It was freaky to hear at first, huh? Two swingers opening up about their unconventional marriage. Hearing all the 'tea'. But now that we all see that there is clearly something not right with this makes you now....lose interest.
It's like he's trying to convince himself that he's happy. You can be divorced and still be really cool friends. The kids are in their 20's. He can free himself from this bondage and find true love and peace.
Yeah but Will is in his 50’s and been with her since he was in his mid 20’s they both have but i feel like he should move on cause i wouldnt try hard to make it work with someone after years of trying and its just the same cycle
But he will loose half his money. These Vile feminists will claim they're opressed but don't talk about the unfair judgments men go through in divorce proceedings.
@@justicett0 Go watch their videos where they confirmed to having an open marriage. August told that he got his blessings from Will Smith before their so called entanglement. Will is not upset because of her cheating, will is upset because it got public and his image got tarnished. Will literally cheated on his first wife to be with Jada. He sleeps around too, not only Jada.
Why is everyone always repeating the same shit they hear "couple goals" just come up with your own shit.. They're doing theirs different and I'm not in it so I don't see the problem. Who are they hurting? It's their life and their truth.
After seeing Will Smith's reaction at the Oscar's I think it's safe to say that it is pure denial when he said Jada having other partners doesn't bother him...
I think Will is more upset that Jada's side piece confirmed rumors about their marriage and now he feels forced to address it . He looks hurt (his image is being tarnished) ashamed , defeated , almost about to come to tears in these interviews. Damnit Jada why didn’t u make him sign NDA
Cuz it's nobody's business, like I'm non-monogamous and all the girls I talk to know this. But at the same I wouldn't want somebody else telling my business, that actually annoys me. If anybody is going to tell it it's going to be me.
He's defeated he is losing his bankability, due to this stain to his "black excellence power couple and power family" public image. Which means he's defeated he's losing money and opportunities and a "good" reputation. Which is insane if you think about it, to lose job offers and likeability just because you're in an open relationship with your wife, don't get me wrong, but it's their own fault for decieving the public. But then again can you blame them? The puritanism in this world wouldn't let them gain the success they have today if they had been open about it. But it's irking me that Will is playing the sympathy card for the following reasons: Will had been having boy toys and multiple love interests at the same time since forever, since he'd been with his first wife actually and she herself even had said back in the day that she had caught him once with one or TWO in one bed, . He got with Jada cause she was great for his public image and an even greater cover up that did the same as him. Their marriage upgraded them jn Hollywood and that was their goal. They were even more bankable together than apart. And that's why they got and stayed together. Now that the (half) truth is out he's playing damage control, his playing the one that is the loyal one and is proftting off of it with a book, while Jada is demonised for it. When don't forget, will gave his blessings for the then relationship of that man with Jada.he doesn't give a f* cause he's been doing the same since the beginning. They both were and are in a mutual partnership having a completely open relationship and now she is the one taking all the blame, cause her bf talked to the press and Will is the one playing victim. Ew. It's beyond me. It's always the women that take the fall and it's disgusting. There's a reason he said in his interview with Oprah that he feels he has failed all the women in his life. It's cause he did. He said it to gain sympathy and pity from the viewers watching, to humanise himself more, now that his "black excellence, Hollywood power couple+power family" facade has ended, hence to have more people buy his book and to make himself look even more like the victim and the bigger man with the "never feeling enough" complex. Also Will, has traumatised his two children. They themselves have admitted it. He forcefully KISSED ON THE MOUTH jaden on a number of times, even on tv, on Ellen for example (!) and he also seggsualised his daughter willow, pushing her to be a pop artist, when she didn't want to, saying provocative pop songs she didn't like, while being a kid. Both his kids have admitted to being wierdly pushed and on bad terms with Will in the past especially (now they're good, but that trauma stays with you forever). In fact if Jaden and willow didn't have a mom likr Jada they wouldn't have at least partially healed. Willow constantly praises her mother. And for a good reason. So to the people slxt shaming and demonising Jada: stop shaming her people. It's insane and completely hypocritical. It's plain wrong. And one last thing, if Will hadn't been a Hollywood creep with his own children, if he and Jada had been their authentic selves from the start, I'd like them a lot more. And on the other hand they don't owe the world a god damn thing, regarding their own marital situation and their business. They don't. So it seems surreal to me that they have ti apologise for it. The only apology they do owe is their own children, Will in particular for close to preparing them to be grommed and preyed on Hollywood as kids, and secondly for playing the "monogamous power couple" card so full on that they portrayed a perfection that is completely fake in reality. And the world owes all the apologies to Jada for being once again the once taking the fall and the hate and the criticism and for being the recipient of blatant misogyny and hypocrisy.
