I m had a boyfriend in the past his, eyes turning black I making love with him in bed i was scared of him He was possed by minoring spirits narcissist.😦
It's scary how they'll be smiling laughing one minute and their face changes and eyes gloss over in an instant like something else has taken control. What's even more terrifying is that it's always been them, they've only been putting on a show the whole time to get you to lower your guard.
They aren't in control of their selves. Its a being that is usually under the surface, but manipulating their thoughts.... My wife started hearing voices after a point... Talk about scary.
It's not a personality disorder,they are possessed and the demons are using them to destroy anyone of the light,they remain friends with other evil people,those enablers are nasty people themselves.
My ex husband fixed the black eyes on me once. I was frozen like I was hypnotized. It was like he bored into my head and was reading my thoughts. I silently said, "Jesus! Jesus, help me!" He broke his stare and let me go. I never said it out loud, so perhaps he did read my thoughts? It was terrifying, like a demon was looking through his eyes. He did have the decency later to warn me I was not safe around him. I moved out and we are divorced now, thank Almighty God!
Tiffany -- Who are you to call anyone a scammer? You know no more than the devil that told you Osteen was one? He happens to be one of God's favorites! You're not even on that list. Holy Spirit is strong any time he speaks. Better repent, fast!
My mother’s eyes would do this and I could literally palpate the pure absolute HATRED inside her thru them. It was far beyond anger…it was rage, hate, vileness….evil. I now am recently separated from a narcissistic spouse (surprise surprise!) who’s tactics are so efficient and extreme that her ex before me couldn’t take it anymore and shot and killed herself. 😢 I’m in the middle of the hoovering attempt stage but thankfully, by the Grace of God and the information available on your videos and other internet sites, I am armed with the knowledge of being fully aware of exactly what is happening. She’s very convincing for someone who is unaware but I am now and I will NEVER EVER give in and go back to that traumatic crazy-making mess!! She may end up killing me before it’s all said and done (which I’m sure will somehow be MY fault!) but even that would be better than the hell I would endure if I went back to her. I believe with my entire heart and soul that narcs are INCAPABLE of really loving anyone, they can be award winning actors at pretending like they do tho. Strength, love, & peace to all who have been or still are ensnared by a narcissist.
When my husband is about to rage I can actually feel a presence in the room. It feels like pure hatred and that's an understatement. That's the only way I can describe it.
That was a djinn. I think we saw the djinn that has been operating their bodies for a looooong time. Those eyes belong to another entity (not exempting her from her own responsibility by any chance). But this is what demon possession looks like (for us). I guess in occult rituals it would look different and so on. Seeing the black eyes of the djinn, was a pivotal moment for me. I think my mother might have died (been zombified within her own body) when I was around 14 years old. Before that she was definitely inclined to be rotten. But I think she lost control over her soul after a specific ritual she did when I was around 14 years old. What I saw a year ago at age 36... was the entity I was dealing with for at least 20 years, if not my whole lifetime (along with my mother, dont get me wrong, they actively chose this path).
@@yosra3551 That’s so sad that anyone would actually choose anything so horrible. I wonder what would cause a choice like that? I agree with you…. they do seem to be soulless…like just the empty shell/body walking around causing pain and chaos. Remember- the devil is the ULTIMATE deceiver!
There was an incident very recently with my estranged spouse….. she had her adult daughter on speaker phone and the daughter was threatening me. I tried to go outside to not have to listen to it (I’m in a wheelchair). But my wife was chasing me around with the phone saying “she’s not thru talking to you!” Then she blocked me from going out the door. Suddenly she started slapping me all over but she was SAYING for her daughter to hear “you better not hit me! Stop hitting me!” Of course her daughter lost it. My ex literally SNEERED and gave me this evil grin! I hadn’t even attempted to lay a single finger on her! SHE was the one hitting ME! The lengths they will go thru to look like an innocent victim and make you look like you’re just crazy is scary!!!
I saw this in my ex when he woke me from my sleep to tell me that he had been thinking whether or not to kill me and that I was lucky to have not lost my life. The pure evil was that he was not enraged, rather calm and collected, as he told me these frightening words. I knew at that moment that I had to make my exit plan and carry it out quickly.
Exactly like with me but in my case he didnt said anything but i felt him looking at me while i was " faking " that i was sleeping and i felt him holding the pillow , beside of me and he was planing to k1ll me with that pillow or strangulate me . God revealed to me so i run way to never come back .
@@mikieemiike3979think it’s just semantics. Pretty sure optical illusion implied that the eyes are copying and therefore reflecting into the outer world what lies within their own soul. Window is probably more symbolically accurate term, but the message was received using the word ‘mirror’
@@ricktyuio283 Point taken. I've assumed that before, but sometimes people mean exactly what they say. I was thinking maybe he was saying that people see what they are projecting or their own emotional reflection. It might be a stretch, though.
This is TRUE.At my X husband's point of death his eyes actually turned BLACK. and he Hissed at me.!!! YES, this happened . narcissist's are Halflings.Not 100% human. I've been in Healthcare 25 years and I have seen this many times. In JESUS NAME,they have no effect on me Spiritually or Physically.
