I remember I had a lady friend in hs who was gorgeous like top 10% and she saw how a cashier was talking to me when I tried to return something and was like “why was he being so rude to you?” I realized the guy hadn’t been rude at all but she’s just been getting the nicest version of everyone her entire life.
It's called woman privilege. Read about the feminist who transitioned into a man and offed herself because of how invisible she felt. There's a documentary on her on RU-vid, its amazing. She gets redpilled on women in real time.
I had two daughters. All the sudden people were nice and kind to me. I had never experienced this my entire life walking around as a male alone. Cars even let me walk across the street. When im not with my children cars speed up to make sure I can't cross the street
Honestly, I'd feel safer if you are with your kids, most nice normal guys don't turn creeper around their children. Being too nice or friendly can blow up in your face. With your girlfriend, it's kinda the same
@@ValadrienLeonhart Yeah, but I'm pretty sure he's only talking about guys being nice to him. It doesn't matter if he's handsome, because the reason they're nicer to him is because he's beside a pretty girl. The other guys are probably thinking "She's pretty, so I have to make a good impression"
Married 31 years. My hubby has always commented about this from the time we started dating. He thinks it's amazing how I get the the answers, or item, or things to go our way to happen whenever I'm around him or on my own, lol.
Yes, but there's a down side, apart from the obvious one of knowing people are being nice to you based on how you look (kind of like knowing people are being your friend because you're rich). As you get older, it happens less and less, until the well-known invisibility sets in...and people are not only no longer beaming at you and falling all over themselves to help you, etc., but some are positively hostile, as if now that you're no longer f-able in their eyes, you should know enough to shrivel up and die instead of wasting space and their time. Quite the wake-up call.
@@manahil8746it’s true to some degree but not even in the same ballpark. Women are perceived as pretty in a whole different way than men. There is a reason they are called the fairer sex.
I was not a pretty girl growing up till adulthood and the switchup is such whiplash, people really are nicer to you if they find you attractive, those same people will treat you like trash if they don't
I recently experienced this but the opposite. I was always attractive my entire life. I had a few years of severe debilitating depression , that ruined my teeth and affected my looks and to top it off once I was getting out of this depression I gained 50 pounds in 2 months. Whiplash is the PERFECT word for it. It was a lesson I needed to learn.
@@krystle4248Sorry to hear that. I know how depression feels and it really eats you up inside..! humans are critical and judgemental beings. it’s a sad world.
My lady told me she gets made up because people treat her better. I decided to dress better, it works people treat me with respect, women smile, it's fun, I talk to people and they respond happily.
@@enriqueperezarce5485even if you aren't conventionally attractive, if you wear well made and good fitting clothes, nice accessories etc. and are confident and polite, you will be treated much much better. Sure, because conventionally attractive on top of that will mean you are treated even better, but its amazing what confidence and style can do.
@@enriqueperezarce5485yeah, but can't afford to be ugly AND dress bad. Especially if you're not attractive you'll have to put in effort to look your best
Just being familiar with a decent looking girl will have this effect on people...I would get stuck with someone at work and most people don't like to talk to each other, but one day my friend came to visit me on break and the guy I was working with that day all of a sudden and a change of attitude and tried to be my friend after ignoring me all day...
for me the change is usually between when i look like i put in some effort, ie make up, pretty clothes, hair is done, vs if i look like i rolled out of bed. everyone is nicer to good looking people
I think is because they look at you and be like "she is out of my league, i already have low chance, i can't fuck it up, just be nice but not too nice"
Yep I got my nails done for the first time ever at the age of 32 and I promise you I got more numbers at my job than I ever have before it's literally just my nails but for some reason it makes guys think I'm way more feminine and way more put together and more attractive with these little pieces of plastic glued to my fingertips 🤦🏽♀️
@@chenanigansI’m surprised by that! What kind of guys were they? As a country gal, I never get my nails done because what’s the point? I think natural looks nicer and any guy I’ve liked tends to agree.
