i’m gonna do a push-up for every like. i promise. i need to improve on myself, it starts now. edit: thanks for all the likes! i’m gonna start to do the push-ups now…
So, bro here is "The Girlfriend" for me: 1) Has ambition to grow 2) Good sense of humour 3) Loyalty 4) Not my cousin (Optional) 5) Over 18 (Optional) 6) Alive (Optional) 7) Human (Optional)
@@RealNero_TV There are a ton of guys out there like that. Unfortunately, it's the wahmen chasing after the top 20% of men, so the average guys get passed up.
@@Apachemiwokmexican777get off red pill, I see that bullshit spammed everywhere riding in that train car. When you get to know women, you know that it’s only a loud minority who does that.
@@RealNero_TVI had a girlfriend almost 3 years and she was insane and obsessed with me. She would talk to me on Snapchat every night no matter what time it was and how tired we were. If I didn’t answer her texts or calls she would go off on me and cuss me out. I told her of a couple times, but she kept doing it to me. After about 8 months of us dating I broke up with her. I haven’t had a girlfriend since. I learned from that experience is to always watch out who you date with.
As a girl I am looking for “the man” for me. Jak is 100% correct. Most women are looking for kind, respectful, masculine men who are looking for their “the woman”.
Just met a Korean girl at a club in Korea who happens to be going to Germany for 2 months at the same as me who’s going for a month and a half. We might date, stay tuned folks she’s great so far
I literally can't find a good woman. I actually ran out of people on a dating app and it said there aren't any people left in my country. I only found 4 semi-decent women in the whole country
I was in 2 different mental clinics because of depression and the people there, the psychiatrists, everyone didn't help, like at all. They just tell you to be happy but they don't tell you how to be, but you make it out to be what it really is: it's not that deep. Your channel simplifies so much to me, and makes things that were impossible seem easy, a big part of my journey, if not the biggest was thanks to your videos. Thanks jak.
Man you seriously don’t know how much this means to me. Makes my day to hear stuff like this man. You should be proud of overcoming what you’ve been through bro, I hope you are ❤️
Bro... Keep it up. One thing I know about this Community... Everyone here is facing issues with their life. Even Jak is facing his personal issues and sharing what he learned to protect us. Its like a brotherhood. Dont worry, I know There are people here who will help you.
@@JakPiggott holy shit, you don't know how much this means to ME. Thank you for replying and saying what you said, I didn't think I'd get a response man, I just wanna say I'm a huge fan of what you do, your videos are so extremely high in quality, the scripts are amazing, everything is amazing, and the message you bring across is something I haven't found anywhere else. Please keep doing what you're doing and take breaks when you need to, you're helping a lot of people I can imagine.
i wish i can saw this a year ago like she knew now and she knew it from a rumour and like my friends started a rumour don't know if i have a friend that i can trust anymore. i had it planned out but hey it a waste
Thank you jak . You’re saving lives bro. I can’t even put into words how much you have changed my life and changed my perspective on the world. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Hey Jak! A viewer from the Philippines here 🇵🇭. Well, I felt the same for you, she is very attractive, she cheered me up, and most of all, she made me a man and turned my world upside down. Because of her, I stopped all of my bad habits like watching corn. We made memorable moments until sad moments came, she neither texted me nor talked to me. I always see her talking to my school bully and then, I had a feeling that she might like my School Bully instead of me. I'm just a nerd and I know no one would be attracted to me. I even confess to her but she never leave me a trace. That's oneo f the saddest moments of my life until I found your videos. Still here because of your videos! Keep it up! 👍❤
I am sure that happened for a reason brother because you wouldn't be the person you are today without it. Be proud of yourself for moving on not letting her mentally consume you, not a lot of men move on from something like that so keep your head up ❤
As a girl I can say most of this man's statements about us are true! 😂 Thanks for this video Jak! I often worry about finding someone. In this day and age, I feel it's hard to find true and good people. Their morals and beliefs are also a big thing to me. I look for someone who wants to get married and start a family. I don't want to date to date for the sake of it... if I date, it's for marriage and a long term relationship. Thanks for clearing my head again. 😅 Hope you find someone that will make you happy one day ❤
Loyal girls rarely exist. Most of them are obsessed over bad guys😢 Being most handsome in my school, many girls were behind me but same like you, I hate casual relationship. Still gave a chance to girl who was in tough with me for 2 years. But ya, she ghosted me, the moment I loved her, she shown true face 😢
@@AlphaSigmaRichMan happens... people makes mistakes in judging people. But do not worry. I know how you feel, I know the pain, I know the Frustation, I know the anger. Store it, Chanel it though Self Improvement, Like jak Says Build your Garden. When she returns for forgiveness, Stab her heart with your Kind Rejection. No harsh words.... Just "I am sorry, But you are not the one for me. I am sure you will find someone"
I feel the same way so don’t feel like your alone. There is actually quite a lot of people with great morals and values, but they tend to be the people without a social media presence. You just have to know where to look, maybe I can make a video on that someday ❤️
You never miss bro, your videos really make me think and reflect upon myself. Finding your channel has really helped me out, I’ve been watching you since 2021 and I couldn’t be luckier to have found you at the time
Man that's so great to hear, but bro you should be giving yourself a lot of credit for taking action at your age, imagine if you keep this up, you'll be so ahead it's not funny 👊❤
I made a document in word about becoming the best version of myself since I’m 12-14. I’m not a great kid even though everyone says I’m an Angel even my friends. I’ve made 10 rules and they all rock and most of them I’ve gotten from you so thank you Jak! You are a HERO❤
Hello from Russia) Recently I found your channel on RU-vid through recommendations, so I started to watch your videos and the way you think about different things is similar to me. Thanks for content! Keep doing what you’re doing!
