Why My Marriage Ended | Britt Chat #18 | 

“ if you’re in a relationship with a person doesn’t want to be there, you need to let go”🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

You didn't have to do this, but you did it on your terms and with such grace and poise. Not once did you degrade your children's father. You did this with class and honesty. Thank you for sharing.

This video is the absolute best! Not because I expected you to bash him or be petty (which if you were I’d be in total support of) but because you are the epitome of class and dignity. You’re glow up is real and not even halfway over. #blackgirlmagic

Really Austin lost out big time how do you leave somebody like this woman the hell was wrong with that dude.

Bottom line, he was selfish, weak, gave into his sin and chose himself over you and his kids.

“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” Proverbs 31:26 Britt you are so amazing and classy. You could have easily named names and turned this into a messy video. Instead you took the high road and made A wonderful video sharing your perspective and advice that could possiably help someone else.

I love how real she is. How she didn't go into a dark place and throw him under the bus like she could have. Nothing but respect for you and I do hope that find true love later. Sending hugs.

The Bible says adultery is cause for divorce, and even though it's heartbreaking, you are free to marry again...a man *worthy* of your heart.

I'm not even going through anything related to this video, but I'm still over here in tears. God is out there molding and shaping a wonderful man for you. You are a beautiful person and I'm so happy that you are on a path to finding peace and happiness in your life.

Brit, preach. WELL SAID. I just want you to know that ever since we met, and throughout our time of hanging out, and visiting about stuff, you have constantly surprised me with your grace, integrity, and forgiveness about this situation and many others. I have honestly never heard anyone talk about their marriage ending in this way. Your constant trust in the Lord, never wavering faith in Him, and your dedication to your marriage even before it ended blows my mind. Thank you for sharing this video. There are very few people who look at marriage the way you do. Thank you, friend!

You are such a light! Thank you for sharing your heart. The Lord is near to the broken-hearted and He is obviously carrying your through this tough time. ❤️❤️

Thanks Britt. My 5 year relationship ended the exact time yours did. I'm 22 and had to move back to my hometown, move in with my mom, find a new job, and had no friends here. I was so scared, and knowing that you were there with me helped. I was obviously so sad for you, but you were a huge part in me not feeling alone

My relationship with God is the reason why I'm alive. He is the difference for all who seek Him. Thank you for sharing your heart and soul before strangers. You may never ever know who you're blessing but God does and He blesses those who trust Him. Keep the faith Britt. God continue to bless you and the children.

I clicked this to be nosey and ended up inspired 💚 Thanks for sharing your testimony girl!

Thank you for choosing to share when YOU wanted to share Britt. It takes a lot of courage to talk about a tough time in your life. ❤️

Thank you, Britt. You have no idea how your courage inspires me to move on from a 20yr marriage. It's been over for a long time, but I've been in denial only because change scares me. I have been miserable for a long time and I want to find the happiness I deserve, but it's really hard. It's only been 5 months since he left me, so time is what I need to heal. Thank you for being you.

He made a big mistake. He was and is not mature in the Lord like you. He has been swept away by the lust of this world.

This is by far the best video I have watched since I subscribed to your channel. And it's not because you opened up, you didn't have to. This video shows how genuine you are & how deep is your relationship with the Lord. As you said only He can help you make it through. I am sure that God will make a way where there seems to be no way. May He tremendously bless you and your children this year and the years to come.🙏🏾

Wow clicking on a video like this where a person was so hurt but able to rise above for god her kids and society and be graceful about her feelings is the most refreshing thing I’ve seen in a long time. To be nice and uplift those who have hurt you is so hard but so amazing! Brittany you are amazing!

The best part that I got from this is, "You are 100% enough!. " thank you.

Well honey the grass is not always greener on the other side! Just don’t understand why men be willing to lose their family over that. Great Advice Britt!! You’re so beautiful , smart, and an amazing mom!! It was a rough year and yet you’re still standing !! God is good ❤️😘😘

I’m honestly so in love with you Britt. I love all the positivity and sincerity that this channel embodies. You’re an amazing single mom! ❤️💋

I had unsubscribed a long time ago, and you're the reason why I resubscribed. You're so inspiration and you have such a great head on your shoulders. Keep going Britt! You can do it!