Well, they are helping him by keeping the environment cheerful around her. They also know that he’s not trying to pull any tricks, when she’s right there.
Yeah that part and he probably doesn't realize that he's more smiley when he's with her so it makes them both seem more approachable as opposed to when he's by himself he probably mean mugs without even realizing it.
We live in a crazy superficial world. I have always been a decent looking fella and was treated well. I gained like 40 lbs after getting injured and all the pleasantries i was used to disappeared. Now a year later all the weight is off and people are back to being super nice, friendly and or flirty. I cant imagine being an attractive woman. Good grief 😂
Storytime. My then boyfriend purchased a home in a neighborhood that happened to have mostly young families. His neighbors watched him & their kiddos like a hawk when he was outside. They snubbed him whenever he attempted to be neighborly. Then we married & those same neighbors became friendly & a lot less paranoid of him. It's a real "thing" that guy's seem safer when they have a girlfriend/fiance/wife with them.
as a girl I totally feel this. I know it's not supposed to be a serious video, but ugh!!! when I take my pretty friends around I can get a bit sad. I wanna be treated like that too. that's why I try to be nice to people instead
Congratulations 🎉, you know whats its like to feel 1% of being invisible in society as the average as you still get privilege attention for being a female.
I just turned 21 this year and I received my first genuine complement I almost thought it didn't happen I was completely caught off guard and I'll probably never forget it
You can either have it by good looks or good energy. We have all seen average people who just have this charisma that makes you want to be around them.
My ex boss always bring what he calls a softener to business meeting. The softener usually has no actually expertise in whatever they're discussing. So he'll say like shes here to take note. And she does but she also strikes conversation to keep the tone overall more friendly.
To be honest making a sickly doomer miserable work place to a convo pleasant place is a skill...😂 better for the usually bullied and the bosses who get their ego stroked.
Man i went from being the "ugly weird girl" from elementary to junior year of highschool. I had never had a boy tell me he liked me or actually ask me out. I was talked about in group chats for being super skinny and weird with my crush and them laughing at me. (I was into anime, video games, comics, sports, and kpop before it was cool :/) I honestly randomly got cute my senior year in highschool and then got into modeling. After that people were really nice to me, people from highschool all started texting me from my photos. I started getting free stuff, in public people would walk up to me. Im introverted and one mall trip i had a LOT of people running up to me talk to me telling me i was pretty. About 3 people every store i walked in. I really didnt like it because i was overwhelmed and it was new to me i thought people wanted something from me. At one point i was on the floor hiding with people still walking up to me. Some girl at the food court saw me on the other side made a surprised face, ran to me, told me i was really pretty and she wanted a hug. It is CRAZY how people treat people just based off looks.
That’s funny. My bf do experience the same thing. 😂 he’s also friendly and chats but no one ever stay engaged and just give the don’t talk to me attitude.
One of the first times I went to the supermarket with my now husband everybody was being nice, saying “can I help you with anything?” “Finding everything okay?” “How’s it going ma’am?” Etc (to me that was 100% normal so I didn’t think anything of it. After a few people asking questions and striking conversation my husband after looking at me like “what is going on????” And I was like “what? Everything’s normal” and it kept going and he just kept looking at me weird lol. He just told me nobody ever asks me at the supermarket if everything’s good and if I found everything! I just gotta fight looking thru the aisles by myself 😂😂
I genuinely don't know how people see this shit as normal. If strangers started asking me anything in a grocery store I would assume it's the Truman show and I'm being punked.
@@danielacsalazars I get you. Still its unusual I'm used to them pretending to be busy and avoiding eye contact. It's just funny to me how different every day things are for people who are labeled as "special" or "valued". It changes with the wind though so I don't hold it against people.
