The fact that she was happy about being pregnant means she deliberately decided not to take it just to get pregnant and expected him to accept the situation. Whether he liked it or not.
A woman can give her kid up free and clear for adoption without the man's consent, a man can't walk away from a child he didn't want without paying child support and we all know the money never goes to the kid.
Nice generalization you got going for yourself there. Do you even watch TikTok? and if you do, your fyp must be nothing but idiots. Mine is full of everything, idiots, talented people and animations. You should explore more and stop making generalization comments like "applies to every single woman who makes tiktok videos" Cause... thats simply NOT true.
He knew the risks, you can’t have sex and not expect to have kids 😂 it’s kinda what sex is for. All actions have consequences. Pick your women wisely, being with someone just for the sex ain’t worth it.
@@BIG-qn6ed nah dont turn it up on him. Making sex is a choice of both of them and the responsibility goes both ways. She didn't take the pill and was trying to blame it on him
forgets to take the pill "dont put this on me" "its not my fault" puts blame on him for not wearing a condom when in his mind she told him she was taking the pill accountability is womens kryptonite
Being a woman, I totally get were the guy was coming from. It’s not easy being a parent. I also feel like she didn’t take her pills intentionally. That’s grimy.
No woman ever "forgets" to take the pill, she knew exactly what she was doing and was trying to baby trap him. That's straight up evil and should be a crime.
Definitely can happen. Years ago I was on the pill (after having my daughter) and I'd forget to take one then the next day I would panic and take two . After doing that for a short time I switched birth controls . It's on the woman to prevent herself from getting pregnant. If she has a trash memory then she can get the IUD or something that you can't forget. It is a bit strange tho he didn't know because when I would forget I'd be telling my partner right away . I wasn't worried about getting pregnant again though because we were double safe. I was just angry I'd forget and I'd complain about myself to him. Plus I DNT know how many days you can miss, but I know females forget a day all the time. We are told to just take the dose as soon as you remember and normally everything is fine. So it's not like she just missed 1 day type of thing.
*"Gender equality until it's time to shovel the snow."* *"I was going to do it-"* *"Shut up."* The same thing I dealt with at past jobs where you have all these women talking about how equal they are to men, but whenever it was time to lift a pallet or unload the baler they were as quiet as a damn church mouse.
My sister uses that excuse all the time for chores It’s gotten to the point that she doesn’t have chores anymore they’re all my responsibility now because our parents know if they ask me to do it its actually going to get done within the month
@@bigironwithanarizonaranger9065 I can relate shoveling the snow with my mom and waiting for my sister to get outside with her phone in her hand it's annoying I swear 🙄
Last clip. Real ish right there. If you're not ready to be a dad, you're not ready. The scary thing is, she can turn against you at any point, Keep the kid and you'll have to deal with the government. I hope it works out for this guy. I hope he doesn't get caught up.
I remember a scare like this back this year in May or so. My former gf called me at work and scared me have to death, gaslighting me saying she was. But the test said no. But she *felt* that she was and was convinced and wasn't hearing it. I didn't know what to do or think while at work. Sat alone in the teacher's lounge until I grabbed my coat and had to leave. I was excited. Nervous. I just didn't know what to think. Turns out she was using me from the start and test was negative but just wanted money. Be safe out there fellas.
This was me, I was so fucking scared I had the exact same reaction. My son was the best thing to happen to me though... so it's not all doom and gloom, I was so scared and as a young man, you get taught real quick, actions have consequences, no one has your back.
She can't remember to take her meds and says to not put it on her. Wrong if him to consider an abortion, but wrong if her to try to okay the victim for her mistake and try to out it on her. "Why don't you wear a condom?!" He said why, he thought you were on the pill. He trusted you and you violated that trust. The relationship is ruined Edit: tricking a guy into getting you pregnant will NEVER make him love you. It will only make him resent you forever. I know from personal experience.
