Why You're Not A Priority

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The reasons why a woman you are dating for several months will continue to not invest much in the relationship and not make you a priority in her life. How to determine where you are going wrong in your dating approach so members of the opposite sex will start to value you and your time.
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@kevindavis1281 7 лет назад

Just don't fall for it. Be busy. Do your own thing and don't compromise it. Work on bringing your own value up! That's it! There's your answer!!

@petergrebinger8480 6 лет назад

They all play games all the time

@Pursuit4happiness 4 года назад

@@mrs9225 Sadly some guys do the same so it just ppl you have a doom in love mentality not allowing ppl who do not have that mentality get frustrated with great ppl who can not get over the past or insecurities ... so yeah we have to accept that ugly truth and move on

@hermanlucaslucas846 4 года назад

@@mrs9225 they have this "believe women" thing going in I think its going to be another nail in the coffin for the cause of women.

@Intension123 4 года назад

@@mrs9225 Facts, right there. The majority of women have it so easy in life, not having to initiate, having the power of choosing and they manipulate the living shit out of it. Women are so stuck inside their feeling entitled bubble, that they just dont give a damn about anything other then themselfs and act like spoiled princesses who are able to do or act the way they want, without penalty. Being shallow, entitled and craving free attention, comes to women naturally, especially with the social media that killed dating for most men and the feminists.

@yeahokaycoolcool 4 года назад

A bit different when you're married, but okay

@aron8949 6 лет назад

don't be afraid to lose her, I had a women that was stringing me along, I was clearly not a priority, I told her to hit me up when she wants to hang out, I never hit her up again, and she never hit me up again. now I do not have to focus any time on a woman who is not into me.

@svasianfilipiname6603 5 лет назад

No one has “a truck load” of options unless you’re filthy rich or, famous, or you’re at least a 7+/10! 🙂

@ElevateResumeDesign 5 лет назад

Aron amen brotha

@jjmusicarchive2998 5 лет назад

9 days no contact for me. She started saying she’s gotta check her schedule and being flaky. I’ve had enough. Everything was going well for the first month. I was so happy. Crazy how that can be taken away so quickly. I’ll hit her up in 4 or 5 days and try one more time. She’s shy so idk, Still, i thought she’d reach out. It’s hard to wait and not overpersue

@kristinemorris77 5 лет назад

I completely agree. Walk away, she ain’t worth your time ✌🏾

@rickmorgan1441 5 лет назад

@@toddgoogle4387 what industry you work in )

@jazzoj5 4 года назад

3:31 this is how I lost the last chick I was dating, don't let these girls waste your time. If you get the feeling you're not a priority or you're chasing way more than her, pull back, make other things in your life a priority over seeing her, if she likes you she'll make more of an effort, if not charge it to the game and move on.

@Malitubee Год назад

This!!!

@CoachCoreyWayne 11 лет назад

Correct. All you can do is your best and sometimes that still will not be enough.

@somyan8540 6 лет назад

Coach Corey Wayne - true. 😔

@robertgibbs7513 4 года назад

Women are so complicated Coach Corey Wayne the old days used to be easy it was easier back in the old days for a man to get a woman but now it's like almost impossible

@johnbingaman3645 3 года назад

@@robertgibbs7513 you're right, and the older you get it's even harder, the older they are they have more baggage ,damage, multiple marriages and kids and exes in the background, and very independent, and a lot of the women in their fifties and sixties are really out of shape with a lot of extra pounds

@johnbingaman3645 3 года назад

@@kristianthaulow yes this is what you have to do, Corey's books and knowledge are very great stuff, but the older you get it does get harder Slim Pickens oh, well you hope they're Slim, knowledge is power

@jennifersinatra5743 2 месяца назад

Women are told to do the same thing..lol.. we're all so cautious as people are so fickle.

@monie948 9 лет назад

if someone or something is important to you you make time for it.

@ladyfay7777 5 лет назад

Exactly this.

@ladyfay7777 4 года назад

Please stop stalking me on yt.

@eggyolkeo6422 4 года назад

@@mrs9225 God damn you hit the nail right in the head.

@eggyolkeo6422 4 года назад

@@mrs9225 I know what you mean, once they start to make excuses not to text, not even in her spare time or stop giving a shit about you, there's someone else in the picture. Happened to me recently. So I walked away.

@flo_ridaa7074 4 года назад

👍🏼

@rancesullivan2446 9 лет назад

Sometimes it's better 2 just walk away. Take what dignity u still have and go. It's easier when u have been repeatedly disrespected...

@caroltrimble2738 6 лет назад

This is very true

@Aquariuswonder86 5 лет назад

Exactly

@bob-a-louannamaria7960 4 года назад

I don’t like this tactic entirely. To be ok with her fucking around with other dudes. fuck that

@bob-a-louannamaria7960 4 года назад

Al Pacino cool story bro

@mtbers 10 лет назад

Wow the first guys story is the exact same as mine. Super pathetic, never realized until you hear it from the third person.

