Woman Brags About RUINING Marriage for Attention.. 

I mean, her scenario happens not just in husbands who cheat but husbands who suddenly die too. The wife ends up carrying the financial burden and picking up the pieces if their kids are too young.

The husband knows damn well he did wrong, and he's twisting everything around to make himself look like the victim. He and OF lady deserve each other.

so that girl isn’t just a home-wrecker.. she’s a stalker too. she’s making up scenarios in her head about being in some kind of competition with ashley???? it just screams insecurity

Gel Lady seems to be a hard working, savvy business lady and content creator. I hope she gets her millions soon, and I hope the wannabe clout-chasing home wrecker reaps the full consequences of her action. I’m not supporting harassing her, but she absolutely deserves it. No respect.

It’s the having her children in the video while discussing this subject matter for me. The fact that she was basically telling the world that she has low boundaries for men (a mistress) while introducing her toddler daughter is insane w/ the amount pedos on social media. And THEN she goes into talking her job in s3x work. Like ma’am? Then the husband 😵‍💫 He should have not said anything. There’s no way you can get out of this. You’ve embarrassed yourself, your wife, & now you’re about to be broke when she puts you out.

I want to know how long it'll take the home wreaker to realize that she's killing her own career because most guys don't want to use the services of a OF who is going to tell the world their dirty secrets.

Ashley handled this way better than I would have. She genuinely seems like a kind and humble woman. I feel for her and what she's going through. It's sad, and ppl these days will do anything for views🤦‍♀️

This is a crappy situation for Ashlee & her family. Her husband could do the very least by not allowing the side chick to talk crap about his wife the mother of his children. He’s pathetic & so is the side chick smh

What the pick-me girl doesn’t realize, is that for man women, just communicating with another girl on OF is crossing a line into cheating territory. There is no need for her to try to invalidate the gel ladies feelings and response to such a scenario or air it out online. It just shows the lack of class and ethics the one sitting on her kitchen floor has.

This is just sad. The husband and the OF girl deserve each other. I just feel bad for the Gel girl.

More often than not a homewrecker can't wreck a home that isn't already broken. I hope Ashley can get through this and OF girl becomes a distant memory.

OF farm tool is like one of those high school bullies that acts like if she says things casually and calmly with a vocal fry they’re allowed to say awful things and if you call them out “you’re just so emotionally immature” with “really negative energy” and “harassing them!” Basically those girls that are horrible narcissists who think they can get away with anything by using weaponized HR language.

So she’s basically showing all her clients that she doesn’t know how to mind her business and will air their private matters if it means she gets some attention.

Gel girl is someone any woman would be proud to call a friend

I've seen some of their shorts. They made me so uncomfortable that I blocked their page. Her hubby always looked agitated, disgusted and even distressed. She used him like a prop, while being as cringe as possible. I'm glad he got out.

So glad she got her own business going!!! Mama is right n smart

I could barely follow her train of thought… she’s so vague and talks like she’s reading something without any punctuation

Clout is a hell of a drug

Oh god I saw the thumbnail and it's someone I watched herself...few minutes into the video I stopped worrying, and then I read the comments 💀☠ I feel so so bad...

"The most random person who is the definition of the tool that farmers use to shape soil" The most sophisticated way to call someone a...... ahahaha. Deserved.

Chick with the glasses is MESSY. I hate her attitude.. the gel lady was super respectful and was very anonymous

That sex worker could have said all of her speech in less than 50 words

I used to see her pop up in my feed from time to time and thought they both seemed wholesome. This entire controversy came out of left field, this shit threw me off so much

Maaaa we are dyinggggggg. “I just gotta touch on this real quick”

I don’t use hair gel but I want to buy her gel to support her and make that money to help during the stupidity of this situation. Good luck Ashley! ❤

Having an open relationship when you have kids is disgusting.

the way she acknowledged at the beginning of her tiktok that she didn’t fully know the situation and how their relationship was going yet she STILL continued?!! she’s clearly not naive at that point. how does she have no sense of respect? for both herself AND for those around her.

Remember the good old days when people aired their domestic squabbles on Geraldo and Jerry Springer? Now they skip the middle man and do it directly on Tiktok.

Thing that gets me is the husband saying she used him for her own success for their entire marriage... I simply refuse to believe that. If she wouldn't even say a bad word about her husband or this woman even after the woman basically put her on blast for no reason it suggests to me that she has strong moral character and likely wouldn't put any pressure on him to keep making content with her if he made it clear he wanted to stop. What I made of this whole situation is basically the husband was doing a job he didn't enjoy, but was willing to do because it was so lucrative and he grew to resent his wife who actually did enjoy making that content. He then took to OF and started complaining about his life in a misleading way so he can sort of justify the fact that he's talking to an OF model while he's married by making his wife seem like a controlling bitch. Probably nothing would have happened and they would still be together making content right now - but his wife found out what he'd done. Now he's resentful of his wife for discovering his dishonesty and causing him to lose out on that social media money he was used to, and is trying to take that away from her too. The OF woman is just making whatever videos she thinks might get her a few more subscriptions, because she's a nasty selfish person.

