This is heartbreaking poor lady and her kids 💔💔💔💔. That bastard will reap what he sowed and this woman who he is marrying him need to be ashamed of herself.. God will make a way out of no way for her and her kids. God please uplift and strengthen this woman everyday and increase her finances from the east to the west to the north and south in Yashua name Ase'.
Even the fact that this woman was working hard and actually cleans herself and children up before approaching the wedding that’s says a whole lot about her she could’ve easily came in dirty the way she was but she didn’t WOW very very strong woman ❤
Why man has tasted his currently wife and wanted new tastes of new woman. This isn't a foods u can like or doesn't like foods.. but a person it's different and what's matter with you MAN!??
She is pained but won't destroy her day with the news she was aware of already. She is a great personality and not a pretender. The furst wife is a mumu otherwise why go there? She went there to destroy the wedding but SHE FAILED. SHAME ON HER 😊
Its not gossip if you go to the person directly involved & speak the truth. Gossip is when you tell other ppl stuff that isn't their business. This was clearly her business.
What a ruthless man. It beggars belief how he just stood there and watched as the wife cried so hard asking questions about this whole situation. As a man, I feel so ashamed.
I experienced the same as an immigrant. My children’s father wanted a local white wife. I put myself through education, raised 5 children with no family or help from friends, now my children have all completed universities and are very successful. Their Father’s wife left him in the end. We reap what we sow.
CONGRATULATIONS on living your life & succeeding in spite of your ex! Congratulations, also, on doing a wonderful job with your children... it's not an easy job! 👏💐🙏 God bless you & your family!
I love all the comments… y’alls SIMP/man-hate is on auto. We haven’t heard a word this man has to say in his own defense. But you completely ignore her crazy, violent, masculine behavior… let alone the fact that there is always another side to ANY story. Yet all of this is completely ignored, because man bad, wahmern good. Fools. Good on him, that new wife is young, fit, feminine. Misery loves company, and he was clearly done giving her his company. For millennia, men have had multiple wives for this EXACT reason. _Better to live on the corner of a roof than share a home with a quarrelsome wife; Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. -Proverbs 21:9;19_
@ null so... people who point out the obvious and something that is true is automatically labeled a simp, masculine, feminist, and a misandrist? Make it make sense.
Why don't you pray that may God make you caoable to care for her and her children? If God will answer that prayer, i will laugh in Swahili. And even if he dies, you will fail to do so. Very disillusioned people.
I will never marry a man that abandoned his kids Every man should take his responsibilities seriously. If I was that lady I would call off the wedding, I can't watch another woman cry just because of me It's hurt breaking
Yes believe me if he abandoned the ones he had with his first wife he will do the same thing to the next one. She must be desperate. She walked back to the car with him holding his arm like yesterday's fool. Smh
The story doesn't add up because the woman says that the man has not been helping her take care of the kids at the same time she said that she wants back the kids which the husband took. My question is this,is she the one who was sending the upkeep for the children which the husband had taken that makes her term his former husband as irresponsible father? These people might have parted ways some time back due to unfaithfulness from the mother. They agreed to divide children amongst themselves and since they were 4 children,the mother took 2 while the husband took the remaining two,and that's exactly what they did then later the woman got the fifth child from another man, that's the reality. I am not a prophet but Am trying to reason soberly but not with emotions and that's why the men of God neglected the woman's allegations. You can't say that the man was irresponsible when he has been taking care of the other two kids Or which kids is the mother intending to take from the man ? After dividing the kids so that everyone takes care of two kids,the mother didn't manage to take care of her two kids and on top added the third kid from another man or the first kid seems not to be the biological child of this man.she wants the other kids from the man so that she can head to court and ask for child upkeep,that's why she's insisting that she wants the other kids to join her . The future wife is ready to continue with the wedding at the same time the church leadership is ready at the same time the husband took it lightly because it seems all these people were informed about his previous marriage and what went wrong that lead them to divide children amongst themselves. I am just trying to be sober and not reasoning with emotions like other people who are commenting.
@@advisorhonorables9984 I’m unsure of their cultural traditions but he was dead wrong trying to get married to one woman while still married to another. The outrage is his lack of emotions or cold hearted ness towards the wife’s reaction AND his children. Clearly he left her in dire situation. His body language doesn’t lie. Sure theirs more sides to this story that we will never know. How can any man with a heart not acknowledge his children?? Irregardless of what happened in the marriage they are still married and I do hope all the best for her and those children.
