WHY WOMEN CHEAT AND HOW TO HAVE HER LOYAL?

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In this episode of Khalish Times, Yasmeen and relationship expert Sadia Khan explore the realities of long-term relationships, discussing how to maintain attraction and navigate betrayal. Sadia shares insights on the importance of staying curious about your partner, the impact of physical appearance on desire, and the complex dynamics of infidelity. Learn practical strategies for sustaining love and trust over the years and how to rebuild a relationship after betrayal.
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@edwardtalbot5556 3 месяца назад

As a man married over 30 years I live by one sentiment...always be ready to let it go...

@ankitjain3310 3 месяца назад

This really hit it. Thanks sir!

@Seli6358 3 месяца назад

That’s always rule 1

@per_growth 3 месяца назад

maybe at 30y married, your children are adults and can survive on their own - there are concerns about those who are 'stuck' in a marriage because kids are involved.

@supers0nic77 3 месяца назад

As a commenter, i agree.

@edwardtalbot5556 3 месяца назад

@@per_growth ...oh trust me I know we were stubborn over a decade bc of the 4 children we have together...now there's also 4 grandchildren...marvelous thing, but after steak every night for over 3 decades a salsd from time to time would be delightful

@dinerotranquilo 2 месяца назад

My ex cheated and I forgave. I could never see her the same and couldn't even be intimate with her. Two weeks after taking her back she said, " I should leave you." At that moment I got full clarity. She had lost all respect for me and was flexing her control. I was lost and alone. I internalized everything. I left the relationship that day and never looked back. Men once she cheats it's over. Never take them back. It's very difficult but your dignity and self-respect mean more.

@HereIAm2023 2 месяца назад

I feel you bro, like to the bone here. The already Spoiled Bitch since childhood(my ex-gf) just came back only to clean her slate, gain control and change people's(neighbors) perception I guess after all. I wish someone told or showed or mentored me on this one like 10-15yrs ago(since 13Sept2008), then I guess everything would be totally different now. Yeah!!! She's married now(good for her) to some gold digger guy who lives with her now at her place(a friend of her close cousins, brats like her), the sad part, she's my neighbor man. So, I m reminded of her cruelity like everyday I wake up in the morning, the moment I lay my eyes on her house and her daddy's looking at me with penetrating eyes(well not all the time, the last part there, as he(her father) hides behind a half opened curtain most of the time doing/helping his special son's with his office accounting work I guess, hahaha, the fucking old sly greedy banker bum). Finally, I M FREE OF THE EVIL(ex-gf and all that shit that baggage she shoved on me, since the very first days I guess) NOW, GUESS THATS WHY HE(her father and all his friends and relatives) HATES ME STILL, THE bloody OLD BANKER-LAWYER political BUM THIEF, a murderer too???). Especially maybe, after me winning his/their frivolous legal case, one which they had designed/crafted very well all along and slapped on me like a few years ago(17June2017). 😊 Anyways, Peace my Brother, the World is calling us TODAY AGAIN, whatever age we maybe at now. NO MORE WALKING ON EGG SHELLS, EVER AGAIN. AMEN. Dated TODAY: 14/July/2024, 11:35PM. Location: Planet Earth. 😊❤

@KenLahne2 2 месяца назад

Suga Free said, "No woman wants a man she can have total control over and talk to any kind of way." My question to you sir is, "why you bullshitn?"

@JamesEdwardsMarche110880 2 месяца назад

How do you define "cheating"?

@briancanbefound 2 месяца назад

Absolutely word for word my situation. They lose respect for you and you're being the bigger person here! It makes you question everything... from women in general, who to trust, what to commit to... there's too much to come back from. Men are very straight down the line but women seem to have this weaving it in down pat, and being OK with it! They move on easily. Still with her years later in marriage but should have definitely left.

@NYC1E1 2 месяца назад

I’m going through a 19 year situation exactly like yours but we still haven’t gotten back together… Even though I still love her, I hope if the opportunity ever comes around, I’m strong enough to not take her cheating ass back…

@bryanp8606 3 месяца назад

Once a woman cheats, the respect is gone! It is over!!

@lawrencechukwu1742 3 месяца назад

Once a woman cheats on her man, the man should let her go because she'll never be the same in the relationship again.

@sircefiro 3 месяца назад

100%

@michaelagyare6349 2 месяца назад

True true and it’s my personal experience.so the lesson is men should not give up all of themselves to women…it doesn’t matter….it means nothing to women when they are not emotionally attached or connected to you ,they will only be pretending to love you but their feelings and hearts are saying something else and that’s makes women dangerous and wicked people.and as a matter of fact women are more heartless than men

@wickedfreestyle102 2 месяца назад

the respect can be gone before that

@leonelmartinez4135 2 месяца назад

If she cheated there was no respect there

@WoodnetRonnie 2 месяца назад

Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 5 year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration, unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here .

@Roselinekendris 2 месяца назад

Letting go of someone you love deeply presents a formidable challenge. I faced a comparable ordeal when my 6 year relationship ended. Refusing to succumb to despair, I relentlessly pursued avenues to reconcile with him. Ultimately, I sought solace and guidance from a spiritual counselor, whose intervention proved instrumental in restoring our connection.

@WoodnetRonnie 2 месяца назад

Remarkable! How did you discover a spiritual counselor, and what's the procedure for me to get in contact with her?

