WHY THINGS ONLY GET WORSE WITH NARCISSISTS

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#narcissist #narcissisticabuse Narcissists can keep us trapped in abusive relationships with the false hope that things are just about to get better. But in abusive relationships with narcissists, things are only ever getting worse. Understanding why things will never get better with the narcissist in your life can help you let go of the false hope that keeps you trapped.
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@stephenmechan2451 Год назад

I watched a fake light at the end of the tunnel for over 20 years - ending up with nothing!

@yougotgroove Год назад

The sad thing is when they see you sufferring, feeling the pain and hurt you are feeling, they smile, and experience joy. They enjoy hurting you. Today I ended the relationship 4 hr drive from home. We had to drive 4 hours after I ended it with her after our first evening away on vacation....prepaid by me, and when I said in the morning, there is no point in staying here for a week. So, she had to tell me she doesn't love me. I said so why are you here with me almost three years in a relationship, that once she hooked me, she became a completly other person! 57 years old, she is only going to get worse. She now has the gift of my ever lasting silence!

@jonathanbaum6867 9 месяцев назад

The only way to solve a relationship with this type of person is to get out AS SOON as they refuse to acknowledge their bad behavior.

@SC-zw2uy Год назад

Your explanation is absolutely accurate. Trying to have a healthy relationship with a person who behaves like this is a torturous effort in utter futility. Thank you for the validation.

@JH-td4mn 11 месяцев назад

You really hit the nail on the head. I started to feel that my desire and efforts to have a healthy, reciprocal, happy relationship was somehow held in contempt by the Narcissist. It made no sense.

@urbansurvivor360 7 месяцев назад

Beautifully put 👏

@riac5388 Год назад

Dealing with a narc is like entering a maze that continually expands and becomes more complicated. That is one way to describe how I feel when dealing with them.

@Job.Well.Done_01 Год назад

This is so scary. So terrifying.

@dlocke49 10 месяцев назад

The ONLY solution is to jump out of the maze trap like a crazy rat as fast as you can to escape!

@riac5388 10 месяцев назад

@@dlocke49 agreed!

@casperinsight3524 9 месяцев назад

The mouse trapped in a maze conditioned to find the cheese

@riac5388 9 месяцев назад

@@casperinsight3524 That is how Narcs keep you interested. They hang the carrot or cheese, to keep you hanging on, this way, they use your supply. We have to stop chasing the cheese!

@BrendaBaBoom Год назад

“Toxic hope” says it all. The good and the thrill is gone …. forever.

@farrellhuff3889 Год назад

forever is what we are trying to fix . our hope is not toxic - it is the only thing good about it . thrill can never be depleted - it just gets stuck by some mud in the road .

@BrendaBaBoom Год назад

@@farrellhuff3889 forever trying to fix hopeful optimism IS indeed toxic and not a good thing. thrill can & will be depleted - it just gets stuck on stupid by some mud in the road …. going nowhere.

@farrellhuff3889 Год назад

@@BrendaBaBoom so forget optimism in people you gave your hope to stuck in the mud . that still leaves your hope to find other people that never got stuck OR got out of the rut .

@BrendaBaBoom Год назад

@@farrellhuff3889 I’d recommend SEEK other people and the possibility of new hope. If there’s a rut, don’t get stuck in the mud …. RUN ….🏃🏽‍♀️….

@farrellhuff3889 Год назад

@@BrendaBaBoom we try to help -classic case of pushing when the rear wheels spin mu in our face

@jenilynneful 4 месяца назад

back to normal really just means me pretending to be happy and walking carefully on the eggshells to stabilize him and halt the abuse

@casperinsight3524 9 месяцев назад

There is no light at the end of the tunnel only a depressing funnel of toxic hope going down the drain

@jaydixson1731 Год назад

My narc got so bad. I was like holy f ing crap. Insanity

@jonathanbaum6867 9 месяцев назад

You keep thinking it’s going to get better if you just do this one thing. TODAY is the day. Not tomorrow, today. If you like being a doormat, go right ahead, stay .

@robertdemeter5793 8 месяцев назад

Well put my dear. They are a complete waste of energy and time. Nine years I was involved with a Narc and it only gets progressively worse over time, slowly but surely their ridiculous masks start to fly off and you can see the hell-ish creature they really are.