@EthiopianSCOOT23 7 лет назад

mtbers same for me.

@18Darkside 4 года назад

Can't let emotion's take over.

@Lerroy007 6 лет назад

7:37 what to say if shes not treating you like a priority 14:14 what to do if she wont make date 14:43 what to say if she calls you the night of

@jamarnicholas5697 6 лет назад

Just be real and if she doesn't reciprocate someone else will.. I hate games.

@t-bone6636 5 лет назад

@@mrs9225 truth is in long term -> be yourself, but improve yourself steadily in all aspects!

@dickyarjuna1566 5 лет назад

Its not a game.. it just how commonly human psylogical attraction works.

@t-bone6636 5 лет назад

@@mrs9225So I dated that girl a couple of times. watching movies at the cinema. holding hands etc. she says she wants to take it slow.. she sais shes still a virgin. she moves in another city for studiing. I wont text her again.

@t-bone6636 5 лет назад

all action like kissing and holding hand came from me. she never did anything by herself.. sign that she is not interested i guess.

@joellgc 5 лет назад

The game never ends my boy

@diamon1312 6 лет назад

I am a woman and I think that's totally true:"you should value your self" best advice ever👏

@patriodiames9715 4 года назад

When my ex dumped me 5 years ago, I was devastated. I feel like the pain wouldnt end, my ego was hurt and I loved her so much. Almost destroyed my life. This guy saved me. Whenever im sad and misses her, I watch a ton of his vid and even bought his book. Thanks Coach. You saved my life. I came out fine and is now living the life I dreamt of. That ex gf started begging me and tried to win me back and I dumped her.

@lunababy662 3 года назад

It sucks when people see u as unimportant not a fun feeling

@uravggamer4620 3 года назад

Good job man, good job

@croatiancroissant28776 3 года назад

I did the same. I just wasn’t interested anymore

@bills1779 11 месяцев назад

Good !!

@flannsixtyseven7489 5 лет назад

If you are not a priority just leave. Waited for one year because i loved her so much. Hurt me even more. Should have left at her first backing away.

@liamjohnson3247 3 года назад

Exactly

@greenhax92 2 месяца назад

Same mistake

@wildflowersmile3224 5 лет назад

If you are really into someone you WILL find time for them, just like you find time for a very exciting hobby you love.

@harrisn3693 5 лет назад

The only way a girl will be interested in a bloke that aint born white nor is rockin a rockstar lifestyle is if they flash cash at a bar and be str8 up spitting pickup lines like eminem. I blame BET and MTV for women's fucked up minds

@eggyolkeo6422 4 года назад

Some talk to you in their free time, and some free their time to talk to you. Know the difference

@liamjohnson3247 3 года назад

Exactly

@alisaiful6717 6 лет назад

I had gone through all those things.. Its terrible when you found out you were not a priority. I returned back the treatment and stop making her a priority. Problem solved. I moved on with my life

@jamesnghiem3718 5 лет назад

Ali Saiful g>\ I Se

@jonathangant251 5 лет назад

Set her free because she playing with someone else . Men never wait for a woman .

@fargeeks 4 года назад

I wait, because if i seek then i feel like im some dude trying to seek obligations to value me when they dont have to do so. So yeah waiting is better off

@AgeOfBile 9 лет назад

None of us really want "that person". What we really want is how "that person" made us feel, or (if it's not an ex) how we BELIEVE they will make us feel once we're with them. Focus on achieving that feeling. You can feel that way whether you're with someone or not. Once you do, the right person will appear to match the way you feel. Focus on the relationship you want, not on any one person who may or may not be able to help you achieve it. Life can get very interesting once you can get your focus to shift in this way. Be open to ALL opportunities.

@antoniohawkins3756 6 лет назад

Sounds like Abraham Hicks😊

@reginstravels 6 лет назад

Sounds like Noah Elkrief

@eddiecarter8134 5 лет назад

Well said.

@AzraelPercussionNEO 5 лет назад

Need to work on the "ALL Opporunties" part. Need to stop with all the "All Eggs On One Basket bs"

@mtbiker4life918 3 года назад

She's just looking for attention while seeing other dudes. He needs to block her. Stop allowing women to do this. Be up front with her, tell her you're not into games and move on. This whole "let women come to you" has a line.

@thetalkinggrowthchannel9262 3 месяца назад

I agree. But that's when vetting plays an important role

@CoachCoreyWayne 11 лет назад

read my book to learn the basics

@vijaysiddhartha326 6 лет назад

awesome book

@somyan8540 6 лет назад

Coach Corey Wayne - yes I preffer to read than to watch and listen too

@reyray6287 6 лет назад

Getting your book ASAP, I’ve never had an issue picking up women but I have had issues maintaining and understanding them, I’ve been watching most of your videos and applying what I’ve learn, now I see how much I’ve been f***ing up lol, thanks for everything!!!

