@@Echowhiskeyone That's because they actually only wanted the relationship open on their side... Or didn't expect the husband to have much of a chance to date anyone... Much less find a better woman... that he would leave her for...
Im convinced a desire to open a relationship is a desire to test monkey branching in a controlled environment so they can just claim it was to make their current relationship stronger if they dont manage the primary goal.
Looks like your gonna get divorced to me bud cuz your Asian gf is whom your really in love with and want to be with now not your wife so split with wife and marry your Asian gf so you can be happy again. You dont need your selfish wife anymore.
Cheaters need to stop listening to non married friends . Cheaters never like when their spouse find someone who really appreciates them. Oh well. Be careful what you ask for.