I got goosebumps with horror from this video. I saw, a few times, when he lost control of the mask and it slipped... the empty, deadly, abysmal gaze of my malignant narcissistic ex... I get chills every time I remember... I can't forget that... It's like being looked at by Death, by a demon, by hell...
hence the reason why i won't watch this one but regardless of the subject i've seen with my own eyes the SLITS like a reptile in my ex's eyes i've also seen these eyes in other people but i don't want to delve in it further, believe me the fear and shock of seeing something like that was something i can't describe and i don't care if no one believes me, i know what i saw with my own eyes
I've been on the receiving end of a full narcissistic collapse episode. It was wild. They would openly lie about absurd things then immediately claim it was me who said the obvious lie and then run with it like it was me acting like a possessed nutjob.
@@HUYI1I believe you. I dealt with them all my life from 2000-2012. In 2012 at age 17 I saw my narc mother’s eyes go black as she dragged me into the garage looking at me saying “don’t you mess with me.” under her breath in a devilish tone of voice. I looked up narcissistic mothers then discovered Barbie: LIFE IN THE DREAMHOUSE w/ my knowledge on narcissistic abuse & my life experiences combined, I evolved into the human form of Raquelle. That’s all I will say. 😊
YES. It's so scary. Luckily he wasn't looking directly at me the two times I saw this. He was looking down with a very cold-calculated face. I think I would have died if he looked me in the eyes O_O
There is a link between those two, funnily enough. One is an element of the other. That's why the primitive tendencies of humanity are being stimulated en masse. To slow down our mental evolution. Because enlightened, advanced and highly intelligent people are not motivated by status, or greed, or any need to 'dominate' or 'compete'.
When I started focusing more on self respect stopped reacting and instead started observing and responding, this started coming out of people, and I removed them from my life
Yes!! I grew up with the 'an eye for an eye' lifestyle. When he started bullying me, I applied that method right back, hoping he would feel the pain I feel by his words and actions. He would say the most heart breaking things to me, what made it worse was how calm his manner was while saying those things. He accused me, I'd accuse him. He would start possessive behaviors, I would do it back. He lied, I would lie. I really thought if he was experiencing it too that it would open up his heart more but it didn't. Made things much worse. Lead to physical and financial abuse. Of course I was not as strong as him and I was very frustrated about this because if I had equal strengths...man he should feel lucky that I didn't. I got weaker during pregnancy. I couldn't even lift 50lbs. I was livid. If I had the same or more strength, I would have wrecked him like he wrecked me. I would have strangled him, so he knows how it feels, beat on him, make him lose blood, affect his mental health too. I know people who would do it for me, but I !then! wanted to be the one to cause pain to him. Financially too, I was in a vulnerable position after having our first child. I fell for his filthy lies. He said he would take care of us if I stayed at home mom. I can't believe I fell for that shit. I should have gotten a job so things would have been a lot easier for us. Exploited me beyond measure. Abuse if all forms got worse. I found God in the midst of it. He was trying to reach me to not have this 'an eye for an eye' life. So redirected me and I started focusing on self respect, stop reacting, observation and all that you said, man that man made my life a pure living hell. He would pressure me to do what I didn't want to do. I ended up pregnant again not too long after my son's birth. He begged me to abort her, more issues arised in his life and that mtf tried to kill us. My daughter in the womb and I. Cops and child protective services got involved. I was doing well and making better/ following decisions until near thanksgiving. I've always been okay with solitude but around family gathering holidays lonesome gets to me and I fkd up and let him back in. Most helpful he has ever been, the man I fell in love with was finally back. My son and I was sick and I was still pregnant. My body was so weak. Like I had no minerals left in it. My son passed, my daughter was finally born in April. Cps came in and stole her from me right from the hospital and put her in a lesbian home when I asked for spiritual people who align with my values, which these two dramatic lesbians did not!! He got the list first and he has been in his custody for months now. Bastard won't respect our bond. Only allows me to spend time with our daughter once every other week and he has missed many. I've gotten to spend a total of 3 hours with her since in his custody. Still have to finish more classes and do something called CODE. I'm still in the thick of all this and God I am struggling.
You're right. Narcissism is a spiritual problem - not just a psychological diagnosis. They may have suffered an abusive upbringing, but lack of empathy is a spiritual, and moral, issue. I describe the look in their eyes, as a dead stare, devoid of any feeling toward anyone.
Jesus peace be upon him is the prophet of Allah not God son or Lord. There is no God except Allah the creator of everything the most merciful, the Greatest. You should say by Allah name .
I remember seeing this with my ex husband and the hate exuding from his body was palpable. He looked as if he was possessed. It was a very scary moment.
That is because he was possessed. Even physical health can be affected by such things..... I don't understand it completely, But it's true and I can't deny it anymore.
My ex wife was the same. The more positive i became to more she couldnt be around me. I told her for years she needed a exorcism. She literally tried to destroy me. Yall wouldnt even believe half the events if i told you. Even my best friend was like jesus christ. It was so bad that me as man got fully custody of my kids. When she started using meth any restraint she had on demon was gone it was just full on all the time.
You've just restored my sanity in 1 video! I thought I was crazy and have never ever had anyone understand this concept - let alone explain it!! Thank you so much for this video!!
My ex, in the beginning even told me his eyes go totally black sometimes. I wished I knew what red flags were back then, but on the good side, it made me stronger mentally, and in faith.
