@@I.Z.Phooto In the movie (did not read teh book) the "princess" was not royal in the beginning. Wesley was the stable-boy of her family's farm, bu they were not royal. She was going to become a princess by marrying the prince. The original point remains valid.
I dated a single mom once. She had a little daughter little sweetheart of a girl. One day I came to visit the house I walked into my girlfriend having a conversation with HER mom about life, relationships... choosing the right man. Her mom was telling her," stay with the safe bet ,someone with benefits, and a job.Once you have that, then you can also choose to have fun with the " other guys". I made noise to make sure they knew I had walked in the house I played it off. I said hello to everyone,and then I said ,"you know what? I forgot something in the car "....I walked out, got in my car, drove away,and never came back.
My ex believed her 5 year old son that told her I said I was going to lock him in a closet. She wigged out on me, and as soon as she turned away from him, he started smiling at me. Psychos
It used to be that we had values and traditions. The amazing thing about values is that you don't have to be a genius to know what to do. That mother had no values, her daughter had no values, and thus the daughter's daughter will have no values. Sad but true. Gotta raise your children right.
No, not contradiction. That was her subconsciously admitting that she want a millionaire and not a broke guy, they don't even exist to her. In short she admitted everything
@@Aki-kh2qe-StreetKidZZZA contradiction isn't going to be conscious because at that point you make yourself look rhetorical or your point no longer has respect/merit because it would imply you don't even agree with yourself to some extent
2023 I am 51. In 1995 I was 22 US Army stationed in Germany 🇩🇪. Met gorgeous Brazilian who had 2 kids w German and was getting divorced. I fell in lust. Moved in. But, I knew it was a bad call. Army asked if I wanted to extend 1 more year in Germany? I said no, knowing it would hasten our break up. It did. 1998, I was back in USA 🇺🇸, and got a Christmas 🎄 card from her w new last name Tucker and military address. She married another soldier. 2004, I bumped into her in Germany 🇩🇪 again !! She had another kid w the American. I was an officer now. We had a 1 hour conversation. Caught up. They moved to Georgia. 2019, I went back to Germany. I FB peeked her. Divorced. I am happy w my wife and 2 kids in California. I was lucky 🍀. It’s painful. Like cutting off your infected leg. But, you will be better off. Trust me. I wish I could talk to her 2nd ex husband and ask if he felt it was worth it. He got 2 kids out of her, so maybe? But, now I know she is bound to him and Georgia for YEARS due to custody. Oh well. Life. AVOID 🚫 UNNECESSARY DRAMA 🎭!!! PS5 DEAD-DROP
I dated a girl with a kid who had a deadbeat dad. After I moved them in, I got death threats and stalking from the dad. Had restraining orders on him etc. I treated this kid like my own, he was so smart, talented, but when we split up, I had zero rights, or say in anything, and I’ve never in my life dealt with so much dam drama. Anytime I meet a woman with a kid, I run full speed in the opposite direction. Heartbeat X2.
I had the same. I met a woman nearly starve to death herself and her 6 months old son.I looked after them 3 years. I have done best of the best for both. I found out she was cheating me last 1 year. I tried to contact her to ask why she did to me like this? She called police and I was arrested for harresment. I have got criminal record for harresment. I can not get a job as well. Sad, soooo sad story. Isn' t it ? Never ever trust women ! Take the red pill.
@@ergunyildizoglu8018 I tried to split from a single mother she did false DV and we both got arrested and her stalking texts made it a DA reject. Narcissistic af. 😂 now she's sad cause my life is just enhanced now that she's restricted.
@@ergunyildizoglu8018 Dam I wish bad things to her. It’s just idk…. Why women are like this?! The hell?! I’m 23 y. o. now found the first good job as a cyber security specialist and want a good woman. Is there any good women?!
@@westerxxx9220 There is no good woman! There is " good women" which is not caught red handed yet! Take the red pill young man. Wach videos of Richard cooper, kevin samuels , jordan peterson,and these sort of men. Search what the red pill is. Soon you will understand women's mind. Search alfa men, beta men, what is hypergami ? Search " red pill" You will be thankfull to me.i am 57 years old.
i dated a single mom for a year and a half before she cheated. i knew but didn't call her out on it, i just fucked her one last time and left. even still it's the worst when you actually care about the child because that shit fucks you up mentally, being a parent and then suddenly you have no say in seeing the child because you're a stranger now. never date a single mother, just hit and quit fellas.
