Why men Rape by Tara Kaushal - 1 | The Book show ft RJ Ananthi |  

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true... but oru visayam enna na independent ana women ah pathu real men bayapadavo padharavo matanga...women epd irundhalum rape nadakudhu bcoz adhu pshcho thanam....kadumayana thandanai m awareness m valakura vidhamum maranum varanum adhu vandhale podhum...pengal pblms pathi pesa thana feminism iruku...pengal pblms pathi pesuranala aangalku pblm illa pengal inga avanga pblms pesurenu sollitu aangaluku entha pblm m illa aanai irupadhu easy nu soldra toxic feminist ah patha tha kadupagudhu...

Agreed

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

​@@muthusiva4824 bro men created toxic feminism see most of tamil songs and movies show disrespect to women . any one girl doing wrong they labelled every girl as bad .if one man done wrong not every men. Any women told every men wrong just like men told every women wrong . women labelled as toxic feminist men labelled as hero . single women is catlady but single men is successfull men

@@SweatDevil-nf6fp bro Ella men m bad nu soldra women toxix feminist.. Ella women m bad nu soldravana yaru inga hero nu soldra... See men ah pathi bad ah songs varudhu women pathi proud songs m varudhu... Nenga one side matum pakra mari iruku... 5 women onna ukandhu debate ndra per la aangala pathi kevalama pesa mudium... Men apd pesuna bayangara edhirppu kilambidum... Na sola varadhu.. Pengal problems pathi pesum podhu aanoda life easy ah iruku nu sola venam nu tha kekren..

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Ignore that advices bro just be yourself to our partner and treat her well moreover its your life not theirs😊

@@-NandhiniC 👍

Thirupi asingama Kelunga. Apo than puriyum.

Hello! I am glad that you don't want to control her... Rather than getting advice from other people, just let that girl know what kind of man you are and ask her what she expects...

Just because they count less in number, doesn't mean they have to be ignored. Both should be given justice. Before 50 years people who spoke about our (women's) sufferings were less in number, what if they were ignored? Think.

​@@athirar2356we just ask you not to be so judgemental. Don't accuse anyone until proved( based on your assumption)

@@Sri-vx9st Exactly! that's what I wanna say to law systems, police and finally social media "Don't accuse anybody until proved". But, when it comes to women who is accusing against men, it is pre-judged.

They only talk about false accusation when rape is talked about, just to demean or neutralize rape, false accusation it is not a real issue for them. It is just a tool

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

@@i8memes what is your problem dude?

Those who become rapists value pleasure without moral values. Not by insecurity, intimidation or patriarchy.

@@pot8735 see this video completely before commenting... Insecurity, intimidation & patriarchy are main key source to choose rape over morality. Because one can attain pleasure in masturbation itself, raping involves all the above mentioned contents

@@jayalakshmijayachandran8370 explain why rapes happens in animal, birds, insects.why dolphins rape , from google: Gangs of two or three male bottlenose dolphins isolate a single female from the pod and forcibly mate with her, sometimes for weeks at a time. And explain why people steal, murder even though it's immoral coz people do those things for their selfishness. Masturbating gives pleasure but not as same as having sex. In primates rapes do happen but on a small scale due to other circumstances like dominant males activities As the great primatologist, Frans de Waal put it, "Chimps use violence to get sex, while bonobos use sex to avoid violence." People who rapes raised in bad environment,a bad influence and on the other hand rapists mostly use alcohol that make them avoid the thoughts from the consequence of rapes. Alcohol ban will seriously make a difference, reduces sexual abuse and rapes even domestic violence but nobody talks about that. A society with no alcohol make big difference but still the crime, rapes, domestic violence happen but comparatively low. How patriarchy is the reason for rapes. Then why the traditional role of men says to lower their gaze. Why religion has punishments for rapes and sexual abuse.

@@jayalakshmijayachandran8370 let's talk about the situation in ur comment where ur friend faces the threat from the guy . And u mentioned the "great man" Mentality let's break it down, he just wants sex not because he is great man or he wants to make him feel as a great man, just for the pleasure , He's trying to convince her to get sex from her by telling her that he is great blah blah blah, that's some shitty behaviour. Do you think he is proud of himself ? He knows himself that's he is shitty person coz the patriarchal society didn't said that's a manly behaviour,he doesn't even talk about it other than his shitty friends but his main goal is to get pleasure and why do u think that guy choose to not involve in rape coz he knows that's wrong that's what the society preached him. So rapists rape coz their primary reason is pleasure with no morals!