My ex was and still is a narcissist he had a personality disorder and led a double life, he was also abusive too the full package 🤢😔 I believe his soul was black not just his eyes, the devil. If you are in this type of relationship or have someone in your life that abuses you physically, mentally, emotionally, etc get out now, don't wait for them to change, they won't.
Wow. Happened with my older brother who was living in our family home. He felt entitled to the house. We weren’t even arguing,,, his jaw clenched and said to me, “NO ONE will make me leave this house. I’ll stay here as LONG AS I WANT.” His eyes went black… Walked back inside our house ( mom had passed, Dad was in a nursing facility; I was visiting from out of state) Told my husband and we cut visit short. Didn’t want our son anywhere near his uncle. His eyes were SO BLACK.
I've been given this black eyed look with the most evil grotesque clownish smirk even without having any argument at all. As if I were a piece of meat and the predator getting ready to strike. Pure darkness. Unhuman.
That sounds similar to my own experience of it from my ex husband of 20 yrs- the very last time he touched me. I rejected him sexually and his grip on my wrists grew tighter as his eyes went black. He was thinking to rape me in that moment and I felt it - without a word between us . I’d heard a good few times about these black eyes as I was in a support forum. Then this day, I saw it for myself. It’s been almost 5 years since that happened ( and I escaped him for good soon after) but I’ll never forget that moment as long as I live. In that moment I, horrifically, realised the person I trusted to sleep next to for 20 yrs, I had actually never truly known his true soul.
@@Nikkiijean That is horrific. I'm sorry you had to experience that. Know that there's no soul to know there, and it's not your fault. What you saw and felt in that moment is exactly all that's there to know. Heart, head & gut might not be aware of the specifics yet, but if they all align that there's something wrong, trust that feeling. For the future. I'm happy to read you got out. Stay strong 💪❤️🩹
Good to see a video on this!! People who have not experienced it will not believe it. They can't fathom that anyone can be as evil as a narcissist and also hide it so well.
I've only seen foaming at the mouth .My husband,two daughters and myself,,saw this in a neighbor.thank God he lived. A street over,,having a ridiculous disagreement with my husband.
They won't believe it because they are sane and know that it's physiologically impossible for the whites of the eyes to become black. If you've actually "experienced" this you most likely have schizophrenia. But chances are you're just a liar. Enjoy the rest of your pathetic existence, must suck having to lie about dumb things that are easily disproven.
This sad soul was drinking lots of Chardonnay, she leaned forward blinking her eyes they LITERALLY turned black and she gritted her teeth at me and went off the rails!!! Bc I SeT a BOUNDRY and she lost her mind. Then played victim next day to turn others against me. Never an apology from this demon just the silent treatment. I get ostracized!!! It’s a gift in the end.
My dad was a scary individual. He was strangling my mom when I was small. He almost succeeded in snuffing her life out. My brother intervened and saved my mom. Every single day coming home from school I would fear my mom wouldnt make it thru the day. It was like having a terrori$t in your home that never went away.
I completely believe this story because I lived it ! I also understand and can relate to this video EXTREMELY WELL. After being tightly gripped by the neck & swung throughout the kitchen, unable to physically pull his hands apart enough to break away from his “super human” level of strength. I was only 25, married for only 1 year at the time, after 4 years of dating without incident. This absolute ANIMALISTIC RAGE had come out from no where. I was in complete shock that this was really happening to me. After some time of trying to release myself from his grip, I had reached a point of exhaustion and had started having thoughts about giving up. However, another thought came to mind. As a last resort, I decided to look straight into his eyes, hoping that he would see the fear in my eyes so much so that he would hopefully decide to let me go and that’s when I saw the changes in his eyes. I had never seen anything so frightening before which led to feelings of complete hopelessness and that is when I realized that I would not likely survive this situation. At that moment I felt my mind wander as I experienced what I thought to be my life flashing before my eyes. I can still remember some of the very fast moving images of myself go from being a small child to the present, with the last few images showing myself lying lifeless just feet from where I was standing, dead on the living room floor. The final flash was seeing the police at my mother’s house telling her that I was murdered. At that moment he finally released his hands as I started running away but he continues to chase after me where a few times he grabbed at me having restrained me by the wrists & squeezing them very hard. I was finally able to break away from his hold, running upstairs to an empty bedroom. I curled myself up tightly in a ball while forcefully pushing my head down tightly to my chest so he could not grab at my neck or wrists again. This rage that initially & completely overcame him continued and the few words that he did speak were nonsensical. Then just as quick as this rage came over him, it went away just as fast. I litterly watched a state of such high energy, also leave his body along with his extreme anger. His facial gestures & and body movements suddenly came to a halt. It was as if he suddenly and miraculously snapped out of … something ? He looked a bit confused as if he seemed to have some kind of awareness, yet still somewhat confused with the two extremes in behaviour. He finally spoke calmly, no longer was he acutely threatening. Instead he was begging me to talk about what just happened. Out of fear, I repeatedly refused while telling him to get out of the house. That, is a small glimpse into what I have lived through. AND IT WAS SPINE-CHILLINGLY “VERY” REAL ! Just like the truly heartbreaking, terrifying to witness and life-altering TRUE life story above, her words were genuine. Her witnessing what she did WAS VERY REAL & INDEED TRAUMATIZING to the woman (daughter/writer) who bravely shared it, speaking of her brother who bravely saved his mother’s life that day, and to the mother who directly lived through such terror & harm. Because, you are never the same after. So to you, the rather bold & heartless non-believer; DON’T EVER AGAIN BE SO RUDE, COMPLETELY HEARTLESS, SO JUDGEMENTAL WHEN SPEAKING TO SOMETHING YOU CLEARLY KNOW NOTHING ABOUT! BECAUSE IF YOU DID, YOU WOULD NOT BE SO RUDE WITH QUESTIONING THE VALIDITY OF SUCH PERSONAL TRAUMA, TRAUMA THAT SHE WAS BRAVE ENOUGH TO SHARE. YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN MUCH KINDER HAVING SAID NOTHING AT ALL.
