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I often get asked why I go to so much effort to save money and why I'm so frugal. So here are the reasons why I buy nothing.
Some people might call me cheap. But adopting simple living and a minimalist lifestyle has led to financial freedom, a lifetime of adventures and the flexibility to work part-time. Find out more in this video!
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@awarepenguin3376
@awarepenguin3376 Месяц назад
If broke people call me cheap, I know I'm going in the right direction.
@UTP504
@UTP504 Месяц назад
😂, right.
@bgreg6069
@bgreg6069 Месяц назад
If rich people call you cheap then what direction are U going?
@valerierogers9609
@valerierogers9609 Месяц назад
Be part of the mainstream and it'll drown you. Here's to the wee life 🥂
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Totally! 🥂
@mwebb3014
@mwebb3014 Месяц назад
This is great advice for couples who are on the same page with the same goals. I was just like you when I married. Sadly, my then husband was most definitely not. We never could align our goals and values. I shopped thrift stores for our kids and myself. He bought expensive brand name clothes. After 25 years, we divorced. We had no money. I am now married to my soulmate who shares my frugal mindset. We are financially comfortable and retired in our early 50’s. More than anything, aligning your financial goals and your desire for things is critical for a happy and successful relationship. No one ever talks about this to young people. Thank you for spreading this idea and your success living like this. It is so freeing and comforting to live frugally.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thanks so much for sharing your experience. I have never given it much thought but myself and my husband definitely have aligned values when it comes to spending and what we consider important in life. I can imagine that’s very difficult to manage if your partner thinks differently. I’m happy to hear you have found your soulmate and are enjoying your frugal freeing life :-)
@Iquey
@Iquey Месяц назад
Freedom and Peace of mind is very important!!!
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Can’t put a price on it! :)
@EcomCarl
@EcomCarl Месяц назад
Your transformation through frugality is truly inspiring! It’s a powerful reminder that reducing our footprint can significantly enhance not just our financial freedom but also our life satisfaction. 🌿
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Exactly - good for planet and good for us! Thank you 🙏
@andrewminjiras5745
@andrewminjiras5745 Месяц назад
I admire your frugality…I’m learning.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you x
@danielespinoza8614
@danielespinoza8614 Месяц назад
Love watching people who share the same ideals! It can get lonely when you decide to walk a different path than others, but this kind of content is a great way to end the day as a reminder that like minded people are out there... great content!
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you! It really can be a lonely space. It’s great to connect though and to know there are others who think the same way.
@lynnettemurphy8243
@lynnettemurphy8243 Месяц назад
Its better to walk a lonely path, than share the space with folk who dont share your outlook and values. So, take the path less travelled. When youre not burdened by consumer debt and stuff, adventure awaits. And maybe crossing paths with like minded folk. 🥾☘️
@SuzannesSimpleLiving
@SuzannesSimpleLiving Месяц назад
Hi Bex & Gill, this is a brilliant video I have been frugal all my life, Life is about living and doing stuff and having adventures and that’s certainly what you’re doing 😃👍
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
It really is! Thank you ☺️
@kimmcmahon9682
@kimmcmahon9682 Месяц назад
So excited to see and hear about Your lifestyle. We could learn so much
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thanks so much ☺️
@teresitap5778
@teresitap5778 Месяц назад
What a wonderful story! I've been leaning towards this direction for some time. Love to you & your lovely family!
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
What a kind message. Thank you! We wish you good luck on your journey - it’s a big transition but so worth it! :)
@CozyToni
@CozyToni Месяц назад
Wonderful message! Thank you 😊
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thanks ☺️
@cinematicchild7286
@cinematicchild7286 Месяц назад
I love this. Thanks for sharing your experience and wisdom.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you ☺️
@Pursuitofhealthwealthhappiness
@Pursuitofhealthwealthhappiness Месяц назад
LOVE THIS! I am just up from you in Bristol and originally from Somerset! :D
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you! Nice to connect with a neighbour :) We lived in Bristol for a year before moving to Frome where we’re now based. Looking forward to taking a look at your videos! :)
@Poolmanvr
@Poolmanvr Месяц назад
What a brilliant story of your life. Inspiring ❤xx
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you so much! 🙏
@bgreg6069
@bgreg6069 Месяц назад
Buy what makes you happy !
@mrstrawberry2628
@mrstrawberry2628 Месяц назад
May all your wishes come true in your heart feeling soul.
