As long as they continue to do it afterwards and not just in the beginning and wants to help with keeping the household and be together with the children when they come home instead of just sitting in the sofa watching TV
@@anastasiastergaard7625 That's not courtship, that's the result of courtship. Men need time at end-of-day to reboot. We need peace and quiet, which could be watching some mindless show on TV. It varies, but probably 30 - 60 minutes. He'll emerge when he's recharged.
Demand?. If only!. We are so confused, anything we do is wrong. Most men know how to do proper courtship, the problem being that too many women belittle us for trying. Dating is a lose-lose, so we don't even try to date. If you encourage old fashioned courtship, you'll have it in spades.
@@kittell6486sorry, I misunderstood the word. I’m Danish, haha😛😉 You’re completely right, it’s allowed to take a little break when you come home. It’s just not always possible especially if you have kids or like me have a ton of things to do even though I’m just me, myself and I. The worst thing I know is to feel that I waste my time. And therefore I don’t relax a bit when I come home from studying. And I’m exaggerating a bit because I like to be a bit savage and provoking. You see, I’m from a family where my father and stepdad didn’t do it and we’ve never had a TV in my mothers house so I’m raised with men not doing so. That’s where my perspective comes from.
My breaking point was when the man I was dating for 7 months, asked me to throw away his trash on my way out. At that point, I just KNEW I was doing something wrong. Cause AIN'T NO WAY a man would ask this of a woman he respected. (Btw of course I refused and told him he had no manners, and I seriously considered breaking up with him. He apologized and I gave him a second chance, but I changed my approach COMPLETELY. No longer chasing him, always being available or showing all my emotions. Now, he respects me much more and he treats me wayy better.)
So high value men want more than a partner but a mother and wife too they want all and it’s so difficult to have because it’s not fair for all men who don’t have anything to have such high standards
When I was in my 20s, a man told me my standards are too high and I am high maintenance. From there I lowered my standards and I was mistreated by all men I met. Now in my 40s, I am starting over… doing it right with my high standards and boundaries
I can relate. I was a pick me in my 20s. I'm still struggling with that. I don't want to be a pick me anymore. In my 30s I want to have higher standards.
I love your videos. Having high standards and high maintenance protects you from losers. We know our worth and know how to manifest a good man. Either you want us or don’t. I refuse to go Dutch. A man will court and wine and dine me. I’m gone show black women what I learned ❤
So many women are gold-diggers, many men won't go for expensive first dates. Or second & third. If you insist on inexpensive, even free, dates, you'll go a long ways towards proving you are a high value woman.
Alot of men are broke and have to take all these women out on dates and spend money so it gets monotonous. So you really have to date up if you want to be spoiled and taken care of. These men who work 9-5 or work at a j.o.b. cannot give you the lifestyle that your looking for. Don't even bother with them. They have to date women with low standards and who don't require much because they are easier to deal with and sleep with. You have to say I'm high value and I will stay single until I get what I want. Period. Plus you want someone to meet you where you are financially and especially future long term goals.
Only pay if you know each other well and hes spent the last dime on you. If Hes rich then theres no excuse. It turned me off big time with this guy, who had a lot of money, and he allowed me to pay knowing Im still young and dont have much. Never saw him again and dated my own age. This means we have to swap paying for things due to being fully aware of our finances. Its a huge difference.
Women are the prize and deserve support and happiness and value ourselves and make self love glow up content to inspire black women. Staying in room and away from drainers and dysfunctional family. Get job and save money and move out and stop wasting time. It’s now or never. I be overwhelmed so much. I had enough being treated less than. Thank you for advice and encouragement ❤
Lisa whenever you posts a new video it's makes my day better and better💖🥺🥺 and my sister never missed any one of your videos and I wish you have a beautiful week ahead
Yes Lisa, this is right! Very important content😊 But I have a question. How was your trip to the amalfi coast last spring? I thought there might have been a video about you and the ladies but haven't seen anything yet. Did I miss it? And will there be another one next year?
Merry Christmas Lisa.💜Everytime I learn something new when I watched one of your videos... Yesterday I celebrated my 25th birthday..I am glad that I happened to see your videos at an early age because there is still so many things I have to learn...Your videos are so valuable..🥰
Good thing I stumbled upon this video because I had this one guy friend of mine (btw, I don't talk to him anymore) who made fun of me by telling me that I will grow old alone without knowing the reason why I remain alone. As upset and angry as I was, I thought to myself, Maybe I just had an unrealistic standard, maybe i'm not beautiful enough or maybe love is just isn't for me. That's why it made me feel insecure and bad about myself, but then, on second thought, I asked myself, Is it worth it to give your energy to someone you're not compatible with? because honestly, compatibility is a must for me, especially since I find intelligence sexy, and it's funny to me because I realized that my guy friend thinks that his world revolves around having a relationship, and worst of all, he thinks that being in a relationship is a personality trait. 😂 Thankfully, I watched this video because I thought that something must be wrong with me. I may be single, but at least I didn't stoop down to his level.