She doesn't know her laws very well lol as women, we have the upper hand. He leaves, he has to uphold the lifestyle he gave me before he left. 💅 so in the long run, if he wants to lose everything he owns, he better think about the future....

She's literally defending her husband or ex husband while he's accusing her of dragging his name through the mud when in all reality nothing would be known if his side chick wouldn't have said anything

Getting with someone else’s man is *not the flex you think it is.*

Shayla is the embodiment of “if the shoe fits”

Used to work with her and her ex-husband when they were at jblm in 51st, and the entire situation does not suprise me at all.

Imagine working in an industry that's literally destroying marriages and relationships and blaming the people who get damaged from it or straight up make them look like psychos. Actions and Consequences. Also, "used me for her own success". dude. She was feeding y'all with that money lol

Not Shayla going on tiktok and stating her job as a s** worker (knowing her daughters could see it), and bringing up Ashlee's kids when it had nothing to do with the drama. Oh, and good idea to put your client's private stuff online for everybody to see. VERY professional s** work.

Sad existence to think anywhere near these thoughts.

Things change don't assume to rely on someone for your life.

"I'm a therapist it's my job he paid me" TELLS THE WHOLE ASS INTERNET EVERYTHING

The Gel Lady gave great advice to young women in regards to working and keeping your financial independance, especially now that "trad-wifes" and depending on a man for all of you needs is becoming popular. The sex worker saw that, probably saw the life she was leading her own daughters into, and got pissy. And she's hungry for attention so she just had to air the dirty laundry. Major respect to the Gel Lady, she seems like a class act from what I saw

She really is thirsty 🙄

That first little speech of hers sums it up perfectly, shes fully aware that he held all the power in the relationship and she was all up for not working and raising the kids whike he payed for everything.. well you gave him all the power in the relationship and youll leave that with nothing, soon as the kids go to school you should be working again.. part time even just so you bring some money into the pot.

I'm 63 and mypm told me the exact same thing when I was in middle school. Lots a woman , mothers and Fathers tell their daughters this since women could vote.

Attention is a hell of a drug:/

Jealousy is an addiction all of it own

This woman is jealous Ash had a man willing to give her his all and commit. Just because her man wont commit to her exclusively, actually shows the true quality of her person

The husband could’ve literally said nothing and been fine bc all of the heat of was the S worker for outing their business in the first place. I hate when people act like victims when it was his actions of distrust that caused the online issues to grow. We all would’ve just had to deal with Ashley having issues in the home, moving on if the husband didn’t take his problems outside the home instead of a professional

The decision she should make thinking of her daughter is getting divorced, just look at that guy, he can't even articulate sentences and is siding with the homewrecker??? 😭😭😭

Ok I thought I was the only one that was confused at first too. Haha thank you for reporting on this. she is strong and showing us a true role model no matter what shit life hands her.

I really like Ashlee the gel lady. The OF girl is trash for putting herself in the middle. The gymnastics are amazing. She really thinks she is the main character in others lives.

Evacuating for a hurricane is pretty low stress unless you're doing it a few hours after the hurricane has hit you. If you're a FL native, you could evacuate AS it's just making landfall on you and it's still pretty low stress; though you'd really only be evacuating if you lived really close to shore so you could avoid a tidal surge. Natives that are even 30+ minutes inland generally don't bother evacuating.

As a white woman...she should have seen it coming. Black men tend to lack in the faithfulness department.

He said he hated social media but the second the people weren't on his side surprise surprise he flew over to social media to play victim. Where are the real men? No marriage is perfect but at least show your wife the respect she deserves

Lord this is the problem with social media...everything is in the public eye, then once it is public, then they complain about it

I am so beyond confused 😕 How did his wife drag his name through the mud? No one would have had any idea that was going on without his "therapist" doing what she did.

Her scenario is honestly my greatest fear. As a person who would love to get married, have kids, and all that jazz, i am currently unable to go into a serious relationship bec i back out last minute cuz im scared sklxlajajakdksk

I can’t believe she thought Ashleys status’ were about her. Wtaf

You can clearly see who the bigger person is as well as who the ones at wrong are. I hope nothing but the best for Ashley... bless

Dang. I really hope for the best for the Gel Lady. She is a prime example of keeping the public, and the privet, separate. I really do hope for the best for her

Gel Lady deserves better.

The sloot isn’t even cute gel girl is so pretty can’t believe that loser cheated on her

I honestly don’t think he didn’t want to be on the internet, he didn’t wanna get caught cheating. It was a few rumors that came and went for a few years he cheated Ashley did good hiding it all but he definitely was trying to hide the stuff he does and who he was married to, it all seem to start once they moved to Hawaii I guess he thought that would make it easier for him. I’m glad although Ashley doesn’t want to hold the other girl accountable at least the internet is because her bringing it online was so uncalled for nobody is bashing her for doing what she did just the fact she brought this online for no reason

When I first saw the other woman’s video I knew that she just did it for clout. She enjoys what she’s doing and seems like she’s trying way too hard to seem like she’s trying to come out and “do the right thing” she could’ve stayed anonymous but she chose to bring herself into the light. You can see her kind of smirking when she talks about Ashley’s husband talking to her.

