discount:WM38us4 38% discount from 3/3 to 3/10 (all products on the website) Link: www.parsonver.... tag #parsonver #internationalwomensday #EmbraceEquity
I took my children to Pak for 4 years, it's the best thing I did. They lived in the city and holidays in the village. It was a great experience. It is not easy but you need to be strong and patient. You need at least a year for the children to adjust. People always say bad things about Pakistan but they are blind to the bad in other places. Living in the west, children become confused desis. It is educational to see and experience both sides of the world. Best of luck. May Allah make it easy for you.
My kids were born and raised in US and they are in universities now. Alhumdulillah they are very well mannered, listen to us, value our religion and culture. It all depends on how you raise them infact I have couple of friends who moved to Pakistan thinking it will be better there but they came back in 2 years saying our kids were better in US , here it's easy to raise them because we can tell them they are non muslims and we are muslims we dont do that but when they went to Pakistan unfortunately there were people doing bad when they told kids we are muslims we dont do these haram acts they questioned their parents that others are doing it too and they are muslims too the reason they came back. Here in US whatever is happening is in open but unfortunately in Pakistan things happen in hidden So it all depends on your upbringing and the environment you provide them
You are right ab Pakistan janey ka koye faida nahi Pakistan ab wesa nahi gai jesa hamarey Bachman mein hota tha ab tou visit karney jao tou time bohat mushkil say guzar kay ana parta hai very depressing relatives and mahol there kids don’t want to go chotay chotay cousins jo aap jay bachoon say time spend karney ki bejai har waqat phone pay RU-vid or Korean dramay they don’t care kay hamaray cousin Canada ya America say hum say milnay aye hein they don’t give a dam anymore
Depends upon upbringing...but in non Muslim countries 2nd nd 3rd generations leave islam that's what happened in India west is good for earning money but not preserving religion...
Bachon ko haath se nikalna hota hai tou kahin par bhi nikal sakte hain… lekin aap ek boht samajhdar maa hain, you are kind, polite & religious, .. apni tarbiyat pe bharosa rakhein.. Inshallah apke bachay jahan bhi rahenge they will make you proud 💕
You should keep your children connected with your religion, through the Qur'an and Sunnah, Pakistani culture has become a collection of many wrong things, neither in the society nor in the religion. My prayer is that wherever we live, our beliefs, religion and the love of humanity remain in our hearts.
Main bhi lamba arsa bahar reh ker pakistan shift hui hun ab beta dubai main hai jab dubai bulane ko kehta hai tou ghabrahat hojati hai kyunke mujhe apne jese logon main rehna pasand hai bahar jitna bhi lifestyle acha ho aik akelapan aur weeraniyat har waqt feel hoti hai
I feel the same that you feel.bahar ki dunya depressing hai. Apne jaisai bi hain ap ka dil laga rehta hai. Bahar koi ap ko nai janta sab apni life main busy hain.