I dated a single mom w/2 kids. Everything was good at first but I kept locking heads w/baby daddy and when I went to correct the eldest, she quickly said “these are my kids, you don’t correct them” etc I literally stepped back and said “you are 100% correct but let me correct this situation now, y’all living under my roof, eating the food I buy, using the utilizes I pay for etc if I can’t have a say when ‘your kid’ are being unruly, then I think, no, I know, it’s time for y’all to go, it’s over”. With that said she had 2 days to vacate my house with her kids. I wasn’t verbally abusive nor yelling like she was doing but I was firm that she had to GET THE F OUT!
@@diasah123 Exactly… it was at the point where the kids had friends over and virtually boosting that this was their house. What really made it bad, the oldest would try and talk sh*t to me in front of his friends. I wanted to tear arse up!
The WORST thing about dating a single mom is when it doesn't work out, the child or children are deeply affected...especially when they grew to like you.
@@demarkoneely7508 nah I remember when I was a kid, I didn't give a fark, u just gotta pretend like u do, and are just manners/boundaries taught by the parents, like training a dog to wait for their food. It's only during adulthood when/if you experience hardship, do you appreciate the sacrifices they made. A child just receives, no appreciation required.
@@demarkoneely7508 I've been in the situation. It affects the kids alot when youre there, get to know them...become friends with them, and then all of a sudden you're not anymore.
She’s crying cause she knows it’s the truth. A rich woman won’t live with a broke man but a rich man will live with a woman whether rich or poor . That’s facts
@@admaanhason7410 Of course you'd be butt hurt. It's all based on the known notion that women aspire for something better than their current standards, while men are typically content with bare minimum. It's not based on inferiority. Men just don't care for more, if they have what they already want. Women want all of the lavish luxuries & more, regardless if they need to work for it or not. Men can quite literally be handed a spoon of peanut butter and be set for their day. Its not that hard to understand.
@@ZeroDigitalArt _Of course you'd be butt hurt._ Why would I be? Do I have any reason to be "butt hurt"? If so, I have to conclude that you are too. _It's all based on the known notion that women aspire for something better than their current standards, while men are typically content with bare minimum._ Again, if you want to make a point you had better provide evidence of your claims. A "known notion" is not factual information. But if we assume that you are correct with this claim, it makes it so that women must be the ones that are more driven, more competitive and the ones who care more for their futures. Do you really want to lump yourself into a group that supposedly doesn't care about standards? _It's not based on inferiority._ To think that you cannot do better than the minimum sure sounds like an inferiority complex. _Men just don't care for more, if they have what they already want._ If that's true, we have to assume that most people never get to where they truly want to be since most of us keeps being greedy and opportunistic regardless of where we end up. This is especially true for wealthy people. _Women want all of the lavish luxuries & more, regardless if they need to work for it or not. Men can quite literally be handed a spoon of peanut butter and be set for their day. Its not that hard to understand._ It's not difficult to understand that if you are content with going hungry and not living a healthy lifestyle that there's something wrong with you. How about you stop speaking for other people and instead choose to focus on these things that you do individually. Though I don't understand the point of the argument or even why the male redpilling movement exists if men are already content with what they have. This argument doesn't make any sense.
One of the biggest problem with single mothers is that they are angry and want another man to suffer for the actions of the guy they had a kid with... they won't say it or show it at first... they got to reel you in first.
@user-hu5ix3ke8tyour place is behind her child, herself,and the magic memory chad that put the baby in her and didn't ever really care about her beyond blowing spooge in her vagina.
@user-hu5ix3ke8tTo be honest your always last place to a mother and her children even if they are yours, that's just how women are. To a woman it goes 1 Women, 2 Child 3 Man, but for men and women it should be this 1 God, 2 Man, 3 Women 4 children. Yes I put God as one because this western society and left wing BS is all from the deliberate destruction of family by the removal of Christian family values. Non of this woke crap would be happening in the 50s and 60s because they had morals and self respect because they respect and believe in God and that the world dont revolve around there selfish needs.
That’s how it is though, I dated a single mom once. I didn’t know she had kids. Then she wanted me to be taking care of her kids while telling me I am not their parent so I cannot discipline them.