Thanks again for the video. You are growing very fast,and I know numbers are just numbers, but all of the views on the videos you get are people who appreciate what you're doing. Personally, I would like to than you again, you are probably one of the most wise people I've heard in a long time. P.S. - Summer's coming up soon, and I feel like I kind of wasted last summer, and it went by too fast. How can I make the most of every day this summer, use it to its full potential, and not waste it? (I think that would be a pretty interesting video topic actually.) Anyways, keep doing what you are doing. I don't know if you need to hear this, but we appreciate you. Keep changing the world ✌️
Thank you so much for your words, it honestly means a lot to me and I hope you know that. In terms of living summer to its fullest, I believe (especially if you're young) there should be a balance between fun and work. You are only young once, and once you get older the summer spirit kinda drifts away, at least in my experience. So I would say the younger you are, the more "fun" you should be having. But not to much that you come back to school having not learnt anything and you are the exact same person as you were 3 months ago. It's winter here in Australia when it's summer for you guys but that's what I would do if I was looking to live summer up ❤
Bro, i'm living a similar life to you, in terms of thought processes, school, and in general my introverted nature is strikingly similar, i'm glad there's still hope for this generation, and keep up the amazing work of teaching young guys what's right, much respect bro💪
i too had a crush just as you described, just fumbled the bag too hard, she's still around, every time i walk past her 9/10 times she's locking eyes with me
These last few weeks I've been trying to talk to a really shy, quiet girl at school, and your videos are helping man! Thanks Jak! And I think she's the one! I just get worried that she doesn't like me, or that she might look back at how I used to act in the past and think I'm a dick!
Be you brother and that's all you can be, if she is the one for you she'll see how you've changed and see a lot of potential in you. The past is a school man and I'm sure you've used that school well so keep focusing on the present 👊❤
I’ve been noticing a bunch of patterns in my life lately that really make it a struggle to find THE girlfriend, so I’m hoping someone here has some thoughts. Every time I have a crush on a girl she’s either not into dudes, already dating someone, both, or like 2-3 years older than me. And due to at least one of these things ALWAYS being the case, it makes it extremely difficult to find someone who has the same mindset as me. Plus even if someone does end up being attracted to me to me, that’s solely it. They want nothing more than a hookup and don’t care about my personality at all. I enjoy meeting people so I’m not complaining that I’ve definitely made some great friends, but I haven’t been able to build a deep connection with a girl, which is honestly all I seek in a relationship. I’d love to have someone that I can goofily share my obscure interests with and vice versa. I can’t tell what I’m doing wrong, so I’d appreciate any help that can be given.
your doing nothing wrong, if you talk to women then its win. it just takes time, dont look for women in one area, there are alot of places on earth for women. women are human and alot of them are similar to us, just because there a woman dosent mean they all think the same, find who ever is right for you, dont ever settle for a girl who you dont like, its better to be single than to have a unhappy relationship
I ruined my reputation in school so I'm basically wiped out untill the end of school. I'm in year 8, I've started talking to a girl and it's clear she doesn't like like me but your content has kind of softened the blow that it hit me with. I just wanted to thank you for making this incredible content and it really does help.
I went from most liked to most hated in 8th grade. Worst case you’ll spend half of 9th grade cleaning up your mess like I did and finally have some peace in 10th and 11th. You’ll get through it.
