WHY Japan Boys WHY!? Japanese girls are SHOCKED that Japanese boys do this 

Yeah, some of those places are chill

Anastasia Kr I heard Japanese are non-confrontational people.

@@jameshiawo2771 ..and?

@@NK-rf4db which was why nobody (no other Japanese people) aside from you, who was Middle Eastern, pushed passed them or told them off. If they did that in other places where people were confrontational, a literal fight would have broken out.

@@dcardigan13 Not true at all!!lol I've been to Japan for a long period of times and I've been a witness to arguments that occurred between Japanese people who were complete strangers to each other and one time 2 men were on the verge to actually fight each other.

@@NK-rf4db just saying that's what James Hiawo meant.

She's awesome, right?

yeah she is a great example of a not too distant future, gotta she´s pretty too.. so that´s also nice to see

僕も

She clearly knows her stuff

She's amazing 👍

That's where a gentleman would strike (Or a thief) .

@BOGDAN SERBAN I mean, the fact that it bothers you is the point of doing that. Why would you pick a fight that you don't want to be in against a guy asking for it? After all, if you act rude back, then you risk losing your job (happens in some places in the US, not sure about other countries) and your manager usually sucks up to the customers with free crap. All risk, no reward (aside from a small, prideful "even though I lost my job, I sure told him off"). Pick your battles.

Anyone who spits in anyone's food deserves to be beaten. If someone's acting like a cunt then be a man and confront them. If you can't be an adult then get on welfar.

Yea..if someone treated me like that I would just ignore them

Shows what you know about working a basic job lol

@@grzyruth9205 worked In a steel mill right out of high school at 18 for 10 years .

In Portugal you get scolded or kicked out. We don't accept that behaviour in our culture.

Anyone who spits into food because someone was rude deserves their head kicked in. Refuse them service like an adult.

Let me ask you something, on dinner dates or whatever, do you expect the guy to pay the bill(s)? Real question, cuz lots of girls say they hate double standards, yet they use some of them to their advantage.

@@bobbiusshadow6985 1000% I'd prefer to split it, that's what I'm comfortable with

Raquel I'd split it too. That's only fair.

and what about a woman touching a man? if they do it is ok, if a man does it, it is rape what about women hitting men? if they do it is ok, he probably did something very bad to her but, if it is a man it is automatically abuse / rape what about, only men paying alimony ? what about spousal support? only men have to do it. if a woman has to, it is totally wrong and unacceptable what about women calling the police because a man hit her, the police take the man without evidence other than her word. guilty until proven innocent. what about men staring at a woman, creepy he is instantly creepy, a rapist but, if it is a woman, all is ok. nothing wrong there what about men ignoring ugly women, the man is shallow. when a woman does it, the man is a loser breast cancer funding is twice prostate cancer funding a man rapes a woman, full punishment is applied. woman does it to a boy, a couple of days in prison if she goes to prison at all. a woman cheats on her husband, he probably deserved it. a man does it, he is just a pig

Dude wtf, if you want to live with double standards then it’s your problem but she never said that they only be established in a way that favors her

They'd make the perfect power couple

This type of standard doesn't really bother the MAJORITY of women. Men tend to have bigger skeletal structures than women meaning the majority of men are stronger than the majority of women.

You are saying cold hard cruel world like you just came home from fighting the 2nd world war. Get off your high horse lady. You don't even know half of the hardships in this world. Big deal you changed your tires. School kids aged 10 died because of US missiles.

@@sumandhabolkar2819 calm down

@@Truepk That really only counts for so much. I mean, I've rebuilt *cars,* and sure, I'm stronger than a fair number of guys that still assume the opposite even if they never do anything physical, but there's usually a workaround. (And a lot of times there's helpful stronger people around but they don't have the *skills* to do anything requiring more finesse than 'push here' just cause they never practiced. ) I do hate it when they're like 'Women can't do this,' and I have to be like, 'Well, watch, why don't you.' On the other hand it's often a real good team-up to have me and stronger guy mechanics on something, (Most guy *mechanics* actually are stronger than me,) cause often I can get my hands or self in somewhere bigger people can't, which can mean a whole lot less disassembly to get at various bolts and fittings that could otherwise mean pulling off manifolds and maybe even removing engines and stuff. On the other hand, especially as I get older, ....am I ever going to get that crankshaft pulley off without making room for an impact wrench? Probably not. :) Now, am I in the 'majority,?' In a lot of ways, maybe not. But since when does 'majority' become 'Absolutes you must conform to' in the first place?