So happy to hear about your decision. It’s like hijrah that you’re making to teach your kids Islamic values. Those who make hijrah, Allah opens their ways and accept their duaas. The best thing that I have experienced about Pakustan was my son’s higher education . It went really well. In his university, there are so many international students too from Middle East and Europe from Pakistani descent or non Pakistani descent as well. They all also had a great time there. Although facilities were not the same but I loved the fact how they were all polite to each other, respectful to teachers, prayed in the built in masjid, fasted and broke fast together. Alhamdulillah they can somehow find jobs with the help of Allah from 25K Pm rps to 55k and later be independent. Allah is so merciful and the best provider. In terms of living there, now you can find the clean and spacious housing societies like Bahria Town which is really nice especially in Lahore. May Allah protect all Muslims and guide all to the right path and give them a good ending Aameen
Yaar same meri beti 8 saal ki hy. Mai brooklyn mai hoon bht pershaan hoon. Schooling bht effect krti hay. Home work ata hy bs math or reading ka baqi kuch. Pata. Nhi kia parhaty hain school mai weekly ijtemah ly k jati hoon. Islamic speech b sunty saty batih k likn dost bht effect karty hain please pray for us meri beti 3rd grade mai hy
Brooklyn ka mahool tu aj say 15 20 saal pahly bht khatarnak tha. Astagfirulah. Ap long island ke taraf move hon. Brooklyn k desi kids are something else. Allah asani karay
Dear sis aap agar Kuwait move hosakti hain tau zaroor ghour keejeega kunk Kuwait ka mahol bilkul Pakistan ki tarah ka hay, Modern plus with values. Yahan American and British schools bhi hain leiken bohat decenency hay, like bohat acha Islamic environment hay, Kuwait tax free hay, American nationals ko job double high salary par miljaati hay easily, Kuwaiti dinar is the world’s number one powerful currency. Realy living in Kuwait is like living in Heaven. Me aapko Dubai ya doosri Midle east country suggest nahi karungi as i visit other middle east countries also but realy Kuwait is the BEST. Kuwait has a very close boarder with Saudia and u can go and come by car to Medina Sharif and Makkah Sharif by car easily when ever u want to go. Realy my sis this my honest suggestion for u to move in Kuwait🥰❤️ Aap Istakhara karleejee
@@hunzainpk Dear sis my two friends has special children, and they went to schools for special needs. But my one friend said that special school is till 12th class and after that no school thats why she moved to Dubai.
Great decision urooj,only strongest people can take such decisions,my brother is also moving with his family after spending 14 years in london,all his children were born here, it ll be very hard for parents and children to adapt to pak environment but jo hardships shape krti hn bachon ko wo comfort nhi kr skta.May Almighty give you strength enough to stick to your decision
I dont believe this, moving pak for kids and values, aaj kal halaat asey hain na Pakistan mai koi itnaaa islam hai k log acha bhala mahol life standard chor k Pak move ho jaien. Jab logo k visa expired ho jaien to wo ase hi baten kerte hain hum sab hi k ji bacho ki achi tabyat k liye agaye Andar hi andar dbara try kar rahe hote or ho jaye to kahte Pakistan chorna para kyun k wahan kuch bhi theek nahi ye baat to wahan jaye bina sab ko pata hai. Ye log Real kyun nhi hote
Then he will get them married there to some family member whom they are not in touch with culturally and then the kids will be miserable all their lives . This is very common with uk muslims
Right kaha sister jo log europe mai with family rahty hy bus chor hi dy. Ak time asa atta hy bachy hath se nikal jaty hy pakistan set hony ka hum sab sochty hy lakin time jb guzer jata hy to phir fyda ni hota. Allah pk sab k bachoo ko hidyat dy ameen.
Urooj aapki soch behtareen hai aurat ka asal kirdar jo bataya usne bhi fan kardiya mujhe aapka, aur ab yeh soch aapki bilkul theek baat hai insaan ko apne jese mahol main hi rehna chahiye apne logon ki help karen yehi asal maqsad hai dunya main aane ka sirf yeh tou nahi ke apna aur apne bachon ka pait bhardiya aur bas chale jao duniya se chahe parosi ke bache bhooke sojaen
agr tarbiyat ki jai to country se frq nh prta... q k bachon ko limit btai jai to asar hota hai...or sb se main k ye sb naseeb ki bat.. jin bachon ne batakna hota nah wo pak me parents k under nhi rhty... or masha Allah ap bht achi tarbiyat kr rhi hai bachon ki... Allah pak sb k bachon k naseeb achy kre... (Ameeen)
Everything matters in brought up ,but my experience is ,parents character plays a vital role ,if parents count mistakes of others ,their children can't be well.mannered ...but I agreed ,one's should live in his home town ....
Don't go to Pakistan, better you shift to UAE, KSA or any other gulf country.. I myself living in Dubai, UAE n Alhamdulilah here I feel more comfortable, safe, happy.. Whenever I visited Pakistan I felt more depressed, people have lots of problems plus no safety in Pakistan..