@@kayshawnsimmons6822 and you see the side chic had a smerk on her face. He paid for a wedding (im assuming) yet his kids were clearly suffering. That ain’t no man. I hope the mother got some help cause would have if I was there
For the kids to cry like that...they're gonna grow up with resentment and hate this man. I hope the baby mother gets over and finds a stable source of income. God has had their cry and He will remember them😭😭😭💔
She is BEAUTIFUL!!! THE TEARS THAT SHE HAS CRIED MY GOD WILL BE THE SANE TEARS THE HUSBAND AND NEW WIFE WILL CRY!!!! THESE PASTORS WILL BE SPIRITUALLY CHARGED FOR DISOBEYING THE WORD OF THE LORD
It's so terrible what people have to go through. The church right there condoning. Hell will be hot so called pastor. The Father didn't acknowledge his children. So shameful.
The story doesn't add up because the woman says that the man has not been helping her take care of the kids at the same time she said that she wants back the kids which the husband took. My question is this,is she the one who was sending the upkeep for the children which the husband had taken that makes her term his former husband as irresponsible father? These people might have parted ways some time back due to unfaithfulness from the mother. They agreed to divide children amongst themselves and since they were 4 children,the mother took 2 while the husband took the remaining two,and that's exactly what they did then later the woman got the fifth child from another man, that's the reality. I am not a prophet but Am trying to reason soberly but not with emotions and that's why the men of God neglected the woman's allegations. You can't say that the man was irresponsible when he has been taking care of the other two kids Or which kids is the mother intending to take from the man ? After dividing the kids so that everyone takes care of two kids,the mother didn't manage to take care of her two kids and on top added the third kid from another man or the first kid seems not to be the biological child of this man.she wants the other kids from the man so that she can head to court and ask for child upkeep,that's why she's insisting that she wants the other kids to join her . The future wife is ready to continue with the wedding at the same time the church leadership is ready at the same time the husband took it lightly because it seems all these people were informed about his previous marriage and what went wrong that lead them to divide children amongst themselves and partying ways. The man knows very well that he has no case to answer in heaven and on earth that's why he took a procedure way of marrying through a wedding at the same time officially through church which even some of us who are virgins fail to do,if this man was guilty I'm very sure he wouldn't have married officially in a procedure way,he would have even used a short cut of come we stay.I am just trying to be sober and not reasoning with emotions like other people who are commenting. lastly, the only thing that can make a man run away from his home and leave you with his own house and farm is when either you're too violent to him and he doesn't want to expose it to people or she got you read handed in his home in matrimonial bed with another man having sex . If this man wanted to marry this woman without anyone knowing he would have married without a wedding but he only wanted to send a message to his ex wife. People are blaming the priests, husband,and the wife to be without assessing the situation well. There's hidden secrets that the man only shared to the men of God, himself and the bride. If you only use your eyes and ears without Wisdom and holy spirit you will never see anything. I rest my case
Beyond marrying after leaving the family with nothing, he stole her children. This woman is in a pain that’s too intense. Praying for you my sister. May God bless you and all your children, all that has been taken be recovered and may you all move on in the knowledge and love of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Exactly....she had no sympathy whatsoever, and seeing the children you would have thought would have broke her down to see, and she didn't even budge from that!
Cause honestly there are a lot of blk women who only care about getting married and not the quality of the men they are marrying. The blk church playing a strong role in this mindset.
This was incredibly heartbreaking 💔 to the old wife - leave him in the dust and walk with your head held high, you are a strong, beautiful woman. Ask God for strength and all you need and He will provide. Lots of love and blessings to you and your family.
We have child support in the states if he tried it the wife could definitely get from his pay for each child and since she's wife she could make him pay her til he's on his feet the courts
This is so sad....I'm an American and have 5 children and was left and abandoned by my husband also for another woman n was left to raise our children alone but looking at this story really humbles me because she went thru a lot with no help or assistance n I can relate to some stuff but she has more things that she is struggling with n I can total feel her pain no matter what walk of life we are both from...I feel for her and men like that or anyone that can betray or backstab someone like that should've ashamed of themselves...like how do ppl sleep at night knowing they have done wrong... 😢😔💔❤️🩹
This woman is absolutely beautiful..her children are like little angels, may God bless their poor little souls. They deserve better and God will do for that wicked man. 🤍
I hate the fact that the other lady still married a useless man. After she witnessed wife and children crying. She still married a man who is a evil person. That's her future she just witnessed.