@@sumandhabolkar2819 Oh, dry up. You're the only one comparing changing tires to war in the first place.

it's gay af. men are supposed to be men. leave the fake appearance and make up to insecure girls

Sure it is gay.

I can see why when it comes to certain things like make up.

Sounds like they may be insecure or think that interests are what "make a man". My opinion is let people like what they like. If a guy wants to like fashion, just let him like it without the need to call him gay. If he is gay, so what? If he is not, so what? I personally don't care what someone else's sexual orientation is unless it's the person I'm dating.

@@restpack If I'm not mistaken, and I'm not, "gay" means that a man is sexually atracted to another man. It has nothing to do with washing your face in the evening or wearing fashionable clothes.

When she said that I was like yeah you should listen to your male friend 🤣

It's even worse because she seems to know she is paying for someone to lie to her.

Agreed! Everything she said is on point

That's a pretty western point of view. You need to see her statement in the cultural context. Men cheating on Women is rather seen as something "normal", especially when no emotions (i.e. with prostitutes) are involved often it's kinda accepted/tolerated and the woman often would rather turn a blind eye and pretend it didn't happen/she doesn't know if she finds out. It's also not unusual that the man is working far away in another town, while the woman is staying at home with their kids, so they hardly see each other.

I relate, Ylva. End all human and non-human commodification and exploitation.

@@AaronMetallion 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Mecks089 Maybe she means she wants to talk more freely, and not focus on logic all the time. Like loosen up and have a little fun, or something like that. I don't think it has anything to do with having a realistic mindset.

I’m a guilty party in that. I enjoy talking about logic things, even in games what I enjoy most is either dissecting the plot or discussing about how to best play. If it’s not a goal oriented chat I struggle to stay engaged.

It isn't that easy for me either.

no lol

asians are jealous about westerners beauty as well, it's kinda funny really.

Are they really beauty? For me Japanese girl is far from others beauty

It's because generally speaking young men aren't worth much. A man's value increases over time. Women are generally regarded as starting with high value which lowers as time goes on. Women have it easier for the first 30 or so years and guys have it easier from about 35+ when they start to actually be considered as worth something by society.

You wear jeans to funerals. Hm where did you get such class?

Subaru: yes

Without gender role, you can see what happened to west. 90% dysfunction family happened because of parent forgot their gender role

@@boboboy8189 90% seems low to me. Why do you think it's not 100%?

bro ... japan already have population issue ... if they started copying west more than you can kiss goodbye to japan

@@boboboy8189 right bro

@@abdullahbinjahed6900 They already have a lower birth rate than my own country so if it were similar things would be better that way. Of course in my country we get a bunch of people from foreign countries coming in which japan doesn't seem to have. I do think however that lowering their population is a valid idea. 126 million on such a tiny island seems like a bad idea when they have to import so much food to survive. It seems like a disaster waiting to happen.

johnnys is a talent agency where basically all the male idols come from

@@kiana5650 Well, they must have been blind, drunk or both then... xD

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she can give me money instead and ill tell her anything she wants.

when the subject is implicit, you don't need to keep saying it in English. In Japanese its a way to emphasize.

Ah thank you

Yes

@Ari Ari its all about ur think and mindset ...are u Asian ??

Then u not understand and its jus in ur mind but not all are same everyone have their own nature mindset if ur open-minded then u understand otherwise 😌u not so 👍🏻

@Ari Ari 😂😂😂😂m illetrate many people like u never understand coz u know only how spread hate. And why British government give u patent of English mam pls take care of eglish language 😂😂😂silly better u stop conversation here coz I can't 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 u never understand wht m try to say

Joe Falduti just switch them on, they are there for those in need...

Cause they r girls

They have crooked teeth. But actually, i think its some sort of polite behavior not to show the insides of your mouth. Flies might fly out you know

@@LosT4088 Lol

Mecks089 not to mention in Japan there will prob be less consequences, because there is a low rate of divorce, and people are less inclined to get divorced.

