Tammee did this and I guarantee that trauma started when Naomi was little. She felt rejected since she was a child. The woman didn't even let them call her mother.
Wow the momma saying I don't watch kids ... that's cold. Now I get that Naomi is dramatic and jealous but she's hurt and wants a relationship with her momma. She needs her momma. And she needs her aunt. I hope they heal.
@@saffronlealle464 no one is obligated to be anyone's childcare provider. Yall need to start having kids by men that wants to be a father instead of thinking yall could pawn your kids off onto your mom
@@urdestinydaughterofyah9739 Thank God, a lot of us had grandparents who helped. All races help their grandkids but what's going on with so many black ppl with this "nobody has to watch ur kids". It's true, they don't but most love their grandkids and want to spend time with them. Most watch while the parents work. If she was homeless, why wouldn't mom not want to help? Also, I wouldn't want Tammy watching my kids. Telling the 3 year old she doesn't like her? Smh
@@emanueldavis1627yall are right but it’s just the way she says it. My brother has a 3 yr old , anytime he ask my mom can she babysit for a few hours , it’s all open arms , so yea in a way saying you don’t want to babysit you’re grandchild is kinda crazy , you don’t want a bond with you’re grandchild?
The mom has been rejecting her daughter since she was a little girl I can tell she doesn’t like being told the truth and really doesn’t like her own daughter and that is why her daughter is jealous of the relationship between her aunt and her mom! you guys keep saying that the mom isn’t a babysitter and are missing the important fact that what hurts her the most is that she is even rejecting her grandchildren! spending quality time and building a bond with your grandchildren isn’t babysitting! So the problem at hand is that no matter what the daughter does the mom will never give her the love she deserves and with that she just needs to separate herself from her toxic mom and love her from a distance.
That mama pissed me off. I don't know why we have so many mothers in our community who can't love their daughters, but I truly hope newer generations of mothers do better.
@@MyaVatMii Childhood trauma that is not dealt with through therapy can be brought into adulthood and cause major issues. So, you cannot speak to this woman’s issues. This show has revealed that many children were damaged by their own mothers.
Mom left the stage and said she wasn't coming back out. They are hopefully coming back for the maternity test and he can talk to them more... hopefully. The daughter feels neglected. Everyone SHOULD understand how she is feeling. U think a child growing up feeling not loved will just shake it off because they are adults? She needs prayer and God to heal her heart. Mom caused all of this.
If u notice, it seemed that Karamo was having a breakthrough with the neice and daughter and to ME,that's when the mom came out raising all kind of hell getting on the daughter. Imagine how the daughter feels. U want the love of ur mother and she gives that love to a sister she just met. This been going on for 15 years. I empathize with the daughter. If ur mother doesn't love u or show u love, it will affect ur life.
Yes but at least she has this concrete evidence that is Reality and at the end of the day you have to accept reality. Hopefully she can accept her aunt in some capacity…
I have a feeling Naomi is like my daughter. My daughter made bad choices over and over again and I've done a lot to help her while she has turned down offers by the state to get on her feet. 4 kids later by 3 different fathers, I'm still trying to help. Raised my grandson for 3 years while she was supposedly getting on her feet. And still, sometimes she goes on a tangent and gets it into her mind that I haven't helped at all. My, how short her memory is. I refuse to do everything for her and at some point, she has to take accountability for the choices she made.
No wrong Tamie did not raise any of her kids and if you listen carefully she left her homeless the young lady had to figure it out on her own and Tamie is mad disrespectful did you see how she got kicked off the stage?
I have a feeling you weren't paying attention to this family at all, smh. You so tunnel vision focused on your daughter, you missed the part when she said her mom didn't even answer to her calling her mom/mommy... & girls who grow up to be women starting new family trees again and again COME FROM a dysfunctional family tree. Pray & heal, stop tryna throw your daughter under the bus 🙄
The daughter is in pain and it’s affecting her attitude. Bad attitudes push people away. I wish her mother was more loving and understanding of her daughters needs.