I've seen living with my narc sister. She abused everyone in her life. The more you caught her, the worse she got. I think she is a F'n demon. She did everything but crab walk on the ceiling. They black eyes really really were scary. S h e would blank out and walk past you without seeing you. She is non-human. She killed my mom and destroyed my family.
Mine killed both her ex-estranged husbands with pure meaness, no longer my problems but with Xmas around the corner gotta be even more phone leary, pity her 3 adult kids and their kids, they'll be needing her blood covered bucks!
💮My daughter was almost 6 when she told me that she used to see a square shaped gray face with rounded edges that looked like stone following beside or behind my ex-narc's head. I'm guessing it was a demon/djinn or something of the like. He was a psycho rager. I could say, "There are the keys", and point and he'd argue that I asked,"Where are the keys?". He would fight and scream, threaten to report the car stolen, put down the dogs, change the locks, call C.P.S., on and on. It was all on purpose. They're not crazy. They're too deliberate to be crazy.
@@charlottesometimes1278 Some are, some aren't, some are humans who are just born broken or made broken by their life, the others are definitely other.
Many years ago, I knew someone who was neurologically disordered/dysregulated. He was violent and was triggered from within, it didn't take any external stimuli. Out of the blue, he would, on his own, in a silent state, suddenly shift into a very darkened condition when his eyes, facial expression, vibe and behavior would "go dark." My dog would sense it from across the room and immediately leave to go to my bedroom, and I learned I needed to follow my dog, because the man would become violent about 4 minutes later. It wasn't wisdom to be anywhere near him. He wasn't well. The odd part was that his shift could take place during seemingly "normal moments," like when he was loading the dishwasher or doing anything else, appearing as if normal if one didn't discern the shift. He had already shifted, and the dog knew it, and seeing the man's face made it clear. If an undiscerning observer persisted in being naive, they would find out just minutes later. This video describes him perfectly, absolutely.
I witnessed it. Almost as if in that moment she was so in control over my life that she didn’t even feel the necessity to hide her game anymore. It lasted one second. She smiled. I will never forget it. It was the moment a voice in my head screamed “RUN”. She was consuming me mentally for over 3 years and on that night she had the opportunity to finally threat me physically and she took it. I was alone, in a unknown city very far from mine, it was 4am, she was the only one knowing how to get home or the one in possess of the house keys. She basically said “you do as I say or you can walk away in one of the worlds most dangerous cities at 4am, you’re free to choose” and then smiled with those black eyes. We were only 18 years old.
@@brianfitch5469 Lol sorry, it’s very long to explain, also idk if I’m able to convey everything that happened mentally thru words😅 but basically I felt dizzy inside this club after I was touched inappropriately, and asked this narc girl and my (then)best friend to accompany me outside to get fresh air (we promised to always stay together for safety). She was the only one to hear me and told me to just go alone. So I went outside. After a while my friend came searching for me with the narc behind her, visibly annoyed. The narc said I was ruining her night and I had two options: forget my dizziness and go back to dance or walk alone to some hotel. I was basically her hostage because all my belongings were at her house, I couldn’t leave my bf there and also that city scared me. My friend was not processing what was happening, refused to take anyone’s side and just stood there. The narc took the chance to put an arm around my bf and dragged her back inside, turned her head and smiled at me. In that moment I felt like a fly in a spiderweb. I said “you twisted b1tch” and walked away. I decided to stay outside the club near the security, some nice girls offered me tissues and cigarettes to calm down. After 1 hour and a half they came out, the narc just said “let’s go”, and we went home. In two hours I had to take a train so I didn’t go to sleep, just packed my things, I tried to speak to my friend but it was like talking to a brainwashed robot, she kept nodding catatonically without looking at me. I went to the narc and said “sorry for calling you a b, goodbye”. I called a taxi (who scammed me but I was too tired to care), took the train and cried until home. That same day they flew to Spain and after that they went living together and my ex friend stopped talking to me. For my birthday the narc wrote to me basically “I’m sorry you ruined everything”. I then learned all her previous friendships ended like this. She is now still the same and has professionally obtained everything she wanted. I escaped social life and became a shut-in
@@JingYuans_sparrow Oh wow thanks for the rest of it. What country did this take place in? Its ok as you get older your friends dwindle away. The party scene isnt something your missing out on. I have one person who is my best friend since 7th grade. Pretty much same for him between work kids and life. Everyone else just fell to the wayside. People come and go throughout your life.
@@brianfitch5469 thanks, I’m starting to realise really nice people exist out there and from now on I only want to focus on the good and ignore the rest. This happened in Milan, Italy.
