Hey. This is my first time watching RU-vid video here. I'm really interested to trans women. But I'm also straight. I'm sure I have no regrets for me saying it. I just wanted to try something different. But I never experience being around meeting with transgender women. It's hard for me to approaching real females.
How does it feel knowing the majority of your audience are AGP? I’ve seen videos of you dissing AGPS, does it make you feel more valid doing that, I think although you are HSTS , you have signs of being AGP…..
@@BUTCHQWEEN I'm in the middle of AGP and HSTS although I've always been girlie since birth, I found an old kindergarten report stating concerns I was not socialising with boys and was playing with girls toys and clothes too much. I've always wanted to be a girl.
You are exactly correct. Never been an issue for me. If you’re attracted to someone and you really enjoy spending time with someone who cares. You can still have sex and and to me it’s even more passionate. If your attracted to men your gay. Your beautiful and feminine and that’s awesome. Thank you and best wishes.
Do u go down on her? If she's pre-op? This has always confused me when trans people say that genitals don't matter. Or do u only play upstairs? :) this is ofc if you're straight xD or would it make you some sort of bi person? Would be much appreciated if u could sort this out for me lol.
@@xyr3s Men usually go down on me and I'm pre-op. If a trans gal looks femme enough, some straight or bi or pan guys don't care what's downstairs. Private parts are covered by clothes, unless you're at a nudist event. Most people are attracted to secondary sex characteristics, such as curves and boobs on women, muscles, chest hair or baby faces on men.
You know I went through this dilemma when I was in college. I had a tens friend and she was cool to hang out with and I ejoyed her company. I knew she was trans and didn't care we were introduced by a mutual friend. The females I attended school with made life Hell for me. I stopped seeing CC when she kissed me on the cheek. I feel like I let others dictate who my friends should be. This is wrong and I was wrong for letting others manipulate me. I should have kept seeing her. Your vid opened my eyes to my own personal inadequacies. Thank you and keep up the positive work.
Hmmm a lot of Trans women are coming out saying that you so called Straight men aren't ish!! 🤣🤣 Y'all love to blame women just go live out your sexual deviant fantasies without bringing Women in it.
I am a male attracted to femininity. Some cis women, some trans women and relatively few gay men fit this bill. I consider myself polysexual. As I have become older, so my level of neutrality with genitalia has increased - basically, I'm not bothered either way. An open smile, lively eyes, wit and humour are much more important. I do not know if my attitude is common, nor do I care. For trans women out there, just know that there are men who do not judge you by your start point.
@Logical Rationalist the world becomes scary when you realize that people are not as clear cut and homogeneous as you were told to believe, people are quite fluid mate
@@JimmiAlli What the hell is polysexual?? The guy is bi. All this new terminology boils down to the same thing. Straight, gay/lesbian, and bi. So drop all the other crap
For a long time, I thought I was bi because I like cis and trans women. I was also confused, cause the thought of dating a woman as a guy was gross to me. I dated a guy at one point, and it felt awful. After coming out as trans, I realized I'm demisexual and a lesbian. Really wish I had competent sex ed growing up. Instead, it was just talk of abstinence and STD's. I literally had to figure out my gender and sexuality through trial and error.
Same! although I'm kind of fluid in terms of who I'm attracted to. I've realized it's mostly about an empathic connection. It's been a really difficult process of self discovery but I sense that we've gone through that process so that we really know what it's like and are better prepared to help others find and accept themselves for who they are. ❤️💙❤️
@Calm Beast I notice there are often people who are experiencing transphobia watching these videos about transgender issues. I suppose you are questioning your own identify and desires, but it's important to be conscientious. Hate reveals ignorance. Love is the higher path.
@Calm Beast There's a difference between biological sex and gender identity, but that's besides the point. Why does it matter to you personally? Are you not watching these videos to learn about transgender issues, or is there some other reason?