His Marriage Is a Masquerade of Real Happiness. How you gonna feel comfortable to kiss on your wife's holes ? When you kno, other dudes are spitting occasionally into them ? The other families are different bcz no one knoz when it happens. I don't know what Smith is waiting for to swap lovers with jada or indulge in group play.
How can you exploit a man who put his business in a book, interviewed by the biggest name, made him millions! Y’all dead set on making him a victim. Just because he cries (he’s an actor) doesn’t mean he’s innocent & being treated unfairly.
@@earth2639 THEY made their personal life public. There are so many celebs who keep their marriages private. Kerry Washington for example has a VERY private life. One even knew she got married until AFTER she got married. They started this when they decided to put their relationship on red table talk.
@@earth2639 celebs can have private marriages and relationships. There are sooo many examples. However, many celebs publicize their marriages and relationships. It’s inevitable that people are gonna talk about it when it’s public.
I will translate this: “We are married but we both talk to other people on the side, and if while we are talking with another person and it becomes sexual, we do it as long as I tell my other half, then it’s ok. “ Just say you have an open marriage.
What's next orgy marriage? Liberals constantly trying to redefine behaviors that make someone human trying to promote annalist behavior. A human should not look up to a sex life of a dogs as the new culture and promote it.
All that fancy avoidance talk he giving Oprah to say they openly sleep with other people and the rumors going around for years are true. Sad part is I can’t get the few seconds back I wasted on this non sense. Let me give you tube a rest.
I remember once on their show when they said Will didn’t want to end his first marriage and wanted to work it out. But, the wife said no. He said he would have done anything to keep the marriage but the ex insisted. I feel that he really doesn’t want a divorce with Jada either and going along with her crazy idea of a marriage. I think divorce is better than living our one life so miserable like this. It’s cringing to watch him talk. He is not normal self.
They're cashing on their Babylon lifestyle. They don't care if u're upset about their behavior. It's lucrative.. If u thought this dude would decide to get a divorce from jada, u're wrong. WILL SMITH is staying with the b**** for the cash flow 🤔😳
Chris really handled this whole thing with so much grace. It’s just a testament to his character 100% my kids could learn from this finally an actor with self-control and dignity
He cried the frustration out when he was making his acceptance speech and felt a sense of relief, that's why he's went on to dance at the after parties.
He can philosophize his current situation ad nauseam but he can not hide the heartache in his eyes every time he tries to convince us that he is okay when he is not.
@@thisisbillgates The only one projecting anything is you. I only comment on what I see. You obviously are reacting to what you have read. Kindly, begone and be blessed.
It’s obvious he’s wrapped around Jada’s finger. What she says goes regardless of how he feels about it. Will can continue trying to fool himself and us with words, but his actions speaks otherwise.
@@crs_stl I wonder if he has side pieces because he’s forced to fit into the “open relationship” mold Jada has asked of him. As in, he likely needs to have the side piece to be equal to her and to not feel alone when she’s with someone else. I think if he were given a choice, he’d only have Jada and no one else.