I just can't fathom to have my husband tell me "marriage isn't for me" , and having three kids and expecting number 4, and basically walk out . I don't think I could be as strong to move on as you , I'm saying that from the pit of my heart

I absolutely loved this video and thank you for sharing your real life truth. Yes ma’am Jesus Christ is the best friend of healing heart felt pain. Been there.

The channel is so much better now you run it. Everything much more genuine and not forced ❤️

You ain't lied girl. My marriage of 15 years ended 2 years ago. If it were not for God I wouldn't have made it through. Period end of story. I accredited ALL of my strength to him! Now I'm on the mend and everyday it gets easier and easier. But only through christ.. otherwise I'd probably had driven off a cliff somewhere lol.

I wish I didn't have to say this Britt, but this only happens a thousand times a year when a young boy pursues a young lady he feel he cannot do without, he has to marry her only to find out later marriage is 100 percent on both sides. His selfishness won't allow him to be happy. So he wants to sow his wild oats after he's broken his wife's heart. It happened to me when my children were small. Although we loved Austin, God will give you a Man next time.

Britt after a heart break it was through God that I learned to breathe again, to love myself, and to accept and defy the odds! Weaping endures for a night but joy comes in the morning!

Honey, I am rooting for you all the way.. I’ve been watching you guys since Audrey was born and when you all were living in that apt in California. Honestly I’ve always thought you deserved better.. sorry for the shade, but he always seemed more invested in getting views than his marriage. I’m so rooting for you, Jesus will carry you through this whole journey. I will pray for the best:) your kids are going to look up to you in the future and see how selfless you were to be willing to never walk away from them.

your awesome : 1st Corinthians 7:15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so . The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.

I needed this... I know how it feels to invest 8 years into a person and they decide you're "not enough ". Knowing you're a good person, knowing you gave it your all. And it sucks. But you are so right... Don't fight it. LET THEM GO!

We tend to forget God is in control. He will not give anything that you can not bare. Life challenges happen in season. Forgive yourself, forgive the other person, grieve and move on. Trust in God and pray for guidance.

Britt, watching this I can't help but think your kids are going to see this one day & respect you so much for your strength, faith, and truth.

You’re an inspiration. My fiancé of five years left me last month for another girl. It felt like the end of the world, but God has given me a lot of strength and after a month, I have started to stop crying over him and I don’t think of him as much.

You are class personified. Your kids will thank you for your grace in this situation one day.

I have been praying for you and the kids every day Britt. There's a song I listen to that has helped me realize that no matter what garbage I face in this earth, God is still good. It's called Closer by Steffany Gretzinger. You are an amazing testament to what God can do with brokeness. Thank you for sharing your light.

This vlog really hit home for me. I really needed to hear this. Thank you for being so open and honest about what you're going through.

I really needed this. After 3 years of being in a relationship with someone who wasn't even putting in anything and wasn't being faithful. Finally I ended it n its been 6 months and finally I'm at the point where I realize it's not my fault. I just need the reminder so thank you 💖

you are honestly just an absolute rockstar Britt... wise, very wise.

Thanks for opening up/sharing! I pray your openness helps many others as you have a positive platform and a testimony in-progress that can really bless lives! 🙏🏾😘 I also pray 2018 is your best year yet!!

You have changed so much since 1st videos.... and you are so calm and amazing... he has no idea what he has lost....I am very sorry for him...

We have VERY similar stories. And I'm so glad you made this. I have felt inadequate and a failure on so many levels and I've heard all those lies in my head. I'm actually headed to our first hearing soon. I definitely needed to hear this. 💜

So it took you 8yrs to figure out "marriage wasn't for you" smfh...Britt you are beautiful, caring, kindhearted and God will bless you and your babies.. I pray eventually you will find a love that's like no other, a God sent love.

Even with God in your life, sometimes things just don't work out, there are valleys and mountains but I can honestly (married 30 plus years, 3 kids, 1 grand) say knowing him makes life more bearable!! Thanks Brit and I want to encourage you to hang in there!! God bless!!