Look man I don't know the full story so this is the only thoughts I'll give you - the people who you truly want respect from will respect you if they see that you have changed your ways and have genuinely become a person that is naturally respected in the first place. Some people at my school sometimes try and bring me down by explaining how I used to be a literal tomato in 7th and 8th grade when I got nervous, but I now realise it's like they're trying to rob me of a house I do not live in anymore. The past is simply a school my man so learn what you can and try your best to move on, again, I don't know the full story so this might be applicable,. but I hope it helps just a little ❤
@@kordiwayt738 ah, in my country (Northern Ireland) it’s for 11 to 12 year olds, and in the rest of the UK it’s for 12 to 13 year olds) but I’m in the same year as them then
Hey man, I want to say how much I love your videos. So far, everything I have watched from you has been so relatable, and your advice has given me so much hope in believing that I can be better and that I can find fulfillment. So many of your videos are saying what my subconscious has been telling me for so long. I have been struggling a lot recently, but I am not going to give up, and I will never stop until I become the best man I can be. I hope one day if I ever find the girl for me, I will be good enough to deserve her. Again, thank you so much, you have motivated me to start my journey, and you have inspired me to persevere through every struggle that comes my way.
I lost my ex almost 2 years ago. Now i dont want to live. I know no one else could ever love me. I dont think i could love anyone else again. But i also know i cant get through by myself. I dont have friends. My family is here but its not the same. I just dont know what to do. The only reason im alive is so my dad doesnt get depressed. Im overweight, ugly, and depressed. I cant change that. I cant give myself the motivation i need. No one can. My life is pointless. The only thing i have a passion for is singing, but im horrible at it. Im not good at anything. Im a slow learner so i annoy everyone when i try to do anything new. So i dont. I just sit in my room and wish i was never born. I know no one cares enough to read all this shit because why would you. Have a good day
your horrible singing : sing more, remove any shame from singing infront of a mirror, do what makes you happy and remember that your opinon matters the most not what others say. your ex: move on, this is brutally honest but she dosent matter anymore, its all about you now friends: you will get friends it just takes time, i didnt talk to anyone and i had 0 friends, my friends naturally came to me and so will to you, just be a good person and be yourself, dont be a fake dude who follows others. overweight: can change that, but if you dont have the energy just do it slow slow learner: dont care about what others say, take your sweet time, it wont matter at all what others say, atleast your doing something even if it is slow as heck.
Bro this guy is such à nice person man. Just by looking on how you are responding to almost every comment with great response we know you are a kind person. You deserve the world and thank you for teaching stuff to the younger ones too. I let you know that I am from France, I am 16 and I think that I have a great life with lots of friends, caring parents and brothers so I am very lucky. But you know I can still improve by listening what people can teach me. Thank you for your Channel ❤
You are literally the person on RU-vid, I can relate the most. Maybe because I’m 17 but also especially bc of the video you’ve made about social anxiety. I can really relate to that. I still have strong problems with that mostly because of my looks. That is also the big reason why I don’t do RU-vid, bc I fear it to stand before camera and upload vids. In general the opinion of others is way to important for me but I don’t know how to change that bc even if I say I don’t care, I still have the fear. Great work keep going
Thank you Jak. I’ve been lost after my parents divorced, besides God, you’ve helped guide me back to my best version of myself. I went to prom and have turned from a 3 to a 6.5. 🙏 thank you
Hey Jak, I really loved this video, and i recon making a video about communication would be a great idea, because some people, including myself just don't know how to start a conversation with a girl, whether its by text or in person, so if you could do that it would be life changing
Thank you brother, I am making one next week so stay tuned, it's not going to be just for girls but for overall communication and how to improve your speech ❤
I've felt a certain lonely feeling lately but at the same time I know that the girls at my school arent who I want to spend the rest of my life with, so I know it's not the right time. Thank you jak, it helps so much with what ur putting out for free. Ur a good person
Dude facts!! It’s like all of the ones at my school aren’t very mature even if they think they might be. Or maybe it’s just my view of mature? Idk sure feels that way bro so I get u
Hey buddy, recently Cody Ko dissed you and even though reacting to hate from strangers is the worst thing to do in this situation, I would love to learn more about how to deal with hate from other people. Just a suggestion. PS loved this vid ❤
Because of you, my life is rebuilding Jak I am only 18 years old, but already burned out from 10 years of trouble. Because of you I realise the things that are worth fighting for.