I thinks boys need to be told over and over again, If you want to stick your dick in it your 90% Taking the risk of Putting a Baby in it! So don't put a Dick in it if you don't want a Baby from it! Don't care about the Pill, if it works (also doesn't sometimes), if it doesn't how fked it turns the woman over time... Never mind that if you miss it (and Get Pregnant) how many pregnancy risks you take from Miscarriage to Health issues for the Baby. There is a reason they write in the Packaging Insert how long you need to stay off the Pill before trying to conceive!
@@gunnarhaug7010No, but it should absolve them of any legal responsibilites for the child and be grounds for a restraining order. The baby doesn't need to also have their mum in jail.
That last clip is a horror story I swear. She def did it on purpose, is blaming him when he can’t actually control if she takes the pill or not, and she says “takes 2 to tango” but that also means it takes 2 to make the decision to have a child. She doesn’t respect his life, his thoughts or his expectations
When you consent to have sex with a woman you consent to whichever pregnancy may occur as result, thems the fact, its called Responsibility, no one said you had to like it bruh.
@@angelofheaven199 A woman gets in the passenger seat of a car with a man. They have agreed to go to a movie for date night. If he drives somewhere else... is she equally responsible because she got in the car under different arrangements?
@ angelofgod2397 ya that’s true but only in cases where the 2 parties know it’s unprotected sex. In this case the husband was forcibly forced into this without his knowledge nor his consent. He was told by her that she was on a pill, which is her and only her responsibility to keep track of and take it on time. Otherwise he would’ve worn a condom.
@redeye8526 i got no clue if you a guy or a girl but for the sake of my example your a married man cause I’m also a man. Your living the life with you’re wife, happy and all that and then u find out that she’s pregnant cause she cheated on you. You keeping the fetus cause it has 50% wife’s DNA or not? And it isn’t sick that he KNOWS he can’t give the child a proper life style at the moment. He said “we’re having a hard time making ends meet”. A child on top of that would be disastrous. Not only lay they lose their current living space but also one of them won’t be working.
The pill clip brought up some deep PTSD shit. I had this happen, and he reacted exactly how I did as she deliberately stopped the pill without my knowledge, that was 9 years ago. 8 years later I'm raising my son alone. If it happens to you, remember it wasn't the baby's fault but don't stay with the psycho. Just leave her. Some fucked up women out there lads. Be safe.
No one is ever truly ready to be a father. So glad you realized your son is worth it. 💙 Single dads do just as well, if not better than single moms. You didn't put up with the abuse and manipulation, and your son will realize how you protected him one day.
@@labrigful Appreciate the kind words, thank you. I may not of been ready, I'm even learning now, but for every kind gesture, his caring nature and his polite manners to everyday strangers reminds me daily I must be doing something right. He is yet to fully comprehend how proud I am of him and the man he is becoming. He is my best friend and even if I could go back in time, I wouldn't change a thing.
@@pryce4917 you my brother are an amazing dad and I for one have my upmost respect to you my brother. Any man that brings up there children alone is amazing in my eyes. My two daughters are my best friends and I can talk about anything with them. My eldest is 19 now and a nurse I’m so proud of my kids. My 14 year old daughter has a little night time job with my mum 2 nights away Friday & Saturday she makes £70 and saves it up. My eldest rings or sends texts every day to see how I’m feeling. As I suffer mental illness. Also my friend brought up 4 kids alone. With cheating and left him. He doing out 2 of the children where not his but yet he was amazing with his children. Mush respect my friend
And if she says she is taking the pills but you still want to use condoms you will get the argument of why not trusting her... Honestly, in a fair world you should be able to take her to court for this.
If the last pregnancy one isn't a skit, then I don't blame him at all. Yeah, the smart move is to wrap it up, because even if she was taking the pill, if you don't want kids then you wanna make the possibility as close to zero as possible. That said, I highly doubt she "forgot", considering the things she's saying. The betrayal of trust, the manipulation, and the fact that she's putting a moment that should stay private between the two of them on the internet, says that he should leave her ass the first chance he gets.
