At 29:30 did you say "credit cards?" Isn't that haram? Like "If you give one wife a bottle of whiskey, give the second wife also?" Shaykh, how many men at the age of 18 don't have a sex drive? I don't think you will find one who does not want to have sex. How is he supposed to do that? Marriage right? What do you think all these 18 year olds are doing with this urge? So I don't know if I can agree with your arbitrary statistic 18 year old men are not ready for marriage.
He is right our urges might be present but willingness and desire to marry does not translate into ability as getting married requires wealth, job, a residence etc.
I hate being a woman, but hearing all of this made it worst. in this case I will never marry again, I dont want to share a husband. Id rather remove all my sexual organs then become a first wife. After listening to this lecture I feel very low about being born a female. This proves that men are more valued and women are less valued because their is more of them everywhere. Polygany does take rights from women, some women will be forced to get divorced because its too much pain. This is why I divorced my ex-husband. if men have four wives, each woman has to wait a week to see her husband. are you kidding me?
ESSAN 29 Good reason of a woman as a human being. God created equal for man and woman . why not to try the truth God in christianity, you will meet Yesus the Lord