@visualfor How many gay men are attracted to transwomen how many straight men are attracted to trans men and would you date a trans man 👨🏻 since chromosome is you’re criteria for a partner!
@@afunreb1681 Thats Odd you find Buck Angel, JammiDodger, Attractive if that’s the case then you are gay Feminine, Muscular Physical attraction is what differs a straight and gay orientation no straight gay finds a trans males attractive even the most vocal conservatives would consider it gay for a cis man to go out with a trans male even though it’s biologically a women.
I am a woman. Always have been n always will be. But u you should know that I have struggled to understand this specific topic. I think your right about it, being more of a threat to us. Before I clicked on this video, I meditated for about 3mins and really opened my mind. Shut the ego down and truly prepared myself to see things differently from a new perspective. And I just want you to know how truly inspired I am. This video you made helped me see things from that new perspective!! As well as many others! I'm so grateful for your patience with people who don't understand yet. But just know I heard you babe😜! You rocked this video as well as the female gender😜💯💋!!! Love Always, 💚 Paige💜 P.S. What lured me to the video was your beautiful eyes BTW 😍😏
Not you too.....they love womb grown female affirmation .. only reason the alternative community feels strong is and will always be threw the blind emotional involvement of natural women.history say so....but infringement let's be serious for a father of 3 girls I'm scared of what their mind and emotional state will be in a barrier less world where genetically markered men assume their positions of excellence and rights....I'd recommend you look at laws not outcry videos
@@kennethcunningham70 Do not be upset lol, it is just another person who claim they are ''open minded'' and then their brain (whatever was there, lol, however small) fell out of their head. So. I also doubt it is a female, not from the womb which is the only valid way to be one, bye. Lol.
The laws mentioned are to soothe the scared mentioned. Scared isn’t indicative of freedom. I won’t be back and forth arguing this, just something to consider.
Very clear, and totally makes sense:) Ppl really need to grasp this so they’re clear on what their feelings are, and they have the freedom to enjoy something different, and possibly quite special. Thanks for talking about it.
I would consider myself a straight guy but there is a beautiful thing about trans women. I have found that they are incredibly confident mind and I love people that are confident with themselves.
I remember back when I was 16, in one of my college psychology classes, we saw a young trans woman, and me and my friend were having a joke between ourselves, and I said: "if you didn't know, would you date her". And of course we both said yes, but what I was too afraid to say at the time was: even if I DID know, I'd date her. Because she was beautiful. Now I do believe that because trans women (and trans men) tend to have a lot of surgery they essentially get a second chance to make themselves beautiful. Whereas most cis-women tend to live with their natural looks.
And you like men who are feminine be honest because they need validation from straight men because their dysmorphia tells them they are trapped in the wrong body which is not true! You validating them as a female on the same level as a biological female makes it difficult because ultimately they can't be a woman
I am straight and also attracted very much towards transgender. Learned alot from this video . I don't mind dating trans women if i am attracted and in love with her
I really love how you break everything down and how you explain it so easily. I’m a man in relationship with a transwoman, and honestly I’m tired of all the labelling. I kinda thought I was bi, but I’m not attracted to men, so there it is. I wish society was more about individualism than having to label everything. Thank you for a great video, even tho I came late to the party!
Here are some random thoughts I had while wacthing this video. I'm a straight guy who finds trans women attractive. (Like the beautiful trans woman who made this video) However they have to actually make an effort to look like women. Like most men I'm not attracted to drag queens. I don't mean to be nasty but I am kind of grossed out by drag queens, because they look masculine. There are some biological females who look more like men than women? Even though they were born female they have masculine features. One of the benifits of dating a trans woman could be that they understand the male experience better than a biological woman, this makes them more empathetic towards their boyfriends/ husbands.
