Why Men Should Love and Care For Their Wives - Okey Bakassi Speaks 

I am quite impressed by Mr. Okey Bakassi's realistic responses punctuated with comic relief. He spoke as one who has been on earth for over a century. Thanks for having him on your show. I would urge that he should be invited more often as he's got wealth of information to share on many facets of life 👍

Okey bakassi is so much intelligent, I really need to follow this guy on media platforms honestly

Okey is one the most intelligent persons in the whole wide world,well done bro.

Thank you so much okay Bakassi for standing on the side of justice🙏

Thanks a bunch our distinguished noble honourabl sir Okey Bakkasi for the rare truth about these politricks Against the Igbo in especially the South east which only can unite "the Igbos",Finally if this equality is not possible by the political class then let's go with the Trinity of the three regional leadership of Nigeria.

This man is eloquent and full of wisdom.

I'm impressed by Okay Bakasi's level intellectualism and sacassity.

My respect to you Okey, I didn't know you were this intelligent and smart. Kudos to you Sir.

Okey Bakassi is a star representative of a man. Much love to him for his speech.

First time a guest left the host speechless. Aswear Okey na MAN!!!!!!

Kai Okey bakassi you have missed it. Your role as a man is to be a man of honour. Never blame your inadequacy on someone else. Okey your words here are very worrying.

Well spoken Mr Okey, very smart and intelligent response. well done Sir.

I love the way Okey Bakassi hits the nail on the head as touching political questions thrown to him Did you guys noticed the way the ladies were thrown off balance, Love you Okey

Okey Bakassi balanced the equation!

Thank you soo much okey bakassi. I have always been your fan from childhood with your movie "pampam" 😂

Chaii this Okey is too intelligent much love 🙊🙊

Nyma you have me never disappointed me.Your perspective is always very deep.I really enjoyed this episode.

Whao! Okey emphatically silenced Morayo in her subtle campaign for her boss (Bola Tinubu)! She opined that Tinubu is best suited to restructure Nigeria and Okey’s argument is profound..”What did Tinubu do about it in seven years”???😩 So apt that the rest ladies had no contributions to make on that topic!🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Thank you @Okeybakassi the women were spoiling for war but you managed them well. Kudos to you!!!

Okey Bakassi! Legend! I hail you!!!

Baba Bakassi u too get sense!!

Wow nice show really enjoyed this thanks Okey Bakassy

❤my bro is loaded oooooo thank you sir....

Thank you so much okay.

This is super section. Okey is right. Kids abroad start working at 16. This helps them to be independent...

Okey is intelligent. I respect the guy so much.

"Men are dogs" is really an insult to dogs.

Love n light to Okey....🥰

Okey Bakassi is too intelligent for theses screeching women. They are not ready to hear the truth.

Okay is full of knowledge!

Why should the children not get equal inheritance of his father's sweat? All the children must be equal in the father's eyes 👁️

I love Okey Bakasi. Very practical

Why is @Morayo always under pressure to defend the government unnecessarily and asininely? Poor Morayo

I so love this guy lol

Thank you Nwannaa Okey Bakassi

Okey Bakass thanks I really learn a lot in this show

Thank you okey Bakassi for your objective contributions 😘

Well boss mentor Okey Bakassi

I am frankly impressed with the presentation of the program

Oke the wise man

Who are these idealized ancestors. We have therapy + divorce to deal to marital infidelities, our grandparents had juju which they used with full gusto. My father is 79 and till today he talks about how terrible growing up in a polygamous homes was. Polygamy is the emetic peace

Morayo always supporting BAT, her Boss

Nice one Bakassi, keeping it real.

Entertaining interview!

Okey baba

Ok my man you just dey among lions I wonder how you go survive out of these panel of high tension...but you systematically survive them bro

Nice one Okay👍

Oke is a GOAT...

Best advice to women is to know the man they are getting married to b4 going into marriage, a cheater doesn't just become one

Elder!!!🙌

I am so sickened with this polygamy issue. Stop blaming women for immoral behaviors. How would these men appreciate a philandering woman. Nymat is hitting the nail on the head. Even when the woman is d bread winner, there is d emotional turmoil and it does not sit right anyhow you look at it.

Okey, you too much!!!

Well, after watching this for a while I figured the man was exercising a prejudice based discussion with the group without an infinite or paramount explanation in the discussion My point of view is that, in most African countries, the matrix and stereotypical way of reasoning have to be advanced into the modern way of reasoning. Accepted and acknowledged religious practice, by a community or a group of people most time affect their cognitive way of reasoning, and let not forget that the world is a diverse world, ability to accept the diversity of humanity in all ramifications of life, and the knowledge that we as humans are not limited to just religious rules and ancestry traditions,as a norm, will determine one’s view in this type of context, people who have lived abroad would have a pretty more sense of enlightenments regarding what to be considered as a trajectory in all relationships, politically in the western world, there’s an absolutely prohibition of polygamy marriage against all other odds that are part and parcel of relationship determinant,marrying while in a concurrent marriage is called BIGAMY, and it’s punishable under the law, the way out is to educate people on the negative impact of stereotypical way of belief and to encourage the masses on the act of engaging in a cosmopolitan way of life . It’s a free world, do what makes you happy without hurting others .

You can see that Okay is struggling to balance the equation, his take on this subject is dicey. As a guy, I think he's being diplomatic. It's simple, a hubby should focus 100% on his family & stop sidechick business. Yes, there's temptation, when it comes up, deal with it & own it. Adultery is a real thing, yes, depending on your religious orientation.