Mashallha I agree with you decisions. Because I do it. Before 3 years I live in Belgium 🇧🇪 know I'm move in Pakistan for our children. Allha pak bachun ko kamyab kry
Very nice dear ap nay sahi kaha kay bachy ghar say bhi bhout kuch shekty hai ap bhout samjdar hai ap nay socha ho ga move hony ka tu kuch soch samj kay hi socha ho ga baki Allah pak behtar kary wala hai Allah pak wo faslia kary jo ap kay حق main behtar ho Ameen sum Ameen
Main apki hr vdo dykhti hn bht informative hti hen...lkn comment aj frst time kr rahi hn...Allah pak ap k lye asaniyan kry jo ap logo ha main bhttr he us k lye Allah pak aplogo k lye rasty asan kry ameen...
Asalamalaikum Im from hyd ind Love ur vlogs so informative and positivity se acha aap karte ho love ur kids dua to all kids May Allah bless u and all with good life healthy long happy life ameen Allah kare Aap jo b decide kare acha ho ameen
Very best decision to move back to Pakistan Allah make its for u n ur family ameen suma ameen Allah never waste ur scarifices ur efforts ur best neeyaat to keep ur children on good deen ways keep do it
I can understand your concerns for wanting to move back to Pakistan. However, it’s not a full proof plan to keep kids out of trouble. Kids in Pakistan face similar problems as they do in U.S.A. Have faith in your upbringing and I’m sure your kids will do just fine no matter where you decide to live. You are such a great mom and good human being I’m certain your kids will have bright futures in either place. Maybe consider moving to a different city in the U.S.A where there are more Pakistani’s and take your kids to visit Pakistan more often.
Think of moving to Dallas. Many Pakistani and Indian Muslims have moved from various states in the last 2 years. Trust me we have so many masjids and programs in mosque that you will feel you are in your home country. There is no point going to home country as the country is not same anymore. Believe in your upbringing and plan to move to a place where there are many desi muslims. Put them in hifz programs and try to keep them engaged in various masjid activities, Inshallah they will be fine.
Dear I know this is not an easy decision .. but I would say first if you can , do try to change your State .. in NewOrleans you cannot find Muslim community , mosque , desi environment easily ..we live in Dallas Texas & I love it here .. my kids are so connected to mosque and Muslim community is exceptionally good . I am not trying to confuse you in making any decision but taking such a big decision when Pakistan is already in crunch is not very favorable this time ..
A friend of mine has recently moved from America to Karachi. Its not at all easy! The kids suffer the most as they are the ones who have to get adjusted to everything! Its not an easy decision plus Pakistani values ab pehle jaisi nahi raheen. Baaqi qismat main toh jo likha hai woh toh ho k he rehta hai. May Allah bless you with the power to make the right decision at the right time. Ameen!
@@sumairasaeed6733 Thanks! The Pakistan that we grew up in, is not the same. Its way tooooo different now! And I feel this has made such moving decisions harder
Financial back up ho tou life is good in Pakistan...it's depends upon your upbringing and Islamic teachings itnay b halath kharab nae Muslim country hay.....with Islamic centres religious environment non Muslim country may tou 2nd nd ,3rd generations leave islam like in India what happened after partition
@@honeynoor5351meh India se ho lekin yah itne gair Muslims hone k baad b hum abaya niqaab krte h aisa nahi h kyu galat snchte h India k liye Islamic tarbiyat hi dete h jitne Pakistan me na hota hoga niqaab uthna India me h bus thodhe log nhi krte h
Assalamalikum meri bhi yehi thanking hai ap ki video sy aur power mili hai InshaAahah main bhi apny kids ki khatir Islamabad shift ho jao gi yaha log ready hai k hmary kids bhi hey chor k chaly Jaye gy hm Allah ko kya jawab dy gy Muslim Bacharach ko hmny and andharo main chor Dia thanks arooj ap ki video sy bhtt motivation milti hai 😊
Your own point of view nd experience is good about pros nd cons of living abroad... living in US will give you financial success but living in home country your generation will be Muslims nd better Muslims if you give good upbringing plus religious education..also ppl from UAE nd US come for MBBS nd graduation in Pakistan cox higher education is cheaper as compared to foreign...