@@ElKnoppers you are so damn typical. You complimented her then tooknit back by sayimg we have to work harder to look beautiful. Why cant you accept someone at face value. What and who we are as humans are in our minds and our hearts/souls. The body is secondary. Ive never been clocked. But have been outed by old so called friennds. And it sounds like you are the type that cant accept us. Im not a genetic woman and from what ive seen of most i dont want to be No one judges you for plastic surgery i dont then whyvdo you people make such a big deal out of ours.
@@aprylrittenhouse4562 When did I compliment HIM, a genetic woman you say, are you even a woman at all? You know why we make a big deal since are always trying to say to society that you are also women when that is the furthest from the truth and what it means to be a woman yada yada yada
I have a fabulous friend who is MTF and now is a full woman and I love her all the way through her transition and is still is a fabulous friend I adore transgender people after all we are all a little male and female I would love to be with a transgender person whether a MTF or FTM person would not matter to me because we are all female and male thanks for the time
I'm actually bisexual I've been with men and women so I honestly don't see being with somebody trans that big of a deal but that's me you're beautiful too
This was a very good video. I'm attracted to the female form but I find myself more attracted to trans women because they are more feminine and many cis women today carry themselves with masculine traits and attitudes and straight men are not attracted to masculinity no matter how beautiful the woman is. And I believe that's one of the reasons many men are turning away from dating cis women. Society can call me gay for being attracted to trans women but at the end of the day I blow it of my shoulder. And it makes no difference if she plans to get SRS or not, I would accept her either way.
@@wolfgang548 How can you prove you are right? It’s cool if trans women are your preference, but you saying they are more feminine than cis women is very debatable. I’m personally not attracted to trans women, but I’ll never shame anyone if that’s their preference.
@Amy Paps First, trans women do not spend money on surgeries to look like women, they do it to alleviate their dysphoria. What motivates us is not our desire to “ be a woman “, rather to give us peace with ourselves. Do women get breast augmentations to impress others or to alleviate an insecurity? Your insistence that only a “gay” man would date a trans woman is rather myopic. Do men only find your vagina attractive or does your other qualities keep them interested?
This is so concisely explained, you blew me away. I consider myself Bi, but I am only attracted to feminine gay/bi men and cis or trans women. I have a preference for women, but the penis is definitely a bonus, not a deal breaker. As you explained so incredibly well, it's ALWAYS about the individual. A person is not a porno sex slave. I am not attracted to masculine male figures, but sensitive and feminine men, yes absolutely. But my ideal preference is a woman, whether she is a cis-woman OR trans-woman. Obviously it is different for me as I am Bisexual, but I have my preferences and they always relate to the personality of the individual and how we treat each other as lovers. Thank you for a great explanation and I hope my little addition here assists others in understanding the issues you discussed. You are stunningly attractive btw, and any man would be lucky to have an understanding and non-judgemental girlfriend like you. Peace and love ❤💖💙🤎💚🖤🤍
As a cis woman i think you are really gorgeous and would definitely consider dating a woman such as you if you're open to having a girlfriend.Ive never dated women before but always fantasized about it.❤
Lol, if you would be involved with that guy (the male behind this channel) or a person who say they are ''trans female'' that means they are males and you would not be involved with a female at all, but a male. Deal with reality. Bye.
regardless most of the collective mind of society will label you bisexual in the least. but awareness like this can slowly change that with time. to me it doesnt really matter people can label me whatever they want but i will stand firm with whatever i identify as.
I personally feel it's not only looks, but confidence as well. I find trans women to be absolutely stunning, and it's attractive to see them come out and be who they are!
I actually had a man that was interested in me and the one thing that kept him from asking me out for so long was being considered as gay in his own mind. I mentioned that I had asked if he had any interest in one part on me and he had said no, not at all. I asked if that was still true and he said yes... he said that I am attracted to you though. I said to him that a gay man likes someone that is manly. If either of us would be gay, that would be myself by consideration of the label. I see myself as straight though, I give a feminine appearance to match my inner self to be appealing to men because I like men. A gay man usually wouldn't want to be with someone that is feminine or even looks feminine. I hate labels on people, they don't make sense on people because we are too complex to be labelled. You love who you want and you should, life is too short to be living a lie and denying yourself happiness in life.
