Why I don't fear death (and you shouldn't either) 

The last words my dad said to me were” Oh Sandy…….it’s SO beautiful” I can still hear him 26 years later💙

I don’t fear dying. I just fear suffering miserably right before I die.

My mother's last coherent words before she would die a few days later, were "Everyone is here!". She smiled consistently til the end.

I dont fear death...I fear leaving my children behind in this crazy world once I'm gone

I don't fear death. I fear a prolonged illness that turns me into a burden on my family.

I don’t fear death. I fear suffering.

Working as a critical care flight nurse, one the patient we were transporting was dying. She was an elderly female. She opened her eyes and had a big smile on her face and asked me "Do you see them?" I said what do you see? and she looked around still with this beautiful smile and said, "All the angels around us" I was amazed and truly believed her. She looked so peaceful and accepting what was happening to her. Meanwhile we are at 3,000 ' I admit, I felt her peace. When you fly in a helicopter it can be noisy in the cab. But it seemed to silence the sounds and I felt like I was being hugged by those angels. She definitely felt the same way. It's one transport I will never forget. Even thinking about it gives me peace.

No fear here. I’ve witnessed the end of life for every family member, my sweet partner, many friends. My life is lived fully conscious my end is coming with no denial and I’m living a bold life that scares the hell out of most. Grateful to have been there for many when they needed me and no one else showed up 🙏🏼

Hospice caregivers are truly ANGELS!! Thank you!

I fear disability and pain, not death.

I can SO relate. when my sister passed away in August of 2022, I felt the same assurance. My husband of 35 years and I were climbing a large mountain in the dark, pulling a camper...it felt like slow motion. I had just lost my sister a few hours before. As we ascended this large hill, the BIGGEST, BRIGHTEST shooting star flew across the sky. We both saw it and both burst into tears. With that flash we both heard her say she was OK, and that the other side was amazing. Epic. Lots of people made comments like "lots of shooting stars that time of year" etc,trying to diminish what we experienced. Truly epic. It was NOT just a shooting star.❤💦

“I'm not afraid of death, I just don't want to be there when it happens.” ~Woody Allen

My father died suddenly from a heart attack in 1978. Everyone was in shock. That night I heard his voice clearly say I’m alright take care of your mother. My mother died in 2021. The hospital called me to tell me. As I hung up the phone I clearly heard her voice saying I’m alright I am with dad and we are at peace. I saw them both in my minds eye sitting by their favorite lake shoreline. I’m at peace with them and death.

Nurse Julie!! My neighbor died in hospice. The day she left I asked her if she would try to let me know what it was like. She told me she would and she would also visit her grandson George. The next morning I was planting a tree and she was hovering above it in her little blue nightgown, she was so happy as she imparted her joy to me and telepathically said "this is good." George came over later that day. He said "you are the only person that will believe me but Nan came to me today in her little blue nightgown. " I told him that she visited me too and.......we hugged forever and cried such tears of joy and love for my dear friend and George's sweet Nan. ❤

Our 34 year old son died 16 months ago after struggling with depression and addiction since his teens. We did everything possible to help Alex. I pray that Julie is right.

As a person who has from time to time had a fear of death, I can say that it isn't about the act of dying and what the body goes through during the period right before death. The fear of death is about what is beyond this life when it ends, if anything. It is about leaving behind milk shakes, orgasms, sunsets, roller coasters, and of course loved ones for a (possible) trip into the unknown.

I suffered from mental illness most of my life. Not long after my Dad passed I found myself at the end of my rope. I was cycling through mania and depression and drinking heavily. I even attempted suicide. One afternoon I passed out on my bed and had a dream that changed my life. In it my Dad came to me and said in the most gentle way "I've come to take you home". It was strange because I had never dreamed about him before. After years of trying to prove I was okay I gave up my home, my job, everything. I came home and found the help I needed. That was 20 years ago and now I'm living my best life. I don't tell many people about it. In life my Dad and I had a strained relationship it's amazing that after his death he saved me. It makes me not fear death because I know it's not the end.

