Why so many disabled people love the Monster Romance trope [Subtitled] 

As promised an exploration into the monster romance or monsterfucking trope, and how disabled people might relate to it and interpret it. I saw analysis into this from queer and feminist ankles already, but oddly not from this, so I thought I do this myself.
Videos and articles that helped me make this:
“My monster boyfriend”: • My Monster Boyfriend
Article about the appeal of the monsterfucker trope: gizmodo.com/wh...
About relating to monsters as an queer black man: • The Shape of Water: Fa...
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