I caught a girl forgetting to take her pill. I told her straight up. If you get pregnant because of this. You will not like what I'll do. I told her you don't get to fing trap me with a kid. One way or another you want have a kid. I came close to power bombing her lol.
Oh god that last guy. I was there, years ago. Woman lied about birth control, got pregnant, thought I’d be ecstatic. Then found out she was cheating, off the hook 100% for his kid. But man I was the exact same.
Been there too.. trapped me into the most agonizing 7 year relationship of my life because I wanted to do what was right even tho she did wrong. Now I'm paying child support. Men are the ones who always get the bad rap, pisses me off.
When I was younger, I wore makeup. Not a lot like they do these days but it took 10-15 mins extra. One night, my husband and I were running late for a big event. I had a choice: go half dressed or no makeup. I ditched the makeup. My husband raved about how beautiful I looked. I was stunned. I realized that he didn’t care for the make up and I was wearing it to look good for him……he tells me almost everyday how beautiful I am. That’s 49 yrs of feeling special and I thank God for my man everyday.
What that kid said while shoveling the snow was exactly on point and Common Sense. Common sense is something that seems to be lost as of the past couple years.
That pregnancy test, it what your job to take the pill and if you didn't take it and it's your job to tell him you didn't so he can wear a rubber. Now it looks like you done it on purpose to lock him down.
"It takes 2 to tango" Not in this case. She purposefully got off the pills to get pregnant. Her statement would have been true if both were raw dogging knowing that there is a risk of getting pregnant while she isn't on the pill and him not using the condom.
The last one made me cry ... our son is adopted and his bio mother intentionally got pregnant to trap the father (husband ex-wife nephew) so by some miracle he talked her into letting us adopt him and they went their separate ways afterwards... that was 10 years ago they haven't bothered to see the child
It's sad, but probably best for the kid not to see them. If the only reason they want you is to fix their issues, they're not worth your life's attention, even if they are your biological parents.
Adopted child here, and I don't know the full story but that's alright. Hope you and your family are doing well regardless. If your son has questions about his biological parents and wants to meet them later when/if he is already grown up, I'd say let him. But warn him about why he was adopted in the first place. I know I would want to know why too, and what my biological parents are like and not just playing a game of telephone person to person. As an adult I've had questions my entire life with little to no answers and it's kind of become my life goal to find them. I pray that he finds his answers in meeting them even if it doesn't necessarily help him. Knowing the causes and who they are, will help him in more ways than one. I know that truer than anything else for my sake as well. Cheers.
I know it's best for our son to not have anything to do with them ... we also moved 2500kms to another province, at least if our son, if he stays here will not be hooking up with a family member
@@eddysegafan6655 ... he knows he's adopted, told him when he was about 8, he told us he felt like something was off and it was really bothering him ... just gave him a watered down version of what went on and promised him when he got older he could read and look at all the court documents and we will contact the bio parents for him .... at the moment he doesn't want nothing to do with them and he's also aware that he has several half siblings
My question about the second-to-last clip is, if it were the other way around and the dude wanted to keep it while the girl wanted to explore her 'options', how many people would be on the guy's side who's about to lose his unborn child?
@@secondchance6603 nope, only the females reproduce man. You should know that in pregnancy there's alot of things needed besides carrying a baby, the hormones, the physical changes, the lactating parts of the females and the whole physique or the thick tissues for supporting the baby from harm, the brain releasing the chemicals to aware the mother and all that complex stuff only can happen in the female body. Come on, man you must know the biology behind getting pregnant. And dont start of saying 'oh you must be one of those who dont accept the changes of the gender stuff and that crap cuz sorry to break your cute lil imagination there is only 2 genders/sex in this world (there are some people who are androgenic types too) but overall there are 2 and you cant change the universal fact no matter how you see it.
