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Not even remotely similar...someone explain how one girl who goes back to a guys places and proceeds to be a dick tease is the same as two people who go back to a hotel room and have sex but disagree on it being consensual is the same...I'll wait
Saying what you mean and meaning what you say is a concept lost on women. They like the games. Men are refusing to deal with them. Women seem to like the concept of plausible deniability and men don’t want to get caught up in a “Me Too” scenario. No means no. If a woman says no, that’s what we’re going with.
Honestly as a women even I'm shocked at these women. I think both sexes are confusing. It maybe certain types in both sexes are selfish. It makes me scared for the future of mankind, quite honestly.
I've dealt with a woman like this. Asked could she stay the night because she was too tired to drive home. That's fine. Take my bed. She was very respectable and said I'm not looking for "action". That's cool. Honestly i was constipated😂 stomach was hurting. She left the next day and latershe texted me and said "i was hoping you came upstairs and took it,i was up all night,wet." Lady absolutely not. No. You crazy
And a lot of women will pretend this isn’t a thing some women do. She thinks she’s ugly or his gay for respecting her boundaries. Do not ever mess with women like this and ruin your life.
Women like this show many signs of needing validation WELL before situations like this come. First lady said "sure, but I'm not gonna sleep with you." At that point, you have to wake up early and seek other options or just peaceful sleep. Second lady, don't argue with her if she doesn't believe you. When she's combative enough to call you a liar, stop responding and seek other options. Simps entertain these lines of attacks. It shouldn't even get that far.
I am so glad that she admitted that she is THE PROBLEM! I've had a girl while in college that I spent years that was a waitress at my favorite restaurant. Finally, we got into the same Physics Class at her school and she invited me over to her dorm room to study on a Saturday Night. I was like cool, I set my expectations to not make a move; next thing I know she's clowning and teasing me for actually doing homework. So I stopped and I sat on the floor next to her bed to watch a movie, next thing I know she's playing in my hair and asks me to lay on her bed; because she's concerned about my back hurting. Now we're spooning, cuddling, and kissing and I move on to her breast and I'm moving toward 3rd Base; when suddenly she stops me like she's shocked that I'm making my move. At this point, my balls are hurting like hell; because we've been rolling around for at least 90min and I was harder than Chinese Arithmetic the whole time. I try to apologize to her for misreading her signals when she asked me to lay next to her on the bed, so she asks me if I'm mad at her - for asking me to stop?! I reluctanctly say no hoping to still salvage the relationship, but she still asks me to leave. I limp home confused, in the worse pain of my life, and my pride hurt and I refused to ever let a woman do that to me again, playing with my manhood and time! Lesson learned and I tell all brothers don't let a woman play you just for her own egotistical validation and narcissistic fill. They just want you to validate their need to feel attractive and beautiful and don't care how much pain it puts you in, just so they can tell their girlfriends that they curved you for being thirsty - DON'T FALL FOR IT!
The answer is simple... IGNORE them. Ignore them ALL(except the ones you HAVE to deal with for work purposes/transactions/female family members). Ignore the attractive ones,ignore the unattractive ones,ignore the ones who choosing signals,ignore the ones who show no interest,ignore the old ones,ignore the young ones, ignore them ALL. They do NOT care about your feelings,they do NOT care about your struggles.I got treated like 🐕💩 by 80% of them 24/7/365 FOR YEARS👀 UNTIL I had my GLOWUP and became a TYRONE. I STILL ignore them...I can rub one out and go back to living my life doing my hobbies. Ignoring them is the way my boi.😬💯💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾♂️
What women do you know that don't respect you enough to tell you she's dating someone else?😂 Stop talking to them bruh, she doesn't even care if you think she's a cheater lol
@@dellmaxson2184I've been out of the dating scene for a minute now. With that said, her admission of dating other men would place her solidly in the friend category. Do women actually tell men they are dating other men. That's pretty bold
Dont even do that. Leave it outside, when it ends at the bar both of you all go home and go seperate ways. No need to even be put in a crazy situation.
I don’t agree with her at allllll!!! I’m a 53 yo woman who is pretty traditional but definitely not a prude, but this is sending mixed signals and that is dangerous!!
