Why We Don't Say Thank You, Sorry & Please | Junaid Akram Clips 

I remember back in 2006, I visited Manchester, UK. I took a ride on a bus and on reaching my stop, I casually got out however, I observed that the driver was staring stone-cold at me. On inquiring I got to know that the driver was pissed and won't leave till I say thank you. I immediately went back, inside the bus and thanked him. He smiled and I got off. Since then, I have never forgotten to say thank you to Careem, Uber, or any other Taxi driver here in Pakistan.

Those are the three golden words (Thank you, Sorry and No, Thank You) taught to children in the USA before a for apple, b for bc, from class nursery. It makes the child humble and likeable, when he/she grows up, the society gets a well mannered human. It’s a beautiful concept and I hope India implements it.

Alhumdulillah! I'm thankful to my Ammi. Who teaches me to say Thanks to all of them who Make something easier to you.

We were having a french culture course. In that course we were told that there is a coffee shop in Paris where if you ask 1. i want a coffee --> 7 euro 2. Good Morning can i have coffee --> 3 Euro 3. Good Morning, can i have coffee please --> 1 Euro

Amazing education love from Manchester so true . My husband is English n I used to say thanks to everyone apart from him . He said why not me he says thanks n pls everything I do anything for him now im well trained .❤

absolutely right....appreciation is a necessity for mental health

junaid bhai, the email you read in the beginning, i personally agreed with that. being living in UK there is a norm to give hand gesture or by blinking the headlight to say thanks. and me as a pakistan are use to it as it is our daily routine.

Back in the days I was studying in Saint Peter’s High School in Lahore. I remember our teachers has strict orders from the principal to inject sorry, thank you and please in us. Since then i thought its a normal practice. Though after moving abroad when I met other Pakistanis I saw a significant change of behaviour. Kisi bande ko baat karne ki tameez nahi ha

Let's try using these words in our life 💯😊

Thanks for raising this common issue jisko log waqai common nhn smjhte Alhamdulillah thanks to my mom dad who taught me basic manners to say thank you sorry and please 6 months pehle mera 14 years old czn Pakistan aya he is new Zealand national lkn wo yaha sw isi wja se bht annoy hokr gya k Pakistan m basic manners or personal space ka koi sense nhn hy 3 mahine bd jb wo Pakistan se gya to bol kr gya k Pakistan k trauma se nikalne k lye mjhe km az km 3 sal chahye phr m sochunga dubara yaha anay k lye I feel so bad

In Japan school children clean the whole school including bathrooms themselves.I have visited different countries in East Asia Middle East and Europe, Everyone I saw including kids says Thank you sorry please goodmorning good afternoon and goodnight when they see anyone no matter it’s a stranger.

Thank you for teaching us

This is the reason why I love your vlogs. You choose basic topics that deal with day to day life.. I see that kind of behavior in india as well although things are getting better now Especially in the cities. In fact, In India even if I I'm speaking in the native language they already know that I do not. Live there. When I asked them, how do they find that out? They said exactly what you said , a lot of people do not say these 3 words whereas I drop them at all places. I also fully Agree with the fact that When I'm visiting India, I have to re-educate my brain to not keep smiling at strange people in an elevator or in a mall. Especially if they're of the opposite sex because of the Assumptions that you just mentioned. And sadly those assumptions have a basis in reality. Great job

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi Junaid bhai Allah aap ko bahtareen ajar de , kya khoob baat ki hai , Allah ye baate bhi hamare maulanao ko bhi kahne wala banaye

Assalamualaikum Bohat achi bat batai ap na thanks Junaid bhai asi hi is qoom ka aware kare jazakallah

May Allah bless you a lot Sir.

Alhamdulilah i always thanks to every one after getting a service

Absolutely right

That geat advice thanks to Share this kind of content ❤

Yes! Absolutely true. Basic manners nhi hain Pakistan society main.

Thank you for making this video

Thank you Junaid Bhai.