Zero, he'd have no rights, all the rights belong to her even though as she said "it takes two to tango". Inequality is real, but women aren't the only sufferers of it.
This clip made me furious. How she acted like skipping the intake of the pill is a minor mistake like forgetting to brush your teeth and then also pretending it's not her fault nor responsibility. On top of that, even, she has the audacity to ask why HE isn't using a condom like it's his fault for her not to take the pill seriously. What an absolute lowlife bitch, he should have left her on the spot.
She obviously doesnt bloody care, thats why she sounded excited about it. The guy obviously really cares about it. Now imagine not wanting to have a kid, then having sex with a girl, not strapping up, and then saying "I thought you were on the pill" ... TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS OR SPERM YASIN!!
the guy at 6:35 is very understandable. And wtf you forgot to take the pill and said nothing ? In my experience if a girl forgets the pill she'll tekk you to suit up. Seems awfully sus that she hid it. Plus this pregnancy wasnt consentual. He didnt wanna have a kid YET of course he's gonna be pissed. It doesnt seem like a good time in their life to have a kid and shes acting so chill like its not a big deal. Something isnt right there
He's still got a chance - the fact she admitted to "forgetting" to take the pill, while not encouraging him to wear a condom, can be construed as reproductive coercion. He needs to lawyer up ASAP & get his options together, keep the video as proof. She knew what she was doing & this is literal baby-trapping someone.
@@tomferguson9250 Fairly certain men have no rights on any of that in all developed first world countries. They're just going to get railroaded no matter what they do.
Didn't know you could take legal action on these matters... I definitely second this, he should lawyer up and stay the hell away from this harpy.... It's so convenient she 'forgot' about the pill while he's working on a promotion at work...
7:15 “Why is it my fault?” Are you serious??? This chick literally “forgot” to take her pill. I find that to be highly suspect. In my opinion she stopped taking it because she wanted to trap the guy into a relationship because she knows he’s not the type of guy who would leave her and the baby. The fact that women can do this with no legal repercussions absolutely baffles me.
Also if she can’t even handle the responsibility of taking her pill, how can she possibly handle the responsibilities that come with having a child??? If she forgot to take her pill what will she forget when it comes to the baby?? I am appalled that this woman would do something like this to that poor guy... Shaking my head and facepalming simultaneously.
Yeah should be akin to rape. You got pregnant without my consent. Why do women have all the power to decide abortion or not, and men get saddled with the financial obligations of their decisions. Yet we have no say in anything. So fucked
4:14 guys if your girl is acting like this dress up like a bum on her families formal events and when she complains or tells you to change you say it with confidence " NO WOMAN IS TELLING ME HOW TO DRESS UP" match their energy SIMPLE.
Why play immature games with whores? Just tell her that you're a self respecting man and she won't submit to you then you're not interested. Wish her luck on finding any man worth a damn.
Wow. That pregnancy clip is horrifying but not unexpected. Take responsibility for your own sexual health and always wrap it up or get snipped. She definitely did it on purpose based on how she is speaking especially that cemented our relationship part.
Lets be real here. No guy is going to wear a condom everyday for years with the same girl. At some point you have to trust a woman to take the pill or do her part. If a woman did this to me i'd end it on the spot honestly. All trust is lost when 1 person can make a decision like that without informing the man beforehand.
@@ReonKad3 The point is to avoid the situation in the first place and if that is too complicated for you, don't cohabitate and don't have long term relationships. Own your outcomes, that is what men do.
@@ReonKad3 You'd end it on the spot, but what about the baby, bruv? She's completely in the wrong, but it's a little late to just leave that kid in a single-mother household, no?
She wanted to baby trap him because he's working on that promotion... I wouldn't be surprised few months down the line, when she decides to quit her job and expects him to 'man up' and 'provide' for their 'family'... Always the same sob story for these relationship guys...