Hey JR we were both soldiers. When I was in a female soldier had a train pulled on her. There was a investigation and the three soldiers were cleared. This broad gets in formation and she's looking at the brothers. And I was like man we had nothing to do with it. The remainder of my time there nobody talked or interacted with her. It's sad you can get your life destroyed over a loose women
She wants to feel so irresistible that after saying no, the guy will still make a move. Because he didn't, she feels unattractive. She also wanted to feel the power of being able to tell him to stop.
You tell me nothing is going to happen sexually, so I keep it honest, like you ask. And this is STILL a problem? Someone, ANYONE... make this idiocy make sense. I know she is playing games but what makes this reasonable?
Women done went from board games with missing pieces, to glitchy video game cartridge, to faulty high priced downloads. We don't have enough Gb's to deal with that shit.
Well, pretty much every time a woman has told me "you can come over but no 5EX"? I took that to mean she already wanted to do that, she was just testing me.. 9.5 outta 10 times I've heard that the night ended in the bedroom Edit.. I've had women tell me that, then when I come over they open the door unclothed
@@vicljr8533 I think the issue is their insecurities!! They want the same thing, obviously, but they wanna feel like you're not just there for that one thing
Sooooo she got the outcome she wanted but she’s still not happy🤨…………you can be absolutely correct with women and be absolutely wrong in their warped minds!! 😒🤷🏽♂️
Do we all remember when they had that song, "Blurred Lines"? And they were saying that the song was 'rapey". The situation she just described would be one of those blurred lines.
Nope, don't get cought up in a enders game, snapper, trapper. Bring your attorney in there.Have her sign the paperwork.Then proceed with him standing by as witness for movie night, you and her watching a movie eating popcorn and her leaving.
Yes sweetheart men like myself who work 80hrs a week has a tendency to fall asleep sometimes no matter what time a day it is or college students who work fulltime and go to school full-time you know us high performance people
When she said ill go home with you but im not sleeping with you.. Thats your queue to make up an excuse for her not to come over.... I let them come over of they own free will.
I went through some similar like last year... The thing is if the two of you are alone it's all game to be intimate, like if you don't want to be intimate then you need to go out... People (Women) need to stop trying to be controlling a manipulative with situations like this knowing damned well what's going down and what's on the surface of the setting
Wait you tell him you not gonna sleep with him and then thinks he's gay for not trying to cross the boundary YOU set?....No means no remember? And how can you feel ugly after he spent all night cuddling with you? An ugly chic would have gotten dropped off and never called again
When you are of the world.... She needs to understand that maybe he was put in the same situation with another woman and got rejected And he does not want to relieve that again. It's bad to have sex on a marriage. Jesus christ is the way.
1st chick I had that happen before in my early 20's the guy I met was hispanic and unlike any other I met he was nice, friendly, cute, a big boy and he always took me on cute dates to ice cream shop, let me practice driving his car, he drove me to get my uniform for my job etc but we never did anything. He would end the date with us playing a video game of word phrases kinda like crossword puzzle on our phones in the back seat of his car. I was just waiting for when he would kiss me or intiaite sex he never did so I got tired of waiting every other guy if they said lets go to the back seat I know they tryna kiss, touch and you know. So I invited him inside and took him to my room he just laid on the bed all relaxed and I was more confused so I took my clothes of and stood their in my bra and panty and he just looked at me I began to try to kiss him and then he told me he was a virgin and nervous and he just wanted to take things slow. I was like oh no hes gay lol my cousin saw him sitting in his car he liked wearing all black with a black beanie and gloves and thought he was plotting to rob the neighborhood I was like no thats just my friend so he definently didnt look gay or soft. I stopped talking to him because it seemed we would never be intimate and it was just too odd to me. As for the 2nd chick lol I did that also. I had guys tell me in the past they fell asleep when we were suppose to meet up and didnt answer their phone I never believed them until one night I didnt feel tired at all and I had someone I was talking to on the way for our 1st date. I laid down and fell asleep for a few hours I wokeup to tons of calls and texts from him. When I called him he was like dont talk to me ever again you playing games I was like dude you never showed up I never heard you honk your horn or anything he descibed my neighborhood and I was like you google mapped it then he described things only someone who showed up would know and I was like damn I didnt know I was that deep asleep sorry he was like I am not being stood up twice by the same woman and we never spoke again.