@Roselinekendris 2 месяца назад

Meet Suzanne Ann Walters, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for her talent in bringing back ex-partners.

@WoodnetRonnie 2 месяца назад

Many thanks for providing this valuable information; I've just conducted an online search for her. Remarkable!

@JohnBrown-wr8co Месяц назад

Grow a backbone mate

@dreday77764 3 месяца назад

It’s funny how there’s next to no females in the comment section. Accountability really is kryptonite to women..

@dreday77764 2 месяца назад

@delaslight my comment still stands correct..”there’s next to no females in the comment section”. You don’t have to be Sherlock Holmes to figure out which profile belongs to a female. Generally the comments that are most combative to what men are saying. It ain’t rocket science..

@ivoted7199 2 месяца назад

"Accountability is kryptonite to women". Agreed

@crash42modder63 2 месяца назад

@@delaslight Female posters usually 1) blame shift. 2) play the victim. 3) lack accountability. EVERY SINGLE TIME.

@DJPashn 2 месяца назад

Facts 👍

@amandafurrow2338 2 месяца назад

To be fair would women that do not cheat even say anything about it in the comment section? But some of them have spoken up that they did not cheat. Also some women learned trying to justify their bad actions does not get people on their side.

@CityBoy5705 2 месяца назад

If she cheats on you, Walk Away, Walk Away. You can Never Ever Trust Here Again. Single Life Happy Life 🎯

@cuts240 2 месяца назад

@@CityBoy5705 absolutely true

@tonyluna7556 2 месяца назад

Yes it’s better

@edwarddiogu6377 2 месяца назад

If she's always accusing you of cheating, trust me, she's cheating

@Erik7prc 2 месяца назад

A woman will come home, hug you, tell you how much she missed you, kiss you, and tell you she loves. She'll do all that right after another man was just inside of her. Pay close attention to her new actions or lack of

@anthonywatson8050 2 месяца назад

There are men who get turned ON by cheating women, then ENCOURAGE their wives or girlfriends to do it again! There is a very popular genre of porn about that kink, cuckoldry.

@Boababa-fn3mr 2 месяца назад

They always drop clues when there's another man in the picture. Always.

@JDogB-tc3lx 2 месяца назад

@@Boababa-fn3mryeah like his pimp juice leaking down her leg 😂

@Erik7prc 2 месяца назад

@@Boababa-fn3mr yes. It's hard for a woman to keep her normal routine while entertaining someone on the side. Little things will change and you'll have a feeling inside that make you think "🤔." When you get a couple of those moments most like someone else. Or they'll fight with you on small stuff so they can justify in their mind what they're about to do or already have done. That way they won't feel bad or have to deal with the feeling of shame. Cut bait, don't ask questions, get loud, be disrespectful, walk away......quietly. it'll stay in her mind forever. Especially when she gets used up and dumped

@pabloaguilar2528 2 месяца назад

Man how did you know my wife? You described her perfectly.

@OnderHassan 3 месяца назад

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."- Neil McCauley (Heat)

@ChildeX09 3 месяца назад

Gangster asf

@jononioo2857 3 месяца назад

I literally just watched that movie the other day.

@rodigan1974 3 месяца назад

Almost 30 years later and I still haven't forgiven that mofo Waingro ...

@daniellundquest8252 3 месяца назад

Well you know for me? The action is the juice, I’m in

@Hfgnb 3 месяца назад

Don’t attach to the external.

@allmywdwrk 3 месяца назад

When it comes to cheating always remember. “If they’ll do it with you, they’ll do it to you”. 💯 of the time. End of story.

@cabanassuncity5937 2 месяца назад

Absolutely...

@runexscapexBotz 2 месяца назад

How you get them/ find them, Is how you lose them

@cintroberts6614 2 месяца назад

Just do not take them seriously because they do not even take themselves seriously. There is not a p__sy on the planet worth stressing over.

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@jonpool9030 3 месяца назад

Men don't forgive cheaters. We tolerate for different reasons but, but won't ever trust again

@RandomUser25122 3 месяца назад

But staying around just gives her the green light to cheat again and again. And she will do so because she no longer respects or wants to sleep with the guy she cheated on. Forgiveness pretty much makes you one step closer to being a cuckold, IMO

@LocPham-kw5ut 3 месяца назад

Men should forgive, but keep their boundaries. If she cheat, give her the gift of missing you forever for the rest of her life. It's the only right move to do. Keep her then she will lose respect for you, be mad at her then she will lose respect for you. Send her away with love, that's all a man could do, there is no turning back once a woman choose to cheat.

@charlie_remi 3 месяца назад

@LocPham-kw5ut I agree why is it ok for a man to cheat but a women can't men don't like a taste of their own medicine cheating is wrong regardless of gender

@dustinmezz461 3 месяца назад

@@LocPham-kw5ut love this message, not forgetting this one 💯

@DeathsInverse 3 месяца назад

It's over if she cheats. That's all there is to it.

@haywood0457 3 месяца назад

Stop. When a woman has relations with another man, there is an emotional feeling and connection she likely has. For her to open herself up to another man and let him dip in waters is a huge issue because it’s difficult for women to move to the next at the flip of a dime. Men are more so able to have relations with little to no emotional attachment. I’m not absolving men or women from cheating. But to say what you said means you have very little understanding to our wiring as different sexes. There are DISTINCT differences between men and women.

