Why Most Modern Marriages Quickly End in Divorce | Divorce & Legal Expert Tebello Motshwane

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ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 110 - Tebello Motshwane (‪@Bellz_motshwane‬ Sister In Law
An in-depth conversation on the state of modern marriages and the intricacies that contribute to the high divorce rate.
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@user-yy9mt6kl3h 11 дней назад

There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.

@user-sk7kd8vs2w 11 дней назад

I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.

@user-yy9mt6kl3h 11 дней назад

Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

@user-sk7kd8vs2w 11 дней назад

Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.

@user-yy9mt6kl3h 11 дней назад

You are Welcome.

@user-nm9dz7lt3s 10 дней назад

Divorce is never the way out, My husband and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash

@GeorgeSmith-lm2mh 10 дней назад

amazing, I am kinda in a similar situation, how did you handle it?

@user-nm9dz7lt3s 10 дней назад

well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

@GeorgeSmith-lm2mh 10 дней назад

please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

@user-nm9dz7lt3s 10 дней назад

her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

@user-nm9dz7lt3s 10 дней назад

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

@BlooZulu 18 дней назад

There's an overarching reason for how we are moving as a humanity that makes the idea of marriage redundant. We are insisting on an outdated institution rooted in archaic ideology to still make sense to the people that we have evolved to be. Marriage in and of itself isn't a problem, the fact that we are not defining it within the context of the people that we have become is. People aren't introspective and lack accountability for themselves and their own lives. We still let society tell us who we are and how we should live and we become shocked with relationships and marriages when suddenly there are irreconcilable clashes. Marriage isn't for everyone and there isn't only one way of doing marriage for those who choose to do it.

@bigthangz5489 18 дней назад

Until she has a flat tyre on her car, or some1 breaks into the house!! all of a sudden, we get strange distress calls from w0men at awkward times, for problems that in fact should be solved by hr husband.

@busisiwephakathi7793 17 дней назад

Some men cant fix a flat tyre, besides there's insurance for that. Also, break ins happen even when there's a man or men. So your reasons are not sufficient.@bigthangz5489

@tshadimlangeni5388 17 дней назад

@busisiwephakathi7793 absolutely correct!! Men also become victims of hijacking like??? Anything can happen to anyone literally!

@maritawanazw 10 дней назад

@@BlooZulu amen!

@thobanivitaleous2837 9 дней назад

in short, how would you want marriage to be defined within the modern context?

@thekarabodiale 10 дней назад

Men are in love, woman are in Business.

@victorioussisters3307 9 дней назад

That’s fine and the Bible des state that - ‘Men love your wives as Christ loves the church!’ Yes, he must love me! Yes, again we’re doing business here found me with cars, houses and businesses.

@isoboy1000 17 часов назад

Based on this interview men are getting a wake up call, thats why they now setting up marriage contracts before commiting.

@EngineerYLShow 19 дней назад

A perspective on marriage from a person who deals almost daily with the facts and figures surrounding marriage and divorce. Please like & subscribe so that we can grow to be able to facilitate more growth conversations 🏆

@menzimsane2680 18 дней назад

Sister in Law is brilliant.

@TheReal_GuguG 17 дней назад

I love how the guest eloquently explained everything and simplified everything... Educational episode ❤

@Lindile_Nibe91 18 дней назад

Our world is evolving in so many ways ✨️ This was very informative 👏 👌

@GracefulYvonne 17 дней назад

Sister In Law, is a brilliant concept!! But theeee woman behind the brand!! Such a phenomenal woman ❤😍😍 Enjoyed this episode, so informative.

@elvisndlovu1232 18 дней назад

We are here for yet another high quality content 🎉🎉🎉

@EngineerYLShow 18 дней назад

Gatsheni! Boyabenyathi! 🙌🏿

@cavisto6832 18 дней назад

27:05 overemphasizing sex can lead to pressure and stress. Societal norms and cultural expectations. Otherwise every person's needs and desires differs.

@MakeArtBae 14 дней назад

So true, like if a family or any business fails and you are married in community of property, the debt collectors can literally take everything you as a family has worked for, even if the debt was accrued by one party...This was lovely to watch!

@augustinetrwanga8082 2 дня назад

Smart advocate. I love that she is candid

@kgomotsomakhubedu3189 18 дней назад

Informative, by far my favourite episode ❤️❤️

@EngineerYLShow 18 дней назад

So glad!

@zanelleful 18 дней назад

Awesome episode 🥺👌🏽🤌🏽

@ZolaNgemntu-v8t 16 дней назад

What an enlightning conversation about Modern Marriages 👏👏👏

@user-mh5ww4pk6l 18 дней назад

Thnks for great episode❤❤

@Thando_Khumalo 11 дней назад

Enjoyed this episode, this is my new favorite channel now

@user-wo2wy8rq4h 16 дней назад

excellent topic.Thank u🎉

@ntombee1818 18 дней назад

Oh I love it here😍

@ratibamohale 20 часов назад

A necessary conversation. This was very informative.