This is so validating for me. My son’s father was the first person I saw this happen with. He would seem GONE. I left him after he got violent with us. My son is an adult now, and he dated a girl that would literally go dark. She’d get mad at him, and it would be over something like my friend calling him to work on his car, since he’s a mechanic. “WHO is the B calling your phone??? Are you F’ing her?!?!” “Umm no Crystal she’s 52 years old, my moms age” And the rage would get crazy, during that episode she took a knife and slide the leather seats in his brand new car, all of them just slash, slash ,slash, it didn’t even have to make sense. They were in their 20’s at that time. She ended up trying heroin with her FATHER, and becoming an addict, she O.D.’d and my son had a feeling because she wouldn’t answer the phone. Rushed home and did life saving CPR on her, but she really never emotionally came back from that. She has five children with five different dads, and only has custody of one. She’s riddled with demons, and my son finally came to terms that he can’t fix her after she spent a year in prison for drug possession that she tried pinning on my son. No loving person would do that and he realized that she’d just been wasting his time.
OMG! I remember the moment this happened. I thought it was my imagination! I remember my eyes going back and forth looking at his, in the midst of his rage, screaming in my face, and poking his finger so close to me, that he actually got me in the lip with it. Thinking I was seeing things. Ill never forget it. My 2 sons and my brother came and helped me move out the next day. I never looked back. Great video 👍
This is sadly so true. Until my mother and I learned about narcissism after the divorce process had ended (after almost 6 exhausting years), we genuinely thought he was possessed. Because without education on NPD, what else would a terrified person think? It's memories like that which help me feel less guilty about having gone no contact. Thank you for your videos, Danish, they are always reassuring and enlightening.
I have experienced this with my father and my son's father! You are the first person I've ever heard to speak on this and to explain it so clearly. Thank you!
Saw it many times, looking evil on the face, terrifying. So grateful I got away from him & survived. Danish, I love you & your healthy, helpful work you do to help us survivors. 💕
I have seen this happen. I have seen their speech patterns change, their posture change, their eyes go black and flat, their voice change, everything, like an entity entered them and took over. Also things I cannot explain, like a hole in the wall 9 feet up that looked like damned claw mark. Yes, this is very real.
My daughter's eyes turned black once when she was very angry at me. This turned into a physical altercation, unfortunately. She tried to claw my eyes out repeatedly and I forcefully pushed her off me... repeatedly. I wasn't hurt, but I dislocated her shoulder in self defense. Her father is highly narcissistic. I don't think that my daughter is a narcissist.
I am so glad that you, a professional, are speaking of this. Whenever I tell people of a narcs eyes turning all black people have tried to make it out to be that I must be remembering wrong, or I'm mentally ill, or I'm making it up etc. It is as if they can not or will not allow themselves to admit that some people chose to not have any light in them. The other narc that I knew well had pupils that would be small creepy pin points.
Yup, I saw it and wouldn't believe it if I hadn't experienced it myself. Her eyes physically changed, they immediately became black and she went into full rage mode. This was the first time she physically assaulted me. She claimed to not remember the events that occurred. Narcissism is a spiritual disease, I believe there is an evil entity that lives in there with her.
We all have a demon inside us. It’s called our EGO. We also have the ID (who we actually are individually) and the superego (God’s presence inside us to guide us). Suppression and mastery over the ego is the ultimate spiritual journey and through embracing the advice of our superego and trusting the ID we can become closer to god than any Christian worshiping a God outside of themselves.
Thanks for the suggestion. I will check it out. I was never a religious man, but a few years ago had what you would call a spiritual awakening. For those who have experienced this, they will know what I'm talking about. For the others you can kindly ignore. Everything works in duality. If there is good and god, there is bad and evil. The more I learned about my narc, everything was about control, domination, materialism, envy, hatred. Then a few months in, it was like a light switch, and she no longer even attempted to hide who she was. Rage attacks every few days. She hated hated hated any talk about God and would only ever mention Jesus if she was ridiculing or mocking him (or others who practiced any kind of faith). She was only ever in service to herself. While she was beautiful on the outside, she was undiluted evil (truly, zero empathy, astonishing cruelty) on the inside. This is not a natural disposition of the human experience. This is something else. Thank you again for the suggestion
I’ve described ‘the look’ to some people and I’ll get a look back, like I’m making it up. Thank you for the info and letting me know once again, that I am not crazy. One time when this was happening, he told me to watch my back, a friend only heard him say it and she was scared, seeing and hearing it, I knew it was not a threat, I’m sick just remembering. I’ve seen that look, more than a handful of times, from others, They ain’t playing.
I have seen and experienced this. The eyes of my father literally creep me out. I'm on zero contact since 2018 but sometimes when someones forwards old family pics on whatsapp and I see that demonic face, I literally shudder and feel ice-cold shocks going down my spine. I can really feel the shock going down my spine and it feels ice-cold. And you are right Danish, more than a psychological disorder, its a spiritual disorder. I find refuge only in prayer. Prayer is everything for me: realization, healing, therapy, protection and foremost cleansing. Cleansing is also important. Because when true cleansing happens you realize that you yourself had some bad Karma in yourself to be born to a nacisstic parent. And positively speaking: when true cleansing happens, you realize that you are safe now. Here's a yogic excercise I do which brings about tremendous change: look at yourself and smile. Thats it. You look at yourself, through yourself, through your inner eyes and SMILE at yourself. Simple and tremendously powerful Hindu excercise.
my exwife had those eyes in our last year. but not before! the eyeballs were somehow receding into her skull...it was horrifying to see that. it was the visual compliment to her vile behaviour. she seem to be better now - but i keep a distance where i am not able to see her eyes.