@nobleidowu4919 3 месяца назад

@@charlie_remi I think traditional, religiously and morally it's only right for a man to marry a woman or women and not the order way round. Men must be men and women must be in their place and space

@themick6586 3 месяца назад

If a woman cheats, the man needs to walk, leave her, leave the kids, scorched earth, give no support. Cheating is the ultimate disrespect and betrayal to a man, and if she cheated those kids might not even be yours.

@a.fitzpatrick4395 2 месяца назад

"Leave the kids"??? What did they do to deserve that?? B.S. !

@emersonr7481 2 месяца назад

Redneck mentality

@jonnydunn7377 2 месяца назад

Leave the kids? Now I know why should we have cheated 😂

@harmoniousembodiment7203 2 месяца назад

One thing that massively changed my understanding of women ( reduced my trust of them ) is as a certified massage therapist the amount of women, very often physically attractive, working in a range of professions like airline pilots and airline stewardesses, attorneys, nurses, stay at home wives, etc, who indirectly and directly express sexual openness & interest during their massage sessions. Even when I worked at high end spas, clinics. So many would subtly or overtly remove their draping, move sexually invitingly, grab me, etc... Even when they have a boyfriend or are married. Unfortunately many women also get vindictive and threaten or make false accusations against honest men if men decline womens desires, or are open to them, to attempt to hide and avoid their equality of responsibility and accountability for their feelings, attitudes, behaviors and effects of such.

@lexzenis2544 2 месяца назад

so did any get hostile with you if you rejected their advances?

@harmoniousembodiment7203 2 месяца назад

@@lexzenis2544 yes.

@CaribSurfKing1 Месяц назад

She was gorgeous and interesting and cheated on me when she was 19. Fine, we move on. She then stalked me via social media and wanted to re-kindle once she hit the 30 year wall ( and she had mentally ruined another man ). I ignored her until she was in her late 40s, then sadly told her she had made so many life mistakes. Then, somehow, she wins social lottery and ends up with her dream multi millionaire playboy. Life….is NOT predictable

@Eros13adios Месяц назад

Men in general, we're bunch of SIMPS. I understand why the extremist Misandrist MGTOW dislike women and men's simping behavior..

@user-nc8se9in8o Месяц назад

Most married men never find out their wives be cheating that’s the messed up part they play the role well for years with no guilt

@ArizonaAirspace 3 месяца назад

I think the reality is initial physical attraction fades over time. Unless there is an emotional connection to begin with, speaking for myself only, once the physical attraction goes away, it is very difficult to stay loyal. I think it is the same with women. I used to think we, as men, are more likely to cheat but my personal experience has been that women are more likely to cheat while in a relationship because she gets so many more temptations and offers from other men.

@rabinraj15 3 месяца назад

Agreed... We don't realize that women has evolved especially in the past 30 years... They’re a different breed & I'm not sure whether the available academic literature on the topic still covers the topic accurately.... 🤔 I highly doubt it, though 🤷🏽‍♂️

@per_growth 3 месяца назад

I agree with you completely. If you are expected to be sexually faithful to only one person for the rest of your life and that one person does nothing to stay physically attractive for you - I really can't see how this is fair. If she brings sex and sexual attractiveness to the table and you bring in money and security. Does it mean that if she fails at keeping herself physically attractive you can also stop providing for the family?

@ArizonaAirspace 3 месяца назад

@@per_growth No, not if you are in the hook by marriage especially if you have kids. You have legal obligations as well as moral obligations. I never married so I don’t have that problem, but I do get attached emotionally to a woman I’ve been involved with, many times to my detriment. I have a really difficult time detaching myself from a relationship that has gone sour because of guilt and sorrow over what could have been. Honestly, I don’t mind spending my money on a woman I’m attracted to because I enjoy beautiful women’s companionship more than anything really so that doesn’t bother me. I’ve never understood how some of these men can have one affair after another without feeling any remorse or guilt over the ending because for me when an love affair ends, it takes few years for me to recover. I never cared for body counts because it’s the quality of pleasure that matters to me, not how many.

@godleveleldritchblast5257 3 месяца назад

To everyone in this comment section, no the academic research says other wise to women evolving. They clearly show they haven't changed at all in the last 30 years. They haven't changed but for the factors of being lazier and more sly. It shows that they don't regret the action of cheating but the act of being caught cheating.

@ArizonaAirspace 3 месяца назад

@@godleveleldritchblast5257 Hahaha. I think you are right based on my recent experience.

@omertaez 3 месяца назад

If she is cheater dump her because she doesnt respect him anymore. Period

@omertaez 2 месяца назад

@@delaslight if there isn't respect then there is no love

@tetedur377 2 месяца назад

@@delaslight Women are incapable of love. They don't love themselves, they don't love their partners, they don't love their children. As the saying goes: men are in it for love, women are in it for money. The sooner men figure this out, the happier they'll be.

@freakymeltdown1 2 месяца назад

It should work both ways. If men cheat, women should leave too

@biggerbitcoin5126 2 месяца назад

The internet has destroyed modern relationships

@leoi9617 2 месяца назад

This is why I’m cool with being single forever. Solitude is bliss 💫

@dennyfie 2 месяца назад

I would never be in an other relationship.Never!!!