@@lisajones3373 That the most red flag we ignore as women, we always think her loss my gain, am hot she's not n all those stupid mentality of thinking what he did to her he won't do to me. That man didn't even have shame yet the bride to be holded his hand as if he was spider man coming to her rescue mxm 🚮🚮🚮
She should have confronted her. She should warn her. What goes around comes back around. If, I was the other woman then I would have left that bastard at the altar. For real
Omg 😢 The Father of these poor kids is very heartless. Even when they entered crying around him, he did not bother to apologize to them. I feel so sorry for their mother 😢
Heart breaking! I raised BOTH my children as a Full Time Single Dad with little to NO help from their mother. I would fight for my children and freely give me life for them. I will NEVER accept a father who doesn't take care of their children or a mother who doesn't. Only a Selfish, Self Centered Narcissist would ACT in such a dishonorable way. Children who are abandoned struggle harder in life then those who a taken care of both physically and emotionally with love, honor, respect, rules, boundaries and guidelines in life. I feel bad for those poor children who suffer because of Selfish Mothers and Fathers who act this way.
And I just love how she didn't do anything to the new wife. What a beautiful woman she is and so strong. Raising these kids alone after he left and doing so beautifully. May GOD truly bless her and her children 🙏
Making the kids cry like that just to make a scene to him? Kids didn't deserve that from him nor her. She should've chose to carry on and not drag the kids through that.
@@sunshinenday3439 I understand that but allowing him to re-marry would've been an injustice to the probably unsuspecting new wife. Let us give her the benefit of the doubt and assume that she didn't know he was married already. This scorned wife might have just spared her the same outcome in the future. I agree she could have done something with the children so they would've been spared this drama BUT she couldn't very well leave them all alone at home.
I just wish the new wife would have also walked out. I hate how the men acted including the priest. All the men acted like it wasn't a big deal. The entitlement of these men is disgusting.
@@SteepedlnStories that's what narcissist do. They get you all riled up while they're being all calm to make you look like the crazy one. Sigh, such reactive abusers...
Too sad seeing her and hearing her am crying here from Sweden Göteborg i love you you are very beautiful cool and a good person god bless you always Amen
She's a beautiful woman/mother with a beautiful soul. She might be struggling, but she is doing a great job raising her kids by herself. They look so healthy and beautiful like her. Her and her babies are better off without him. Unlimited prayers, blessings, healing, closure, and acceptance to her and her children. ❤❤
My respect for this mother. She even made time to wash down & dressed Herself & kids looking like guest. Every drop of tears in her eyes & the kids is a curse for that man. God will see her through. The pastor made a good decision by calling off the wedding
Same on him if he can leave his wife &marry another woman what makes the suppose to be new Bride feels he won't or can't do her dat noooo wonder why they called us man kind?
This poor woman. I feel so bar for her. The husband is an absolute dog for leaving her and his children behind with nothing but taking the twins. Those poor kids broke my heart, seeing their mother cry, crying themselves and maybe even recognizing their asshol* of a father who left them and is trying to marry someone else. They deserve so much better, but wow the mom is such a strong woman! I pray she'll find the help and support they need.🙏🏼🙏🏼♥️
@@iy4563 lol @ imbecile. Seriously! I agree. Who wouldn't be overjoyed to see their children again ? even if you're the person who left your partner hanging in such a horrible way, where is your conscience? These are your babies. What is wrong with you???!🤢🤮🤮 disgusting.
Let me just say karma is a bihhhhh!! His karma will be nothing nice. The wife is beautiful and the babies are so precious and cute. I pray she finds peace, happiness and love.
If I was the intended wife to be, I would have walked away from him immediately, realizing I was about to marry a monster. Women! We need to start investigating the men entering their lives.
The face of the new wife was like "yeah btch this is my day. Fck off." So I don't think she has that common sense. She maybe knew already he has a wife.
This is heart breaking! This man and all involved in this will answer to God. And may the Lord be with that poor woman and her five children who had to go through this pain abandonment and trauma.
I'm so happy the pastor didn't officiate the wedding anymore especially after hearing what that man did. This was sad. The older son sitting there crying because he understands what's going on. I pray for them 🙏🏾.