The vast majority of women who are millionaires have done it either by showing their bodies, inheritance or divorce settlements from their rich ex-husband.
Dudes can go to the third wild and get a perfectly good wife. And they often do. “Passport Bros”. This isn’t a game but these idiot western women play like it is. Men don’t need them.
Too dark bru! You need help and I’m pretty sure you don’t even know it. I can tell you 3 things to look around you to prove it but You’re probably delusional about your state of mind
Like Chris Rock said, “Beyoncé is so fine that if she worked at Burger King, she could still marry Jay-Z,” “Now, if Jay-Z worked at Burger King...no, no, no, woman got the power.
@@hughjanus2781 I don' t think so. Ugly women can catch a man. So many men are so desperate about s*x that they' ll settle for any woman. Men, mostly, have no dignity and women take profit out of it
Facts. And then if the man ever does discipline the child (which, tbh, would BENEFIT the child bcuz it won’t grow up spoiled), the mom will freak out and accuse him of abuse. *No thanks*
@@charlesg7926 my form of discipline doesn't involve any physical touching of any kind. I used it on my nieces when watching them. They would fight over the TV remote to watch the same Show. So I would get the remote put them in opposite corners put the show on they want to watch. I would simply say you can get out of the corner by apologizing to each other until then listen to the show but no watching of it. It usually took less than a few minutes for apoligies to begin.
@@zombiegoatt4282 I’m rich at age 30, have well behaved kids that are biologically mine… and I can tell you, a calm, controlled spanking is very beneficial when needed. That, and time-outs.
That's not funny. One mistake in life doesn't make the person. I understand that she is surrounded by sluts. That maybe she is the same, maybe she isn't. I do know that she is driven now by the responsibility and care of another. Whatever she may have planned is forfeit and dead. I truly hope she finds a way for her and her child. I think she understands what her family was saying now, but it's too late but the spilling of the milk
@@BrentNetherda-qs9fl the thing is she spends a good chunk of this podcast going on how she deserves a man whose a 10 and has money etc etc, this come to Jesus talk was after 40 minutes of her claims she’ll build an empire with her new mans wealth and that she’s the best person for a single man to date. It’s not funny your right but it was definitely what she needed to hear to maybe stop chasing the dude with the lambo and find a nice dude that’s reasonable looking who has a steady job.
@@BrentNetherda-qs9fl okay but don't force young men with no kids to find her and other single moms attractive. Young men and women with no kids don't find single moms and dads attractive. No one should be forced to like something they don't like. It's disgusting.
@@Carlos-qe4ny your stupid as hell. And she still will never get it. Non of these little OF girls will ever just get used to the heat because it's coming for eternity.
As a woman I agree with most of the comments here. Women have to be more responsible around who they sleep/pair up with. Its not anyone else's job or moral duty to co-parent someone else's bad decisions. Especially if they dont let the new partner teach/discipline the kids.
These women don’t understand when a man shows his girlfriend to his friends, NONE of them ask what she does for a living, or how many degrees she has. If she’s very pretty, they may ask if she has any sisters! 🤣🤣
Yes the funny thing is, that guy having money makes him always a lot more attractive, but these girls dont realize, that girl having money does not make her that much more attractive, when rich girls typically can have big lips, be arrogant and have annoying entitled personality, so poorer girls can actually be more attractive, than rich girls are.
Women are sometimes delusional thinking guys want the same things girls want, but girl with money is not actually that much more attractive, than guy with money for girls are. Especially not attractive, if the rich girl got annoyong despicable personality.
Yeah she talking down like that on folks with less money Like Life aint hitting hard,everybidy cant sit here and make a OF we gotta work for Ours No Rescue team Comin!!
I will never ever date a single mom even if she paid me . The biggest life mistake I ever made . I’ve been a millionaire since 2005 . Never ever again , my biggest regret by far
Absolutely true. My first wife was a single mother, I raised her daughter like my own for 13 years. We divorced after 13 years, she was cheating on me. After the divorce,Her daughter didn't talk to me for 10 years like I was nobody. My second and current wife had a son from previous marriage. He's now in his 40's . A drunk and drug addict. Even though I did everything for him ,over the years, treating him well, fixing his cars, giving him money. I heard him telling his mother I hated her and wish she was dead! He was drunk that day . Bottom line is if I had do do it all over again, I would never raise the child of another man. It's not worth it, it always benefits the woman and her child, not you. They couldn't care less Don't be a sucker
That son needs Jesus, he is like the prodigal son in the bible who goes out and waste their life away. Let them hit rock bottom and eventually they will come back and appreciate what who you really are. Pray for them too, they have a broken soul or heart. Only God can change them. Ive seen it happen if enough people pray.