@sararushiti3416 6 лет назад

Coach Corey Wayne I love your videos, but can you make videos for women as well? :)

@redforeman3572 4 года назад

The definition of a loser: I dated a girl for 8 months and she’s still not my girlfriend

@sam_alimi 3 года назад

It’s not cool to call someone a loser if they don’t know much about women

@bluetheminx Год назад

@@sam_alimi yeah it is

@ABCDEFUCKOFF1 5 лет назад

Coach! Why don't you just tell the poor guy he's being breadcrumbed by a covert narcissist.

@liamjohnson3247 3 года назад

Exactly

@louiepcs 7 лет назад

been married a long time... that woman who you pamper and worry about what she thinks, who is all about herself, you would wish you never met after a few years. Because she will only get worse and more btchy when she get too comfortable. If u think u r not a priority now, when u have kids, you are just a doormat who makes money for her. So if you are dating a girl who needs to be the focus on your relationship, run barry. RUN!

@4spida2fingaz0 7 лет назад

Louie Bernabe I'll take heed to that thank you

@thesnakedecides3423 7 лет назад

It's brutal. Most women will show that dark side if they get the opportunity. Sad reality is, they will worshop the ground you walk on so long as you're fulfilling their fantasy or whatever. Once you stop being that source of emotions, you're lower than an insect to them.

@radaka 6 лет назад

That is really sad to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't value you or your happiness or needs. But both sexes are guilty of that. It's not just women who do that. There ARE good women too. And I know there are good men. Have you truly honestly sat down, when not pissed and explained to your partner how you feel? Or what they are doing to make you feel that way? And if yes and they continue to do the same, then that really does suck because I was in a marriage like that and I finally realized there was nothing I could do or say to make him care or love me differently. So after knowing I had done everything I could to make my marriage work, I got out of it. I knew I'd never be happy like that or loved the way I thought love should feel. I have no regrets because I gave my all. I know God brought me my husband now because we've been together 14 years and we do those things for each other. I'm so thankful and grateful for him and never ever take him for granted. He's my best buddy. Have and don't lose the qualities you want in your partner. But don't waste it on the wrong partner either

@krijskovacic4938 5 лет назад

I am RUNNING!!!

@jonzhang2379 5 лет назад

Xox I use be have same problem with my x.run as fast as you can bro!

@davetrottier 5 лет назад

It’s hard to walk away for good, but even if you re-attract her you’ll be stuck constantly playing the indifference game. Why bother being with someone who’s not on the same level as you.

@jonathangant251 5 лет назад

Believe me find other .

@spajas8092 4 года назад

Jonathan Gant except 95% of girls are like this. After a while you’ll end up playing the emotionally detached indifference game with a woman you’re serious about, but if you don’t play it, she’ll lose interest and leave you. It’s so stupid.

@santoparfano1910 4 года назад

Exactly..if you have to change who you are to reattact a mate then walk away bc thet aren't really into you.

@TravelButter 3 года назад

If they come back then that means something has changed for them. So just be yourself in front of them but don’t make them the focus of your life. Stick to your purpose and you’ll see just how important they really are in the grand scheme. As a result they’ll sense that energy and their attraction will stay high.

@lunababy662 3 года назад

Going through this and its true u get there attention for a few n u have to keep playing the game. Well i dont want to play anymore

@lovemecom3832 6 лет назад

This advice is helpful and enlightened for us, When someone is really into you no matter how busy she is she must willing to give his precious time just to be with you. Stop pursuing this kind of things because she is not valued time your effort.

@radaka 6 лет назад

Some people are more in love with the idea of someone than they really are in love with the person. Or they love the way you made them feel, or what they think or thought you had or could have together. Sometimes it's not even true love for that person. Nobody likes to feel rejected, makes you feel like you're not good enough or wonder what's wrong with yourself. When someone walks away LET THEM GO. And don't be pathetic! That'll push someone away or make them RUN even faster. Don't act like you can't live or be happy without them. Don't constantly obsess, call, text, keep tabs on, or STALK someone. Even if you feel psycho inside come on, at least play it cool. Nobody can miss someone or think about good thoughts when you won't get out of their ass and act pathetic. And you shouldn't embarrass yourself like that. Get help, learn to love yourself and learn to have the same qualities that you look for in someone. You can't expect qualities out of someone that you don't have yourself. Work on YOU, and it'll work out.

@thelayman6189 5 лет назад

Rachel you said many things in one breath

@AzraelPercussionNEO 5 лет назад

Nailed it. It is time to let her go. I am just a sex toy to her. Nothing real there. Music & Weight Lifting Focused keep the train rolling.