@brandonroque2226 2 месяца назад

It isn’t but I guess we can pretend until we die. It’s all temporary like Stephen Hawking says.

@shennaemedley3828 2 месяца назад

All women do not cheat I'm 47 years old and I have never cheated on anyone in my whole entire life.Its easier to just walk away than to become anything less than who you are.

@lexzenis2544 2 месяца назад

you are a rare find then

@shennaemedley3828 2 месяца назад

@@lexzenis2544 Thank you.Yes I am.

@shennaemedley3828 2 месяца назад

@@lexzenis2544 The opportunity to walk away is always easier than the alternatives.

@briancanbefound 2 месяца назад

You mean to say; "Not all women cheat", followed by; "Only some are faithful."

@shennaemedley3828 2 месяца назад

@@briancanbefound No those are your words I stated mine the way I said it.But you're still on the same page.👍💯

@ZiveThunder 2 месяца назад

This is the most honest ive ever heard a woman be..

@thore641 2 месяца назад

Thanks Sadia, I resonated with this 100%. Its Harsh and unfortunate but it doesn't make it any less true. What that forgiveness will cost you as a man in the long term just isn't sustainable. she can't love you, if she doesn't respect and desire you. Respect and desire can only survive where there is a fear of consequence and loss. The later two fade extremely quickly when she still attains your forgiveness in spite of her disrespect and its worsens when she sees us disrespecting ourselves by sacrificing our boundaries just to keep her. Our forgiveness can mask our pain and disagreement and end up conveying that the magnitude of the offence was minor. which as you said, makes them forget the betrayal and just repeat the offence because they now deem it trivial. It wasn't reversible at this point. It simply drives them to pursue that connection and safety with the other person. I know it hurts guys but that shouldn't be a cost we are willing to pay. Goodluck guys better and more genuine will find you again.

@sircefiro 3 месяца назад

I've never cheated even though I've had opportunities, it''s a behavioral thing, if they cheat, they're gonna do it again, if people wanna be with someone else, just break up with the person you f'ing weasels. If a woman cheated on me, zero chance we're getting back together.

@johnnybgoode1726 4 дня назад

She hit ever point in my experience right now It’s difficult due to my 2 sons But once you walk away from her and stand your ground You feel liberated Depressed but that’s part of the process, now you’ll know to never want to feel that pain again….

@Davekilo 2 месяца назад

There was no hesitation from me, I walked away from a 10 relationship after I found out she cheated. Women will always try and find better, if you’re missing 1 of their desired traits they will cheat on you with a man that has that trait. It’s impossible to meet their ridiculous standards, just walk away from them legends! Be comfortable being single 💪

@henrydavis121 3 месяца назад

An old man once taught me that divorce is so expensive because it’s worth it. Keep your old friends.

@ivoted7199 2 месяца назад

Men pay one way or the other. Best to negotiate a contract. Prenup, paid escort, barter sex for service i.e. auto repair, kitchen remodel, or whatever. Get business minded fellas and get what you want & give her what she wants - WIN/WIN!

@Raj-cl7he Месяц назад

The novelty can only exist with time apart . I truly believe women and men are not meant to be around each other for to long . I think one of the best feeling is when you come together with a person you haven't seen in awhile and chat about what's new or what's happening in your current life and vice versa. You can exchange resources effortlessly and schedule your next meeting . People have to learn how to be content with being by themselves. We take human interactions for granted alot of times . When I conversate with someone because I don't always get the chance to I enjoy every minute of it and I always try to thank the other person for being in my presence.

@josephlawlor7458 3 месяца назад

This woman is extremely intelligent.

@tinyknits 2 месяца назад

"most betrayal involves an unmet need" - let that sink in

@DeeJay003 2 месяца назад

An unmet need that is usually based on a delusion. And when the reality of the consequences of that delusion hit home, they usually can't take it. And spend the rest of their lifetime in regret.

@tinyknits 2 месяца назад

@@DeeJay003 "Based on a delusion?" -Sounds like an excuse to me.

@flammarama 2 месяца назад

Women's needs change daily

@tinyknits 2 месяца назад

@@flammarama Women need masculine containment so they can be in their feminine energy. Masculine containment means feeling support, love and protection from their partner. Without that, women will either be forced to be in their own masculine energy or look for it elsewhere.

@tinyknits Месяц назад

@@flammarama This comment just shows how you don't understand women. Many women are looking for support. Support is not just financial. It's also emotional, physical, mental and spiritual. Give a woman masculine containment to make her feel safe and she will give you feminine energy in return (nurture, love, support). The only way to fix the disconnect between men and women is to understand. Stop this echo chamber and start listening. I don't speak to be a bitch, I speak to help change this world.

@lsporter88 3 месяца назад

I'd be careful with the idea that Men forgive more times than not. A Man with options is more likely to dump you and move on than deal with disrespect. If he doesn't have options, or confidence, that's probably why you cheated or thought you could cheat in the first place. But then the question becomes, why did you pick him in he first place if he wasn't your best option? Which leads to another point which is that many times, Women miscalculate or don't know what level of Man they can actually retain long term. You can get plenty of Men to sleep with you, even good looking or rich Men, but that doesn't mean that those Men are good for you, or will commit to you. More discernment and self awareness (introspection) needs to be developed in some Women. If you aren't sure (and sometimes you aren't) ask a Male Relative or Friend to help you evaluate the Man you're interested in. Don't let your pride or your passion keep you from seeking trusted Male advice. And if you don't have any Man that you trust, you should then ask why that is. Is there something you could be doing differently to change that? Because you need to. Great video.

