Why God Allows Toxic Relationships: 5 Ways He Uses Them for Your Good

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Why God Allows Toxic Relationships: 5 Ways He Uses Them for Your Good
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Hi! I’m Shaneen Megji. It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church. God truly doesn’t waste anything. Each and every experience and all the studies I have done help me in my passion to set people free from the bondage and oppression of narcissistic relationships, to help survivors of such pain regain their authentic selves and their hope in God’s good plans for them, and to re-educate the church around toxic leadership.
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@richardbensinger6922 День назад

No matter how devastating it may be now. It's where healing starts. He can and will use this for good.

@kittiemartha2079 День назад

And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten...Joel <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="145">2:25</a>

@mtc-j9i 15 часов назад

Amen 🙏🏽 ❤ year after year of wasted investment in people I loved but didn’t love me. It was a waste. I am believing God for restoration.

@naowright9308 15 часов назад

This is exactly what God has done for me. I was a massive people pleaser and there a few people whose opinion mattered more than anyone. I held their opinions as the opinions of God. I now don't give a rip what they think. I am willing and have called them out on their bad behavior. They have tried to put me down and smear me, but it has made me more independent. Everything is changing. The light has illuminated the end of the tunnel.

@PridelessChickz День назад

Dealing with countless painful relationships has grown my discernment unlike anything else. Now I'm about to marry a Prince who treats me like the Princess that I am😇

@ShaneenMegji День назад

I'm so happy to hear that! Praise God!

@OurHighPriest День назад

AMEN sister 🤍🤍🤍

@georgeteo8797 21 час назад

I am a prince and married a princess… My biggest mistake was that I didn’t have a butler… so soon after the honeymoon I became the butler! It’s been 35 long years with a demanding princess who used intimacy to get what she wanted! I would trade the millions for a shack in the woods with someone who really loves me… but it’s too late, unless time can be turned back…

@Rixster53 День назад

In Christ Alone, my hope is found, he is my strength, my life, my ALL! When I have wrestled with the Lord about my toxic spouse he answered me, suffer it to be so for now child, “my grace is sufficient” for thee! Not necessarily the answer I was looking for but, he is always right! I’m stronger for it…😇

@rickyrobertson1851 День назад

Thank you for this eye opening message. You hit me right where I am. Thank you! Stay Blessed!

@hestercastlemansa2976 День назад

It was very tough but I'm starting to see the light. A lot was revealed. What a painful journey.

@foxygayla День назад

It's definitely a very hard and painful journey. Totally agree. ❤

@TheBlondiekitten День назад

Thank you so much 💪🥰🤩 You are a blessing from God/ Jehovah/ Yahweh ❤❤❤

@aaronkwolfe День назад

I got kicked out of my home by toxic (now ex) spouse. I ended up right across the street from a church I’d likely never visit. I was about done with “churchianity,” but the cheerful greeter made me willing to try just 1 visit. I’m still there, 9 years later, with a whole church family, a mens’ ministry, and tons of peace.

@aaronkwolfe День назад

I was, at first, strategizing the legal route, but their Divorce Care and many sermons, got me to going the Biblical route.

@thechubbyhiker4142 День назад

Thank you so much for the freeby!!! I’ll look forward to reading that!! I have a toxic mother and a toxic husband. Slowly learning boundaries and soon filing for divorce. God has strengthened me beyond my expectations. I’m so blessed and grateful. God has also shown me my own toxic traits and am working on that too!! God is truly a treasure. THE treasure! Thanks again and many blessings to you!

@aleciawimer8506 3 часа назад

I had to have an emergency surgery 2 weeks ago. I’ve been running a fever everyday for the past 3 weeks, and it’s been really hard. This is on top of other difficult situations. I welcome your prayers. I’m a mother of six.

@katherineirvin7464 День назад

I do believe that God can use all things for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purposes. If something we do or perhaps a situation where we may had been warned of prior to, we can learn obedience through things we may suffer. So when we see those "red flags" again, and we will, we are more self aware to deploy and stand in strong boundaries. Therapy and counseling are always a plus in staying aware of our emotional state and any blind spots so as to not be ensnared into toxic relationships.

@enojelmeli 13 часов назад

Thank you for the reminder that we need to hold on to the vision God has given even when circumstances don't match up to what God has spoken. No one can stop God's plan for our lives. Blessings on your ministry. You are helping us to heal. ❤

@jenelleeckel5799 День назад

God uses circumstances for teaching and growing us, but He does not set us up! We set ourselves up or we are put into difficult relationships. But, it is our responsibility to heal from it and hopefully learn a few things.

@aleciawimer8506 3 часа назад

The last 4 years have been “a time to loose” from Ecclesiastes 3. The losses are piling up, but trusting in God.

@oliviasalas5420 День назад

Thank you, this message has reminded me to stay focused on what God is doing in my life🙏

@robertmcgirr401 День назад

Thank you. I'll dwell on this. May help answer questions, emotions.

@wesmeyer4491 День назад

Bless you for standing against the enemies attacks...God Bless!

