When a woman who wants to go to the bathroom asks strangers to help take care of her mentally disabled son, what will people do? Please give more patience and care to special populations. Join us: / @treeman
It is ok if the first individual did not want to help. They could have just shook their head and kept on walking if they were busy. They do not owe any kind of obligation as they are just strangers on the street. However, the most unacceptable thing during the encounter was the insulting backtalk. Who are you to say that the mother is unfit to care for her child? If you do not want to help - you are free to leave. Otherwise, that person should keep their snide and insensitive comments to themselves and just bugger off.
@@rurazar1686 Nah. The first individual is free to say whatever they like. The world is a mean and nasty place and doesn't have to cater to you. Get used to it.
@@Eckh4rt True, but it doesn't hurt to be a nicer person. As you mature as human being you realize that it's truly better to not say anything than to say something upsetting/rude/insensitive. It's more humane. You have feelings they have feelings too. Of course there are exceptions in life but I am talking on a more general perspective, but it is true you should not expect the world to be a great place.
@@Eckh4rt I understand but ...if u don't wanna help that's fine but why say even u can't handle him how can I....just don't say anything and go ur way at that ....no need to add salt on ur wound...
"How can I take care of him when you can't handle him?" What a nasty man, he has the right to refuse but you don't have the right to utter such harsh words
He was so embarrassing, it's not like she told him to change his clothes or feed him , a men without any bit of sense or pride, and I'm pretty sure he's failing at taking care of his own self , his poor family....
Unfortunately wherever you are there will be someone nasty and disgusting that you will not expect.. Its really happen in real life and sometimes its hurtful.. 😢
While I understand that it's not anyone's responsibility to look after a stranger's special needs child, you can just say no or I'm in hurry/busy vs talking them down. They are just asking, not demanding or trying to force you. Honestly, to react like that is cruel, unnecessary, and speaks volumes about your character. "From the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
They can say whatever they want. If you ask some random person on the street of course you risk having that sort of malignant reaction. You also have no idea what they're going through. You base an entire person's character on one interaction? It's you that is shallow.
@@Eckh4rt While I don't know what they are going through, it's not a green light to just hurt others carelessly and use them to vent your emotions. Coping like that is unhealthy for both the person being verbally abusive as well as the person that's being used as the scapegoat. Consequently, if I saw someone being verbally abusive to another person just to cope, of course I'd consider them to have some degree of impulsiveness and possible anger/anxiety issues. Granted, the guy's reaction was mellow compared to the explosive verbal/ego fights I've seen people start just because they don't know how to get channel/get rid of their anger/aggressive energy in a less combative/chaotic way.
I have absolutely nothing against emotionally challenged children. It would scare me to death if I die before them. All I can worry about is who will look after them when I'm gone. I have a lot of respect for parents who sacrifice so much for them. Kudos to them! I would just be anxious and stress ridden thinking the possible worse of them outliving me.
Jet Li did a rare non-action film about 10 years ago, called 'Ocean Heaven.' He didn't even take any pay for the film. It is about a man with a 20-something old autistic son. He finds out he is terminally ill and is worried about his son. I liked the film because it was overall positive and hopeful. And it touched on a very real fears some parents have to face.
People should understand that helping strangers whenever they asked for it is not easy and everyone can do it. I also love helping people but sometimes due to hectic schedule or or other reasons I had to ignore them. It's not an easy decision to take in such circumstances. Those people who help in the video are really good people who can go to any extent to take a risk in helping those who are in need. Also, don't blame those who didn't help them because it might be due to their personal problems or for other reasons.
Another reason to add, sometimes being kind to others and willing to help can sadly get you taken advantage of and go to the extent of being kidnapped or killed in the process. I try my best to help others but these scare me the most as there has been so many cases where kindness towards others can literally be the end of your life. Especially in the United States :(. Everywhere is not safe no matter where you are
Not helping is fine but why should one be rude to them, refusing politely isn't too much to ask for. It's better to pass on without saying anything than giving a rude comment.
@@rashmichaudhry7775 You are right darling....Even if we can't or don't want to help them we should not hurt their dignity. Whenever i'm going out, it means I have some problems to deal with it and when some people asked for help and if i',m busy i'd politely tell them that i'm in a hurry. Cursing people who need help is not a good way to deal.
I feel the same way when I help people, like I'm gambling with my own safety, and sometimes people ask me to help them, and I hesitate say yes, while praying YOU MUST BE GOOD PERSON YOU MUST BE GOOD PERSON
Treeman!!! 😭😭😭 I have a kid with special needs too, and I'm a bit skeptical of leaving him with other people, especially when we're out in public. Thank you for all the kind-hearted people we've met!! Kudos to all of you!
I have multiple children (three are now adults, one is a teenager) with varying severities of disabilities, and never felt safe leaving them with anyone. Disabled people are the most vulnerable people to predators. My three oldest have successfully become semi-independent, but the youngest (13) isn't. What I do is take him to the bathroom with me if out in public. I can't trust anyone to watch him, and he can't use the bathroom without help, and I can't go into the men's room. He goes with me to the lady's restroom and I don't care who has a problem with it, he's emotionally and mentally innocent like a younger child, and I'm always with him.
Whenever I see a social experiment that featured people who helps a person with disability it always melts my heart. I had an uncle and, a cousin that has mental disability that lived with us while growing up. They were the sweetest people.
Way the people's explain who are they and what are their relation withhis mother just melt my heart...its hard to take care of this kind of child but how beautifully all mange him in a kind way and answer every questions he asked..
When the girl in the orange dress said she had a 26 yo daughter I was like WHATTTT because she looks like she's still 20 when she's at least 40 something 😭😭
for people who seem unconcerned I'm sure they will regret letting a mother who asks for help supervise her child for a while, actually this is an experimental social acting drama that will be uploaded to youtube and this youtube channel is very global, I as a loyal fan of Tree Man, I am concerned about the people who hard-hearted and without compassion at all!!!
I understand that some people aren't willing to help random folks on the street. Especially in similar situation. Some are too cautious. Nothing is wrong with that. However, the rude comments that the second guy said should not be said. Just say that you're busy and leave.
Such beautiful and kind people. Though I can’t help but be affected by what that one man said. ‘How can I take care of him when you can’t even handle him.’ Or something. I wonder how many caretakers of those with special needs have to hear such hurtful words.
Lots of sweet folks here. Really kindhearted. I worked with the mentally ill so this would be no big deal to me. But to the average person this would indeed be a big deal. So it shows they have big hearts.
Cada día me enamoró de este hermoso país si algún día Pudiera visitar este hermoso país me haría muy feliz Gracias a sus ciudadanos qué no importa si no lo conoces ellos siempre cuida de otros gracias por ese hermoso vídeo muy lindo❤️
My mother works with Disabled People and she is an absolute angel. When she said that i could do it to i thought about it for a good long while. And while i probably couldn't do what she does i believe i could at least do this much without having to think about it.
I have a friend with severe mental health issues and it's very hard to ask for help. people see someone different and try to avoid us and it's very cruel. my friend may be different but she knows that people avoid her and it hurts her heart. this video was nice to see.
Most disables are innocent and nice. Let me share humorous story. A disabled American used to learn karate class during his childhood, But as young adult he has to live in a house with other disabled groups where staff works as caregiver. One day new staff didn’t know about him she said, “you can’t have it right now” When a NO to him, he slammed her to the flood with his karate experience. Boss wish she read his background before work with him. She is nice staff and he is nice disabled person just don’t like anyone say NO to him.