@thelayman6189 5 лет назад

Its funny Rachel, this video popped up today and without knowing I already had commented a month ago, I was once again straightaway intrigued by your long reply and lo I found my own comment below.... No offense Rachel, just sharing a lighter moment !

@davidcresse5647 5 лет назад

Rachel used periods. Laymen used commas, .

@benhartart9487 2 года назад

Fellas there’s 4 Billion women on the Planet, If she flakes, ghosts, disrespects you, just bounce onto the next ✊

@thenofilterguy3061 5 лет назад

At that point just let her go man.. no women is worth all this waiting around.

@SonOfDaProphets 6 лет назад

Ill make it easy on everyone, get more than one option! You’ll see how much effort someone puts in when you not too focused on them...

@theforexcartel6893 7 лет назад

Coach I've watched several of your vids over a few weeks. what I'm beginning to gather is everyone must undergo constant psychological/deception warfare to keep a person's attention for as long as possible.. my question is at what point do you stop being "psychological" and start being yourself? I dare say never. I also dare say that relationships must not be real if this is what dating or relationships has evolved to in this so called modern age. But then again perhaps it's always been this way. Truly there is nothing new under the sun.

@sweetswing1 6 лет назад

In short make youself your prioity. First comes you, then your family or close friends, then her.

@swiitdoll 4 года назад

Faksakes this is exactly how I treat men. Even my hobbies come before him.

@zuzukyd 4 года назад

Forever Young lol that a bit much isnt it? Hobbies dont go first lol(sounds a bit overkill to me rly)

@andjela6351 Год назад

Yeah, this is exactly the reason why I ended my relationship. If you can't make your partner a priority you are not my cup of tea, simple as that, ende. Why people are in a relatioships if they do not have a capability to make their partners as a priority. So that is not a good advice.. How anyone can create a family with someone who does not know how to commit and how to sacrifice. Nope, there is not future at all.

@scratchytwo 8 лет назад

Thank you Coach. I have been seeing a girl for 3 weeks now. I fell for her so fast without realizing that I was being way too needy and always waiting around for her to meet up. She would often be "too busy" and would hang out with friends instead of seeing me. When we do actually meet up to see each other, she would "have to leave" after 2 to 3 hours. I would always feel so sad. Decided to finally research about my situation and found this very helpful video. Subscribed and will watch your other videos!! If only we can all just act/do how we feel/want, dating would be much easier. I guess this is why people play the dating game :( People just want what they can't have and take what they do have for granted. Sad

@okhouri 7 лет назад

The sad truth of the matter is that women's only way of judging a man's worth is by how much he appears to want her. If he seems easy, she assumes he's worthless. Corey is asking us to be strong and to overcome our emotions at the beginning, until our true value is clear to the woman.

@jjmusicarchive2998 5 лет назад

@jsm0m 4 года назад

Scarcity creates value fellas 👍🏼

@flo_ridaa7074 4 года назад

👍🏼

@barad-dur9236 2 года назад

I met a girl and things moved way too fast between the two of us. I showed one glint of insecurity/emotional weakness/neediness through ONE text and it all came crumbling down. Since then, I only let her reach out to me, and when she does, I always make one overture for her to meet. I’m in the thick of it atm, I’ll know prob by next week whether or not it’s never going to happen. But thanks to Corey at least I’m putting in the absolute minimal effort until there’s a concrete outcome. I totally fucked up, so now it’s damage control and I can only hope to salvage things. She’s not my soulmate but she’s certainly worth being patient for, so long as I don’t sacrifice any more of my psyche or priorities for her. Been dating some other girls too, to help remind myself of my options.

@RaymondYocum-uw5hd 5 лет назад

Kick her to the curb! No time for games!

@Cpowers1990 6 лет назад

This is spot on and for me it is so hard to back off when i know I need to but I just say fuck it and pursue..its like an addiction. I'm working on it. Thanks Corey. I'd be a sad lost soul without your guidance.

@wulfclaw4921 4 года назад

If you aren't a priority and SHE is....Expect NO GOOD TO COME OF IT !

@Prophet776 5 лет назад

So all I'm hearing is condoning women playing games. If she plays games, leave her in the dust. Life's too short.

@wrwhiteal 3 года назад

Games can be fun.. just get better at it.

@HomemadeNub 6 лет назад

Corey Wayne nailed the video in the first minute basically. You will remove your attention and then they will either a) come back or b) a better one comes!!

@nicolaorton8603 9 лет назад

Problem with this dude is he's hooked on and desperate for a woman who had next to no interest in him to start with. Her lame once-in-a-while texts convey she had nothing going on at the time. Dude knows she can take or leave him.