I think there is still love there but Jada is really not taking this marriage seriously. They should cut out everyone else and work on things privately. There is hope for them if she chooses her family over her midlife crisis.
We can see right through your brokenness Will. Why pretend? She wants to entangle with someone else, let her go. You will be stronger because of it. Be the man that God has set you out to be.
I think she wants to stay because of Will’s status and money. But she wants her fun on the side. That’s not true love. So sad for him but he needs to face the consequences of assaulting a comedian on stage.
Will straight up said it: "she had to make herself happy and i had to make myself happy". "She decided she wanted to cheat but itd look bad if only she did it so i agreed to cheat too".
For me As black woman as wife jada should have conducted herself with dignity and remain faithful to her husband as wel as preserve her husband dignity. If she needed healing she should have going to church speak postar, traveling the world, sleeping her son friend who is mentaly illl boy that was disgrace! right now jada trashed, brused her husband ego and selfsteem
@@sophiedion1738 you’re very male identified, where is Will’s accountability? Long before we knew of Jada having her “entanglement” there has been long standing talks of Will’s extra marital affairs.
@@BT-ch9gf But it won't be because of loyalty ,love etc. It's just because they consider that choice a failure. Because he already divorced and divorcing twice for him is just a no no. And there are all these power issues coming with it. They are quite powerful as a couple. United they can face adversity better.
it's a fear of not being good enough for someone or a fear of failure....it's shitty cause it can happen to either partner in a relationship and they end up fighting so hard to stay with someone that isn't good enough for them, but it's the shitty person who gets to feel like they're better, and the better person who feels inferior.
@@latishadaniels4304 He wants to have a harem of girls ( ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-updG5a_-FMk.html - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-0XRKJWB7VTc.html ). The man is hurt by the woman he loves, he clearly does not know how to deal properly with this situation. It's hard 4 him.
Whenever I see Will on show or even here in RU-vid, there’s pain in his eyes. Might not really be what he’s feeling but looks like she bring out the worse in him…
"Marital prison" and "Bad marriage for life." Jada was only in the marriage for her own career from the very beginning. Will was truly in love with her. She has been breaking his heart and poisoning his mind continuously for decades.
It must be exhausting trying to pretend to be something you're not. I'm glad that after years of denial, Will can finally be truthful not for us, but to himself, because the freedom it brings to your life is PRICELESS!!!!
If two people truly love one another you won't consider having an open relationship it's just not the way things work sadly for Will Smith I think she's the only one who wants it that way
Both of them are established celebrities. The whole family is talented. I don’t see why they feel the need to put all their dirty laundry out there. People don’t do movies or sing anymore. They just jump in the reality show bandwagon.
@@W_T_D I agree! 😊 Personally, I don't have a reason to dislike Will or his family. Whatever direction they chose to go in their personal life/marriage don't make me dislike them. It may not be the ideal marriage but it appears that they still have a strong family bond and love for one another. That's important even if they weren't married. Unfortunately, a lot of marriages gets far worse than this.
Bc he's a simp. You girls don't like that lol we keep tryna tell you all that buy you're all insistent on a "nice guy" well this is what happens when you get one
He's clearly in denial that his marriage fucked up and ran it's course. Will clearly lying when he said it wasn't hard for him, the man nearly burst into tears. What man would sit there and take that from his wife and say wasn't hard for him? Will got to admit his marriage is over, get a divorce and move on.
Jada Entanglement relationship needs time for healing from this Endangerment she has put her family in. It is time for this family to stand still and heal. My Soul hurt for Christopher Rock and his family. People, how do we recover from this to a positive light?... Please reach out to him (Chris Rock) with care and love... .
After watching the Oscars, damn celebrities be crazy. They talk about their sex life publicly for their ego, then physically assaulted someone on tv, then gets a best actor award wtf?
The bottom line is that is not a marriage. A marriage has a clear line of definition, if you don't like the definition then call it something else, but don't call it a marriage.