@feliciajoy2264 6 месяцев назад

Me to . Almost 9 years now... 😢 It's a horrible horrible way to be...😢

@prant8998 9 месяцев назад

This is called, "intermittent reinforcement," a well researched cycle of abuse and manipulation that all animals on earth, not just humans, are vulnerable to. They know exactly what they are doing. While we all treasure the good times with these people, their whole reason for being in the relationship is for the abusive times. They know that if they were abusive all the time, you would leave! So there, "act,” is the pleasant times, their real selves is the abusive part, that’s what they live for, and that’s why they want you. Ultimately, they are sadists. They get pleasure out of hurting you. Respect yourself, and leave these people, you deserve love and respect.

@johnlovesbridge Год назад

The cause of npd is not fully understood, but RU-vid narc gurus hold "childhood" completely responsible. Problem is, you can give two people the same childhood and one will be a narcissist and one won't.

@explorer0213 Год назад

No it needs a mix of genetics and bad parenting.

@foxiefair123 Год назад

That’s just an excuse. I’m a sober alcoholic, and it’s similar to what we do when we’re drinking. We use everything in our lives as an excuse to drink, and none of our problems are our fault. It’s not a valid excuse for us, and it’s not a valid excuse for them either.

@JH-td4mn Год назад

They also say it's due to abusive, neglectful parenting. I disagree with this. I was told that the Narc I was in a relationship with was much loved as a child, although I think his father's a Narcissist as well. As 1 of 4 siblings, my oldest brother is a Narcissist, the rest of us aren't. He was indulged and not given enough boundaries. I know spoiling isn't good parenting but it's not exactly abusive. I think NPD has a strong genetic component in a similar way to other neurodivergent conditions such as autism. In my mind, Narcissism is a disability, which has a massive, negative impact on people around them.

@mr.makedonija2627 Год назад

WRONG! 2 kids raised together can have VERY different upbringingS

@laurahenry3562 9 месяцев назад

@@foxiefair123it’s not a excuse but it is part of the problem ,

@Ben-tr1ef 11 месяцев назад

One question a friend of mine constantly asks is why did I stay so long, knowing the difficulties. I never really had an answer to this, but now I believe it's the hope or the refusal to accept the hopelessness of the situation. I'm finding it's not until spending time apart can the whole story be seen more comprehensively. Whilst in the relationship the constant ups and downs are extremely distracting. Now I'm out I realise barely a day passed where comments about my clothes, my friends, the way I walk, my eyes, how I eat etc., etc., etc., we're fired at me. The abuse is constant which is why it's hard to see, it's normalised to the point of indoctrination, cult like......

@staceystrukel1917 7 месяцев назад

Yes! All the pieces of the puzzle don’t come together until you leave. You’re in a state of a confusion but once there gone it’s like you can breathe again and see clearly. Relationship confusion is abuse.

@annag3402 6 месяцев назад

Time invested keeps people stuck.

@treelover1050 2 месяца назад

COGNITIVE DISSONANCE MOVES TO SEEING THE OBJECTIVE REALITY OF HOW WE ARE TREATED.

@chrisg7996 Год назад

Very accurate. Especially the parts about not respecting the boundaries and how you just can't win no matter what you do.

@BigRebel0802 4 месяца назад

I always get queezy just thinking of these evil people.

@berict Год назад

Things only got much much worse

@leonablack3516 Год назад

The love bombing stage becomes less , straight into the devaluation stage , and they will discard YOU AGAIN . same old, same old ... It never gets better ,it does get worse, the narcissist will never get better, they never take accountability. It's an adult/child relationship. No contact ,block and move on with your life , you have been a victim of abuse , dont go from being a victim to being a volunteer.

@misskhoury1765 Год назад

When you’ve been discarded how long before they came back?

@ianarn Год назад

@@misskhoury1765 I think it depends if they find new supply and how much that one injures them and then they’ll scroll back to you! Mine has been 5 months now and the relationship was only 10 months with a one month reverse discard in between. I’m told you have to give the final discard as they’ll keep coming back particularly if you have things they want to take. My ex still keeps her ex boyfriend up on social media of a “four year relationship”. But i rather suspect it was of a make up break up nature as he ended up in therapy when she discarded him but he now has a new GF. Their social media is just for show and in the meantime they are sleeping around and looking for a better long term prospect but of course this will not happen as they are the common denominator and they cannot see fault in themselves.