As a hospice music therapist I had the privilege of treating a patient who left me a beautiful gift. Mr. R was lingering. He would say to me, “I don’t know why God hasn’t taken me yet.” We’d laugh about it together. We’d say our goodbyes, and the next week, there he was. I’d say, “Wait a minute, we said goodbye twice already!” He was so weak, but still he’d smile and laugh. One of my visits he told me that when he slept, the angels let him see where he was headed. He told me there aren’t words to describe it, that it was similar to here but beautiful. He spoke urgently and said, “God sent me back to tell everyone…we have to LOVE EACH OTHER. It’s more important than anything else. LOVE each other.” I don’t fear death, either. ❤

My son Michael died from Oesophageal cancer aged 36 in Trinity Hospice London UK. 8th September 2018. His care was above and beyond anything I could have wished for. A month or two before Michael died and before he went to the hospice he bought two budgies! Just because he could.. he named them Swift and Bold, after his Green Jackets motto ( he served in the British Army ) The hospice actually allowed him to have the birds in his room and he cared for them until he no longer could.. Whilst he slept the birds twittered and did whatever budgies do. He went into eternal sleep on 6th September ( his sisters birthday ) and died two days later. He never regained consciousness. Before he died I whispered in his ear that he was about to go on an amazing journey and I was saying goodbye. I hope he heard me 💔

My Mother passed away in hospice and she was completely at peace, and cheerful, with the entire process. When it's my time to depart my Mom will be my model and who I will emulate. My hero!

I'm from a Christian family, and my dad had cancer and was only 6 weeks away from dying of it, when we all found out he had it. He died in hospice and a couple of hours after he died, (he was a caretaker and groundskeeper at 2 churches), my sister heard him saying to her, "you should see the flowers up here. The colors are so bright." We believe he's in heaven.

My mother lived for six weeks after her stage four lung cancer diagnosis. She passed away at home under hospice care with her four children, two grandchildren and two nephews by her bedside. She lived with us for 15 years till she passed, and loved sitting out on the patio near a jasmine bush because she enjoyed the smell of the flowers. After her funeral in another city, when we got back home, there was a strong smell of the flowers in the house even though there no flowers in the house. Left us with a tingling feeling and a sense of comfort that she was in a good place.

I fear dying without having accomplished anything of substance in my life. And every time I get this fear I realize that I’m still in my early 20s and I should cherish every day that I have in this realm of the living.

The real fear is not death itself. But how you die.

Thank you Julie for these videos. As a person who has about 2 more months to live, I will MAKE SURE that I know. God is love and I want to make sure He knows me. 😄

While I don't fear death, I DO fear getting older, and losing my independence; there's no family to even take care of me, so I'll most likely end up wandering the streets when I can't work anymore.

Julie my mom passed two weeks ago in a hospice, her body shut down and we could see it. Julie you described my moms ending perfectly, she slept 20 yrs a day for a few days at the end , we got to say good bye and the nurses made her comfortable with meds and she passed 10 hrs later with zero pain at any point. Thank you for what you and your staff do.

This made me tear up. I lost my brother and father within the same year. My brother got hit by a car and it was instant, my father died by cancer. My dad was terrified of dying and my brother didn’t even know it was coming so as someone who doesn’t believe a whole lot in the afterlife, if freedom and peace is what they both felt at the end, I’m grateful for that. Thank you for sharing :)

My grandma wanted to die on her own while on hospice from her colon cancer. It spread through her body, and led to her demise. She faced death head on and it's something I respect and hope she isn't hurting anymire

Many many years ago my ex husband's grandmother passed. I was very close to her. A few months after she passed, I dreamt that we were meeting for lunch. I asked her what it was like on the other side and she said, "pet, people worry their whole life about dying, if only they realized it was another phase of life. " To this day this dream gives me comfort.

My mother's eyes changed colors one week before she died. I was not there when she died but the nurse's aide said she wanted to clean up and then she went back to sleep and that was it. She had been preparing to go for weeks. Strive to be the best at what you do, make friends easily, help others, and don't expect anything in return. That is my mantra as I get older and move through retirement. It is to help family and friends and live a healthy life in this final stage of life.