@JonathanGonzalez-jz4td 2 месяца назад

Cheating is pure disrespect and there is no coming back plain and simple.

@wanye1947 2 месяца назад

2 intelligent women here, I enjoyed listening, well articulated as well

@derekgriffith4324 2 месяца назад

Never fully emotionally commit. Don't worry about wether she's cheating or going to cheat. She is. They cannot help it it's the way their wired

@chrisfortune9491 2 месяца назад

A woman may feel regret for cheating, but she will never change her habits. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Before you enter into relationship with a woman, you have to observe her for many months to see what kind she is.

@williamtiffee3799 2 месяца назад

This is WHY I (almost) find it "amusing..." that these over 30- 35 women (especially those with a child or more, by other men!) think ANY MAN (vs. man- boy) is going to "trust her," and why I always "left first..." after giving her (them) enough rope, to "hang with." (i.e. No rings... and no 'spoils,' for the undeserving...) And once a hypergamous "monkey brancher," they can never again, be "trusted." (Nor properly: pair- bonded...) "No fault" divorce, is a CRIME. It benefits the Temple BAR and practically noone else! (Certainly not men, nor the children!!)

@briancanbefound 2 месяца назад

I've actually heard this before from relationship therapists. They will feel bad but would do it again, based on a survey.

@IamnotfromUSA Месяц назад

No they don't. A lot of them will just leave you if you don't treat them well. Which is what mature people do.

@sigm7a827 3 месяца назад

Find a God fearing woman. That’s the answer.

@stoundingresults 2 месяца назад

AMEN! THE Church ladies are old school loyal.

@fivebooks8498 2 месяца назад

Church women are just as bad. The rate of cheating and divorce is exactly the same when a woman is a Christian.

@7thlion1 2 месяца назад

They cheat too.

@quintonnkoane9885 2 месяца назад

They cheat with the pastor

@shottaking1448 2 месяца назад

@@7thlion1😂

@Ghhh-on3nl 2 месяца назад

Sadia you are always on point. It actually hard to listen to these videos because there always true

@Bob-u9d7n 2 месяца назад

Wow that is such great information. I hope every man watches this! I wish I had known this as a young man! Thank You!

@misaghkhosravi4541 3 месяца назад

IF HEART IS NOT ENGAGED , NO ONE IS LOYAL :)

@MrDoppiocazzotto 2 месяца назад

How to have them loyal forever: 1. Have a great sexual chemistry (satisfy her multiple times, everyday) 2. have respect for yourself and don’t let her, nor anybody else, step on you. She will respect you too. 3. Stay in shape and don’t become lazy, especially after marriage. 4. Always try to improve as a person, husband and father. 5. Always try to be more competent and make more money. 6. Choose a wife material girl, even if she’s not a top model, even if she’s not perfect (nor you are). She will be the best wife for you, and the best mother you can give to your kids. Good luck

@anthonywatson8050 2 месяца назад

You forgot the MOST important requirement. Choose the woman who has a deep, burning desire to just be in your company, the woman who likes you MORE THAN YOU LIKE HER!

@Svdnina2000 2 месяца назад

@@anthonywatson8050Be careful with that. Women don’t desire men like men do women. It’s just lust and limerence. Liking someone vs Desiring someone are worlds apart.

@briancanbefound 2 месяца назад

7. Grow together. Respect each others individuality and your/her journey in life. Support this and enjoy it.

@Only1forL 2 месяца назад

You can have all these things and she will still cheat … lmaoo good luck

@Maskman_original Месяц назад

@@Only1forL So true

@Dansyoung 3 месяца назад

There are billions of people on the planet, no sense trying to make a relationship work with someone who has already established they are not trust worthy. If you have kids it even more reason to show them there is a time to walk away. The choice of being single is also a wonderful option. Being single is better than being with someone who has zero respect for you

@per_growth 3 месяца назад

I've seen first hand how a damaged famiily has affected the child. It is not a pretty sight - and I fear that won't get fixed anytime soon. Having kids is the same as having a 20 year sentence. If they become adults and can go about on their own - that's the only time I would freely leave. Other than that - I'm dad and I'm here for you no matter what.

@Dansyoung 3 месяца назад

@@per_growth Doesn’t work that way. You cause the children more harm by staying. It teaches them that it is acceptable to live in a toxic environment, they will mirror these relationships in their future.

@davidc.5054 2 месяца назад

A man should not accept disrespect from a woman of any kind. It's the beginning of the end. It's probably long before the woman decides to cheat on him.

@andycarrasco6062 2 месяца назад

her mom told me she was not ready we married she cheated then married him and cheated on him. l loved her just respect yourself and let Karma take over and find the good woman a unicorn in todays world many blessings

@user-gb1ne5jj8v Месяц назад

So very true I’m here to say I’m a loyal man that lost everything due to a cheater

@mohithart3824 3 месяца назад

All i heard was man's life ain't easy but we keep rolling.