I believe the reason people say that the romantic fire and lust dies after 3-4 years is because those relashionship are often based on lust, and it can be hard to differentiate lust and love for some. When the lust dies people start to come out of their fantasies and they start seeing each other's flaws and they get turned off. While if they start the relashionship by loving the person for who they really are they might not be decieved after a certain time. I've heard some couples say they still have regular sex after 10 years of marriage. I don't have the experience of a serious relashionship for now so that's what I bellieve for now.

All relationships start out as lust sorry. Love takes time.

This brother is woke.

Lmao

You must be a real thrill on a date.

Married men in the u.S. take their men clients to nudie bars. Get over it.

ew^ that's not acceptable or normal

It’s the same kind of peer pressure they face at work for drinking with your company or fellow staff. As a employee, you may not want to but it’s also considered rude to turn down a boss’ invitation to group outings. It can be hard to reject that despite how clear it is you’re uncomfortable at the thought of cheating by going. Also, it wouldn’t be surprising if your boss was an older man (cus that’s how Japan is) and with the old generation they have that same old mentality that it’s okay to cheat on wives. I don’t support the notion of cheating on your spouses or using the excuse of your boss peer pressuring it and I don’t empathize with spouses who cheat on their SO’s, but I understand why and would be very pissed at their boss.

In the Philippines, this double standard in cheating exists too. I mean, cheating is not treated lightly at all here - a literal fight would happen between married couples if this happened and may result to annulment. But the general rule is that it's more normal (or it's better) for men to cheat on their partners than for a woman to cheat on her husband/boyfriend. There is shame when men cheat, but there's more judgement and shame placed on women who cheat - cheating women are considered as a disgrace. And sometimes, it's humiliating for women when their husbands or boyfriends cheat on them as this insults their womanhood (but this may be the same for other cultures as well?). But bottomline is, cheating, whether you're a man or woman, is disgraceful and shouldn't be tolerated in the first place.

ikr i dont get it. why cheat and not just go out with the person youre cheating with

Agreed. As someone who used to work in the service industry, I can say that a good or a bad customer, can make the difference between "Meh...Life isn't so bad" and "I hate humans and want all of them to die" mentality. Being polite, and saying thanks never kills anyone.

right. kindness is free

I always say please and thank you. But if I thought someone was going to make a veiled threat about spitting in my food if I didn't, I'd skelp them.

@@THETRIVIALTHINGS dude I feel this on a spiritual level. Used to have this one guy come into the restaurant I worked at and he would for example order a cheeseburger and then request his beef patty to be burnt or as he put it "I want it to look like a piece of charcoal" and then he would have the audacity to say it wasn't burnt enough and would send it back multiple times or just decide all of the sudden that he doesn't want it burnt anymore so we'd have to remake it not to mention he was super rude.

If they both agree to that then that's fine and wouldn't be cheating anymore. Seems perfectly fine to me.

There’s a biological factor here ma’am , it has to do with the hormone cycle and the natural male instinct - of mating with as many females as possible in his life time :) I would have explained in detail , but I’m lazy ...

@@shukrantpatil biology is not an excuse to be an asshole

It's interesting that whenever this subject comes up that everyone seems to forget that it is with other women that men cheat. Apparently around 40% of young Japanese women are involved in prostitution. This tells me that the cheat-culture of Japan is a culture that involves both sexes, not just men. Cheat culture isn't a specifically men's problem, it's a Japanese cultural problem, and it needs to be addressed as such.

It does actually make more sense for men to cheat. But in a lot of countries it's actually more common for women to do so. Especially in "fairer" societies. Because in "fairer" societies women didn't have their privileges taken away from them when they were also given the privileges men had. Such as preferrential treatment in courts, especially marital and custodial courts.

That's true, but it's just the fact the one carries more stigma than the other. Honestly, some people believe men will always cheat and that you have to deal with it in relationships. But no one considers that with women.

Some people will cheat on their partner because they THINK that their partner cheated. And when the partner in fact didn't cheat so the partner get angry then goodbye couples. Confidence is great

I think what she's saying is that if the relationship isn't exclusive, it should be open for both partners. I like that attitude, even though I'm male.