Marriage came from the bible, created and defined by God. It isn't a thing that came from evolution or the big bang theory. It was created by God for the human race. If you don't like his creation, that's fine, you can go ahead and be in a defacto partnership or civil union, but don't call it a marriage. Marriage isn't for man to redefine, it belongs to God. Periodt.
@@user-ef5id9km3p 😂😂😂😂 Theres nothing godly about the biblical god!! Experts added up satans murders and Gods murders.. Satan 10 people. YOUR god killed 25 MILLION men women and children!!!! Why dont you listen to the number 1 textoral critic in the world "Bart Ehrman". Who started off as a devout christian, until he studied properly.. The bible is a man made fabrication that has been changed many many times.. Look Bart up, he will show you how fake it is lmao
I think it’s sad to think that this is okay and a possible way to have a happy marriage… this is a real representation of two really broken beings trying to find a justification on their messed up marriage and their failure to commit period. They can sugar coat it all they want…
Agree 100% To think this is the type of relationship they are showing their kids as "normal" is disgusting..The only people i feel sorry for are their kids, they have no hope with these two as parents..
His eyes tell us everything. He sounds happy and confident, but eyes look puffy. His face is two shades player than before. This man just described marriage as a prison. It’s obvious he’s miserable and just trying to look like he’s in control of the marriage.
My my, aren't YOU one for nuance. He never said, or even necessarily implied, that marriage is a prison. His exact words were, "friendship vs marital prison." He wasn't saying that marriage IN and OF ITSELF is prison. He was describing a TYPE of marriage, a type of UNHEALTHY marriage, that is equatable to prison. I simply take the man at his word. His eyes don't look puffy to me. I don't see anything off about him. Maybe because I'm more open-minded about the kind of relationship he's talking about, and maybe because I don't judge it, so I'm not LOOKING for anything to be off about him. I think you're looking too hard, as a result of your preconceived notions.
He’s regurgitating her gaslighting talking points. She never wanted to be married, wasn’t ready to be a mom. He uses the word” we” when he really meaning “ she” it’s time for Will to let it go. She never wanted him.
I’ve always thought their marriage was weird….. 1. Jada early on expressed her undying love for Pac, the way he supported her, encouraged her, protected her to me he always saw her as a sister but she saw him as a romantic love when really it was kinda in a weird way the things she didn’t get from her father. 2. Will was just new and easy for her when they got together but time would tell they were not a good match after sex, there really wasn’t any connection. 3. Jada always said she never saw herself as a mother maybe because she wasn’t truly mothered, this began the road to her unhappiness not her kids but losing herself in a role as her husband continued on in his prime. 4. She expressed her unhappiness and he told her he is not responsible for her happiness, I remember when he first said this in interviews a while ago. That’s when she went back to acting and was in a band. But she was still unfulfilled 5. Will is all ego he does not take failure well, hence the reason he didn’t want to divorce in his first marriage but your ego still doesn’t control someone else’s choices. 6. Jada divorcing Will would break him, which is why he agreed to never divorce again no matter what happened …. It’s failure in his eyes. A failed marriage does not equal a failed divorce to him. He thrives off of attention and positive reinforcements- which is another reason he feels the need to shove their personal life to the forefront- he needs acceptance. 7. I remember Will going on a vacay with his son and his ex…. Ummm what wife would agree to that, I bet he slept with his ex then.. that’s probably when he and Jada was on the rocks and they were both doing things to make each other happy….. 8. I knew august wasn’t lying as someone who was an extra on girls trip said he was up there daily to see Jada, he’ll when they were out at shows they looked more like a couple than her and will. 9. The issue wasn’t that her and august were together the issue was that Jada and will always told each other what they would go do and with who to make them happy she just didn’t tell him about this one.That is what the problem was. 10. Jada lied when she said she couldn’t remember why her and gabby union had beef, I think it’s because Will was one of gabbys dudes during her own self proclaimed ho phase. Women never forget why they had an issue with another woman… I didn’t buy their red table interview, they both knew why they had an issue. 11. Jada is a self proclaimed Ghandi/ mother Theresa type thinking she she can fix or help others when she should be doing exact same for herself. Those that think they are always the answers for others use that as a distraction from their own issues. ,”bringing herself to the red table” was not truly authentic. 12. I wish they stop 🛑 telling all the intimate details of their personal life, it’s really not necessary for us but self serving….go invest in psychotherapy instead. 13. This is a part of what Will meant by telling Jada “I’m going to get you back” hold on tight there is more to come I’m sure….. probably a love chi,d, a boyfriend etc They are both becoming more and more weird to me.
