Feminism doing exactly what it was created to do. My generation was taught to get married and work, everything will be fine. Now, we must teach little boys the dangers of marriage and to work for themselves.
@@hardplans2366 And a man needs to determine if she is a player. This is a sure sign she has a high body count and cannot bond with anyone. Learn to listen to her words when having a general conversation. The real thoughts she is having come out in her words and word inflections. If you can get her to be passionate in her conversation she will tell you everything you need to know about her. It is your job to pay attention.
@@hardplans2366 When you come full circle, as I have, you no longer ask questions regarding women. As much I hate to say it, marriage as we've known it to be is over in the western world.
I am the same Black woman and I am beyond happy that Black men…especially young Black men..have FINALLY woke up to the realities of the ridiculousness of most Black women. Thank you to every podcast geared toward Black men, especially young Black men. They have literally become the substitute “Black Father” that was never there to teach their young Black men what to look for in a mate, what to expect, what NOT to tolerate, how to recognize a money-grabbing, uneducated, about nothing, fake and phony female with multiple children by multiple men looking for a “savior” to rescue her from the miserable, lonely life she has now. Young Black men…STOP giving YOUR hard earned money to these women. They are NOT worth it. Start demanding receipts from HER as t what YOU want in a women/ wife…and if she cannot provide that information to YOU…WALK AWAY. SAVE YOUR HARD MONEY. Look OUTSIDE your comfort zone for a better class of women. It’s NOT in front of you, it’s NOT in the bars and clubs. Get on a plane and see what else is out there and educate yourself while you do it. JOIN BLACK TRAVEL GROUPS. BLACK INTERNATIONAL TRAVEL GROUPS!
@@Jaeh1 Yes...always! They're never at fault, LOLOLOL...terribly sad reality coming for them as it is... they're going to learn some really horrible lessons the hardest way, as things unfold in these times...
@@omotee7755 oh don’t worry if he’s not a numbskull it’ll only take a few semesters for him to be over it, again if he’s not a numbskull☠️ if he is I REALLLY WISH YOU LUCK because nothing you say will stop it
You should direct him to women outside the country if he wants a family. The courts here will destroy him. This from a man who has never been through the courts so I've learnt from other men's stories and struggles.
This is true. I am 37. i met my wife 11 years ago. I lived in an apat located in a student ghetto. I look like a caveman because i am a blue color. I saved 70% my income. My wifes friends keep pushing her to leave me because i was broke... we got married at courthouse.. after 3 years together. Then we combined our income. She then notice i had money. She never knew. I had old clothing and old car and small apt. I paid in full my wifes master degree. Now this year we are buying a house cash. Now her same friends are broke and single with baby daddys. My wife married. We have 1 kid and we are buying a 3,300 square foot home on 0.64 acare land. I still look like a caveman because. I have a babyface with 2 dimples. I am a pretty boy but i had to look ugly to get the respect at work 😂.
As long as woman does not want to do it, if she is not disciplined, yes it always falls on deaf ears...until it is too late. THEN, lack of accountability will kick in. "Nobody told me", "I didn't know" 🤨😒 Automatically, it is someone else's fault, and she feels she should get a waiver. 😮🤣🤣🤣
@@JosephChandler-vd1cs Way to many act like undisciplined children. They listen to no one. As long there are safety nets, GOV playing Sugah Daddy, we will have wild 'children'. Threats of cutting off what they perceive as their money, they shut up... long enough to organize and protest, looking like an assortment of fools. 🤔If you have the ability to communicate, organize, and manage to this level, yo A🤬 need a J O B!! NOPE! Sugar daddy folds like lawn chair in a pre-storm wind gust, gives them a forehead kiss, back to square one, NOTHING learned, our bare toes squish deeper into the fresh, warm, and fragrant pile of 💩. There is no shame, no embarrassment, decency, morals, and values are (all but) GONE. They do NO wrong, nothing is their fault, there is ZERO accountability. YOU (and me) push to try to do something positive, we are the problem, we then find ourselves doing battle and defending decency against multiple waves and packs of 'pretty predators' (nope not all are pretty), and when the dust settles.... we still have wild 'children'. Until the GOV changes their stance, I will keep my sword sharp, my lead launcher loaded, sip my tea, and enjoy the entertainment. Oh, keep an eye on my pet and pet based accessories stocks as well. If buying a pet and dying alone is going to keep gaining momentum, I'm going to be with all the other shareholders supporting the efforts to provide what they need, promptly, and for a healthy profit.