@leonablack3516 8 месяцев назад

@@misskhoury1765 you dont want that demon back.

@actionpls. 2 месяца назад

The more I loved and the more I did and gave, the worse the relationship became.

@maryw3989 8 месяцев назад

When your in a toxic situationship (they don't have relationships) with one if you don't leave them then you are giving them permission to treat you worse than they did before if you go back and try to work on it with them they see that as they didn't do anything wrong and if they didn't do anything wrong then they have no reason to change you wiped the slate clean and you are not allowed to bring up anything bad that they ever did to you before. While they use you, they lie to you, cheat on you and they steal from you that's what mine did to me anyway.

@Leaptab Год назад

The worst is being the scapegoat and seeing the narcissist acting properly and loving to the golden child. You see they are capable of being normal so it is within them yet they refuse to act this wway towards you no matter how much you try to be nice or a pleaser. You get trolled or gaslight that things potentially could be a healthy relationship when reality is that it's aall an illusion, a mirage, to coerse you to do what the narcissist wants from you.

@positiveenergy4131 Год назад

I have no expectations of anything getting better with this incorrigible monster. None whatsoever.

@mynewlife1911 11 месяцев назад

When I gave up on the narc is the day things in my life started to get better little by little. It takes time to get depressed and anxious w a narc and it will take time to climb back out of h ell too so be kind and patient w yourself. You will heal in a new environment but it won’t be overnight. Much love to y’all. You can do it.

@vijaykumardasara 8 месяцев назад

😢😢❤

@mearis8133 Год назад

My ex would argue for hours and yes until 3am! I always felt he kept at it until he made me cry, then he'd stop. I'm just now realizing he was/is narcissistic.

@Job.Well.Done_01 Год назад

Hello there; and TY for your videos. I am working on telling my story of having survived marriage to a very emotionally unhealthy individual. It is NOT easy to convey the nuances because some of the elements of the story seem INCONCEIVABLE even to the one who lived through it. Am I wrong? Inconceivable that another human being could manufacture such literal torment on another person. If it’s bad enough, it will bathe you in fear. At its worst, it can strip your sanity and end your existence permanently. It is awful; and by ANY measure one of the darkest journeys that any person can undergo. PLEASE continue to spread this awareness Thank you so much ❤

@Greenwitch_Garden 7 месяцев назад

30-something years of the cycle of abuse with my mother. I finally went no contact after years of reduced contact after realizing she was a monster that will never change. LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE! It is the only way to emotional freedom. ❤

@actionpls. 2 месяца назад

These kind of people will cheat on you ,and say it's because you didn't pay attention to me. While they always pulled away from you if you even touched them.

@BigRebel0802 7 месяцев назад

I noticed the subtle cutting comments that left me scratching my head while my ex and I were dating. I actually said after the first comment that if this is how you’re going to communicate, then we have no future. So, she stopped. Then a year later after we were married, she started slow and it built for 12 years, after which she left with my 4 very young children on our 14th anniversary because we argued too much about her being a country music bar band singer!!! 3 of my 4 adult children have major issues, especially my adult daughter who has PTSD, perhaps because her stepdad used to hit her until I witnessed it and made him stop. Mom knew. Or maybe they are all just messed up because they all know their mom is a habitual liar. Who told me once that she lies about little things but not about big things, after I asked how I could tell when she was telling the truth!! I could write a book on my experiences with that woman with no exaggeration or embellishments, just facts: and everyone would say it was fiction. We can’t make this stuff up. 🤪

@lauriekirn1472 5 месяцев назад

Behavior that is too bizarre to make up. So hard to comprehend for those in the situation as well as those who are being told of the abuse.

@theresamorello9892 Год назад

Toxic hope -- the triumph of hope over experience.

@sototallyover2359 Год назад

At about 14:00 minutes, you talk about crossing boundaries. This is what is so hard to fathom. Our boundaries mean "game on", they want to fight. To them our boundaries don't have consequences. In my opinion, this is why cognitive dissonance is so important to break.

