So spot on in regards to reasons why...as a female, I think you articulated it better than me 😊..... I noticed that when I like someone, I pull back to observe the type of man he is for many of the reasons listed...for compatability and to get a peek of the type of man that he really is...yet, I do enough to let him know along the way, that I'm interested...in hopes of making him feel secure enough to move forward. If he doesn't move..I have my answer. He's not the one for me.
Hey Dan, you're right. I'm the type of guy that immediately gives up and walks away if she plays hard to get. Going after someone that isn't reciprocating makes me feel worthless. It might be an ego thing, or I might just have low self-esteem.
Being playfully arrogant and having confidence works every time. Once there was a girl i didn't think i had a chance with so i just behaved normally without a filter and we ended up dating at the time i didn't know what happened but know i understand. Thanks dan the modern man.
One thing to be an expert on a subject, even more impressive is knowing how to convey it in a manner that is easy to understand and apply. Really appreciate your clear examples and explanations Dan, thanks!
Very spot on Dan! This is what I've been saying for years, too. Not to brag or toot my own horn, but I'm considered very great looking by people (both men and women) and am a competitive bodybuilder, and you think I have the easiest time getting the woman I want? You think my problems are solved because of my looks? Oh no! I get women, both younger and older, no matter what part of the world she is from, who constantly play these games and give me s**t tests!
Hey Dan I followed all of your advice and grew to be a more emotionally masculine and unselfish person. This made my ex want me back and we have now fixed our issues. You are the absolute man! Keep up the good work and thank you so much for your advice
I've had 2 cases of girls that I'm 100% sure like me, but their behavior,..., OMG. They tryed so hard to show low interest, that I ended giving up. I never knew why they acted like that?
Man you the best I ever heard. This is the best advice I ever heard. I was about to walk away from this girl, but now I need to go along with the flow and just hold my ground.
No wonder dating is hard. But I like this idea of independent confidence/dependent confidence. After rejections and playing hard to get, you kind of experienced them all. You realize that you have to improve yourself, work out, read more, etc. I find it funny that when you are confident and you give no special attention to any girl, you receive a lot more attention. Thanks for the idea, Dan. I quess improving yourself, building up your confidence, personality is the way to go.
Thanks. I’m seeing this women, I wasn’t sure on how to deal with this situation, as she is playing hard to get from time to time. But it all makes scene now. she is testing me to see how I will react.
This is so so accurate.. I cant believe I've dropped on a video that dictates absolutely everything to a tee in relation to what I am experiencing right now.. I met this beautiful girl just weeks ago and felt as tho I was being pushed away.. but for some reason.. maybe because I'm so attracted to her I naturally oozed confidence.. this I'm sure she notices and thankfully we're getting closer.. I'm just hoping she is the one.. I have no reason to think otherwise at the minute.. wish me luck ahaha..
This has been one of the best videos I've seen on this topic in quite some time. Don't be outcome dependent. In my opinion, if you're waiting for an indicator of interest from a woman, you're using it as an excuse to not approach her because you're wanting absolute certainty and not wanting to risk being rejected. What does everyone else think on this matter?
Another one that hit home. I have often had confidence issues and I will admit, I am one of those guys that does rely on a woman’s behaviour to determine my confidence. I definitely want to have more independent confidence cos I hate feeling helpless and insecure in a situation plus the way I see it after seeing this video, unless the girl outright rejects you and makes it crystal clear she’s not interested by saying no or completely ghosting you 😂 you have a shot Keep up the good work dan ✌️👍
Sometimes I think the universe is just there for me and trying to help me out. What perfect timing for a video on this topic. I'm at a point where I know she really likes me and she knows I really like her. She still plays hard to get even after kissing her. She acts like she doesn't care but when I don't talk to her for a week she comes back drooling over me.
This video is a gamechanger for me. Thank you very much! I usually was fed up and thought they are not the right person when they dont show enough interest. But now i understand why they do it in the beginning.
I totally agree with what you are saying regarding "independent confidence". That is the absolute key right there. independent confidence will allow you to get the girl you really want, have multiple sex partners, be completely happy alone. You gain the ability to get the exact girl want as a partner without having to settle on the first pretty girl that likes you. This is your inner game, the core of who you are needs to rock solid then women will flock to you no matter what you look like.
By the way, a man can play hard-to-get himself very effectively, and Dan is right, I've used it as a form of flirting, and I've found that the woman seldom expect it from a guy. The more experienced women will play along, probably because it allows them to playfully become the casual aggressor, and it builds the tension, both sexual & otherwise.