@NdumisoMazibuko 18 дней назад

Beautiful episode ❤ So insightful

@EngineerYLShow 18 дней назад

Thank you Mr Mazibuko sir.

@melusigasa1154 18 дней назад

Informative, well executed interview 💯 ukhulile bhuti and ubizelwe kulento.

@EngineerYLShow 18 дней назад

Thank you my brother. Siphendula ubizo futhi sethemba ukuthi imiyalelo ka Moya Ongcwele sisahamba nayo. I appreciate this recognition a lot!

@gustavmorata 10 дней назад

It was very insightful, but it would be nice if it was based on research rather than just generalisation.

@mphihlengmagoro2957 18 дней назад

😂 Bathong Lungelo you did look and sound defeated on the men cheating with men reason. I wonder how many people actually divorce because of sexuality and identity based reasons today but only use the known reasons as motivation hiding the main reason 🤔 🤔

@EngineerYLShow 18 дней назад

😂😂😂😂

@mskhumalo5118 8 дней назад

@@mphihlengmagoro2957 it actually happens often actually, quite often.

@ayandal4744 17 дней назад

informative!

@mphihlengmagoro2957 18 дней назад

Another informative episode.

@EngineerYLShow 18 дней назад

It’s always a pleasure. Thank you for being a loyal member 🙏🏿

@thelaalbertscorner 18 дней назад

Very informative ❤❤❤❤

@EngineerYLShow 18 дней назад

Glad it was helpful! 🫂

@orefilemalebo4173 18 дней назад

Please lower the chairs the short people dangling their feet shame. Great show you are a great host hands down.

@kwetsephetla3597 18 дней назад

😂❤

@EngineerYLShow 18 дней назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@mphihlengmagoro2957 18 дней назад

@@orefilemalebo4173 hahahaha fully supported 😂😂😂

@Bellz_motshwane 18 дней назад

@@orefilemalebo4173 😂😂 I actually didn’t notice. I’m super short so this is my everyday struggle even in boardrooms. I get excited when I find those adjustable swinging chairs 😂

@matumelotaole4745 18 дней назад

Beautiful intelligent lady ❤❤

@Mpho503 16 дней назад

Lungelo, I loved how you asked questions. So succint with real life scenarios. I understand what you were getting at...to be a fly on the wall of a lawyers office. I felt the answers were lackluster and a bit disappointing. Maybe you can revisit this chat with her being more prepared. Congratulations on your MBL🎉

@gugulethu4155 12 дней назад

I was so afraid to mention being disappointed in some of her answers, considering she is married herself but I assumed she just got married therefore didnt have much to share yet.....The platform is overall a great and very insightful

@sinegugumbili 11 дней назад

Yes please to the personal brand content

@bigthangz5489 18 дней назад

7:53 - Freeze your eggs. But NO ONE TELLS the young w0men how much that costs per month !!! Last timr i checked it was around $50 000 dollars/month. Does a 23 yr old have that amount of money per month.

@Mpho503 16 дней назад

I don't know anyone who is freezing any eggs. It's expensive

@kabelontobo303 12 дней назад

Also, the success rate for IVF ranges from 23% -45% as per an article on CapeFertility. So even if you can afford it, it's not as easy as saying I'll freeze my eggs.

@letushilaalina 18 дней назад

Tebello is so amazing 🙏

@nontobekobiyela2548 10 дней назад

Smart lawyer this one

@LethoHali 17 дней назад

Hooked!

@busiperiwinkle6368 18 дней назад

❤❤❤

@vusimngomezulu2500 День назад

Because they don't follow this direction, ephesians 5:22-33.

@Tom_34321 17 дней назад

While the guest has some perspective, she takes part in pre-martial aspects (eg drawing marriage contract) and post-marriage aspect (finalising divorce). A lot of opinions on the actual marriage were incorrect. If it was possible, a person in her field, with actual marriage experience and a sound knowledge of stats (even overseas stats, eg most divorces are actually initiated by women, so the question of men leaving high earning women implies that's a big factor when actually tje high earning woman is the one that feels she "deserves better"), such a guest with that real life experience and deeep chats with fellow married people and a knowledge of stats would have contextualised things much better.

@Mpho503 16 дней назад

Much agree. Lukewarm responses from guest

@mphihlengmagoro2957 18 дней назад

The traditional reasons for marriage are no longer the deciding factor.. The definition of a marriage has also changed as people explore more different relationships setups. The shame that came with divorce is falling by the way side.

@user-tm4mv9cu2h 16 дней назад

How do i change from in community to out of community?

@EngineerYLShow 16 дней назад

please contact Sister in Law. she assists with the process.

@andystar444 7 дней назад

whats the point to marry when there is no love why would i sign🤣 a contract to risk my assets

@B58luja23 6 дней назад

Divorce is always bad bro unless it’s excusable by Jesus. The reason this happens is because y’all aren’t getting married using the guidelines God Gave you not ar you marrying people who’ve given their life to Jesus as well as yourself. All answers are in the bible ouens.