@@patienceobongo i think women are not as standard as that. Different people like different things. Nothing is black and white, and you should be ashamed of yourself for conversing without thinking. Shut up, you silly woman.
Probably because I've learned from life experience to not let anyone get close, even if I like you. I also have a very strong dislike for the modern world and the way most people behave/treat others, so I stick to my own, teach my self skills and can stay detached from the influence of negative people
The whole world is fucking crazy. The establishment elite have programmed society so much that we're living among crazies who all think they're normal while in reality it's an asylum.
Okay I thought the sigma male thing was just a meme but this is absolutely spot on with how I feel. To all the other guys who feel this way, I wish all of you the absolute best in life. You’re not alone.
bro no joke people always assume and think i am 24/7 at my room when i am never at home actually those peeps just dont see me because i dont invite any of them
@Predbeau101 90% of modern people are alone and introverted due to modern tech. Stop coping by calling yourself a bs letter from a greek alphabet and get out of your mental cage.
There are some key words in your post that verify you as sigma (to me). I know you don't need my validation but it's one of those "if you know, you know" moments. As I watch these videos I can pause it and go into detail the how's and why's we do these things. I stumbled on this content just a few days ago and it's like I found a road map to understanding myself more thoroughly. As someone who does a lot of self analysis and contemplation, this knowledge has been a revelation.
Sometimes when you live among the ignorance and mediocrity your points of view must be hidden until you find the proper way to explain or proper people group.
Leonidas and his Spartans may have been the descendants of Hercules himself, But modern Sigma ♂️ are the descendants of Socrates himself. Of course, Aristotle had to no doubt wrestle with the philosophy and body of what Socrates had put into Plato's mind.
just found out im a sigma. The great thing about solitude is it is a mindset you take everywhere. When i go to a brewpub for a beer by myself as i always do, I enjoy my time there and get satisfaction from the positive energy around me.
Private life is good for a sigma as a he understands that he is surrounded by people with ill intentions hence hardly trust anyone,hardly expresses emotions as they can be used against him.
It's a shame that many people seem to confuse the sigma male (or trickster/jester archetype) with their own antisocial personality. Being unable to successfully converse with others and telling yourself you're choosing solitude is not the same as genuinely being neurologically different from most others. The so called sigma males have historically been shamans, mystics, hermits and such folk who go around in the world seeking wisdom. One thing that stands out in these people is that they are rare, incredibly rare. So most angsty, antisocial teenagers are just that. Not sigma males.
Spot on! Many people think being "alternative" to the public narrative is Sigma... it absolutely has nothing to do with that! Well done on mentioning this important point
The whole beta alpha dichotomy seen in animals like wolves, doesn't even apply to humans (closest to bonobos). The the content of this channel is objectively stupid.
Before someone made this word up to classify someone's behavior, there were a slew of men, being themselves. That is how you knew the quality of man and woman that you were dealing with. As their behavior and thinking didn't resemble what was a theme for most, elsewhere. Most of what's been said here pretty much goes against who most have aimed to be/be like for so long. If and when you happen to meet people that have no problem being themselves. That healthy type interaction speaks volumes of what you would think would be a space that everyone would operate from. But this isn't so. As most folk tend to copy and paste at will, and often times to their own detriment. At least when you're around someone that is being their complete self (not to be confused with Sigma) your experience is way more sound and fluid. Minus bullshit judgment, bullshit antics and overall bullshit that is pretty much transparent to the degree that it reveals the very things that the person believes they're hiding.
I’m not a lone, I have all the voices in my head here with me… XD On a serious note, I just hate lots of interactions with people. I like being in my own space doing my own thing. I find I’m more focused and productive, plus I always get to focus on my tons of hobbies when I’m not at work.
Seems like too many people are extroverted, annoying, craving social validation, and talking too much about frivolous stuff. This is part of the reason why Sigmas walk alone. We avoid those personality types.
Do you speak for all "sigmas"? Are you the ruler by which "sigmaness" is measured? No. You've described the reason *you* walk alone. "Sigma" is just a worthless, poorly-defined label. You don't own it any more than I do.