Most damaged women from 35 and up does not matter if she is pretty or ugly are stubborn and will never change. I saw some old ladies with wrinkles and leathery skin . Still think they are all that. The problem is in their heads . Logic does not work for them.
I STEP OVER THEM EVERYDAY...I JUST MOVED TO A NEW APT. COMPLEX 3 MONTHS AGO. I'VE HAD SEVERAL WOMEN COME ON TO ME. BUT I CAN TELL VERY EASILY THEY'RE FOR THE STREETS, BUY THE WAY THEY WALK, TALK, DRESS, BODY LANGUAGE, TONE OF VOICE ETC ETC..... THEY'RE CALLING ME GAY, BECAUSE I REFUSED TO ENTERTAIN THEM AT ALL....🤦🏾♂️ 🤷🏽♂️
@@andreturner8292Don't listen to the insults bro they use shaming tactics when they can't get their way. I'm dealing with a gf that's about to be a ex gf that I lived with she is the same as most of these women that's being talked about. Her foul attitude and poor behavior makes non matetable and the way she disrespected me by talking down on me any type of way was the last straw now I have 0 fvcks to give I stopped answering her calls everytime she calls or text even though my things is at her house. I'm over the road as a truck driver so let's see what happens when she can't pay the other half of the rent.
And the funny part is that it's the same exact shade, I laugh at that every time I see their makeup kit. Buy expensive makeup just to go to brunch and another brunch then to a dinner all for IG and TT, just to cry later that it's hard out here.
From my experience, most well paid women don’t know how to manage their finances to run a household without falling into financial troubles or neglecting the most basic household accounts. This, because they prioritise fancy cars, clothes, outings and other pretentious pursuits that women fall for. They always need a logical, structured and disciplined partner to keep them in line…
They only listen and believe what suits them. The dissonance between reality and their delusion is fascinating. Govt policies are formed on keeping them happy in their delusions.
They know very well what they do, and they dont regret anything they do. They just regret the consequences of their actions and men re fool enough to think they re regretting the actions.
The aftermath of feminism and woman saying "behind every successful woman is herself" and I "do not need a man, I am independent," is going to be at least another 20 years. And we probably don't wanna know what kind of society, women's mentality, gen Z mentality we're going to have. I fear the worst. Unfortunately. Cheers Paul!
Nowadays, attraction can’t override everything else. Beauty is only skin deep, but being in debt can be forever. Men have to start asking women valid questions when they meet them. Like; “What is your financial status?” “What is your credit score?” “Do you have kids, if so, how many, and how many baby daddies?” Too many men are being fooled, because they see a woman looking good, dressing well, driving a nice car, etc. Not understanding, that she might be drowning in student loan debt. We have to be smarter, and not let the other head sway our decisions.
The thing is there is a massive delay. Men realized this at least 10 years ago. They’re far behind in this “realization,” which is really just public admittance to what was already privately understood.
I stopped approaching women in person after my last heartache back 2015. I'm 46yo & I now only pursue/court childless, younger women who are wise enough to be open to a serious relationship with an older man
...more like, the repercussion or ricochet effect begins...no fight back needed, and in my candid opinion it's brilliant...! what a time to be alive...
just like what she said, its a surprise that these women who thinks themselves as smart and trying to teach other women how to play men thinks that men don't watch those videos and understand their motive.
Unfortunately even if the message is coming from a female most of them will just call her a pick me. They r that arrogant because they’re making good money on their own
Well, that is clearly just a case of being half a$$ed. Doing just enough to reduce the heat, divert the blame, or ease the harshness of criticism, glaring and scornfully eye. 🤔What about the remedy? 😮🤣🤣 If you recreated the same situation that got her jammed up, some would fall for it the exact same way. No lesson learned, PERIOD!
@@Jaeh1 most women are narcissistic whom cannot accept blame, they blame shift gaslighting saying it's The Man's fault for their choices or they didn't know better no one told them to be disciplined accountable responsible.
