God bless you so much! You calmed my heart, in the heat of pregnancy, we accumulate confusion & where there's no one to talk, we are heading for doom. Nyame nhyira wo,
Thank you sir. I was bless by your explanation. I am a victim of this. I know what to do now. I will equally need more advice sir. Thank you once again please
Pastor I have a question, I need your advice am heartbroken. My best friend from the institution introduced me to her brother and we began to flow for him to marry me before he relocated. But the guy , insisted I get pregnant for him before he can marry me. We are we’re going on well, all of a sudden the lady he was dating before came in 2 weeks later , and said she is pregnant. The guy turned his back at me due to the lady he was dating before his sisters introduced me to him. She is pregnant. He cut off from me immediately. I’m a single mum with a 7years old girl. He accepted it and was happy. But he wanted pregnancy before marriage 😊
It’s unfortunate that he had to do that. But this also implies that he was having an affair with her at the same time he was with you. So leaving you for her should have taken you out of the trouble of being with him while he has affairs with others. I don’t think his insistence on pregnancy would have solved the problem. What would have happened if you two had gotten pregnant at the same time? Will he marry both of you? For now you may just have to move on with life. Make sure you add more value to yourself and become a better version of yourself. I am confident you will get someone who will love you for who you are. No matter what happens please don’t make the mistake of getting married with pregnancy as the basis.
Great advice am in this situation too,i don't have problem with the baby cause i cant erase that fact...this girl got pregnant and we haven't been seeing each other for 7months and now am tempted to marry her yet i dont feel anything for her hence i don't want to spend my whole life with her i know i made a mistake as a christian now i want to go back to where i did wrong and correct my mistakes...for the child i will provide and make sure in the future am close to him/her, i didnt want abortion so we decided to keep the baby but...for her mother i don't want to marry her am 22 years of age and am stressed and kinda depressed coz i dont know wat to do i pray to love her but its not working,i dont want to fake here any advice please will help
That is so sad to hear. I can understand it’s hit you so hard. I am wondering if she really wanted to marry the person; or she did so just because of the pregnancy. Whatever the case is, you will need to learn to accept the situation and move on. There is more to life ahead.
@@JoeAndor Her mom is a evangelist and my dad is a pastor. we were on and off for 2 yrs. I guess she had mistakenly gotten pregnant and her mom made them get married... I feel badly because how could she lie to me like that.
@@CeeG37hp Hmmmmm. Apparently the marriage was contracted to conceal the pregnancy. And that is a problem as the marriage may have some cracks along the line. You may just have to move on with life. You deserve better.