@jjmusicarchive2998 5 лет назад

Scott Stanley problem is I feel like I’m in love with her. I can’t walk away for that long without driving myself crazy. There’s other women in my life but none of them compare. I think 2 weeks is long enough. She said we were dating in the beginning. It’s not normal to not see someone you’re dating for 2 or more weeks

@theforexcartel6893 7 лет назад

@AzraelPercussionNEO 5 лет назад

TheForexCartel I know right. You have to go through so much bs just to keep a woman around. There is normal working loving women out there. Dime a dozen. Good luck.

@ShifTactical 5 лет назад

Well if she falls for your fake facadè then eventually she’ll realize who you really are over time and it’s just luck if she still sticks around. Not every girl will like who you really are so if you find someone who does, then she’s the one for you.

@jacquesnicolay9221 5 лет назад

To get a girl that’s out of your league.. yes, you do have to maintain this constant facade of high value. But if she’s below you, you can be yourself and she will be attracted to you always. Drake can be himself and attract a 10, you can be yourself and attract a (insert honest number here, no judgement man) but you know what level you’re at. It’s all about what compromises you want to make in life, that’s what life is, one big compromise.

@malka4500 5 лет назад

Agreed

@9svm 3 года назад

Simps

@HumbleTrader001 11 лет назад

He could "follow all the rules" (whatever they are) and she still might not be all that into him. There's no "holy grail" (or any guarantees whatsoever) when it comes to relationships.

@johnsnow9210 5 лет назад

This could have been a 30 sec video. If you feel undervalued ask to be prioritized higher. Give her a little time. No effort = cut. Jeez

@ladyYeniel 4 года назад

The problem is not you!! She is dating someone else that she likes more. Facts.

@roc8083 4 года назад

Honestly, when women do that, its bc they are idling for another guy that she sees as higher priority. You are the back up which is why they won't commit to hanging out etc. Gotta stop idolizing women and make then wait for a change. It's a shame women do this to good guys but it's how they are wired

@fargeeks 4 года назад

Still better than having a taken lady pursuing another man.

@tonyl9075 6 лет назад

Its crazy because a woman can have u over multiple times deeply embrace you mentally and physically, share personal topics with you so warm and undoubtedly trustworhy in character. she tells you things she thinks are amazing about you even little things you do or say. Kisses you so passionately asks you not to leave her bed, babies you and in that moment you think "There's no way she could stop liking me like this unless I was a jerk or cheated on her or something band this is easy" . then she mysteriously starts texting less or acting not like herself and it can feel like how can they betray me...and so suddenly,and for no reason?.."I didn't mess things up according to my male standards here." When you actually were doing things wrong. imo it takes learning that its just the nature of the female . Trust Corey Wayne its science he teaches.

@Fakestockguru 5 лет назад

tony l yup, i just experienced that. The girl was pursuing me and i thought she had a crush on me. Then all the sudden out of the blue she gave me the “better off as friends.”

@Spiritualwarriormindset 4 года назад

Love you one week. Distant the other. Crazy. But that is the reality.

@jennifersinatra5743 2 месяца назад

Men do the same. I think women are more relationship seekers over men in general.. go figure.

@peterwapemoose2710 5 лет назад

Coach! Why would any man want to be a woman's second or third choice? Go for it if you just want sex but dont commit to someone who gives it free to everyone else.

@jacobniu1283 3 года назад

I was with a girl for 10mnths. We only saw eachother every second weekend. I wanted her to see me more. The months do matter. Its called natural progression. Never settle for anything other than what you think you deserve. I had enough when in 14days we only spent 2hrs together. I love n miss her soo much!!! But I want more from a relationship

@jneptune1540 4 года назад

She just doesn’t want to be with you.

@stevewalther2293 4 года назад

I'm sure finding a girl in the 50s would have been wonderful...

@petermachiela5441 4 года назад

When she says I'm not looking for a relationship just say me neither take it easy. Like Corey said have fun & hookup

@lsj8693 5 лет назад

Does the 80/20 rule still apply to a middle aged single mom that has an 18 yr old and a 10 yr old daughters?

@billybob-fh4wz 4 года назад

Yeah, like everyone says if people want to see you they will find even 4 seconds to be with you.

@richdrago8235 5 лет назад

Wonder what has happened to the covenant we made to God and each other? The marriage vows are to be taken seriously...life happens, and it takes patience, forgiveness and love.

@guntherachterhof4876 4 года назад

Unfortunately, these days are gone.

@doramaso 5 лет назад

Surely after a year of being with someone you have a right to know where you stand.Brilliant video other than that.

@jsm0m 7 лет назад

So on point!!! ... guys listen to Coach Corey he knows what's up 👏🏼

@theslo777ery 5 лет назад

At the end of the day, You're saying "At the end of the day" too much.

@SHRUGSS404 4 года назад

Matthew Lafond I read this as he said "at the end of the day"😂

@richardrichard9953 2 года назад

The brutal honesty of these videos is surreal. It sucks when you realize that he's talking about you and you have to be honest with yourself and how you have behaved and caused a lot of the torment in your life.