As soon as the breakthrough was going on with the neice and aunt, the mom runs out like she didnt want them to get along and comes out going off on the daughter. I feel for the daughter.
That's her mother's fault. Idk what it's like to not receive a mother's love or be treated by my mom in that way, but it's obviously something that's detrimental to a child. For your mom to treat someone the way you deserved to be treated and still want to, and your mom is using that to play in your face, it's wild
Exactly! Still crying bc her mother has failed her. Well, build a relationship with ur aunt and if ur mom comes around, good. If not, then what's new??
My heart really goes out to the daughter and the sister the daughter just wants a better relationship and love from mom and sister wants to be accepted from everybody in the family and not just her big sister when the mom came out again when karamo was breaking down the wall between the auntie and the daughter the mom come out and try to messed up everything
@@777JESUSISLORD71 "Someone else's kids" their her grand(kids) no one said she's responsible for her children but she can help out sometimes especially for her daughter's mental health to have a little time for herself, not all the time and she should want to be around her grandkids anyway. 🤔
I feel like everyone is being to hard on the daughter .😅 I don’t understand what’s it’s like not have a caring mother but I do understand not have a parent that have never been there for you and not taking your feelings in consideration. It seems like the mother never had love or showed love for her daughter in a way the daughter could recognize it. She probably could never go to her mom and talk about the things happening in her life and what she was going through.( to the point that she can’t even call her mom) And throughout all these years of her mother not showing love that she needed to meet as a mother she grew to hate her to a certain extent. At the end when she asks for a dna test and everyone was laughing it really hurt me to see that because she was so for real. She doesn’t even want to be related to that women that just goes to show had bad she treated her growing up. And the sister has no right to say that she doesn’t believe the daughter just because of what the mother told her. She should of sat down and have a deep talk with her to know the in and out of her relationship with her mother to truly understand what wrong with their relationship.
This mother is such a bad person- wow. I don’t watch kids… what a terrible (grand) mother. As she was going she should have been going for real - and never came back. But as she had to leave the stage that was so great!! Naomi had to learn that her „mother“ is not able to be a mother to her. And the aunt and the mom have something funny going..??!! It would be great if Naomi and her aunt become real friends and real relatives. But the mean mother will fight it. But Karma will come back and they all will get what they deserve. Naomi will be happy then!!
Same! Homeless on and off from 17 30 Mom even said, "Go back to the box you crawled out of", but whenever I pulled 70-80 hour work weeks, she had her hand out. Finally found stability and she still shitted on me for having the same goals for years that I haven't accomplished: graduating from college(2 semesters left),obtaining my CDL class A license( I have a CDL C)and getting some type of medical certification (CNA, Pharmacy Technician)(fall back plan after graduation by might aim for LPN/RN) . That was because of homelessness 🤷🏽♀️ Now the bills delay my goals 😅 I just don't understand the negative energy after 20 years 🤷🏽♀️
Please don't make that face when crying. Grow up! It's too late to cry bc ur mom failed as a mother. Grow up! Ppl grow up without their mother all the time. U have to accept the pain and grow!
@kaitlyncarey3269 I have one, just no sympathy for grown kids who wallowing in self-pity instead of going to counseling and healing themselves. 😘🖕 & her too
When I found my little sister, she was 14 years old, I wanted to show her the love she missed out on through out the years, I wanted her to bond with my family and grow up with my kids, my 22yrs old daughter was pure evil, was mean and ugly towards my sister, they eventually became like bff's but that first year was pure hell. and I raised all my kids. so I can see how a grow up daughter could feel a way - especially after the results were given, because my daughter hollered at me one day, "she not even your child.."! In my case - my daughter was spoiled and felt she would have to share me with another girl. lol
KARAMO YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU, BUT I AM SO HAPPY THAT THAT MOTHER REJECTED HER. I KNOW YOU AND I ARE NOT GOING TO SEE EYE TO EYE ON THIS ONE BUT THAT'S OKAY. I SEE WAY TOO MANY MOTHERS WHO KEEP STEPPING UP TO THE PLATE AND IT'S NEVER APPRECIATED. THE SAME WAY THESE FEMALES CAN HONOR, RESPECT AND FIGHT TO HOLD ON TO THESE TOXIC NO GOOD DUSTIES, THAT'S THE SAME THING THEY SHOULD DO FOR THEIR MOTHERS. FIGHT AND PRAY FOR THEM!!!
