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Why Is It So Hard to Make Friends? 

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Fr. Mike is honest about why it’s so hard for us to make friends. A necessity for friendship is time, something that many of us simply don’t have. More than that, true friendship requires a painful level of vulnerability and transparency. When asking yourself who you are willing to be friends with, you’re really asking “Who are you willing to give access to your wounds?” With that in mind, consider what Jesus said:
“No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you” (John 15:15).
How much time do you spend with Jesus? Will I give him access to my wounds? This is afterall what it means to be a friend. Am I a friend of Jesus?
Fr. Mike speaks about similar topics in this video on loneliness and this video on being a good friend.
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@icyangel13
@icyangel13 5 лет назад
I used to have a few very close friends that I thought of as family. We drifted apart when I became a practicing Catholic. We tried to make it work but ultimately a great difference in values kills true friendships. I've had a hard time making friends ever since because most people my age (25) are very far away from God and my Faith has so deeply transformed my life that I can't relate to them anymore. It's very sad but it's a real problem. I think a lot of people in modern western society have a hard time forming friendships because there's no common culture anymore, no shared basis. Everyone has their own beliefs and ideas and it's all so disconnected and self-referential. Loneliness is a sign of a broken, lost culture.
@glopez4919
@glopez4919 5 лет назад
Hello, I totally agree with you, the world is so lost in having fun and material things that God does come into the picture, that's what tears me apart. I wish I can find a good true Catholic friend.
@winterwonderland40
@winterwonderland40 5 лет назад
I feel the same way (I'm also 25 )!
@amethystplane2052
@amethystplane2052 4 года назад
I feel the same way. I'm 26 and Catholic. I go to a public University and I've even been looked at as a weirdo for being Catholic. All of my friends are agnostic or atheist. And I was broken up with because of my religion. I thank God for my parents but I fear the day when they will no longer be here and I'm all alone.
@poolie1226
@poolie1226 4 года назад
Hi! I am a returning catholic and you just hit it in the ball park. I truly hope to find a close catholic friend too
@Abr022575
@Abr022575 4 года назад
What culture?
@damonraj1714
@damonraj1714 5 лет назад
Would like to ask everyone to pray for Father Joseph Gomez (RIP)- Archdiocese of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia - a priest for just 12 days ..
@claylayne9497
@claylayne9497 2 года назад
I dont mean to be off topic but does anybody know of a tool to log back into an Instagram account..? I somehow lost my login password. I appreciate any tips you can offer me!
@Sweatyhorsecock
@Sweatyhorsecock 2 года назад
@@claylayne9497 why would you comment this on this persons thread? So disrespectful.
@haileycallahan23
@haileycallahan23 2 года назад
@@claylayne9497 click forgot password then reset it in an email
@asafupps
@asafupps 6 месяцев назад
I’m not afraid of people abusing my vulnerability anymore, I’m afraid of people being indifferent to everything they learn about me again.
@lailagroh1659
@lailagroh1659 24 дня назад
this.
@SheldonAdama17
@SheldonAdama17 5 лет назад
Social media probably doesn’t help either...people are so busy trying to conform to the “ideal” that they miss out on real life
@msaunders113
@msaunders113 5 лет назад
That's very true!
@cleanfactory5561
@cleanfactory5561 4 года назад
Hi , sheldon can i be your friend?
@cleanfactory5561
@cleanfactory5561 4 года назад
@@msaunders113 hi mark
@earthangel1763
@earthangel1763 5 лет назад
Ever since I was a child, I’ve always struggled finding friends. And when I’ve thought I’ve found them, they’d look out after themselves not caring wether they’d hurt me or not. So I’d add to the two reasons a third: People are only out for themselves and their best interest. Frankly, as a woman in my mid thirties, I’m over trying to make deep coney with others. My family is and always be my main priority. That’s all we have in the end. Because friends come and go. I apologize if I’m coming off as a Debbie-Downer to those who read this. It’s a realization that I e recently come to, and I accept it.
@pukes6273
@pukes6273 2 года назад
For me it's been the opposite. I happen to come from a very very toxic family. Physical fights were common and harsh insults/death wishes were cast upon each other. I had to find love from my friends.
@ankitnikunj3808
@ankitnikunj3808 2 года назад
@@pukes6273 All have different stories.World is so cruel to everyone in different aspect.