@erict9052 2 года назад

Yeah it's a cold slap on the face to wake the hell up

@delilah1479 Месяц назад

Yeah, I finally woke up too. Wish I had listened to my friends who told me to walk away a long time ago.

@dcdashe9547 3 месяца назад

Dude is her back up plan. He’s nothing more than an ego filler and he needs to move on. No Amount of “gameplay” is going to change her direction

@redfloyd69 5 лет назад

Can someone please explain why someone can be completely into you then suddenly just disappear? The opposite of what is going on in this video.

@RockwildazFamily 5 лет назад

I had this kind of situation recently. SHE was the one talking about me going over her place to cuddle, she was the one initiating everything. Then... she goes she needs space to think, she doesn't want to hurt anyone, she out with girl friends, she don't contact me, then posting she doesn't want any man, but she is waiting and who she wants to wait on her. She said it on whatsapp with a blue background, which is how we communicate. Then, just today, she responded to a photo of myself I posted and she goes "Daddy". We spoke well after and when I went to suggest meeting up, said she available ALL of next week, so I will let her know. She goes, tell me now so keep it free. I told her straight up, is either you available or another time or not at all... she then says ok ima keep it free. She had even said to me, before she pull back is, I am to prepare for her to get clingy, and she was for a bit, then she pull back... almost an entire week. Guys, women are emotional as heck!! They will be back and forth, they themselves unconsciously take breaks to give themselves time to miss you and see how her feelings grow. They will CONSTANTLY test you. Just be cool man, don't EVER push or rush a girl. Live YOUR life she IS watching you best believe that. Don't ever seem hurt by her "space", once she see you about living YOUR life without her, if she is indeed interested, she WILL contact you and that is what you want. Don't be pursuing a girl that really isn't interested. Between last night and today, it's now FOUR GIRLS that have contacted me, wanting to see me. Don't pursue these girls when they pull back, she is in many cases giving herself time to feel her feelings, to miss you and see how much it grows. Yes, at times you can be too much and she wants the space to miss you to come back to you. Leave women to their process, they are just like cats.

@JayMan574 4 года назад

Rockwildaz Family going through the same thing lol

@itsjustnopinionok 4 года назад

Jan 2020. I feel sad. Im 51 and just now realizing i'm that guy. And why so many girls blew me off in the past. I (was) that nice guy. Im buying you book. My life starts over today.

@mridulawittke 3 года назад

It’s so sad the whole world operates on supply and demand. If you give too much they run away, if you don’t they come to you. Why does our psychology work like that? Dopamine is to blame I guess

@joshuamelendez2604 3 года назад

I'm dating a woman that uses her kid as a excuse alot. I know her son has to come first, but she uses it way too much. How do I go about this?

@alfredmatthews1746 Год назад

leave her

@RulezmakerBF 3 года назад

So it kinda ended with my girl a few days ago; she asked me if we can be friends to which I wrote I'll let you in on it later. Problem is it's been already 4-5 days since I haven't talked to her. Should I just walk away or tell her, i dont want any platonic kinda friendship and I'll let the door open in case you ever change your mind. Do I say it now or just let it be. Cause considering her, she thinks I'm done with her

@Hhhh22222-w 3 года назад

Tell her you don't agree with being friends and if she changes her mind to call you and walk away from her and move on. If she calls you then you have the power make sure you make her chase

@Ataensic 11 лет назад

How do you get her to want to see you more than once a week? Well, how did she get you to want to see her more than once a week? (she's indifferent, unavailable, difficult to get ahold of, has a life of her own, hasn't chased you at all, is self-validating, & doesn't need or even want you) You want to feast at her banquet because on the inside you're just a pauper begging for scraps. Stop contacting this person; you have a lot of inner work to do.

@bieituns 4 года назад

Wow typical mindset of a woman, completely heartless and ruthless.

@bieituns 4 года назад

@Jennifer Boehm you mean a narcissistic sociopath?

@kevinethan5751 2 года назад

@@bieituns facts

@djnevous3us 9 лет назад

but if u don't pursue some1 won't it look like yr interested in her?

@texshayhopkins8812 2 года назад

Corey, I've been in a relationship with my lady for nearly a year.. this video really opened up my eyes to what I've been doing wrong that's stopped her from pursuing me.. it's much appreciated what you've shared here..

@theresamargarethmil2443 7 лет назад

This is exactly what happening to me. He always taking me as options and I feel sad.

@myrahouse2368 5 лет назад

He doesn’t text when he says he will ? so I don’t say anything about it, I just get unattracted by that ‘flaky behaviour’ Genuinely it’s a real turn off. Just do what you say your going to do, a decent woman that’s all they want. 10 months in I believe man or woman will be put off by being inconsistent no matter how much they LV you.