@@b14m23 Only a keeper if she changes based on her knowing she is wrong. As the OP stated, the problem is they don't change when knowing they are in the wrong. And if they do change, it's only temporary, like for a week, then back into old habits.
I was raised by a single mother cause my dad died in an early age. I had to learn it all the hard way, went through some stuff and started building myself up. Like you’ve lovely said Paul, man are playing chess. I started last year playing as a pawn ♟️ in my earlier/mid 30ies, but before I reach 40 I will change the figure to a king. And hell no, I won’t take the leftover old woman who treated me badly, I’ll look for a lovely young princess. 😂 We say in Germany “young and fertile she must be” ☝🏽
They obviously love the struggle because they go out of their way to fight with you after you’ve given them a ring and marry them and pay all the bills and have a joint account and allow him to help manage it, they still want to fight you as if you’re their enemy. And I married Asian Indian woman who was born in Jamaica and identified as a Jamaican. I cannot imagine these sisters were red and purple and green and orange hair submitting the way she did to get me let alone submitting at all during the marriage to one or two things, SMH
@@Fay1106 Not all, but most! We can see that in statistics: 70-90% of divorces are filed by women. 63% of men 18-35 have no interest in marriage or a LTR. 34% of men 18-34 haven't had sex in the last year (Pew Research and Gallup Poll studies). 6.5/1000 men are getting married. The average length of a marriage is just under 7 years. "Men will sacrifice their happiness for their family. Women will sacrifice their family for their happiness". Men have woken up to the fact that
“United we stand divided we fall”..people in the US are the ones being divided specifically women 😅 ✌🏽 I am so proud to call my self ASIAN and traditional woman.
I’m 28 and I had a baby with a woman who is almost 40 years of age, she blessed me with a baby and then went out in the streets and texted me yesterday that she is ready to settle down and have a family. I immediately said no thank you, you belong to the streets lol 😂😂💀 I’m up right now💪✌️
So who is the fool here? Definitely not the 28yr old who had baby with a 40yr old woman.. smh 🤦 if she’s for the streets you belong in the dumpster smh
That young lady was dropping the truth. Speaks in a lovely way. Well done. When I was 19, a roommate ladies-man shared with me nuggets of wisdom, and one of them was to read “Cosmopolitan” etc, to better understand Women. It helped a lot. However nowadays: No more mystery. We understand your complexity enough to have clarity. 😋😳✈️💃💃💃 Heck, since Patrice O’neil the gig was up. He broke down the dynamics in a powerful way. HoeMath puts it together the best as far as I can tell. (Visual = easier for many ppl) Single fellas…get outta dodge! Lots of places around the world where the Women are still sane. The West is infected with the mind virus. Goto Greener pastures. Lol But fr fr
Here is a good point that women really should know. A man goes after a woman because he finds her attractive and he wants to mate with her. This is the biology that gets things rolling. A man stays with a woman when he is attracted to who she is as a person. If you are a woman and no matter what type of man you choose, he ends up leaving after he gets the bedroom fun. That says a lot about you as a person. A woman is supposed to be a man's helper. She is not supposed to be his nagging mother or his dependent daughter. A woman must possess something in her personality that a man finds of value to him. The more financially successful a man is, the better personality a woman must have in order to be at his side.
That young lady was cooking with Crisco I have had a saying for years that women utilize VLS the "vagina leveraging system" she nailed it. Even yesterday another content creator said do not do anything in your youth that will not benefit your future. sadly a lot of this good advice is falling on deaf ears. Excellent posting sir
😂😂 every time I hear him use the reference to “puh-nanny” I die laughing. It just makes the point sound so silly. 😂 😂 Ah I we need more West Indies dialect on RU-vid lol 🇹🇹
Suppose social engineers initiated and maintain the toxic feminism, in this case we, men and women, have a common enemy, lurking in the dark, not even considered by these channels, why is it excluded? We blame our "stupid" women. Do we not fail as men to protect our women from this social engineering?
Y’all, the “good and wise” ones, called us conspiracy theorists. It’s not just social engineering, it goes way beyond that. We’re talking the devil against God. But hey, believing that makes me an “incel/crazy/loser/enter any other ad hominem here,” right?