@RobertoCatanuto
@RobertoCatanuto 5 лет назад
"If you give me access to your wounds, I WON'T abuse that knowledge!" Please, keep this in mind when you try to make new friends. There are wounds that will take decades to heal. Thanks fr. Mike. God bless.
@brendamyc3057
@brendamyc3057 2 года назад
People do abuse this information though. It’s the most evil thing one can do to a potential friend.
@Abc-qs8ir
@Abc-qs8ir 5 лет назад
Whoever God has already put in your life; ‘Relatives, neighbours, work colleagues, local people,’ you may be the only Gospel they ever witness. You may be their only signpost to Jesus. You may be the only good person in word/ deed/ attitude/ prayer, that they witness on this side of Eternity. One kind smile/ prayer/ word/ act, might be a moment of conversion for those around you. Your very presence brings Jesus to them.
@paulmiller3469
@paulmiller3469 5 лет назад
That's a pretty sobering thought. You know, I've been on RU-vid for a while now, and I've seen lots of good comments as well as probably more not-so-good ones. Your comment here may be the most worth remembering the next day.
@ianlilley2577
@ianlilley2577 5 лет назад
No pressure.
@sebr8113
@sebr8113 4 года назад
AMEN! That's the calling of true Christians.
@tcn.br.92
@tcn.br.92 4 года назад
THANKS! 🙏
@julianamazas7145
@julianamazas7145 3 года назад
@@paulmiller3469 l
@annieroche22
@annieroche22 3 года назад
I am 35. Im an unmarried, career successful female. I try to work hard. I certainly prefer to be admired than loved. I've helped so many people through my role I healthcare. And meanwhile, I've hidden away from people. I dont want them to see my rubbish side. This stemmed from a situation in my past. Also, I dont want to think negatively of people. Because my negative side is horrific to me. I say the rosary every day. Its helping me so much. I contemplate Jesus, Mary and Joseph and their individual struggles. Im getting there slowly.
@dorisodonnell2948
@dorisodonnell2948 5 лет назад
For me, I live in a rural area where people are always busy with their families. They don't want to make time. It's very sad and lonely. I try my best by reaching out and usually go the distance to see others. I work part time outside the home, volunteer and go to Bible study. I always heard the the saying, "If you want a friend, be one." Well, I keep trying, but it's been a real challenge.
@ash2357577
@ash2357577 5 лет назад
The Saints are our friends. Best of all, they never abandon you no matter how much you annoy them!
@juanis8219
@juanis8219 5 лет назад
Throne and Altar it’s just hard to not have real life human interaction. Of course the saints listen to us anytime we need them and find ways to help us through other things/events/people or in any way they can. But there’s no direct physical contact and as social beings it sometimes feels like they’re so so far away and and it’s like talking to a wall.
@christophewakim7878
@christophewakim7878 5 лет назад
Jesus is my Friend and all saints
@Walawaliguili97
@Walawaliguili97 4 года назад
Huge round of applause to him for making this video. Every College age or 20-something Catholic on earth should watch this.
@dankmatter3068
@dankmatter3068 Год назад
Thanks Waluigi
@luciadeloach9932
@luciadeloach9932 5 лет назад
I just don’t get anything out of this one.. I wish I did. I think maybe I’m honestly just so depressed today. I’ve tried being vulnerable. I try reaching out. I try to be a good listener and all that. I always get left behind. I’m convinced it doesn’t matter how much I care or try, I always end up without a friend. Idk sometimes I think God just meant for me to go it alone. (edit: I will say this, I am IMMENSELY thankful for the catholic speakers like Fr Mike who care about the church and try to reach out to us. I can’t even say how much of a positive impact things like this ministry do have on me. Overall I am definitely thankful for the sense of catholic community that I get from following these videos. It reminds me that although I feel alone, I’m not actually alone. There’s a whole body of believers that Christ is helping and shaping and calling closer to himself. So I am thankful for that. I am very thankful for that.)
@saraabdallah5886
@saraabdallah5886 5 лет назад
I'm sorry that you are going through a rough time. Jesus is your friend and the best friend anyone could ever ask for! I hope and pray that you find other faithful friends as well. God will definitely see you through it all.