Honestly bro, reading this comment hurt. What society needs are great fathers and it’s so disappointing to see people like you be good fathers but only get hate from it
Thanks for sharing the realities of raising someone else's kids. I decided early on in life that dating single mothers was out of the question, but for different reasons. I always thought it'd be detrimental to a child's life constantly seeing different men/ father figured come in and out of their life (because dating doesn't always work out). I hadn't considered how much of a raw deal it is for men until later on in life when I started hearing horror stories like this
I mean... they're no longer with that baby daddy, so that statement doesn't hold a whole lot of weight...or solid logic. And if she DOESNT care about her kid more than she cares about you, then she's not a woman you want, I promise.
@@KingSchafer1 you're talking like people don't ever think about their exes, and lament over what they don't have anymore, even making attempts to get back with that person. It's especially true if two people have kids together.
This proves the point, A "KING" will take a peasant and make her his "QUEEN" But a "QUEEN" will very very rarely even look at a "PEASANT" So If you are a single mother with money, look for guys with the traits of a good husband and father, and ignore the amount of money he has / makes.
She's shooting herself with that comment. Rich guys often have no problem marrying women who she would consider "broke" If a man is already rich, he doesn't need a rich woman. If anything I've noticed rich men like beautiful women who often come from modest or middle class backgrounds who are homely and want to raise a family with him and often stay at home. She really is just making it harder to find someone, if she needs a millionaire man, when millionaire men are often snatched up by women more appealing than her in every other way, apart from having less money. Her mistake is thinking already very wealthy men, putting a woman's financial worth as priority. She strikes me as someone who is looking for a guy over 6 foot, in amazing shape, great personality (while she has none), wants to take care of her kid, probably big genitalia, a really tough guy with a sensitive side, funny etc, while all she has is money and a bad attitude 😅
My stepdad his my favorite man in this world! I thank God for him and will do anything for him. So glad he doesn't think the way so many of these men do. I will always take care of him 😊
It's all based on individual situations. But he's talking specifically about wealthy men, and he's right. They do have options and a single mom will not be preferable. Unless they genuinely fall in love, but chances are they won't even entertain the idea in the first place.
Good thing your mom knew her place so he could be your dad. That dude was probably great and I won’t disagree with you there. If you missed the point of this conversation then you missed how the women here were trying to be the Boss Wife with the same choices a man has. You were lucky your mother handled that relationship so you could have a dad of some kind. It’s not happening like that in the modern woke female culture.
“Who said anything about a broke guy?” Whatever sympathy anybody had for her would be gone in seconds after hearing that. That kind of attitude will not fly with any man. Even the broke guy will reject her if he has any kind of self respect. Imagine a guy saying “Who said anything about a fat women”.
Damn, i felt sad for her until she said broke guy. So she does not want date a broke guy if she is a millionaire. But she wants male millioners to date single moms. She is hypocrite and delusional
Yeah, exactly what I was thinking. Those fake crocodile tears make me sick. Like, why would you not want to date a guy simply because of how much money he has or doesn't have, if you like him? I mean, assuming he's good looking, clean and takes care of himself, and trying to make ends meet but just didn't have much luck in life because his parents died early or w/e, he was struggling but was an honest, hard working guy full of patience and empathy... so what if he's broke? I mean, a broke guy like that would actually be a dream match because he can get by without your money and can appreciate its value if you decide to help him financially. This woman... so pretty yet such a bigot and mentally stunted like an overgrown child...
@@larrycoleman9513 Nah, they can't. It's not a cognative choice. They've done research on this. If a man doesnt earn an average of 56% more than his significant other, it triggers biological mechanisms in women, that causes them to loose respect and admiration...and then it's a toxic downhill from there. No human on earth can directly and cognatively choose what we feel in response stimuli (your biology kinda has a mind of its own) . So her being a millionaire with a kid, means she's basically screwed...she can't successfully date down even if she wants and chooses to.