@@jayalakshmijayachandran8370 "One can attain pleasure in masturbation itself", this shows how shallow ur understanding on males sexuality. Nobody talks about male sexuality coz it's dirty and disgusting for females to hear it because female sexuality is completely different from males. If one can attain the pleasure from masturbation as same as sex, why do you think male animals brutally fight each other for females, why do you think men initiates the most proposals (it's a long story that includes female nature role, and male nature role, formation of male species, evolution, Behavioural evolution, psychological evolution, cultural evolution etc...) . Why male chimps use violence to get sex, why male baboons bully females. Chimps, baboons are closer relative to humans. Primates knows to mastrubate why those behaviours in primates? If masturbation is enough,why prostitution ? And feminists talk about the Western culture to point out the women empowerment that's where the women were sexualized more like prostitution, hookers,onlyfans, strip clubs, parties to get sex, casual sex, hookup culture ,women in provocative outfits, why spend loads of money on those things like prostitution, strip clubs, spending money on first date in the expectation of sex (in Western culture) Do u still wonder how male sexuality works? why those things happening? Male has sexual arousal by touch and visual . Masturbation is from the touch that stimulate arousal but not visual. Porn is visual that stimulate more than touch and men touch themselves to get more pleasure . So sex is both visual and touch and the females touch them that creates even more pleasure. That's y there's a big market in sex mostly it consumed by males around the world. This leads to another answer that why men opposes the modern provocative outfits. I hope u get the answer. And also u can get the answer that why women are not allowed in sabarimalai. And this leads u to another question, why males have the visual stimulation? Simple ans is : women's bodies indicates the fertility. So when seeing women bodies male brain switches to sexual side. It's been wired in male brain for millions of years. For more information u can use google just search : evolution behind male sexual attraction to women bodies (breasts, waist to hip, thighs etc...) I'm sure u will get the answers. So rapes are driven primarily by pleasure with no morals coz he grown in a bad environment not because of insecurity, intimidation or patriarchy.

Despite of goverment parents also shpuls take a seriois responsibility on these kind of topics to their kids

Nee solra mari punishment ah increase panna death sentence kudutha prechana theerumna kandippa illa Ippo oru ponnuku unna pudikala ava unna ethirka nenacha easy ah rape case kuduthutu poiruva society unna nambathu avala thaa nambum pathika padurathu namma thaa

Bro I am 1st year BE EEE in KCT coimbatore

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

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read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Kolkata doctor case😢

@@RoseAngeleen Rules and punishment are different for rich people in India.

​@@RoseAngeleenThat was a closet Mafia racket which was exposed by the whistle blower whom became a victim

India didn't have a history of genociding underdogs,rather British made them on peak for backstabbing their noble Alphas

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

dude humans are not robots controlled by some chips. crimes happens every single second.. u cannot bring crime to zero as long as humans exists.

@@Shivakumar-dk6ph I am in UAE - Dubai, there is no rape here!!! We can bring rape to zero. Rape is not an accident or road fight that happens accidentally, its bad behavior, by Good governance to the society, good value education, social justice and good police protection it is 100% possible.

Dhruv Parmar....Because Indians became self centred individuals neglecting sentiments due to the secularzation,depend on civil laws and Police.Police,lawyers and Judges disrespect human values &dignity and sentiments and create game of rule besides corruption and immoral politicians also cinema world mafias,liquor & drug cartels

This can't be seen as a gender issue like West does rather a humanistic one,gender issues create political feminism where all male were seen as rapist.A woman or a girl could be any blood relation or life partner of any male!

Criminal lawyers though not all but mostly accomplice of bad eggs,no feminist will comment on them since they are of the egalitarian portion! Rather they attack on culture and religion like Marxist!

