Why Nice Guys Don't Finish Last... (Nice Guys vs. Simps) 

You explained the difference between a simp and a nice guy very well.

1:38 noted. thank you so much. I finally know where I stand and which side I should be in(nice guy).

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Yeah I guess was a simp once, but now i think I'm in the gentleman side. I have too thank you and alpha M aka Aron. But i think he has to give you that title now since you are coming with great topics which you are helping us😅. So that makes you a better alpha!❣️

just recently, I give up on the idea of meeting the right person or what not. and now, not so much cause of your videos. they(you) help me realize whom I have been messaging/talking etc.

This is actually the route of the problem. Why are these nice guys in the friend zone? Because they mistakenly believe being nice to a girl creates attraction, it doesn't. Courtney actually has some good videos on creating attraction by flirting. Nice guys are in the friend zone because they act like her friend they don't flirt with her and don't take the risk of acting like a man who's interested in dating her. I think being a simp is a related but separate issue.

Exactly!!!

@@markj6854 both sides are to blame.

@@Shadowdoc26 how is a girl to blame for wanting to be your friend particularly if you act like you're happy with the friendship and never show that you're attracted to her?

@@markj6854 that's a good point

amen!!!

Case closed

Like she would want you in her "decline" lol

@@mississipi1103 lol go away

@@mississipi1103 someone got triggered, must have hit too close to home hahahahaha

Only if you’re keeping track of her past rather than just meeting a person and looking forward

@@anonymousbosch9265 A woman's past matters. The more intimate partners she has, the less ability she has to pair bond and stay loyal to a man in the future. Oxytocin wiring gets all messed up.

I know of a girl who wanted to get back with her ex after entering into a new relationship with another guy. She dumped her ex at first because he was a bad boyfriend, but suddenly had a change of mind when the ex tried to talk to her again.

If you're counting your dating location as being "last" because you're the most recent, you're already messed up in your thinking. Finishing _last_ means you don't ever walk away with your prize. I'm the last person my wife ever dated. I really don't care about anyone she's dated before. Something you need to consider putting in your head is: the previous people she dated were learning mistakes; you're supposed to show her you're the right one.

Jajajajajaja!!! Crazy right!!

Actually Steve Martin said this at the end of Parenthood movie in 1989. True then true now.

Only babies women and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is loved under the condition that he provides something.

See, its better to live as a woman

I believe it's choices and responsibilities between male and female.

@@tenniswerewolf8095 What? Reiterate for us again.

So well stated.

Yep, be willing to walk away. It's like when you buy a vehicle. If you hear or see something you don't like, walk away. Approach it like that. Most vehicles can be far, FAR less expensive than a woman so why not look at it the same way? But with women there is also the time and emotional investment. Pick the wrong woman and if she gets pregnant you could be sending her checks for at least 18 years. Cj Rodriguez, what you said is nicely put. A guy who's with her now, shouldn't have to pay for anyone else's mistakes.....ever. No more than she should have to pay for any previous woman's (who was in your life) mistakes. It's not all on the guy, and if the nice guy has something going for him, like a nice income etc....she needs to be worthy of him as well.

@@tidefanyankee2428 exactly!

Then stop being so nice. Respect yourself. You can smash girls without being a bad boy dick. Just be confident in yourself

@@nicbell8090 Exactly!!!!! Guys have to remember that after family, they come first, not some woman he's seeing. Too many guys think they have to be the "nice guy" to get close to her, but all the guy ends up being is a meal ticket and a doormat. If a guy isn't going to respect himself, then a woman never will. Draw your line of what you find acceptable, and unacceptable, without regard to her input. Gents it's YOUR life, live it on your terms. Women play men because they know that men think (wrongly) "if only I'm nice enough she'll let me in to that moist little orifice between her legs". She's not going to let a guy she views as a doormat anywhere near her "holy of holies". Be willing to walk away if you hear or see something you don't like. Don't just put up with it.

5Years? Those are rookie numbers!

26, turning 27 this year. Pfff, amateurs

@@SergioKoolhaas Skippy the Virgin: AMATEURS. AFTER WATCHING THESE NUMBERS, I'M A FUCKIN GOD AMONGST MEN

It's the 28th year for me, and i'm 28 years old

Damn...almost 23, not straight but still. I'm a virgin so...

Preach

Indeed.

simp

It lasts a lot longer than 15 years, i just got rejected by a 43 yr old woman in favour of a woman using player ! dont buy this BS that says you can have a nnice woman in your 30s, you definatly can not !

Some of these women still demand that I pay for dates. I already know they've been letting guys fuck them for free for years, now I'm expected to pay for the privilege of courting them and the chance to buy them a house and raise their kids? Doesn't make any sense.