@monishthomasp
@monishthomasp Месяц назад
Lovely.. ❤
@lisag9493
@lisag9493 Месяц назад
Wow, what an amazing life you already have lived, good on you both for finding an alternative lifestyle away from consumerism, kinder on the planet too, I’m not one for hair, nails handbags and latest fashions, I have 2 allotments, retired early from 39 years of nursing, sold my car and use my bicycle and trailer for local journeys, my husband has an old Yaris that I sometimes use for big supermarket shopping and visiting, I have recently treated myself to a new Fitbit watch to track my activity and make sure I do 10k steps every day, Best wishes, Lisa
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thanks so much Lisa. It sounds like you’ve also cracked the secret to life - that sometimes less really is more ☺️
@architect_abc
@architect_abc Месяц назад
Greetings from India! A very inspirational video for all those who are in the trap of consumerism (no offence to anyone). Since you yourself were a victim of falling into a trap of buying everything you see (irrespective of whether you need it or not), your experience about it and the transformation matters to all those who want to change. I would like to mention, in India, still a large part of the population believes in reusing and repurposing things which are used for daily household chores. This is sort of a cultural practice one could say. Although with the advent of free market and globalisation, many people, especially in cities who can afford brand new stuff each time, have fallen into this consumerism trap. But around 70% of the country's population still lives in villages and tier-2 and tier-3 towns and people there are very cautious about where they spend their money (basically they assess cost-effectiveness before purchasing). Unfortunately, many giant businesses are trying hard to convince the younger gullible generation to buy first hand and latest gadgets to make them feel socially relevant among their peers. Good wishes to you and your family. Stay frugal, stay happy!
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your experience. It’s very interesting to hear what the mindset is in India and how consumerism is affecting great practices such as reusing items!
@kallistoindrani5689
@kallistoindrani5689 Месяц назад
Give me my book collection instead of traveling every day. 😂
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
😂 now that’s a good use of money! Although I have to admit I just treat the local library as my personal book collection!
@monalisa6599
@monalisa6599 Месяц назад
Hello, you are very inspiring, you are examples to follow, listening to you makes me feel good. I am a minimalist on the lookout for all good ideas and good examples. Thank you so much. Continue.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thanks so much! :)
@KristelViljoen
@KristelViljoen Месяц назад
Very inspirational ❤
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you 🙏
@suredeydo
@suredeydo Месяц назад
I admire this so much. Thanks for sharing. What is it they say..? "Those who mind, dont matter." Its absolutely true 😊 cheers!
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thanks so much ☺️🙏
@Change_O
@Change_O Месяц назад
People hate it when they see themselves in others. I have an acquaintance (Lucy) that always puts a particular guy (Jack) down as he doesn't spend much on going out, for meals etc. But Jack works in public sector, environmental and is earning far less than Lucy, Lucy works in the private sector. Jack has two kids, is separated and drives a car. Lucy refuses to get a car due to the cost. Lucy uses supermarket basic washing up liquid and gets her clothes second hand. Names have been changed.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
So true! And it’s really interesting that different people have different values when it comes to spending. I’m always trying to evaluate different areas in our life where we spend more money and question if it’s really what do you want to be putting in our fans towards. Thanks for sharing!
@AbidaS0301
@AbidaS0301 Месяц назад
Thank you sweetie ❤for sharing .don't worry 😟 qhat pepole say 🎉.home sweet home great 👍 frugal simple life 😊❤❤❤❤
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you so much 😊
@pattiupton1499
@pattiupton1499 Месяц назад
Great video!
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you ☺️
@noralaughlin9798
@noralaughlin9798 Месяц назад
Would love to see a home tour if you’re comfortable!
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll add it to future potential videos! I definitely think ppl would be especially surprised by how few toys and items our children have :)
@user-iu2ek5vt7e
@user-iu2ek5vt7e Месяц назад
Great video 😊
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thanks ☺️
@myaccount9498
@myaccount9498 Месяц назад
Thank you for showing us some of Israel
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
🙏
@ChrisLitton
@ChrisLitton Месяц назад
Gets to the point of extreme, though, doesn't it. If I can save but also enjoy life occassionaly .think that's better
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Id argue that because I save lots I get to enjoy life even more. Being frugal has meant working less, more free time, money to spend on experiences over things.