@@ericpowell4350 why shouldn't she have brought her children with her. They are proof of her marriage too. And pastor can only understand by looking at the innocent face of children. That man has three children nevertheless performing another marriage even though her wife is living not died. He should shame on himself 😏😏
I love all the comments… y’alls SIMP/man-hate is on auto. We haven’t heard a word this man has to say in his own defense. But you completely ignore her crazy, violent, masculine behavior… let alone the fact that there is always another side to ANY story. Yet all of this is completely ignored, because man bad, wahmern good. Fools. Good on him, that new wife is young, fit, feminine. Misery loves company, and he was clearly done giving her his company. For millennia, men have had multiple wives for this EXACT reason. _Better to live on the corner of a roof than share a home with a quarrelsome wife; Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. -Proverbs 21:9;19_
constistution in your linelife says it wrong 50/50,be immature at full complete man's-hold, title point and to see that she did not do well, but lack self-respect to excel her vessels rank beyond womanist she is a woman not a mother!
constistution in your linelife says it wrong 50/50,be immature at full complete man's-hold, title point and to see that she did not do well, but lack self-respect to excel her vessels rank beyond womanist she is a woman not a mother!
I love all the comments… y’alls SIMP/man-hate is on auto. We haven’t heard a word this man has to say in his own defense. But you completely ignore her crazy, violent, masculine behavior… let alone the fact that there is always another side to ANY story. Yet all of this is completely ignored, because man bad, wahmern good. Fools. Good on him, that new wife is young, fit, feminine. Misery loves company, and he was clearly done giving her his company. For millennia, men have had multiple wives for this EXACT reason. _Better to live on the corner of a roof than share a home with a quarrelsome wife; Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. -Proverbs 21:9;19_
@@GPS.GhostPirateSloan She gave birth to five of his children; thus, she automatically is going to get weight. A man take care of his children, which he didn’t. Also, he didn’t even provide a house for them to live in. He sure is no man because he failed as being a leader. Moreover, she wasn’t crazy nor violent; she was mad and angry and confronted the man like she should have.
Oh yes he will. Vengeance is the lord. There is a covenant once you are married and the covenant is with God 🤦🏾♀️ wicked man!!!! I pray blessing and abundance to this mother and her children. May her kids be successful in life may the reach there highest level. He will do the same thing to the new wife no worries shameless man.
The man should be publically shamed! It's often a shame on the woman and even children, but the shame should be on him. I hope the other woman didn't know because if she did she's a shameful person too
The story doesn't add up because the woman says that the man has not been helping her take care of the kids at the same time she said that she wants back the kids which the husband took. My question is this,is she the one who was sending the upkeep for the children which the husband had taken that makes her term his former husband as irresponsible father? These people might have parted ways some time back due to unfaithfulness from the mother. They agreed to divide children amongst themselves and since they were 4 children,the mother took 2 while the husband took the remaining two,and that's exactly what they did then later the woman got the fifth child from another man, that's the reality. I am not a prophet but Am trying to reason soberly but not with emotions and that's why the men of God neglected the woman's allegations. You can't say that the man was irresponsible when he has been taking care of the other two kids Or which kids is the mother intending to take from the man ? After dividing the kids so that everyone takes care of two kids,the mother didn't manage to take care of her two kids and on top added the third kid from another man or the first kid seems not to be the biological child of this man.she wants the other kids from the man so that she can head to court and ask for child upkeep,that's why she's insisting that she wants the other kids to join her . The future wife is ready to continue with the wedding at the same time the church leadership is ready at the same time the husband took it lightly because it seems all these people were informed about his previous marriage and what went wrong that lead them to divide children amongst themselves and partying ways. The man knows very well that he has no case to answer in heaven and on earth that's why he took a procedure way of marrying through a wedding at the same time officially through church which even some of us who are virgins fail to do,if this man was guilty I'm very sure he wouldn't have married officially in a procedure way,he would have even used a short cut of come we stay.I am just trying to be sober and not reasoning with emotions like other people who are commenting. lastly, the only thing that can make a man run away from his home and leave you with his own house and farm is when either you're too violent to him and he doesn't want to expose it to people or she got you read handed in his home in matrimonial bed with another man having sex . If this man wanted to marry this woman without anyone knowing he would have married without a wedding but he only wanted to send a message to his ex wife. People are blaming the priests, husband,and the wife to be without assessing the situation well. There's hidden secrets that the man only shared to the men of God, himself and the bride. If you only use your eyes and ears without Wisdom and holy spirit you will never see anything. I rest my case
He could at least picked up his kids and gave him a hug or something he he hasn’t even seen his kids. He act like he don’t know them. That is terrible. What a heartless man.