“What’s something you’ll get a lot of hate for if you say it out loud? …..” I wish there was a training course to teach women how to put the toilet seat down their damn selves.
Lol that part where the girl was trying to say it wasn't her responsibility to take her birth control HAD ME DYING LOL and forgetting to take the pill ONE DAY doesn't get you pregnant lol you have to be off it for like a few weeks lol
You can get pregnant with NO pills missed so..... I agree in this instance but you can take that shit PERFECTLY and still get a bun in your oven. Only 100% proven way is.... GASP...abstinance
7:44 you got it all right! the only thing you missed is her deception. she knew she was "forgetting" pills and provided no warning. and then to take zero accountability...the entitlement.
When in doubt, walk away, had the same bs happened to me. My ex said she took the pill when she never actually took it. I decided to stay for the kid and now 8 years later, I pay child support and still haven’t seen him.
If a man said he had a vasectomy than got her pregnant, people would be an uproar. How is this different? Forcing a responsibility on someone because YOU were negligent in your birth control. That girl is slimy af
When the heart of the message is caring about what people think 🤔 I feel so sad for all these trapped people lol willingly trapped by prisons of the minds of others
Two things: 1) I play video games when my wife goes to sleep or to work because she gets easily more tired than I do. I'm an oilfield guy and after long work weeks, chilling at home is my choice of R&R. Way cheaper than drinking or partying like some of my co-workers. She doesn't play and knows nearly zero about games but she is fine with me having my own hobby, just like I'm fine with her watching her preferred shows that don't really interest me. 2) Whether or not that preggers clip is real, that lady quickly showed how IRRESPONSIBLE she is with her own medication. I wouldn't trust her to tend to other small humans when they become sick & need their meds. She can't use the excuse of "wooopsie, forgot to give them their pills" because that is the crime called child neglect.
I like that they actually play boys vs girls rather than just talk about it. It let's the girls see the real difference and at the same time probably helps them get better
The one talking to those girls how they'd react if a guy told them to dress modest was cringe. I have to ask my girl to dress cute when we go out. She says ,"no, the only guy I want looking at me is you." She's a smoke show hiding under a baggy hoodie and sweatpants. It's kind of nice being the only one to see what she's got, but as a guy, I wanna show her off sometimes 😂
If she says she's on the pill, unless you literally see her swallow it daily, she's not. It's the kind of "accidental lapse" that happens when she'll make your decision for you. It's not an oversight, it's an ultimatum: "I'm pregnant, where's my ring?" What kind of marriage begins by leveraging pregnancy into a proposal? One without mutual trust. Your work ethic is now her meal ticket. "Cementing the relationship," sure, she's pouredbit around his ankles. Sir, she may be a treasure, but move on. She's already proven she's not honest, if you take it, she'll only escalate.
I would QUIT my job that day ..... I would say i'm not working any more . I would say we can be happy on welfare . Either she will leave you and abort ( if its was real ) or leave you because your going to be a bum and no money . either way You get rid of BOTH problems for ever . Then LEARN THAT LESSON !
Funny how when it comes to murdering your unborn child, the man has absolutely nothing to do with it, wether he wants to let the child live,or wants to kill the child. But the moment the female wants to keep the child, he has everything to do with it, and should be happy about the responsibility she is now thrusting upon him.
3:36 -- these girls who say they'll dump their boyfriends even after a year if he asks them to dress more modestly: they have no clue what love is. Their future has three possible outcomes: 1. They'll either learn how to love unexpectedly at some point when some guy sweeps them off their feet and be completely embarrassed about this clip, or 2. They'll find a guy who doesn't care that his girl is a 304, use him, cheat on him, and end up a single mom/304 with his kids and money, or 3. They'll just hop from guy to guy, being used like 304s, thinking they're queens because these guys tell them what they want to hear and then realize, when they're about 35, single, and all used up and dirty, that no decent guy wants them, and they just threw away their best shot at getting a good man to marry them. They're for the streets. Young enough to make a change, maybe. It depends on where they've been. But, man, so unfortunate. Society, courts, and governments, have to stop rewarding every stupid, immoral, and anti-family/anti-children decision that women make. They've become shameless 304s.