Congrats, you've taken a big step. Follow Lisa of course, she's outstanding at educating women. Follow SarahDawnMoore, BillieRaeBrandt, Courtney Ryan, EmilyWKing, The Happy Wife School. The first 3 are aimed at men, but it sure will educate you about us. How we think/act, what we like/don't, more. New Wave Fem****m took over, brainwashing many women to follow their movement. Everything they say is completely opposite from the truth. Women are wired to create a family w/mate, staying at home. This is just one example of "I don't need a man" being a lie. Yes, women can live on their own, but it brings out the masculinity. We have that covered, we want a feminine woman. There are a lot of women making videos about how they wish they had married a Good Man before they hit 30. Problem is, most Good Men are taken or looking for younger women. The biggest problem is NWF wants women to be victims, so they don't need to change. Follow the brainwashing. A woman who looks at herself is no victim, she's in charge of her life. Don't believe a word I say until you can educate yourself and verify/refute. Best wishes and good luck.
From the words you spoke he was bitter. You sound interesting and write in a fun way. Men will say all sorts of things when they feel rejected. Its really odd and not something that should be done unless theres injustice.
Being hard to get is better than being literally difficult. No dignity is nasty. Must be a gentleman and provides. Compatibility and respects the union, Amen! Great video Lisa, as always.
Thank you Lisa for this video❤I have another content idea for the future. Could you do a video about the best books you read about femininity and high value woman ? Love you ❤
Thank you Lisa I enjoy your videos and try to learn what you’re teaching us. May I ask you to be a little more specific in how to let men know what we value pleas? Like I like a man with a purpose and is trying to reach his goal… I could not find this in my ex and he thought I’m leaving him because he is not rich enough, which is not true actually I have my own income and yes I like it when my man is making money but money is not everything to me…I have problem to tell my man my vision and what is really important to me..thank you for your great videos and points❤
Maybe u are to protected by urself so no one dare approach. I think u can try make flirting eye contacts with someone that looking at u, so men can get safely to approach. And when they approach u say "I just wanna say hi" and the rest let see how he try. Make sure he is unmarried man too
3:55 - even if you don't want kids as a woman, you still should have standards and have self respect and be high value. A man shouldn't want you as a wife simply because he wants to have babies with you
You are sadly mistaken. Yes High Value Men seek women with Standards. They do seek women who are Gentle and supportive. Just ask a High Value Man. I'm a Standard Man. But I often ask ask High Value Men What do they seek in a Woman. I'm 50 years old. Not a teenager.
Well I never said that a woman should not be gentle and supportive! I teach femininity and softness on my channel so I know ;) And I have a high value partner. I know what high value men want. They want a feminine woman, soft and supportive but also a woman who have standards and self respect!
@@Lisaglamour Thank You for your Reply. I understand. I watch your channel. And I did subscribe. I try to be brutally honest with myself. I consider myself an average man. Not of high value. I'm cowardly(afraid of a fight)...Fearful of strangers...I don't possess enough money houses or real estate. I do not know how to conduct business. But I was born with autism(Asperger's)And I suffer from childhood trauma. I have a partner...she is feminine...not too supportive...and Fortunate for me she has lowered her standards. Nobody likes being alone. We both have our pros and cons. I'm extremely loyal...supportive...and I'm still a male so I do protect her. And I share my financial ability with her unquestioningly. Happy Holidays to You @Lisaglamour.
but what if she doesnt want children and she wants to give him all her love and not share it? does it mean she should be only a distraction? the world doesn't need more kids.. why would a men not take or love a woman seriously if she doesnt want children or maybe she is a bit older like 45 years old and she wants a life partner without kids filled with sex and love and passion and respect ..
Of course you are allowed to not want children, and a man can absolutely love you, cherish you and treat you like a queen without you two having children
Think about this, if you view her as the prize, it means you're putting her on a pedestal and yourself in a submissive, beta position. You're surrendering to her. She's leading the dynamic and is the captain of the relationship. She's the leader and you're the follower. It's definitely not masculine and not alpha
Is that the right image in the thumbnail you? Is it AI generated? If it is, wow you look incredible. I also saw someone similar to you in the "How to stop attracting losers" video and now i can't understand if this is you or not because she has your features but the hair is so different 🤣🤣
High value woman like complex men as well, why would i fall for a guy that agrees with every word i say and simps all day for me, clingy men are just weak
I wish all women reclaimed their power. The dating scene is terrible and men are really doing the bare minimum! I also do a lot of movie analysis and, trully we can see that the more modern the movie is the standards are dropping lower and lower. This alone will never let us thrive in our relationships and in life. Nothing good can come out of us having low standards