This just seems like a normal relationship with ups and downs, not a "weird" relationship. And if you're not interested in knowing these details then don't check their interviews 😆
Hi, I may agree on all except #12 because you use self-serving. They are hurting, but Will is much more. Will just doesn't know how to process or cope the hurt and could be his psychotherapist doesn't know how to get him healed. Let's be kind. If you are a believer of Jesus, you can pray for him to be healed.
These are my thoughts almost exactly! Will is holding on to his vows of till death do us part so strongly I think because of his parents dysfunctional relationship. He doesn't want to be anything like his abusive father. So hes going in the total opposite direction and exalting Jada in the relationship by giving her whatever she wants including this open arrangement they have.
I didn’t read all that but if you think pac wasn’t smashing you are silly. PAC saw jada as more then a sister. A brother doesn’t write a poem to his sister talking about how she makes him climax. Stop it. Half of what you said was non sense I couldn’t read any more
Is everything about “freedom” these days? What happened to commitment, loyalty and the value of one’s body? Not saying the new generation isn’t already ruined but these guys are meant to be role models
A human being isn't "supposed" to be ANYTHING, especially when it comes to other people's expectations of them. They are under ZERO obligation to meet the public's expectations of them as "role models." They are allowed to live their lives for themselves, as THEY see fit - not for you or for a bunch of children they've never met. Besides, the standard of what makes a good "role model" is different for every individual. So their idea of a good role model will most likely differ from yours. And guess what? THAT'S PERFECTLY OKAY. The world isn't gonna burn to the ground because it isn't quite the way you think it should be.
Everyone can do whatever they want as long as they're adults, consenting to things and not harming others. So I don't understand what's your problem. Also they don't owe you a god damn thing. It's their business and their dynamics. You do you and they'll do them. Stop judging, based on your monogamous and personal beliefs and start living a less miserable life, more focused on you and on empathy. Just because someone is different than you it doesn't mean that commitment etc., hence the values YOU believe in are disappearing, just because THEY'RE not following them. It's what works for THEM and they have every right. Puritanism is what destroyed them cause they had to play the perfect monogamous power couple. When they should have been their authentic selves. Not announcing it to the world of course. They don't even owe the world inside info and transparency, cause again, it's THEIR god damn bussiness. Now, what they DO owe actually is an apology to their children for pushing them from an early age to be stars and perfectionists. These children have self admittedly obtained so much trauma from that and are only now finding their peace and healing. Now that's something to talk about instead of Will and Jada's bussiness in bed and personal relationship. Cause whatever they have they're a team. But that team exhausted and seggsualised their children while still kids for the sake of a career (Will in particular, Jada helped them heal actually, but she still partly at fault for allowing what happened with them and Will for so long until their kids moved out of their home from an early age and stopped talking to their father. He should thank all his lucky stars that they're on good terms with him now).
It's very clear he is heartbroken with knowing his wife fucked around, as such he is up to everything to convince his wife she means the whole world for him, until the point he looses the fun dude, able to deal with joke he has inside of him.
I love Will a lot he is one guy that I loved watching growing up. I feel so bad for his sadness and trying to cover it up with happiness. Dude you deserve so much more in life than to be hiding behind something so out of your wants. Please don’t crumble because you are so humble and down to earth.