The thing with females is that they are never happy 🙄🙄🙄 if they are with broke guy or rich they still get bored somehow… they want that fantasy guy in the movies… females need to grow up.
Girls, take note: When you spend your life holding out for a 6 foot 5 millionaire who looks like Chris Hemsworth, you'll probably never find him, then you'll wake up one day at 40, alone and guys won't want you.
what I don't understand is do they think there's a huge amount of guys that height out there it's already been found statistically only 14.5% of men in the USA are 6 ft and above and their preferences aren't gonna be conveniently lined up in multiple men. only 23.4% of men earn 100k+ there's no guarantee many of them match other preferences. haven't seen many of these men quote stats like that it'd help
@@michaelammons2350 You miss the point bro. Here is how it goed. 1) girls get praised for being born and breathing and get 18756 compliments which makes their ego inflate. 2) they date way out of their league and they can because men will have sex with someone they deem worse looking than themselves, women don't do that but for relationships they are the opposite. 3) they think they are so special that those HVM will commit to them but they won't. 4) they keep doing that until 30-35, when they want kids and marriage 5) Billy Beta bails them out although when she was in her prime he was invisible to her 6) she will divorce him after years of resentment because he was never really her first choice. Et voilaaa.
I dated a single mother. NEVER. AGAIN. I was "dad figure" when I bought things and made things fun. When there was utter disrespect and discipline was needed, I was a bystander. The kid could never be wrong either. It was always my fault or "he's just a kid." Nope! Never gain.
I don't know if its crocodile tears. It feels like her self delusion just got broken and she's genuinely grasping in futility for her fantasy to still be a hopeful possibility...
Yeah I don't think it's crocodile tears either, I could tell..... That shit sunk in hard as fuck, and she realized it.... She even came back to the show in a later episode..... She is trying to learn, if I had to say..... For now🙃
That advice goes both ways. If you love someone you don't dismiss them because they have a child already. True, honest to God live isn't an option. It either is or it isn't
@@mikeglazier5993 Exactly, there could be many reasons why she is a single mom I think it's wrong to immediately dismiss her as some 304 who made bad decisions in life...what if she did have someone to care for her, spoil her and make life easy for her but he died? that happens, I think it should be judged on a case by case basis not just a simple dismissal because she's got a kid
@@remerson4 Well law of probability my friend, what are the odds of “he died”?😂Pretty low I am sure, so it’s mathematically optimal to NOT judge it case by case.
@@phoenixrising4012 no, that’s just her “protesting” he was being a meany by trying to mansplaining someone that is incorrect to her and no one was helping her.
She actually did understand and accepted she was wrong. She was in another podcast after this and she mentions to other girls that its true what myrion says and that she was like those girls before but she opened her eyes to reality
@@gracienut I can’t speak for the original poster you replied to, but my guess is the bad decision isn’t having a kid necessarily. The bad decision is (and believe me, I’m not trying to be mean. if there was a less offensive sounding term I’d use it) hoeing around all through your 20’s, getting a staggeringly high body count and not sticking together with the kid’s father while then instead expecting some random next in line guy to pay for some kid he had nothing to do with. That’s the “bad decision”. Would be my guess, anyway. You really shouldn’t have reckless, unprotected sex that could lead to a pregnancy unless the person your with is who you truly believe you’ll be with for the rest of your life.
@@gracienut its ok to have a kid now she wants a top guy he wont take kid in a normal case then this b would say allmen are pigs while she slept around like a pig
@Grace yes her bad decision. She decided to open her legs to most likely a male that wasn't worth it. Her well known mistake and wants sympathy, fuck out of here.
To be honest, it's not that hard to argue with women. Most of their thoughts and beliefs are based on their own fantasy, which never hold up in an argument
It’s not even intelligence, it’s the most natural common sense. It shows how the more spoiled a woman is the less of it they have, and why historically women across all cultures are treated like children.
Granted, it does point to the larger issue that popular American culture is pretty shallow. And has screwed up a bunch of people, even outside our borders. It's mostly people having unrealistic issues connected to wealth and fake fame. While taking pride in exploiting others to get there. Which is partly why she's having a small identity crisis.
