Why He Sends Mixed Signals || Coach Ken Canion 

A therapist once told me and that when someone gives you mixed messages it's because they're confused. I believe it

It’s time for men to EVOLVE‼️ Grow up already. All this back and forth and this rule and that rule. Be an adult and be real. Simple 😊

I’m tired of men saying there aren’t any good women out there when they have a good woman but don’t know how to treat her. Then when that good woman is gone they say I wish I had treated her better.

I see so many women today putting in way too much effort way too early on. It's as if you're trying to prove to him just how special you are. Believe me. That never works. Men are Hunters who enjoy the hunt, catching the prize. Start acting like that prize then see what happens.

In other words, he wants to use you for his benefit without expectation.

Wow I'm tired of the mind games and just the games in general.

When a man wants a woman, There Is No Mountain High Enough, no River wide enough, no challenge big enough for him to not pursue you.

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

"Dating is about collecting data without sx. Dating is about *seeing* who is in alignment with our core values."

If men want to date other women it should be discussed early on in the dating process. This way he doesn't look like a cheater.

Awesome - thank you!! I am hurt (I am owing it), but I have decided that I am not going to be an option 😊

Thanks for this video I’m going to save it so I can listen to it again. The one part I really like is the part when you said give a man the same amount of energy he gives you.

Why do they try to come back around after they have been married (2x), not to mention he didn't mention ANYTHING about the last marriage the whole time we were "collecting data" 😂?

So true I just wrote down what I need to express in a letter to my guy. He is not speaking to me because of a prank he actually took it the wrong way. Right away I confessed and apologized but he hasn't responded so I feel like I need to change up too I haven't text I want to tell him I'll step back but I decided to go less talk and text. And limit access so this video confirms a lot I do the morning text and play by play what I'm doing. Now to see if he values me!

I never communicated what I wanted because I felt if I have to ask for something he should naturally want to give me on his own, then what I get as a result of asking for it is not genuine. That's why.

If a man is unsure, he shouldn't send sh**t signal of anything

The person I converse with we are very open with each other and he voiced he didn't want a relationship right now. (He's been single for 8 years) and I told him that's okay just know I will be "dating" other people. I rep the benefits of him I get his time, he gets me whatever I want and supports and invest in my goals and dreams and I definitely have benefits I know others don't. At this time I am okay with how we are, we are both working towards our financial goals and still yet benefit from each other and I'm not speaking sexually!

All you said is just the truth,wish I did all this when I was younger..

you killed it with the video! bless all us here amen.

I sent him a text saying I'll be moving on because I need more from a man. It was passive reciprocation from him for months. He blocked me on everything the next day and I mirrored him by blocking him back. It's 12 days of no contact since then. I guess time will tell if he ever wanted and valued me. I've completely stopped caring and pulled back. I was tired of the mixed signals and wasting my own energy and time on someone who no longer was prioritizing or investing in me.

Brilliant, as soft as a dove and shrewd as a serpent!

Wow this video stepped all over my toes. I’m dealing with someone who sending me huge mixed signals. I’m so over it!

My subscription button has been smashed 👍🏾👍🏾😁

I like this coach very much. God bless you.❤

Just came across your channel and the video was so refreshing to hear I had to subscribe. !!! Thank you 🙏🏾

Absolutely loved this video. Very fresh perspective, and you are very wise. Thank you!

Great advice ❤

Thank you Coach

Great information. Thanks

This is good, i feel like i was getting passive reciprocation😂

Ooooh sooooo sureal!!! I enjoyed it. Coach. Ken!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉we salute you celebrate your giftedness on relationships!! Thank you fir keeping it really real!! Rhonda Prater Merced. California . Happy. New Year's!!!

I hate everything abt mind games

I wish I was thought this before getting married 😞

❤ best advice evet. Thanks

Facts

Great video Coach Ken. I struggle with one of the points you mentioned. I’ve been transparent and vulnerable telling a guy what I want, what behavior I accept and what I don’t. The issue I’ve encountered particularly in my last situation was the guy heard what I was saying and corrected his behavior but only for a while. He went back to the same things he was doing. How can I avoid this pattern going forward?

I don't know what you mean by value. I had a guy that I had been broken up with, but whom I had been able to talk into coming by my house to fix my tv set. He didn't want to do it, but he's great with fixing stuff so I asked and asked so he came by just to shut me up, I guess. Turns out, I was given a brand new tv set which took all of thirty minutes to hook up. He was still there ten hours later. He just had to fix everything in my apartment. He even asked me if I could use one of those swivel shelves for my new tv. I said, "Sure" thinking he meant that he'd just drop it off sometime when he's back in the neighborhood. No. The next day is Sunday. I'm sittin' around in my drawers correcting some papers and he calls from his car. Says he's on his way with a shelf. I ask him if he could come another day but he says no 'cause he's aready halfway to my house. Didn't even bother to call to ask if it was okay. He gets there but instead of just handing me the shelf through the door, taking all of sixty seconds, he has to come in and take ANOTHER then hours to fix up whatever he didn't get to fix the day before. THEN, when I call him the next day to thank him and jokingly say, "Dude, if you're even around here again, I could use some expert advice on picking out a new microwave", dude gets mad, says he doesn't have anymore free time, I'm bothering him and refuses to even speak to me over that for months. He valued me enough to fix everything in my house without even being asked, but then went right into not speaking to me for months because I was bothering him when I called to thank him again for his time. Like I said, I don't know what you mean, but I know that this man is not worthy of anybody.

A man 48 yrs old calling me everyday talks, opens up, but wont go out is a mixed signal? We went on a date 5 times.. never kissed but the attraction was strong

Thank You I'm going to break up the routine. Then I'm gonna break it off and find someone else. I don't wanna marry him!

Coach, great video thank you does this apply to dismissive avoidants as well? My guy is a dismissive avoidant and he gives me mix signals. Is this because he doesn’t value me enough?

I hate dating these days .smh everything is. A Game .and people jst wanna serial date o link up.over it

You are most welcome coach thank you

attention seeking leave them

Coach, what about the man that’s always giving to you financially even if he could’ve done something else with it (I don’t ask he just does things for me) he’s said he’s unsure and I told him to figure it out I took sex off the table and he still wants to take care of me and do things for me and take me out but says I’m perfect and feel I’m too good for him .. he wants sex but there’s no title so I don’t give it ..

So tired to play his Games i am a beautiful woman i dont need him

Xxxxxzzzzzz Xsan 4😂

Manipulation coach 😅