@compostdave 3 месяца назад

Nobody cares about that though. We're just expected to keep rolling with no regard for the build up over the years. This is the problem in society nowadays, men have no outlets for their traumas. This is often self-imposed though. Men, if your friend had some sort of issue, would you let him vent and get it out so you could talk it through? 99% of men would say yes they would, but they wouldn't open up to their friends who are most likely in that 99%. But that's the expectation, shut up and keep moving. No wonder the MGTOW movement got so popular, loneliness is easier to deal with than bottled up traumas.

@mohithart3824 3 месяца назад

@@compostdave true.

@Daydreg 2 месяца назад

No one cheats you. You cheat yourself by not being able to accept the truth of who you have chosen next to you. You need to do better. Every day. For the rest of your life. Then, you’ll never be cheated. You will be respected because you respect yourself. Enjoy

@Chris-rm7zr Месяц назад

Aaaand there it is. If she cheats, it's your fault. I don't know why I was expecting more from this.

@ChillOut1716 3 месяца назад

There are so many levels to this. As a divorced man of a disastrous marriage involving a woman with a secret secondary life. The protective steps a man needs to take these days before saying “I do” needs to be an open topic. And let’s be honest , not all men are loyal either so the subject matter should be shared universally. Thanks to technology, social interaction with others outside the relationship is easier than ever and we all need to protect ourselves

@jaycole6824 2 месяца назад

Just don't say I do.

@therealjd1503 Месяц назад

How did you find out about the secret life?

@bmxplay2 2 месяца назад

Never forgive. Truth gives women a lot more control. You walk away and leave that day.

@iamanovercomer3253 Месяц назад

FORGIVENESS * Is a choice not a feeling * IT FREES YOU NOT the person who hurt you * It is between God and you not the person who hurt you * Unforgiveness causes bitterness which can cause infirmity * If you expect God to forgive you , you have to choose to forgive ⭐Matthew 6:14-15 ( NLT) 14 “If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. 15 But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. * IT'S SIMPLE NOT EASY BUT IT IS HEALING, AND GOD MEETS YOU WERE YOU ARE AT * NOTE: GOD KNOWS WHAT HAPPENED & HE KNOWS THAT YOU WERE HURT BUT HE LOVES YOU TOO MUCH FOR YOU TO CARRY THE BURDEN OF THE PAIN YOU ARE CARRYING. HE WANTS YOU TO GIVE IT TO HIM . JESUS PAID THE PRICE OF the pain 💔 at THE CROSS * DON'T BELIEVE THE LIE - THIS IS HOW IT IS. ⭐JOHN 10:10 (NLT) The thief’s ( devil) purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My ( Jesus Christ) purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life. *Hint : if you are always " busy" - can be a subconscious reaction so you don't have to deal with the pain or believe that you have to do things to make people like you or if "you" bring up something that happened in the past - chances are there is still unforgiveness in "your" 💔. GOD IS IN THE RESTORATION BUSINESS AND IS LOOKING to HEAL THE 💔 SO WE CAN WALK IN ALL HE HAS FOR US ❗ YOU WERE CREATED FOR SOMETHING SPECIAL DON'T SETTLE FOR WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOU BUT WHAT GOD SAYS ABOUT YOU ❗ ⭐Psalm 34:18 When someone is hurting or brokenhearted, the Eternal moves in close and revives him in his pain. ⭐Matthew 11:28 TPT “Are you weary, carrying a heavy burden ❓ Come to Me. I will refresh your life, for I AM your oasis.

@ez-g3090 2 месяца назад

So thats all you have to do to get rid of her Is to let her cheat? So easy. Just stop paying attention to her and she'll leave eventually

@planbmindset9475 Месяц назад

Honestly fellas, women cheat out of boredom. Join a CrossFit gym, get a new hairstyle, accessorize, and walk past her. She's going to be intrigued by the new you and jealous of the new female attraction you generate

@Therealtelly 2 месяца назад

I feel like sadia Khan is the right woman to be the mother of my kids fr

@marc2638 2 месяца назад

If they cheat they cheat you will never change a person that way, making someone happy to not cheat is an impossible task you can not possibly hold someone accountable for someone else’s happiness. If you aren’t pleasing your woman more times than not that’s her not letting you do it most times not all the time, cheaters cheat because they want to do that some cheat for sexual gratification others cheat because they think they’ve found better than their current partner either one is absolutely unforgivable and disgusting. If you are with a cheater she or will will cheat period,,, you won’t stop them, it’s better for you to set boundaries and live by them

@OmarAlmanza-qx5zf 2 месяца назад

Lol iktr marc can't turn no how into a housewife 💯💯😭

@ZaphodsPlanet 2 месяца назад

I don't care how wonderful she is,..... she cheats... she's GONE. Women live in such a state of emotional delusion it never ceases to amaze me.

@LionofJudah 2 месяца назад

How can a woman who has not grown old with a partner tell you about how to keep it interesting with a partner? Theory and reality are two complete separate things. No matter the conviction someone speaks with, it does not mean it is the truth. JaH bless

@Maskman_original Месяц назад

Facts

@StevenC32 2 месяца назад

If someone in a relationship cheats, it could never be amended period, because there will always be a level of distrust. Once a person demonstrates themselves untrustworthy, then that trust can never be restored. Some people still stay together after infidelity, but it could never be like it was before.

@fivebooks8498 2 месяца назад

I can’t even begin to think about forgiving a cheater until we have been split and I am over her completely. Only then can I dig deep inside and truly let it go. As long as we remain together I just have disgust and absolute hate for her. I will never love her again even after I’m over her and forgiven her.