“But when I’m with her, everybody calls me sir” - that overplayed bruno mars song. 😂 Edit: apparently it’s not Bruno mars lol it’s train ft. Travie McCoy
@@catherinelewis9078oh I just looked at their faces and think they would probably have beauty kids together and they have good temperament as well….. I have a friend who was a cheerleader for a major sports team and she looks like she could be a kardashian sister (if they had one between Kim and khloe ) I had no idea how much of a good sport I was being or how much more of a “3” I am when I thought of myself as a “51/2” before until I saw life from the pov of the plus one of my adorable doe eyed BBL by nature soft spoken beautiful friend who is definitely a 9 or more … boys in preschool up to nearly dead Korean war veterans tripping over their own bodies to get close to her!😅
I had an ex that was a blonde baddie and i feel this .she literally got let go by the cops for crying and said they would have done the same if i cried😂😂(crashed a car with no insurance n busted both headlights out n they let her drive it away at 2am)
Ok from a girls perspective, if you bring your gf then I know 1. You’re not gonna try to suddenly hit on me if I’m nice to you 2. If someone like her is in a relationship with you then you probably are a decent, safe and likeable dude.
Yeah but unfortunately that friendliness is often transactional. And if you don't want that kind of attention from people it's really hard to just go about your day. Like if you don't reciprocate that energy people become really hostile really quickly😢
I'm not picking on you personally but I think it really comes from a privileged perspective that it's "annoying" or "dangerous" to have people waiting on you all the time. It's infinitely better than having everyone treat you like you don't exist.
As a woman, it absolutely is more dangerous to have people's attention. It can be nice, and there can be benefits, but it absolutely is dangerous as well.
@@bensheard3969I’m not picking on you personally but it really comes from a victim perspective to not be able to appreciate that all walks of life have their downsides and that being a beautiful woman can be dangerous and annoying when 20 creepy dudes won’t leave you alone.
@@Joostmhw Oh boo hoo, get over yourself. Society is difficult for both men and women. Single mothers, single fathers, disabled individuals, people without a support system etc. It's learning how to live well within it, taking ahold and using the most of what you have out of life that will allow you to live a fruitful one. You can't change other people behaviors, only your own. So make the most out of your circumstance. *Being bitchy or bitter will only make it worse.*
@@Just999Me nah man, ignoring all problems and pretending like they don't exist is how you solve shit. It's not being "bitchy" (mysoginist) or bitter. It's pointing out a clear flaw that can be worked on. Self improvement but as a society, we have been doing it for tens of thousands of years so it's more than possible. But yeah, reject it and call it impossible like a child
@Just999Me OH I pity whoever lean against you in times of need 😂 Your main comment is full-on shit, your second comment is common sense, and this other guy who responded to your comment is aware of everything you said in your second comment and not disagreeing with it 🤦♂️. Your main comment is pointing out that fact that men need to appreciate women in the sense that without women; men aren't allowed to have pleasant interactions with people, because in your own words; only women can bring you enjoyment and happiness, and this is unhealthy. If you are a woman and that desperate to be appreciated for something, then please don't let it be the fact that your male partner can only be happy with your presence in his life. If you are as a woman (or a man) want to be appreciated for something, then it should be the good deed you do, that's it. He's not being bitchy, it's you who's being bitchy. In your second comment you could have written something as the following: "men are deserving of love and tenderness and being treated politely. It is true that society seems to be extra compassionate with women, but society as a whole needs to learn how to be compassionate towards men as well". But instead of writing such a response, you showed us how bitchy you actually are.
She seems like a bubbly person, maybe they’re just matching energy? I used to be extra shy and people didn’t really smile or make conversation with me, but now that I’m more confident, people smile more!
It's really a fascinating bit of reality for guys. Walking around with a pretty girl. Pre selection is a thing and a powerful one. When other peeps see u with a girl, especially as they go up the attractive scale, other peeps feel much more comfortable around u. You've been vetted and now you're much more approachable. And most especially other women. Walking alone vs walking around with a hottie on your arm is night and day.
