@@bewareofsasquatchweirdest thing to get mad about lol who wouldn’t be emotional if the person you’re interviewing just told you they were just existing until they die soon and that their wife died and he doesn’t feel like he has a purpose anymore
I don't need to hear words from a girl to understand who they are I judge by looks and I can automatically tell she doesn't deserve my respect I only respect one girl and it's the girl I like not because I like her but because I know her well enough Doesn't vape, sleeps 10 hours a day, isn't a piece of sh1t, is genuinely kind. She changed the way I looked at girls for who I'd like to love before grade 8 I looked for hot girls after grade 8 I only looked to get closer to her as we were friends at the time in a way we didn't talk much but she still considered me a friend and yet I feel like she has feelings for me but not as much as I do for her I could only tell as she was excited when I told her I passed a class we had the same teacher in she considered it lacking when I stopped going to our schools weight room even though that may sound rude she understood when I stated I was doing others things such as practicing ping pong practicing badminton and dodgeball yet in the end I can't confess as the way feminist has taken over the new world it makes it hard to confess for most men now days and I don't know whether or not she's a feminist or not
Not a big loss. Those kind of girls are the ones you should try to avoid at all cost anyways. They're always gonna try to put you down and are gonna go for someone better as soon as they can.
I’ve never been in a relationship because I’m only 15 but that guy was super attractive because he’s never been in a relationship and maybe I’m saying that because I’ve never been in one and I’m waiting till I’m an adult to get in one but yeah that guy is super attractive
What the hell are you talking about. They're the reason he's not in a relationship? Like he deserves a girlfriend as a baseline and they're denying him his just desert?
@@jlemsey2232 Look at I this way, those trash ass lame excuse for women are the reason why this guy doesn't want to be or shouldn't be in a relationship. Avoid them.
What that man described is what I pray for everyday. I don't want a bunch of immature girls. I want one woman who will love me unconditionally for the rest of my life.
The guy who never was in a relationship is the most emtionally mature person right there. Edit: for all the people asking how can he be the most mature person without having a relationship, I can only suggest to study the PAC model introduced by Eric Berne. A model so fundamental that even Freud himself took as the basis of his psychoanalytic theories.
@@jimbob2252 i’ve been in many relationships before and all but one of them ended the same way, the girl cheated and left me feeling like a worthless piece of shit. If relationships weren’t worth it to me 10-15 years ago they’re definitely not worth it now.
@@redrazorx-23 just do you man, all anyone really wants is happiness. You can be single and happy, just take up hobbies or travel and make friends along the way. You can still be happy that way there's no set rules for happiness
The worst feeling in life is when the people you make memories with, become a memory themselves. I hope that man is ok and happy with his wife for all eternity
Not to mention dude will get the joy of having his first relationship at a time when it will actually work out instead of all the younger relationships that rarely ever do. Atleast for me personally having only one relationship ever is the dream.
I hate this virgin makes you bad it bed bullshit My first time I went for 4 hrs it was great I probably would have done it sooner if I wasn’t so insecure about underpreforming
@@Chillin4030he’s 93 they were married for 51 years… that’s 42 years unless she died very young it’s more likely that he was 30 some when he met her and not his first relationship… what it sounds like to me is he finally found his soul mate… and when you do that matters way more if “oh my first relationship”. Ppl don’t think like that unless they never moved on
@K1ngAlexander Bruh, you're not very smart. He never said what year she died, so there's literally no way you can conceive which year of his life he married her. That, plus add on that they probably knew eachother and dated years before marrying. You're just completely wrong and talking outcha butt, filtering it though you opinions that you believe.
Dude. Someone who has never been in a relationship and has never kissed anyone is special! Wtf why are they saying ick!? He's a keepsr if anything. That means if he has his first kiss its with you. If he has sex for the first time its with you. Bruh first times are meant to be special.
I watched the video. And the girl on the left as well as the one on the right were bullies. The one in the middle actually thought he was the best one.
That guy who they immediately judged as a bad kisser and bullied could've yelled to defend himself or tried to make himself bigger, but instead he just laughed along and stayed calm. That's a true respectable gentleman right there.
I don’t think he laughed along, I think he was genuinely shocked that this is how they view it and didn’t know what to say. However, I do respect his life choices than the women who were berating him for waiting on the right woman to come into his life…they certainly were NOT the woman he deserves and is waiting on
None of the ppl in these vids are normal, because no normal person would agree to be in any of these vids. That unfortunately includes all these guys as well
The dude the most based in the whole room, didnt get mad, didnt argue back, no quirky comments, no lies, just took things for what they were and kept on the atmosphere even if awkward. Would gladly make someone like him a friend
yall love people that don’t defend themselves and people that think poorly of themselves. so what if he had made a quirky comment? would that have been wrong? 😂 doormats love doormats
@dreamkitty he wouldn't, but he showed maturity and was the bigger person. There's nothing to win in that situation with a fight, but still a lot to be lost
Ridiculous times we’re living when people think not being in a relationship is a bad thing. What’s wrong with discovering all that together? Makes that marriage that much more special. Respect to that young man. Reminds me of my son ❤
Have you seen the whole video? Does he mean that he's never been with someone sexually or that he's never dated someone exclusively but still ran around having relations?