@luciadeloach9932
@luciadeloach9932 5 лет назад
Creative Creations thank you 💕
@jesseholthaus8357
@jesseholthaus8357 5 лет назад
Lucia DeLoach ah I wish you lived in Topeka, Ks-I’d invite you to our little family group. My wife is from Texas needs a friend!
@anniem7616
@anniem7616 4 года назад
Lucia DeLoach I totally get what you’re saying. A few years ago in college I tried making friend on several occasions and it was told to “make more friend”. It was also abundantly clear they were embarrassed to be around me. I didn’t have the trendiest clothes because I was broke but they were into fashion and all that. I also was shy so it took a lot to just start a conversation. So it was depressing when I wasn’t cool enough for them. And this was at a catholic college. 🤦‍♀️ Seriously, some people are just materialistic and stuck up. We don’t need those kinds of people in our life anyway. So it’s their loss if they can’t see your value.
@rmel8131
@rmel8131 3 года назад
Lucia...agree with you..
@class.C
@class.C 5 лет назад
Its so hard to make friends because of how far this world has strayed from God.
@priscillamichelle2565
@priscillamichelle2565 5 лет назад
I absolutely agree!!
@sarwings1068
@sarwings1068 5 лет назад
A month ago I lost my best friend and my (now ex) boyfriend because they disagree with my Catholic beliefs, and felt the need to cut me out of their lives, so I agree 100%. I've found that people tend to be friends with others that share their same viewpoints as it validates them. When someone comes along and disagrees they take it as a personal attack.
@sarwings1068
@sarwings1068 5 лет назад
@Matt Blaise Oh, I completely agree! They cut me out of their lives, not the other way around. I would never do that to someone. I just find it funny how the majority of the left is seen as the "tolerant" ones until you disagree and then they feel the need to cut ties with you instead of having an actual conversation. It blows my mind.
@john_from_eastcoast.
@john_from_eastcoast. 5 лет назад
@@priscillamichelle2565 you're right! So hard to find friends with similar Catholic beliefs!
@orlvndo
@orlvndo 5 лет назад
Yess!!!!
@liezhie
@liezhie 5 лет назад
Thank you Fr. Mike! You don't know how much I needed this. I am struggling with the idea of vulnerability and I thought it was only affecting my romantic relationships. Now I know why I am feeling so lonely, because I don't let anyone, as in anyone get to know the real me. This will definitely change my life and this is the prayer that I have been waiting for. Thank you very much for this and God bless you.
@jujujuj0ce
@jujujuj0ce 5 лет назад
Liezel E you took the words right out of my mouth!!! I’ve been feeling this way for a while too...
@liezhie
@liezhie 5 лет назад
I will include you in my prayers Jocelyn and everyone here who's feeling the same way as I am. May God bless us all 🙏
@raymondross7410
@raymondross7410 5 лет назад
Fr.Mike I feel alone alot. I have been struggling with this... This really helped me. I love you in Christ you are a true blessing. God bless you. Please pray for me.. please..
@ramseyk2779
@ramseyk2779 5 лет назад
Hay I will pray for u as well. I've had trouble with that too, just tell someone that could be the hardest thing.
@pmdal
@pmdal 5 лет назад
Write pmdal1976@gmail.com
@pmdal
@pmdal 5 лет назад
I Will send you a message
@sammyc8217
@sammyc8217 5 лет назад
Raymond Ross 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@echa9446
@echa9446 5 лет назад
I feel alone as well....I've been lying to EVERYONE in my life.....no one really knows me even my fam....only Him knows me....but yeah....it's very lonesome to not have any friends 😔
@annavickisantana
@annavickisantana 5 лет назад
It's so funny when Father Mike starts to get confuse when he is talking, because he speaks so fast 😂
@ParticleBomb
@ParticleBomb 4 года назад
I've been there. It happens 😂
@andrewvascobasilio6432
@andrewvascobasilio6432 5 лет назад
The timing of this video to me is shocking because I was just contemplating on how living in NYC the past two years has been the loneliest 2 years of my life. It's difficult to reach out to people here but reminding myself the God wants to listen and speak to me has given me great joy despite the isolation :] If any Catholics in NYC are watching this and wanna hangout, hit me up!