Serious question... Do you think of sigma more as a personality type or a philosophical practice? The reason I ask is because I think it has a lot to do with spirituality and understanding of the self. In other words, a philosophical practice. Throughout my life I had classic sigma behaviors but it really poured on when I began serious spiritual awakening and worked through ego death. As soon as you are no longer seeking external validation you naturally become sigma. My theory is that raising your consciousness and awareness, becoming more empathic to your surroundings, you can't help becoming sigma.
Oh, look, a couple self-proclaimed "sigmas" who believe they define the label. It's just a label, and not a good one. You're looking in the wrong place for identity and self-worth.
@@Storytelling35 I watched the video out of curiosity, not a need for personal validation or self-identity. Never heard of "sigma males" before today. Nice try, but no cigar. Are you butt-hurt? I'm sorry, I thought I was dealing with a real "sigma", someone whose ego wouldn't be shattered by such a simple corrective post. Maybe it's time you returned to the shelter and protection of your safe space.
@@Storytelling35 I mean I'm also just here to laugh at the hyped up 14 year olds in the comments. It's really fun, don't act like you've never been on a tard hunt online before.
I love how you get the essence, mindsets, and the vital motivators of the Sigma males and the drawings can paint a real image in what is being said as well, making this a very accurate and great audio/video.
We also don't mind to put our genuine thoughts out here and find any criticism it draws to be entertaining. We are detached to other people's opinions but welcome the opportunity to gain understanding. Discernment is one of our greatest assets. By me posting this it may prove to you that I am not sigma. But that is okay because I respect your opinion even if I do not necessarily agree. I hope you are living your best life. Cheers! 🍻
Number 4 is the absolute truth. I'm in a motel for Christmas, and the fact that I've only seen people this morning when I left for breakfast is so amazing to me.
People can hate sigmas because manipulation and deception does not work on us. I remember having a heated back and forth with someone who was defending their ego against the truth. He lobbed a clever but false insult at me trying to raise the temperature. But instead of getting mad, I laughed!! I laughed because it was funny and I gave him props for such a comment. He was completely taken aback and confused. He hit me with his best insult and I just belly laughed and applauded him for the entertainment value. The onlookers expecting a brawl to break out all laughed with me and that diffused the tension. That guy avoided me like the plague after that but I held no grudge.
Quite true, i don't consider myself a full "sigma" as i do exhibit alpha traits, I guess it depends on what my ultimate motive might be in any given situation. i would say im more sigma than anything else. i don't use social media other than commenting on youtube. I have no interest in what others think of me, i simply strive to get as much as what i feel i need to get out of life as i can. I do not "hide" though. i simply see no reason to parade myself, or my ambitions to the world. Especially to those that have no direct bearing on my plans. I also don't make myself known in any situation if i don't have to (though i can and do), and yes im a very private person.
I was the same way though my teens and 20's. I was kinda introverted but I liked to show off and be "the man." As I got older and went through my spiritual awakening I had a dark night of the soul and released my need to satisfy my ego externally. I went within and realized that I am and have always been enough as I am. I forgave myself for my flaws and dropped the karmic ties to people I held grudges against. Forgiveness for all and no judgments going forward. So in a way, I did have a lot of sigma traits all along. But, after doing a lot of inner work, I found myself embodying the sigma mindset. Long story short, people can become sigma. In videos like this I can pause at any moment and explain in great detail the how's and why's we do these things. Ironically it is nice to know I'm not alone in this rare social philosophy / personality.
reading books is good when u get to choose it but when it's books that school throws at you, well it it ain't that interesting to read it and it's also a reason why many people don't read books
Reading banned books and adding them to your private library is revolutionary Sigma act. The elite don't want the masses knowing the truth and questioning authority they want nice good working class debt slaves.
Because others are only working to ruin our vision, they have no vision other than to get in the way of our vision, then hate us when we choose to move forward. We get more done without them and we dont need recognition so it works out twice as well as the alternative.
We don’t hide. There is no need to hide. You just haven’t found us yet. As and when you do, we’ll check each other out. If we get on, that’s fine, if not, never mind.
It’s not that we’re hiding. We just enjoy alone time to contemplate life, the universe and everything. Most Sigmas find the social world a mystery and small talk, what the hell is that for? And when you tell me your feelings, I just don’t understand….sorry it’s how I’m made!. You are the Master of your own destiny. The final say comes from you! Lesson learned. Never let anyone know your IQ. Apparently it’s a big deal to those you don’t match up.
