Sir, this is the best video I have ever seen...I was looking for such type of valuable advice...sir, I can't express in words how much help you have done for me. I watched many clickbait videos, but your videos are clear, crystal and transparent in thumbnail and content. Thank you from the depth of my heart. You are truly fantastic, sir. I feel fortunate to receive such advice from someone like you having a great experience because everyone learns from books, videos and podcasts, but your wisdom comes from experience. 🙏♥️
Honestly, u are like a father many people didn’t have growing up. I mean its like a mirror to the society. I am very sure if parents see this video, they wont be able to last beyond 5mins because the bitter truth would be hard to swallow. “Humare paida krne and paalne k ye sil de rhe ho”….. kisne kaha tha paida kro, kya hum me se koi b apne maa baap ke paas application daalke aaya tha? They gave birth coz unko social acceptance chahie tha of that time ki bacche hogye! But paale kese, ye nai pta. All adults I believe who are 25+ now, have been victims of poor parenting. Thanks, Mr. Sangwan!
Because if you fail none, not even your parents will stand behind you. You will be an outcast, abandoned and on your own. That's why crores of youth are wasting their entire youth on government exams just to please their parents. Because these 70-80s parents are happy to spend 10000-20000 rupees each month on their kids government job preparation (when the kid is staying out of his hometown for preparation) but even if he asks a small amount to start a small scale business they will not get it. And if they get it and the business fails it's pretty much over.
Im 28 and even i was unable to choose clothes or even carrer two years ago. I always felt my parents were controlling me directly or indirectly. Now i moved to UK for higher studies and learnt to become independent. I feel very happy.
I'm a parent of grown up children myself but I agree fully with you. Parents have to be unselfish and secure so as to give support and confidence to the children
Totally my n my sibling's story . I hav realized much earlier n been in depression since i was 17. Now my sister is much above 30 n still unmarried n she dont accept that our not concerned about finding boy for her after looking for it once 5 years ago. For me they seems to hav zero concern n never asked me. Although i dont want to marry since17 but my sister has been brainwashed in being good girl n she is totally immature.
kheela...yes they did..I am known but irony is they are still not feeling guilt..and they even feel themselves contends by letting me down..I am now too late..in all sphere..but I will fight..to stand myself alone....
Dark video nhi hai bahut clarity dete hai apke videos... Jo society aur family ki reality srf feel hoti thi ap sabko openly bta rhe ho..thats gud fr society... Even my parents.. whenever I tried to take decision about my job... Parents has thrown same dialogue.. kro jo karna hai dekh lena fir..samjhna apna... and this kind of dialogue made me helpless n less confident about my decision..n now m suffering n thinking that Y I did not take decision at that tym.. why I got entangled in that emotional drama of parents...
Guru ji m a well settled 27 years girl, found a perfect compatible well settled boy but my father and my cousin brothers are not even ready to meet him.. what should i do??
Dear Amit sir I am 48 and my daughter is now 21 Many thanks for this enlightening talk which will help me to navigate this role of a parent with diligence and responsibility
Uncle I keep sending your videos to friends. In free time, while driving or eating I put your videos and correlate everything you speak and totally agree. Will surely increase👍
And the worst part is इनका attitude " हम तुम्हे पालं के तुम्हारा खर्चा उठा कर तुमपे एहसान कर रहे है!!!"..... "भाई मेरी क्या गलती मे ऐसे समय पे पैदा हुआ? 😂"...... इतना ही था तो abortion करके मार डालते हमे 😂
Sir, the upload frequency is on fire nowadays! Although, I disagree with you sometimes you have always acted as the devil's advocate of my life. Before taking a decision on anything, I generally search if you have a video on the topic. Please keep the great content coming!
My God, if I would have relied on my narcissistic parents for my marriage, they got so non sense alliance, I chose and when I said, they became furious and warned to take my all communication modes. My present husband came and we married in my parents absence.
Sir, Iit-iim girl here. My fiance who was from iim iit too, called off our engagement bcoz i wasn't compatible with his family. The guy and i were good friends since college, but things broke bcoz family wasnt happy. I am lost, and i dont know what else i can do to succeed in life. Please guide sir.