Ive been on both sides. I used to get a lot of attention, free drinks, getting hit on by clients (i was a receptionist) and stuff when i was young, skinny and bothered to put on some makeup/dress up lol. Im not that girl anymore and i do notice the difference of how ppl treat me but its ok 😅
My husband has the same issue, he has RBF and is a 6'6" giant man with a large beard; not going to lie, he's a little intimidating if you didn't know how sweet he is, or how big of a heart he has. When he's with me, he gets smiles and greetings, but alone he used to struggle with how much it hurt to be avoided or ignored even when he was making an effort. Now, I think he makes a conscious effort to check his body language, and how he is carrying himself.. he's always proud to come back from a grocery trip with a story of a random interaction with a stranger that was positive. You'll find a way to connect with the people around you, the trick is to not stop trying. ❤
that’s now how i read it at all. whenever someone i know brings a new person around, be it a kid, parent, or partner, i am extra kind to them. its an act of kindness and affection to you to be extra nice to her. she is important to you so it is important to make her feel welcome in a space you spend a lot of time in where she doesn’t have an established relationship with anyone but you
It's just the difference between genders, guys get treated like strangers everywhere. Not the case for women, having worked as a cashier alongside others you can see this clearly. Men and women both do it, this is also part of the reason why male depression rates are much higher
i’ve had some guy friends that used to do this a lot, they’d bring me to social events. not because they genuinely wanted to, it’s because i looked good standing next to them. and they’d get SO UPSET when i stoped going. it was weird. pretty privilege is not all that especially if you hate attention.
My boyfriend and I have now agreed he is not allowed to go and get us fast food anymore 😂 He doesn’t treat the workers any differently but for some reason when I go the food is always made right, hot, fast, and the workers are polite but when he goes everything is wrong, cold, slow, and the workers are rude
😂 I relate to your experience. Whenever I'm out with my sister, people are ALWAYS noticing us. Waiters are more polite, smiling more, more helpful. It seems funny, but frankly, as a guy, it feels like people don't care about me. Like, they are rude, cold/uninterested. But when I'm with an objectively attractive girl, boom. Now everyone wants to be nice. I tried talking about this on Reddit but there were many as usual who didn't understand what I was saying and called me "incel". Barring the few women who did agree.
@@lyssagames4311 i understand what you're saying, Lyssa. I'm sorry that the fast food service is a problem for you guys. I really wonder why it happens every time with your boyfriend though! What does he describe exactly - are people just uninterested in him? It is a co-incidence that you are a server yourself! What you said regarding giving attention to the female customer more might be true, but i feel that it might have something to do with "safety". It could also be that the women feel more "safe" with another woman, but you know better than me in this regard. Let me share something with you - yesterday I was out at a fancy place with my mother. The female receptionist greeted her first and didn't greet me, welcomed her to the place. She spoke to me in between and bid me goodbye but no welcome greeting. Even the waitress was more interested in my mother. The waitress spoke to me, surely, but her attention was more on her. She even thanked her for visiting, didn't thank me😂 Honestly, there are several instances which I would love to discuss with you. I got away with accidentally breaking a car's mirror when a woman was there with me(let me know if you want to know more about this hahaha)
Relationship privilege is real. I noticed it when single. Everyone at my churches YA group who was in a relationship had everyone wanting to be their friends. I got into a relationship and suddenly was in that world too. I'm single again, can you guess where I am now?
Conversation is a two way street. If you want people to be nice to you then you have to make the effort to be nice first. For example I have a local supermarket and the people there are treated as just workers meant to help customers. I go in and say hello to them by name and I remember their name without looking at the badge, I ask them how their day was etc. Eventually they call me by name and ask how I am, anyway one day i go in and the transition from the heat outside to the cool inside made me dizzy well four people who work their got me a chair in the middle of the market and a cool drink and a wet towel while one fanned me with a magazine. People will be nice but you have to give them a chance.
My former boyfriend always complained because people treated me better than they did him. "You always get your late fees canceled at Blockbuster! I never do!" was one example.