Wow that daughter is so hurt, and has such a big child trauma wound. I really hope she heals and can maybe get love from her aunt, because her mum seems like the problem.
The daughter need to take heed of what karamo said…. She need to stop being jealous… that trait is dangerous. It’s the mom she need to recognize is actually toxic… you can read that vibe a mile away.
Basically the daughter had kids by a bum and wants to pawn her kids off on her mom and feels like the aunt is the reason mom don't want to be a free babysitter
I agree! I have a child that behaves the same way. He created a life of chaos and tries to make the world feel sorry for him because I won't engage....
Even though the mother [Tammy] could benefit from a tad more empathy, the daughter REALLY needs to grow up! She’s way too dramatic and jealousy is a terrible trait. It infiltrates and seals your fate! I’m glad the aunt got the confirmation she needed, now she knows for sure she fits in and belongs there. The rest of the family now needs to embrace/welcome her.
How can you pass judgement so quickly and crassly? You see all this and your conclusion is that Jealousy is a terrible trait? Do you think it came out of nowhere? Do you think she’ll just wake up one day and say “hm yes the pervasive rejection I’ve felt is suddenly gone through zero forces at all” . That’s absolutely ludicrous and a gross misunderstanding of the human psyche and how vulnerable children are- and how that affects the adults they grown into being.
How can you blame someone if they didnt deserve blame? Doesn’t make sense. How are you so quick to absolve the parental responsibility to love and nurture their child??? Did you miss the part where her mother ignored her to the point she stopped even referring to her that way? Do you refer to your mother by her first name? Is that normal? Does that happen over night. I don’t think so honestly. Here’s a heart. ❤
@@1993kennyb traumatized people become emotionally stunted…. It’s up to a parent to be a role model for maturity for their children… so it’s just a reflection of her mother.
My only question is how Tammy heal from her own traumas. Tammy seemed so defeated and I could see her regret in how she’s treated her daughter but she seems lost on how to heal her daughter when she can’t even heal herself. I want to see the conclusion to this.
I disagree with how Karamo treated the mother. He took a side and stuck with it. The mother didn't even get a chance to tell her side. He blamed everything on the mother without evidence.
Karamo, you’ve been missing the mark lately. This show was NOT about the aunt. That young lady has issues with her mother crying out for love and a relationship. The mother is the root of this.
@@ariesgirl. The ep was titled sister or scammer. That was the premise of the episode she didn't bring her mom on the show to fix their relationship. She brought her aunt to see if it's her real aunt
Idk I think the daughter is embellishing a little. I truly feel her but Mothers do not HAVE TO WATCH YOUR KIDS..... where are the fathers friends etc... I don't think is right to automatically think people HAVE to watch your kids they CHOOSE to watch them and yeah if you laying with a dude and still need help cause you homeless priorities not right. I hope they mend their issues
How are you going to tell KARAMO, of the KARAMO SHOW, "NO", when he asked you to give him a minute before you come on the stage?!😅 THEN, HAVE THE AUDACITY TO LOOK OFFENDED when SECURITY had to escort you off???!!!!😅😂😂😂😂Whooooo, Child!!! 😅
If her mom didn't want to be a mom to her why in God's green earth would you want Tammy aka mama to watch your kids? The daughter is trying to force a relationship but meanwhile the mama oops Tammy doesn't want no parts of that. The aunt does though.
PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT WHAT PARENTS SHOULD DO. ACCORDING TO THE SCRIPTURES WHAT ARE THESE ADULT CHILDREN SUPPOSED TO DO? WHY SHOULD PARENTS KEEP SUPPORTING THESE ADULT CHILDREN AND WHEN THEY GROW UP THEY DON'T SUPPORT THEIR PARENTS THEY'RE TOO BUSY CHASING AFTER SOME DUSTY.