@deegobenwick1827
@deegobenwick1827 3 года назад
Ah wish I was at NY to meet ya! I know its been a year since this comment of yours, hope you found some people to spend your time with ❤
@adamhovey407
@adamhovey407 5 лет назад
I have a few close friends, I honestly don't think I could handle any more than that
@socratesandstorybooks1109
@socratesandstorybooks1109 5 лет назад
I just graduated college amd have been struggling with not having friends in my immediate area. This video was beautiful and very helpful thank you:)
@caribaez5711
@caribaez5711 4 года назад
_Volunteer_
@aricdelagrange5965
@aricdelagrange5965 5 лет назад
I need a true friend
@victoriawoodring1824
@victoriawoodring1824 5 лет назад
I'll be your friend bro
@redgator3347
@redgator3347 5 лет назад
I'm here I like hotwheels cheesecake and doggies
@SalveRegina8
@SalveRegina8 5 лет назад
Jesus is our truest friend ❤️
@msjoby89
@msjoby89 5 лет назад
Me too
@galadethlaernis6266
@galadethlaernis6266 5 лет назад
Me too.
@janelee2918
@janelee2918 Год назад
So true. I feel it's so hard to make good friends as you get older. People are also impatient to listen to problems or concerns with others bc life is so busy or stressful. I feel even in the Church this has become a problem. I am a Catholic/ Christian too. 💗😇❤️🙏
@asafupps
@asafupps 6 месяцев назад
This made me realize that as I’ve been hoping and hoping for my pleasurable friendships to transform into virtuous ones I have developed a deep hatred of being admired. I don’t want admiration, I want them to want to know me.
@catholicism31
@catholicism31 Год назад
One can be vulnerable with their close family, neighbors, those who know more about you than others. Perhaps/ guess that’s why we’re told to maintain a good relationship and to be kind with family, neighbors, friends.
@yarag5357
@yarag5357 5 лет назад
Hi Father, I just got our of my therapist office where a large part I talked about is how lonely I am and how I have a hard time making friends. This video couldn't have come at a better and much needed time!!! Thank you!
@redgator3347
@redgator3347 5 лет назад
I'll be ur friend
@sarahbrennan1342
@sarahbrennan1342 5 лет назад
Yara G bless 🙏🏻
@msjoby89
@msjoby89 5 лет назад
I’ll be your friend too!
@justinpalmer3948
@justinpalmer3948 5 лет назад
Hey people reading this. I am going to start RCIA this August when I get back to my home from my internship. My whole family (except one who married in as a Catholic) is Protestant. My brother goes to a hardcore Reformed seminary. I was involved all of college with a Reformed Christian ministry. My church was a Reformed Baptist Church. I have spent so many times saying the Catholic Church is a church in dire need of salvation. Until, I really did the research and realized Christ's church is in Rome. Church history, reading books (most importantly the Bible), and just listening without my fingers in my ears has helped me see the truth. I am seriously so nervous about telling everybody that I am going to become a Catholic. Prayers would be deeply appreciated. Ask the saints to intercede for me. Ask Christ to comfort me.
@tottering-by-gently
@tottering-by-gently 5 лет назад
Prayers coming your way! I have a friend who had your same background who converted and there were hard times with her family but things are much improved! You might enjoy reading Rosalind Moss. She grew up Jewish and became a Protestant minister as an adult. Similar to your own story, she eventually became Catholic through study.
@Emiliaemiliemili
@Emiliaemiliemili 5 лет назад
I can't really find a good friend because of my insecurities I am a stay at home mum so that doesn't help also finding difficult to trust people after being hurt by people in the past
@pmdal
@pmdal 5 лет назад
Dont worry! Please write if you want pmdal1976@gmail.com
@Emiliaemiliemili
@Emiliaemiliemili 5 лет назад
@@maykatolickimotyl1118 thanks, I will read it if I can get a copy of it
@christelrascon5474
@christelrascon5474 3 года назад
❤️🙏🏻🌹
@sarakidan1108
@sarakidan1108 5 лет назад
You are fantastic father Mike!! My God bless u abundantly!! I am praying for u! 🙏💒💓
@akshadagodinho950
@akshadagodinho950 5 лет назад
I can't believe this! I was just thinking about the same question and a notification about this video popped up. It's been a long time now that I have tried finding an answer to this. Also always rooting for your videos. May God continue to guide you in the journey. 🙏😁 (wouldn't have commented but it's such a coincidence that I have to)
@pmdal
@pmdal 5 лет назад
Godinho? Português?