I feel you bro. But with me it's people being so nice to my boyfriend, and I don't exist. I get dirty looks whenever I try to engage in the conversation from whoever is trying to talk to him.
Welcome to life young man. Look on the bright side, at least they're not trying to fight you when her back is turned. That's what happened to me when I had a very popular GF. And her girlfriends were constantly testing me too. It was a freaking headache! 😅
It's called pre-selection. People respect men more who have been selected by other women, especially attractive women. It means a higher quality woman has vetted you already and gives you the stamp of approval.
I haven’t thought of this until you mentioned it! My boyfriend always complains why the restaurant and store staff always address and greet me even if my bf is the one talking 😅 it must be because I smile at them and always greet them. I also think it’s because most women just give off a less threatning and friendly aura.
I felt that way with my ex too. Even people that were already nice to me were soooo much nicer to him. He didn't even appreciate it. He was paranoid and thought everyone hated him when people found him really charming and charismatic when meeting him.
@mikethomas6715 Specification: Pretty women. No one cares about ugly ones and many don't care about average ones. And also: True, women and men have different life experiences. Both have different privileges and disadvantages. Best example is a female friend of mine who is really attractive and a genuinely kind, intelligent and funny person. Her privileges: People are really nice to her. She gets more easily put of trouble. Free drinks when going out..etc. Disadvantages: When starting to drink (legal at 16 where we live) in a circle of people who are all very nice to her, she got blackout drunk. Guess who were the people taking immediately advantage of that by feeling her up, trying to get her out of her clothes, opening their pants to...well, you can imagine the rest. When she started her career and luckily got into a job she is really good at, she got treated like she is incompetent and her colleagues openly told her they know she only got the job because she opened her legs for the boss (obviously not true, but many people think there is no way that a beautiful women is just good at her job). I am not saying that it's harder to be a beautiful women. I am just saying that it's like being rich without actually having money and being forced to always display signs of extreme wealth. Sure, it opens doors and people are nice, but you always know that the niceness is not genuine and those nice people would rob you the first chance they can get away with it.
Your girlfriend has a likable personality. Just watching her smile next to you, you see a genuine kind person just smiling brightly. Ofc people return the smile of such a bubbly person. That personality saves people boring workday. Be kind 👍
This is such horseshit. You don't know anything about her personality. She just giggled. And because she's pretty you interpreted that as her being "genuine" and "kind". There is literally nothing to suggest that, she just has to be in your mind because she's pretty. And that's the point in the actual video. She's probably a lovely person, but people don't treat her well because she's nice, they do it because the primal part of their brain acknowledges "She is desirable"
Yea this happens to my man when we go out. All of the sudden everyone super nice to him. For me is normal behavior, for him is like wth going on. 🤣 we went to a restaurant and the waitress and host were so attentive, which for me is normal behavior. He was surprised, he started telling me how he’s always come there with his friends to have lunch and they always treated them like here is your food eat and leave. He said why is he being so nice, and he even said enjoy your meal and come again. He was shocked at the excepcional service they gave us even and the food came out faster than usual .😂❤
It's funny!😂 Like you, a lot of women in this comment section have shared similiar experiences to yours. When I go out with my sister, people are SO NICE. The waiters want to go out of their way to be polite, women are looking at me, men are looking at me. People are wishing her good night, asking if things are alright. Honestly, I'm a super young guy(barely 20) and it makes me feel as if guys have no value. Nobody cares about men. You're always looked at as a potential threat. But everyone is nicer to women. The amount of times I have experienced people reacting differently when there was a woman with me. I wish I could tell you about them but it would be a long comment and I'm afraid you wouldn't read it. Just wanted to discuss this with you. I wish you and your boyfriend well:)
Lol c'mon bro...stop hating, 5's lol she's fully beautiful let's be real you don't just pull girls like this like it's an everyday thing, she's a good looking girl
@@dwainwalker3636 she's average , nowhere near gorgeous, it's you and the rest of these simps who don't talk to women so y'all get over excited about less than average women.