@chrisg7996 Год назад

I made the mistake of taking her back after a break up and then marrying her. After we got married, it just got worse and worse. The more I tried to enforce my boundaries the more she argued and retaliated. I took it for just over 2 years. My divorce will be final in 2 days. They don't care about boundaries, your feelings, the truth, or reality in general. Everything is based on how they feel and what they want.

@actionpls. 2 месяца назад

Never ask them for anything, just do what they want. Your needs mean absolutely nothing to them. You're just a problem they need to get rid of. Like every other relationship they ever had in the past. You may not have wanted a divorce until you realize you need one because they just get worse not better. You give everytime and get nothing from this kind of relationship. They just can't be nice to you. They create a negative relationship, then blame you for it.

@neoremonstrance Год назад

As usual, an insightful video presentation, LBTM. The very character of the toxic, malignant narcissist (i.e. a wicked human being) is contrary to health, flourishing, and harmony. For, if one loves lies and deception, serves and seeks for self, enjoys harming, and has no genuine concern for the well-being of others, s/he can be no other than a detriment to others.

@user-ej4sk8bc2l 6 месяцев назад

Its hope smashed,over and over and over.Theyre oblivious about the damage.My life was like a smasheď vase.

@bradjackson78 Год назад

The part where you describe the timeline with the ups and downs absolutely resonated with me... I actually had a revelation of this and drew it on a piece of paper and tried to talk through it with my wife about a year ago. I wanted her to understand how I feel and my perspective on where we find ourselves now after 22 years of marriage. It was a rare occurrence that she allowed me to share while appearing to listen but once I was done explaining she just carried on with the next subject of discussion like there was nothing more to discuss about it.

@susanneosborne7861 9 месяцев назад

What a relief I stumbled upon your video. You're really good! I've watched 1,000 videos on narcissistic relationships and you are so articulate! I immediately began feeling calmer listening to your knowledge. I've been in an emotional state for weeks over a breakup with a narcissist and in those weeks it's been push pull, on off, peaceful and sweet, then silent treatment over benign whatever. Sometimes I don't even know. My brain is scrambled. Anyway, THANK YOU! I'll listen to this one over and over. You reminded me why I'm getting out. Or trying to.

@susanwilcox5763 7 месяцев назад

Holding onto shreds of toxic hope.. that’s the only reason the victim stays. They just WANT to be wrong about what they’re experiencing. They have hope. The only way to stop this cycle of abuse followed by now being “good” is to walk away and never look back.

@donnagreen5186 Год назад

They are empty vessels you can’t fill a bucket with a hole in the bottom. Run for you life. GoSo please 🙏

@jenilynneful Год назад

My husband has identified with NPD. He says he plans to go to therapy and has confided in me some of the very deep self fragmentation issues, lack of empathy, lack of object constancy. It's devastating. The abuse he endured as a child is devastating, and he didn't ask for this. HIs brain adapted in a normal way for an abnormal situation. He was robbed of himself as an infant. Yet this is his cross to bear. I am optimistic, but doing my best not to feel elation as if this revelation will simply fix everything. Things are “ normal” plus right now. The plus is I met my husband of ten years for the first time, just a little bit, a few weeks ago. I hope I can be there when he finds himself, but I won't tolerate abuse.

@Kontro_Kev 8 месяцев назад

Everything was spot on the fighting till 3am and u gotta go to work the next day and they know ur tired ur gonna call off. They are absolutely aware of what they doing she hit everything on the head man

@someonenew9442 Год назад

Yes, absolutely and sadly true. 30 years hoping against hope, got to where I couldn’t enjoy the ‘lulls’ because I knew the storms would come - they became more frequent and bewildering. I cut my losses 3 years ago. Only in retrospect, I realised I never had my own identity in his eyes, he rarely used my name, I was ‘wifey’ or ‘petal dove’ or Mrs (surname). Difficult to understand this is a flag, an ‘ownership’ flag.

@robertdemeter5793 8 месяцев назад

Every-one, change your number immediately (as eye did twelve years ago...and never looked back.....after almost a decade of that gongshow) and never give them the satisfaction to ever hear your voice/see you for the rest of your life. Remove them out COMPLETELY. Free-dom !. .

@ekobrain3331 8 месяцев назад

It's a progression on the road to perdition ....