@@simonschneider5913 my fathers eye-balls also were or are receding into his skull. and they are expressionless. there is no life in them. no play or anything. very static and popping out.
@@rahulm2827 exactly. i wonder if i missed that before with her. but i wont go find out if she still has it. thank you for sharing your observation. it is fascinating to hear. makes me feel less crazy myself! :)
I saw this in my mother when she realized I wasn't responding to her crying with apologizing for the first time. She went instantly from fake sobbing and tears to realizing I wasn't falling for it that time and I thought I saw a demon inside her. It was just a hatred so deep I couldn't describe it. To a lesser degree I still feel that when I see some pictures of her.
I’ve seen this and it is creepy beyond belief. I felt the stone cold fury and got chills. I believed in the moment I was in the room with a pyschopath killer.
@@voraxe3032 You are closer to the truth you think. People that know Antisocial Personality Disorder, not on borderline Personality disorder which is weird one being APD, but most the B cluster, want power, like moth to light were powers is, they are there. Which is why I question politics even far then before.
I’ve experienced being cornered for hours while the narcissist unleashed his rage upon me ! They go on and on louder and louder repeating themselves over and over until your stomach hurts your thymus hurts your brain hurts ! Like I said : run run far away your health depends on it ! They will make you sick !
First time anyone on youtube explained this with the black eyes! So true! Thank you for explaining this . I have witnessed family members display this. Scariest thing I’ve ever witnessed! Every thing you described I have witnessed unfortunately 😢
I only experienced this with a passive aggressive guy who was a 'friend'. The iris of his eyes was almost completely blacked out by the enlarged pupil. But the enlarging and retracting was all in about 1 sec. In retrospect i believe it was my response to his back to back comments which were starting to annoy me and i was already having a bad day at that time. So a bit out of character for me, i started yelling and asking "what's with the criticism, the comments.. this is not the first time" .. that's when it happened and yeah.. i pretended i didn't see that but internally i could not even believe what i had just seen. I thought i was going nuts.
I haven't seen the black eyes but I've seen a light shining out of their eyes when they have done something evil and they know they have gotten away with it.
The Bible says the eyes are the window to the soul. Narcissist souls are dark and evil heartless. My narcissist does his damage behind the pulpit. He's slash prophet pastor.. nothing but women in the church. And talks with them day in day out. I could write a book about the spiritual attack of this evil spirit. Took me 10 years to figure out what was happening to me. But God 💪 I'm still on my healing path I love this content thanks for sharing.
This suggests that they are possessed by a demon and when they rage, the demon has come out in full control. You are not dealing with a person any longer.
Years ago I was involved with a man who told me that he hoped I never saw his dark side. I thought he was talking about depression. His eyes were normally green and when I saw the black eyes I was sure I just met Satan. He had me pinned up against a wall on my tiptoes, with his hands wrapped around my throat. I thought it was over for me. It must have been my Angels that held my breath. And when that happened he shook like an animal and turned and walked away. The only thing I have ever seen close to what I experienced was an animal attack in Africa, where some animals pretend to be dead so the attacker goes away. And prior to this video the only other place I had ever heard of color changing eyes in real life was in a book called "Sybil". She had multiple personality disorder and she had something like 16 different personalities that developed in response to extreme abuse. What's interesting is I was afraid to tell a therapist about what I saw because I was sure she would think I was crazy.
Omg same with me ! How its possible ? He did this when i was brushing my hair in the bathroom , out of the blue ! I am feeling chills and freezing Just to remember 😢
It's because they are Demon posseded. When their eyes turn black you are facing the demon not the person. Evil is real. Bind that evil in the power and Authority of Jesus Christ say it out loud to the demon. That's why their whole eye turns BLACK. Be protected and blessed by Jesus.
If they are truly possessed , it is best to seek out a Catholic exorcist. The demonic do not have to obey someone who does not have authority over the individual. If we are not married to the person(actually married), a parent, a child or a sibling, they do not have to listen and can retaliate against us and we are at risk of possession. What we can do is ask Jesus to bind the demon for them, petition him to do it as he does have authority. This is what exorcists have said on the topic. In my experience, I started praying the rosary and my Borderline/Narcissist left on his own. His eyes did not turn black but whatever was with him, which at one point asked him to share me with him, (and he would not tell me his response to the thing when it said that, just stared) it wanted nothing to do with a Rosary.
my dad is a narcissist and when I dont obeyed his crazy demands his eyes got black and I felt like evil messed up my soul.this one time was worst and I have been doing mushroom trips wich has been very therapeutic and also given me a spiritual awakening.I do belive in a creator cos the love I felt when my crown chakra/third eye opens and I connect with god is a feeling I never knew existed :D. I also feel narcissists sense my light and lovefilled soul and they get triggered by it.
My wife told me that she seen my mothers eyes turn black. She was dying of cancer and alittle over 100 pounds. Flipped a recliner over and there lay a 38 special. She picked it up and my wife said her eyes turned black. God put a stop to it. Yes it is spiritual and it doesnt operate in love.