Sister Arooj ap jis state mein hain wahan muslim na honay kay braber hain is lia sb se pehlay to ap state move kr lain yeh ziada acha hy ap kay bachon kay lia.
Arooj sister,, logo ki bath na sunnay,,, pak mai sab kuch tek hy,,,, kuch time ky lye bacho ko pak ly aye takeh wo apno ko pehchan saky,,, apny culture apny religion ko,,, pesa sab kuch nahi hota,, aur peso ka maza tu tab ata hy jab apki aulad naik ho,,, love and best wishes from pakistan, peshawar 😊
I have seen a lot of ppl decide on moving back like you but ppl rarely do it . Your kids are already at an age where you should act soon. A few years down it’s going to be difficult for them to accept n even adjust to the move .
It’s very hard to move back to Pakistan since I left Pakistan in 1979. I tried three times failed . I did stay four years in Lahore . But moved back 2003-2007. 2022 when imran khan was there more stable for retirement but came back . 1995 and came back since no opportunity. So many Pakistani here in USA . So I decided this is best place to even for retirement. Reason why after 60 all kids married retirement in USA. It’s safer in USA, food healthy in USA for older people, no political instability, no corruption, people more friendly in USA, government cares for people and I love USA. Education best . You have less family in USA May be that’s why you feel like going back . Make friends. There are nice people and families in USA. You will find them but careful . InshaAllah that eagle you see up there flying will protect you . Don’t give up beetie . If someone says negative towards you don’t take it hard . My mom who died in USA told me 1% will be negative but 99% will be with you . Don’t get scared . Fight back. No hate crime in USA reason it’s a crime. ❤ this is for you beetie
Urooj aapi I'm a student of medical and I'm doing pre medical whenever I seee ur vlog I get extra excited and ultra motivated idk why but I think there's something very special in u that have not in any of the vlogger that I've watched on RU-vid, u should be the best best vlogger of the RU-vid u should get golden play button as u deserve it ,aapki vlog dekhnay k baad dil hi nhi krta k koyi or vlog dekho ,my entire family get addicted to see ur vlog everyday, may u get all the happiness, success, and joy u want in ur life I wish u could be my elder sis 💖 😊 💗
@@khannawazkhan9457 I did try that but didn't work ,as u know we are medical students so we have to study extra ,and we can't be focused on anything like online business etc so it's like a quite impossible for medical student to do study along with any of online business
@@laibaafsheen6778 Assalamualaikum dear Laiba Afsheen ap or Mey same name h MASHAALLAH I'm Afsheen Nawaz😘 ALLAH PAK ap ko kamyab karey future dactor 🎉🎉👍 Ap pl order karwa sakti hian because Oriflame ke all products darmacolojist Hoti hain ap ap apni family, friends k lei b order Karwa sakti in ka all products skin & hair releted hain best of luck 👍👍👍 Dear Dactor Liaba Afsheen
@Afsheen Nawaz thanku so much for calling me doctor it's ur love and respect ,,,,yeah for sure but I already ordered oriflame products,I didn't got any positive result from that so that's why im not interested in ordering it again , btw thanku so much for the offer
Asalamo aleekom .I hope you are doing good,I just wanna say to plz give a look to ur decision to move back .I don’t think it’s good idea cuz we had experience last two year .it was worse.Pakistan has no more religion value as we think.neither culturel.it got worse.we pary to Allah (swt) for mercy on our country.plz think closely before leave.keep your kids close to deen.where ever you live.our best whises for your family.