It probably is because the cameras were there. I have seen a similar wedding going ahead despite all evidence showing the man was still married. The woman got manhandled really badly by security in front of her distraught son. The wedding went ahead. Had she had media coverage, the pastor would stopped the sham marriage
Again black men feel like they're privy to more than one woman they could barely take care of the first wife but he wants to take on a younger wife with his old self
Watch she Gona be in pain oh yeah . This happened to my sons piece of shytt dad. The other woman thought she had him she stuck with 3 kids that’s his and 4 th one she cheated on him with. Also he is with a new supply woman she miserable and that’s that. Women be careful
Honestly speaking that is even the most surprising part of the show, she just stood there as if all is OK??? Hmmmm hers will be worse than the 1st wife own when the time comes. She thinks hers be different right? I pity her little miserable 😢life.
@@fatimamusa9659 what is she supposed to do? Jump in the fight? She stfu and stood there as she was supposed to because she would have caught a swift slap in the mouth had she said anything.
It breaks my heart because the oldest daughter understands what’s going on and is hurting for her mom. Just a horrible father and he is not a man. Give that woman back her stolen children you thief!
Exactly! I cried for the mother and the first daughter too! It will affect that girl she will not love/never trust men. I hope all goes well with them... Some men are too terrible and heartless! The other woman too have run for her life because the worst is coming for her.
What a horrible man, and he is in a Church, praying for God. And there are many men like this around the world. This is one example of why it was created all the laws for women and children's protection. So sad.
@@prelifegoeson7058 which country is this!!very beautiful woman! Never put children in this kind of drama, but I agree she had no option whom to leave the kids with.
I could NEVER EVER marry a man who did this to a woman and his kids. The minister is complicit in this treacherous behaviour. You can't stand in a church and recite vows to God. It's blasphemous.
He will leave this new wife someday. He has no conscience. I wonder which church continued the ceremony even after seeing the wife and children. It is disgraceful.
May God bless this woman & her children! May He give them strength, health, & wealth 🙏 May He give them the happiness they very much deserve! & May He punish the shameless cheaters both in this life & the afterlife!
First you curse, you need to know what happened for that man to run away? Curce, curse and curse! Do not curse anybody but, bless everyone and let the nature decide!
@@chandangautam293 oh please stfu..this man is evil, who abandons their wife with KIDS, didn't divorce her but then marries someone else. Go somewhere else with that self righteous bs. Kids are innocent and as I mean you don't have kids and abandon them
Why are Some Men Soo WICKED?. The Man CANNOT Marry another Woman Without Divorcing. She needs to get a lawyer to handle her Case. The Man SHOULD PAY CHILD SUPPORT TO THE WOMAN till all the five Children are 18 Years Of age as adults. What a RUBBISH.
stay strong u are beautiful lovely and your children will be great in future u shall have Presidents in Jesus name amen he betrayed u ruin u but still continue to have faith in God the lord God shall fight for you to your satisfaction to God be the glory
Such a shame, he walks away like that. God always has a way to avenge that innocence. On the flip side this woman’s children are so nice and clean, she’s doing a good job already and she won’t fail. Keep at it mama the reward is greater
Yes serve him right, men are wicked even never appreciated the wife for caring his cute kids.What he saw, he will reap becoz God is a just righteous Judge.
They say gossiping is bad but sometimes it can help, God bless the person who gave this lady a call , and I like her speed she managed to reach in time
The fact that the man's second wife wasn't shocked or didn't react badly or at all after the first wife appeared showed that she is aware of the situation. I really thank God the marriage was stopped immediately
@@annemariebuxton-tetteh7455 are you her? Women like the new wife are very dangerous, if the man has money she might as well kill him and go away with it. From the look of things, the man married the first wife when he had nothing, and now he wants someone with class. But men like this always end up with their match. It's called karma
you lost the motive out,be immature at full complete man's-hold, title point and to see that she did not do well, but lack self-respect to excel her vessels rank beyond womanist she is a woman not a mother!