Truth man

Preach On

Indeed.

alpha fux beta bux indeed

Can you explain what you mean?

@@xillion2751 TRANSLATION: 👉 when women start approaching their mid 30(expiry date), they'll try to find nice guys to settle down and provide for them.

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@@loustavern5210 “expiry date” LMFAOOOOO

Exactly! They need someone for that maintenance and upkeep after their tires are bald and they hit over 100,000 miles.

My 2002 Pontiac Grand Prix was beautiful when I bought used in 2004. It was cherry, everything worked, the plastic was still good. Today it's a 21 year old car that has had it's engine rebuilt twice, the driver's seat backing is broken, switches are missing covers, plastic is cracked. I should have just leased. The same applies to women; it's better to rent/lease than to buy.

Bad boys still want her but for entertaining purposes only, and most women should keep doing that since they already started it

Indeed.

simp

Same man. I'm 27 and getting to the point where I'm just accepting I'll be single for good. I try to be a good person not to attract girls but because I believe it's the right thing to do; to support others, to treat people with respect, to be positive etc. However, unless you find nice girls then the rest of them will not be attracted to you. I am from a town and tbh I could probably be engaged/married rn as I had several opportunities to date nice girls and blew them cos I had not matured yet. Now I live in a city and these girls have been replaced by girls who just wanna sleep around and then settle down in their 30s+ (I see some couples in their mid 40s, and even older, pushing around prams). Cities are a hotbed for these types of women, and dating apps give them a false impression of their worth. I cant really complain cos I had my chances in the past (these were nice girls who would reject Chad's and go after me cos they were actually looking for a good partner at a young age). Good luck finding these girls nowadays. I dont use dating apps and stopped drinking a couple of years ago, so basically have no interactions with women atm bar some random conversations whilst out and about. Honestly I have no idea how to date without drinking/apps/friend circles, as asking out randoms on the train seems romantic in theory but not as successful in practice. Anyways rambling now, it is what it is.

Indeed. 👏👏🙏🙏

Those are outliers, your experience dose not reflect the rest of the world

You can still be nice but the point is to have enough self respect to walk away when things are not being reciprocated by a woman.

Let's face it this world is not a nice place people are horrible I wish I was in my grandparents generation instead.

Exactly this is logical when you consider culture and social norms. Women are far more likely to go with this flow as opposed to men who tend to be much more independent. Then you throw in the fact that men must earn their value versus women who only have to maintain it which the lion share can no longer do. Even if you're with a woman that says she's not like that there will be cultural Bleed through will be there.

Sucks tbh

Ikr?!

As a fellow old guy, l gotta agree.

The pro does what you've paid her for, and you KNOW what you're getting. AND, if you look at it like an accountant....the pro is actually cheaper (in the long run) when you take all the costs of having a woman into consideration. Food, housing, clothing, jewelry (because she's going to want it), healthcare etc....etc......etc...... It's like the Jack Reacher movie. Jack (Tom Cruise), "I can't afford you" Girl, "I'm not a hooker" Jack, "Then I really can't afford you"

@@tidefanyankee2428 love that quote lol

I'm 50 with many option, not sure how old you are, but make yourself desirable, get a good job, if your car is O.K. clean it, clean your house to the point of spotless, learn to drink wine stop drinking beer(only drink three glasses of wine) only drink on the weekends, buy new clothes, welcome her into your life, whats wrong with becoming a step dad(Better than eating buckshot) if she treats you well (do get a prenup before she moves in, you don't want to loose your house in two years). having a loving caring woman by your side is better than any Prostitute ,even if she's a little lacking on the looks side

@@geoffreymoulton5707 I agree with everything you wrote initially. Good job, nice car, clean house, learn to say "when" with alcohol. Yep, I'm onboard with all of that. What's wrong with being a step dad? There is the potential for several things to go very wrong with it. Are the kids dad in the picture? If not, if she leaves in some states you could be on the hook for support. If the bio dad is in the picture, you're GOING to have to deal with him at some point. It's not an "if" but rather a "when". Is bio dad going to start drama between you and his kids or his ex? Does bio dad pay his child support on time? If not, in the meantime you'll have to make up for that. Does bio dad pick the kids up on time or does he cancel at the last minute? That's going to create drama. Will bio dad tell his kids they don't have to listen to you in your own home? What kind of parent is your girlfriend/wife? Oh, and those kids are always going to come first with her, and there's nothing wrong with a mother putting her kids first, she should. Just be aware of that. Will bio dad turn those kids against you and make them believe that if you aren't in the picture that he and his ex (your girlfriend/wife) might get back together??? If one of those kids is a teenage girl you might want to read up on "metoo" and "Ibelieveher". A teenage girl can make a false allegation and her mom is GOING to believe her unless there is some concrete proof that she's lying. Your girlfriend/wife might have an agenda as well. And let's be honest, unless you've known someone for years you don't really know them THAT well. There are false allegations of domestic violence that happen. But guess who's going to leave the house in handcuffs??? It's not her, AND she'll be backed up by her kids. Then she'll be living in YOUR house while you're in jail and then there's the inevitable no contact/restraining order. She might not have to be the one to leave the house either. It depends on the judge. So I hope you have friends/family you can stay with until it gets sorted out. In the meantime she can sell your stuff. Prenups? Those get tossed out of court all the time. They aren't the guarantee many think they are.

