Everything is incredibly backwards with them. Now I understand why you call them backwards walking giraffes 😂. remembering the person they met vs who they left. The most they’re ever gonna “love” you is in the very beginning and the longer you stay the love diminishes (that’s not normal). In a normal relationship you don’t start off loving immediately, it builds and grows over time and you treat your partner better and better. Not with a narc. 🤯. Such revelation! Thank you for another great one Ms. Tea!
Grade A supply is not a compliment, he just realized how much he could use me… I was a first class door mat. He saw how I dotted every I and crossed my t’s … I was extremely orderly… I had decency and order , however the very thing he so called liked me for , he also hated me… I tell you one thing , I got out of crazy cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs Land … I’m doing wonderful and happy in my life thank you Jesus!!!
Telshaaaa!!!! I met a narcissist yesterday and babaaaayyyyy he was telling on himself left and right. He had the nerve to tell me.that all the women in his past turned out not to be who he thought they were. 🚩🚩🚩This set off my NarcAlert.🧐 I have noticed that narcs hate women (male narcs and female narcs). So, men narcs have a tendency to say "most women do this" or "a lot of women say that" or "women tend to do this". They act like they are an expert on women.🙄 The narc i met yesterday got paranoid at the end of our meet, and asked me why I had given him a peculiar look...as though I was reading him.😂 Oh, hunny!!! He was besides himself tryna make sure that mask was still intact!!!! Okuuuurrrr!!!🤣 Then, he gave another flag away when he told me that earlier he was looking at my legs and how attractive I am!!! 😂 That crow with pigeon-toes had just met me 3 hours ago and already having sexual thoughts. Lawdy be!!! These narcs are textbook! Thank you for the training Telsha!!! I've got my Bachelor degree in Narcissism, thanks to you.💋💕 Much love, Sistar!!!
I can remember his sister saying, My brother said you’re the best thing he ever had. She said that all the other “Chicken Heads” wants nothing out of life. I thought nothing of it. But at the beginning he talked about me like I was Gods gift to the world. He shoved my photos in people face saying, look at my beautiful wife’ this angered me. I asked him to stop doing it. But he didn’t. But at the end- I WAS SCUM to him
No you weren’t scum, it’s a front Sis. I’m a firm believer that the better you are the worse they treat you. Their horrible treatment and discard is only to get you to question yourself. Don’t fall for it. He’ll NEVER meet another you, he knows it, the demons inside know it and they’re ticked off about it. Stay strong 💪
I totally agree with you, he knew I was valuable and even if he married the new supply he still knew I am the deal yet he messed up. The hoover had been unbearable. He is the type of narcissist that won't come after you but will want you to chase after him and go back to him after his mess. They will always discard you or go for the person who does not know their toxicity and its a matter of time till they find out
My ex-was-band used to have really bad nightmares each night. I finally asked him one day, what on Earth does he dream about? He told me, his dreams consisted of being chased and hunted down by demons and dragons! He even kept several knives and a gun by his night table. So you are 100% correct!
Mine had nightmares where he was naked and chased by dogs. He said he had those dreams because he was cold and needed to cover with a blanket... Now he is been tormented all this time.
@@paulinamartinez3234 Wow the things they say! To me, his dream means he's vulnerable because...well, you need to fill that part in. I can't publicly say it. He certainly is tormented.
@@madamejaysynstarotoriginal The reason my ex-narcissist husband had these nightmares was, because unbeknownst to me, he was having affairs with other married women! Weird things happened. His car window was shattered, my car had a small bullet hole in the front windshield, his car was rammed in the front, and more. Of course he felt hunted and chased, he was in the wrong.
Wow! You said that thang! The fact that she destroyed the very best thing that ever happened to her should plague her conscience. It is completely demonic! This is not spoken enough. It’s not just one demon, it’s a community of demonic entities, Jezebel being one of the main ones. Praying for her soul.
Lol!! " Ducks with combat boots", "Rhinos with bows"!!! This is accurate and describes these demented souls to the"T" in Telsha! Thanks for everything Miss Tea!
You right about this. The narcissist can’t sleep & they pop up out of nowhere. They only cat nap. They can not have a restful sleep unless they’re on sleep meds.