Make sure you have her with you when you get pulled over by the cops…They had this exact thing happening on an episode of Seinfeld… Whenever Jerry brought his girlfriend with him, he was able to get anything he wanted, including, out of a speeding ticket…
Well if they're sugar free energy drinks it's not exactly gonna cause him to lose any gains, if anything they probably slightly improve his performance and results because of the extra energy boost. It isn't much different to taking a bunch of preworkout because they've got a lot of the same ingredients caffeine being the main one obviously but they're full of other stimulants to give you a boost at the gym. Drinking an energy drink is in no way counterproductive to muscle gain.
@@conor1821 OP was not talking about "muscle gain" but about health. Energy drinks are just very unhealthy in general regardless of whether or not they contain sugar.
@@DM-nw5lu To be fair though a lot of men would rather see greater gains in the gym than cut out something they enjoy which may hinder their progress for vague health reasons especially considering having an energy drink is something most people outside the gym are regularly doing anyway.
Very much so. I started crossdressing and the difference between the way people treated me was like night and day. It made me realize I dislike people a lot more than I originally thought.
Dang bro, it’s so nice this video made it on my feed. Probably the best video I’ve seen in a long while. What were you talking about? Idk, but this was so good, I liked it, really interesting content, good commentary. I’m so glad I watched this all the way to the end. I’d normally have skipped it, but this video, this video was so good
Not to brag but this is me, i was unaware of this unfair advantage i had until a couple of my guy friends from our group told me. Now I'm aware of it, I used it to benefit my friends as well. Like, we're in medicine and male attendings are always in a good mood when talking to me and I make an effort to also highlight and give credit to everybody in the group so we'll all be viewed as pleasant. Everytime they needed a favor from our seniors, I'd be like "i gotchu fam"
So true, i grew up so ugly 😂😂😂!!! Total feral gremlin girl with no social awareness lol. No one was nice to me, no one had a crush on me, all my hobbies & interests made me a weird freak 😭!!!! But late in my teenage years I finally got it. Puberty literally changed nothing about me, i look very similar to how i did in my ugly years except now i groom myself & take care of myself, i know how to dress myself, i found what makeup & hairstyles best flatter me!!! Then studdenly EVERYONE wanted me, everyone was nice to me, people smile at me when before they would just laugh at the sight of me, OH AND THIS IS THE WEIRDEST PART FOR ME PERSONALLY BUT SUDDENLY MY WEIRD QUIRKS, HOBBIES & INTERESTS THAT MADE ME A "FREAK" ARE NOW "CUTE" AND "ADORABLE"!?!!!!??????? Like, in school i got called a sonic freak but now when i tell people my biggest celebrity crush is Shadow the Hedgehog that's suddenly super cute and endearing- and that i play video games & watch anime ,
I actually have the opposite experience, unfortunately. My husband is Asian and we live in a primary caucassian country. They treat me better when I am alone and he tells me they treat him way worse, when he is not with me... :(
What do you mean by primary Caucasian country? Armenia? Countries are either in the caucasus or they are not primarily in the caucasus like Turkey or Russia.
@@dragonlord1225 not you trying to start a whole ethnicity race thesis here. why are you complicating it for no reason? Nobody denied or said if the caucasus was the most diverse place on earth or not.. The Caucasian term is used to refer to people who are white. That's it. And OP meant to say she lived in a predominantly white country.
@@smollilbean Well it isn't here. Just because you use it doesn't mean it makes sense or everyone should immediately know what you're talking about. It's like saying "I live in an area with only Korean people, what? no not people from Korea! People who have black hair that's what we call them around here..." 🤦🏻♂️
I know people are saying it’s pretty privilege but I’m not pretty (overweight, plain looking) but I smile at everyone and I get the same treatment. They may end up hitting on her more often, but I still get all of that good treatment even though I’m not pretty- just smiley.