@Smiley_Face0
@Smiley_Face0 5 лет назад
Same
@KG004
@KG004 5 лет назад
Same here, The Holy Spirit is amazing.
@pamelamason1272
@pamelamason1272 Год назад
Even though this video is three years old, this is my first time watching it, and I can identify so much with this. I have been very ill since for the past 12 years with severe autoimmune disease and several other chronic issues I am very lonely, my only source of support a lot of time is that social media I don’t have a true best friend. I also have been hurt terribly by people I have CPTSD so it is very hard for me to be vulnerable and open up and let people in thank you for this and thank you for the prayer. I need to hear this.
@deliaceballos7145
@deliaceballos7145 5 лет назад
A replayed the first 10 sec. about 5 times LOL. GREAT VIDEO FR!! 👍🏻😂
@ERIN10E
@ERIN10E 5 лет назад
Literally have been praying about this so much recently. I thank God I have so many great friends and I think what you suggest about time and vulnerability is so spot on. Ugh ily Father Mike...you are such a gift to me spiritually!!
@bjenks331
@bjenks331 2 года назад
It’s hard to have good friends in college. Everyone’s drinking and going to parties while I’m here in my room praying to God.
@philhines
@philhines 5 лет назад
Its a two-way street though... they need to realise yhey need to make time for you too...
@BBQ-Sausages
@BBQ-Sausages 5 лет назад
That's me all over, 47 busy with a loving family and social anxiety!
@MissPopuri
@MissPopuri 5 лет назад
Friendship is hard because it isn’t natural to human interaction. We have to be vulnerable, and yet, we also have to be capable of telling people where they can or cannot go with our stuff.
@cylonexy
@cylonexy 5 лет назад
Thank you, Father Mike.
@phyllisgyang5464
@phyllisgyang5464 5 лет назад
i feel very friendless right now. but i realise no one want to take that time to build it.
@NachoLatorre
@NachoLatorre 5 лет назад
Fantastic! Thank you Mike!
@MrSkeeter18
@MrSkeeter18 5 лет назад
Awesome as always. So cool
@michellekaram243
@michellekaram243 5 лет назад
perfect timing for me. Thank you
@BeccaSmith124
@BeccaSmith124 5 лет назад
Makes so much sense!! Tough time with this.
@macrick
@macrick 4 года назад
Yeah, I am a middle aged man. It's hard in this modern world. Friendship need only time, but loyalty to grow.
@m.ehlers1729
@m.ehlers1729 5 лет назад
That was a very powerful message. Thank you.
@TheTurtleGirl
@TheTurtleGirl 5 лет назад
This really spoke to my heart right now...thank you Father!
@chrispoling8567
@chrispoling8567 3 года назад
Love listening to Fr Mike!
@nicoletelles8251
@nicoletelles8251 5 лет назад
So good! Thank you I needed this so much 🙏❤️
@GGMoon-qo3tp
@GGMoon-qo3tp 5 лет назад
Once more great video! God Bless you Father!
@coasterdude407
@coasterdude407 5 лет назад
Thanks Father Mike..this was awesome!
@cindyrobertson8542
@cindyrobertson8542 5 лет назад
Touche! Too many on line lives these days . Time to get real again.
@fatimaserafini1680
@fatimaserafini1680 5 лет назад
I'm so moved for what you said That was just what I needed to hear Thanks 💓
@Densmith43
@Densmith43 5 лет назад
So truthful . Tell your friend . Time well spent listening to you
@larryuk8630
@larryuk8630 5 лет назад
Thank you Father. Simple, to the point and very helpful.
@pangelo4023
@pangelo4023 5 лет назад
Great video, Father Mike,
@vocalmaster6737
@vocalmaster6737 5 лет назад
Thank you Father 🙏🏼 this was Reminding and informative
@edgarvictoria1983
@edgarvictoria1983 5 лет назад
I considered my wife as my best friend and enough for me to have few long time friends. I considered also my sons and their gf as my friends 😀. Thank you Fr Mike. I pray for you & God bless you.