Blessings 💯 you are so right about them that's why I got out and will stay out. The person are not in control of themselves. The demonic spirits are in control of them. Thank you Telsha ❤️✌🏽🙏🏽
This message has blessed me. God bless you. This is true. Im dealing with a NARC and God is exiting him soon... I was having a blah day and you made me laugh because it's true the naps that he takes they be like that and he gets up and acts a fool that's 🤣 crazy on point. God will sweep him out like a mighty wind. I told God I don't want to be unequally yoked with nothing no one no situation.. because of God I know who I am hallelujah thank you Jesus
Good day Ms. Telsha. You're shinning so bright!🤗 "Trash could never treasure you". So true, so true. The undeserving had a temporary taste of God's treasure, unreservedly! They shall thirst for it again and never their thirst shall be quenched, because of their treachery towards the Godly!❤️❤️❤️
So true and what makes me know he’s not happy with the new supply is that the brother spilled that he doesn’t like overweight women (no pun toward anyone) and that’s who he’s with now. He admitted in an attempted hoover a few weeks ago that he won’t come home for two to three hours after work because he’s gambling. She lives with him and now he owes COVID employment back to the state workforce and was asking me for sex and money. Access denied!!!
It's been 2yrs no contact thankfully no hoover just random thoughts at times sometimes the weird dreams when I cut all the benefits off completely they won't be returning, Thank You for this insight.
Woman, you are so right about 'flat line and demonic oppression!' I swear he wanted to kill me with his cruel, lying, deceptive manipulative, wicked ways or drove me to insanity while enjoying it! Prayer, prayer and more prayer. I've been praying like Daniel in the lions den! Thank God for his deliverance!
It makes soo much sense that they are so unpredictable because of the competing demonic entities in their heads. I knew that he meant his promises to do x y or z and then he would forgot. He never like to actually make a promise because he knew he wasn't in total control. He never got more than 3 hours of sleep at night as well.
Not to mention, just the thought of you moving on further destroys the narc. He can't fathom someone else receiving all the fine treatment / attention you once gave to him.
Tea, you are on it. My ex narc family felt like I was the one when they met me in the beginning! Later, they all treated me like I was crazy, insecure, negative based on what his crazy A$$ told them! I pulled myself from that fake family and they all set me up! They knew I was going to leave him or he would leave me after so many years! We both walked away and I gave him the narc and his family what they wanted! 😂I was hurt, however I am at peace now! I hope he is suffering for our ending of the relationship! He was a coward in the way he ended it!😂 Thanks Tea for your learning videos on the NPD issues of the narc!😊
I had sa.e experience with ex narc family. I'm pretty sure they were so happy I came along to be his supply and get him out their hair, he lived with his parents. They see his long pattern of behavior and still enable him because they are a toxic family. I've go e zero contact with all of them.
@@lauraswanson6161 😂I know, my ex narc didn't live with his family. They all just stuck together when he abused me mentally. They blamed me based on the negative lies he told them! They knew it wasn't going to last. I'm sure they were all shock when he stayed in the relationship with me for over 10 years! It was a long-term relationship with this NPD man😂 I walked away and I am healing and at peace now!😊
I used to think like that too, that I was special in his life....Today I know that....I am the best and worst thing that ever happened to him, just like his other exes are the best and worst thing that ever happened to him.... ..
Mind blowing. It all makes sense now. They won’t let u leave them they’ll try anything to get u back. But while they have you, you’re mistreated and abused.
Thank you God for sending this young lady to us to speak for you because everything she is saying is the truth and nothing but the truth y’all I said it …….
The fool I was with texted me happy birthday after leaving her 4 years ago needless to say no response was given. She has even taken to sending food when my daughter comes to visit me and her brother, who wants nothing to do with her.
Tealsha I think the Narcissists they don't hold grudges even if you're mad at them they Always comes back and always pay attention to you lol.the normal men they just walk by and ignore you but the Narcissists it appear his more nicer than the normal one
I had to pray my way up out of tht. I will never go back. I'm still being hoovered and social media stocked. Voice mails. He is Blocked 📵 on everything. I'm still recovering. 5mnths Narc free.
THANK YOU FOR THIS MESSAGE! You have blessed me so much with this message! You are the only person I know who does content on narcissist that makes me feel empowered by cutting the narcissist off! Too many of these other people will tell you to go no contact but then will turn around and try to make you feel as though you have to walk in fear for the rest of your life after going no contact because of all the things that a narcissist MIGHT try to do to you because of a narcissistic injury! I really believe that they mean well but maybe are ONLY knowledgeable people and not SPIRITUAL people and that does make a difference because someone who is trusting in Jesus DOES NOT WALK IN FEAR!!! We are to watch, pay attention, and be aware.....pray.....move accordingly and trust! But the other content creators who do videos about NPD will tell you to go no contact and then tell you how you need to always BASICALLYwatch your back after you go no contact! It is not empowering to go no contact and then have to feel as though you have to watch your back for the rest of your life due to a narcissistic injury! So thank you for messages that makes us feel empowered after we go no contact!!! I appreciate you so much sis!!!!!