Sora Gen Next i think that’s sad even from the male perspective. Why am I assumed to be a cheating ass just because I’m a man? Cheating is not nice for both genders :/

Rulliyana Fajri I think she meant if her significant other is cheating on her with someone, then it’s also okay with her to do the same. Not literally cheating on them, she’s implying it’s ‘okay’ to cheat on them if they are cheating on her too. Like an open relationship, she’s saying some Japanese boyfriends think it’s okay for them to see another woman but not okay for their girlfriend to see another man.

I agree. Pink-bob is thoughtful and well spoken. I hope she runs for political office someday. "Mr. President. Prime Minister Pink-bob of Japan has arrived."

i think so ---------CHINA

I had such a crush on her

Agreed!

it was weird tho for her to say that cheating should be alright for both instead of saying nobody should do it.

ikr it's always something they can't control too, im like mom stopp

In Portugal the staff will scold her and she may get kicked out of the store or restaurant. In our culture we don't allow that.

I hink the reason why the population is decreasing in Japan is because Japanese men have to dedicate their whole life to their company so there is no time to engage with females. In the end they don´t know how to interact with women and no babies are born. Also women study which is why they don´t think about getting children until they finish their studies.

What you said is partly true, but does not effect that much. Italy, Spain and Germany have similar birth rate. The low birth rate is mainly because of the job culture in Japan

@@Kotoamatsukami6910 there are plenty of interviews with Japanese women on RU-vid who say this is exactly why. They are expected to give up their jobs if they marry, do all housework etc.

@@vanderbam2741 Read my comment again

You should only be concerned if they are washing before they take a leak.

Would you be surprised to hear that Japanese women are mostly the same?

@@LilMissNintendo Why would japanese women use 2 fingers to hold their 'thing'. They don't have the 'thing'.

Wtf ? is this real

You are all welcome to see for yourselves, I'm just telling you what I see all the time: women exiting the stall, maybe passing their hand under the faucet, checking their hair, and leaving.

Maybe she is refering to the fact that boys are more "direct" and "straight to the point" with their conversation topics and dont go on tangents so much.

Hmm, she mentioned being too logically thinking. Maybe she means someone that may speak or act with more creativity or imagination? I like logical things, but there are times when I like to talk about things that don't make sense or are completely illogical. Or she could be referring to people who only talk when necessary. Not sure really, it's rather vague.

She means girls often make a lot of small talk to spend time while boys don't often like to waste time and cut to the chase in conversations.

I think she is being somewhat sarcastic. That boys THINK what they say is more important and should be considered worth listening too whereas girls just gossip and have nothing of importance to say as far as boys are concerned. THAT is the problem with Japan that even in this modern age men treat women STILL as 2nd Class.

​@@Buzzramjet Haha... but it's also somewhat true. I usually don't speak much, so when I do, it matters, it's got content. It's not often that I'm in the mood of "talking trash", i.e. chatting about pointless things. I'm definitely not a small talk guy, and usually go straight to the point... Well, I'm German, so that actually might be a cultural thing - and most women I met in Germany do chat/small talk more than the men I met here. Of course, there are exceptions. Interestingly, in other European countries I found a complete different situation. (Do the French guys EVER shut up?)

do what?

sameera I’m pretty sure he was implying stalking/ watching elementary kids. Since his friend that was a girl caught up to him, the policeman thought he must be no harm because a girl was with him. Just my interpretation though.

@@ghanaria7996 ohh ok gotcha

Yeah they view women as weak meek creature being, women purpose only being pretty and cute which again, sexist for women

didn't the girls also say bad manners?

A lot of time men didn't even show the interest in the conversation at all when hanging out. It could goes lonely and distant fast. I think for couple the interaction itself is important, not a waste of time at all. The basic important information only kind of convo is fine for most ppl, at the same time developing more topics could give us better understanding of each other. Of course it have to be a convo where both could indulge in, that's why similar interests is important for longevity. And where there are no similar interests they in turn try to indulge in each other interest, not because the topic itself is exciting to them but because their partner excited about it and thus seeing them enjoy themselves is not a waste of time. As for similar interests for example some of my friends find food talk is a waste of time but for my other friend it's *the* conversation because we both love food. Some people find gossip interesting , some think it's a waste of time. It's less about men are x women are y, but more about the compatibility of each couple.

For men process is work and completion is liberation. Thats why they get screwed in divorce battles. They want the process to get over quickly.