I've witnessed this twice in a pair of sisters. The eyes turn black and both the eyes and the mouth appear circular in form. In a museum, in Japan, there are a group of ancient masks of various evils. One is a representation of the face I have described.
I have seen both my sister and brothers face change at the same time and looked the same. Weathered and wrinkled like a tree and their eyes were also the same…dead inside
Thank You!!! YESSS!!! I grew up with this & have seen it MANY TIMES!!! the person is actually being held captive inside & the demon is on the outside acting thru that vessel or bodysuit that has been overtaken...through the open door of getting in agreement with the anger...that allowed the demon to come out & that is why the person doesn't remember DOING IT! 😔
This is my understanding and belief as well. I wished desperately that I could have saved the girl in there, but because narcs refuse to acknowledge their behavior, they can't be saved. I believe once upon a time in their past she had something traumatic happen and she gave control to something else that is now there today.
I never thought I'd see anyone ever address this phenomenon. Mostly because I seriously thought I was the only one who has witnessed this. I thought that maybe I was imagining things. But Danish you just confirmed what I was experiencing with my ex. The black eyes of rage. I saw this twice in the couple years I've been living with him. He is a covert narcissist, so he is very good at keeping his rage mostly hidden. The first time I saw the black eyes was when we were arguing for hours. He was losing his argument toward the end, and I was finally exposing him for who he is. I believe he was finally starting to feel genuine shame for how badly he treats me, because I wouldn't back down (this was when I was stronger in the relationship due to not having yet been worn down by his abuse, so I was able to argue longer instead of give in). He got quiet after I hit a nerve. His eyes started to look completely different. Like they were very dark and not his eyes. It was creepy. He got very still, head tilted down and he was staring like he was pulled very inward. His voice changed. It sounded low and quiet, like he had reverted to a little stubborn toddler if that makes sense? When this happened he said 'Then why are you even in a relationship with me?". The other time his eyes went black was when he gaslit me into thinking I was being over-emotional, when I was completely calm and talking normally to him. I called him out then and there immediately, because I knew what he was doing after researching narcissistic abuse. He was trying to convince me I was hysterical when I absolutely wasn't. I said "I don't appreciate you gaslighting me into thinking my emotions are out of control when that is not the case". He knew he was caught. His eyes went black again. He got very quiet, stared dead ahead past me, and said in a low, quiet, yet clearly angry voice "You can get out of my room". He was in this strange, quiet, rage trance. It was just such a strange moment. I was so taken aback by his eerie, creepy, black-eyed , cold demeanor. I felt so confused and hurt. I didn't know who this man was.
I didn't see the black eyes, the narcs eyes in my case were like a snakes, that's the only way I can explain it. The whites of the eyes became yellow and the pupils were pinpoint, the eyes seemed to bulge out of his head while he was raging. Sounds crazy but I saw it, and I 've never seen that happen with a person before or since. And yes, it did seem that the person I thought I was dealing with was no longer there in that moment. When the episode passed his eyes went back to his normal soft brown, and he acted like nothing had happened.
Thank you for bringing up this topic because it serves to educate others. Indeed when I saw such sign, the eyes turning completely black, I was like wait a minute! I even questioned what my eyes saw but then I realized yes what I see is really taking place. After that I realized this is pure evil and I have come face to face with evil. It came to me that many narcissists due to their lifestyle early on in life they allowed entities/evil spirits to attached to them leading them to feel more empowered, untouchable and self-righteous. I believe in scientific findings about the narcissistic and psychopathic brain but to these presentations there is also a spiritual component. Another thing I noticed was a fetid odor that emanates from the malignant narcissist.
I remember I wanted to get back so badly with my ex. One night he asked me to come over & of course I was excited (and dumb) & I went to straddle him (yes I was hoochie) & we started making out & I came up from kissing him & looked in his eyes & his eyes were black and it was like I saw the depths of hell. I immediately got up & wanted to leave it scared me so bad. It will always be something I can’t explain and what exactly I saw that scared me. But I knew it wasn’t right
This is one of your very best videos, not only concise, but most importantly, insightful and accurate. It's a keeper. This video describes a certain person perfectly.
@xDanishBashir01-ib2fn To clarify, I've never been a "fan" of anyone. Exalting people is not wisdom. The word "luck" is rooted in the name Lucifer. To the contrary, it is discernment and understanding together with life experience that values the truths spoken in the video. Thank you.
Saw this from my mother last week, when I refused to do what she expected. It was chilling and it was almost like she was hissing and spitting venom at me. It's hard to explain that to people, as it sounds crazy. Also saw it from my ex too many times. When you start standing up for yourself and having boundaries, they cannot cope.
You describe so well my mother. It’s the first video I see that talks about the physical change, besides the attitude. I wouldn’t say her eyes turn black but I can see clearly they’re empty, wide opened. I call her the monster, the empty shell (the exact same word that you said), I compare her with Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. She’s the devil in her crises. What she says has no sense, no logic. She’s completely crazy and scary.