@alisbegovic8868 5 лет назад

Myra House the fact u stayed 10 months shows that what this man says is truth... treat u like shit n u will stay.... treat u like a queen u won’t give him a second glance...

@myrahouse2368 5 лет назад

He treated me exceptionally it’s only recently he’s got a tad flaky but it’s a turn off for me.

@ianditwin7443 5 лет назад

Bingo!!!

@myrahouse2368 5 лет назад

Nah I’ve took back control I seduced him then didn’t bother with him I believe he loves the chase it’s on again 😉

@daffydlandegge3843 4 года назад

I'd really like to hear your take on long distance relationships as "chatting" on the phone are the dates you speak of or video calls. Some of what you describe doesnt apply in that situation, meanwhile some remains a standard.

@daffydlandegge3843 2 года назад

@@Sparkyspage Only if it's long term and one or both individuals are highly insecure and/or desperately need validation from others

@katiewilliams9381 8 лет назад

Hey I'm a woman and I always watch you when I really need some true honest direct advice..you really helped me through my break up and then when meeting new people.. Thanks coach Corey ..ps, I love your smile xxxx

@SmileyMT 8 лет назад

Games of tennis was suggested by the Rock in the comments here and after looking back its the best analogy I've heard. It's really helps with the 20:80 principle. Also valuing yourself as he says here.

@mattb7450 5 лет назад

what if a girl has depression? dont think she can help the priority thing lol

@chrismendoza5102 5 лет назад

Going through this right now

@mattb7450 2 года назад

@@chrismendoza5102 howd it go?

@sharonsheaffer8964 9 лет назад

my man has a drinking problem and all he wants to do is spend time with his friend (male) and do everything he wants and thinks when he comes home that everything is fine dandy I never cheated on my boyfriend and never would but I think it comes to the end

@Goldblooded559 6 лет назад

Sharon Sheaffer im going thru this rite now and im sick and tired of it..i let him have it today

@toietmoi650 4 года назад

I decided to buy your book and listened to it several times after I went through a breakup in November last year. She unfriended me in all her social media accounts and then went off social media. I did not contact her since then and now she is sending me friend request. She is back after seven months. Thank you, Coach Corey!

@DonCheadleCorleone 11 лет назад

Hey Coach, Most of your video seems to touch different angles of maintaining a proper vibe with a women to peek her interest and successfully reach whatever conclusion you want with her (dating/ one-night stand). What about maintaining things once you have reached that point?

@PotatoCouch666 4 года назад

I am still so mad that he took me for granted! And he never took me out for dinner like he promised months ago. (I helped him moving his stuff out of his damn ex’s house ffs!) Also: he was always working or going to the gym. I had to break it off. I want to be a priority! Not an option! It hurted my selfesteem. I broke it off. Still really sad I let him do that to me. :(

@terrycurtin2137 5 лет назад

I am 64 and so happy I could care less. My GF is a size 2 and 42. Yes shes hot. Reality is I dont care. Funny how Corey is right. My not caring came with age but suddenly my sex life is insane. 42? I couldn't get her when I was 42!! Not caring is why she had to have me.

@peterp4753 6 лет назад

Not only is wrong to chase a girl, it's wrong to give her too much of your time when she's chasing !!! Every man should have more than one girlfriend, so he won't be needy!

@lunch7213 6 лет назад

Peter P but getting 1 is hard enough 😭😭😭

@AzraelPercussionNEO 5 лет назад

Peter P You know it is the sad truth. You gotta play the stupid ass game so that they get to fight over you. It bullshit either way

@kevinethan5751 2 года назад

@@AzraelPercussionNEO facts

@eggyolkeo6422 4 года назад

Don't be waiting for nobody, walk away and do your own thing.

@ggwp7019 6 лет назад

Every women that has lost attraction towards me has always gone with someone else or their ex. I agree with you Corey but for me it has always been she had my replacement in place. Sometimes I went along with the jerking around or would just stay distant and every time it’s the same thing. I’m not saying it wasn’t my fault but often times it wouldn’t matter. I removed my attention and it showed she didn’t value me. I think ultimately they don’t value me even when they are doing the perusing. I honestly think it has more to do with the quality of people in my area

@AzraelPercussionNEO 5 лет назад

Gg Wp Shit women. Going for guy to guy. Or going back to their shit ex's. The shit never changes.

@拥 5 лет назад

Not saying you don’t, but #1 priority is to value yourself

@rickmorgan1441 5 лет назад

if youre not 35 you havent hit your peak yet so bluer skies ahead in that case

@bieituns 4 года назад

Yep the same thing happened to me, the girl already had my replacement lined up and started distancing herself and looking for an excuse to leave me and blame m for it. These girls are bitches, no integrity or decency.