I don't fear death out of a sense of trepidation for myself, I fear it for who I'll leave behind. Their fear, their pain. There is no comfort that dulls that.

Having worked as a Nurse in Hospice, we KNOW that death is nothing to fear. We see death often and the peace often achieved prior to death, and seeing dying people respond to and reach out for others we can't see, but are spirit come to accompany the person into the next realm. I have zero fear of death. 😊 Thanks Julie for the education you provide to so many, so that they won't be in any fear. 🙏

I understand exactly what you are describing when you said you heard that gentleman's voice in your head. When my 21 year old son died, there were many, many days and nights I cried and cried and cried. One night, I was sitting at my kitchen table...just bawling... and almost could "feel" a hand on my shoulder and then "heard" my son who passed on say, almost sternly, "MOM, IT'S ALRIGHT!". I quickly turned around thinking he was behind me, that is how real it was. This has always stayed with me and the realness of it made me 100% believe he used all his spiritual energy to communicate with me. I needed that so desperately and it has helped me so much these past 22 years since his death. 💞 Reuniting with loved ones is also helpful to not fear death.

Your patient (friend) gave you a priceless gift. Thank you for sharing. I believe you.

As soon as we are born, we are all destined to die. Nobody gets out of here alive! Thank you for helping all of us. ✌🏻🧡

Wonderful. My late wife was a hospice nurse. She stayed home with me as she gradually died fairly peacefully at home from Alzheimers. I was her caretaker. She had taken care of so many and wanted to stay home.

death is part of life. Im from uk and have looked into death. I lost my son few years ago. my dad followed 2 yrs after. My mom is 98 and thought when lost son and dad that my mom would follow. She is still here and looks so young.

*As a Jehovah's Witness I used to be incredibly scared of death. When I was born again and felt the Holy Spirit and the voice of God about 1 week later, I no longer feared it and instead welcomed it. Now I know where I'm going. Thank you Lord Jesus. Blessed be your holy name.*

The beauty of life is being able to embrace and experience love.

I ABSOLUTElY LOVE that story.!! My DADDY died at 36 years old, I was 10…… He came to me in my bedroom to say goodbye! I woke up to a lot of my MOMs friends in the house and I knew before they told me that he died! ❤❤❤

First of all, Julie, thank u for what u do. I am a firefighter, first responder, and I've seen things Hollywood couldn't script. I can't say I fear death, but then u get a page out of a fatal vehicle accident, and then you question that. I needed to hear this video of peaceful passing. Thank you

Just wanted to say how much I love Hospice. My mom was a cancer survivor of 18 years. You folks helped us out so much.

My beloved dog of 19 years shared his death with me a year and a half later. He wanted to reassure me he was ok so I wouldn’t be so sad. It helped me quite a bit.

“I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.” ― Mark Twain

My 80 year grandmother was just diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer. This video is comforting. The dr gave her 6-9 months. Praying she makes it much longer

I'm not afraid of death, I'm just worried that reincarnation might not be voluntary.

The other side of the end-of-life is when the person does not go peacefully. My Mum fought to the end, through the anxiety meds, through the morphine, yelling out and fighting to get up out of bed until her last few hours. Gawd, it was so hard for her. She wasn't ready to go because of the fam. My fam, husband and sibling, had been such a drain on her throughout life. She babied them incessantly, sacrificing herself and her happiness for people that couldn't/wouldn't extend a similar selflessness; they couldn't even sit with her for more than half an hour in the hospital's hospice room. She fought to the end because of that sense of duty to them. I hope she has peace now.

At the end of my wifes life she had conversations with her dead mother and grandmother. I ask her who she was talking to and she said it was her mom and grandma. She past two days later at home with me while I was drying her hair after a bath she insisted on. She said "I feel dizzy" and fell back in my arms. Im a former police officer I've seen a lot of dead people and I knew she was gone despite CPR I tried until EMS arrived. She was only 52.

Nurse Julie, thanks and your channel is such an inspiration, particularly to those who have lost their hope and their way! So much awaits them if they can hold strong here!