@@ablasttv There are plenty of adults who do wait for marriage, whether on purpose or by happenstance. I know people for religious and non-religious reasons who have and have been together for decades, and I have friends who also have and have been happily married for several years. It's more likely to work out for adults who know who they are and what they want than teenagers. Just because you don't believe in such a lifestyle doesn't mean you should be degrade people who do. Everyone is different and no one is required to have sex to be an adult, just as people who don't wait are no more adult for it, nor less valuable as people.
I hope the younger man in this video finds a girl that he connects with and who truly values and appreciates him. He didn’t deserve to be treated like that by those girls. Also, I am so glad that the older man was able to experience true love and shared his story with us. ❤
“Never been in a relationship” is the best answer. Being single and staying single until you connect with someone is better than getting ran through by 3 or more people. That whole comment and their behavior was out of order.
Look at them, they were basic bitches who probably were passed around in school, just like the guy who was laugh with them, that man was being harassed because he doesnt look like 90% of males.
@@signumxmagnum look. I've never been in a relationship either and I also like people who put care in their relationships and who want a true connection before sex etc. ...But goddamn, people (or vaginas?) aren't locks and penises most definitely don't unlock shit. Come on.
As a woman, I have so much respect for guys that choose to abstain till they find miss right. It's actually harder to abstain than to not, so these bullies have nothing on him.
I disagree. Avoiding women is somewhat of a specialty of mine, and staying away from everything gives me so much more time that I can spend doing more important work. Maybe things are different for you, but 99% of dudes never have women thowing themselves at them.
if you’re a below average to average looking man you pretty much master being emotionally deprived. it’s sad. it’s second nature to avoid women to those men. and they’re not avoiding women because they want but because she’ll instantly say no to him.
Never been in a serious relationship too. I have been with girls, but the girls I really liked never wanted anything serious and I don't really think it makes sense to have a girlfriend just to show the world. I'm 27 and honestly, I'm fine if it never happens, I enjoy my time alone and I still have a lot to work on personally to be ready to really get into a relationship with someone and not feel like I'm pulling that girl into my problems and maker her life worse. Everything in due time
"When I lost her, I lost my life and now I am just existing " This just tells how he selflessly loved her something that very lucky ones can experience in today's generation 💔
I’ve found it 🥹 took me a couple decades and many relationships. There was one that i threw away that could also have been this, and two that i was too naive/inexperienced to keep. They are out there, but the hard bit isn’t finding them, it’s being emotionally grown enough to understand how special they are but also wise enough to know which ones see you as equally special
@@phantasticmrphasma9874 congratulations on your love! I heard somewhere that in real life high EQ is more important than high IQ there are researches that shows how high EQ people are more successful in life than those with high IQ .I believe this really do matters.
@@Truth_SeekRbro stfu about Jesus it’s people like you that make religion shit. It’s a nice story about how much he loves and misses his wife and you gotta ruin it with your “ he should’ve loved Jesus bullshit”
The human body isn't chemically designed to date. The first person you fall in love with should be the one and only, and innocence should be enough to pull your whole lives. But our civilization is corrupt and nobody is innocent minded anymore. It's gotten very cutthroat in the marriage department.
@@Memo_0215if you don’t mind, could you please replace your profile picture with something less offensive. As a member of the trans community, I am bewildered that you could have such a hateful picture on your profile. Bigot.
As a female who has never been in a relationship, I would choose that guy instantly. Even if it’s not their preference, there was no need to say those awful things. I’m sure he will find a lovely partner. Rooting for you!
@@K.J.H_FOR REAL! Honestly being eachothers first experience for everything is pure BLISS. No jealousy or anxiety of your partner loving their ex or comparing your sex life. And it’s more fun to learn for the first time together and have a laugh. I know I would always feel insecure and disgusted if I knew my partner had been with other people like that.
Honestly I wouldn't go for someone who has never been in a relationship, I'd be concerned that they more than likely haven't learned to work out their relationship issues and prefrences most people experience as teens. I've had a few friends who didn't start dating until their twenties, which I always thought was fine until I saw how they were in their relationships and how they talked about/treated their girlfiends, it was all the petty bs that comes with immature teen relationships, but as full grown adults
@@PerpetualScreamingAaaaahrelationship is not a job to have like nonsensical amount of experience to apply for. The problem is ,never learned respect, immaturity, unhealed wounds projecting on others, lack of self awareness and on and on . lacking as an individual affects all aspects of your life. When you can’t manage your life and yourself, what to expect in relationships that require mutual understanding, compromises, depth that will test the nonexistent patience of yours. When you can’t even take care of yourself how will you take care of another person a whole another package with their own set of problems and life like yours. You don’t need to be candidate you just need to grow as an individual.