Your are 💯% right! and please, thank you, sorry, to choren yahan loog Salam tk nhi karty agar main kisi shop per jaa k Salam krta hon to shop wala mujhe hairaani se dekhta hai or Jo loog hoty hain wahan wo mur k dekhty hain jese pata nhi kya hogaya, or main yahan ek or cheez add krna chahunga, main karachi main rehta hon or jb main road per nikalta hon yahan har koi itna horn bajata hai mera sar Dard hojata hai mai hamesha apni wife se kehta hon k logon ko kya hogaya hai mera mood Sara kharab hojata hai, or yahan log car chalaty hoye phone per baat krty hain or horn bajaty rehty hain, kuch kaho to ulta hum per charh kar ajaty hain, please Jo bhi ye comments read krrha hai in sb chizoon ka khayal karen! Thank you.

I stopped saying thank you because people don't reciprocate it. Some people do, but many just ignores.

Thank you ❤️

Good Junaid Bhai.

Loved it❤

Main apni biwi bacha aur saas susar ke saath Michigan gaya tha from Chicago. It was almost 4 hours drive each way. After coming back to Chicago while facing hectic traffic and being exhausted, jaise hi main ne apne saas susar ko unke apartment ki taraf chora unke moo se aik thank you bhi nahi nikla apne damaad ke liye. Jab se woh is saal America aae hain, aik baar bhi nahi mujh se poocha ke mere maa baap kaise hain, tabiyat kaisi hai. Halanke meri ammi ne mujhe se kaha tha unko meri taraf se pooch lena on the day my sas susar were coming to Chicago. Tabhi main ne bhi saas susar kehan jana chor dia.

Junaid bhai zindabad, zindabad 👍👍👍 Specially in our mulak and people absolutely 💯 correct they are not taught to say, sorry, please, thankyou

Thank you Junaid ganji😊❤

😂😂Airport incident is absolutely right ____I have been through this…”” ARE AAGE HO JAO , ha hai bhut jga hai aage ho jao “” We were both in queue for same plane 😂😂😂

Yes Junaid bhai you are right, we should always use these three words, My father trained us to do it so, but sorry to say, ita not like this that the other people donot use them at all, yes the probability is low but they do, usually it happens that if any thing happened and you abruptly said sorry, the other person also did sorry to me, even it was my mistake. And yes I do live in Pakistan (LHE).

Awesome video 😎 👍

many might think otherwise or start getting angry but the reality is TARBIYAT main THANK YOU PLEASE SORRY bolta hu (aur main apni tareef ni kar rha) lekin mujhe aik dfa bhi feel ni hua k main ye koshish kr k kar rha hu mere parents ne kia aur mujhe ye sikhaya unko dekh k maine kia

Recently Eid ki prayer may AIK bnda ghlti sy apny agay wly bndy sy tkra gya KISI ny KOI sorry kuch nhi bola bss larny start hogai. Like yay tameez ha inmy ky masjid may lrr rhy ha. And recently mery sath bhi HUA after friday prayer AIK.bnda mery sath tkra gya but that person said sorry. And I said no problem in return. Ab 100 logo may sy serf 1 hi hoga Jo sorry , thankyou boly ga. Even mujy KFC rider ny thankyou bola tha when I paid him for my food with tip and I said you are welcome. That rider is way better then most of Pakistani

Very well said ! We as a nation have failed drastically but unfortunately this damage is not repairable anymore #pakistansezindabhag

It's also about Confidence.... That people don't have

JazakAllah tak nhi bolte hum kisse ko jo ke hume Islam sikhata hai

He is 100% right!! We don’t use these 3 words.. 😢😢

Imagine saying "Please, sorry, thank you" in a sarcastic way 😂

Hum as a qoam - murda ho chuke hen..😢

And Salam to strangers (Shop keepers, customers etc. ), I noticed.

Salute to Edhi who did this without any cost

I always say those 3 words

Love you❤

hahahaha best clip ever made to the point

Magar Junaid bhai ye toh culture hai. For example, Pakistani restaurant mein order kartay huay agar "Please" na kahain toh waiter bura nahi maanta.