@theBadKid1
@theBadKid1 5 лет назад
I always smile when I listen to you. You're so comforting. Listening to you, Father, is like drinking from a pure water spring. Thank you.
@bapideoli8485
@bapideoli8485 5 лет назад
God bless you Father!
@powerliftingcentaur
@powerliftingcentaur 5 лет назад
A most thoughtful and interesting video.
@bielsabas4407
@bielsabas4407 5 лет назад
Thank you for being relatable and "understandable" Fr Mike
@cressacarmel3320
@cressacarmel3320 5 лет назад
Thank you Father..you reminded me about the importance of friendships!♡
@judithperez8892
@judithperez8892 5 лет назад
So true father Mike I receive that as an encouragement to let JESUS be my true friend. Thank you for sharing God bless from Belize 🙏👍
@amygannett7110
@amygannett7110 5 лет назад
This could not have come at a better time. God bless you Fr. Mike ❤
@texassavage3527
@texassavage3527 5 лет назад
Helps me understand in a deeper meaning, John 15:11-15. Blessings!
@chickenpotpiedinnerfan9264
@chickenpotpiedinnerfan9264 5 лет назад
I love your videos, Father Mike! You are the best priest Ive ever known. Praying for you. Please pray for me and my struggle with friendlessness. Thank you!
@themissionary4christ166
@themissionary4christ166 5 лет назад
This is awesome!! Jesus and Mary love everyone!! It's fun to be with friends and family!
@morgansheila5785
@morgansheila5785 5 лет назад
Thank you God for this, and thank you father Mike for letting Him use you continuously
@kwkw5711
@kwkw5711 5 лет назад
effect of original sin - all good things frustrated and people separated from each other
@freakshow3945
@freakshow3945 5 лет назад
I need this topic. Its always been so hard for me to make friends growing up
@Eowyn3Pride
@Eowyn3Pride 5 лет назад
Preaching to the choir Father!😁❤😊👍Thanks Padre!
@fenlandwildlifeclips
@fenlandwildlifeclips 3 года назад
Thabk you for explaining. One issue I find is social media & now I think I know why.
@leahbaker9848
@leahbaker9848 5 лет назад
Thank you so much Fr Mike! I’ve been thinking a lot about this recently. I’m not sure if I have a problem with trusting other people and I need to learn to let my guard down a little, or if there just really isn’t anyone around me who I should trust. I think I’ll try to show someone a little bit of my heart tomorrow. I hope I can trust them! Thank you again, because I needed to hear that maybe I should allow myself to be loved instead of just admired.
@karenkazjefreys2913
@karenkazjefreys2913 3 года назад
thats profound, admiration and love and time, thanks,,!yes time ! so true...
@deborahtofflemire7727
@deborahtofflemire7727 5 лет назад
this means so much to me today. Than you
@romariomendes9366
@romariomendes9366 3 года назад
Great timing! Thanks fr mike!!😉😁
@enriquearandalopez3476
@enriquearandalopez3476 5 лет назад
Greetings from Spain father Mike, thank you for these great videos and words you’re giving us! Cheer up with it!
@rocioz5687
@rocioz5687 5 лет назад
También viendo desde España :)
@annaholley2885
@annaholley2885 5 лет назад
Thank you ❤❤
@johnathannrajanayagam9220
@johnathannrajanayagam9220 5 лет назад
I really needed this one. I can't stress enough how my thoughts were earlier, but then I got the notification for this video. I read the title and it shows God's true love for me. He answered my sadness with this video.
@michaelbeauparlant4373
@michaelbeauparlant4373 3 года назад
very good Fr mike you hit the bell! I realize has I get older it's harder to make friends with people in general!
@john_from_eastcoast.
@john_from_eastcoast. 5 лет назад
Thanks Fr. Mike! GOOD friends are hard to find! One that you can count on and trust! There are many who will be your friend but there are certain conditions and also no time. It seems also the internet and social media has ruined friendships and relationships, everything is so fake and everyone just looks at their cellphone like they can't live without it. Prejudices and discrimination also is a road block on finding a GOOD friend.
@marisolarava2417
@marisolarava2417 4 года назад
Father Mike, greetings from New Zealand. Your videos have taken a great part of my faith education journey. May Jesus through our dear Mother keep blessing you in this minister. God bless.