Not at all it speaks to a womans vanity and greed social engineers just leverage what's already there That's why older societies keep women very limited in order to progress society it's biblical
No, if women is so easily tempted by evil and commit to it, god failed and screwed man over. there is a reason the serpent went to even and he continues to do so time and time again. men own nothing, she is not my women nor do I have any interest in someone so evil and stupid , selfish and demonic in their minds. no interest in these amoral evil creatures you can go blame men all you want, it wont solve the problem and evil creatures never change, never learn.
I was giving my wife £1000 per month and I have no idea what she spent it on. I was paying all the bills (mortgage, utility, car, etc). About 4 months after our son was born she told me that she did not love me any more. She had got in with some man hating feminists. It wrecked the marriage. That was 20 years ago.
@@belizeans Yes. She had an affair with a significantly older married man, and had his baby. His wife divorced him. She did well out of it - he had a large detached house with a swimming pool. He passed away a couple of years ago. She made her choices.
Sorry, I have to disagree. Men. Hear my warning. If a woman wants to get with you and she's hundreds of thousands in debt, racks up her credit card, spends all her money on frivolous things, this is a disaster waiting to screw you. Run away. You do not want to be attached to this kind of woman in any shape or form. It will just lead to misery for you.
@@fyahoo right. It's like we are all on a boat and some people like to keep punching holes in the boat and they look surprised when water comes in. A responsible adult saver cannot marry a frivolous irrational spender. A spender can bankrupt you in a day what it took you 10 years to build up.
hey God father. Another golden presentation. I also happy that there is a sister (BLACK) out there that still has some discerment and is willing to sensitize/ wakeup the other ladies and those that will follow, before it´s too late. Let´s hope she connects with your platform and we must keep her safe.
Another lesson but this time hear the truth from a woman view who Paul confirms👌🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾. Paul give a equal opportunity opinion of a woman!! Good video Paul hear it from a woman who tells the honest truth about suffering!!!
great great post.... Dad not being your friend is key....It starts off that way but when you make it as a man or a woman later in life, you then realize he was being a friend that we deep down all want to tell us the truth which is part of the true meaning of love.
I'm a business man and a civil engineering graduate, from my bad past experience with ladies i refuse to be in a relationship, i use them and keep going, I'm very happy by myself and i enjoy different flavors, they did this to me, women is different than the past, now they all about the money
So now that the reality of the state of western women’s socialization has been acknowledged, and correction seems futile, the question is how do women propose to adjust in a progressive manner!
They may require a budget. Math is not the strong side of some women, but as one of the ladies said, shopping has become a habit. $300 doesn't sound like much, but if done right, it could be a significant part of your monthly food budget. I'll send her a cookbook.
Paul, Be yourself. I like your message on your channel because you teach younger people about how they should conduct themselves online. Your message is refreshing to hear because it's a message that is lacking in our world today. Your message offers solutions to the problems we are facing in the dating and marriage world. I hope to see more middle of the line channels to bring solutions to these modern problems.
I pay for everything. She contributes problems and complains all the time. Life in London UK is expensive. I work for kids, not for her. They are happy because their mother is around. Because of your channel, I realized I am Superman. I am a 3D designer. I work every day do a lot of sport and study. Play basketball and football with my kids. Of course, I have to make a lot of money and I don't have time to sleep a lot. But we are men, build for hard work and fucking wars. We don't complain and we go on with the life. West is still the place with the most of the opportunities. Lived in 6 different countries. When you see people in Africa sleeping on the streets you realize how lucky you are.
Just try to find a woman like this 😬 I’d say 90% is ruined right now. Tried dating for a while in the west. Find s… was easy, finding a wife is impossible
I have a blue collar job and I saved a $50,000 in a short period of time my dream girl works in a thrift store and I came to her she did not know what I had or anything. She's not a religious woman but she does have God consciousness and we both like learning. Nothing but up from there. And she can have absolutely anything from me. Just Rare Rare Rare. Thank you God thank you thank you thank you
I’m 36, established in life, and fairly good looking. I gave an attractive 39 yr old a chance and they’re still holding out for better wasting time. Had a 35 yr old seek my attention again. I wanted to date her in our early 20’s, not now after kids and a divorce. Funny thing is they claim to be more mature than men but they can’t figure out why men don’t want them anymore.