Now the entire YT community is involved because the "other woman" doesn't undestand how she will be viewed after her 15 minutes of fame is up.

she placed herself into their business and then cried victim when people come after her about it.

Why does the worker think that she is the only worker he has had interactions with?

ironic when they choose to date who they do these chicks get cheated on everytime and keep doing it 'toll paid '

Straight up none of this had to be brought online. We would just know that Ashley’s marriage isn’t perfect and that would have been it if it wasn’t for the OF worker.

People putting their drama online is disgusting and social media has ruined society and there is no going back

Had only seen clips of her videos as soon as I watched the video of her explaining why he didn’t want to be on it anymore my first thought was he’s being shadey

I hate when people try to latch onto someones success.

I love how this lady is just yapping about stuff she's completely clueless about.

Ain't no way cute ass gel girl is getting cheated on with sid from iceage , and for money too naw dawg

The homewrecker is the only person who outed everyone involved. Gel lady kept it 100% classy.

as a man i must say her husband F#%% up ,the wife is class he should not run to the internet to explain himself ,he should explain to his wife

Pretty sure in marriage your partner’s success is also your own. You mad about getting slapped with gel for 20,000 a month. ANDDDDD turn to a women like that because you’re not heard. Sounds like narcissistic rage to me.

we have a lot case of homewrecker having same attitude like her (and the cheater husband also almost have same attitude) .... and usually it ended worst for both of them, from the wives deliver instant smack down, the homewrecker lady got negative clout in a form of society giving the lady a degrading nickname/being isolated, both of them lost their job, bullied by internet user, got 1-star bombarded (if the homewrecker and the cheater have business), get doxxed, and etc.

Ashley looks like such a nice person, she really didn't deserve any of this.

I know a lady who is devastated this happened too

I just realized this ad I used to see on RU-vid while scrolling through my feed was a tik tok by gel lady with her husband wooow. I hope she leaves him. Once a cheater always a cheater!

The husband's response made my blood boil.

Ashley let us know so respectfully, not wanting to ruin her family and the other woman tbh and then the other woman and the husband spoke 🤦🏻‍♂️

The Gel Lady seems 100% obnoxious and I'm super happy for everything bad that happens to her. I'm glad that guy is free of her.

My ex husband cheated on me for years, then married his side chick…. You know what they say when you marry your mistress, you’re leaving an open position, a vacancy for someone to step into.

I'm sorry but that lady had no rightful reason to air out someone else's dirty laundry on the internet if they didn't want it to be, there is no justification for being a hoe and talking to someone else's man and I genuinely hope all this attention backfires hard on her and she loses everything.

Ashley seems to be the only sane and decent human in all of this nonsense. I think she needs to cut him loose, never mention it again, move on with her own things. She's doing fine on her own. The ex is very clearly just trying to cash in on this with his own vague bs. The "therapist" (lol) is trying to make bank from drama. Ashley has the power here. She can just shut this down, never mention either of them again, and their attempts to leech off of her name will be over.

The Gel lady is 100% class; she didn't blame the other woman and she didn't speak of her husband like he was a monster. The husband's vague, cryptic videos and the shit-stirring OF girl are the opposite.

Jesus. How insecure & sad do you have to be to destroy someone else's life because you felt like you were being "low-key bullied" which was truly her reading far too much into random shit.

It’s weird when homewreckers are proud of ruining relationships.

So lemme get this straight, the attention seeker is a sex worker and took offense to Gel Lady saying she would teach her daughters to not be financially dependant on men? The jokes genuinely do write themselves at this point.

Ashley seems like a genuinely nice person and doesn't deserve any of this sh*t

The fact Ashley regularly tries on wigs, and her whole brand is hair related: and Monique assumes a single black wig is a message meant for her

The timing of the husband not wanting to be on the internet all the time and this lady talking shit is just something

I have SOOOOO SOOO much respect for Ashley now. She really is so composed and just handling this gracefully as hell.

I love how she called herself a “therapist” and then immediately broke client-patient confidentiality. Like who says they’re doing “therapy” and then tells everyone what said client was dealing with. What a sicko

This woman has a young daughter behind her and instead of evacuating her baby she’s on the internet making TikToks???

The husband doesn't deserve the gel-lady... she's a class act & deserves better! ❤ the mistress & the awful husband deserve each other. Losers.

Who would want to be a client of hers going forward? Isn’t client privacy just as important as the sex workers privacy? She’s sabotaging her own business on top of not minding her own business

Hair Gel lady didn't do anything to hurt anyone. Why ruin her life?

Hearing "be the woman you want your daughter to be" and immediately think its targetting you is a huge self report