So you say you supposedly ''hate labels'' and yet you see yourself as ''straight'' lool. Saying it so easily too, nothing wrong with labels, so you clearly do not hate it. Lol.
Same sx attraction is always gay and when you are inside the womb you are the gender that you will forever be, there is no change for that, so if both were the same sx when inside your mother's womb that makes it gay.
@@Vero2yu Just using the idiotic labeling system. There is something wrong with labels on people. Why is it anyone else's business what any two adults are doing. You should be paying attention to what goes on in your life instead of someone else's. Label that.
@@Vero2yu So, in your fantasyland world... someone that has had sex reassignment surgery, they are still the other sex? A male that has their gender changed to female will find it difficult to have a sexual relationship as a male. You are who you are based on your mindset. Think of everything that you as Veronica love about being woman. Who you are attracted to and dreams of the future. Now, think of all of that and then when you are in the shower, you look down and see male sex organs. That's what transgendered people go through every day. Some have a chance to make changes if they can afford it. To align their body with their mind. You however, for some strange reason want to see them for how they were at birth only. For your information, gay men are interested in manly men. One hint of femininity and they usually lose all interest. See how the labels just don't work with people too well.
I support you and every trans...they're human like us and it's natural to find them attractive.. idc what's inside your pants 👖..it's all inside (in your heart), not outside..you were crying during the whole video.. please don't, you are gorgeous ❤
Fear of societal repercussion is what causes anxiety in many men. Awareness of the mixed/negative feelings surrounding gender can make the thought of such desires seem too risky. New subscriber
I’m a cis man who lived with low testosterone for many years, beginning with puberty. So I was lacking in masculine characteristics, even though I was obviously a guy, and had little interest from women. This changed dramatically when I began injecting testosterone… women initially picked up on little things, like the change in vocal inflection… then later on big things, like the large increase in muscle mass. It really hit home for me that people are largely attracted to the outward representation of our hormonal makeup.
It's a personal thing. Sometimes one doesn't always understand exactly what attracts us to someone but somehow it just works well. I'm a transgender woman and right now I'm just waiting for someone to honestly tell me they're attracted to me.Only 2 have in the past year and unfortunately they're married and looking to experiment. I'm not a fetish item or a "side mistress". Someday I'll find someone who just wants me because I'm the beautiful woman I am.🥰♀️💖🏳️⚧️
It will take a while for (much of) the Straight World to "get it". Your point is well taken. I just discovered Fran's channel, & found myself attracted to her. I didn't know, found out later, didn't care. She's a wonderful person! I'm much more interested in her mind than technicalities of body parts!...
That was a great experiment and even threw me for a loop. As a transwoman myself I was totally attracted to those guys. I believe wholeheartedly that we are attracted to femininity or masculinity first & the sex of that person secondarily.
Just because you're attracted to a trans person doesn't make you gay, bi, or any less straight. We trans women are women, trans men are men, nonbinary people are nonbinary, and that's that. Signed, a trans lesbian
trans women are males that look like a woman so it still a gay, its not 100 percent gay but still gay nonetheless. also if you are having sex with a penis or a mutilated penis and ballsack aka post op mtf you are gay. also there is nothing wrong with being gay. so many guys are afraid of being gay even though they have gay qualities.
I'm a straight cis gender male and I find women incredibly attractive, be they cis gender or trans women, doesn't matter to me. Attraction is attraction, beauty is beauty, femininity is femininity. I love women, period, point blank. Thank you for making this video, Lee, you're incredibly stunning. All the best!
As a cis (hate that term) female I wasn't attracted to the men you showed. I thought they looked odd but couldn't put my finger on why. Just being honest but maybe I'm the only one.