I love that beautiful and spiritual explanation of slipping into death. And I truly believe it. I lost my lovely daughter, 35yo,10/30/21. I was totally distraught with unimaginable grief and trying to discover where she went, until I came across a book “Proof of Heaven “, written by Dr. Eben Alexander, a neurosurgeon and Neuro scientist. He also experienced this beautiful phenomenon. After reading this and watching several interviews, my mind and my heart were completely at ease knowing that my sweet daughter was in the most beautiful and loving place ever imaginable. Thank you Nurse Julie for sharing your story. ❤️

Hi Julie, I have stage 4 breast cancer. Recurrence after 7 yrs, came back in my lungs and bones this time. Diagnosed Aug 23. I'm on targeted therapy which is keeping me stable for now. I find your videos very comforting, been a widow for 5 yrs and I asked my husband on his death bed to come and get me when it's my time. I have asked to pass in hospice not at home, feel it's less messy lol. I am living my best life at the mo, social life has never been better. As I'm from the UK we don't have to worry about the cost of hospice care either.love from Devon uk🇬🇧❤️

My mom just died the day before Mother's Day. I didn't know she had cancer. She hid it from us and we all stood by her bed as she went home and cancer had completely destroyed her body. It's been heart breaking but today, I can feel her in my house and a supernatural connection to her and an understanding of her that I never had.

When my brother died in March I had a few experiences like this. It was a strong energy and presence and it was like he was communicating with me and showing me what death was like. I would be overcome with such joy, a feeling I cannot describe. More joy than I have ever experienced, and it was like he was telling me that’s how he feels now. Thank you for sharing

Nobody fears death UNTIL death comes knocking on your door.

I fear life much more than death.

I was with my mom when she passed. She had lung cancer and heart disease. It was her heart that wasn’t able to pump enough blood to her organs and they had already started dying. Her ICU nurse was wonderful and frank with me that she was not going to walk out of the hospital. With her informed guidance, I made the decision to move her from ICU to hospice where she only lasted a few hours. I got a call from her hospice nurse at 11:00 pm telling me to get to the hospital quickly as she didn’t have long. It was after hours, so I had to wait for a security guard to escort me to her floor and I was so upset I wouldn’t make it time. Thankfully, I did. Her nurse told me my mom waited for me to get there. I had about 10 minutes with her and saw her take her last breath. It was peaceful and I’m told she felt no pain.

Thank you for sharing your experience and getting the news out there. It's so wonderful to hear a nurse validating this. My dad 'came' to me in a dream just before dawn in a very happy and powerful way. At 7AM my brother called me to give me the news.

I felt it as you were talking about it. Wow! Thank you for sharing this story. May his memory be a blessing.

My beautiful cousin just died less than an hour ago. She had cancer spread throughout her entire body. She was young and a mother one 1, and stepmother of 3. She was like a sister to me, and I LOVED her so much. She was one of my fave people on this Earth. She was AMAZING, and the strongest woman I knew. I want to be with my family, but they are in another country whilst my other family is 9 hours away. I can't get a plane ticket yet, but will be there via flight for her service which is being planned now. She will be cremated. I can't believe I'll never see or speak to my cousin again. She did not suffer. Thank you, Hospice Nurse Julie. I really needed you. 💜

My dad died at 98. He had a brother who died when he was four years old and he was a little preacher and right before he died they were all around his bed and he said “they’re everywhere. The angels are everywhere they’re coming to get me “ died with a smile. You are definitely an angel Julie.❤

I absolutely love your empathy, kindness and intelligence. I don't agree with your interpretations of your experiences, but quite respect your obviously sincere expressions of them. It's all a mystery, and I haven't made up my mind about it, but I I appreciate you expressing your individual view of things. Thank you.