The 1st guy is a gentleman I mean look at him he has manners and respect, takes care of himself, is fit, and also has a great style.....any girl will be so lucky to have him
Bruh. She needs makeup and dyed hair to imitate only a fraction of his power. If you get rejected by such a hoe, you're an absolute winner. Meaning, he is a winner. Look at him. I mean, I'm not gay, but...
The type of females who will get used a lot and played a lot by their own stupid decisions, and they will blame it on the men which leads to them being a feminist. Pretty hilarious, right?
I understand bro. I'm a pragmatic person in every aspect of my life except for love. I'm waiting for the "right one" and if she doesn't exist or I'm not gonna meet her... Well gg I'll still have a good and happy life
@@mattia8020 that's the spirit, man. It's better to wait and fall in love, rather than falling again and again in wrong relationships. You need to preserve yourself for the one.
@@mattia8020 I am trying to develope a similiar mindset with a belief in that there is "the one" somewhere out there waiting for me, but I definitely will not have a happy life without romantic love. I am miserable and insecure beyond belief and have very little hope for it tho... the world does not seem to really give me any evidence that that is the case
Right ? I had a friend group once where everyone just dated random people , I find that scaring . We were not even in the age of dating - literally . 14 years old , or 13 . And that’s what happens very often in this generation .
The old man reminds me of my grandma and grandpa. They been together since they were teenagers. And when they die, they die almost at the same time. It’s like they really true love couples to very end.
The only reason I hate yt shorts is you fuckers your over here begging for likes.just get likes off a video instead of a simple comment.Our gen ain’t that bad anyway every other one was just about as bad
I love how the old person realized there's no response to what he said that can console him. So he added more and ended on a happier note with a lesson that can make you feel inspired and hopeful.
Rooting for that younger man who has never been in a relationship, he seems like a very friendly fella, and I am also really happy for the old man, I hope to live life like that as well with whoever may be mine in the future
He could also have been a fuckboy who has never been in a relationship because it was a series of one night stands... People need to stop assuming they know everything about someone from a fucking short.
@@DayZeroGaming well I know, I am gonna root for him to get a healthy and thriving relationship though when he chooses to get one yk? That’ssss what I meant if that makes sense, idk if it makes sense but I hope that does make sense
First girlfriend, first kiss, first sex, First everything was my wife of 11 years who gave me two amazing children and has shown me unending grace, forgiveness, respect, and love. I’ve never regretted waiting for a second, hope this dude didn’t let those insufferable shrews get to him
Sorry I read that wrong for a second and I thought it said your wife was 11 years old when she had your kids 💀 That aside, that’s so sweet she was your first and you’re still together! It gives me hope as well as someone who hasn’t been in a relationship yet
@@jmesen180facts one of my worst mistakes was assuming old people were smarter than me however the comment does have some truth to it old ppl have good advice
I respect the old man he wasn’t just crying every day thinking about his wife who has passed away but he was just waiting for the time he was eventually gonna join her being grateful for the life he has had up until now without showing any regrets
@@jaipadv8282 Tf? No he's not, his heart is already filled with the Love he had with his wife, he doesn't need nothing better anymore, he had the life he ever wanted, why would he be with a dead heart? As the old man told, he is fine with his life, and is happy
I can relate to this gentleman. Three years ago I lost my wife of 30 years. I lost the best half of me and am only existing until I can join her. I am only 62, so that could have been a while except I have cancer and may not have to wait as long.
So glad i found my life partner in my late 20s. I had time to get some experience but was young enough to do a lot of fun things with her, start a family, and now am happy that the big blast of passion has turned to comfortable warmth that will last.
"We respect women, not bitches" -Thomas Shelby Edit: Thanks for all the likes guys Damn! 11k likes man this is amazing Edit 2: it seems like I have started a war, haven't I
Honestly, it really is hard to find someone like he mentioned. I mean most of the women only date a guy who has money and for sex too. If a guy loves a women truly then she ends up leaving him, same goes for men too. This world just became way too cruel. All I see in this world is pain, suffering, evilness. No signs of loyalty or happiness is left in this world. And this generation is gonna be a depressing one. (Sry for bad English)
“when i lost her, i lost my life so now im just existing” that actually made me sob, i lost my grampie after 9 years of cancer just under a year ago and my nana was/is heartbroken, they’ve been together since they were 16 and even if my nana was out with her frineds 10 mins down the road my grampie wouldn’t be far behind her. those two are the reason i believe in love and i’ll be content even if im half as in love with someone as those 2 we’re
Same here. Told my grandpa if I ever find a guy who is half the man he is and loves me as much as he loves her I will count myself as one of the luckiest women in all of history. I hope their reunion in heaven is everything it should be love❤
I fully agree and respect the old man, he is saying wise words, but I wanted to add something. He looks like Master Ogway from Kung Fu Panda. Love him❤❤