I get my hopes up when I see guys fighting back the status quo and becoming better for themselves. I'm glad I'm not the nice guy from before and I have great channels like this to remind me that I'm the most important person who's needs should be meet first
Imagine paying thousands of dollars to pursue your dream job, almost graduating and on the final exam, some girl dresses up as a bunny disturbing the whole class, then losing your train of thought and having everyone fail the exam
How is some cheep ass that is of no consequence in your life going to effect your massive efforts in that arch of a story. Focus my boy. Strong will, head down, eyes on the prize. The woman you want will do that only for you, in private and she will do you both the favour to not attract unwarranted attention and trouble to your peace. Anything less, kindly and respectfully direct ... to the streets.
The British dude around 7:50 was how literally every guy his age is reacting to that. Unless they know their financial future is set, every single dude is literally saying exactly what he said
The last meet up date I went to online got shut down in the first two questions : She asked what I did for a living and I said "First, you have to answer are you a feminist?" She said yes and I said bye bye.
My fiance and i agrued with his mother about wearing certain things and respecting your partners choice if they dont want you wearing something revealing or inappropriate. His mother said "you dont own her, she can wear what she likes". Sorry to say ladies, but once youre in a relationship, you gotta compromise. You cant just do something that makes your partner umcomfortable. I will always ask my man if my outfit is okay, because at the end of the day, his opinion is all i care about.
Damn… the door cam guy played us ALL like a friggin’ harp… but it was still very well done. My message still stands from the 1st half that honest people are very hard to find.
6:29 Exactly what my ex did to me, apart from she didn't take any pills and i was the one everyone said was in the wrong and it was my own fault for TRUSTING a partner. I dont trust no one now.
The pregnancy test one is classic baby trap !! She knew what she was doing FR …… I bet things were shit in the relationship so she opted to try and get pregnant to “save” the relationship 😢
"Hunny could you please not wear that I feel likes its too revealing and i dont want guys staring at you and trying to hook up with you " NO MANS GONNA TELL ME WHAT TO DO
3:38 Guaranteed that both those girls are in their 20s and haven't seen the edge of 'The Wall' just yet. Once they do, that "No man is gonna tell me what to do!" attitude will start to adjust to "I just want a guy who let's me be me." and then to "Why are there no good men out here?!!" 😭😭😭
Believe me chad made her do whatever he wanted l. They all talk taught and then they cry over good looking guy doing some crazy shit. No to metion if I was her man and saw that video I would break up right away no to metion no man with options would wanna be with that they even look like typical side girls.
About the dressing one I do got to say to guys and girls, if you knew how this person dressed daily, you asked her out when she was dressed the way she wanted to, don't tell them to dress more modestly if its not needed. You already knew how this person dressed and is, don't try to change them now that you got them and don't want others seeing it. You didn't have a problem when you seen them like that, don't have a problem with it down the road
It reminds me of that blonde lady on Eastbound and Down where he says I love you babe, but you dress like a f@king D1ckhead. Lol. I wouldn’t be trying to change someone like that because I wouldn’t even talk to a woman that showed more red flags than a Chinese parade.
2:02 I WILL NEVER DATE A FAT CHICK. I was obese my entire childhood. I Started hitting the gym after graduating high school, and now have some semblance of self confidence and strength (I still have work to do). Now I finally have the confidence to ask out chicks and be social. I'm not gonna allow someone into my life, that will just sit on their ass & potentially drag me back down that rabbit hole.
As a girl who has a chill boyfriend in a loving relationship, whom I would never cheat on, and who I also respect enough not to flaunt my body all over the place (he’s the only one I want commenting on it) I get an endless amount of amusement from these videos. 🤦♀️😂