At some point, i thought only the superficial type of girls have this mindset due their ignorance , bud sadly , i realize that there are grown up women who share the same perspective that a man exist just to pay for their whims, and the only thing he should settle is to remain thirsty by their looks. This selfishness is going to be their doom.
The problem with the 50/50 conversation is that it can never account for the compatability between 2 adults living together. People are different when there is no separation to afford them appreciation. Both men and women have particular ways of running their homes. Income won't always be able to address that.
It’s saddens me that people put Kevin Samual’s on a pedestal as a relationship expert sadly he was estranged from his family when he transitioned and his own mother found out through the web. When he started out he wasn’t bashing black women,but as a tuber he learned to make more money by bashing your own. He could have taken the high road and dated people better suited for himself.
I chose struggle love. I have daddy issues and a past my loving man is willing to accept. He builds me up everyday and has accepted from me, what most men won't and he doesn't care. He loves me regardless. I know I will never find someone like him. Truth be told, these men are so deprived of feminine women, they are willing to make exceptions for the females that actually get it. He is a church man that won't date outside the church so his options are limited, but was to my benefit. We are so grateful we found each other, because though he had faith in finding someone, it's been rough for him too, he's almost 50, so I get to be his young hot chick at 40 😂.
Struggle love vs Struggle life? Something for the ladies to think about. There is a Swahili saying that goes ''where there is a council of elders, things don't go wrong.'' When in doubt, you know what to do - (small voice) ask an older man.
Warm Salutations to you Mr. Paul! I hoped you had picked up on the Mr. As a sign of respect that you most definitely have earned and deserve! I must say these Modern Feminist Women have me scratching my head. I'm a Old Fart and just do not understand so much of this Modern World. It's even tough for me to use this phone that's smarter than I am. My smarter than me phone. But with all these Modern Feminist Women demanding so much from men but giving it to others. How does that make sense?? Can anyone explain that to me?? In my day women went to college to find the best husband they find. The one thought would be going places and make a good father and husband. They then stood beside him in life helping him to become the best he could be. When he climbed the ladder, be it corporate or blue collar, the whole family was benefited and the family was raised up. When both men a woman join up together for the benefit of the family they all do much better. Women and men think differently but if they work together it unreal at how much better both can do. What happened to that way of life or that way of thinking?? It just doesn't make sense?? Am I just to much of a Old Fart to be able to comprehend the Modern Feminist Women?? Maybe so. Thank you Sir for bringing us cebrial examination of this screwed up Modern Dating crap. To a Old Fart the dating world is a cross between a job interview intertwined with a loan application. This was a very good video and definitely worth the time to watch it. Remember folks always seek the wisdom from our older generation. If you need help remember Always Ask a Older Man, he has the wisdom to help you out. I'm Older than he is but he has more Wisdom than I do on many things. A Smart person is one who can gain the wisdom from others without having to learn the hard way. My dad used to say the hardest way is way to easy. Think about that one.
I need your advice on this situation I have a home in two states and I've helped my ex-get a job and have moved her in my place in both states but she insists on being single but wants to sleep with me when she gets ready but she pays no bills at either house I'm thinking she's a narcissist!
She your ex should say it all. She pays no bills should say it all. Casual sex should say it all. Heaven knows who you brought her back and got involved. Free left over pussy from the streets and STD's just don't cut it, these days. Value your life and health and money more. And do some blood work asap.
"We are too old, too stuck in our ways" is a tragedy. Stats show us 1 in 4 with a marriage that feels like home. You are where you belong. No regrets because the compromises made are seen not as a sacrifice but to win. NGL it makes it all seem like bitter fruit and I'm just seeking self optimization while walking away from the tension, bitterness, all that proud girl power. You right, winter is not coming, it is here. This won't be fixed in the near term. I'll guide my sons to avoid the simp move of "happy wife, happy life" because that is a relationship that is over before it starts. She won't respect you, she will feel unsafe, unloved at the end of the day... walking away from you to her freedom. Winter is here but so is my passport. The solution comes as soon as I have my situation in order. 2025 brings summertime.
Regarding the trigger warning, we may want to start considering an increase of women being on the Asperger‘s spectrum. and Man as well leading to a generally more sensitive society.
If there employer said 3k a mo raise and all you have to do is stay off the streets, out the clubs, off social media and not be a W hore They would be ON it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