This is my first comment on RU-vid and to a very deserving woman. May God cover you with peace and prosper all that you do. He will reward you for your obedience and sacrifice thanks for not being bitter, petty or anything easy to do thanks for choosing what’s hard to do in times of pain and that’s kindness. You are making a difference and living a life of impact.

The strength and resilient beauty of a woman is evident in your life. Love you, and praying for you. ❤️

Brittany, I admire your strength and your courage for being so transparent on YT. It's not easy, but you will get through this. God is good, as you know. Continue to lean on him and get your strength through him.

Wow thank you so much. God IS the answer

So I had mixed emotions throughout this video. At first when you were talking about Austin and the end of your marriage I was angry again and it felt like it just happened. I've been watching you guys for the past couple years and have seen all the videos, I really looked up to you all as family because you guys were all close and are of God and it just felt like for me a place to come for humor, peace, interracial love (

The way you deal with this situation is just inspiring. You have so much wisdom. You are showing the world that it does not always require anger to deal with a situation that can seem to hurt us, but act with grace. Thanks for this video

Britt you're like the big sister I never had. You're words speak so much truth and wisdom into my life. Continue speaking because It truly touches many of our hearts. Love you to pieces sis keep shining! ♥️♥️♥️

I'm really glad that you continued with RU-vid. I believe that your story can be a testimony for many people. Even if you don't have all of the answers and are still having hard times. You continuing on could give someone hope and encourage someone to keep going. EDIT I actually wasn’t able to finish my comment earlier because I had to leave home and also silly me got emotional and started to tear up as I was writing. I just wanted to say this to you Brittany. You are an inspiration to me. You have gone through some extremely difficult situations the last couple of years. It would be understandable if you were angry, depressed, ticked off and spewed negativity and hatred. But you have this beautiful light about you. Even in the midst of turmoil you refuse to compromise your values. I am grateful that I can watch a Christian woman on RU-vid that reminds me not to feed into the ugliness in this world. I have made it a goal in my life to approach every situation with love. Even when the situation is dark or ugly if at least my response comes from a place of love it could help calm the storm and heal wounds. Wow so I have no idea where this comment just went LOL. I said all of that to say thank you Brittany for sharing your love, positivity, determination and light with the rest of us. God bless!

Hes going to realize one day the grass wasnt greener on the other side

You are an amazing woman. I remember I had to stop watching the channel because I felt he was disingenuous, overtime it got worse, you could tell he was not in the present. It was like he was on the outside watching himself, he was acting like this was the life that he wanted but it really wasn't in the end. I just want what's best for you and the kids, I don't feel he is it. All of you are so amazing without him, how is that? No matter what, you and those babies will thrive. Be blessed Brit.

Brittney, you are very classy and this was very tactful. May God continue to bless you and your kids!!

Love your honesty and strength. I watched your video with misty eyes. I know it was God who is your keeper. I don’t know how someone could just walk away from such a large commitment. I do feel some type of way but you are right the children come first. No harsh words need to be said. You are truly being classy and you are a inspiration on how we all need to lean to and on Christ.

Hold all my calls , cancel all my appointments , this is gonna be the video I've been waiting for..

You're such a wonderful breath of fresh air. The realness is raw and I hope that you can feel my prayers. Keep on keeping on, Britt! You're doing a wonderful job 💙

But they broke your trust. Multiple times. Boy bye. No, it's not your fault. That other person is bad. Point blank.

I know You don’t want negativity or trash talk out there, but Austin’s an idiot, and you are amazing. ❤️ and thank u for your encouragement #thatisall

The perfect Chat that I needed to hear for the space I am in today. My marriage is ending, my husband decided he doesn't want to be married anymore and I surely feel lost and stuck. Many times I think what did I do wrong or am I not attractive anymore? You have allowed me to realize I truly need to cast all my worries on God because God will be right by my side. Thank you Britt for you beautiful words of encouragement. You are loved and appreciated 💖

You're marriage story is exactly mine's. I've been married for 7 yrs and have a 6 year old daughter. And to the T, your experience is mine! I am in the midst of separating and not by my choice. Thank you for being transparent and allowing God to use you to encourage me at this moment. You're in my prayers...❤

GOD is Amazing!! 14 years of marriage gone for me but lessons learned along the way. We are fearfully and wonderfully made. Bless you Brittney😍

Thank you for this! I’ve been divorced for 7 years now and I still have my moments. But when I look at where I am it’s only because of God! I never would be where I am without Him!