I've had this similar experience years ago , as you have mentioned in other videos , when in the early AM my great grandmother came to me in a vision or more like a very blinding light that scared me at first. And when I could feel it was her I relaxed and felt this rush thru my body and could feel her ( telepathically) communicate with me. And felt Love I have never ever felt before or after in my life. She just assured me all will be ok, because when I was 5 and she died I ran under the house when she tried to say goodbye. It felt like she came back to say her goodbye. I woke up from this experience and had the most incredible day. That night I realized that her death anniversary was 25 years before! I can sometimes feel chills when I think of her or any other family member who has passed on. Its brief but sort of makes me feel comforted. Thank you for your beautiful videos.

When my grandmother passed, I wasn’t with her. That night about 3:30 in the morning I woke up and felt someone sitting on the edge of my bed. I rolled over thinking someone was there, I immediately knew it was my grandmother letting me know she was OK. I said in my mind, I got the message grandma love you! I went back asleep only to be woken by the ringing of the telephone at 7:30 am. It was my mother, she said I’m sorry to tell you that grandma passed last night about 3:30. I said, I know mom she came to visit me and she is OK.

“I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.” - Twain

Our dad was an electrician and I used to help him when he'd go to do some wiring. My skinny little arms could fit in a single plug box and grab a wire and pull it out, kind of things. Well, about 8 years after he died, I had bought a house and was putting an exhaust fan in the bathroom ceiling. I was making the single light switch into a double switch for the fan. I had run a wire from the attic to the basement, using the space next to a plumbing vent pipe to do this. So I needed to get this wire up to the double switch box and took measurements from three different things, like the water line going up to the toilet, to drill the hole. This done, I went upstairs to try to put the electrician's wire pull through this hole when I realized there was a 45 degree brace in the wall. So I put a crooked hole through that and was thinking "how the heck will I ever find that lower hole?" So I thought, 'hey dad, how about a hand here?!!" I took the curvy electrician's wire and started shoving it down through the crooked hole and it just kept going! I couldn't believe it so I just kept shoving until I had put about 10 feet in, went to the basement and there it was, On The First Try! I still get chills just thinking about it.

Near the end, my father was shutting down. He was in and out of coherence. Four days before my dad passed, I was visiting him at his personal care home. At one point, he became quite clear, looked at me, and said, "This will all be over soon." His whole life, he worried about dying. On the day he said that to me, I ultimately realized my dad was comfortable with it and ready.

I completely believe that personal story you had about your patients passing. I experienced my own telepathic communication with a loved one who had passed. It lasted seconds, I felt an intense heat and heard him say my name . Very comforting

THANK YOU HOSPICE NURSE Julie! You have educated us a lot. You put things in laymen's terms which we can understand. This video especially, has helped us. Thank you. God Bless You Julie

Thank u soooo much, this is really comforting for those of us whove lost loved ones this way. U guys in hospice deserve medals....

My mom used to say "I'm not afraid of dying but I am afraid of getting older." She's 92 now and in her last days with hospice care and her four kids by her side, 4 who love her and will miss her! ❤

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

I love you, your channel, and all of the information that you provide! It helped me greatly when my 98 y/o grandmother was dying. Thank you so so much!!! God bless you!

I'm not afraid of dying, but of how I'm going to die. I also don't want to suffer in pain and agony. Thanks for sharing your experience. It was very informative and helpful. 😊😊

All of your videos have been wonderfully informative and even comforting. I am an old nurse (68) still working. But i never worked with dying patients. Never too old to learn something new about the human body and spirit. Thank you so much.

I work in health care too, Julie and what I hear my patients is this: they fear being alone, they fear being alone AND sick, they fear the loss of their mobility/independence/freedom to do the things they love, they fear grieving the loss of their spouse. I worked in dialysis for 17 years and many of these patients wanted to die and end their suffering, but their families guilted them into continuing ESRD treatments. Yes the machine was keeping them alive, but the progression of uncontrolled diabetes or blood pressure really caused an undignified life. Many of them died blind and had multiple amputations (feet, legs, forearms) and these came AFTER they started dialysis.

Thank you for making this video. I was my mom's caregiver for over eleven years. She died on March 1st of this year at 92. Hospice care was so helpful. I am forever grateful.