சுவாசம், பசி, தாகம், தூக்கம், கழிவு நீக்கம், பாலியல் உணர்வு இவை எல்லாம் அனைவருக்கும் அதாவது ஆண் பெண் இருவருக்கும் ஒன்றுதான் அப்படி இருக்க ஒரு ஆண் தனது மனைவியிடம் பாலியல் உறவு வேண்டும் என்று கேட்ட்கும் போது மனைவி பாலியல் உறவுக்கு விருப்பம் இல்லாமல் இருக்கும் போது அந்த மனைவிக்கு என்ன பிரச்சனை உள்ளது உடம்பில் பிரச்சனையா அல்லது மனதில் பிரச்சனையா அல்லது கணவருடன் பிரச்சனையா அல்லது கால இடை வேளையில் பிரச்சனையா என்பதை அந்த மனைவி கூற வேண்டும் இந்த 4 விஷயத்தில் பிரச்சனை இருக்கும் போது அதனை ஓர் பாலியல் மருத்துவரை மற்றும் ஒரு மன நல மருத்துவரை பார்த்து ஆலோசனை பெற்று பிரச்சனையினைக்கு தீர்வு காண்பது தான் ஒரு அறிவு உள்ள ஒரு மனைவியின் செயலக இருக்கு வேண்டும் அதற்கு மாறக பாலியல் உறவு வேண்டும் என்று சொல்லுவதினால் பிரச்சனை முடிந்து விடாது மாறாகபிரச்சனை அதிகம் தான் ஆகும், நீங்க இந்த பிரச்னைக்கு என்ன தீர்வு கொடுப்பிர்கள், ஆண் மற்றும் பெண் இருவரும் மருத்துவ அறிவியல் மூலம் பிரச்சனைக்கு தீர்வு காணவில்லை என்றால் RAPE, குடும்ப வாழ்க்கை, குழந்தை வாழ்க்கை, சமுதாயம் போன்ற பல பாதிக்க படும், constitution of india article 51a கிளாஸ் H என்ன சொல்லுது என்றால் to develop the scientific temper, humanism and the spirit of inquiry and reform னு சொல்லுது அதனால இந்த புக் 1கோடி பேரிடம் பேசி எழுதியது என்பத்தினால் மட்டும் எல்லா பிரச்னைக்கும் தீர்வு சொல்ல முடியாது மேலும் ஆனந்தி மனநல மருத்துவரும் இல்லை பாலியல் மருத்துவரும் இல்லை just அந்த book க படித்து தனது point of view சொல்லும் ஒரு நபர் மட்டும் தான் ஆகையால் ஆனந்தியிடம் இதற்கு எல்லாம் அறிவுரை கேட்பது சரி அல்ல, ஆனந்திக்கும் தெரியும் நான் சொல்லுவது உண்மை என்று

@@rajkumar-cd4gv lol i can't read tamil. But i hope what you write benefits others.

​@@rajkumar-cd4gv I agreed with your point. Just like happiness, sadness, hungry and angry... Sex is one kind of emotion. I know there is no gender barrier in this emotions. But... If your partner is not willing to share her body to satisfy your needs you should respect her. Because as like you, she has the rights over her own body. And one more thing... The fact she denies sexual intercourse means she has some problem with her body or mind so she need to visit doctor and go through some sort of counseling and stuff means... If men couldn't control his sexual needs, means may be they are sexual adict and may had some mental disorder regarding that adiction... so why can't they visit the same psychologist and get a theropy first?

@@Queen-oq9yg u are gaslighting him. its not a addiction or disorder. its a physical need. thats the major act in marriage. if it fails. the relationship ends. its considered as cruelty to deny. ground for divorce. if a man refuses to pay money and provide should wman respect ? its all about give and take.

@@Shivakumar-dk6ph given and take??? Are you saying If man pays for woman's financial need. She has to satisfy him every day for his psychical need? Doesn't it sounds something different term than wife or life partner?

A good friend of mine who is an activist told me that in india its only recent year all this good and bad touch is taught and taken seriously and there is very little help or knowledge most sexual abuse are from known people. And most woman don't react even if they know a child or woman being abused cos they are financially dependent on that man and worried about their society as most of India is not city. So i guess the recent year this has been changing.

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

That's not true. MAJORITY of men are not rapists

​@@r0dpr13s7 But it's always men

​@@dagonantony I don't think you realise how women easily get away from accusations of sexual assault. My brother was touched inappropriately by my aunt for many months. God I won't forget the day he finally decided to tell me all those stuff to me with tears in eyes. And i told my parents and when my parents asked her, you want to know what my aunt responded? She just said that he is just a boy, it's not wrong for a woman to touch a boy like that. This is how messed up things are. Women just have a easy way to get away from accusations

@Just_mind_______ That's sad, but most of the time, it's men in the sude of fault, and women are always looked up as a property by most of the men . Ask any woman at least once in her life she would have faced harassment or a bad touch. That doesn't happen to men. But what happened to your brother sick. So go and find the best way to clear the issuee.