@user-uj2pw2vk4l
@user-uj2pw2vk4l 6 месяцев назад
Some people aren't lonely or friendliness father😌...Thank you Ascension Present!!!💙💙💙
@chickenpotpiedinnerfan9264
@chickenpotpiedinnerfan9264 5 лет назад
Fr. Mike, is the Goat! (G.o.a.t. greatest of all time!)
@cecilthecockatoo
@cecilthecockatoo 5 лет назад
Thank you father God bless you!!!
@12mountain
@12mountain 5 лет назад
Many of your videos, Fr. Mike, refresh or more fully expand on concepts that I’ve known previously in some way. But this one floored me with a couple “oh, wow” moments in which I was completely surprised by a new truth. The idea that many of us would rather be admired than loved really hit me. I felt like it was a moment of fresh revelation. Similarly, the concept that some of us can be transparent but not vulnerable with people really stopped me in my tracks. Both ideas immediately resonated as true and shined some light into both my own life and that of other people I know. God bless everything you’re doing, Fr. Mike! Thank you for your gentle & loving yet clear & direct illumination of the truth.
@anjasimone3113
@anjasimone3113 5 лет назад
You know, there are always a couple people commenting below your videos things like "oh my gosh, the Lord sent me here! Exactly what I needed" and I always like "yea right, sure, whatever" but this was literally the perfect timing in my life and exactly what I needed to hear because I'll be going to a new school. I've been meeting up with people trying to have a good reputation and be likable, really caring a lot about being popular. Thank you Father Mike!
@peaceinmind7333
@peaceinmind7333 5 лет назад
That was the best ending! ;D I love how genuine Fr. Mike is!! I can totally relate. I can never figure out how to end videos either lol!
@charliegusmano3074
@charliegusmano3074 5 лет назад
I met him in person a couple days ago in Florida and my family drove him to and from the airport and he is the nicest guy in the entire world u can’t get any better than him
@gabrielanicacio8437
@gabrielanicacio8437 3 года назад
My best friends have really become my sisters & cousins. They're the ones your always around, they know the real you, you can talk to them about almost anything and they also share the faith with me.
@sarahhui2702
@sarahhui2702 5 лет назад
Fr. Mike, this is so good! I understood what you were saying really well. I returned from a 10-day mission trip six days ago during which I made a couple of "excellent" friends, as Katie P. McGrady recently spoke about. That trip was a special opportunity to really speed up what you said about time. I got so close to these people, and so fast, I was really surprised. I agree with what you said about being vulnerable, and opening yourself up to being loved, rather than just being admired. Thank you for your wisdom and kindness! I am praying for you.
@earthygardens7507
@earthygardens7507 5 лет назад
I felt like this a couple of weeks ago . God turned it all upside down . I started praying for my neighbors. Very thankful for my life apt and praying for others . Miss Martha stoped me yesterday , going to bible study next week 😊.Pray for others ,love others Thank God for all the people in your life . Prayer warrior for others .
@RosarySoldier
@RosarySoldier 4 года назад
Thanks be to God for this revelation.
@jaysonyata1992
@jaysonyata1992 5 лет назад
Father Mike, this is so valuable lesson for me, I let nobody see me vulnerable because of my past. This explanation of addressing your choice in friendship with christ really changed my perspective in a positive and forgiving way. Thank you, God bless Father.
@theclapaolini4322
@theclapaolini4322 3 года назад
Fr Mike every talk is super You know how to say so much in so little time.l think that is why we love Fr Mike the introvert??????l cant believe it!!!!!But l do because you are a PRIEST. Thank you
@jetparonable5667
@jetparonable5667 5 лет назад
Being loved or admired? Wow what a question
@catholicism31
@catholicism31 Год назад
Thank you father 🙏
@aesthetewithoutacause3981
@aesthetewithoutacause3981 4 года назад
Christianity does have so much to offer and while I think it has dark and exclusionary aspects that will probably prevent me from ever fully converting, you make me see that the positives do shine very bright. You've earned a subscriber :)
@emilymg1
@emilymg1 5 лет назад
im cryinnnnggggg. so beautiful :)
@roniquebreauxjordan1302
@roniquebreauxjordan1302 5 лет назад
..good friends are made over your lifetime ❤
@melodie9109
@melodie9109 11 месяцев назад
I find this to be so true. God helps us
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