Thank you Brittany for opening up about your struggles, challenges and growth. It was so heartwarming to hear you speak so honestly and knowing you want to help others with your testimony. I love your vlogs, Brittany and love how wise and encouraging you are when you share with us. Keep it up. Praying for you.

It's been 3 years after a 13 year "abusive" relationship and I still feel not "good enough" .. it takes time to love yourself again ..but yes.. time does heal :) it gets easier and i have started to find myself again :) thank you for YOUR story xo

If someone is unhappy, LET GO! Someone being unhappy doesn’t make him/her a bad person. It’s that simple! Blessings to you Britt.

He is a dirt bag. We are so sorry for your pain and your kids’ pain. He will have to answer to God. You are doing a great job.

I honestly love this new you please keep pushing your doing great i love watching you grow into this new you 😘

Britt that was wonderful advice, I truly understand what you are going through, my husband of 37 yrs walked out, same issues and reasons you went through, that was about 10 yrs ago, I am still here, I love me, I am an overcommer! Yes it hurt, felt like I was hit with an ax in the chest! Only Prayers and faith in God pulled me though, I realized I am loved, I do make a difference, this joy I have is not based on someone else's opinion, it's because God NEVER gave up on me! Blessings to you Britt! You are strong and you are loved!

Sis, you are more than equipped to give advice. There is nothing basic or cliche about it. May God continue to bless and guide you on this journey. You are not alone.

I just want to say that Britt you are such an inspiration for women, keep up the positivity and sharing your journey with us, I know life sucks sometimes, but you will get through it with God's help and btw your a Great Mom too

This has been the most honest and best video you have put out in a few weeks..truth always win and this is what people are looking for.

I love the way you expressed this.... Much love,much light

Britt looks absolutely stunning. Probably not what she wants to hear, but she looks happier now. I aspire to be like her. To have so much compassion and respect for someone who wronged you. She could've dragged him, but decided against it. She knew it would accomplish nothing. Thank you for being so amazing. I'm so mad at Austin, I really am. I'm very happy for the man God places in your life when the time is right though. He's hitting the jackpot for sure! ❤

You are absolutely right, it doesn't really matter about the years you were together. If you are not really meant for each other then it's not meant to be. Such is life. I know you are still on process of moving on right now, but don't worry as long as your child is with you everything is gonna be alright. Just be strong and keep on believing that one day you can surpass this all and you will meet your lifetime partner soon. Just be patient.

YOU are incredible, sweet friend! Those babies are blessed with you as their mama. I want to hug you!!!!

#notificationsquad ☺️ this was amazing advice you’re sooo strong!! You’re shining girl always a class act 🖤

Thank you for sharing this video. Speaking your "Truth" is awesome not just for your healing but for inspiration for others. Britt you shall "Rise". 😘 😘

Britt, I don't comment on your videos that often, but I loved watching you guys as previously the Nive Nulls and now as Britt's Space and it is amazing how you've dealt with this. I mean, it's just so crazy that you've gone through so much stuff and you still function, it's crazy - I'm amazed. I'm so glad that you're feeling like yourself again, day by day and continuing with what faith has for you and the path that is being lead out to you. I will be watching your journey throughout.

I’m the one who DM you recently and all I can say is THANK YOU! You truly are an inspiration! And thank you for being real !

lord knows I want to go get my tea, but who has time when brit is spilling it all the real way.

Britt! I have been watching your youtube with your family and I love it. I am very disappointed that your relationship with your husband seemed perfect and sound. You are an incredible woman to even talk so calmly on youtube about your situation. God will take you through with your children. You are such a child of God.

I admire your strength...it would have been easy to run and hide.