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There's a reason most of the organizational employees have name tags on their shirts but we don't know for sure.

We need more people like you

Also ask the server "How are you?". This makes a lot of difference because they will now think that you took some time to ask them how is their day going.

It's a true in Karachi no one even says thank you and sorry because of ego

We are so pathetic 😩

These words do soften the tone of communication but as far as British are concerned , they tend to be over polite which is a problem even for US Americans and other developed countries.

Each and every bit of your words are true... But who cares?? In fact, who acts upon and try to change him / herself??? Acha bohat acha to sab boltay hen lekin khud ko change Kon karna Chahta Hy?? Sorry, please, thank you... Maazrat, meharbani, shukriya.... These words are alien to our society! Parson ek fruit walay ko aam khareednay k baad meharbani kehdia to mujay aesay dekh Raha tha jesay usko Abba jaan kehdia ho 🤦🤦

well done junaid

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Mn please to nhn Bolta but mn thankyou zaroor Bolta hn chahay koi bhi restaurant ho.

You are absolutely right I am overseas pakistani 45 years travelling in east and west many countries sit had many many meetings with all faith people and my conclusion is Muslim word and third world generations are the worst generation.

"Beta say thank you!" 😂

Thanks!

while coming outside the bus in uk everyone says thanks to the driver

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But what if our parents are strict and their social circle revolves around islam and they are too much possessive about girls and boys topic and wagera wagera then what we have to do Sir?

Idk why I feel that the more magical words I use, the more feminine I'm becoming. I understand the message but it's disgusting to feel feminine as a man. People unknowingly acquire certain traits with specific actions that diminishes their current traits.

In school, we were used to cleaning our class room 5:00

I am a Pakistani who moved to the US at the age of 12. We, as Pakistanis are not taught to say these 3 words.

when foriegners ask us pakistanis living abroad to teach them some urdu words why dont we teach them to say shukriya instead of going say phenchod its very annoying

"Bund ma ghuss raha hai!" o yar Junaid bhai 🤣🤣😂😂 ku aise mazedar joomle bolte ho yar 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Here in Pakistan no one say thanks and sorry they Feel this is there insult

lol! Junaid bhai kaha ki batain kar raho ho!! Kia last visit Mars ka kia tha!? kam Pakistan me rehte he!! Jokes side me! but you are 101% right!

My mum went Pakistan in January and she came back so annoyed that nobody uses basic manners. Even when people are educated and/or rich, they refuse to show these basic manners. You’re right that it shouldn’t matter about class but I would expect an educated person to be mindful of these things.

That story in the start of the video, i doubt that happened. Air hostesses arent allowed to have these kind of interactions

Yes, what you are saying is true. But this is a cultural thing. The same society is again not very warm to house visitor and want an exact headcount for dinner and weddings. On the other hand Pakistani and Indian weddings are organized on estimate and guests are always welcomed. Not everything about the western society is Nobel.

Junaid Bhai seen is that if you say thanks you sorry and please and mean give respect to others and talk in friendly manner our society say to that person that you are a Burger Mummy Daddy......................... Nothing to say

Qoum thay kab??

Yha pe agr please bol diya na tu usne sandwich hi nhi dena ha 😂

3:50 💀💀💀😭

Signal torhnaa toh bohat chotti si baat hey… yahan pey toh mamoo hamaari maa ki hissey ki jaidaat harrap k dikaar bhi nahi maartey, phir issi mu se hamien namaaz/rozey ki naseehatien kartey (religion shaming) hein.