@SheldonBrown567 7 месяцев назад

I wasted 35 years of my life, hoping things would get better. Run now! 😂

@gwendolynwehage6336 5 месяцев назад

In my experience with family members. they do get worse as they grow older, you are right about this. It took me years to realize that there is nothing down that road with the narcissist. I have ended contact with my family when I finally got it that things will not get better no matter how kind I was to them. I have been criticized for making a nice dinner and setting a pretty table, as though I did something wrong. Terrible ungratefulness and even ruthlessness over a kind act. I no longer have hope with them but have great hope that God has moved me on with new friends who don't act the way the narc does. When I have been gone from the narcs for a few years I look back and see things as even worse than I viewed them, getting time away reveals how dark and mean they have been.

@leah387 Год назад

So they consciously think these things? It’s not subconscious behavior? I don’t know why it’s so hard for me to wrap my dense brain around that. It’s unimaginable! 12:19

@carryjgful Год назад

Based on the person ive wasted 5+ years of futile emotion and misguided unrewarded devotion to...its both. They seem to consciously do acts but a lot of thngs they say (to get reactions) and patterns are subconscious in the way that its become habit for them. Practiced actions & responses or kneejerk reactions to our outrage & speaking up are so quick I finally realized he wasnt even thinking about it. Just blurt shyt out like a yo mama contest. Dosn't care if it makes sense or not, as long as it makes you startled, question or be bewildered more.

@BigRebel0802 7 месяцев назад

You are so accurate and insightful on all of your observations! You know how when the truth is spoken so clearly and simply that people get a relieving involuntary belly laugh? Humor itself is healing for that very reason: an unexpected truth is unexpectedly revealed!! Great videos!

@elliedeblake5322 10 месяцев назад

I have been looking for a while for a video on this topic. I left my abuser about 5 months ago. And the question that has haunted was why it always got worse. By the end of the relationship, I literally gave them anything they wanted. They had absolute freedom and dominance, and yet they demanded more. When I had given everything and felt like just a hollow shell, I was then also demanded to act as if I wasn’t hurting and to change things in their world that were literally impossible for me to impact, like troubles at their work. And if I was impacted too much by their behavior (too much crying or too much depression) or not enough by it, I would be punished more. It was like being punched for an imaginary offense and then punched a second time as punishment if I bruised too much or not enough.

@RatedArggg 8 месяцев назад

Toxic hope - phrase of the century.

@danovangrinnell4479 Год назад

Perpetual.Waste

@janellmcgowens811 Год назад

I was like that but now I can see wow what my husband put me through all those years. My husband is getting worse

@1010QUEEN7 Год назад

It did get worse and worse

@goldfox399 6 месяцев назад

Mine attacked me and then called the police to say I attacked her!

@dottyp137 Год назад

I love listening to you my friend, you make so much sense and you help me see things that are there in plain sight. Thank you so much for your videos. Hope the world is being kind to you. You take care x

@bradjackson78 Год назад

You have such a good way of explaining things clearly and succinctly. Thank you.

@cajuncrackerranch7990 Год назад

OUTSTANDING, accurate, and resonating content! Thank you 🙏

@tanyadepoalo4312 Месяц назад

This was spot on, exactly how my relationship went. 🙏🏽

@ardent9422 11 месяцев назад

This video many me really angry, because I go through all of this, but I don't have the resources or help to leave.

@coach_amy Год назад

Great video with the most-important points about narc relationships. I think the top two things to always remember in poor relationships, which you have covered in this video are 1-You obviously don't want the same things in the relationship and 2-Once the person betrays you, the relationship will never be the same. When my covert narc partner makes little "band aid" changes, and wants acknowledgement, I say, "When you've done 10 years of emotional rehabilitation, then I assume the changes will be real." No, people don't change unless they admit their mistakes, desire to change, and then do the deep dive, sincere work...don't hold your breath.

@rarmai 8 месяцев назад

Excellent video. Great analysis. End of the video reminds me of a recent experience. I gave one a second chance after trying to breakup. At one point in a rage tirade she said to me, ‘you tried to break up with me of your own will.’ A chilling statement of her perspective.

@xxmaryjane7897 4 месяца назад

This is so spot on, it's scary.

@linnea3314 Год назад

Well said. So true.

@JunaTabTheChosenOne Год назад

Everything you said is facts I’m dealing with it as we speak 9/12 years I kept hoping for change to point that he completely paralyzed me stolen everything from me financially now I’m completely at his mercy throwing me little bit just to survive I’m trying to get away but it’s extremely difficult because now he have total control of the finances.