@DriftWander770 7 часов назад

Very interesting, thanks for the advice

@1907senior 3 месяца назад

What a feminist approach. If a woman cheats, she doesnt go back, but man does. Huh. As a man, if I start thinking to cheat on my girl friend or my wife, it means something is wrong with the relationship/marriege. Then I speak to her, if I am sure the problem will not be solved I inform her and I leave. I don't cheat. Cheating is for loosers. Cheating is fooling yourself. If a person, whether man or woman cheats, then it is all about their lack of personality and character. It DOES NOT ABOUT GENDER. Do not try to show that women are higher version of human kind. And Relationship/marriage is a commitment and has to be managed equally by each side.

@williamtiffee3799 2 месяца назад

Indeed... And if a woman is (or becomes) "a feminist," then she clearly isn't: "LTR material." (Perhaps the ultimate "enslavement and depop, etc." Agenda 2100 part of the PLAN?!) Talk about "delusionally denialist, cognitive dissonance!" (PTB: "I know! We'll market it... as: FEMALE, empowerment?" Bravo! The tax and debt- enslaved 'sheeple...' are so dumbed- down, and GULLIBLE!!")

@kellygreenii Месяц назад

Men don’t forgive. It’s just the price of divorce is so high: financially, relationally, etc… “It’s cheaper to keep her,” exists for a reason. But it’s a bad idea, because she will never respect you if you take her back.

@TristaShedler 3 месяца назад

How to have her loyal…. Listen to her needs. If she keeps telling you what she needs it’s not nagging, she keeps repeating because you’re not giving her what she needs!! Yes, I understand men want desire! So do women!! When a man desires another woman in public, online etc.. women lose desire after they see how easily another woman can distract a man from their “ loyalty” Stop the porn!! It’s killing relationships.

@RandomUser25122 3 месяца назад

I don’t like porn but him turning to porn is a sure sign that she isn’t fulfilling him, or something is missing in their relationship so this works both ways. She isn’t giving him what he needs. Modern women have people telling the, they look cute every time they post a photo so over time that tends to go to a woman’s head. That explains why 80% of US divorces are initiated by women. Sadly evidence is that many regret it when they find that the grass isn’t greener and social media Likes and comments do not translate into a replacement relationship.

@nickdipaolofan5948 2 месяца назад

I've learned to never listen to what a woman says, watch what she does. Women nag as a shit test and they wind up losing respect for a man that doesn't put her in check when she tries to nag. Women also like to test boundaries (like chatting up other dudes in front of her man) and will also lose respect if not put in check. Basically, women are constantly testing to see what they can get away with (like a child) and seem to stay with the men that put up with less, not more bad behavior. This has been my experience time and time again.

@williamtiffee3799 2 месяца назад

The so- called "British Invasion" (i.e. of loose Sex, Drugs and Rock n Roll 'pre- programming') Femi- schism, abortion, contraception, and porn!

@ricardogaspard5287 2 месяца назад

This woman is only here to help women have failed relationships

@coolwater1573 3 месяца назад

Why men self delete. Suffering in absolute silence and pain.

@RonHarrisMuscle 2 месяца назад

Women never consider it cheating when they do it -

@briancanbefound 2 месяца назад

True because it's an emotion need that is met and that's not 'cheating' technically in their minds somehow

@per_growth 3 месяца назад

"if you don't stay on top of your looks, your partner will lose interest in you". 100% spot on. Letting go of yourself, gaining 20lbs because you lack discipline to look good will make you less physically attractive. Period. You will be less attractive to your partner just like you will be less attractive to anyone else. It doesn't mean he won't love you - but why would you assume that your partner SHOULD FIND YOU PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE when you're really NO LONGER physically attractive?

@tiacann2571 3 месяца назад

I agree. Also if a man provides a lifestyle that he can’t maintain- that makes him less attractive as well.

@per_growth 3 месяца назад

@@tiacann2571 agree 100%.

@postworld1185 3 месяца назад

Nah - fat married women get hit on daily by others - maybe not their husband - so they cheat and blame it on their husband's lack of attention- because losers will fuk anything and validate a fat women so she never has to change. Husband loses because he has a fat wife and he loses because she's a cheater.

@RandomUser25122 3 месяца назад

The irony is that even if she puts on 20lbs she will still be able to find some Chad who will bang her just because she lets him. I suspect for guys who are 20lbs overweight it is the exact opposite.

@jeffproulx8584 2 месяца назад

@per_growth i totally agree, just she is allowed to get fat and lazy.

@Guy-mx4fb Месяц назад

Men should never be in love with a woman, just get along that way you can the relationship without hesitation at the slightest sign of disrespect

@daledisharon6015 3 месяца назад

This is the ultimate level of disrespect some men may be able to forgive others are more primal and just will not accept the disrespect!!! Women who choose to do this better know which of these men they are married to.

@overland3962 2 месяца назад

What a great channel and breakdown of emotions for men and women.

@VisionaryInk 19 дней назад

Forgive and forget. Love your life, have a purpose and always enjoy quality time but never trust or be emotionally attached to woman.

@manvirsandhu9315 3 месяца назад

any man that has forgiven a cheating woman (idc if its just emotional cheating).... is not a man. He is a little naive boy with insecurities who doesn't have experience with woman nor a mentality of abundance.