We should learn to love one another as ourselves

Okey Relationship expert

This is what we need to hear in these last days. Success is good but it's only for this world and it's can't guarantee us a place in heaven. Repentance from sin is the only way to escape eternal suffering in hell. Thank God for Jesus who out of love shed is own blood to save us from all our sins. However, we need to confess our sins and surrender our hearts to be cleansed. John 3:16. God bless and may God help us to be wise Amen.

Nigerians are not ready and accept Change

Personal opinion though but it's seems to me that the main host Morayo is everyday losing the quality of her presentation. Is not like when she started. One is always looking forward to the program

Baffling that modern women cant deal with the fact that men of value will always excercise their options outside of marriage...outright monogamy is even alien to the African culture

She is bidding for her boss BAT 😊😊

Wow! Best interview ever

Okey onye guy

We live in a very crazy world were the heart of men/women are blinded with wickness

Thank you for bringing Okay Bakassi. I beg to disagree with him that Asiwaju was in power since APC was in power. You see, being a party chieftain does not mean you are in power. He was there only as a member of the party, he wasnt in power. Note that no one can drive your dream for you. No identical twins have same dream. PMB dream has been what he gave to us so far. Even he refused to agree with some party dream, hence some party member disagreed with him.

Unfortunately Tinubu has no clean hands. If a person passes a property and he or she is not seen stealing the property but eventually it gets lost, that person is not good for leadership because he or she has no clean hands.

Women should just stay on their own and leave men alone simple .

Lady Morayo, pls I like to send a video to you to help. Is a video of a “physically challenged “ person engaged in laborious menial job to survive! I’m sure you will like to help such person through your tv

Mr Okey, for a moment, I was scared for you brother. I saw the ladies adjust their stances ready to pounce on you when you mentioned crumbs. But you try sha… Politics might be a calling…

Funny Okey. Buhari has left nothing for Nigerians.😀😀😀

Marry a man who loves you don’t marry a man looking for a wife think about it ladies

Also note that even as a lawmaker, you can only put forward your dream, you need a majority members to push it in the house. I am convinced that Asiwaju dream is different from PMB dream for Nigeria, let give him a chance.. He will be coming in with APC majority, he will surely convince them on his dream. As a strategist that we know him for, he will achieve far better than PMB.

My name is Richard alfredy nombo from Tanzania Africa airport Africa 🌍bongo dar es salaam ubungo kimara baruti bucha Florence.D.luoga kalibusana

Welldone to the guest, he made sense.. Monogamy is nothing but selfishness,it must be me and l alone.lt's the reason the divorce rate is off the chart,we were never intended to be monogamous.lt's the reason crime rate is on the rise, it's the reason there is increase in social vices than at any time in history. Like l said before, even the words pollen, population, pollination etc all has polygamy as root word not monogamy. Which is what God/orishaAla intended until oyibo said otherwise. The true wife is the mind of man/human anyways not a woman. What the world called marriage is actually a cumcubine relationship, not marriage. With all this God attachment to marriage, l have never heard a pastor said God asked about his wife, wanted to see his wife before he would bless or answer him.😂If this marriage was an heavenly institution as we made it out to look do you think God would actually look at a single person, bothered with single people? 🤔🤣But the reverse is actually true,you are more likely to see the divine when you are alone, not with someone....That's why it's a personal relationship,experience, encounter. Everything people say about a wife is meant to be the mind not a different humanbeing.Our mind/mindset is created out of self during sleep, that's why she is the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh not someone else. A different people can never be bone of someone else's bone or flesh, well, unless through bone and flesh transplant.. Not until we wake up to this reality people will continue to live as dependent, socially, financially and emotionally on others..Sending lots of love and light. Thank you.

He repped Us well OBIdient PERIOD 👌🏽

Women have spaghetti brain it is intertwined and they remember everything even in 50 years time ...na wa oh

"Crumbtakers" this appellation lagbara gan ni o. Are they really that?

Lady Morayo!!! I know you to be very objectives… but these days you slammed down anyone who want to express their opinions on politics of the day. You either hang off the phone or you just end the conversation abruptly . Pls don’t forget It’s #yourview.

African man will always support polygamy period no matter how educated they are because officially or secretly most of them are not loyal to one woman. Okey na african man na.. So what else can he say about polygamy?

Build an institution that will outlive you. Shikena

Your current wife will not be useful to you at old age. I.agine you are 75years and your wife is 70 or 65, in what way can she take care of you? She is far spent already. Men should work, make money. Prepare for your needs at old age. Would you rather a beautiful nurse take care of you at old age or a 65 year or older tired woman. Most men in Africa are overwhelmed by responsibilities at the expense of your own happiness, health etc.

Men start marring a woman the same age with you, enough of this talk.

Morayo and her Tinubu's support.

Morayo lives in a bubble! All she knows is to sing to Tinubu's tune.

Tinubu owns TVC right ?

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Okey Bakasi talk on marriage is nonsense talk. He should just stick to politics

Stop this stupidity, nobody give in politics, make yourself attractive to others.

Look at the way he thinks politics should be played, “It is our turn syndrome so handover presidency to south east” I know that Pdp and Apc zoned presidency to either north or south. When it is so zoned it is left for the people whose turn it is to play the right politics and win the primaries. South east should not expect presidency to be handed over to them by claiming it is their turn without playing their cards right after all there is no zoning in the constitution and so it is not a right.