Agreed. Very feminine looking. I prefer more masculine looking men. I can appreciate an attractive woman or attractive person, but if that person doesn’t have a penis I wouldn’t have a sexual relationship with them. I’m straight. Whether some “appears” male or not is irrelevant if they have a vagina.
I think guys who tell you point blanc that they ain't interested are being more honest and more of a gentleman than the chasers. The guys who would agree to discreet hookups with trans women yet refuse to date them seriously are the real hypocrites though. Not a trans woman, but as a woman who used to be overweight, I had guys with "chubby girl fetish" who wanted to get dirty with me but were ashamed to hold my hand in public or view me as gf/wife material. I much preferred the guys who told me directly that I am not their type. Sure it hurt. But being fetishized hurts lot more in my experience.
For me it is strange. I'm a bi trans guy, but I find transwoman more attractive to me. I think it is a feeling of empathy(bc I'm also trans) and I think they are strong. That they look beautiful and they are people that deserve to be more admired. Thanks for the video, it was quite interesting.
It was a very uncomfortable moment for me when I realized that some transwomen were prettier and more feminine than many biological women I know. It made me think that if a person born as a male can appear more convincingly female than biological women, then maybe biological women aren't tryin very hard.
I remember when I came out,people thought I was bi. I'm not attracted to guys and I'm into women only. I've had so many problems with chasers. I got no idea why people ask me and other trans women what we got downstairs
I understand but that question will inevitable be asked, I met a guy in a club 3 years ago, we chatted and he bought me a cocktail, he asked me for my number, drove me back to my apartment and kiss me goodnight, a week late he took me out to dinner, on our 2nd date I told him I was transgender, he was shocked and surprise but thanked me for my honesty, he eventually asked me about downstairs and I told him I had SRS (Vaginoplasty surgery) I now have a Vulva and fully functional Vagina, I ain't got no rod that's for sure, we're still dating after 2 years and now engaged, he accepts me as a woman which I'm most definitely am and he can't believe I was born ''male''
I mostly think cause of the way some dress by exemple if some boys dress fem they will be automaticly gay and it s*cks and so its the same for girls who are a little bit masc
The thing is, being feminine isn't just something women can be. Men can feminine too. So if a man likes you, it is a man who likes feminine men. A gay man. Sorry but that is the truth.
I'm demi/grey ace and this video was interesting even though I was a little bit confused at parts due to being on the ace spectrum but over all good and understandable
Thank you for this. I'm a married man who had never been attracted(that i know of) to a trans woman until 2 years ago and I've never watched transgender porn. Someone in the group I was with at a concert brought someone along who I was infatuated with. It was extremely confusing. It's made me mentally challenge my marriage and what I'd known about my sexuality my entire adult life. I've never had these feelings explained to me so simply like this.
From my research on this subject is that men who are attracted to male to female transgenders who have had surgery for bust enlargement possibly facial feminization and without genital removal and reconstruction is that these males in their sexual attractions are usually completely different to straight males and gay males . Males who are attracted to transsexuals in general are very bland in their own appearance often showing nothing feminine in the way they dress or in their mannerisms . They usually have no attraction to men who look like men and are often turned off by photos of good looking men and gay videos and also it would be much harder to attract these men to have sex with another masculine male than it would be for a straight male to be enticed to have sex with other male Men who are attracted to transgenders often are completely captured by their interest in transsexuals and have no interest in having sex with either males or females who look like their own gender also because there is a limited supply of transsexuals in the community , men who are very interested in transgenders often spend a lot of money by paying transgenders as escorts to help satisfy their attraction and their need to be with a transgender .
That theory about masculinity versus femininity seems to be spot on. Someone should do an actual study on this stuff - seems deep. By the way, I'm straight and I definitely find you attractive. Not sure if I would be comfortable with a sexual relationship with a trans girl, but I guess I'll never know until I try ...
It may seem obvious to many but I never really thought about it like that. You blew my mind when you told me the pics of the guys were ftm! Lol thanks for explaining that in the simplest way possible.