@alexpfarl307
@alexpfarl307 Месяц назад
The same here in Austria 😊 some friends are jealous that I work a 9 hour week....... But think that I am cheap because I live on 750 euro a month 😅😅😅😅😅😅..... Greetings, Alexandra
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Great to know there are others who have the same outlook on life. Time and health really are the most valuable things we have! :)
@bgreg6069
@bgreg6069 Месяц назад
Buy what multiple your resources !
@sanctuarydelete6-6-6
@sanctuarydelete6-6-6 Месяц назад
a dollar saved is a dollar wasted
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
I think there’s a balance with saving for security and spending. We do spend a lot of- but in experiences and not things.
@TamieVlogs
@TamieVlogs Месяц назад
Also not paying for food and living costs? Sounds amazing! I reaaly would want that aswell.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Paying for a home and consumables is very different to spending money on things/stuff. Although even when it comes to your home and food you can choose to be frugal. We live in a very small home for example.
@os-qt1hc
@os-qt1hc Месяц назад
I think it is common sense not to be consumeristic and save money. However, many people cannot even afford to live a consumeristic lifestyle. You can be as frugal as you want, but if you live alone with a net salary of €1000/month, it is impossible to save more than 200-300€/month, even if you do not buy anything you want, only the essentials.
@CNT40868
@CNT40868 Месяц назад
2nd hand..half or less. In price....why not!
@nikkir1664
@nikkir1664 Месяц назад
My friends call me cheap. While I don't think I'm cheap - I spend on necessities only and with the rest of the money....I buy my freedom & time. Decided to give myself a break from the 9-to-five and haven't worked for about 8 months now. Money is freedom and independence, why exchange it for stuff??
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
So nice to hear there are others out there with the same mindset! Well done for making the transition. I’d choose cheap any day if it gave me more time and freedom…no brainer :)
@ginnymiller5894
@ginnymiller5894 Месяц назад
2nd hand clothes are fine but shoes should be fitted for each child, or they could suffer later on.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
We measure their feet first to make sure any shoes we get are the right fit - we’re also a big fan of bare feet shoes so they have more space :)
@user-wo1en8ip3s
@user-wo1en8ip3s Месяц назад
0:48 If only we could get second-hand medical care! (I know, not a problem in England). Cars have become so expensive, even second-hand is too high. Buy at least third-or-fourth hand.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
I can’t comment on medical care, but I’ve heard it’s not easy managing that in the states. And the car is definitely a big expense. I got rid of mine when I was 22 and managed 10 years relying on public transport but now I’ve got kids it became too difficult. But I saved a lot not having that expense for 10 years for sure.
@user-wo1en8ip3s
@user-wo1en8ip3s Месяц назад
@@BandFamilyAdventures It is great to live in a place where you can be car-free. Unfortunately there are not many places in the US where that is feasible.
@extrememinimalism
@extrememinimalism Месяц назад
I am an extreme minimalist, so not exactly frugal or environmental though I guess both are a by product of being an EM, but owning a lot less than the norm.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
I’m leaning more into extreme minimalism - it’s something that really interests me. And you are right that they are all connected and buy products of each other. So win-win for us and the planet!
@You_can_kiss_my_little_ass
@You_can_kiss_my_little_ass Месяц назад
You are not being cheap. But I can tell you there are many who confuse wealth with dept. There are many people whom are so poor they only have things, but have very little to live for.
@ykook7000
@ykook7000 Месяц назад
Lol one day my ageing mother said you have nothing...mean not many possessions ...l said thats the point 🤣
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
😂
@JohnDoe-zz7on
@JohnDoe-zz7on Месяц назад
Everyday, Amazon stops by my home. My house is an Amazon hub. We can learn alot from her. Good for her
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Thank you - that used to be me. I can’t believe how different my habits are now though!
@lisag9493
@lisag9493 Месяц назад
What would happen if you stopped ordering all the stuff off Amazon ? Surely the world wouldn’t end and maybe you’d find other pleasures in life like going for a walk, volunteering, growing a plant from seed and watching the miracle of Mother Nature, maybe start off first by having a no spend week and see how you feel,, good luck 🙏🏼
@JohnDoe-zz7on
@JohnDoe-zz7on Месяц назад
@@lisag9493 I don't but my other family does.
@99debris
@99debris Месяц назад
Genuine question. You are British, as am I, so why is everything in dollars? Other youtubers do this too and its so grrrrrr lol
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
I tend to provide USD figures as the majority of my audience are from the States :)
@UglyBikeling
@UglyBikeling Месяц назад
When i buy things i know im helping the economy and jobs so i feel less guilty 😅 its ok !