@kevinethan5751 2 года назад

@@bieituns ukr heartless humans

@reliefernandezb18 4 года назад

two weeks, two weeks of just listening to your podcast.... it's magic... it's fucking working.... i'll use this month's audible credit to buy your book.

@bennyblanco6704 3 года назад

Hi coach this is exactly what's going on with me it's a once a week I see basically a sex date but she lets me stay over then after that day shes goes cold . But I agree I do text her more than she does and I'm the one that asks her if I can see her always . She always gives me responses like maybe , probably or idk . I need to back and value myself more ur right . Thank u I'll take ur advice.

@amazingdogface1153 4 года назад

My question is why he is smiling in the thumb nail, while saying, "You're not a priorety."

@jimh527 5 лет назад

Because she likes her girlfriend better? Sometimes it just not you. Stop blaming yourself. Next.

@gregpearson8437 8 лет назад

Cory thanks for all you great input. You have helped, I now look after myself, and dont have to lick a women's boot.

@crism3lo 5 лет назад

The guy writing you is codependent. Needy people push others away and attract predators.

@lfsg1975 8 лет назад

that only happens to us nice guys

@ryanvtec3885 5 лет назад

siuL nivaS yup us nice guys. If she took the time to get to know me. She would see im not soo nice

@RaymondYocum-uw5hd 5 лет назад

Stop being nice

@malka4500 5 лет назад

Not true

@malka4500 5 лет назад

There are women who is not interested in bad men.

@liamjohnson3247 3 года назад

It happens if you like her. Never fall in love

@kyleprimetime 4 года назад

I did everything I could think of to make my girlfriend and her kids happy. The order of her priority was: 1. Her kids 2. Her best friend 3. Her sisters 4. The cats The cats made the list....I did not.

@kevinethan5751 2 года назад

Lol

@ntegeoscar 8 лет назад

awesome work bro. your stuff works!! you saved my relationship bro. thank you

@ntegeoscar 8 лет назад

Dude is so good, Nothing brings happiness to a man like knowing and understanding attraction levels of his woman.

@bluedinero3055 7 лет назад

Jerk berk 305nigga #carolcity #305

@IntegraDIY 2 года назад

The way I do things is move fast. If she likes you you’ll know. Moovvee fast! Ask for the date.. if she’s down then cool!! But if she pulls a maybe? She’ll see? She’s not sure? She is sooo busy? BYE ✌️!!

@wdtripps6537 5 лет назад

All of this is too much bullshit. Both parties start as interested but once one party lets the other know, then that party becomes uninterested. How in the hell did our species make it this far? Getting too old for these "fuck boy" games. Two words, sex robots.

@petegoodman6321 5 лет назад

I like the info but your intro music sounds like u2 elevator music

@whitebathroomguy 2 года назад

Reasons for nicknames babe, honey, yadda yadda or whatever whatever = so they don't accidentally call you the other person she is talking/secretly dating name... 🤣🤣🤣..I tell all women I date, don't call me babe or whatever to see if they Mess up..lol

@bennyblanco6704 2 года назад

It definitely works I stopped all contact and then guess what ? She started pursuing me coach is right stop all communication even all social media you'll see the magic work good luck !

@sifugurusensei Год назад

I have this long distance relationship. Here's the thing: she never iniciaiate

@sifugurusensei Год назад

Recently she texted using whats app. In the middle of our convo she says the reception is bad. So okay. Why not call me on the phone?

@dylanbeasley5392 6 лет назад

Corey, you're really a godsend. Thank you

@imperialmusicentertainment9581 4 года назад

State what you want and Walm off and never look back make them know .. its Either you want me or you dont ... if you dont know what you want think things over and if you want an oportunity to get to know me you have my number call me

@deathbybettie 11 лет назад

Sounds like he's the backup plan.. if its last minute.

@dnap2526 5 лет назад

All these comments but has anyone actually tried these techniques and had success? It seems as if they are talking to other guys especially when their Snapchat score goes way up or when they post more selfies on Instagram maybe a couple more than usual a week and you guys start looking her pictures and the top profile in her likes is some dude that didn't usually like her pictures there's more to the story than this

@RK-bj8ho 4 года назад

Anybody else watch these videos over & over, everytime u get dumped ........ ys i suck😤

@mrsalviboy94 4 года назад

A women or man should be a compliment/ an improvement to your already complete life not a necessity. I used to believe happiness came from having a lovely woman in my life until I learned the harsh truth. I worked on myself asked what is my purpose? Everything changes. To those unable to understand this ask yourselves this, how were you raised? Was it a loveless home, no affection or enough attention from parents? That's the root of the cause, is not completely your fault if you act a certain way with women. It is a process to change and find that emotional strength within you, find a hobby, do a job you love and you'll realize that happiness comes from within not from having another person trust me and trust life.

@flo_ridaa7074 4 года назад

👍🏼

@bills1779 11 месяцев назад

Great advice 👍