Ikr?!

Nice guys finish last because they are the ones who end these women after they have been washed up and run through. After spending their 20's having their fun, you get to marry her in her 40's and provide for her.

@@RiseUpToYourAbility ahhh what a dream right. The man went to school career trade worked has no kids sexually responsible didn’t date much in his 20-30’s now at 45 he gets a 45 year old woman with 5 kids by 5 men she has not much education cause she always got sexual access and attention since she’s been 12. By 25 she had 3 kids by 3 men she often could get sex dates free gifts guys simping over her so she has no need to educate herself or even work at times. She has welfare food stamps to fill in the gap when the bad boys didn’t pay child support. So now at 45 with 5 kids by 5 men she’s ready for stability a retirement plan if you will from. The dating game and from life. Here comes the 45 year old man childless that didn’t get a lot of sexual access when he was younger and he has a great career job education since he didn’t have an outlet for his sexual dating desires he put it into his career. So he wants a kid and she wants stability. She didn’t work on a career or even picking a good man to marry when she was younger and he didn’t work hard enough dating wise he only approached 3 women a year and used dating apps where there’s 5x as many men than women on there and a lot of attention seeking women. He gets her last legs of fertility and her other 5 kids 5 baby daddies that never married her. And she gets a guy she wouldn’t have maybe dated if she was 25 and childless but he’s good enough now as she’s just tired of being chads 11pm release she wants stability and a day to day man for marriage. Best advice for men I’m 25 myself now is to work hard and be BALANCED have a career job eduction trade and approach a lot of women eat the rejections and only date women who have legit interest that will go 50/50 on dates and cook clean for you. Don’t out of desperation date golf diggers get drained $$$ and then recluse from women for 10 years and after 2 rejections hide away again for 5 years THATS HOW YOU END UP MARRYING A 45 year old woman with 5 kids by 5 men never married that’s selfish cause he didn’t work hard enough.

@@RiseUpToYourAbility big facts bro you spoke golden knowledge check out how I can see it playing out too bro

Exactly.

Precisely. Yes I am walking away if I am not treated fair, but that is all I have. Nothing.

@@tulenik71 What do you mean?

@@tulenik71 You have yourself!

Simps dont even know what a starting line is!

Doesn't work

@@Suspect333 It depends where you should be that. If you want a serious relationship - yes. Picking up a girl off the street - maybe not so much.

Be whatever you want to be and don't care what some other moron on the internet labels it.

Don't be a gentleman, be righteous

@@Concatenate if everyone understood this. That is what gives you attraction from other. Doing what you enjoy doing and being what you wanna be

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Deadass man!

My man!

It's like me making a video about what to expect when you get your first period.

That guy is a massive simp in the body of a tool

Listening to alpha male crap is why you guys are still single.

This is the most accurate answer

Yes, this is a good explanation. I honestly think that more men should focus on building themselves before trying to add another person into their life.

Both lol

Who told rockstar are bas and all math teachers are nice , some math teachers are bullies and some rockstars are nice, look at Shawn mendes girls like him cause he's sweet

@@stgeorge4559 yeah .... I'm a "math teacher" or music theory teacher so to speak, but I'm ALSO the bad boy FUCKING ROCK STAR. I have a million problems but getting women isn't one of 'em. Unless it's one specific woman, I can be picky lol

@@lotuswolf1518 It's the perception of who is a bad or nice guy.... If a math teacher is hot and rich, of course he will have women, still a Rockstar will be always more attractive, at least to a quick "ride".

@@michaelsmusic3532 music teacher is not math teacher, and it was a semplificaton to get the point. A Rockstar will always find a hot girl easily than you, also

Lmao happen to my brother even if this is a real or fake comment it actual the real deal 😂🙏💯

@@kisigma1011 it's real. It's so painful. Now I have to go talk to social services and psychologists. She wants to make me go crazy.