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
That’s one way to sell it 😂
@lindsay3793
@lindsay3793 Месяц назад
How can you work part time and still afford food, healthcare, transportation, and rent? It doesn't add up. In America you can work overtime and still be homeless because it doesn't afford you rent, food, and transportation to and from work.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
It’s a good question - we weren’t always able to afford this lifestyle but we worked hard alongside our 9 to 5 jobs to build side hustles which have grown and now become our main jobs. We moved out of the city so life is cheaper. And we are very frugal with our spending. We’ve also made our passion (adventuring) our careers so we effectively get paid to do things we’d normally pay to do (ie, camping, travelling, trying outdoor gear). This has a big impact on keeping our costs low. I’ll make a video explaining this all more!
@Michelle_Emm
@Michelle_Emm Месяц назад
If they're in the UK they have the NHS and don't need to pay for health insurance.
@lindsay3793
@lindsay3793 Месяц назад
@@Michelle_Emm Regardless of the healthcare alone, a part time job in the USA will not afford rent for a studio in a bad area and food.
@Michelle_Emm
@Michelle_Emm Месяц назад
@lindsay3793 doesn't that depend on where you live? I've heard prices vary greatly between states.
@NefariaAdventures
@NefariaAdventures Месяц назад
Because they aren’t in the US and there is a different cost of living in the UK. Health care is also covered; they won’t be driven to financial ruin by medical bills like we would be here in the US, for example.
@bser3973
@bser3973 Месяц назад
Ignorant people think , Ignorant things.If they have everything, there up to there ass in debt.
@msme2400
@msme2400 Месяц назад
Reusable USED diapers? Hmmm, too far. If you can afford new diapers, then..
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
Why? They’re perfectly clean and were barely used. Logically and practically it makes no difference new or used in good condition.
@sustainablyyours61
@sustainablyyours61 Месяц назад
So why use the title? I buy nothing. Because you buy items every day.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
My mistake - I’ll correct it to ‘I mostly buy nothing except for essentials and a few items here and there’. I think you’ve missed the point 😂
@kerryryan5116
@kerryryan5116 Месяц назад
Long term renting is not being frugal! You are putting money in to pay someone else’s house off. We are a zero waste house and worked out the long term the comparison between renting versus buying. The hit comes when you reach your late forties into your fifties, by that time you are tapped in the rental merry go round.
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
We also calculated both and for us renting was better financially. If you invest all the money you save not buying and keeping up house costs and the money you save not paying the bank interest (and you know how to invest properly) then I’m a lot of cases you end up the same or even better off financially. On top of this, I would add that getting into the cycle of buying a house massively reduces peoples financial freedom as you are more likely to want to continue at ladder to a bigger house. Upgrading room, DIY, buying new furniture and things for the house, etc renters are much less likely to invest in things like furniture and aesthetic things for their homes.
@user-uk1fu8nn8l
@user-uk1fu8nn8l Месяц назад
@bandfamily when you say invest the money you save not buying what do you mean? Where I live in the UK it would cost me a minimum of £1500 a month to rent a two bed house with a garden. I work full time for the NHS and I don’t earn much more than that. If I hadn’t got a mortgage years ago when I was younger and is now paid off I’m not sure how I would afford a roof over my head
@sarahcooper6507
@sarahcooper6507 Месяц назад
Renting is wasted money with nothing for your children to inherit - plain stupid to give up your careers
@Michelle_Emm
@Michelle_Emm Месяц назад
I bought my house almost 10 years ago for $470k(cash), it's now worth $1.1mill. Curious to know if your investments have grown by more than 100%.
@sarahcooper6507
@sarahcooper6507 Месяц назад
You will have no pension or long term financial stability - no one is jealous of you - loads of people work part time
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
We’ve got a great pension set up (way above what is recommended for our age) and have lots of savings in long term investments so are managing just fine. Thanks for the concern!
@sarahcooper6507
@sarahcooper6507 Месяц назад
Second hand shoes - disgraceful - broken and mouldy
@BandFamilyAdventures
@BandFamilyAdventures Месяц назад
What a strange thing to say! None of our preloved shows are neither mouldy or broken?!
@bevanbuckwheatshea5520
@bevanbuckwheatshea5520 Месяц назад
Be careful buying 2nd hand shoes
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