Regardless how social a person is, he needs some friends or someone he can talk to or rely on, easier said than done but being alone all the time isnt good
I spend 80 percent of my time alone my wife and children don't understand it so I had to start showing them these videos yet still don't understand but yeah being alone with yourself greatest feeling in the world no bs from others time to collect your thoughts just you amd the universe
I’m 58 years old Ive never had a Fakebook account, in fact when my wife of over 30 years posted a picture of me on her Fakebook account I demand she take it off and never post another picture of me again Lol I told her I had no need in letting anyone know what I was doing or where I was I’ve never had a Instagram account or a Twitter account I think they are ridiculous and would never participate in such craziness I’ve always had a small group of friends I’ve always cherished being by myself I’ve never liked going to big parties and avoid crowds I’ve never wanted to be the center of attention and cringe at the thought of being in the limelight I’ve always hated people kissing up to me With that, said I love my wife and two adult children and my growing number of grandchildren That’s all I need in life And at 58 I just realized I’m a “sigma” male Lol And I find just the thought of pigeonholing myself into a certain category of male is incredibly disturbing Lol
RU-vid: sigma males breathe oxygen and have two ears! RU-vid losers: “now I know I’m sigma”, “I do this because nobody understands my intellectual sigmanosity!”, “women one day will regret not being with me, a quiet sigma male!”, “I refuse to let people close, crypto and gym for me! I’m a lone wolf”
Privacy, a sweet dream. I think Bro 😁👊🏻 that interfering with with someone privacy is stealing his life. Another thing for you couldn’t expect a grace or mercy from Sigma. 🙏🏻
it's a known fact that Sigma Males really love to play hide and seek, they displayed this behaviour as children and never lose the passion for hide and seek
I don't consider myself a Sigma, but l certainly have some of these traits. Basically, l cannot stand people as a general rule, as they bore me to tears with their incessant whining and boasting. I much prefer to just be left to my own devices and run my own race.
I’m still trying to figure out how this content has been created. Did someone take a bunch of polls and figure this out? Is this another reality breakdown that one finds what one searches for?
Sigmas are very self aware. So, the idea of you analyzing your own behavior is no surprise. The worst is when you are aware of your social awkwardness and catch yourself doing that thing in real time. The motivations of a sigma are so foreign to most people. It is easy for others to project their feelings and values onto our behavior and get it wrong so often. We come off as cold but really never want to hurt anyone's feelings. If only everyone could be responsible for their own emotions and behavior!
@@greenflame8398 That is so true! This guy I know moved in with his sister staying right across the street from me. He used to invite me over all the time but after the first time I came over I didn't come hang out again. He asked me if he did something to offend me and I told him no, ( I didn't want to tell him his friends and family members made me anxious because I don't do crowds ) but I don't think he believed me because I still didn't want to come over there. I felt bad about it, but not bad enough to go over there. Then they moved and I haven't heard from him since.
@@erichardric7093 i always say i am better one to one with people , love talking to one interesting person, but the higher the number of people the more i want to leave .
@@NOT_SURE.. I feel you! When someone invites me somewhere I always need to know who all plans to be there!😅 I'm also really bad about saying I will come to some event, and as soon as the words leave my mouth I'm thinking of an excuse not to go!🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Sigma is true confidence, i never understood why alpha is glorified. I see this competitive, obnoxious nature as insecurity. I don't even care enough to show people i'm better than them at something. Never understood social media either, why do you care about likes? baffling to me how fragile and insecure society has become.
Alpha come to think about it is has many insecure traits, they need to by any means let everyone know they are in charge, they need to be on top, where as a sigma sees the bigger picture and understands validation amongst men is worthless, I don't get to caught up into all these labels, but I do see characteristics that make sense, when you are really content and doing what you should, nothing needs to be said and those who should see it will and those who don't won't but it doesn't matter because we grow and our past that, it's very liberating to come out of the rat race and stop competing in a game we can never win.
Interesting the labels that get applied. In the past I suspect 'Sigma' would have been an Introvert (probably INTJ) on the MBTI scale. Now the narrative has moved on to Alpha, Beta etc. types.
Why do us Sigma Males hide? I believe I can best explain it by reading a passage from The Book of Ass-Clappalations: "If she has tattoos left and right She's been run through more Than the yellow light!!!"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
In scandinavian conutries there's a tacit "law" that is called the law of Jante. This law says that you don't must showcase your success, be humble, don't brag, do no try to make others jaleous or envious. It does have good aspects but also bad ones as you got tendency to diminish yourself all the time or you feel that you don't have the right to be happy for yourself.