@Ghettobank69 Год назад

It seems to me that the abuser is taking a break, and ruminating over the next abusive cycle. It never gets better. And who's not scard over time from the abusive behavior.

@1991windsor Год назад

This is due to the cognitive dissidence we are experiencing while in a "relationship" with them.

@oisinroche4290 Год назад

my narrcist said to me _ Love is dangerous ,i want a slave. literally that is what she said word for word.

@mattburke7567 Месяц назад

So glad I found these videos, can relate to pretty much everything said.

@andrewmass1414 8 месяцев назад

Thanks. I left. Almost killed me

@sarahmcnicol.lifecoach 6 месяцев назад

So accurate and clearly explained. Thank you

@antheredhen Месяц назад

IT WON'T GET BETTER.... 33 YEARS AND HE'S GETTING WORSE.. Now I have to try and figure out how to get out.. When my family is 1,500 miles away.. Zero friends he made sure of that and no money!

@colinscott8862 Год назад

Thank you for this video and explaining these things 🙏🏻

@flyingsaucer1268 Год назад

a healthy relationship -> 1+1=3

@shelleykaygrant2730 Год назад

Your Channel is so Good Thank-you ❤

@munchey99508 Год назад

Excellent video! So true! Thank you! ❤

@antheredhen Месяц назад

I've never asserted boundaries so he's never done the devaluing.. As long as I do everything he wants he's a love bomber.. Shallow, superficial, no depth can't keep a job. We are almost 60 and he's used all our retirement everytime he quits or gets fired. Then justifies it all.. When he is working he makes over 6 figures but spends it on stupid things as fast as he makes it. He takes after his mommy they feed off each other and are flying monkeys for each other.. I've wasted 33 years hoping he'd grow up! Who can grow up when mommy dearest encourages the behavior.

@feliciajoy2264 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for this😢

@hopeinhumanity. 7 месяцев назад

Thank you ☺️

@ruthrose1000 11 месяцев назад

1000000% thank you .

@casperinsight3524 9 месяцев назад

Unhealthy entanglements only get worse over time ~ sad but true. Once things rot its time to throw away not keep around rotting hoping for improvement 😉 When food turns in the fridge do you keep it or throw it away ?

@AnnaMishel Месяц назад

Well said,

@shaziafarooq4749 Год назад

I feel you tell my story 😢

@ZivotnaFloridi 7 месяцев назад

Wow, amazing video. Thank you. It helped me so much.

@HectorKom-cg5if 2 месяца назад

Thank you very much for your video. You are always happy and entertaining.

@brendaleverick3655 7 месяцев назад

Perhaps all women in a relation- ship should make a daily graph, to keep track of how things are going with their person. That way, they will be able to see on paper how things really are, and will know when it's time to leave. 🤔

@nicholecornes1915 7 месяцев назад

Oh no! They dont!

@deepanwitasrivastava8285 Год назад

brilliant

@casperinsight3524 9 месяцев назад

Sticking around is submission

@SheldonBrown567 6 месяцев назад

I love your videos ❤

@shamnarinepersaud1942 Год назад

So true

@nicholecornes1915 4 месяца назад

I'll never forgive my husband sorry. Forgive not forget

@shamnarinepersaud1942 Год назад

Nice

@blacksheepbrown1601 Год назад

Are there still healthy relationships out there? 😂

@nicoleschmidt6226 Год назад

💯

@jameslacroix1028 7 месяцев назад

Narcissist never get help and they get worse with age

@user-em3np4vr8c 10 месяцев назад

I ran into a guy who i knew be4, he said he tried to kill himself, so i invited him over to my home, he had nothing good to say about my place or my paintings that i did, he brings nothing to the table, last ti,e i had to turn myself inside out trying to make conversation, it was so boring, , , he was smi Iing in the end, now i'm sick, 😂no reaction to that over phone, I think i have got myself another npd, vulnerable type! I let him in, now i'm torn but yes have to get rid of him, he has been quite sexual towards me too, i'm much older, he is attractive but!!!😅 boring because he would not answer any of my questions about his depression or anything, then he started giving me advice! We are not on same intellectual level, there is nothing he can offer me except work and annoyance!