"You are 100% enough".. this is SO important. Thank you for being so open and willing to share your story. You are such a strong woman!!

Amazing Britt. So well articulated. Thank you for being brave and sharing your thoughts! Praying that God will use this video in so many people’s lives and hearts! Keep on chasing Jesus and keep on being YOU!

Thank you so much for you transparency and honesty! I just went through the same thing and was going to post a video on my page but you've said everything I would have said. Kudos to you Brittany! God has you! I tried to salvage my marriage as well, but my advice is to make sure that you pay attention to all of the RED FLAGS before making someone your life partner. There are definitely signs and pray for discernment.

now that I have finish watch all I have to say in your own words is "YOU ARE GONNA BE OK" keep doing awesome brit.

Britt thank you so much for this. So many people including myself has gone through this and sometimes it’s really hard just to move on but you verbalizing it and just letting us know it’s not anyone’s “fault” per se really blessed me. Thank you so much for sharing your truth and how your relationship with God has brought you through. I cant say thank you enough

Britt, you never had to share this with us so thank you for being open. God bless you💕 God can use you in whatever stage, trail, victory of your life to give advice if you let Him use you. Be encouraged, you’re an encouragement to many people😊 You’re strong, may God bless you and your children🌟

Britt you are such an inspiring person. Never give up hope and always look forward. Things always happen for a reason but God will never stray you away. He will always provide and although times may be tough he will never let you endure something you can't handle. Thank you for sharing this video.

This is inspiring and beautiful. Not going through this particular situation , but your strength is inspirational for so many situations. You have a gift and I look forward to what you have planned for the future.

I love this ❤️ So wonderful your giving all the glory to God! I know exactly what your feeling and my ex husband left me 3 years ago and toughest thing I have ever been through! JESUS has been my rock! I'm 40 , single mom now too, just moved in with my parents with my daughter last year because of money reasons but through all this I know I would rather have God than not have God in my life through it all ! ️hugs Brit and blessings 💗🙏☺️💪

The Lord only gives you what you can handle. The fact that you went to so much last year, shows me how incredibly strong you are, you’re such an inspiration. I lost my grandmother 3 weeks ago and she was a second mother to me. Only God has pulled me through this loss and depression. He’s my everything, my hiding place, my shield. He gets me through every single time. God Bless you, Brittany. Praying for your continued strength as always.

You go girl! I admire you for making this video. I can't imagine how hard it must have been to talk about. I know that we only see what you show us, but it looks like you are handling this just fine. Keep God in the middle and you'll go far.

Still praying for u

My ex husband had extra marital affairs before we got married, while we were married and was encouraged to do so by his family and friends. We were young and unfortunately our marriage did not stand a chance with all of the outside forces. Although my ex was an alcoholic, did drugs and just could not focus on being married even though he was the one that wanted to get married and didn't want a divorce he didn't want to do right. When I married him I thought I could help him get over his flaws and choices (of course I later came to know only one person that deliver a person from themselves and that is Jesus). I blamed myself, thought I was not enough, my self esteem was down to nothing thinking no one else would want or love me. I am the one that finally left because it all was going from bad to worse. The stories of what happened are many, I had two children, no money and depression, belittling myself was a daily chore. That was 30 years ago and the advice you are giving on your video is what I came to know as correct. Love God, love yourself, strive for better in life, try to achieve greater especially if you have children. The advice you are giving so soon after your marriage dissolving is wonderful and I hope that those that hear you are helped by it. It took me a LONG time to realize the truth and my life suffered because of it and I would not want to see anyone else go through it......Don't allow yourself to be consumed with loneliness, or to give into the negativity of a relationship that didn't work. Keep your respect and be respectful to others. Praying for you young lady, your children, your ex and all the other people that are going through the same or similar situations.

THERAPY IS GREAT! Whether you are religious or not. There is faith based therapy if that’s an interest too! Self-care is so important! Whoever is reading this you are awesome and loved!

Proud of you Britt Britt!!! Your transparency will help others. I'd request more transparent moments like this. Feel like you're allowing supporters, to view another layer of you.