The topic u have pulled is very serious issue of youths.....i am in a relationship with a boy 1yr yonger than me....when my paents got to know about our relationship they got furious and my mom started crying and saying ki they will not be able to show their face to the society fr the rest of their life just because he is younger than me....they keep on giving lame excuses and warned me to leave that guy immediately..... Even they took decision that they will marry me and they already talked to some old relatives of us to find a guy fr me without my knowledge and my consent..... FYI m a independent girl doing job earing and not dependent on them fr money....but still they always tell me i won't be able to take any decision and i don't know how the society is.... I mean its so funny😂 that i am a doctor doing job earning money staying a different state alone and moreover deals with many people everyday.....but still i don't know how is the society....strange na???😂😂
Mere baap ne bhi meko apne upar depend kr ke rakhna chaha humesha . Pr hum to apni marzi chalane wale aadmi hai......mere baap ka plan kaam nhi kr paya
I made a very big mistake. After 12 pcm i enrolled myself into BA program. I am in final year now and i have no option other than working in lower strata of private enterprises.
one thing is, we are brought up within 4 walls (house, school, college, jobs) all are within 4 walls. people like Edison, Steve Jobs, henry ford, Issac Newton were never in 4 walls, they learned their life lessons in real practical world. also school curriculum esp Maths, IQ, Aptitude is given too much undue importance. I feel economics, social science should be given equal importance as Maths
Feels like I rly needed this ryt now. We all can agree that instead of pulling motivation out of thin air like other motivational speakers. Amit sir talks realistic and practical. 🙏🙏
And previous generations ko yeh syndrome hai ki unse bara tees maar khan dunia mein nahi h. Don't worry about the fact ki unhone kuch ukhara nahi tha and corruption was to the bone.
Thank you thank you thank you soo so soo soo much.. Sir sir.. Aj is video se meri finally ek confusion dur hogayi.... Yes self doubt bht hogaya he.. Decision lene me v daar lagta he.. Ab totally focus hun.. Or clarity agayi... ✌✌✌✌😊😊😊😊😊
Those who are watching this content kasam khaa lo ki jab tum chacha,mama,tau,chachi,mami tum unke baccho ko support karoge if they have good thoughts.....unki pair nahi keechoge....motivate aur samjane ki koshish karnenge
Sir, you are giving clarity to youth. Today's parents are not supportive in the name of generation gap, they don't want to change their conventional mindsets and family quarrels and old habbits. The way they withdraw their support and stay to see if we pass or succeed like a judge is shameful!
@@salaar75 1 year parents ko diya... Uske baad unhone kaha... Tum bhi try Karo. Maine ladki jo acchi lagi mere office mein... Usse baat ki... Love hua... Dono families ko samjhaya... Aur ek saal mein shadi ho gayi. Age 25 mein dhundha... 2-3 mahine mein dhundh Li apne office mein.
@@puneetbasson5901 Thanks for your input. Accha hua aapne jaldi try kiya. Bhai aaj kal ka time dekhke possible lagta hai kya kahi pe dekh paye? main almost 29 hoon
Sir I could have liked you video and it could have been "778"th liked one. But I didnt press like button bco then you could have missed your " 777" Lucky number. I didn't wanted to change that lucky number for you. But Liked this video a lot. Thanks for the useful content.
I think this has to do with increased aspirations among youth and their parents post liberalisation in 1990s. In 1970s and 1980s, expectations were low of life in general.
Sir main Reason है social media पर हर कोई ज्ञान पेल रहा है क्या करें क्या ना करें आपके टाइम में ये gyan पेलने वाले नही होते थे इसीलिए आपकी लाइफ easy थी
I've lived through this in 1 of the worst way possible, na inko khud karna hai, na humko kuchh karne dena hai, khudke ke paas na exposure+contacts hai+na bankbalance hai but humko bachho ki Fear mongering karni hai, aajkihi news dekhlo, India has given money printer to Afghanistan, Sri Lanka, Pakistan & Turkey but not its own youth. I've made my decision to change my passport. Its trouble/fraud by design.😇😇
Sir iss video mai bol rhe ho ki shaadi tumhari hai parents ki mat suno....kuch video pehle kaha ki shaadi mai parents ki suno..kyuki baad mai adjustment issues aate hai
Off course most of Indian parents are manipulative For successful lifestyle Don’t ever listen to parents specifically when they are just nothing great in life Relatives neighbours are generally dangerous Friends are full of jealousy Me Sangwan Ji Best is one must understand their own self in order to understand others .This is the best but it’s not the easiest one Other way around Most of the easiest stuff is not worth it Otherwise you’re asking for troubles