When they leave you, discard you, dump you or whatever, when they move on, they will try to take your empathy and try to give the next person that. Because they know that’s what keeps a relationship thriving. But what they don’t realize is, they will have to CONTINUE that on a daily basis. For us, it comes natural. For them, that forces them to become humble. And we know, it is only a matter of time before they get tired and revert back to their demonic ways.. And then it’s the same movie you were in..
I had wondered if the demon in them needed the mummy figure to deal with the meat suits living needs.. they cannot look after themselves with cooking etc .. demon wants to be getting up to no good, no hanging around babying the narcs body ... 😲
I don’t think the family thought I was “the one” and f* them anyway. I may be hard to forget because I was the first to give him a child. Also, because I LEFT him right there. His sister, the who would tell on him and knew HE was the problem, couldn’t understand why I was leaving him back then. I’M SO FRIGGIN HAPPY I GOT AWAY. God did that because I was too stupid to at the time.
I just have to remember the person I walked away from was who they actually were. Totally different from the person I thought he was in the beginning. You were spot on 👏
Those demons torment them because they are reaping what they sowed. Warning always comes before destruction. These crows had plenty of warnings to do the right thing. But them egos and pride wouldn’t let them. Let them suffer. God removed me so I wouldn’t get in the way of his karma. He was intentional with that disrespect, manipulation, deceit, lies, cheating, stealing, betrayal, games, abuse, and putting his hands on me. I have no sympathy. I was the best thing. I blessed his life and He threw me back in God’s face. So God removed me. If he thinks I’m going back or he can come back, he’s in for a rude awakening. Cause he will never have access to this queen EVER again. #NotTodayOrEverSatan
Wow Tea! 😊 Thank You So Much!, This video here!, Was My Closure! 😁 This Video Really Hit Home & Made Me Think!, It also put A Huge Smile On n My Face! 😁 Thank You So Much! 👍🏾💪🏾👍🏾
You’re the freakin best. You just made my whole face smile when I couldn’t today. Thank you for your heart & work for truth. Lifting hearts right & left, I know it💛
Wow. This is one of the most powerful videos I've ever seen on this topic, and I've been watching them daily on my path to healing from my cheating narc ex. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
What’s crazy about the narc I was with he always claimed he had a bad memory and that he believed he was going to have dementia because “his grandfather had it and they say it skips a generation”😅😑 I came to conclude that nah his mind just couldn’t keep up with ALL the lies he told. He was so cold with it he even told one of the supplies I caught him cheating with the same thing 🤦🏽♀️
She is right thad is why they want to comeback. They wont sleep thad is the true went i was with her she did not sleep . Thad is went i knew something was wrongh
Telsha my SISTER! Last night was fire (I watched the replay)! You are illustrating EXACTLY what happened in my marriage! Please continue to spread this life-saving and eye opening information. May God continue to bless you.
Queen this revelation is bomb … thank you for this .. “ mental torment “ let him remember me … I left him and never looked back that was a demon in the END .. he displayed the most vindictive indescribable monster .. I had nightmares in the beginning and was hyper vigilant .. Glad to have healed .. blessings upon blessings Queen Telsha 🙏🏽💖👑💖👑
Omgsh I had nightmares too!! I just minimized it to maybe I was thinking about him too much, but they were prevalent while I was WITH HIM. I had to take MEDICATION for extreme nightmares. Since I’ve been gone, they gone away but I still have them randomly
@@zaylinstar8883 I would wake up at around 3am with trauma and try to solve crap in my head .. it gets so much better the longer we stay away & heal .. I am so glad you went no contact .. self love beautiful
Let me tell you something that you probably alllllready knew. You speaking 🗣️ TRUTHS. I really enjoyed this message. Thank you for sharing and keep dropping 💎💎💎.
Wow this was true revelation on the monster and it serves them well because what they had is what they never get again thank you so much for this message it was very very intuitive and powerful, God bless you Queen Shalom ♥️🖤👊🏿🎯❤️🔥🔥🌹🌹👑❤️🩹