Salam respected sis, sis ap log idhr uAE shift ho jaen family k sath. Pakistan k halaat bht bury ho rhy hain bht dukh hota hai daijh daikh k hm b chahty hain jana but ni ja pa rhy sirf halaat ki wja sy. Ap kuch arsy k liye UAE reh len.
V v good decision.im also living in Europe but i want to go Pakistan with my daughter as soon as possible.bcoz European countries are not good for daughters
@Raza Mughal I beg to differ with this opinion. America is the best place to raise your children according to whatever faith you follow. Culture will blend whenever you bring children back to US.
Main khus hoti hun ap ka vlog thekh k allah ap ko khus rakhy or mary bachy b is thar ho mera ak beta 2year ka hai or sick hai or sara وقت us k sath hota hai mera ap dua kary mary lye main spain ma hun
It's totally your decision but I think u have to think 1000 times to move to Pakistan education level is very best here people wish to come and study here make decision wisely
Arooj sister ye baat mere mind mei bhi ati hai bachon ko le kar.. lekin ajkal jo Pakistan k halat hain sabko maloom hain is k ilawa jaga jaga source sifarish, jhoot dhookay bazi, university colleges mei ajeeb o ghareeb harkatain or mahool plus drugs, relatives ki hasad or politics, firqawariat etc etc kia ye sab cheezain bachon pe bura asar nhi dalengi?
i moved to pakistan for the same reason and we lived there for 1 year & that was a very positive change for kids, they get to know about their home country. they have friends there. they learnt urdu..But we had to come back because of country's situation and there is no quality of life there. But all the best to you.
WalikumAsalam API MashaAllah your watch nice and Pakistan religious and great country and You can come to Pakistan and Allah protect everyone insha'Allah Don't worry 🤗🇵🇰
Apne jb b Pakistan shift hona ho ap bahria town me shift hoye ga Islamabad, Lahore r Karachi me bahria town ha but Multan me b bahria pe kaam start ha ap wohen pe apna ghar purchase kr len wahan ka mahool aise hota ha jaise ap out of country me hi rehtay han
Or cooking mujy nhi aati is liyen may apki video dhkti hun jis may aap mlti task kr rhe hoti hy bhot kuch seekhnay ko milta hy,mkup ,ghr ki safai,cookig bucho ka take caer or husbnd ki pasnd ka khyal rkhna evrything ....aap boht acha mang krhe ho.allah ap ko sht dain or deero sari kjushya naseeb kary ,or maira nikha huwa hy ,shadi nhi to cooking muj nhi aati abhi mujy seekhna hy,pata nhi seekh bhi paungi k nhi.....
Meri thinking ab yh hai pakistan mein bache illigal tarha se parents ko cheat jrte hai schools university college kon sa nhi hai pakistan mein jjhan drug nhi mil rhi …. Atleast in countries mein unki izzat tou safe hai .
apa appi idk u remembered m or not itz dr riffat awan from pakistan I use to b ur regular foolower bs exams chl ry thy to dekh ni pae ab pendinig vdos roz dekh r m u r loveee ❤❤❤❤❤ ur vdos r full of motivationn n inspiring contentt❤❤❤❤
Main apne bhai ka bataon aapko ke woh apni 3 betiyon ke sath canada shift hogae the jab woh choti thin ab woh bari hogai hain aur wahin ka culture adopt karliya hai wesi hi dressing aur sab kuch aur ab woh pachta rahe hain kyunke waqt hath se nikal gya hai ab woh kuch ker bhi nahi sakte siwae afsos ke
Assalam o alikum Arooj aap ki sab video bohut achi huti hain kafi usefull huti hain main Dubai say hon aap ki sab video dekhin hon main nay bhi apna new chenl start kia hai dua krn Allah pak kamyab krn ameen
Apki thinking achi hai move krny wali but sincerely Pakistan k halat bjy worst hai apk bachon ko achy environment ki adat hai wo depressed ho jayin gy Allah py yaqeen rakh k unki training krain nothing b wrong keep faith