I'm really glad to hear that ! Thanx a ton ! It takes load of pressure off my brain REALLY ! ppl do have misconceptions and such myths are planted everywhere so they need be busted ! We all deserve to live with liberty in our society, hence not be labelled as 'gay' or the slang which is mostly used by some 'fag' in case if a straight guy like me is into a trans woman ♀️. Also, the trans women should not be considered as 'gay' for possessing male genitals and having relationship with a guy. Indeed, what you told is right! Thanx again. Hoping for the best. Lots of love 💕 waiting for more videos from you !! :)
Your analysis is just so spot on. The line "I sort of become their counselor" i especially liked. I think Cis-Woman think of you as a threat because alot of married men are attracted to trans.
tbh this is a silly thing to say. If I were at a bar there is a 90% chance you'd be f&^%ing me with your eyes. Why? because you woudl be attracted to me. Period.
@@leefrancis007 that doesn’t have to do with anything I said what I said is it a supposedly straight man knows you are trans and still likes you are is attracted to you you are gay
I think a part of the threat is the breaking of what is perspective of reality one has been embedded into. We form identity within the blanket of our perceived reality and should be broken by a challenge it unconsciously threatens our identity and comfort. This was a discussion in general and social psychology which I personally find to be a good explanation
'Femininity' and 'masculinity' are sex stereotypes, not sexes. Sexual orientation is based on sex. That's why it's called sexual attraction, not 'gender' attraction. That's why straight women can be attracted to 'feminine' men, straight men can be attracted to 'unfeminine' women, and likewise for gays and lesbians. Men who are attracted to transwomen are therefore either gay or bi. It really is that simple.
Exactly. I have never had one moment of sexual or romantic interest in a man. I'm attracted to trans women and cis women - but not ALL of them! LOL. It really comes down to the person in front of me. Call it feminine energy, call it force of personality, call it kismet - it's about wanting to share intimacy and to please and be pleased. The junk-in-the-basement becomes irrelevant when you really really really want to kiss someone.
Well said. I'm just a normal guy. Been married three times. Didn't really work out. Single for over 21 years, now. Never even dated. But, given the chance, I wouldn't hesitate to hang out with you. You are very attractive.
I am a male-attracted trans woman, and I've had that experience of meeting a guy, thinking he was hot, and getting along really well, but when I found out he had no rooster, hopes of dating shattered. Transsexuality doesn't make anyone innately less attractive to the opposite sex, per se, but wanting to take on a certain sexual role, or perform a certain sexual act, with a certain sexual apparatus, is a legitimate reason to disqualify certain partners.
Wow! You really explained that well. I will use your terminology from now on. Because you really broke this down to where any one could understand this. Thank you. And have a great day!
You are so strong, It must be so difficult having to council confused men. It would hurt me to feel that I'm being experimented on. I'm a 62 year old woman (can't believe that I'm that old!). I think your amazing making this fantastic video, it really makes the point well.
You are quite insightful and clearly compassionate - probably would make a great therapist for real 😀 Another interesting thing to discuss might be the Fa’afafine within Samoan culture sometimes referred to as “the third gender” - quite similar to what you are describing in terms of men viewing the Fa’afafine as women/feminine regardless of assigned gender at birth or genitalia etc. Great video - thanks
Clearly it really bothers them. Has any trans person NOT claimed straight men want to sleep with them or that it’s also not gay because he “looks like a girl”.
Darling you are a beautiful woman don't ever let no man or woman talk down to you, don't ever think you're not good enough cuz you are absolutely stunning.
THANK YOU. Well stated. Very empathetic and kind in your approach to men who are trying to understand their sexuality, and I deeply appreciate and respect you for that.
