Why Virgo Men Keep Disappearing 

That was very well written and I totally agree! But I'm never gonna leave him alone, he stuck with me for life 😅 I always knew he was for me since 8th grade 😍 there's always been a special glow around him for me! Such a great man always motivating me, definitely full of lessons and tests 😅 omg lmao but I love it all and wouldn't trade it for the world 🌍! He'll be my husband one day...hopefully sooner than later thou cuz our parents wants some grandkids 😂

I love my Virgo!

@@Nofurtherquestions not this 1 😁

Yes I agree. He’s refreshed just to leave AGAIN and then complain about loyalty🤦🏽‍♀️

I don’t want him communicating with me ever again he was a mistake and thats on periodt

That's tough not never knowing which can put your emotions on a rollercoaster so me I left mine alone because of that but I wish him well

What's your ig?? I wanna talk more about this and be needing some advice

Yesterday I found out the real reason why he disappear all the time after 10 months of us dealing with each other, he has a baby that’s not even a year old and I assume he is in a more serious relationship with her. Idk…he didn’t tell me anything about this. 😒 he wasn’t disappearing to recharge all that nonsense are lies. Virgo’s disappear because they have 2 families they juggling around.

@@jessicajackson2438 yep I know that to do now and I hope he doesn’t come to my job stalking me…I never want to see him again.

@@skye6066 Omg stalking you well I hope the best for you and hopefully he'll move on and leave you be 💕

You touched on everything and did what they don’t like-questioning them lol bc they’ve calculated everything to perfection but the issue is…they apply logic to romance so of course, it’s never going to initially work unless you really have someone that understands their thought process to then communicate properly to them. Love/romance should be a balance of intuition and logic, but Virgos lack the intuition part bc again, they’re more head over heart, it has to logically makes sense and when it comes to love, you just can’t know every exact step-it’s not a business deal but even in that, there will always be risks. It’s like they try to skip over the actual “living” part of….life avoiding feelings. We’re not robots, it’s okay to feel, you’re actually supposed to, but feelings are too foreign for Virgos hence the overthinking and trying rationalize it all.

So so true! My virgo man is the same when it's good it's sooo good when it's bad it's heartbreaking I find this hard as a libra woman with a virgo man

Wow perfectly said. Thank you. After dealing with the slow bs, I wish they realize they can't be taking forever. Then they need to recognize they need to be single and just stop trying to be a smart-ass. I don't know how they manage their day to day. 👏 👌 🙌

@@Quartzone6145 right! I’m a Libra and my boyfriend is a Virgo and you’re so right when it’s good it’s soooo good and then all of the sudden he’s gone and I’m like I don’t where to begin 😢

Get rid...

I’m a Pisces and my husband is Virgo and we’ve been together for 11 years and married for 4 years and he does the disappearing act for days and don’t communicate and we have a toddler. He really sucks at communicating and when he disappears like that. I feel extremely unloved and rejected. I just don’t understand HOW virgos can love but yet be so inconsiderate to others feelings. This ghosting behavior makes me feel emotionally unsafe in my marriage and a lack of trust.

My baby father ghost me 11 days now we have two kids I do t like it the blowing him up is not working I don't know what I did it'd drivi g me crazy

Omg YES! Im with you!!

Being ghost really hurts. It's like he was interested in me and then he just ghosted me and now he stalks. Sadly I now know it will not lead anywhere I just have to have faith that there is someone for me

@@neetipalacios9262 the same happened to me. It's hard to realize that we need to let the Virgo go

How are you gonna be ruled by the planet of communication, yet suck so badly at it ! Lol😅😅

That happened to me too as an aries woman he made me so depressed when he disappeared and I did nothing wrong to him he lied to me gave me false hope

Well Taurus did that to me, we had good times then she dipped but the difference was ignored me would message me the next day and we made plans and she canceled twice. I was like cool we done. Took my shit and left without warning. She got mad. I got mad for her lack of accountability.

@@cr_ystal5147I also did this, she made me believe she didn’t want me or appreciate me. I wanted more than just friends but she made me feel that my feeling were threatening the connection. I left got a relationship thinking that would help but she got jealous. We recently are working things out and like the message below I broke that other relationship off. I’m being very honest to Aries and I think she understands what she didn’t before, that I trust her and care for and genuinely love her. With that said she was willing to give me a second chance with everything I did to HER.