I am learning a lot from your links/uploads. I feel that, having internal confidence, being relaxed and not being predictable, not being desperate and displaying clear social Intelligence seems to be the real gold. They need to really want you, not you wanting them. You turn the tables around in your favour, so when they keep testing and challenging you, you still win. I shall be using this man's great advice for my date this weekend coming, having been single for a while now. It feels complex but with simple, effective techniques its not.
Female here: Watching this video I was like yeah sure those reasons are too obvious... Then came 8-10 and 12 and I was like... This is new :'D Really good content you're having!
Since i purchased your Audio book and I've been thinking about it and putting it in action I've been very successful with all women, you're awesome. ♥️
This is one of the best videos I have ever seen on any topic. Honestly, this is a masterpiece on how to deal and understand women, but the words, body language, and especially the tonality, are just amazing. And, the way you wrap up the video is just mind-blowing to me. It is impossible to not get motivated every time I watch this. Also, be wise and get The Flow.
Nice timing to get recommended. I've been thinking about a girl from 6 months ago. We both liked each other but she started playing hard to get in a slightly disrespectful way. I pretty much ignored her completely after that. She chased me pretty hard but I was already done and left wondering why she had to sabotage.
Every women you happend to be with is a bonus, and not your life goal. If she walks away no problem who cares anyway? There is plenty of fishes in the sea, and if she stay Then she is a bonus. This is the mindset you need to have! That is independence confidens
You Hit everything on the nose bro this Woman I've known my Whole life we've always liked each other we still do but she does all these things honestly we just have to really be by ourselves to really talk the way we should
Thanks for the video! It gives me perspective on some frustrating situations I’ve had. Although I believe women should show at least some effort to let the guy know his efforts aren’t in vain, I can rest easy now and not let it bother me anymore.
Dan is the ONLY dating/PUA guy I'll listen too. I've watched a lot of douchey unrealistic alcohol infused videos over the years but Dan makes those dudes look like tools. Great work here!
As a woman watching this video I can say you are most certainly correct. With my own man, I pull back into my feminine energy and become feisty and this encourages him to chase me because he is confident that I will let him come in closer. This is incredibly attractive to me and even when I turn down his advances, he keeps his confidence and is unafraid if making a move or saying something. This is certainly not just for dating, it also for long term relationships. This kind of tension can keep things exciting. Women love to be chased, but we don’t love to be absolutely worshipped. We don’t want all of our man’s power to come from us and the validation we give them.
Thing is with girls ! is not only they don't show interest -,-" they sometimes give you very weird mix signals !!!!! to illustrate, she might say things like "don't text me", "if you text me again, you will feel sorry" and then you start going around what the things you said to her to make her saying these kind of things ! the SAD part is that usually the one who you feel like she is the one !! is having these kind of behaviors :) :) :)
Bro i am in this situation!! God is watching my every move thankfully😅🙌but the good part is..her brother figured that i like the girl but was getting tired of her playing hard to get..and told me not to give up easily, he understood what her sister was doing even if it might not be on purpose
I am the last one. I showed interest so naturally, and a guy pulled away, or just thought, ok, this chick really likes me, so I can do with her anything I want (sex) than dump her. So I pull away a bit to not to give them enough direct signs. Sorry guys, but you made me bitcy, and it is sad, it is not my natural behaviour.
after watching this guy for a little bit. i found my self subconsciously doing what this guy says to do and had to start watching what i say to girls at work to keep them from getting to interested in me....i have a fiancee and dont want to wreck that. his tips help me keep my 6 year long relationship with my fiancee still full of spark. because i do these steps subconsciously now... funny enough i have to catch my self from doing it at work. the shit he says is powerful stuff.... flip the script and confidently flirt like you are interested but not full on halo effect clinger interested. dont be afraid to bust their chops a bit. being too nice or friendly puts you in the friendzone. a quiet confidence is a big help but if you dont know how to use it to your advantage it will fall apart at some point. this guy is pretty smart for sure.
I'm a woman and 100% agree with everything being said sbout a woman "playing hard to get". I just hope many men will just feel less intimidated. It's just another way we women look to be heard by you..
This type of woman is the ultimate woman, even for men unless they have low self esteem are going to want the ultimate challenge so if you recognize that your lady is behaving this way don’t give up. Keep persisting fellas.
