yourself. I have been following you since 2018 when I became entangled with a narcissist. I hadn’t even heard the word narcissist let alone knew what one was until you educated me, in many ways. I cannot express the gratitude I owe you. You educate others in a way that is simple to understand, giving examples and explaining how and why behaviours are meted out against the victims of those narcissists. Your work is invaluable to so many people and should be shared with all of the emergency services, other public services such as social services, schools colleges and hospitals etc. This world is a much better and safer place with you in it, HG. Sending you love ❤
You are absolutely right. I arrived on HG's channel in August 2023 but before the end of 2022 I was still blind on these topics. Sometimes I asked myself: But what am I doing here, I'm not sure that's the problem? There were times when it seemed like when you want to fit that piece of the puzzle that has a similar shape but is not the right one and you don't realize it until you have completed the image and say: "Oh my God, a piece is missing.". In the end I discovered that it was me. I'm joking. At first I was really sorry to know that they were so sick but then I understood that I had no power even if inside of me I really wanted to have some.
Love the new channel! I am sure you already have the videos, but a playlist for people with family members ensnared by a narcissist would help to find the videos! ❤❤
Great stuff HG. Hoping the algorithm promotes the content of this channel to the top of all searches about narcissism & psychopathy. It's the best information.
Revising what I've learned. Experience is best told by HG Tudor. As a character bender of construct with narcissistic traits, this is a record of many generations within the memory of myself understanding the values family and society has grant. Is never too late to introduce this work to my teens, might draw a poster.
Many thanks for this new chanel Mr Tudor. I’ve learnt so much from the other three chanels and would like to deepen that knowledge. Hoping you might finish the excellent series The Ease of Control some time here.
When a period of one hour you don't poste in your first channel, I came here to listen to you again and again and again... We are so lucky to have two priceless channels with HG ❤️🔥 We are so addicted to your wisdom... Much appreciations dear HG❤️🔥 And from successful platform to another 🔥❤️🔥♥️
I Wish I had Discovered your work a lot sooner. I am sure this New Channel will Widen your Reach . I have several Childhood Friends who are now Benefiting from it. Thankyou HG.❤️🌻
Loving this new channel. While my catty side laps up the TOW & other celebrity analyses, listening to these deep dives into all the facets of narcissistic behaviors is like adding to my mental & emotional armor against falling into another relationship with a narcissist. 1st husband seems to be a lower & 2nd is most likely a mid-range. I'm going to give myself the birthday present of some of HG's services so I can better understand myself and my past partners. I'm happily reconnecting with the people I was isolated from for 35 years. HG's work has helped me regain myself.
Ok - So, the narcissist is created from inheriting the condition from either mom or dad with the added lack of control in their childhood. Does the amount of abuse matter in creating the various levels of narcissism (from low to high)?
In some instances you have the "slow cooker" method where there is a steady exposure to a lack of control environment which is of moderate intensity. In some instances, there might be something which is so very traumatic in itself that it creates the narcissism in that instant, "a flash frying method" to continue the cooking analogy.
HG, I have this rule, for every channel subscribed I delete three other channels, (think how happy and lucky they are). So today I added your new channel and I really like it and I deleted five. Did I do well? My little inner voice tells me yes.: Yes?👍yes👼👏