@@cr_ystal5147If you think you can work it out I would try but you both have to understand each other first. I made a lot of effort to understand Aries. My approach in the begging was wrong and I listened to my needs not hers. Once I let that go I realized I was wrong. Accountability no matter what sign is key

Happen to me , he can do it but when i do it he blocked me lol

I'm capicorn woman too!!! December 27th 1981 and yes I agree we ghost as well. I feel it's pretty much for the same reason as the virgo does. Capicorns are also loners by nature and our alone time is extremely important to us. Do you ever feel like if you don't get any alone time it throws you off mentally?

​@@crystalcormier9376100% it throws me off mentally if I don't ghost. I'm a Capricorn 29th December. I ghost people too and if people have to take it personally, they can go to hell!

Right!

How many soulmates at one time, that's the question.......

Soulmate??? Y’all be just about 110yrs old talkin bout “im about to get married!” 🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣

Me too

@cRisPy FrEnCh FriES :) Um dm’d him? I didn’t insult him. Just a clear direct question. His nails are clean… yet long. So I asked… no worries, he didn’t mind.

@@locdinwkrissyy9016 I don’t see anything wrong with the question-these video’s emphasize how much Virgos pay attention to details and like for their partners to be presented a certain way so 🤷🏻‍♀️😬

From my experience Virgos expect it from everyone and they perfect apparently but their room be a mess and they be a mess.

@Babe Bree She probably a Gemini! 🤣 And he didn't respond back.... 10 months later. 😂

Going through the sam me thing. Are you still with your Virgo?

@@JazminesBacon actually we just started back speaking and his doing the same ol shit! Ok he’s doing alittle better but still not enough to keep me interested! 🤣😩

@216blessed Yeah, the issue is we are the ones spending time trying to learn them and seeking to give more of what’s needed - meanwhile you don’t see the same effort with him which equates to being very self centered. I need my inherent needs to be acknowledged also with as much meeting in the middle as possible.

You should look at your birth charts

Male virgo born in Sept?

@@jhaszmyn. yes he's 914 and I'm 919

@@Mocalate91988 mine is also 9 14 he is distant since two months

@@smilebigiloveyou do you have a site that you use?

Erm ok turn it around Would you treat someone like this ? There’s your answer .. have your boundaries and don’t stay around to be treated this way .. we show Poe how to treat us by our actions .. if they think it’s ok n you going to be there they will do it .. dump meet someone mature

@Dani Ela any updates now ?

Any updates ? Did he come back ?

@Blue Sky yeah... Poor communication in text, but when we meet he would communicate a lot. He claimed never have feelings for me , but when other men talk to me in a friendly way, he would explode and accuse me of flirting. Weird !!

@Blue Sky been a good friend to him for 3 years now . He's been damaged and broken from his divorced ages ago and is not stable to commit yet.

really exhausting . whenever im on the verge to give up on him, he would be attentive to him & i forget about my plan to walk away 😒

Typo . I mean Attentive to me*

Do they really come back when you have completely moved on? 🥺 It's been long time waiting on my part

lol

One year! This is a lot

Probably because you go around covering your face..🤔

Did he comeback?

I called and texted my Virgo and still nothing. I was sweet too. I’m a Virgo woman myself. I texted him “ Daddy Im sure you're super super busy with work ,extremely tired and probably have no energy to talk and just want to sleep. I get it. And I am so proud of you. Maintaining communication is important though daddy. Don't forget I am over here being patient and waiting on you daddy. “

Now what?

I texted that to him yesterday by the way.

Girl bye Virgo intuition rivals pisces. They’re on the same wavelength, opposite signs.

Yes but If someone becomes interested in them they start to disappear and the moment attention is withdrawn they send mixed singnals. It do feels like lack of interest even though it's not.

It's not that we don't understand needing space. The issue is you guys don't give us the courtesy of letting us know as much. Look if you need space and are dating someone you don't just disappear and leave the other person wondering what is going on. You let them know you still care but are going off the grid for a bit.

@@neetipalacios9262 all I can say is that there are billions of men out there. If that Virgo moves on, let it be and attract another man.

@@ashaduplessis2772 reciprocity can be expected, but not demanded. Obligation kills attraction.

@@I-own-your-feelings yes it's now time to let go.. I m determined to have more faith than fear! Thanks :)

😂😂😂

Show up out the blue after 2 months of disappearing and stalk me at my job for 3 days. Just go away weirdo🤦🏽‍♀️ these dudes are weird to me.

I think they go hand-in-hand. The bible is full of astrology, you just have to understand what you are reading. Astrology is not bad, evil, or pagan, it is a tool to help us further understand who we are.

@@JonathanRWhitfield Understood.