It has been such long time since I tried to watch a video without looking at the comments. I just focused on the video and even tried to hide the captions so I can focus on listening to it. The summary/lesson of this video which I will remember, is this; I am looking for 'the' girlfriend. I am not seeking 'a' girlfriend. I look for feminine traits, and rejection no longer affects my mood, because they are not 'the' girl I want. I will set a standard for what kind of woman I want in my life. I will work on my character to match the type of value I seek in her. Thank you for the video brother, it feels like this video just started a new life for me. God bless
I have been friends with this girl I have known for 10 years, she has never friends zoned me or anything, but when we were young we talked about getting married and be together a few times, but when I was forced to move a bit away from her we started to talk a lot less, like once a year because I am not aloud to have a phone. Then she got a bf and I just don't know what to do anymore, I feel empty.
Bro your videos are the best. My confidence and overall mental health in general has massively improved because of you and this video was a great help. The part where you mentioned to not let rejection get you down is the best advice, I asked out a girl a few years ago and was rejected but I didn't let it get me down I just continued with my life and accepted that she wasn't the one. If you are planning to ask somebody out, make peace with the fact that they not be the one for you and that it might be sometime before you meet 'the one' Stay strong everyone!
Thank you Jak for sharing your messages. My screen time has gone down about 2hrs because of your videos, and you have made me more motivated. Thanks a lot and love from NZ ❤
Can I just say Man U r helping so many people including myself. You have given me courage to ask out a girls I like and I think she is the one. You also helped me get rid of my corn addiction. I truly hope u keep up the work and continue inspiring young men like me to do well in life
God Jak’s videos are always hit like you’re talking with a close friend about some personal stuff and it just feels comforting. Thanks for being such a great guy my dude, keep it up
Your videos are absolutely amazing man. They always seem to come at the right times in my life when I can utilize them the most. This is no different. Thanks for the change in my viewing of dating as a whole, this made me realize that I don’t need to be actively pursuing a relationship right now, as it probably won’t be anything long-term. I’m going into High School next year, and I’ve still got a ton of time to find the perfect girl.
I would really love a video in communication. I can be very awkward when trying to speed with someone else, especially a girl. I found your videos less than a week ago and I find them very enlightening. Keep it up!
mate, i don't know how i can thank you. You really changed my life, litteraly. I have a girlfriend now, people who care about me and always talk with me, heck, i was even a big introvert and thanks to your vids i changed for good. Thank you so much, i hope that i can meet you one day bro. Good luck on your life aswell
Wow! That's the one thought that I have, without a doubt every time I watch one of your videos. I just want to say thank you so much for bringing meaningful and perspective shifting content to this platform. You are helping me view my objectively crappy current life circumstances in a lens of curiosity, and encouraging me to see the good in the pain and seek out the ways I can still try to improve every day. Your simplified outlook on topics I struggle to fully understand myself, is so amazing, and I was blown away to learn your only a year older than me. Gosh, I would just love to have a sit down conversation with you, because your approach to things is so amazing yet so simple. Thank you again for doing what you do on here, and I hope that you are great within yourself behind the online presence. ❤
Thanks bro for this video. I'm going out of a sort of rejection and it particularly helps me to think that it's completely okay to feel the way I feel and that if I can't do it for this person, I can do it for THE person. Thank you very much.
You could make avideo of not just how you can talk to girls, but just people you don't really know, in general. So many people under like 20, have a very hard time talking to strangers.
Thank you Jak. Truly, you have made me think about my self slightly more positive, building up more and more courage. I have changed some of the negatives in my life that you've explained and it's changed my life. I hope this video helps me with my relationship life at some point as well.
Im not an emotional guy but for some reason this guy makes me cry because i realise how down bad a person i am. Im also grateful because he also makes me want to improve my life. Thank you for making me improve. You're one of the reasons i started working out and i started eat more to gain weight , lose those habits that are bringing me down and i feel less depressed. It might be "cringe" saying this as 14 year old but thats just how i feel like. Thanks jak❤
I love your videos Jak this video helped me put some things in perspective i wouldnt have thought about otherwise you have helped me improve my life physically and mentally because of your videos, your awesome man!
This video helped me so much, I've been struggling with this exact thing for the longest time trying to just go for any girl which explains why I'm not that successful when talking to women but you just changed my whole mindset with this! Thank you!