No regrets no doubts, no friends don't need them. I take care of my family and my family only. The world is just full of betas looking for reassurance from others. Lol the wolves always eat
Ehh it's just a stupid card people wanna label them selves as seriously it's like acting all good all day and your teacher gives u a sticker of a yellow star tf that's how it's supoose to be lol but all seriousness the Bible says God is the alpha and ever knee will bend one day that means the most dangerous men on earth
Then you may be a different archetype. Desiring to be an Alpha shouldn't exist, unless you think other types don't measure up. I don't know how old you are, but if you feel uncomfortable or incomplete as a Sigma personality...I would consider digging deeper into who you are.
Im currently in Colombia backpacking. People like to travel with me but I like being alone. I’m going to an island far away from people so I can find peace to gather my thoughts and heal from all the soul suckers that make up the modern society.
MegaRbase, It's an urban myth, you don't need to go to a far away, isolated, exotic, foreign island to find peace / healing. It helps, but that can be done very close to home. . . .
@@fjb4932 you dont have to stand on one leg or hum OHM, OR give your money to a guru...i worked in a spiritual retreat for a year and it made me realise its a bit of a con, one woman was beating heself up because she couldnt stand on one leg for 4 hours like the 'Master'
Spot on, my dream and goal is so far beyond most of human kinds comprehension that it would be brushed aside as fantasy. The scope and intelligence to achieve this would be too much for people to do.. It revolved around a continuous line over thousands of years, generations upon generations living and achieving this aspect. Its simple to do The powers that be are here to control and don't give a shit about of our true nature and the animals and the planet. Money would be obsolete, The power structures would need a significant change away from money. Everyone standing divvied is week and gives ways to states off perpetual war. No need for AI and integrating with robotics. All i can say is mankind is never ready for this step. The more AI develops the further away it is to achieve . At times I find myself struggling with the same mundane superficial crap that people go around in circles with as my world is far removed from the mainstream. Peace and love to all
I have always been misunderstood. So I have kept to myself. Besides, who cares what other people are doing. I know that they don’t care what I’m doing.
Sigma males hate repetition and watching videos that can literally repeat a list of the same thing over and over. Sigma encourages anyone watching this video to take a shot every time he says the word privacy, two shots every time he says the word emotion. Three shots when he talks about other people on social media!! Find a designated driver.
If u have social media. You ain’t sigma If you have more then one friend. You ain’t sigma. If you ain’t rich and grind. You ain’t sigma If you don’t read. You ain’t sigma If you haven’t been called bipolar. You ain’t sigma😂
Not true . A sima has social media but doesn’t necessarily post or Bragg. I can tell you ain’t fully a Sigma . Most sigmas don’t even have smiling face that’s why most shallow minded judge them wrongly instead of getting to know them .
im exactly like this but all in music industry post all day to get more followers.....how do i compete wiith them they get more booking cause they share personal life all day and have more followers ????????? help
Damn, I never really considered myself a sigma but I checked out all the boxes. I’m just so naturally inclined to not indulge with what the masses are doing. like I’ll look out the window, see people I know, they’re doing something and I say to myself, “maybe I should join them” but then I just get back to what I was doing having my own peace in my own solitude. But Idk 🤷🏽♂️ that’s just me.
I am definitely a one-of-a-kind lone wolf - always have been, probably always will be. I hate all these snowflakes who think they're so unique, for instance. Anyway, I am so glad to find the Sigma category of males. I fit right in. So glad to be here with all you other guys!!
Sigma Male is a consequence of the way the world is right now... This just sounds like a person being the best version of them self the only way the world will let him be truely.
I thought something was wrong with me preferring being away from people and by myself. I avoid people during lunch breaks at work and I can't stand family gatherings because they drain the living crap out of me.
If you're young, just let yourself grow by staying true to what you really want. Betas are typically happy with friends and family. Sigmas are typically happy with personal pursuits or challenges.
You only admire it till you meet us.. We're not liked in the traditional sense of invites and welcoming to Celebrates. We don't tolerate ignorance ,we can speak out when needed and we're not Pu$$*'s.