I was with my mother when she died of cancer in her own bed at home. Hours later, after the funeral home workers had come and gone, I was still in her house late at night (as I was spending the night), getting a snack in the kitchen, and I heard her voice say my name. She was a militant atheist, and we later joked that we didn't know where she was now, but we bet she was really, really surprised.

The thought of being dead doesn’t scare me. If there’s a heaven, it’ll be wonderful. If there’s nothing, that’s good too. What terrifies me is dying how my mother did - months of being in home hospice, bedridden and begging for us to put her out of her misery. May we all die suddenly in our sleep after a marvelous life.

My late mother died of cancer in 2014, after several months of being in hospital. The last few weeks before her death we brought her home where me and my daughter looked after her, as well as my father who'd had a suffered strokes before hand. The aftemath of those stokes, left my father unable to say much, which was difficult to see because he was always had a great sense of humour and always something to say. Well, the week before my mother died, she had to be admitted to the hospital again because her health was deteriorating, it was a Wednesday, i remember it well. The next day, after my mum was admitted, 12 hrs later, my father took a heart attack and he was also admitted to the same hospital. He was in ICU, and we all gathered around his bed, he was like his old self again, laughing and joking. We couldn't believe it. My father told me to tell my mum that he loved her. We all as a family, took turns to visit them both, every day, twice a day. A week later to the very day, my mother died, and 12 hrs later my dad passed too, he'd died of a heart attack. You see, my mother used to say that she'd go before my dad, well before she ever became ill, my dad used to chime in that he'd be going with her, it was a bit of banter between them both, which they'd been saying for years. I believe my mother came for my dad, and they went together. I miss them both, we all do. That's the comfort we are left with after both their passing. Love and blessings to you all, from Ireland 🍀🍀

Thank you Julie for your work!!! You are a blessing. I work in Healthcare as a dietitian and I have seen patients and families experience some real struggles. Your videos help me mostly with my aging mom.

*"Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,* *I will fear no evil;* *For You are with me;* *Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me."* - Psalm 23:4

Long term suffering is what scares me to death...

My Dad was on a business trip where he had to take some training for his job for three days. One of his friends, who was a very healthy man, told him that he was going to skip the training because he was going to die in three days. He was calm about it. Everybody tried to get him to stay, but he went off. Came the news, three days later, he had died of a massive heart attack out of nowhere. He had no history of heart disease, no one told him that he was going to die, he just knew.

My mom passed away may 5 th from dementia….she waited for me - she was in a nursing home in Sweden I live in the USA. I was home for three days and she died on the 3 rd day. On Sunday she looked like a different person in my moms body….she had the death mask…..we left for 1.5 hours and that’s when she went into the “eternity dimension”. I don’t fear dying ….I fear ending up in a home like she did. Yet I’m so grateful she was 2 months short of 90., and she waited for me….and she had a pretty good life. I know she’s at peace as much as I am….it was a feeling of the full circle of life. I cherish her every day…..and I know we will meet again.

Thank you, Julie. I am caring for my husband on hospice. This story helps me. We have become so close during this process and my prayers are for him to experience a beautiful and calm transition. Your job is not easy, God bless you and every hospice team ❤❤

I don’t fear death either. I was saved by an “angel” from boiling oil. My hand was about to fall into the pot. All of a sudden, I felt a thumb and an index pushing my wrist away. I was 24 years old. It changed my life. It felt so loving. I couldn’t stop touching my wrist for the rest of the day looking around me hoping it would happen again. If there is no life after death then who touched me? I know there is without a doubt. I also don’t tell people my story fear of being ridiculed. But it did happen. I don’t do drugs, I don’t smoke nor drink and I don’t take any medication. I did not hallucinate either. It was real. I wish this experience to anyone.