Right they try to be like some they not n believe internet over people n thats big problem these rappers n industry people not that but the little people believe em n thats problem too
@@KSmithwick1989Our culture is driven by depraved Hollywood, and social media. Go look at who runs those companies and what they all have in common. It isn't concern for peasants 😂
@@JamalParteeD1 what’s crazy is even rappers come out and say “this life isn’t for everyone” and half the stuff they get like jewelry or certain clothing is gifts for advertising. They admit it.
NO! If she's for recreational use only, the same goes for you. Have sex with trash and you become trash yourself. The rule is no sex until marriage. That means no one night stands, no pump and dumps, no motorboats, not even masturbation. No sexual activity outside of marriage, period. We're humans, not monkeys. We have the ability to restrain and control our sexual urges instead of giving in to them.
Yep. Any single mom her kids will obviously be her priority and the child's father and grandparents will be involved in the relationship. A huge turn-off
@@TheTechnocrat78 You call that professional modern hoe that doesn’t even know how to cook or clean a woman in this modern society especially young women shouldn’t be named as women.
@@TheTechnocrat78 Yes, seeing someone cry because they have to deal with reality is as satisfying as seeing a criminal get the justice they deserve. Don’t be a simp. Stop giving your money to Onlyfans hoes.
@@fridaym1748 we don’t care about your money, we would rather have a nice girl who doesn’t have money, your money won’t get anything more then the girl who works at McDonald’s and who has nothing
@@bassimprovjams3772'We would rather be with nice women who will need to depend on our income than to be with nice women that can provide for themselves.' This reflects poorly on your character given that most redpillers complain about women being gold-diggers or taking your money through divorce.
@Adma Anhason and you just shown your tiny little Brian, a nice woman with no money don't mean she's a gold digger. But hey you clearly can't understand that
So glad I didn’t get around when I was younger. Met the love of my life when I was 18 and I’ve been with him for 11 years now and we have 2 kids together. ❤
“Who said anything about a broke guy?” as she wipes away her tears. 😂 bruh i don’t think you can be hating when your entire reality is about to be 180’d
To all the young men on the internet planet. Don’t date a girl like that ! It’s not about what you have to offer, it’s about what you make together. Someone else’s children, you can’t make together, no matter intention or how hard you try. It’s very likely you will be hated for “stealing” her kids mom, no matter how straight up a guy you are. Therefore you will end up in a relationship full of hate and jealousy, that you never asked for. It has nothing to do with the beautiful single mom. She can be as loving and beautiful as can be, but she is already hardwired to her kids, an any guy will always be nr. 2 in her life. Her kids come first.
Girl... if you're a millionaire, just get a guy with fewer options - one who's broke but who is good at taking care of kids and working on the house. A country carpenter (EDIT: okay - I was thinking unlicensed handyman here, not professional lifelong carpenter obviously - she wants a guy who is good around the house, physically fit like her, capable of being her Chad but who will be happy with her having money. She thinks her having her own money matters to a 6-7 figure high value type.)
"Who said anything about a broke guy?" These modern/feminist women aren't that smart. Chao. Retired Vietnam era veteran, ex Detroiter, expatriate living in México, Colombia, etc....permanently.
@@THEremiXFACTORIt's so funny how these empty-headed hip-hop bimbos think "empire-building" is a common thing when most people (even people with advanced degrees) struggle to get by. Our popular culture, which has been dominated by ghetto versions of wealth, success and prosperity for decades is turning out imbeciles at an alarming rate.
@@smakkdathe meant that as men we don’t naturaly like that but sometimes for some reasons , some people are still cool about it but because they didn’t have anyone better to be with 🤓
When you really love someone, you accept her with all she comes including kids. I have seen some happy familis like that, not many though. That is not for everybody, you might find only 1 or 2 specials in your life if you are lucky. Very superficial and practical train of thoughts.
I've been married 2 times to single moms and it never works out they just use you and take everything you had and you're out before you know it with nothing left,I will never even date again I stay to myself in the country now and doing great
Their priority #1 will always be her kids, and the chance that they will try and use you is kind of high. It's not a good situation, since you are not the father of her kids, will never be, and there's a chance that she'll want you to be a kind of a father for her kids, and that is a very complicated situation, even if you do want to "adopt her kids", since the real father will always be around, and have the real fatherhood. Also, many single moms are traumatized women, from their failed marriage. Women think that they can walk out of a marriage without any damage; life's not like that. The best thing is to date women who don't have children. And it's even better if they are young.