This is a joke. You didn't grow up with Will like go to school with him, play together on the soccer team or watch cartoons on weekends. You watched him act all your life. You don't know him. He and Jada are both attention seeking narcissists. Spare your sympathy for people with real problems. Like orphans or those who are homeless.
The old adage is the eyes are the windows to the soul. And Will's eyes are so full of "sadness" over this marriage arrangement to me... He's on the verge of tears. Also, I have seen pictures of Jada significant other BUT where is Will's?
But they're will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. They're not you and me, your average Joes. They have a public image to maintain that brings them likeability, opportunities, money, good reputation, so overall bankability. They played the "power couple+power family showing how black excellence in Hollywood can be done", cause our world is way to hypocritical and puritanical for them to be transparent about their open relationship and agreement since fhe beginning. Also they don't actually owe the world a god damn thing regarding their personal life and I find it preposterous that they have to apologise, explain, lie, sugarcoat, and do danage control. But then again can you blame them for lying? They would not have the success they have today if they were apart and if they were open about their situationship. Simple as that. To me they sound like two people that knowingly entered a partnership and a mutual agreement on being in an open relationship. It's sad that their romantic life and likeability determines their job opportunities. That should be determined only by their talent and by their moral compass. For example, it's far more shocking and important to talk about the fact that Will has pushed both his children into becoming stars and having careers from a young age and seggsualising them, than what he does in bed with Jada. That's the least important and worthy of judgement in comparison to the trauma he's caused his own children.
Even though it's hard to see a man in love with a woman who is careless about their martial details, my aunt always told me to marry a man who loves me more than I love him. I'm still confused by that sometimes. She's been married for 34 years and they still look happy, so I'm listening. Seems like Jada found that in Will.
He’s a good actor, but the eyes give him away. You can tell he’s not happy with the situation he’s in. But both of them are so rich that it would be a horrendous divorce to go through. This just hits different after what happened at the oscars.
She made him do whatever she wants and Will tries to make it work by convincing himself that it is what he wants too. The Will Smith of the past before he was broken down wanted a perfect family and so he tries to this day to make it seem perfect even though everyone can see now through the cracks on his face that it is not. He is almost near shattering - I hope he get's through this.
@@chrisdaly6355 I had no idea either. I thought he kinda was off this last decade. She has been breaking him so she can use him and sleep around. Just awful. I hope he gets away from her and heals as soon as possible. He deserves so much better.
What is so sad about this situation is they knew after 6 years that this was going to happen I mean both Will & Jada did not seem happy at all at the Oscars last Sunday night before he won his first Oscar 45 minutes before Will had slapped Chris in the face and now to make things worse he could be banned from the Oscars.
Pretty much. For better or worse they say. It seems that they still get along and enjoy each other as a family. I've definitely seen people go through much worse. At the end of the day it's whatever makes them happy.
This reminds me of the multiple times I sat with friends and vented and explained my reasons and situations in my life. I most often regretted saying anything. Keep some things to yourself. People really do not care about you as much as you think. Will Smith is an actor. He makes millions to entertain and fascinate ordinary folks. The more famous folks share about their personal life, the less fascinating their films become to me. Will Smith and his wife share and heal, share and heal, share and heal. He's ruining his career.
He seems to be trying to save face. That interview where Jada disclosed. He looked torn up. His face said it hurt and he was embarrassed. She never wanted marriage nor monogamy. He should have stayed with his first wife but he was stupid. Jada doesn't love him as a wife should. I have lost respect for him. I have watched him from fresh prince days, I just can't see him in the same way anymore.
Instead trying to play shrink on the internets… how about you watch his show “best shape of my life” and read the book… He looks and sounds like a ppl pleaser who for the first time is becoming ok with ppl not being pleased… while that is freeing it is still hard to do and deal with the fall out…