@@Just_mind_______ men or women that's a crime.

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

@@i8memes yaru paa nee Elaa cmntlayum irka

​@@i8memes oh my God... Ipdium iruka

Correct question than , ena panrathu

ithuku peruthann pseudo feminism xD

Ivlo neelama vacha page pathaathu!! Basically men yen rape pandranga'ndrathu thaan!!

Finally some one asked....

It’s because this book is not about why women rape ! That’s why it is named why men rape and it also doesn’t say why all men rape! ( arivaaaa kelvi kekura perla cringe pannaaathenga bro)

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

yes. it is important to learn emotional and mental abuse. When you know your family is toxic, first step is don't let them affect you mentally. Get mental help and support from therapists, friends etc... I do not know your age. Find out who are really good people around you, who won't take advantage of you, form a good trust worthy friends & relative circles for your own self. Start building yourself up in studies and professional work wise, become super strong mentally, emotionally and physically. Give yourself love, take care of your own physical health, mental health etc... do things that make you happy to counteract the negativities in the life, fill it up with other positive interests, like learning new things or travel what makes you happy that doesn't hurt yoruself or others (stay away from bad vices like smoking, drinking or drugs). watch self love and self improvement videos. you can do this. and once you are strong in all these ways, move out, detach yourself from toxic family members. good luck

I've heard somewhere a rapist's mother pleaded in the court to free her son😑

​@@shakthi9524worst case

​@@shakthi9524 Bruh that's disgusting.. I wonder what kind of mother she is..supporting her rapist son.

A fairr point bro👏

Are you a cyber security analyst. or just person doing grey hat stuffs

Its because of false accusations. If there were severe punishment for women who make false accusations then feminism would have grown way more.

Because feminist don’t talk against people taking advantage of these laws. Or fake cases. 75% around cases are fake rape, SC report. Why no fuss abt this? Feminism could grow if REAL FEMINISTS call out B.S. of pseudo / fake feminists. When feminists don’t do that, obviously affected people get angry because feminists are allowing it to happen, without questioning it.

Its because modern feminism is full of delusions. For example, Delusion#1. the ideology promotes equality of outcomes. Delusion#2. Makes you believe women and men are equal/same.

​@barackobama9590 remember the nirbaya case where the justice has served after 7 freaking years despite the fact culprits were found on the same day of rape ? U say as though a women's justice is served always right away. Maybe those false accusations cases would take 10 years to serve justice

@@shakthi9524 Read more about the false accusations cases. Roughly above 90% of the times, women don't get punishment at all and even if they are punished, their punishment is astonishingly meager. Nonetheless, he never said a word about justice for women in grape cases. Idk why you had mentioned that, we are here just talking about false accusations. False accusations doesn't only mean grape but also domestic abuse, public harassment, etc. We all i.e. any sane human being (both men and women) would want a grapist to get the highest possible punishment by law. But how many women advocate for severe punishment to women who falsely accuse an innocent man?

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Ratio isn't even visible for this

​​ men can do it they are doing it..just bcoz women don't doesn't mean they won't it's simply they can't .....if you had the power you will be no different

all these problems are because of not taking care of their mental health, parents not knowing how to bring up a child with a healthy mind, and also pornography industry, also how a human being is so obsessed with sex way too much. When they look at a person, they should know to look at a person beyond their looks, looking and understanding their feelings, thoughts, basic respect to another human being should be taught at a very young age. Even a child should never be forced to do things. Respect others choices is so important. we need to transform as a society in general. Women's breast is not even a sexual object, it was marketed to be that way. Only the genetalia are for procreation. Breasts are just to feed a child. but it was so overhyped up and an entire industry thrives on it and all men think way too much about it. If you look in ancient India women's breast were never covered, thanks to britishers that changed. in fact if everything is open, no one cares about it. Since you start hiding, then show little is teasing unnecessarily. unfortunately we as. asociety has moved far way from it and can't go back. think about it. no animal is clothed, there is no rape there. but what we can realize is its just the body. no big deal. talking unnecessarily about sex is carrying it in the mind unnecessarily. but the entire marketing of movies, advertisements, shows, talks with friends keeps highlighting those which is sad. if a group of guy friends get together this shouldn't be the topic of sex but sadly it is in wrong ways.

@@Mel-by7re thanks 🙏 bro for your Explanation and replying for me

Iva oru fake feminist br