This is exactly what would happen with my ex-wife when I questioned her about her affair… I’ve tried to explain this to people and they’ve thought I was mental… but her eyes 😢would literally turn black and she would rage at me in defence or scoff and smirk at me saying I was mental…. But the things I remember during those times was a smirk that was completely demonic and her eyes turning black… creeped me out
Hi Danish Thanks for your wonderful videos! I like that you articulate the spiritual wasteland of the narcissist's tormented existence. My Mother had black eyes while she was pinning on my wedding headpiece and veil. It was horrifying to see that a tiny black creature lived inside my Mother and this alien entity envied and hated me virulently. It may be that she wished it was she who was about to marry my husband, rather than me. This speaks to the narcissist's insane level of intrusive boundary crashing entitlement. Peace and Love to all during the festive season!
I saw my ex wifes face change into something different andit wasn’t when she was angry. One time when she was trying to convince me of something I saw that the shape of her mouth and the shape of her face was much different than I had ever seen before; she was rambling on about something, I don’t even remember, and I was distracted because it was as if she had turned into someone else.
Witnessing the black eyes 👀 from a malignant narc was disturbing just because of simply having a disagreement…Yet the shivers that I felt was eerie…Omen’s like them are demonic…Glad I never saw him again…I will never forget that evil stare…
Thank you for this explanation. Several times he lost control And once he said he had no soul and seemed rather proud of telling me that. But yes I did detected physical eye shade become darker especially as his eyes are light grey. Cruel eyes.
My now ex girlfriend is still my business partner and we still live together, yesterday while she was driving, I warned her about how close a car was and that it was trying to make way, so she should just stop and let him pass, sometimes I feel like she does things while driving on purpose, to make me upset and nervous, I don't drive, because I get anxiety, she always bothers me about it, makes a big deal out of it, and belittle me because of it. So she told me: Don't tell me what to do, you don't drive. Later that day, something similar happened and I said "Careful..." (because honestly in Mexico people is quite careless and offensive while driving) and she replied: "Next time you tell me something I will punch you". I was speechless... I WILL PUNCH YOU... like,...how on Earth you threat someone with physical violence just like that... as if it was no big deal. While I was looking for my cellphone to watch it the rest of the time, so that I would ignore what happens while she's driving, I happened to look at her face... she was facing the front but there was the most evil look in her face and smile....I couldn't help but think I was sitting there with a demon on the car.
I hope you are able get some kind of help or back-up to carefully make plans for a safe escape from this person. Nobody should have to live with someone like this.
I lived in a building that had a lot of addicts at one time. I was going thru a financial hardship. That was a building cloaked in evil. There was a neighbor guy that acted nice to my face but I felt his bad energy. He started stealing my mail n my arthritis med from my box. If he was around the corner I felt his vile energy before I laid eyes on him. He gave a full confession loudly downstairs before he moved out. I was right. I overheard him saying he had hurt a lot of women and did a lot of jail time.
That is scary. That explains some things that happened to me, five years ago . My ex-girlfriend went from totally cute, likeable and adoring me to absolutely hating and despicing me, within minutes. And the change of mood was mirrored by her external appearance. Her hair was different, her whole body was like a big cat in attack stance and , yes: her eyes were ....I don't know, was it hate. Or contempt. Not really, it seemed actually like the lack of any emotion. A psychiatrist I know told me it was probably some kind of borderline.
Thank's for the explination of this phenomen. I can feel all of this and as a child I had no control over this rage but my siblings made fun of it and the rage became even bigger. That amount of cortisol in the bloodstreem is not a pleasant feeling and yes you want to control the environment for the respect of self. Has nothing to do with empathy, I am highly empathic, sometimes to much for my own good. A bad spiral i created. With selflove and resonable boundaries this is a solveble problem I hope . I've been taught this narsissistic behavior as a child from a narcissistic family as the youngest of five
Thank you for this subject. I encountered this very situation. I was in absolute shock. Black eyes! I’ve never in my life seen anything like that. I’ve heard of it, like serial killers have turned black. OMG! Thank you thank you. The rage was out of proportion to the circumstance.
why is the narcissists eyes both black? Because he is BLIND. This means a state of spiritual darkness, that has darkened both eyes of the individuals soul, basically meaning the lights have gone out for him.....
I know someone who’s skin turned scaley - so scaley, you could actually write words on her skin! She told me her histamine levels were too high and her body needed to re-regulate…
Atopic eczema is common symptom of the narcissist's victims. You can write on the skin if the person has dermographic urticaria. And treatment for that is really antihistamine. I got that after being together with narc-psycopath ex.
Oh wow I thought this was only my experience. Thank you!! My experience her blue eyes turned dark black when she was making fun of me and laughing at me not when angry. I could feel the demonic energy. I cut all contact over a year ago but always wondered how her eyes could change like that. Thank you 🙏 I’m so glad I found your channel.
I’ve also been around covert narcissists who don’t rage and act out. Just as scary if not scarier. Bc you’re waiting for ‘your’ consequence but like a slithering snake you don’t know how, when & where it’s gonna show up. They use their flying monkeys. Talk bad to yr friends, family, kids, yr boss (my fkn nex did that!), lie & call in the courts or police. Meanwhile they assume the good neighbor next door mask and smile calmly. 🤢
Musicians and mathmaticians have brains that are wired differently. When we use our brains differently, the wiring changes. That's why we use behavior therapy with OCD sufferers. It actually rewires the brain. I HATE when people use this to claim psychophaths and narcissist can't help their actions and thinking.