Nurse Julie... I love your videos! Thank you for all you do! You are a living Angel to those getting ready to pass to the other side. I had a near death experience when I was a teen. A friend and I went body boarding in the ocean off southern california. There was a hurricane going on in Mexico so the SURF was really HIGH and currents strong. No one was in the water.. we had our beach to ourselves. After some sets in the water, I was overcome by waves getting pounded! and sucked out by the current. I lost my board, my fatigue kicked in... I thought to myself, this is how I DIE today at just 16. As I was about to give up getting pounded by wave after wave, A man/being/spirit swam up to me... long brown hair, 20 to 30's aged looking and PIERCING PALE BLUE EYES with no facial expression, none! Pushed by Board to me with a thrust.. Our EYES met, I tried to say thank you!! And there was ZERO EXPRESSION. He/it/the spirt or angel just disappeared under the water..... My friend was on the beach, thought he saw my Angel but also never saw him reappear out of the waves..... No one else was around. We were both perplexed. No one could survive in those waves and not back out. I am 47 years old now, I still think back to that day. I don't know who or what I was saved by. It was a truly religious experience. I am turning back to God and Christ now that my teenage son is attending church.

I was terrified I would die when my kids were young. It caused me to have panick attacks. I took a death and dying course at college. The class gave me so much relief. I no longer fear death, but look forward to my time to go. I don't get upset when people die which is really hard to explain, because people think I'm heartless. I'm so fascinated with NDE's. For years it was the only thing I read about. I love that you share your experiences with the world. I hope people feel comfort and no fear.

Beautiful. Made me cry this morning. I’m 50 and still haven’t let go of my fear of death. I thought I had. Thank you so much Julie. May you be free from danger May you have mental happiness May you have physical happiness May you have ease of well being. ❤☮️

Thank you for sharing. Im still learning to accept death, its always very grief filled. I take in unwanted animals, mostly guinea pigs, for what remains of their life. Give them care, make friends, and help them across. One is dying tonight, and going to the vet tomorrow to be sent on in peace. Each time I grow a little but the goodbyes are still very hard.

I was 14 and sleeping at my best friend's house next door the morning my mother died at home of cancer. I was awoken by her voice in my head, clear as day. "Come home NOW, I'm dying." I snapped awake, raced down the stairs, flew out the door but then felt her spirit go through me on the driveway. I stopped for a moment then resumed my mad race into my house. My father was reading the newspaper next to her dead body. I said "Dad!" and he looked over and in total shock he said, "But she was just alive!"

Losing my dad a few years ago has really affected me in ways I never anticipated. I find myself terrified of dying, overwhelmed by the thought that I could just cease to exist. There’s so much I want to do and see, and the idea of not being able to accomplish these things is frightening. When we die do we go to heaven? Do we just stop existing period? I want to believe but I just cant stop thinking about the what if... ugg. So wish I could talk to him again.

I’m not afraid of dying, I’m afraid of the sorrow and pain my family will feel

Thank you so much! Don’t know how I found your channel but glad I did! I’m 53 facing a cancer dx and don’t know what to do. I have 4 grown kids 6 grandkids and I’m so lost. I was tough and strong I was a Green Beret and Ranger, I never needed help I helped! Now I sit and hide as I go through this journey, not want to let anyone know I’m scared to death it hit me this might be it! I have faith and all but I still want to be and do so much for my family yet I can’t. This weakness is something I’m not use to! Sorry for rambling but thank you for what you do!! You’re a special person!!

Thank you Julie for sharing your experience. I was with my mother in the hospital when she died. You have helped me to understand the process of dying and to know my mother had a peaceful death.

People are full of brave talk until the moment comes... but then it's over and there's a sense of relief in the room that you aren't suffering anymore... but you're gone and no one knows what it means or if there's any good in it.

I don't fear death...just a painful death...I have stage 3 congested heart failure so I'm know I don't have long...your videos have helped me prepare thank you

I am a home caregiver. Many of my clients will say, "We are living too long." I am not afraid to die. I can't wait to see what's on the other side. We always say, "They're in a better place." "They have no more pain." "They have peace." "They're in the loving arms of Jesus." "They're with their loved ones who have passed." No more stress, no more pain, no more war, no more violence, no more famine, no more hate, no more natural disasters. Sounds like PARADISE!

I'm a retired CNA, and I use to see this kind of thing all the time.... People just calmly slip away. We appear to have no fear at all.. Only a sense of peace !!!! That's one reason we should always care for one another😊