Maybe that thank words is halal in .....😂😂

Here even there is no concept of zebra crossing ..People don't let anyone cross the road ..And unfortunately this is one saddest reality of Pakistan

I said these words 'Please', 'Thank you' to car mechanic here in Pakistan or us ne mujhsy double paisy mangey ye soch kr k ye bnda bht seedha hai xD

So 10% of the passengers were foreigners and the air hostess still didn’t get a thank you until she gets to the last row ? Such a “believable” story 😅

Agar koi Pakistani sorry thanks bolay ga to us ke ego hurt hogi…

I say shukriya instead of Thank you when I am in Pakistan. This shopkeeper once misheard me and said "Chutiya kisay bol rahay ho? " 💀

Very true . 70’s Pakistan was so great people use to come to Pakistan for better life , education and jobs . Once Zia came he changed my school to worse . English left Pakistan. I left in 1979 for USA . Economy of Pakistan was great then . Last forty years Pakistans economy not only went down but Pakistani left Pakistan. Political is worse and unstable . Rupee falling like a rock . I wish Pakistan copy india or Bangladesh. They copied Pakistan but Pakistan copied criminals and corruption 😢

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Aur ap 3 lafzon ki bat karahe hain, yahan Junaid bhai log salam ka bhi jawab Nahin dete usually.

bhai amma bol tou rahe hai tameez sikhane ke liye us per bhi masla hai aur kaise karen tarbiyat

Q k hum pakistani jannati hai same same jistarah israeli 4000 saall pehlay kehthy thy

yes 40,000 rps fee but no character building

Sir asal me yaha pe logo ko please or thank you ki aadat hi nhi he. Mera apna experience he k me gas na hone ki waja se roti lene gaya or line me lag gaya jab15 minutes baad jab mera number aya to mene buht hi ikhlaq se apni rotio k lese dye or rotio ka intezaar karne laga itne me ek car wala horn de kar dukan wale ko attitude dikhaate hue rotia maangne laga. Wo roti wala counter chor kar uski baat sunne gaya or bina kisi line k usko meri rotia pakra di or wo car wala rawana hogya. Ab mjhe samjh aya k yaha ache ikhlaq wale ko log L pe rakhte he or halke me lete he isi lye attitude dikhana parta he. Phr jab mene apni tone change ki "jo k natural tha" to mjhe foran rotia mil gye. To sir aap khud dekh lena k aap jb kisi se has k baat karoge yaa sorry please thank you kam zarfo k saamne kahoge to wo aapko halke me lega jabke aap attitude dikhaoge to aapko service bhi achi milegi or aage peche b ghoomega. Sab ese nhi hote but most of the time attitude kisi waja se show karn parta he warna saamne wala attitude dikha kar aapko neecha kar deta he yehi sachai he hamari society ki. Parking walo k sath has k baat kro to sar pe beth jayga or thora bharam dikhao to dum daba kar betha rahega q k kam zarf log sorry thank you se nahi maante

Hahah😂😂😂 Good Night Manaane aajao

You are teaching the etiquette to the people who wouldn't want to change. یہ سب کنویں کے مینڈک🐸 ہیں

If pakistani become sober and courteous than we will miss entertainment, no pun intended 😂

Pakistanis call people in the worst possible way like calling a cow For example, the آهاااای ایدر آیو 👆🖐🏻

Bhai Ladkiya es liye smile Nhi deti Kyu k movies to aisi Dekhi hoti hai k “Hasi to Fasi” “ladki ki Na me Ha hoti hai” 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ Then why should they smile ?????

اسلام علیکم میں indrive پر رکشہ چلاتا ھوں۔۔۔ واقعی 90% فیصد پسینجر سیدھے موں بات ہی نہیں کرتے۔۔۔ حکارت کی نظر سے دکھتے کہ بس یہ رکشہ والا ھے😢😢 حالانکہ اللّٰہ کے حکم سے میں پڑھا لکھا ھوں اور بہت ذیادہ احترام سے بات کرنے کی کوشش کرتا ھوں۔۔۔۔ کبھی کبھی سوچتا ھوں کہ یار میں اچھی روزی تو کما رہا ھوں لیکن شاید لوگ رکشہ یا رکشہ چلانے والے کو پسند نہیں کرتے۔۔۔۔ حالا نکہ میں حلال کما رھا ھوں😢😢 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Har Shaakh pe wakae Ollu betha hai. Camouflage wala Ollu.

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