@iamanovercomer3253 Месяц назад

@simonthepukkapieman1387 3 месяца назад

Forgive her for cheating and work out where your responsibility lies, be it choosing the wrong woman or acting weak but don't stay in a relationship with her, your asking for trouble if you do.

@williamtell5365 11 дней назад

Reverse Hotel California for me. A woman can check out, but if she does then she's never checking back in again.

@sweetseedfarms Месяц назад

This is gems

@whiskywillie Месяц назад

Fellas, don't ignite the cheating light. Be humble and do the right things.

@UH60Z28MRO 2 месяца назад

It's a lack of integrity, no excuses. One can always break up and leave.

@toshioikene8200 3 месяца назад

You know, it would seem easier to clean off a hotdog that someone spit on than to clean off a pizza/burger that someone spit in. Both are nasty, but one just seems dirtier than the other. Just saying...

@RandomUser25122 3 месяца назад

😂

@shane6284 Месяц назад

Who cares if she cheats, we are always only just dating. If I find out she’s been with someone else, I’m done and on to the next. “Whatever happens, your feet are still tapping” -Damone

@tonem427 2 месяца назад

My advice to many men out there. DONT WATCH THIS VIDEO 😂😂😂

@javiermorales365 2 месяца назад

To me, cheating is your wife talking to another man privately that’s the beginning even if it seems platonic. You end that immediately and let her know unacceptable unless you are aware and know the man. Having sex with someone else is beyond cheating it’s putting nails to the coffin of your marriage or relationship. Period there is almost never a way back unless the man convinces himself to live in pain the rest of his life. For me it’s not worth it

@eonlub 2 месяца назад

So in short as long as no one gets sick first or has a misfortunate setback they're okay. The first one that does will be deemed unappealing

@GiftigeBalspuwer Месяц назад

And this is why i say single !

@otimmo 2 месяца назад

Transactional loyalty is not loyalty.

@eniggma9353 Месяц назад

Aye ❤

@MidnightMan-hb7nd Месяц назад

I dont know why I suddenly remembered your interview with Andrew Tate

@RemmyD-g4k 2 месяца назад

My wife stepped out. And when she stepped out, it just opened up the door for me to do what I wanted to do. There were no more chains on me. Stay together for the kids, but get out there and spread your seed

@Pheonix1111 2 месяца назад

Ladies, if your husband cheats on you, divorce him immediately. The trauma and damage he causes is devastating. Many women commit suicide as a result of their husband cheating. Men do not see their own cheating as being horrible. But it always is to a woman. Cheating is extremely traumatic.

@jdilly1511 2 месяца назад

How do you know they killed themseleves cuz their husband cheated? You asked them?

@justone3243 Месяц назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😀

@wave4685 2 месяца назад

It definitely destroys a man

@estuardomoran3241 2 месяца назад

If a woman cheats it is NOT the man's fault or the other way around. If you're involved with a cheater you my friend are simply involved with a person with no moral values, period. Drop her like a hot potato and move on with your life.

@edferguson8991 3 месяца назад

Heard, she's a single mum, rich family, rumours? Either way advice is always beneficial

@AaronCo2 2 месяца назад

Financial cheating is just as detrimental. I tried to forgive, then I was the bad guy somehow. Much happier and just as poor without her. Leave gents, leave.

@Redneckboy991 2 месяца назад

A friend cheated on his wife several times with several women. She even knew about it. His wife gained so much weight during their marriage that he was completely turned off but stayed because of the kids. Once the kids became adults he initiated the divorce.

@justone3243 Месяц назад

So he did everything he could for him and his kids. Great father!

@369TCC Месяц назад

Advice for men who’ve been cheated on or wronged. Leave.

@rapidfire409 Месяц назад

Self respect.

@nwezecharles806 3 месяца назад

I don't agree with the fact that men forgive women more. In the past, men made fun of it, and in recent times, women made fun of it shamelessly as well. That doesn't mean that men forgive more. men do not forgive cheating. they leave or go have a happy home elsewhere. any man who forgives cheating has been doing it without remorse and is okay with it. Have a look at Will and Jada. Will only found out he made a mistake by allowing an open marriage because he wasn't always around or his wife cheated, and he wanted to cover it up with an open marriage. Men can't live with the imagination of his wife submitting to another man. If you say men forgive, then for how long will they live with it. That's the question. Men who forgive and live with it longer are the ones who their wives provide for them rather than the other way round. No man, who is the provider, forgives cheating. Please go and do your research and get back to me at the @sadia Khan podcast.

@Svdnina2000 2 месяца назад

I wouldn’t say men “forgive” more, but they most likely stay and tolerate it until the can’t any longer. Men have way more to lose, especially if they are married. If he cheats or she cheats - it’s still no fault divorce. It’s the same reason why men cheat and go back home. It’s where their money is - it’s an anchor.

@John-vl3uq Месяц назад

No men don’t forgive cheating!

@malachisproduction 2 месяца назад

Here is my motto for all men to live and stand by: No fear No fucks given No emotional attachments to any outcome.

@paulinbill1568 2 месяца назад

Wisdom 👍👍

@ivoted7199 2 месяца назад

Sadia is great! Between her and Jordan Peterson, one can learn quickly the tools for a better life. Both are wicked smart, think fast, and communicate effectively.