The way people treat you based on your looks is such a crazy thing. I lost a bunch of weight towards the end of highschool and had a growth spurt so by the time I started uni I was slimmer than I'd ever been, suddenly it was like people actually wanted to be around me and be my friend for the first time in my life.
Yeah, no. There is no reason for it when you're working at a place to treat one gender differently from the other. Yet it still happens. Just deal with it isn't a response you should have when a whole gender has an issue. Male suicide rates are up for a reason and part of it is the cold treatment we get everywhere in almost every situation.
@@Joostmhw Women attempt suicide more often than men. The reason male suicide rates are higher is because they go for more lethal weapons so nobody can find them in time to save them. Women generally smile more and are more sweet to the people around them than men. So duh, of course they get similar treatment in return. Just looking at this video she seems like an absolute sunshine. Of course people treat her well back. He just seems... well like an average bloke.
I'm asian and when I'm at work. I'm not saying everyone but a lot of elderly asian people compliment me. They were so sweet. Old people are the cutest 😢😢
I don't think it's purely pretty privilege. I'm a dude and all my life I've been treated nicely. I'm not even remotely attractive I say I'm a 2.5 or 3/10 when I'm clean-shaven.
On the other hand, it’s very hard for beautiful people to know who is actually nice or pretending to be nice bc it all looks the same until u care about them. Then u find out if they are actually a good person or someone u wish u didn’t care about. There’s good and bad with all things
Lots of fake people out there. Try being overweight then losing weight. Some people are nice and compliment but there's the people who suddenly want to pay interest to you or get close. Must be terrible as a woman
Eh, for me personally as a woman who used to be fat and lost weight: My worst critic was myself. No one cluld ever compare to how mean I was to myself, because my self worth was so low. I didn't notice much diffrence from how other people treated me. Actually, at some point I was "too skinny" (I completely lost my appatite) and people were waaaaay less sensetive with what they said to me. People were worse to me when I was "too skinny" than when I was overweight. But even then I was my worst critic (cause I also didn't like the way I looked).
Overweight women get to relate to the male experience. The solution for that is that men need to become more compassionate towards other men, and become more sympathetic. Men have feelings, and men deserve compassion. But this is not natural to humans; this is something that men need to learn, because it is the men who can elevate other men.
There were 2 women who never spoke to me, actively didn't speak to me. Then I won the parents race on sports day...suddenly it was good morning! The most bizarre thing.
My wife recently got dentures because she has had messed up looking teeth since childhood due to a disability, and then they started decaying after our daughter stole all of her calcium. But she looks "normal" now and is blown away by how people treat her. No one just assumes she's a crackhead anymore. She gets REAL pain medicine if she has to go to the ER. She gets tipped more delivering food. Life changing.
Women have the key to a part of the world that men will never see LOL. I learned that whenever my dad used to send my mom to get stuff and she always got something free or extra perks that he knew damn well he wouldn't get if he went up there 💀
I’m a very outgoing male with a very attractive wife. People treat me the same with or without her in public. Probably because I’m always in a super chipper upbeat mood and people appreciate that about me. I probably fall into the pretty privilege category as a man, but the only difference my wife gets opposed to me is all the random people complimenting her. That shit never has and never will happen to me but happens to her 5 times a day. That being said people treat me nice but I start always treating everyone nice. Perhaps I have pretty privilege as a man but I have no real reasons. Thank you for reading my rant.
My gf was shopping some clothes for me. But she didn't know how they would look on me, so she'd walk into a shop and get a guy roughly my size either a cashier or buyer to FIT IT ON, so she could see how it would look on me? She did that. THREE TIMES. She told me this by passing when she was recapping her day because she thought it was normal. Like WTF? I realized she can literally get away with anything. I ain't even told you about the discounts she'd get just by asking...like once. Girls leave on easy mode bruh.
Agreed 100% People are syrupy sweet to me when I’m with my mother. When I’m with my sister and her kids people treat me like a perv bc they think she’s my wife. By myself people give me bare minimum interaction.