You should've fd her and flied away, it's your mistake you started to love her, single mothers are just objects and their kids future criminals/prostitutes
I met my husband of 24 years now when my older two boys were 7 and 9. He has given me 1 more son and treated and taken care of all our boys as his own. He’s a wonderful father and husband.
thank you for sharing that. my mom got married when i was six and he has been the only father i’ve ever known. all the comments of sad single men talking horribly about single moms are making me really sad. they don’t understand that a lot of single moms are heroes not sluts
So heartwarming to hear that but the moral values of the past are not the foundational legacy of the present when it comes to relationships and parenting. There's a reason why divorce rates are so high and single parenting as well because the Govt inadvertently set the wheels in motion to incentivize that outcome with Legally mandated welfare mechanisms to enforce keeping the family apart rather than together ie. No fault Divorce, Child Support, Alimony e.t.c Add the Domino effects of the current cultural disdain of the male half of the society in favour of the matriarchy as it were coupled with the rot brought on by Feminism as the Sexual Revolution after the advent of Birth Control and we have ourselves a reality where stories like yours are more of the exception rather than the common good. So why would any man willingly brave a minefield in an unspoken conflict that they never signed up for? The risks now far outweigh the benefits going for single parents with kids in tow. Just read the stories in the comments of those who actually tried. A sad state of affairs but it is what it is...
@@MoyosoreOgunbiyi Thank you. We have gone through hell and back, but I wouldn’t have wanted to do it with anyone else but him. Yes, it is a sad state of affairs, I couldn’t agree more!! Take care.
@@sherryedwards9571yes i agree you could only do it with him cause no strong man would invest time energy and money into other man offspring...can i guess his dick is very slim?? you dont have to answer i know it is
Facts. I met a woman in 2014. At the time, her daughter was 6 years old. I did my best to make it work. Even loved her daughter like she was my own kid. Because I didn’t make over $100k a year, she didn’t wanna be with me. Broke my heart because me and her daughter had a real bond. Well. 9 years later with a 12 year old daughter, and almost 40 years old, she is still single and has a hard time finding a man. If I was rich at the time, we would of gotten married. Now she has a fear of being single for the rest of her life. He’s right. A woman can’t date a broke man and be happy. But a rich man has options. True. With those options he gotta be weed through the pile to find the right one. If I were rich, I would play broke to find the right one. Kinda like what Eddie Murphy did in Coming To America.
You sound like you know a hell of a lot about her considering you've moved on. 'She fears being single' 'she has a hard time finding a man' You sound like the bitter one lmao. Why do you care about your Ex from years ago and what she's doing in her personal life. Also it doesn't make too much sense for her daughter to now be 12 years old when according to you, she was 6 years old when you were with her 9 years ago. Maths doesnt stack up
Are you saying $100k is the cutoff line for being "rich?" It's very location-specific, i.e. SF vs. Huntsville, Alabama would be almost as different as different countries, but I would assume it's at least $500k/annual income.
Rightt females good at playing dumb n playing victim for sympathy cause somebody gone believe the BS but when u use to it you just look back at them with blank face they cant handle that
@@JWar- First, we were talking about relationship, so your comment is ridiculos. Second, I live in Europe and you have no idea about my job (maybe a lawyer earning more than 4 people with average income). Many couples have less money than me even if they are 2 parents and I pay more taxes than many many other people (maybe even more than you!). You can't know in which country we live and what is the tax legislation here. I meant that I don't need a relationship with someone who pays something for us. And I even don't know people who receive any kind of money from a relationship, we don't live in the middleage. For example, I pay for my child school as it's private and don't use public money for that even if I pay taxes and there are many public school aroud us. I know, it's difficult for you accept that we can live without a relationship and have more than enough money anyway:). It's not may case, but you should consider that some mothers are single, but the father still sustain the kids and if he doesn't, this is required by the law, so che "massive tax credits" they receive where you live is the consequence of the father's negligence.
@@josephbernard5240 Sure is, what women like her fail to realize is that it is this flawed logic/mindset of their's that proves to be their own undoing.
Hurtful, but true 👍, why divert your resources to another man's offspring. She and her child would love you for it. But the child's father is out and about hopefully to never appear out of the blue, trying to get them back along with most of your money to boot. Trust, loyalty, submission, and respect can be the pillars of true love. It's very risky 😬