I always thought of myself as a straight men, and I can relate to what you were talking about after a straight men's first sexual experience with a trans woman. For me it was in Pattaya Thailand. She was beautiful and a complete woman. Just a little more. The next morning I felt guilt and think what did I do. Why did I enjoy it. So for years I stayed in denial and tried to forget it. Recently though I met another trans woman in Vietnam. Again she's a convincing woman, we talked a while and I realized that I was getting feelings for her. Instead of denying them, I accepted them. She was a woman, even though pre op, and a beautiful woman. Wouldn't call it love, but a connection. Being with her felt good and natural this time and I didn't have guilt, I had desire to see her again, as I would for any other woman. I'm glad I met her though so I could realize and accept the feelings that I had.
Im a straight man and I love being with trans women specially when they like going both ways in sex, as I do myself. And no, even though I like being passive sometimes im not attracted to men at all! The Male figure doesn't attract me at all.
I don't know why I am saying this cause my sexuality is private thing that I normal. I like to keep it to myself. I am Bi. I don't mind naturally born women, trans women and guys who have some feminine traits not the manly kind. It kind of feels weird saying that. So being with a trans wouldn't freak me out. I would like to know they are trans before anything intimate like kissing and other stuff happens cause honesty is big for me. By the looking very pretty there.
I agree 110% I'm gay and military and ive been that experiment with countless straight guys. Luckily I keep a lot of them as friends. But you nailed everything on the head for gay guys too
I think your missing the point that no they aren’t necessarily gay, but they also clearly aren’t straight either. A straight person might think a transgender person is attractive but they wouldn’t be attracted to them on finding out - because they are attracted to people of the opposite sex. That is what heterosexual means. So a person attracted to a trans of their same sex isn’t straight
Your voice is so soothing. It doesn’t read male even to my trained eye as a trans person I watched your videos and found one specifically mentioning you as mtf and even after that I still had a hard time clocking you. You exude a soft and delicate femininity and carry yourself quite elegantly. Even with your shoulders they are rounded and feminine plus it’s normally for us trans women to have broad shoulders if we are tall. I admire you because you have my body type and don’t overdo it per say. You are very very attractive and the long side fringe looks perfect on you!!
I'm straight and I have been married and I prefer transwomen. I started talking with a transwomen while I was married. Then we met for a weekend. Then we started seeing each other every chance we could. Then she moved close to me and we were seeing everyday. We are now engaged and as soon as we can will be getting married
Great video, lovely thought experiment! I think Tribal Talker had a sentiment that's similar to my own for the most part, however, I'm straight. I like the idea of seeing people from a perspective kind of like off of "Shallow Hal. Where when Hal was under hypnosis, and interacted with people he saw the "them" their inner most wanted to project. You as the Transgender I would defer to as the expert, but isn't that essentially the nature of your physical struggle, trying to make the physical match the metaphysical of your being? If so, I have no issue with it, in and of itself other than the Genetic Continuance Imperative (CGI). But that is an issue concerning the creation of a family, not one of one's sexuality. And on that front, once science allows the GCI to be realized for Trans-folk, so mother-hood can be a thing for those wishing it, good times can be had by all and we would I suppose need to work on figuring out the reverse for the FtM scenarios if they want to sire young themselves. If they can find a way to make Biden President, they can find a way to do this too I tell you, have faith in science! I can't say I feel gay for finding a transwoman attractive any more than I do for acknowledging when I know a female (all inclusive) would find a particular male attractive (all inclusive), if they've got that thang, they gonna make it do what it do! Just like you was doing in that mirror! -_^ But I ain't one to gossip... .
It's like the ladies in Hollywood, we all find them beautiful after makeup, but without it most guys wouldn't give them the time of day, if you think I'm wrong just search the internet for the pics. It's like the old saying, "Beauty is only skin deep" that all makeup can cover. If anyone thinks this is offensive, deal with it, I don't care.
That’s conditioning for you. And it depends on who it is; most women aren’t lookers without makeup, save for someone like Regina King, but I find her attractive in a “aged like wine” way, not sexually. Kim Kardashian? Yawn.