@@liuton2005 she want u dead then move on to the next victim hope u recovery bro 💯🙏

🤣😂🤣 Keep the Faith Bro

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they say that bad boys don't make good husbands if you plan on having a girl for life you should be the nice guy in my opinion this is how it goes nice guys: get girls but also make good husbands and they can really maintain a long relationship simps: mostly they don't get any girls cause they always expect something in return and girls see through that bad boys: maybe get girls easily and most of the time but they can't maintain a long and strong relationship either because they're not really looking for that or they just can't

@@ismailelmassaoudi4317 beautiful!

@@ismailelmassaoudi4317 Bad boys : also the kind of men that women cheat, lust, and have the most mind-blowing sex with.

@@ismailelmassaoudi4317 Sounds like you want the leftovers of a bad boy. Have fun raising another man’s kids.

Yeah unfortunately a lot of girls sleep their way through loads of bad boys, chads and jocks and then expect nice guys to still want them...and they do even though theyre emotionally washed up.

Hope this comment gets seen by everyone 😅

What I meant by that is some women will be attracted to guys that are not ideal for them when they are young because they don’t know what a real man looks like. The same can be said for men when going for the “hot” girl that other guys find attractive but they are ultimately crazy and they are in no way someone you can settle down with. If a girl is just sleeping around for years going from guy to guy and uses a guy as a fallback plan then that guy should in no way entertain her. Like I said, all about knowing your worth and demanding respect in return.

This video should be called "Rules for beta males. Bad boys, Chads, and Tyrones need not worry, none of this applies to you."

@@CourtneyRyan Problem with this analogy is that the large majority of men can't get the "hot" girls. The majority of men have no one in their queues. Where the majority of women could sleep around with guys as all the have to do is offer and some guy will take them up on the offer.

Same. I am 40 and my only relationship was three weeks long. I refuse to yield and treat women like shit. I would rather live with a good conscience alone, than have my luck turn by being a dirtbag. My ex even said, stop being so kind. Some woman will eventually take advantage of you.

That’s absolutely right! Thank you ❤️😊

@@fruitiusmaximus925 please expound on your idea, your rebuttal is a bit murky

@@fruitiusmaximus925 well.. I see your point.....

She is there!

I agree guys should go out and be somebody. But bad guys can get girls even when they are nobody, sad truth. You need to work hard to realize yourself, but you don't need to work hard to get a girl.

In other words Nice Guy = Simp.

Yes James! I also left my factual but not disrespectful comment here for her. No surprise, I've had no reply, as the multitudes of men saying the same sorts of things here will be keeping her quite busy I believe! It's quite astounding how many there are! I wonder when these women will wake up to what feminism has fooled them to follow, burn down those dispicable divorce courts, disband their folly & follow the order that worked for centuries once more, by honoring a man as her head, husband & provider, & get busy having babies in their prime & youth when they should?! I'm not holding my breath on that happening any time soon hey James?😉👍

@@richardteale8203 someone women just don’t want babies. Nothing wrong with that. You’ve been lied to about what feminism is. People profit off of fear mongering.

@@tommyliu7020 Yes, some don't, but not many, if hardly any, as most women eventually decide it's their primary purpose to bear children by the time they're 30 & near on all of them do so by the time they're 40! Unfortunately they're leaving it too late, as peak fertility for females is at age 22! Please explain how feminism has lied to me, as I agree it did, if you mean in my pre "blue pilled" days, but I'd say definately not now! Yes, agreed, they do profit from fear mongering.

This is exactly right. Those women will never become a good wife, or forget her badboy.

Damn near all women are drawn to bad boys. Simple human adaptation.

And these women are what not this channel is talking about. This channel focuses on high-quality women that are mature minded.

You dont know how wise u are right now I was being manipulated by a woman and my own mom said to me i was wrong So i talked with her for like 30 min and then she said to me if a girl is with you and got bored and she has better options she has the right to dump you So i told her if i was dating a girl for like 2 years and got bored and dumped her is it okay ? She said no that against religion

That's not true bro, not sure what your ideals are or how you think but you can drop me a PM if you want to chat about it.

I feel like this applies to me too. I don’t sense any girl that is interested or likes me.

@@vc3126 also here if you want to drop a PM I can try offer some advice

I’m so happy to help! ❤️

​@CourtneyRyan "Women are manipulative- who can blame them?" Uhm, everyone? Liberally being a shitty person and not accepting any accountability is the primary female state of mind

Why?

Love that! thank you 😊

In my experience the shittier I am to women the harder they pursue me.

Thanks for saving me 7 and a half minutes of my time