@ChristopherARLANDOO День назад

Hi lovely shaneen thanks for another video amen jesus 🙏

@johannaeriksson9458 День назад

In all the confusion and sadness, your videos feel like a warm hug. You are a light in the darkness 🤍

@BrideofChrist11 День назад

This was TRULY Wisdom of God!!! It really ministered to me .... ~~ thank you 🙌🔥🔥🔥🎯🧡

@moniqueberrian5880 17 часов назад

This was such a great video. And it has definitely been a learning experience for me. The things my family and I have experienced are helping us in our organization 🙌🏾. Although it’s been painful, it is needed. I Praise God for being such a loving and amazing father🙌🏾🙌🏾❤❤. Thank you again

@ehallam08 День назад

You got in my head and picked exactly everything. Outstanding

@ShaneenMegji День назад

Praise God! I'm so glad to hear that.

@janeylynn5934 День назад

Due to chronic health issues, I've been stuck living with my narc parents my entire adult life. No financial resources means no way out. I've spent years and years praying for freedom, and God has never answered any of my prayers. This isn't just a "difficult season," this is an entire lifetime.

@Garden366 День назад

❤

@Sunshine-Rainbows 15 часов назад

I’m sorry you are going through this. When you’re in it, it can seem like a lifetime of nothing but suffering. I suffered for 17 years under a narc mother (absent father). Then married one, it’s all I’ve known. I started praying almost immediately after getting married about our marriage and how I was being abused. Suffered with him for 17 years before God finally called me out of it. I was desperately seeking God at the end because I was suffering in a toxic workplace and coworkers and it was coming at me from work and home. I heard very clearly God was telling me to step out and leave the relationship with him over a period of a year and a half. It took me so long because I’m like surely God would not be telling me this. But he lovingly pursued me and was persistent in this. I made a plan to escape and eventually my husband finally admitted everything he was doing and had done, and it was way more than I could have even fathomed. We are now separated. Life is still a struggle doing it all and having no job, but my girls and I live in peace now and it is so worth it! God heard me, he still does, and God hears you too!

@MushrafatOladimeji 13 часов назад

God will liberate you 😢

@aleciawimer8506 3 часа назад

You have to get to the third stage of prayer: 1. Take this cup from me. 2. Not my will but thine be done. 3. Mine hour has come (acceptance). Jesus showed this in the garden. The third stage is @acceptance,” which is a cease from struggling, agonizing, etc… God moves when we accept His will as a calm, settled, trusting, weaned child. Godliness with contentment is great gain. Seek to be satisfied in where God has you now. Look for the silver lining. We have to trust in His perfect timing and enjoy good days now. God waits on us to have the right spiritual mindset, very often.

@wookieiam1 День назад

Oh no, no ,no, it's not part of Gods plan to get into toxic relationships like marriage. We are supposed to obey when the word says do not be 😮 unequally yoked. When we get married, we are supposed to be circumspect . In this country, most marriages are not prearranged. There is a personal choice that gives options to be carefully considered. God doesn't set the plan to be abused so that somehow we learn a life lesson or get special dispensation. That's nuts.

@deniselong1344 День назад

❤

@sheryl7638 7 часов назад

Excellent!! Thank you!! ❤🙏

@richellepeace4457 22 часа назад

Its always about boot camp for the head count at the dinner...Why doesn't anyone address the fact that HE chose what womb and situation that starts the whole mess. Jacob, Joseph, etc. People that jump to affiliate are also the ones who crave affiliation. Comes down to what your knit for. You must like yours....

@juliepora3875 5 часов назад

Thank you for this.

@rosemondamponsah8243 День назад

Very true

@joekingsbury9595 День назад

Thank you for all you do Shaneen. I was wondering if you belong to a specific religion? I was raised Catholic but stopped going by age 14. Nowadays I mostly read the Bible alone, but when the need to be around like minded people I usually go hang out at the local Kingdom Hall (JW). I'm not a sworn member but they are always so welcoming and kind, it's like you can feel the Holy Spirit in the air, I love it. I keep my hair long, have a rocker dude type appearance which they hassle me about sometimes, lol. I tell them to read Numbers <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="365">6:5</a>......

@LuckyToucan-xs6ru День назад

God doesn't give you what, he gives you what he thinks you need.....

@davidminnis7158 19 часов назад

Thank you!

@TruthandJustice-hz9nv День назад

Thank you so much for this Shannen, Absolutely tremendous, I know what god is telling me, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory praise and smiles to the most high :-)

@7me100 14 часов назад

Timely 😊

@IamHisHeismine 15 часов назад

What if God doesn’t fill your deepest needs when you desperately needed him to?? I’m starting to think maybe God just gives up on some people and doesn’t really care about everyone.

@MeCynthiaAnn День назад

You are SO PRECIOUS dear! Thanks for the videos. Hugs from Cynthia Ann in JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA

@bvon5630 День назад

Thx Shaneen.

@wittymystic7361 День назад

So, you believe in reincarnation? This must be true. Otherwise, past wounds could not exist if the relationship God wants to heal is parental. For me, that's where the wounds began.

@rockkstah2550 18 часов назад

Welcome to the fallen nature, it’s not that we’re sinners, but we are SIN. It’s why we do sinful acts. It is why we must be born again of a whole different nature from GOD JESUS. And remain in it, at the same time constantly crucifying the old nature…