Hey bro, idk if you'll see this comment or not, but I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for helping me to improve myself, not just on the outside, but on the inside too. You see, last year was a low point for me. My mental health was poor and I couldn't focus on school so my grades dropped, I felt lonely. But since then, I started working out even more, reading, going outside more, seeing my true friends more and left toxic friends. You have made such a big impact on my life, allowed my to set my priorities and make my life more productive. I honestly couldn't thank you enough. Have a good one bro and keep doing what you're doing
I really needed this video, I have been seeking a girlfriend for a little bit now, but I was never good enough for them. But knowing that there is “the” girlfriend out there for me is all I need to know 🙂
6:52 I'm a 25 year old guy, who doesn't know "the girl" yet. I've only started reflecting myself deeper in recent years. Don't rush it, a lot less people have themselves figured out, than it seems.
You remind me so much of my best friend who is in the hospital at the moment, you always make me smile when i see your face. Keep inspiring others brother 🙏❤
I met a girl who I got really close with we met and spoke to eachother nearly every day and we became very close we don't talk much anymore but she is still one of the nicest people I have ever met in my whole life it was the most genuine and real relationship I was in
Man, you're such an inspiration, it's truly amazing what you do for others and myself included, I hope everything goes well for you, much love ❤️ (it's actually kind of embarrassing how quickly I clicked on this video 😅)
5:54 This is so true. The issue for me and my bros, is we’re scared of approaching or talking to girls. We know we need to adopt the attitude of not letting our fears keep us away, but it’s still hard for us. Worrying about saying the right thing, fumbling words, being seen as a weirdo or even a creep. These are the irrational fears we have in our heads. But it’s true that we must look for THE girl and not any girl. We should look for personality and not just care about looks. And so what should we care about possible rejection the first go around? We’ll take it step be step, and get over our fears. I’m sure I’ll find the one for me eventually. My guys too. Much love 💯🔥👊
Even though im 14 i met the love of my life man she has everything i like about her ♥️ and now that i have a gf idk why but i always push myself extra doing stuff now i just feel so happy that even doing the bad stuff is fun (like going to the gym with dad)
Hey jack,I am 14 and I've been watching you for months and i think i have matured so much, even though i say stupid things, a lot of my friends and my family told me that I am a lot mature for my age, and I've never had a girlfriend, and its not because of my insecurities or anything, I see alot of attractive girls in my school, but after watching ur video, i came to realize that non of the girls i find attractive are "the girlfriend" and i have a few couple of female friends and they have the values that i am looking in a woman, but i am not tryna get a girlfriend right now, because i feel like i still have a lot of progress to do on self improving, and after watching you i feel like i get driven even more, Thank to you because of you I had understood the reality of life. Love you man ❤❤
I used to think that my ideal partner would be someone who checked off traits (superficial or not) I listed down mentally, but now I feel like the best partner anyone can have is someone who's kind and makes you want to become a better person. 'Cause when you're in it for the long term, you'd want to be with someone who can grow with you and also pushes you to grow Thanks again for the great vid, Jak! I hope anyone out there who reads this will be able to find a person who adds more color to their life :>
I met this girl on my holidays, was chilling with her in the pool all day, if I weren’t on holidays she would probably be my gf, that there made me realise how easy it actually is, I’ve always been so scared to talk to girls, afraid that I’ll get rejected or something but I’ve realised that you just go for it. Man I had so much fun chilling with that girl, never got her snap or even a selfie, so some day I’ll forget what she looks and sounds like, yeah it fucking sucks but that’s life, I’ll always have that impact
Hey Jak! As always, thank you for always keeping it real and giving great advice. You are helping our generation and future generations for the better, so I genuinely appreciate how much you've helped me and other young men alike. I just wanted to know if The Breakthrough is still open. I would love to join your community.
When i imagined the perfect girl for me a few years back i came up with this beautiful funny woman with a hilariously cute smile. I didnt meet this woman for a while but about 9 months ago now there was this girl called "ki" who looked and talked exactly how imagined my ideal woman. She was an exchange student. We instantly were so obviously attracted to eachother, i mean the way she smiled at me (even if i made even a mediocre joke) will never leave my mind. We had 3-4 really deep and long conversations over the course of the year. And even though people said we should get together, i never made a move (mostly due to how recent it was after my last 'crush' and some other personal reasons). One day my friend counted how long we held eye contact for at a restaurant, he looked at me when she left and said '73 seconds, 73 fucking seconds of staring in her eyes. But no, you dont like this girl' i somehow continued to deny it despite our obvious connection. But when the end of the year came around she moved back home and thats when i realised, she really was the girl, i was devastated and still kinda am, but i hold hope that if it's real love we'll find out way back to eachother but i suppose my biggest fear is that i found "the girl" and threw it away.
